WEBVTT - Brand Building: He says stay prepared, protect your integrity, believe in your vision, and be ready when opportunity knocks.

0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.680
<v Speaker 1>Welcome to my show. I'm Rashon McDonald, a host of

0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:06.120
<v Speaker 1>Money Making Conversations Masterclass. Well, we encourage people to stop

0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:09.960
<v Speaker 1>reading other people's success stories and start planning your own. Now,

0:00:10.000 --> 0:00:12.200
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to miss an episode, so please take

0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:14.800
<v Speaker 1>a moment right now to follow or subscribe to Money

0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:16.400
<v Speaker 1>Making Conversations Masterclass.

0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:17.239
<v Speaker 2>It's free.

0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:21.400
<v Speaker 1>You can follow me on the iHeartRadio app, Spotify, Apple Podcasts,

0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:24.439
<v Speaker 1>or wherever you listen to your podcast. New Money Making

0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Conversations Masterclass episodes drop daily. I want to keep you

0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:30.680
<v Speaker 1>on alert because my guests provide tips on how you

0:00:30.720 --> 0:00:34.839
<v Speaker 1>can uplift your community, improve your financial planning, motivation, or

0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:38.440
<v Speaker 1>advice on how to be a successful entrepreneur. Now, let's

0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:41.559
<v Speaker 1>get this podcast started. He's here again. I have to

0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:45.320
<v Speaker 1>make this a two parter. Two parter. I'm so blessed

0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:48.080
<v Speaker 1>that he's stayed with me. You know, entertainment career spanning

0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:51.000
<v Speaker 1>more than four decades. Known for his smooth tenor and

0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:55.160
<v Speaker 1>emotional delivery, his voice remains one of the most recognizable

0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:58.680
<v Speaker 1>in R and B and soul music history. He captivates

0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:02.520
<v Speaker 1>audience worldwide before with both Charlamar as well as solo

0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:07.400
<v Speaker 1>artists himself when he left Charlama. That's bringing fans the

0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:10.400
<v Speaker 1>best of both worlds, the group's iconic classics and his

0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.600
<v Speaker 1>timeless solo hits. As we discussed in the previous we

0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:17.760
<v Speaker 1>talked about how the career started. He was a dreamer,

0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.800
<v Speaker 1>like all people, you're dreamer. Now you're not dreaming anymore.

0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.280
<v Speaker 1>You're doing collaborations. I gotta jump right to the new

0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:25.000
<v Speaker 1>collaboration you're doing with Ronnie Lass.

0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:26.199
<v Speaker 3>Ronnie laws Man.

0:01:26.680 --> 0:01:29.759
<v Speaker 4>You know Ronnie. Ronnie is like an interesting cat man.

0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:32.560
<v Speaker 4>We've been friends for years and years, but.

0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:34.240
<v Speaker 2>Running laws out of Houston, Texas.

0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:35.119
<v Speaker 3>Ranny Laws, right.

0:01:35.480 --> 0:01:38.600
<v Speaker 4>And it was funny because I was sitting in and

0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:40.840
<v Speaker 4>how I forget which houses I think I was in.

0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.920
<v Speaker 4>I think I was in wood Ranch, a place called

0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:49.400
<v Speaker 4>wood Rats. Then that's what the household was in. And uh,

0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:53.840
<v Speaker 4>I'm sitting there the middle afternoon and like my doorbell

0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:57.240
<v Speaker 4>rings right, and I go to the door and open

0:01:57.280 --> 0:02:00.240
<v Speaker 4>it is running right, and he looks to me.

0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:05.040
<v Speaker 3>I look at him. He says, Howard, Ronnie, what's up man?

0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:05.680
<v Speaker 3>How you doing?

0:02:06.200 --> 0:02:10.200
<v Speaker 4>And you know, Ronnie's Jehovah witness, so so like he

0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:14.480
<v Speaker 4>was doing his house the house thing. The witnessing thing,

0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:18.360
<v Speaker 4>and and he just happened to come come to the

0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:20.760
<v Speaker 4>crib and like we sat, we sat and talked for

0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.480
<v Speaker 4>for a while. You know, as far as that was concerned,

0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:26.200
<v Speaker 4>I knew all about Jehovah Witness.

0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:28.320
<v Speaker 3>And my sister was Jehovah witness.

0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:31.160
<v Speaker 4>For years and uh. But then you know, we stayed

0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:36.079
<v Speaker 4>in contact and stuff. And then finally fast forwarding to

0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:39.880
<v Speaker 4>about I think I think we recorded uh this thing

0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:42.680
<v Speaker 4>about a year year and a half or so ago,

0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:45.959
<v Speaker 4>and he got in touch with me and and a

0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:49.639
<v Speaker 4>ribbon in the sky Steve Stevie.

0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:51.440
<v Speaker 3>Want is one of his one of his many many

0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:55.720
<v Speaker 3>hits was one of Ronnie's.

0:02:56.000 --> 0:03:00.320
<v Speaker 4>Uh, his wife who just passed away, that was that

0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:02.000
<v Speaker 4>was one of her favorite songs.

0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:04.480
<v Speaker 1>Let me this, Let me ask you how when you're

0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.360
<v Speaker 1>doing a song like that, do you have to get

0:03:06.400 --> 0:03:07.760
<v Speaker 1>permission from the artists?

0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:12.919
<v Speaker 4>You talk to the artists, you know, sometimes there's a

0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:14.400
<v Speaker 4>permission thing.

0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.600
<v Speaker 3>You know, Like I did a cover.

0:03:17.560 --> 0:03:25.600
<v Speaker 4>Of of uh, a Bob Dylan song just like a Woman,

0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:30.280
<v Speaker 4>and we called the people, the publishing and the publishing

0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:35.040
<v Speaker 4>his publishing people, and they gave their their you know,

0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:39.360
<v Speaker 4>their approval, They gave their stamp of approval of it.

0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:41.680
<v Speaker 4>But then we have to get permission to do it.

0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:46.920
<v Speaker 4>That's that's a whole other thing. I believe, as far

0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:50.360
<v Speaker 4>as long as you make sure all the publishing and

0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:55.440
<v Speaker 4>everything writers publishing goes in the right directions, in the

0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:56.800
<v Speaker 4>right channels and stuff.

0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.360
<v Speaker 3>He said, you know, it's pretty much things.

0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:02.360
<v Speaker 1>You know, let's talk about that because this is new music.

0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.040
<v Speaker 1>And then you have a staple of people or don't

0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:07.440
<v Speaker 1>want to hear new music. They want to hear it.

0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:09.680
<v Speaker 1>They you know, they won't shit around. They keep down,

0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:13.600
<v Speaker 1>hugged up, ready to sing. They want to hear Charlama.

0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:15.880
<v Speaker 1>They want to hear your solo. Say amen, you know

0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:18.279
<v Speaker 1>if you if you left the stage, I did a

0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:23.160
<v Speaker 1>concert without saying they say, it'll be a right. Some

0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:26.320
<v Speaker 1>people just come in for just that one song. So

0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:30.120
<v Speaker 1>how do you balance howard new music which you have

0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:32.479
<v Speaker 1>to do. It's an artist you you you you you're

0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:36.680
<v Speaker 1>creative soul. But then you you left Charlamar. Let's talk

0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:40.440
<v Speaker 1>about why you left them, and then the nervousness of

0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:42.080
<v Speaker 1>building a solo career.

0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:45.960
<v Speaker 4>It was like leaving leaving the group because a lot

0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:49.120
<v Speaker 4>of people ask that question, and and there was like

0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:52.800
<v Speaker 4>you know it was for me, it was more or

0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:56.800
<v Speaker 4>less just a natural progression. Okay, you know what I'm

0:04:56.839 --> 0:05:00.000
<v Speaker 4>saying when Jeffrey and Jody, because Jeffrey and Jody split

0:05:00.080 --> 0:05:02.880
<v Speaker 4>it first. A lot of people think I split first,

0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:05.440
<v Speaker 4>but Jeffrey and Jody split first.

0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:06.960
<v Speaker 3>In fact, when we did.

0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:11.720
<v Speaker 4>When we did, when I I did uh dancing in

0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:15.839
<v Speaker 4>the Sheets, the tune that was on the Footlooks soundtrack,

0:05:16.880 --> 0:05:20.159
<v Speaker 4>it was like at the time, it was funny because

0:05:20.320 --> 0:05:23.440
<v Speaker 4>because Leon Silvers, because this cat, Dean Pitchford is the

0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:26.960
<v Speaker 4>cat that did he wrote all the music for Ford

0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:30.520
<v Speaker 4>for the Footloose movie. Right, So he called me and

0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:35.359
<v Speaker 4>Leon Silvers, who Leon is our producer, uh, and wanted

0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:40.480
<v Speaker 4>us to come watch a rough cut of of of Footloods.

0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:44.520
<v Speaker 4>They had all all temporary music in there and stuff.

0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:45.600
<v Speaker 3>So we go to.

0:05:45.600 --> 0:05:48.560
<v Speaker 4>Paramount, right the Paramount Studios. We's sitting in this little

0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:52.600
<v Speaker 4>this little theater and watch it. And then Dean Pitchford

0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:56.280
<v Speaker 4>tells us what where he wants the Shalamar song or whatever,

0:05:56.960 --> 0:06:00.120
<v Speaker 4>and we're dancing in the sheets, a song that he

0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:02.760
<v Speaker 4>had written, and so like you know, he tells us,

0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.760
<v Speaker 4>you know, and so like you know, Leon and I

0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:09.000
<v Speaker 4>are walking back to the to the to the parking lot,

0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:11.440
<v Speaker 4>right and I asked Leon, I said.

0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:12.240
<v Speaker 3>Well, what do you think?

0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:15.400
<v Speaker 4>And Leon says, man, I got a I got I

0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:17.720
<v Speaker 4>got a lot on my plate right now, you know,

0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:20.640
<v Speaker 4>he said. And then he says, and I don't think

0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:23.680
<v Speaker 4>it's going to be that big of a movie for this.

0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:27.359
<v Speaker 5>And so he said, I got a lot on my plate.

0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:30.880
<v Speaker 3>He said, I might not be able to work that in.

0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.480
<v Speaker 3>You know. He said, well, what do you think?

0:06:32.600 --> 0:06:36.760
<v Speaker 4>I said, Well, I said, considering, I said, first of all,

0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:38.480
<v Speaker 4>I said, first of all, I don't.

0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.080
<v Speaker 3>Think it's that it's going to be that big of

0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:40.880
<v Speaker 3>a movie either.

0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:44.240
<v Speaker 4>I said, you said that to you, and so, like

0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:48.200
<v Speaker 4>you know, I said, but considering where the group is

0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:51.719
<v Speaker 4>right now, because where the group was at the time

0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:53.600
<v Speaker 4>was Jeffrey and Jody had split.

0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:56.800
<v Speaker 3>I had told I told Dick at the time.

0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:59.120
<v Speaker 4>I said, well, maybe this is a good time for

0:06:59.240 --> 0:07:01.840
<v Speaker 4>me to do a solo thing, do my solo thing,

0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:05.480
<v Speaker 4>because we had always talked about that. And Dick says, well, no,

0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:08.000
<v Speaker 4>you got two and a half more years left on

0:07:08.080 --> 0:07:13.360
<v Speaker 4>this contract and so Shalamar contract, and you can either

0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:17.840
<v Speaker 4>spend it doing nothing or you can go to court

0:07:18.080 --> 0:07:20.160
<v Speaker 4>and get out of it, try and get out of it,

0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:24.200
<v Speaker 4>or you can do another Shalamar project and ride this

0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:28.480
<v Speaker 4>contract out. I wasn't gonna sit around not do nothing exactly.

0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:34.160
<v Speaker 4>I can't exactly, and and I and I and it

0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:37.360
<v Speaker 4>was just it was like, you know, I hate court.

0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:41.400
<v Speaker 4>You know, court is like throwing dice. You know, you

0:07:41.440 --> 0:07:43.520
<v Speaker 4>don't know what the judge is going to come back with.

0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:46.560
<v Speaker 4>So I avoid court as much.

0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:48.680
<v Speaker 3>As possible throughout my whole career.

0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:52.400
<v Speaker 4>And uh and so like I said, okay, we're going

0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:55.800
<v Speaker 4>to do another Shalamar project. And when this, when the

0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:59.080
<v Speaker 4>Footloose thing came up, I said, I think that it

0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:02.240
<v Speaker 4>would be a good look for it because even though

0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:04.200
<v Speaker 4>I don't think it's gonna be that big of a

0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:09.280
<v Speaker 4>movie famous last words, right, I don't think it's gonna

0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:11.440
<v Speaker 4>be that big of a movie, it would still be

0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:15.320
<v Speaker 4>a good look for the group to be associated with

0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:19.720
<v Speaker 4>a paramount and a crossover projects. It was it was

0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:22.040
<v Speaker 4>gonna be, it was gonna do one thing we did know,

0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:27.040
<v Speaker 4>his first big movie, and so like, you know, I said,

0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:28.160
<v Speaker 4>I think, you know, I think.

0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:28.640
<v Speaker 3>We're gonna do it.

0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:31.440
<v Speaker 4>And then they pulled in this cap Bill Wolfer, who

0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:35.200
<v Speaker 4>ended up producing Dancing in the Sheets and so and

0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:39.319
<v Speaker 4>Dancing in the Sheets was the second biggest selling single

0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:44.040
<v Speaker 4>Shalamar had up under second time around Wow, and you.

0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:45.680
<v Speaker 3>Know it was crazy. It was crazy.

0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:48.160
<v Speaker 4>But I mean, like I you know, I do, I'll

0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:52.200
<v Speaker 4>do dancing in the sheets sometimes we'll do it. We

0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:57.240
<v Speaker 4>just really started incorporated into the show with with Shalamar now,

0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:01.280
<v Speaker 4>which is me Jeffrey Jeffrey Dan and you ain't Carolyn Griffy,

0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:05.360
<v Speaker 4>you know, but yeah, we get we'll get out there

0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:08.200
<v Speaker 4>and we'll do we'll do dancing in the seats, especially

0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:12.160
<v Speaker 4>overseas because you have a large white audience over there

0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.600
<v Speaker 4>and they're familiar with it. But if we do it

0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.680
<v Speaker 4>when we're here, you know, my my couple of white

0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:21.840
<v Speaker 4>white folks to get up and start dancing while brothers

0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:23.000
<v Speaker 4>and sisters.

0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:24.120
<v Speaker 3>Is in there, like what the hell?

0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:24.520
<v Speaker 4>You know?

0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:29.560
<v Speaker 2>That sound like new music? Please don't go anywhere.

0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:33.440
<v Speaker 1>We'll be right back with more Money Making Conversations masterclass. Now,

0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:35.920
<v Speaker 1>I need for you to do me a favor right

0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:39.600
<v Speaker 1>now to follow our subscribe to Money Making Conversation. It's

0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:43.679
<v Speaker 1>free and you can find it on the iHeartRadio app. Spotify,

0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Please do

0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:55.400
<v Speaker 1>me that favor. Follow a subscribe Money Making Conversations. Welcome

0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.920
<v Speaker 1>back to Money Making Conversations master class with me Rashawn McDonald.

0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:02.240
<v Speaker 4>But getting back to that, there's you know, just like

0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.839
<v Speaker 4>I always when when they when you're talking, when people

0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:07.200
<v Speaker 4>talk about new music, are you doing new music?

0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:09.640
<v Speaker 3>You don't, Thank God, Rashan.

0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:12.000
<v Speaker 4>It's that I'm at the point of my career where,

0:10:12.080 --> 0:10:15.800
<v Speaker 4>like you know, people like you said they want to

0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:16.559
<v Speaker 4>hear the hiss.

0:10:16.640 --> 0:10:18.680
<v Speaker 3>I went to see. I went to see a group.

0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:21.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm not even gonna say who it is, but big group,

0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:26.040
<v Speaker 4>popular group, nothing but hits, nothing but hiss. They came out.

0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:28.800
<v Speaker 4>When they came out, as soon as they hit the stage,

0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:33.720
<v Speaker 4>they're hitting. Everybody's up, everybody's moving, everybody's you know, grooving

0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:37.960
<v Speaker 4>and stuff. And then towards like forty five minutes into

0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:40.040
<v Speaker 4>the show or so, they they said, we're gonna do

0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:43.880
<v Speaker 4>some new music for you. Right now, people sat down,

0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:46.320
<v Speaker 4>they started talking.

0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:48.559
<v Speaker 5>About themselves going to the concession.

0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:51.760
<v Speaker 3>You know, it treated like it was a break Yeah,

0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:52.520
<v Speaker 3>no exactly.

0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:55.120
<v Speaker 4>And I'm sitting there and I'm sitting there peeping this,

0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.400
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, people don't want to hear it. As soon

0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:00.280
<v Speaker 4>as that fifteen to twenty minutes of that new music

0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:01.679
<v Speaker 4>was over, they.

0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:02.760
<v Speaker 3>Start back into the hits.

0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:05.840
<v Speaker 4>Everybody's up and they're moving for the rest for the

0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:08.440
<v Speaker 4>rest of the show, right, And I said, people don't

0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:11.040
<v Speaker 4>want to hear If you do new music, you.

0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:12.000
<v Speaker 3>Got to set it up.

0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.200
<v Speaker 4>You got to set it up the right way, you know,

0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:18.440
<v Speaker 4>Like I'll challenge, Like I do a new song in

0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.880
<v Speaker 4>my show. Sometimes it's kind of a new song, a

0:11:22.000 --> 0:11:25.400
<v Speaker 4>song that that Leon Silvers and I wrote, Well Leon

0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:28.120
<v Speaker 4>wrote it and produce it and we did it, and

0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:30.880
<v Speaker 4>so like, you know, I've set it up with you know,

0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:33.000
<v Speaker 4>I want to do some new new material.

0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:35.559
<v Speaker 3>I tell them, I said, I know, sometimes we do

0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:37.720
<v Speaker 3>new material is almost.

0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:41.520
<v Speaker 4>Like singing Japanese because because y'all got familiar with it.

0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:43.040
<v Speaker 3>But then I but then I challenge.

0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:45.439
<v Speaker 4>But I know I'm standing in front of a very

0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:48.520
<v Speaker 4>sophisticated audience tonight, isn't that right?

0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:49.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:53.080
<v Speaker 4>Okay, now I got Now, Now the setup for the

0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:55.960
<v Speaker 4>new music was set up, so it's cool. And plus

0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:58.280
<v Speaker 4>a lot of things that I do these these days

0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:02.120
<v Speaker 4>also are really intimate things, you know, like I'll do

0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:05.800
<v Speaker 4>the City Wineries, which is a real intimate crowd.

0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:10.760
<v Speaker 1>So when you say that, Howard, because it's so entertaining

0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:15.760
<v Speaker 1>when you talk about it, because for decades, multi generational audiences,

0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:19.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, a parent or bring their daughter, and grandparents

0:12:19.160 --> 0:12:22.960
<v Speaker 1>bring their their daughter and their grandchild, you know, and

0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:25.840
<v Speaker 1>that's a beautiful experience to see that right in front

0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:29.000
<v Speaker 1>of you. But I know, as a fan, I got

0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:30.400
<v Speaker 1>to hear say amen.

0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:31.920
<v Speaker 3>Amen, I got some show.

0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:35.600
<v Speaker 4>Every show ends with saying man since since almost since,

0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:39.400
<v Speaker 4>well since I did it, thank God, you know, back

0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:39.960
<v Speaker 4>in the day.

0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:41.559
<v Speaker 2>So how did that song come about?

0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:42.640
<v Speaker 3>Man?

0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:47.679
<v Speaker 4>I always before I left the group, Before I left, shallamar,

0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:49.640
<v Speaker 4>I remember saying the prayer.

0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:50.080
<v Speaker 3>A couple of years.

0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.600
<v Speaker 4>It was a couple of years before I left, and

0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.440
<v Speaker 4>right after Jeffrey and Jody are split not long after that.

0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:00.720
<v Speaker 4>But I remember saying a prayer and I said, Lord,

0:13:00.760 --> 0:13:04.600
<v Speaker 4>you know, when I'm by myself, when I'm responsible for

0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:08.120
<v Speaker 4>what I say, you know, not two other people in

0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:11.080
<v Speaker 4>the picture, not saying that they didn't believe, that they

0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:15.199
<v Speaker 4>didn't have a sense of belief or whatever. But songs

0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:19.520
<v Speaker 4>like say men and I did a complete inspirational album

0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:24.520
<v Speaker 4>some years ago. But those type of songs are personal.

0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:27.960
<v Speaker 4>Those are those I'm saying this is a personal thing.

0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:31.680
<v Speaker 4>You know, thank God, people gravitated towards it. But in

0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:34.000
<v Speaker 4>the beginning, I want to thank you God for giving

0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.440
<v Speaker 4>me one more chance to raise my voice and senior praise.

0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:38.560
<v Speaker 3>That's a personal statement.

0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:42.160
<v Speaker 4>So I made a promise then that every album that

0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:45.600
<v Speaker 4>I did, every solo album that I did, I would

0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:49.920
<v Speaker 4>always honor honor him, you know, God Christ's Holy Spirit

0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:54.319
<v Speaker 4>on every album. And Same Men was the first one.

0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:56.800
<v Speaker 4>A lot of people there was a lot of stuff

0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.720
<v Speaker 4>going on in my life at the time, so a

0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:03.000
<v Speaker 4>lot of people kind of you know, equated that to that,

0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:06.520
<v Speaker 4>but that wasn't what was going on. I had written

0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:09.079
<v Speaker 4>that song, you know, the Lord gave me that song

0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:13.360
<v Speaker 4>that about two or three months before all this craziness

0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:18.599
<v Speaker 4>went down, and and so like it was basically myself,

0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:20.200
<v Speaker 4>Monty and Monte Seward.

0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.240
<v Speaker 3>That was one of the first songs. That was the

0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:26.200
<v Speaker 3>first song we ever wrote together, which we So let

0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:26.640
<v Speaker 3>me ask.

0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:28.680
<v Speaker 1>You this, because how music like that, Because you know,

0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Charlam Maul, you're an R and B star, you know

0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:32.880
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff.

0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:34.560
<v Speaker 2>Did you go gospel like that?

0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:39.040
<v Speaker 1>How do you, how does one transition that to get

0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:42.200
<v Speaker 1>the airplane Because people can pigion hold you.

0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:44.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they can pitchon, they can pigeonhole you and stuff.

0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:48.760
<v Speaker 4>Those those things that's literally rashone. Those are those are

0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:51.440
<v Speaker 4>things that you got to leave up to the Lord. Okay,

0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:54.280
<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying. I didn't know. I didn't

0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.040
<v Speaker 4>know how you know it was going to be accepted.

0:14:57.680 --> 0:14:59.920
<v Speaker 4>All I knew is that I made a promise to

0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.800
<v Speaker 4>the Lord to do that, and that that was the

0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:03.280
<v Speaker 4>main thing.

0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:06.400
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't about, Okay, how is this going to be

0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:07.240
<v Speaker 3>accepted by.

0:15:07.120 --> 0:15:10.200
<v Speaker 4>The R and B field or the or the gospel

0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:12.120
<v Speaker 4>or the church situation, and how.

0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:14.760
<v Speaker 3>It's going to be accepted from there. It wasn't about that.

0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:17.920
<v Speaker 4>It was a promise that I made to God, which

0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:21.640
<v Speaker 4>was way more important to me than how it was accepted.

0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:24.240
<v Speaker 2>But when it was accepted, how did you feel?

0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:25.080
<v Speaker 3>I felt great?

0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:28.440
<v Speaker 4>I felt I felt I felt amazing because it so

0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:31.160
<v Speaker 4>for one thing, it showed me that people are are

0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:36.840
<v Speaker 4>ready to accept that type of situation, accept that type

0:15:36.840 --> 0:15:41.920
<v Speaker 4>of of suggesting and honesty and honesty as far as

0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:44.520
<v Speaker 4>like you know where your music is and the whole thing,

0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:47.960
<v Speaker 4>and it's like you know, you you you know, it's

0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:52.200
<v Speaker 4>you look at you know, the things in your life

0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:55.280
<v Speaker 4>and the things that go on in your life and

0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:59.040
<v Speaker 4>the things that you allowed to because you know this

0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:02.800
<v Speaker 4>is this is a public life, you know, but there's

0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:06.520
<v Speaker 4>still some things that you want to keep you know private,

0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:07.640
<v Speaker 4>you know what I'm saying.

0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:09.080
<v Speaker 3>But those type of.

0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:11.880
<v Speaker 4>Things I believe are things that you should always you know,

0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:15.120
<v Speaker 4>because because he's not a shame to you, right, so

0:16:15.200 --> 0:16:17.600
<v Speaker 4>you can't be shamed to him, you know what I'm saying.

0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:18.920
<v Speaker 2>Stay with us.

0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:26.800
<v Speaker 1>More Money Making Conversation master Lass coming up next. Welcome

0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:29.760
<v Speaker 1>back to Money Making Conversation Master Class hosted by me

0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:30.960
<v Speaker 1>Rashawn McDonald.

0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:32.400
<v Speaker 2>Let's get back into it.

0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:34.640
<v Speaker 1>It's really interesting when I look at your solo career

0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:36.800
<v Speaker 1>and then the career that you had with Charloma Howard.

0:16:36.800 --> 0:16:38.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, because that was an up.

0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Tempo you know dance, you know, really make that move

0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:46.000
<v Speaker 1>time you've all done music always don't feel good music.

0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:48.760
<v Speaker 1>Let's just put that out, you know, solo all with them,

0:16:49.760 --> 0:16:54.760
<v Speaker 1>But there tend to be like a slower beat on

0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:58.120
<v Speaker 1>your solo career versus what you isn't the producers that

0:16:58.240 --> 0:17:00.280
<v Speaker 1>came into your life. Oh, that's just your style.

0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:03.520
<v Speaker 3>Is my style. It was like what I was really,

0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:04.840
<v Speaker 3>what I was about.

0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:08.000
<v Speaker 4>I love I love you know, romantic music, right, I

0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:08.879
<v Speaker 4>love you know.

0:17:09.240 --> 0:17:14.200
<v Speaker 3>Uh, you know relation what I call them relation trips.

0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:17.879
<v Speaker 2>Which means that's what R and B used to be.

0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:20.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, exactly exactly.

0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:23.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't want dive it so fast. But R and

0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:24.160
<v Speaker 2>B has changed.

0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:27.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well, George Duke used to say. So used to say,

0:17:27.960 --> 0:17:29.679
<v Speaker 4>how well you know what R and B stands for?

0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.640
<v Speaker 3>I said, what is that? He said, replaced by? Replaced by.

0:17:33.800 --> 0:17:38.199
<v Speaker 4>Everybody tries to replace something with R and B with

0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.879
<v Speaker 4>something else. But R and B is the foundation. R

0:17:41.920 --> 0:17:44.480
<v Speaker 4>and B is a foundation of rock. R and B

0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.600
<v Speaker 4>is the foundation of hip hop. It's the foundation of

0:17:48.280 --> 0:17:51.359
<v Speaker 4>neo soul, it's foundation of all that stuff.

0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:52.040
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:56.440
<v Speaker 4>So you can't replace a foundation, you know, a foundation

0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:59.960
<v Speaker 4>can only make something stronger. Like I used to always

0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:04.400
<v Speaker 4>look at the houses, Like when in my neighborhood when

0:18:04.760 --> 0:18:05.760
<v Speaker 4>I was a kid, they.

0:18:05.720 --> 0:18:06.320
<v Speaker 3>Used to build.

0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:09.080
<v Speaker 4>You know, there was a lot, somebody buy the lot

0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:12.240
<v Speaker 4>and they start building the house. Well, they first thing

0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:16.120
<v Speaker 4>they do is dig the hole for the basement and

0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:20.440
<v Speaker 4>the foundation of that house. It took him forever because

0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:22.640
<v Speaker 4>we always have dirt dirt ball.

0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:24.920
<v Speaker 3>Fights, you know, because the big old piles of dirt.

0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:28.679
<v Speaker 4>So they took him forever to build this foundation, you know,

0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:32.960
<v Speaker 4>reinforce still, reinforce, cement, whatever, And they take forever to

0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:36.880
<v Speaker 4>build the foundation of this house. Once the foundation was done,

0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:39.920
<v Speaker 4>the house boom boom boom boom boom would go up.

0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:40.719
<v Speaker 3>You know.

0:18:41.000 --> 0:18:45.800
<v Speaker 4>And if you built that foundation strong enough, you can

0:18:45.840 --> 0:18:49.120
<v Speaker 4>even tear that house down and build a whole nother

0:18:49.160 --> 0:18:50.080
<v Speaker 4>house on top of it.

0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:50.560
<v Speaker 2>That's right.

0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:53.600
<v Speaker 4>So I started, you know, as I got older, I

0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:58.560
<v Speaker 4>started looking at that analogy as far as life is concerned, right,

0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:02.680
<v Speaker 4>you know, foundation, what kind of foundation are you laying

0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:05.840
<v Speaker 4>down for your life? And if you if you take

0:19:05.920 --> 0:19:11.720
<v Speaker 4>that thing seriously and lay a strong foundation, strong enough foundation,

0:19:12.240 --> 0:19:15.200
<v Speaker 4>you can build two, three, four different lives on top

0:19:15.240 --> 0:19:18.080
<v Speaker 4>of that hole, that one foundation. But as long as

0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:21.679
<v Speaker 4>you got that one thing happening strong enough, you know

0:19:21.680 --> 0:19:23.520
<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying right then, Like you know.

0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:26.879
<v Speaker 2>Because foundation is the key to relationships, everything, you know,

0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:27.800
<v Speaker 2>everything you do.

0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:31.399
<v Speaker 1>If you don't have a foundation, you don't have anything.

0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:35.720
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if they didn't make this chair with the right

0:19:35.920 --> 0:19:36.840
<v Speaker 4>nuts and bolts.

0:19:36.960 --> 0:19:38.280
<v Speaker 3>I'd be sitting here in Bam.

0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:40.800
<v Speaker 5>It'll fall down and eventually.

0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:41.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, when I look at the songs, you know,

0:19:41.880 --> 0:19:45.280
<v Speaker 1>of course, you know, a night to remember, Charlama, second

0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:46.520
<v Speaker 1>time around, Charlama.

0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:50.719
<v Speaker 2>This is for the lover and you or all these songs.

0:19:52.080 --> 0:19:54.439
<v Speaker 1>Either I want to move or I want because I

0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:57.040
<v Speaker 1>got you know, I can't remember the whole.

0:19:56.840 --> 0:20:02.440
<v Speaker 3>Song, you know, the hook, the hook.

0:20:03.160 --> 0:20:06.000
<v Speaker 4>But that's the thing is and and it's it's like

0:20:06.080 --> 0:20:09.320
<v Speaker 4>I said, you know, with my shows and stuff, I

0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:12.240
<v Speaker 4>love it when I come out because the first part

0:20:12.240 --> 0:20:15.119
<v Speaker 4>of my shows are always Howard Hewitt stuff. Okay, and

0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:16.880
<v Speaker 4>I say in the show, I'm gonna take you back

0:20:16.960 --> 0:20:20.239
<v Speaker 4>to some old Howard Hewitt, to some old Salamar and

0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:21.399
<v Speaker 4>then we're gonna praise.

0:20:21.119 --> 0:20:23.000
<v Speaker 3>The Lord and get up, get up out of here.

0:20:23.640 --> 0:20:27.680
<v Speaker 4>So it's like you know, I do the the first

0:20:27.680 --> 0:20:31.000
<v Speaker 4>part of the show is Howard Hewitt basically. So and

0:20:31.080 --> 0:20:34.720
<v Speaker 4>that's that's when you sit and like you know, fellas,

0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:37.280
<v Speaker 4>put your arm around your woman, like I tell them

0:20:37.359 --> 0:20:42.680
<v Speaker 4>during the show, put you just repeat after me whatever

0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:45.320
<v Speaker 4>and now that and then and and I tell me

0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:49.639
<v Speaker 4>you're gonna thank me later on, you know. So and

0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:53.760
<v Speaker 4>then once we get past you know, the Howard Hewitt stuff,

0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:56.080
<v Speaker 4>then then the time to get up.

0:20:56.040 --> 0:20:58.440
<v Speaker 3>And dance is when it's the second time around. Make

0:20:58.480 --> 0:20:59.960
<v Speaker 3>that move for the love and your unise.

0:21:00.400 --> 0:21:00.960
<v Speaker 2>I would give a.

0:21:00.960 --> 0:21:04.679
<v Speaker 1>Little personal here out because it's about longevity, you know

0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:08.640
<v Speaker 1>for decades. Yeah, when you when you went to California,

0:21:08.640 --> 0:21:11.959
<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't thinking about thirty forty, fifty, sixty, low seventy,

0:21:12.080 --> 0:21:15.000
<v Speaker 1>you know. But we all want to live a good life. Yeah,

0:21:15.040 --> 0:21:17.679
<v Speaker 1>so what does it take to live a good life?

0:21:18.320 --> 0:21:21.720
<v Speaker 4>I think integrity is one of the most one of

0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:24.760
<v Speaker 4>the most important things. That you're yes, be or yes

0:21:25.400 --> 0:21:28.080
<v Speaker 4>and you're nob yar no, that's biblical, you know what

0:21:28.119 --> 0:21:31.800
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying. So integrity is is very important to me

0:21:32.400 --> 0:21:36.600
<v Speaker 4>in life. You know, looking at you're gonna you know,

0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:41.960
<v Speaker 4>am I am I perfect? By no means am I perfect?

0:21:42.080 --> 0:21:47.320
<v Speaker 4>Do I believe in what I believe in totally completely, God, Christ,

0:21:47.440 --> 0:21:51.040
<v Speaker 4>the Holy Spirit? Stay true to that? For me, I

0:21:51.119 --> 0:21:52.600
<v Speaker 4>have to stay true to that.

0:21:52.800 --> 0:21:53.879
<v Speaker 2>Where did that come from?

0:21:54.240 --> 0:21:57.040
<v Speaker 3>Uh? This came from our foundation again.

0:21:57.200 --> 0:22:01.119
<v Speaker 4>I started out in in gospel, in the in the

0:22:01.160 --> 0:22:04.840
<v Speaker 4>in the gospel situation when I was ten eleven, twelve, thirteen,

0:22:04.960 --> 0:22:09.760
<v Speaker 4>fourteen years old, and my mom was a gospel promoter,

0:22:10.400 --> 0:22:12.879
<v Speaker 4>you know in the acron Cleveland cat area. And plus

0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:16.560
<v Speaker 4>she had a radio broadcast for like thirty or forty years.

0:22:16.560 --> 0:22:20.560
<v Speaker 4>She was eventually inducted into the Radio Ohio Radio Hall

0:22:20.600 --> 0:22:24.800
<v Speaker 4>of Fans awesome, and so her when she would do

0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:28.679
<v Speaker 4>her shows, she would bring in people like James Cleveland,

0:22:29.160 --> 0:22:33.359
<v Speaker 4>Albatina Walker and the Caravans when Shirley Caesar was still

0:22:33.400 --> 0:22:39.359
<v Speaker 4>with him, Pilgrim, Jubilee, Soul Stirs, Volinaires, Swan, silver Tones,

0:22:39.440 --> 0:22:44.440
<v Speaker 4>five Line Everybody, and so like once our group, which

0:22:44.560 --> 0:22:46.919
<v Speaker 4>was called the Hewett Singers, I was the lead singer

0:22:47.000 --> 0:22:50.000
<v Speaker 4>and three of my sisters backed me up once we

0:22:50.000 --> 0:22:54.360
<v Speaker 4>were in shape enough to do shows. Of course, nepotism

0:22:54.560 --> 0:22:57.880
<v Speaker 4>was live and well in our family. So we would

0:22:57.960 --> 0:23:01.200
<v Speaker 4>open up for every show that my mom would bring in,

0:23:01.680 --> 0:23:04.119
<v Speaker 4>and then during the summer we would we would go

0:23:04.200 --> 0:23:05.879
<v Speaker 4>out on the little gospel.

0:23:05.560 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 2>To get another nugget.

0:23:07.119 --> 0:23:10.120
<v Speaker 1>I knew nothing about Howard, so that even ties say

0:23:10.400 --> 0:23:11.120
<v Speaker 1>a mint either.

0:23:11.440 --> 0:23:13.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a natural correlation.

0:23:13.760 --> 0:23:14.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:23:14.119 --> 0:23:16.720
<v Speaker 4>Although I look at say Man, I look at say

0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:18.480
<v Speaker 4>Man as inspirational music.

0:23:18.600 --> 0:23:20.400
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I don't look at it as gospel.

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:23.679
<v Speaker 4>Gospel, Gospel is a whole another thing which I have

0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:27.160
<v Speaker 4>totally respect for. But when when I think about gospel,

0:23:27.200 --> 0:23:30.200
<v Speaker 4>I think about Shirley Caesar. I thought about think about

0:23:30.200 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 4>the quartets and stuff and casts like that Highway QCs.

0:23:35.000 --> 0:23:36.480
<v Speaker 3>And all those cat back in the day.

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:39.399
<v Speaker 1>That's a different beat now, yeah, a different calling to

0:23:39.560 --> 0:23:40.280
<v Speaker 1>different calling.

0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:43.720
<v Speaker 4>And it's like and it was one that as a kid,

0:23:44.800 --> 0:23:48.000
<v Speaker 4>I had to make that decision as to whether I

0:23:48.000 --> 0:23:51.760
<v Speaker 4>wanted to stay in the gospel situation or go to

0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:55.560
<v Speaker 4>the R and B situation. Which one of my reasons

0:23:55.640 --> 0:23:59.439
<v Speaker 4>when I when because I'm writing a book, putting my

0:23:59.480 --> 0:24:04.160
<v Speaker 4>little chat and stuff together, and when I finally stopped procrastinating,

0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 4>I'll get I'll get consistent with it. But one of

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:11.520
<v Speaker 4>the things, one of the mindsets that I had at

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:15.399
<v Speaker 4>that time was that, you know, I was fourteen, about

0:24:15.440 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 4>fourteen years old, really starting to get into girls and

0:24:20.119 --> 0:24:24.080
<v Speaker 4>and and loved loved women, love the girls, loved that

0:24:24.160 --> 0:24:27.160
<v Speaker 4>whole thing, and and I knew that that was something

0:24:27.200 --> 0:24:30.760
<v Speaker 4>that was going to be, you know, kind of prominent

0:24:30.840 --> 0:24:34.520
<v Speaker 4>in my life. So did I want to stay in

0:24:34.600 --> 0:24:39.560
<v Speaker 4>a field where I would feel like a hypocrite?

0:24:39.840 --> 0:24:40.080
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:41.240
<v Speaker 3>You know as far.

0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:44.320
<v Speaker 4>Even though even though I believe and my beliefs and

0:24:44.400 --> 0:24:47.280
<v Speaker 4>all that kind of stuff even now, but still at

0:24:47.359 --> 0:24:48.600
<v Speaker 4>least I'm not sitting out there.

0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:51.760
<v Speaker 3>Thank you Lord, thank you. Hey, what's your name?

0:24:51.920 --> 0:24:55.240
<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying and not saying, not not

0:24:55.440 --> 0:24:59.439
<v Speaker 4>judging or whatever, but I just yeah, and I just

0:24:59.480 --> 0:25:04.000
<v Speaker 4>underspent exactly, especially the respect for what you what you say.

0:25:04.040 --> 0:25:04.639
<v Speaker 3>You believe that.

0:25:04.920 --> 0:25:06.679
<v Speaker 1>There was a couple of things before we wrap up here.

0:25:06.720 --> 0:25:11.240
<v Speaker 1>I got to bring up I know we're talking we

0:25:11.520 --> 0:25:14.560
<v Speaker 1>on fun here cooking now you know, now you know

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:17.440
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't. I didn't realize you love. Your love

0:25:17.520 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 1>for cooking ook till I read your bio. Okay, you

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:24.400
<v Speaker 1>know I know everything about Howard okay, except to cook

0:25:24.440 --> 0:25:27.280
<v Speaker 1>it because you know my on my social media, I

0:25:27.720 --> 0:25:31.399
<v Speaker 1>have Rushawn's kitchen, so I love. I cooked chid lings

0:25:32.440 --> 0:25:35.280
<v Speaker 1>onions and I posted they eat me up. Don't matter

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 1>what the slave food. But I just love down home cooking.

0:25:41.160 --> 0:25:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Tell us about your love for cooking.

0:25:43.240 --> 0:25:44.439
<v Speaker 3>You know, I love cooking.

0:25:44.520 --> 0:25:48.640
<v Speaker 4>The thing the thing that I got into cooking for

0:25:49.560 --> 0:25:54.000
<v Speaker 4>was basically, I like I always say, I cooked well

0:25:54.119 --> 0:25:59.120
<v Speaker 4>enough not to starve. And there's certain things that I've

0:26:00.040 --> 0:26:03.520
<v Speaker 4>gravitate to ma, and I've mastered for myself, you know,

0:26:03.680 --> 0:26:06.720
<v Speaker 4>chicken wings and all that kind of stuff and and

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:10.800
<v Speaker 4>uh seasonings, different guys of seasonings and.

0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:11.159
<v Speaker 2>Know all that.

0:26:11.320 --> 0:26:14.080
<v Speaker 4>So you know, I'm not a gourmet cook. I've been

0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:16.760
<v Speaker 4>I've been married a couple of times where I had you.

0:26:16.720 --> 0:26:19.919
<v Speaker 3>Know, uh, my wife was a mat so I know

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:20.680
<v Speaker 3>what a go made.

0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:26.960
<v Speaker 4>But like again, I'm you know, I'm not married now,

0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:30.359
<v Speaker 4>so I had to I had to figure certain things out,

0:26:30.480 --> 0:26:32.880
<v Speaker 4>you know, along the way, a long way, the path

0:26:33.000 --> 0:26:35.920
<v Speaker 4>through the kitchen, the path and to not starving.

0:26:36.880 --> 0:26:39.399
<v Speaker 1>Because you know, we were joking off off flying that guy.

0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:42.000
<v Speaker 1>It's not really a joke, you know. We you know,

0:26:42.080 --> 0:26:45.680
<v Speaker 1>we live our lives. You know, Uh, you've hit seventy.

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:49.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm two years behind down there, you know, And we

0:26:49.400 --> 0:26:51.320
<v Speaker 1>was laughing. Steve Harbor right in the middle of both

0:26:51.359 --> 0:26:55.679
<v Speaker 1>of us, Okay, and I look at the mirror. I

0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:58.719
<v Speaker 1>don't know what seventy looked like, but I don't know,

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 1>but you don't look like man.

0:27:01.080 --> 0:27:01.680
<v Speaker 3>Thank god.

0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:08.280
<v Speaker 4>The biggest, the biggest thing when I turned seventy, the

0:27:08.320 --> 0:27:12.600
<v Speaker 4>biggest thing that I thought about was I thank god,

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 4>it doesn't look like what I thought it was going

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 4>to look like when I was thirty or forty years old. Right,

0:27:19.960 --> 0:27:22.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm thinking, Man, I'm gonna be on a on a

0:27:22.280 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 4>walker and there's a back aching. But no, it's it's

0:27:27.359 --> 0:27:31.280
<v Speaker 4>you know, you you figure you figure stuff out. I

0:27:31.320 --> 0:27:35.280
<v Speaker 4>believe as you go along and you figure out, you know,

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 4>the things that are important. I think that you live

0:27:39.480 --> 0:27:41.640
<v Speaker 4>because somebody has said something about.

0:27:42.880 --> 0:27:44.240
<v Speaker 3>I read the other just the.

0:27:44.200 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 4>Other day, how you you know, the way that you

0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:53.359
<v Speaker 4>live your life, the things that you allow allow to

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:59.080
<v Speaker 4>come into your life, the stress or or drama that

0:27:59.160 --> 0:28:03.400
<v Speaker 4>you allow to come into your life. And I stress

0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:09.240
<v Speaker 4>that allow the word, because that's the thing. We have

0:28:09.359 --> 0:28:12.200
<v Speaker 4>a choice. You know, God even gave us a choice

0:28:12.240 --> 0:28:14.720
<v Speaker 4>whether to follow him or not, right, so we have

0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:20.000
<v Speaker 4>a choice as to what we allow to come into

0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:23.240
<v Speaker 4>our lives. You know, some people say, well, but you

0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:26.920
<v Speaker 4>have to No, No, you have control over all that stuff.

0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 4>You got total control over all that stuff and what

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 4>you allow. And I refuse to allow, you know, drama,

0:28:36.440 --> 0:28:39.000
<v Speaker 4>I refuse to allow stress. I just went through a

0:28:39.040 --> 0:28:44.880
<v Speaker 4>thing and which just just just solidified my whole concept

0:28:45.280 --> 0:28:48.720
<v Speaker 4>of that whole thing. For two weeks, I was going

0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 4>through I'm not even going to get into it right

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:53.680
<v Speaker 4>now as far as because it was some craziness, but

0:28:53.760 --> 0:28:54.440
<v Speaker 4>it was drama.

0:28:54.640 --> 0:28:58.040
<v Speaker 1>It was drama as you said. You know, drama can

0:28:58.080 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 1>impack your heart.

0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:01.560
<v Speaker 3>Yep, every n your sleep.

0:29:02.320 --> 0:29:03.920
<v Speaker 2>That's stress and how you do it.

0:29:03.920 --> 0:29:06.320
<v Speaker 1>And that's the whole part about health, delivering and controlling

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:09.640
<v Speaker 1>that moment and when you go through that, because that's

0:29:09.640 --> 0:29:12.240
<v Speaker 1>an entertainer. I always tell people you're a small business owner,

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>which means that you're putting food on the table. Nobody

0:29:15.280 --> 0:29:17.960
<v Speaker 1>paying for your insurance. Nobody's saying you're gonna get paid

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:20.080
<v Speaker 1>fifteen or thirty dollars an hour. I'll give you forty

0:29:20.120 --> 0:29:23.160
<v Speaker 1>hours a week to pay because you just don't know.

0:29:23.280 --> 0:29:26.280
<v Speaker 1>A tour can cancel, somebody might not show up. You

0:29:26.360 --> 0:29:29.960
<v Speaker 1>might get an album deal and the label goes bankrupt.

0:29:30.120 --> 0:29:33.200
<v Speaker 1>There are no guarantees in anything, especially when you're a

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:36.440
<v Speaker 1>small business owner. If you were to give somebody advice

0:29:37.040 --> 0:29:39.360
<v Speaker 1>as a small business owner, what would that be, hout.

0:29:39.440 --> 0:29:41.600
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, but what you're talking about is like

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:46.920
<v Speaker 4>a perfect example COVID. When COVID comes in, my schedule

0:29:46.920 --> 0:29:51.080
<v Speaker 4>had been the same for like thirty years. You know,

0:29:51.480 --> 0:29:57.320
<v Speaker 4>you know, thank god. I never being concerned about having

0:29:57.320 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 4>a gig has never been on my play of concern

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 4>right the years, because thank god that foundation. You lay

0:30:04.840 --> 0:30:07.880
<v Speaker 4>that foundation, so you were always you know some of

0:30:07.920 --> 0:30:11.800
<v Speaker 4>the second time around, make them Some people work all

0:30:11.840 --> 0:30:15.000
<v Speaker 4>their lives on one or two his I got second

0:30:15.000 --> 0:30:17.520
<v Speaker 4>time around, make that move for lovering. You show me

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm for real. But I can go on on right

0:30:21.000 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 4>out of fingers, run out of finger I got to

0:30:23.280 --> 0:30:26.440
<v Speaker 4>go to the other hand, you know, and those are

0:30:26.720 --> 0:30:31.440
<v Speaker 4>That's something that I thank god. But like this, as

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:33.440
<v Speaker 4>far as stress, like I said, somebody told me a

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:35.520
<v Speaker 4>long time ago, you know, stresses.

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:36.440
<v Speaker 3>Like a rock and chair.

0:30:36.480 --> 0:30:39.000
<v Speaker 4>It gives you a lot to do, but when you

0:30:39.040 --> 0:30:40.960
<v Speaker 4>get done, you're still in the same place.

0:30:41.000 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 3>So what's the sense in it? What was the sense

0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 3>in the stress?

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 4>Was?

0:30:45.080 --> 0:30:45.800
<v Speaker 3>What was the whole?

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 4>I remember, I was twenty two years old when I

0:30:49.200 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 4>conscientiously started taking the word worry out of my vocabulary.

0:30:55.040 --> 0:30:58.120
<v Speaker 4>And like it took a while, took years, from four

0:30:58.240 --> 0:31:01.600
<v Speaker 4>by six, seven, eight years or whatever. But before as

0:31:01.680 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 4>time went on, it got to be a situation where

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:10.760
<v Speaker 4>like I because one of the you have a big

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 4>ocean liner. Okay, the thing that guides that that big

0:31:16.160 --> 0:31:19.880
<v Speaker 4>ocean liner, that ship, and any boat, any boat. The

0:31:19.960 --> 0:31:22.880
<v Speaker 4>thing that guides that boat through the water is that

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 4>little rudder on the end. Little rudder compared to the

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:30.200
<v Speaker 4>you know, relative to the ship is little, you know,

0:31:30.320 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 4>relative to the row boat.

0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 3>It is little, a little rudder.

0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:36.880
<v Speaker 5>That's your tongue, man, Your tongue. Your tongue will get

0:31:36.920 --> 0:31:39.440
<v Speaker 5>you in so much trouble and.

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:44.760
<v Speaker 4>Get you and so like you always for me is

0:31:44.880 --> 0:31:47.400
<v Speaker 4>it was like, okay, I got to be aware of

0:31:47.800 --> 0:31:50.840
<v Speaker 4>the things that I allow to come out of my mouth.

0:31:51.400 --> 0:31:56.120
<v Speaker 4>Everything is a choice. Everything in life is a choice.

0:31:56.600 --> 0:31:59.400
<v Speaker 4>It's a choice. And so you know, and and so

0:31:59.520 --> 0:32:02.320
<v Speaker 4>at too. There was a situation that went down that

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.840
<v Speaker 4>I had a plan, a twenty two year old plan,

0:32:08.480 --> 0:32:11.640
<v Speaker 4>my man in my mind that went crazy, you know,

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:12.480
<v Speaker 4>and like I'm.

0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 5>Like, oh, what the what am I going to do now?

0:32:15.280 --> 0:32:15.520
<v Speaker 3>You know?

0:32:15.640 --> 0:32:18.680
<v Speaker 5>And I start worrying and weren't doing this doing that?

0:32:19.080 --> 0:32:22.120
<v Speaker 4>And then I got a pamphlet from my church that

0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:24.280
<v Speaker 4>I used to go to back when I was back

0:32:24.320 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 4>at Akron.

0:32:25.680 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 3>They had my mailing.

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 4>Address, Pastor Fowler, the Arlington Street Church of God, and

0:32:33.120 --> 0:32:35.840
<v Speaker 4>they my dad gave him my address. You know, I

0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:40.120
<v Speaker 4>was about twenty twenty one, twenty two, and they used

0:32:40.120 --> 0:32:43.719
<v Speaker 4>to send the pamphlet every every week, you know, that

0:32:43.840 --> 0:32:45.120
<v Speaker 4>was happening every weekly thing.

0:32:45.160 --> 0:32:46.960
<v Speaker 3>And on the back of the.

0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 4>East pamphlet, Pastor Follower would always pick a subject and

0:32:50.680 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 4>he write a summary on it.

0:32:52.600 --> 0:32:56.320
<v Speaker 5>And right when I was going through all this stuff.

0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:59.400
<v Speaker 4>And I found out the tour got pushed back, and

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:02.920
<v Speaker 4>money all this and there's we were supposed to go

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 4>to Helsinki, Finland, and as with the show group and stuff,

0:33:06.480 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 4>and that got pushed back. And I'm worrying about this.

0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:12.840
<v Speaker 4>I can't get the money for my dad because he

0:33:12.880 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 4>had just sent me fifty bucks a week or so before,

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:20.240
<v Speaker 4>and so like you know, but I go to the mailbox,

0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 4>I get this paraphly. I look on the back of it,

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:25.120
<v Speaker 4>and on the back of it the subject that Pastor

0:33:25.200 --> 0:33:32.000
<v Speaker 4>Fowler had had chosen was worried wo a sign of disbelief.

0:33:32.760 --> 0:33:36.000
<v Speaker 4>In other words, if you know that you're a child

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:39.280
<v Speaker 4>of God, you say the God is my savior, you

0:33:39.480 --> 0:33:42.280
<v Speaker 4>confessed with your mouth, believe in your heart that he

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 4>was raised from the Daddy's your savior.

0:33:45.160 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 3>And he takes care.

0:33:46.000 --> 0:33:48.680
<v Speaker 4>Of those little birds and those little animals out there

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 4>that don't even aren't even able to worship him. And

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:56.960
<v Speaker 4>you say that you're a child of God, what are

0:33:57.000 --> 0:33:59.800
<v Speaker 4>you worried about? If you're a child of God, and

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:03.720
<v Speaker 4>if you truly believe that you're a child of God,

0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:07.200
<v Speaker 4>what are you worried about? Why are you worried? It

0:34:07.240 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 4>doesn't make sense.

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:09.279
<v Speaker 2>I love it, I love it.

0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:10.360
<v Speaker 3>It doesn't make any sense.

0:34:10.360 --> 0:34:11.200
<v Speaker 2>He's the one and only.

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:12.239
<v Speaker 3>Howard are you man?

0:34:12.440 --> 0:34:16.439
<v Speaker 2>Brother? Brother? Never will we part this long?

0:34:16.760 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 5>Never ten years or so.

0:34:20.960 --> 0:34:21.680
<v Speaker 2>I know you do.

0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:24.400
<v Speaker 1>Just chicken wing, but I gotta bring you in Ushawann's kitchen.

0:34:24.440 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 2>Man those chicken wing.

0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:29.840
<v Speaker 1>But again, man, beautiful, beautiful interview, beautiful person.

0:34:30.400 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 2>Thank you for coming on Money Making Class.

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:34.040
<v Speaker 3>Finally, finally.

0:34:34.080 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 4>We've been talking about this a long time, so you know,

0:34:36.800 --> 0:34:37.840
<v Speaker 4>but it's good seeing you.

0:34:37.960 --> 0:34:41.400
<v Speaker 2>Thank you, thank you, thank you for listening to this episode.

0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:43.240
<v Speaker 1>No, I need for you to do me a favor

0:34:43.960 --> 0:34:47.400
<v Speaker 1>right now to follow our subscribe to Money Making Conversation.

0:34:47.680 --> 0:34:51.960
<v Speaker 1>It's free and you can find it on the iHeartRadio app, Spotify,

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:56.160
<v Speaker 1>Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Please do

0:34:56.239 --> 0:35:00.440
<v Speaker 1>me that favor, follow or subscribe money Making conversation stations

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:01.360
<v Speaker 1>keep winning