WEBVTT - Affordable Home-Cooked Meals that are Good Enough with Leanne Brown #463

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I am Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're talking affordable home cooked meals that are

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<v Speaker 1>good enough with lean Brown. So you know how your

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<v Speaker 1>friends they have different like specialties, like you know who

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<v Speaker 1>to call if you need a plumber recommendation, or you

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<v Speaker 1>know which friend has the best beach recommendations in Florida. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Leanne Brown is who comes to mind when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to eating really well but for less. Leanne calls herself

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<v Speaker 1>your friend in the kitchen and her New York Times

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<v Speaker 1>best seller Good and Cheap is now free and has

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<v Speaker 1>been downloaded millions of times. Will make sure to link

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<v Speaker 1>to that in the show notes. Uh And now, her

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<v Speaker 1>new cookbook, good Enough, was just published last week. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a mix of essays, personal stories, and delicious recipes, as

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<v Speaker 1>she also acknowledges the fear and anxiety that many have

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to cooking. We're gonna talk about all

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<v Speaker 1>of that and more today. Leanne. Thank you for joining

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<v Speaker 1>us today on the podcast. Thank you for having me,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're looking forward to this chat. We're looking forward

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<v Speaker 1>to it to lean and that's because, Yeah, as two guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you talk about saving money a lot our go to

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<v Speaker 1>money saving advice when it comes to paying less for

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<v Speaker 1>food is shop at aldi like that I meant advice.

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<v Speaker 1>We're very good starting point, but we do not have

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<v Speaker 1>the depth of knowledge that you have. So but the

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<v Speaker 1>first question we ask every guest who comes on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast is you know, Matt and I we drink a

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<v Speaker 1>craft beer on every episode because it's something that we

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<v Speaker 1>spend a lot of money on in the here and

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<v Speaker 1>now while we're trying to be intentional about saving uh

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<v Speaker 1>and investing for the future. What is that for you?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your splurge? It's a really good question, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have a few different directions I could go on this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think I want to say fundamentally, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>splurge on something that makes your life better, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a quality of life thing, and that's definitely where I like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm recording this in my bedroom and I'm thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>how important like having a comfortable, cozy bed is for me,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we have I have nice sheets, and truly

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot My husband doesn't understand this. He's like the

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<v Speaker 1>sort of person who would just leave the bed like

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<v Speaker 1>a mess all day and just like vaguely like grab

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<v Speaker 1>the sheets and like kind of cocoon himself and go

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<v Speaker 1>to sleep. And I know many people who are like

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<v Speaker 1>that it is a style thing, though I think, um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many people who are just like, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>point of making your bed because you know you're just

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<v Speaker 1>going to mess it up again. And while I sort

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<v Speaker 1>of intellectually understand that my body like gets such profound

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure out of sliding into like a smooth, crisp sheet situation,

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<v Speaker 1>it just like I feel like my whole body can

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<v Speaker 1>just relax and it primes me to calm down and

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<v Speaker 1>go to sleep, and sleep, like sleep for me is

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<v Speaker 1>quality of life, like almost the number one thing. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if there's anything that I can do, whether it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>yoga before bed, whether it's um, you know, trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get enough excers of all of these things, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>drinking less alcohol. I can think of all these sort

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<v Speaker 1>of good habits that I have been trying to cultivate,

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<v Speaker 1>and every time I add sort of a new good habit,

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<v Speaker 1>almost always it comes down to, like that helps me

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<v Speaker 1>sleep better. And so truly it's like really that simple,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, so my bed beings of this really beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>place is super important for my quality of life. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's that's sort of where my splurge comes from.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys really really enjoy the pleasure

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<v Speaker 1>and connection you get from like having a good beer together,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not too close to bedtime, because, like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>that can certainly disrupolute, disruptive. We drink while we podcast

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<v Speaker 1>in the afternoon, Lee, and I'm going to share a

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<v Speaker 1>quick story with you. You're probably gonna cringe when I

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<v Speaker 1>say this, but the mattress that my wife and I

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<v Speaker 1>sleep on that we love was a free mattress that

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<v Speaker 1>we got online through Facebook Marketplace. Hebody was giving away

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<v Speaker 1>and we actually we were like, you know what, it's

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<v Speaker 1>time to grow up, you know, and so we're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's order one of these mattresses that shows up in

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<v Speaker 1>the mail. We got it, you know, it deflated, took

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours at the spring foam combo. We did

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<v Speaker 1>not like it, and so we were actually one of

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<v Speaker 1>the folks who took advantage of that and send it

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<v Speaker 1>back and we pulled down that old Queen Spring mattress

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<v Speaker 1>down from the attic. But like you said, if it

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<v Speaker 1>works for us, I guess that's all. That's the only

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<v Speaker 1>measure we need. Yeah, I really think that, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>think no judgment about how you got it, Like, if

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<v Speaker 1>it truly feels better for you, that's the only thing

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<v Speaker 1>that could possibly matter. Oh and real quick too. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>so Joe and I we love to ride bikes. We

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<v Speaker 1>read that before you moved to New York City you

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<v Speaker 1>used to ride your bike everywhere. Do you get out

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<v Speaker 1>in your bike much these days there in New York? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's funny because my husband, I think, frankly,

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<v Speaker 1>as part of trying to distract himself from the state

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<v Speaker 1>of the world these last few weeks, has been buying

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<v Speaker 1>bike parts online obsessively, probably in you know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>careful way that you guys enjoyed doing too, and been

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<v Speaker 1>just fixing up both of our bikes in small ways.

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<v Speaker 1>And he had kind of finished up making these few

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<v Speaker 1>small improvement you know, changing to new tires, um, fixing

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<v Speaker 1>the hub, that kind of thing. And um, we went

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<v Speaker 1>for a ride yesterday. It was sort of nice enough

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<v Speaker 1>out that we went for a little family right and

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<v Speaker 1>it felt fabulous. Um, but just family bike riding, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so good. My daughter was like, I don't like the

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<v Speaker 1>wind in my face, but she could deal for twenty minutes. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know what, they're going to complain even at home.

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<v Speaker 1>So uh, let's let's move on. Let's talk about food

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<v Speaker 1>and eating well on a budget. And yeah, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it always feels like fancy dishes that you'd get

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<v Speaker 1>while eating out or something they're made from these expensive

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<v Speaker 1>cuts of meat, or they've got like trouffles shredded all

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<v Speaker 1>over the top and something like that. Um, but what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying is that you don't have to have a

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<v Speaker 1>big budget. That's not important when it comes to eating

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<v Speaker 1>great food. Like why do you say that? Because it's true,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many of our favorite I mean, you said

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<v Speaker 1>what you just said is true. And at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>I would bring some reality to that statement that many

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that you're going to order out are

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<v Speaker 1>also actually going to be quite inexpensive. But in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of the ingredients that are used, Like, for example, like

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<v Speaker 1>let's say a fancy pasta dish that has bacon and

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<v Speaker 1>egg as the base, you're only using like maybe one

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<v Speaker 1>or two strips of bacon and a couple of eggs,

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<v Speaker 1>and the pasta itself is really inexpensive, but it's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of the technique, the way that it's being put together.

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<v Speaker 1>That is sort of where the value comes in. And

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<v Speaker 1>so when you can learn some of these techniques, which

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we say the word technique, you might think,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, that's gonna be hard. Doesn't mean it's hard,

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<v Speaker 1>It just means it's a couple of steps that you

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<v Speaker 1>just need to do and think through, and um, you

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<v Speaker 1>can have these really beautiful meals that can seem really

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<v Speaker 1>fancy just in your own kitchen really quite easily. So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess what I always really say is learning to

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<v Speaker 1>like getting sort of a basic idea of cooking, and

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<v Speaker 1>I really do mean cooking sort of as opposed to baking.

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<v Speaker 1>Cooking like learning how to you know, say, makeup pasta dish,

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<v Speaker 1>make a grilled cheese sandwich, like literally, like these really

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<v Speaker 1>really simple sorts of meals, make an egg dish for yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>how to saute vegetables, um, what to do with frozen peas,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when to put it into the meal so

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<v Speaker 1>that they won't still be cold. Like these sorts of

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<v Speaker 1>simple techniques they can just lend such tremendous quality to

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<v Speaker 1>your everyday life and not at really all that higher

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<v Speaker 1>cost and I think and again people think like, oh gosh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we all know that learning to cook would like make

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<v Speaker 1>my life better. But I think what most people maybe

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<v Speaker 1>don't realize is just how quickly you can experience much

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<v Speaker 1>much better meals. Um Like, just learn a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>really simple things, learn one or two recipes really well,

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<v Speaker 1>things that you really really enjoy, and you can start

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<v Speaker 1>seeing tremendous sort of improvement in the quality of your meals.

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<v Speaker 1>And by that I really mean the quality of the

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<v Speaker 1>of how much you can enjoy your meals and look

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<v Speaker 1>forward to it. Yeah, I mean, I think when you

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're doing right, when you have some knowledge

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<v Speaker 1>as to the strokes you're making with your knife, or

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<v Speaker 1>like you you know, you're talking about technique here. It's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like when you go on like go to

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<v Speaker 1>a museum, and if you're going through with a tour,

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<v Speaker 1>like a guided tour or even like the audio tour,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to appreciate it so much more when you

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<v Speaker 1>understand what it is that you're looking at. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think the same can be true with your food. I

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<v Speaker 1>love that you talked about the difference between cooking and baking,

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<v Speaker 1>because yeah, we've talked about this on the show before,

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<v Speaker 1>how so much of life is it's more cooking, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not baking. It's not these precise steps that you follow.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, for for those of us who do

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, a duck out of water, who

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<v Speaker 1>weren't taught kitchen skills, what are some specifics how do

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<v Speaker 1>we get a handle on the basics in order to

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<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable cooking well at home? What are some of

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<v Speaker 1>those basic techniques that you think are necessary in order

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<v Speaker 1>to feel confident? So, and I hate to do this,

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<v Speaker 1>but it really is. It is sort of an individual thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not like okay, master, there's two and you're

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<v Speaker 1>good to go. Um. Of course you could try something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, but I think where when we're talking about confidence,

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<v Speaker 1>it really is about thinking about yourself, like your personal taste,

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<v Speaker 1>and trying to think about, like, what are five dishes

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<v Speaker 1>that I really enjoy when I eat out, say, and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe even thinking like what is sort of a salad

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<v Speaker 1>that I really like? What is a pasta dish that

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<v Speaker 1>I really like? What is a stew or a soup

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<v Speaker 1>that I really like? And starting at that place and

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<v Speaker 1>just learning how to make one or two of those things. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>can be just an incredible confidence builder, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>really putting yourself into the mix, truly thinking about your taste.

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<v Speaker 1>I started this by saying bacon and an egg pasta.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess what I really meant was like a carbonara.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you see that on your menu, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh carbonara, who hoo hoo, fancy fanacy. Literally

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<v Speaker 1>bacon and egg pasta. Like it's so simple and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a matter of like how you put those things together.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll often have those types of ingredients in our pantry

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<v Speaker 1>and our fridge already. If you're a vegetarian, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you may want to skip the bacon. If you're wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to add in more vegetable as you could do you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's still quite classic to add peas, or to add

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<v Speaker 1>some other kind of veggies or herbs or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You can add some lemon zest. These are ways to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of bring in your own taste to it. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think so much of it is just taking is

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<v Speaker 1>a knowing that it is good and important. I think

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<v Speaker 1>to take your own personal taste into account and to

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<v Speaker 1>start where you are and then be really really patient

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<v Speaker 1>and gentle with yourself as you get going, um, celebrate

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<v Speaker 1>every meal you make, celebrate your effort, and appreciate yourself

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<v Speaker 1>for the effort that you're making on your own behalf,

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<v Speaker 1>and just like know that it's for everyone. It is

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<v Speaker 1>hard to try something new, and so don't have that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of self talk that I think so many of

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<v Speaker 1>us grow up with inside our heads, which is sort

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<v Speaker 1>of like, oh, I should be better at this already,

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<v Speaker 1>and like that's so embarrassing that I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to do that, like all of that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Try to like really leave that in the background and

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<v Speaker 1>celebrate yourself that you know, no matter how small, even

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<v Speaker 1>if it's just making toast, just appreciate the kindness of

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<v Speaker 1>your intention as you make um these things for yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>and that will kind of fuel you through. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>not that it's making too big a deal out of it,

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<v Speaker 1>or letting yourself off the hook or any of that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's being truthful because it is a really good thing

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<v Speaker 1>to make these things. And making any sort of habit

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<v Speaker 1>change in our lives is hard. Like we are built

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<v Speaker 1>as creatures of habit, we really are. And it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for all kinds of important reasons that our ancestors millions

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<v Speaker 1>of years ago, um needed. But so making changes in

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<v Speaker 1>our lives is unsettling, and so we need to actually

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<v Speaker 1>so poured ourselves through these experiences. And we can support

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves not by diminishing our efforts and making fun of

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves when we don't do well, but really celebrating ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>And we do make make mistakes and when it does

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<v Speaker 1>work out not so well, to kind of roll with

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<v Speaker 1>it and go like, yeah, that makes sense. It's part

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<v Speaker 1>of learning, and you need to hold yourself to a

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<v Speaker 1>realistic standard and that is what will sort of allow

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<v Speaker 1>you to succeed in the long term totally. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's so much of what you focus on within

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<v Speaker 1>you know, within your new book. I love how you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about gravitating towards the dishes that you enjoy. How

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<v Speaker 1>that's a great piece of start when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>how you want to improve in the kitchen. You've you know,

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<v Speaker 1>shared before as well, just some of this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some of the specific tools and like you mentioned, you

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<v Speaker 1>know a second ago, you said lemon zest and that

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<v Speaker 1>reminded me that you talk about the microplane specifically and

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<v Speaker 1>how this is just this really affordable tool that has

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<v Speaker 1>so much utility, explain to folks why they need to

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<v Speaker 1>have that. Specifically, I love a microplane because, yeah, lemon

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<v Speaker 1>zest lines really any kind of citrus, the zest is

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<v Speaker 1>such as I just it makes me actually so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I love when people have never really used zest before

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<v Speaker 1>and I can introduce it to them for the first time,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's so magical. If you're someone who likes cocktails

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<v Speaker 1>as well, you might be familiar with sort of the

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<v Speaker 1>beauty of the twist in the cocktail um and it's yeah, yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So like using the the outside of citrus. It has

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<v Speaker 1>this incredible, incredibly strong aroma and flavor because it's basically

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<v Speaker 1>orange oil or lemon oil or lime oil that is

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<v Speaker 1>inside that um the zest on the outside, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you add just a tiny bit of this and you're

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<v Speaker 1>able to scrape it off just so easily, so quickly

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<v Speaker 1>with the microplane, and you can add that kind of bright,

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<v Speaker 1>acidic flavor to anything. My friends kind of make fun

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<v Speaker 1>of me quite often when I'm cooking with them, or

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm over at their house and they're cooking somewhere, like,

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<v Speaker 1>should I add lemons ust to this leen? It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>because because I always do that. And obviously we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about money, and I mean I love the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you focused on that so much because I mean that's

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<v Speaker 1>such an affordable tool, you know, Like we're not talking

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<v Speaker 1>about you, you know, folks going out and buying like

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<v Speaker 1>an air fire. I don't know how much an air

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<v Speaker 1>fire cost, but I know they're hot and people love them.

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<v Speaker 1>But I got a feeling they take up a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of counterspace. That's true. It's true. Well, and when when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to money land part of the reason that

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<v Speaker 1>you're on our radar, And like, we want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about your new book good Enough more as well, but

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<v Speaker 1>like you wrote a cookbook initially, Like your claim to

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<v Speaker 1>fame was the cookbook Good and Cheap, which was released

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<v Speaker 1>in about eating well on just four dollars a day.

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<v Speaker 1>Like what made you feel compelled to write that in

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<v Speaker 1>the first place? Um? And like, yeah, can you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of give us a little bit of an idea of

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<v Speaker 1>what your focus was in that one? Oh well, so

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<v Speaker 1>that came out of my master's degree and food studies

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<v Speaker 1>at m y U, And it was just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>looking at the state of things, Um, this awareness that

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<v Speaker 1>you know they are huge, huge millions of people, um

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<v Speaker 1>in the US alone who are living on a budget

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<v Speaker 1>about four dollars a day or less. Um. That's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of anyone who qualifies for food stamps, UH is living

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<v Speaker 1>on our snap as it's called now, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>most people still think of it as food stamps. The

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<v Speaker 1>food stamps program. It's approximately four dollars per person per day,

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<v Speaker 1>which is very little money. And I know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of issues with that, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of a lot of people who

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<v Speaker 1>are always saying like, oh, nobody can eat healthy on that,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody can eat enough on that. And you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not really here to say whether or not, like on

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<v Speaker 1>a moral level, whether it's okay that there's literally millions

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<v Speaker 1>of people living on four dollars a day and we

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<v Speaker 1>say that that's okay. I personally don't think that that's

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<v Speaker 1>enough and that that's okay UM. But what I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do was meet this reality where it was and offer,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my own sort of knowledge as a home

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<v Speaker 1>cook who knows that you know, uh, you can make

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<v Speaker 1>really really delicious food, um for very little money if

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of have some technique, if you have the

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<v Speaker 1>confidence to put things together, that there's just so much

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<v Speaker 1>more that can be done, and seeing the kinds of

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<v Speaker 1>resources that were available to people, I just felt like

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<v Speaker 1>they were really lacking, um in particular, they were lacking

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<v Speaker 1>in uh, sort of the addition of fruits and vegetables

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<v Speaker 1>and sort of anything interesting. They were often these sort

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<v Speaker 1>of there's this attitude which you know is always there,

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<v Speaker 1>I think in American culture around sort of poverty and

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<v Speaker 1>not having enough. There's a sort of l well, you

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<v Speaker 1>must have done something to deserve this, This must be

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<v Speaker 1>kind of your fault, and and the often the resources

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<v Speaker 1>really reflected that. It was like, you can have this

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<v Speaker 1>three times photocopied church basement, you know, cookbook that I

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<v Speaker 1>found at a garage sale, and you should feel really

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<v Speaker 1>lucky that I'm letting you have this was sort of

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<v Speaker 1>the attitude. And to me, it was like I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to create a resource and something that was beautiful and appealing,

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<v Speaker 1>like any other lovely cookbook out there, but that just

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<v Speaker 1>happened to be at a price point that could um

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<v Speaker 1>could work for many people. And so that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I also know that many people are walking into

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<v Speaker 1>into bookstores and seeing these cookbooks and feeling left out

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<v Speaker 1>and going like, well, I can't possibly even afford that,

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<v Speaker 1>so why would I even try? So I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be really clear that cooking absolutely is affordable, um, and

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<v Speaker 1>sort of have that as a starting point. And and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's also this like belief that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>eat sort of healthy generally, like a healthy food, um

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<v Speaker 1>for a little because healthy means like green juice and

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<v Speaker 1>all these kinds of very expensive things. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>healthy just means like eating a variety of fruits and vegetables,

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<v Speaker 1>and and or eating a variety of foods generally, and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to eat more fruits and vegetables. And certainly it's

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<v Speaker 1>true that you know, at this time of year, buying

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<v Speaker 1>a few grams of raspberries is hideously expensive. But yes, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, but there are ways to shop and and

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<v Speaker 1>to cook that can sort of maximize your budget and

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<v Speaker 1>still like to eat eat well. And something that you

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<v Speaker 1>said at the beginning, which was sort of staying away

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<v Speaker 1>from those like expensive cuts of meat and sort of

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<v Speaker 1>more expensive dairy and using um, those more expensive items

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<v Speaker 1>like um, you know, butter and cream and expensive cheeses

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<v Speaker 1>and expensive meats, and using smaller quantities of those um

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<v Speaker 1>alongside like the cheaper stables like rice or pasta or

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<v Speaker 1>beans or things like that that we can, uh, you

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<v Speaker 1>can still have just fabulous, fabulous food. So for me,

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<v Speaker 1>it was you know, wanting to share that and um

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<v Speaker 1>and wanting to sort of in my own small, small way,

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<v Speaker 1>try to just like right, attempt to right this wrong

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<v Speaker 1>that I saw out there, and and to invite just

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<v Speaker 1>more people into the kitchen who may have felt left out.

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<v Speaker 1>I always want to just be welcoming. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>like fundamentally where I always at is like welcome, welcome,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome as many people into the process of cooking, because

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's not just wonderful to eat well, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think the actual process of cooking is really empowering

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<v Speaker 1>and confidence building. Yeah, it's a good skill to have,

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<v Speaker 1>and to know that you can feed yourself and feed

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<v Speaker 1>yourself well feels good and it brings the light. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and it also helps foster community. I mean, there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many good things about cooking. And yeah, I love that

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<v Speaker 1>you say you don't have to eat junk food if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have much money, like there's a way, And

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<v Speaker 1>you also give people the free resource the downloadable the

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<v Speaker 1>downloadable copy of that book. Um, Lean, we want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about more. We want to talk about cooking when

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<v Speaker 1>you have kids. We want to talk about food waste,

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<v Speaker 1>we want to talk about leftovers. We'll get to some

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<v Speaker 1>of our questions on that front with you right after

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<v Speaker 1>this break. Alright, we're back. We're talking about how we

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<v Speaker 1>can cook home cooked meals that are affordable, that are

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<v Speaker 1>good enough. We're talking with Lean Brown, and we were

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<v Speaker 1>just talking about her previous book, Good and Cheap and

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<v Speaker 1>Lee and one of the things actually that you do

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<v Speaker 1>in that cookbook as well as you put the total

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<v Speaker 1>costs for the for the dishes as well as the

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<v Speaker 1>cost per serving, which I thought was was genius as well.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's talk now about your new book, good Enough.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to know more about this new book, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it does have some recipes, but it also is it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of part memoir, you know, with like a you

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<v Speaker 1>know a little dash of self care advice in there.

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<v Speaker 1>And so what made you write this book that sort

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<v Speaker 1>of defies literary genres? Yeah, well it didn't. It actually

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<v Speaker 1>came a lot out of my experiences with Good and Cheap.

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<v Speaker 1>I had this sort of in build assumption when I

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<v Speaker 1>created good and cheap, and then when it ended up

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<v Speaker 1>being this sort of surprise success and UM. I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up touring all over the country, being in so many

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<v Speaker 1>different rooms, talking to so many different people, both in

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<v Speaker 1>person people and UM people emailed me people UM contacted

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<v Speaker 1>me in so many different ways. Sometimes it was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you cook greens or something, but often it

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<v Speaker 1>was What I found was people were more likely to

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<v Speaker 1>be sharing their personal stories. Often it was growing up

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<v Speaker 1>without a lot of money or having or being in

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<v Speaker 1>some way affected by this, you know, working with people

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<v Speaker 1>who are struggling to UM feed themselves now or feed

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<v Speaker 1>their family, or who have goals that they're not meeting

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<v Speaker 1>and they're frustrated, or who hate cooking but want to

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<v Speaker 1>love it, you know, all these kinds of experiences. And

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<v Speaker 1>what I began to notice on what I just found

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<v Speaker 1>that I couldn't look away from, was that so many

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<v Speaker 1>people it didn't it wasn't even about the cost of things.

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<v Speaker 1>It was about something deeper. It was about feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>they weren't worth the effort, Like at some level there

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<v Speaker 1>was some shame that had gone so deep inside that

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<v Speaker 1>it was really hard to come out from that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a good enough cook, I'm not a good

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<v Speaker 1>enough person to even work on this for or um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so much of this kind of pain or this

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<v Speaker 1>sort of personalite, like there's something wrong with me that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to do this, that I have

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<v Speaker 1>so far kind of failed at this. These all these

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<v Speaker 1>just really really harsh beliefs that people were holding about themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>And there, you know, where there were times where I

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<v Speaker 1>was so privileged to be in a position, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>to soothe some of those painful feelings and maybe to

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<v Speaker 1>create the beginnings of some healing. But I couldn't look

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<v Speaker 1>away from us also because I, you know, I related

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<v Speaker 1>to it, and and I found that I was reflected

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<v Speaker 1>in my own journey of cooking, but also just in

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<v Speaker 1>life in general of you know, dealing with anxiety and

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<v Speaker 1>depression for much of my life. And so I found

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<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to share the way that cooking kind

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<v Speaker 1>of helped me figure myself out, help me find confidence,

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<v Speaker 1>help me find creativity, and the way that I use

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<v Speaker 1>it as sort of a deep kind of self care,

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<v Speaker 1>not just as like oh I can make myself something delicious,

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<v Speaker 1>but something where I can notice, like I can rely

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<v Speaker 1>on myself. I can I can learn to trust myself,

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<v Speaker 1>I can do all these things. And so it started

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<v Speaker 1>out as as something where I was like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to tell the stories of all these folks that

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<v Speaker 1>I met. And then I realized over time that that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't going to work and I had to do the

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<v Speaker 1>vulnerable thing and tell my own story, and that was

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<v Speaker 1>the only way it was going to work. So it

0:23:13.840 --> 0:23:16.440
<v Speaker 1>took quite a few years because I really resisted that. Um,

0:23:16.480 --> 0:23:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to do it, but I'm so glad

0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:21.679
<v Speaker 1>I did because I think that what I realized in

0:23:22.040 --> 0:23:24.880
<v Speaker 1>over time once I finally broke down and stopped resisting,

0:23:24.960 --> 0:23:29.399
<v Speaker 1>was you know, any piece of art, any book, anything

0:23:29.440 --> 0:23:31.440
<v Speaker 1>that has ever really helped me or made me feel

0:23:31.440 --> 0:23:34.560
<v Speaker 1>comforted or seen, has always come from somebody else sharing

0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:37.320
<v Speaker 1>their truth honestly. And so I realized that I need

0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:39.600
<v Speaker 1>to do that too. Yeah, well, I appreciate it. And

0:23:39.640 --> 0:23:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you you give a lot of personal anecdotes which helped

0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:44.960
<v Speaker 1>cooking feel a little more relatable because you see a cookbook,

0:23:44.960 --> 0:23:47.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like it's like the ten commandments down from on high,

0:23:47.200 --> 0:23:49.600
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, oh, this is what the wise person

0:23:50.240 --> 0:23:52.440
<v Speaker 1>who knows all tells to me the p on who

0:23:52.440 --> 0:23:54.840
<v Speaker 1>knows nothing, But this is very like a give and take,

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<v Speaker 1>which I appreciate. And and at one point in the book,

0:23:57.359 --> 0:23:59.119
<v Speaker 1>you there's this quote that stuck out to me. You

0:23:59.160 --> 0:24:03.240
<v Speaker 1>said cooking is great, but eating is essential. And that

0:24:03.359 --> 0:24:06.080
<v Speaker 1>was particularly in a section where you recommended a lot

0:24:06.119 --> 0:24:09.080
<v Speaker 1>of really basic dishes like low effort meals. So can

0:24:09.080 --> 0:24:12.360
<v Speaker 1>you talk to us about low effort meals and kind

0:24:12.400 --> 0:24:15.359
<v Speaker 1>of why we should maybe be attempting those first or

0:24:15.400 --> 0:24:19.680
<v Speaker 1>attempting those more often. Yeah, that was I think my

0:24:19.920 --> 0:24:23.399
<v Speaker 1>like me and my twenties would be like no m

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<v Speaker 1>about all of that. Um. I was always like such

0:24:26.960 --> 0:24:29.520
<v Speaker 1>an overachiever. For the longest time, I didn't think it

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:31.879
<v Speaker 1>was because, you know, cooking was like sort of the

0:24:31.920 --> 0:24:34.840
<v Speaker 1>only space where I was like feeling pleasure and creativity

0:24:34.880 --> 0:24:37.640
<v Speaker 1>and all that kind of thing. And now I think

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:39.640
<v Speaker 1>part of it is becoming a parent, part of it

0:24:39.680 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 1>is just getting a little wiser, getting a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more honest. But life is going to Absolutely it is

0:24:47.480 --> 0:24:52.000
<v Speaker 1>an unassailable reality that there will be so many days

0:24:52.119 --> 0:24:55.760
<v Speaker 1>we're just getting some food in your body is the

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<v Speaker 1>best you can do. Like that's a fact, no matter

0:24:58.800 --> 0:25:00.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, they will whether lucky enough to not have

0:25:01.000 --> 0:25:04.840
<v Speaker 1>those days very often. You know, tragedy will happen, hardship

0:25:04.880 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 1>will happen, just too much stress, just not having enough time,

0:25:08.640 --> 0:25:11.200
<v Speaker 1>all these sorts of even you know, even not the

0:25:11.359 --> 0:25:14.160
<v Speaker 1>sort of losing people, like, not that kind of level

0:25:14.160 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 1>of pain, but just sort of the everyday pain they happen.

0:25:16.840 --> 0:25:19.520
<v Speaker 1>And so you've got to have cheese toast, you know,

0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:22.720
<v Speaker 1>you've gotta have cereal, You've gotta like it has to

0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:25.679
<v Speaker 1>be okay to eat crackers and cheese, it has to

0:25:25.720 --> 0:25:28.600
<v Speaker 1>be okay to eat like just a handful of almonds.

0:25:28.720 --> 0:25:32.560
<v Speaker 1>It has to be okay, um, to just be putting

0:25:32.560 --> 0:25:35.919
<v Speaker 1>nourishment into your body. And so I wanted to And

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's something that people who write cookbooks

0:25:38.680 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 1>usually say. And that's totally understandable, because the point of

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:45.359
<v Speaker 1>a cookbook is often to give people like something that

0:25:45.560 --> 0:25:48.440
<v Speaker 1>is a little bit more elevated to create. But what

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I realized again with all the folks who reached out

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:54.560
<v Speaker 1>to me in the past, was that people are longing

0:25:54.600 --> 0:25:56.639
<v Speaker 1>to know that it's okay to eat that way. Like

0:25:56.680 --> 0:25:58.680
<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you how many emails I got about

0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:02.639
<v Speaker 1>there's a set in good and cheap called stuff on toast,

0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:06.400
<v Speaker 1>and it's exactly what it sounds like. It's like, take

0:26:06.480 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 1>some leftovers, take some this takes some that um takes

0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:12.359
<v Speaker 1>some like wilted spinach, and throw it in there and

0:26:12.480 --> 0:26:14.879
<v Speaker 1>put it on some toast and you have a meal.

0:26:15.000 --> 0:26:19.119
<v Speaker 1>And I truly got so many emails from people saying, gosh,

0:26:19.119 --> 0:26:23.160
<v Speaker 1>I feel so validated, like to know it's okay. Yes exactly.

0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:25.920
<v Speaker 1>It's like what a weird position to be in that

0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:28.960
<v Speaker 1>I can kind of give people permission to eat in

0:26:29.000 --> 0:26:31.840
<v Speaker 1>a way that is working for them, and that takes

0:26:31.880 --> 0:26:34.800
<v Speaker 1>that guilt that they're feeling, this idea that they're not

0:26:34.840 --> 0:26:37.600
<v Speaker 1>doing enough that you know, whether it's you know, Instagram

0:26:37.680 --> 0:26:41.480
<v Speaker 1>or the sort of food culture creates this image that

0:26:41.680 --> 0:26:45.920
<v Speaker 1>is completely unattainable for most of us the time. Yeah,

0:26:46.000 --> 0:26:48.919
<v Speaker 1>and again, like I don't think there's anything. There's not

0:26:49.080 --> 0:26:51.520
<v Speaker 1>nobody's like trying to do anything bad. It's like everyone's

0:26:51.520 --> 0:26:54.120
<v Speaker 1>just trying to sell, like make my thing. It looks nice,

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 1>But what it does over time if you don't have

0:26:57.960 --> 0:27:00.959
<v Speaker 1>um sort of some grounding in like eating, you know,

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>being in a family where they cooked relatively often and Um,

0:27:05.080 --> 0:27:06.840
<v Speaker 1>you were fed in a particular way, and you know

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:09.280
<v Speaker 1>what's normal that you know, maybe once or twice a

0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 1>week you have a meal that looks kind of like that, um,

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:14.199
<v Speaker 1>and that's what's normal, rather than for every meal you

0:27:14.240 --> 0:27:17.320
<v Speaker 1>can believe that like, oh everyone else is eating in

0:27:17.320 --> 0:27:20.239
<v Speaker 1>this incredible way. Everything looks great. I am, you know,

0:27:20.680 --> 0:27:23.760
<v Speaker 1>such a failure. And when you feel like a failure,

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:25.440
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to try because you feel like you've

0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:28.360
<v Speaker 1>already failed. So it's to me things like this create

0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:32.399
<v Speaker 1>the chance for people to actually dive in and feel successful,

0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:35.200
<v Speaker 1>which is literally it, right, Like I think we all

0:27:35.240 --> 0:27:38.480
<v Speaker 1>know that sort of boring like thing that everyone talks

0:27:38.480 --> 0:27:40.720
<v Speaker 1>about this time of year, just like just showing up

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:43.439
<v Speaker 1>is most of the battle. But it's true, And so

0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:45.679
<v Speaker 1>showing up in the kitchen, even if it's just to

0:27:46.359 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 1>grab a handful of nuts and not then saying like,

0:27:49.280 --> 0:27:51.520
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I'm such a loser because I just

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:54.399
<v Speaker 1>ate crackers and cheese this week. It's like, well, what

0:27:54.480 --> 0:27:57.040
<v Speaker 1>happened this week? Why did you only eat crackers and cheese?

0:27:57.040 --> 0:27:59.360
<v Speaker 1>Is that really because you're a loser? Is it? Because

0:27:59.720 --> 0:28:03.399
<v Speaker 1>this it was really intense and you don't have you know,

0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:05.760
<v Speaker 1>enough stuff around right now and you weren't able to

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:08.240
<v Speaker 1>get to the grocery store, and like, that's okay. We

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:12.560
<v Speaker 1>don't need to like internalize these things as problems with ourselves,

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 1>but rather problems with our circumstances. Yeah, and you hinted

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:18.159
<v Speaker 1>at this, but you had a baby. You've got a

0:28:18.240 --> 0:28:21.320
<v Speaker 1>daughter now that's you know, pretty young, and so that

0:28:21.359 --> 0:28:23.880
<v Speaker 1>has an impact on the amount of time that you're

0:28:23.880 --> 0:28:26.040
<v Speaker 1>able to dedicate towards food. And one of the things

0:28:26.160 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 1>in your your new cookbook here good Enough, is that

0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I love how you put the t l d R

0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:33.320
<v Speaker 1>the too Long Didn't Read at the top, which it's

0:28:33.359 --> 0:28:36.119
<v Speaker 1>just like a one since its summary, because it quickly

0:28:36.160 --> 0:28:38.440
<v Speaker 1>gives you an idea of what this recipe is going

0:28:38.480 --> 0:28:41.480
<v Speaker 1>to entail. But then once you do have a level

0:28:41.480 --> 0:28:43.800
<v Speaker 1>of comfort where you know you've got some chops, you

0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 1>know how to handle yourself in the kitchen, you can

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:48.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of quickly look at some of those t LDRs

0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:50.440
<v Speaker 1>and they just kind of know what to do already

0:28:50.440 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 1>and you don't need to redress. And I found that incredibly.

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:55.040
<v Speaker 1>That was just yeah, that was just really cool to

0:28:55.360 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 1>see something and to quickly do you feel good about

0:28:58.000 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 1>yourself almost like it's likely I do kind of know

0:29:00.280 --> 0:29:04.720
<v Speaker 1>how to cook it exact that is basic enough for

0:29:04.800 --> 0:29:09.000
<v Speaker 1>dummy like me. Well, and that's what I love about

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 1>doing something like that, because to me, it's like, fundamentally

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:14.560
<v Speaker 1>that's just a shame remover, not only in terms of

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:17.960
<v Speaker 1>just noticing like remember, you know, it looks like it's

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 1>sixteen steps, but it's like cut it up, put it

0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:24.120
<v Speaker 1>in a pan, and he wait till brown put it

0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:26.040
<v Speaker 1>in a bowl at the end, Like that's so much

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>of what we're doing. But um, it's sort of like

0:29:28.960 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 1>we give these intricate steps so that you can really

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:33.680
<v Speaker 1>have success, so you can understand the why of everything.

0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:36.400
<v Speaker 1>But fundamentally, that's all we're doing. And so I think

0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:41.360
<v Speaker 1>sometimes taking that preciousness away can just remind um the

0:29:41.440 --> 0:29:45.400
<v Speaker 1>reader like oh yeah, this is actually really doable. And

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 1>then the other thing is so many people, myself absolutely included.

0:29:50.200 --> 0:29:53.360
<v Speaker 1>Even as a recipe um writer, I don't read the

0:29:53.400 --> 0:29:56.360
<v Speaker 1>recipes most of the time, you know, or like not

0:29:56.440 --> 0:29:59.440
<v Speaker 1>before I do it, even though you should, of course,

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:01.280
<v Speaker 1>like you really should read it all the way through,

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 1>not because like that's the good girl thing to do

0:30:04.000 --> 0:30:06.120
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, but really because it will just give you

0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 1>a greater chance of success, a greater ability to be

0:30:09.440 --> 0:30:12.479
<v Speaker 1>organized and feeling control as you're doing the recipe and

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:15.640
<v Speaker 1>feel calm during it. But I still don't. And so

0:30:15.680 --> 0:30:17.680
<v Speaker 1>it was just a way of acknowledging most of us

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>are not going to read it through before we start,

0:30:19.400 --> 0:30:21.800
<v Speaker 1>and so here's a way, um that you can still

0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:26.000
<v Speaker 1>sort of get the purpose of reading it through before

0:30:26.000 --> 0:30:29.400
<v Speaker 1>you start ahead of time, UM, so that you can

0:30:29.760 --> 0:30:31.400
<v Speaker 1>feel good and you don't have to and you don't

0:30:31.400 --> 0:30:34.920
<v Speaker 1>feel again like ashamed like that I as the this

0:30:35.240 --> 0:30:38.480
<v Speaker 1>big cookbook author from on high is judging and going, oh,

0:30:38.520 --> 0:30:40.959
<v Speaker 1>I'm so offended you didn't read through my own recipe

0:30:41.040 --> 0:30:44.959
<v Speaker 1>and respect my every word and suggestion. It's like, now

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>we're all just human, Like I just want you to

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 1>eat well. I want you to feel good about the

0:30:48.960 --> 0:30:51.520
<v Speaker 1>food that you're making at home. I want you to

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:55.720
<v Speaker 1>know that your taste matters more than mine to you

0:30:56.160 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 1>as well. That's the other thing that's really important to me,

0:30:58.440 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 1>le And we are a money podcast, and you know,

0:31:01.000 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 1>when we're talking about food, one of the big problems

0:31:03.480 --> 0:31:05.719
<v Speaker 1>with when it comes to how much we spend on

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 1>food is throwing food away and so yeah, what what

0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:13.280
<v Speaker 1>should we be tossing items out that are past that

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:16.040
<v Speaker 1>used by date or how can we get better? I

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:18.920
<v Speaker 1>guess about using all the food that's on hand, not

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 1>throwing stuff away, not forgetting about the leftovers that are

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:26.200
<v Speaker 1>in the back of the fridge, all that kind of stuff. Yeah, absolutely,

0:31:26.200 --> 0:31:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I think that is probably if you want to save

0:31:28.760 --> 0:31:35.160
<v Speaker 1>money without making huge changes um to your lifestyle, really

0:31:35.200 --> 0:31:38.080
<v Speaker 1>working on your waste management was probably like one of

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 1>the quickest routes um. And but the ways to do

0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:43.520
<v Speaker 1>that are like, yes, absolutely, you can use a ton

0:31:43.560 --> 0:31:47.640
<v Speaker 1>of things are fine after they're um they're used by date,

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 1>but it does depend on the thing, and so I

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 1>it's almost like I don't know that we can get

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:55.440
<v Speaker 1>into that necessarily. Yeah. It's like you know, if there's

0:31:55.440 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 1>like blue gunk on your yogurt, throw it out, um,

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:01.080
<v Speaker 1>you know. But like there's but there's all kinds of

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:04.640
<v Speaker 1>things like like especially canned items, things like that. They're

0:32:04.640 --> 0:32:08.080
<v Speaker 1>often absolutely fine for long even I hate to say,

0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:11.680
<v Speaker 1>but like almost years afterwards. Um. And same with there's

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 1>all kinds of things. It's like if it isn't ransid,

0:32:13.880 --> 0:32:16.080
<v Speaker 1>if it isn't moldy, like of course, you can use

0:32:16.120 --> 0:32:18.960
<v Speaker 1>it and then when it comes to you know, something

0:32:19.000 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 1>that I talked about a lot is like with fresh produce. Um.

0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:23.760
<v Speaker 1>That's something that a lot of people struggle with waist

0:32:23.840 --> 0:32:27.320
<v Speaker 1>around because there's a sort of phenomenon where you get excited,

0:32:27.320 --> 0:32:28.920
<v Speaker 1>You're like, yeah, I'm going to cook all this stuff

0:32:28.920 --> 0:32:31.280
<v Speaker 1>this week, and you buy maybe a little more than

0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:34.719
<v Speaker 1>it's totally realistic, um, and then you end up with

0:32:34.760 --> 0:32:38.000
<v Speaker 1>like welch spinach and like yucky tomatoes, and then you

0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:41.640
<v Speaker 1>feel bad about it and you actually have a sception

0:32:41.720 --> 0:32:44.400
<v Speaker 1>and uh, my new book Good Enough about sort of

0:32:44.440 --> 0:32:47.520
<v Speaker 1>that like shame cycle of where you're like so embarrassed

0:32:47.520 --> 0:32:50.240
<v Speaker 1>that you have the gross spinach that you ignore it

0:32:50.280 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 1>for another week, like hoping cycle to avoid. Yeah. Well,

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:57.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean on that note, I mean I thought you

0:32:57.480 --> 0:33:00.240
<v Speaker 1>you talked well about not only the foods that are

0:33:00.240 --> 0:33:03.120
<v Speaker 1>going to keep well and the foods that probably don't

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:05.160
<v Speaker 1>do well as leftovers, but you gave some tips as

0:33:05.160 --> 0:33:07.960
<v Speaker 1>well as two ways, like just different things we can

0:33:07.960 --> 0:33:12.040
<v Speaker 1>do to make eating leftovers more successful. Uh do you

0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 1>mind sharing some of those? Sure? Absolutely so. And I

0:33:15.360 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 1>have lots of this in Good and Cheap, which is

0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:20.400
<v Speaker 1>freely available online too, especially for something like a stew

0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:24.960
<v Speaker 1>or a soup, reusing it just in a slightly different way.

0:33:25.360 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Um often just after you make it, putting it directly

0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:31.719
<v Speaker 1>in the freezer. Really, these are most of my tips

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:34.840
<v Speaker 1>are they're almost they're boring, but they're just about like,

0:33:34.920 --> 0:33:37.920
<v Speaker 1>just be realistic and try to be consistent with yourself,

0:33:38.080 --> 0:33:42.360
<v Speaker 1>um plan, try to like make realistic meal plans rather

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:44.080
<v Speaker 1>than these like pine in this guy like I'm gonna

0:33:44.200 --> 0:33:46.960
<v Speaker 1>cook every single you know, three meals a day every

0:33:47.040 --> 0:33:49.640
<v Speaker 1>day this week. It's like, is that really realistic? Especially

0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:51.440
<v Speaker 1>we're in January now, and it's like people have all

0:33:51.440 --> 0:33:53.080
<v Speaker 1>these New York resolutions and they're like, I'm going to

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 1>be the best cook ever ever. It's just such a

0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 1>setup and the kind of breaks my heart because it's

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:01.680
<v Speaker 1>like then if you crash and burn at that, then

0:34:01.720 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 1>you think like, oh my god, I could never do that.

0:34:03.360 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 1>It's like, well, actually, if you just had a more

0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:08.080
<v Speaker 1>realistic goal, you probably would be able to be consistent

0:34:08.120 --> 0:34:09.799
<v Speaker 1>about it. And then the other thing is like with

0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:13.800
<v Speaker 1>those wilted like the wilted situation, there's so many recipes

0:34:13.800 --> 0:34:15.960
<v Speaker 1>where you can actually still use those things. You know,

0:34:16.000 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 1>you maybe don't want to use like wilted spinach in

0:34:17.680 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 1>a salad if you can use it in like a

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:24.799
<v Speaker 1>keish or um of course, like soups and stews and saute's.

0:34:24.960 --> 0:34:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Like there's so many places where vegetables don't need to

0:34:28.640 --> 0:34:32.759
<v Speaker 1>be perfectly fresh. Um. Even roasting vegetables um like like

0:34:32.840 --> 0:34:34.800
<v Speaker 1>doing like a tray sort of bake in the oven.

0:34:35.360 --> 0:34:38.640
<v Speaker 1>Those all can be fabulous ways to read it. So

0:34:38.680 --> 0:34:41.839
<v Speaker 1>I think just like really trying to um, stay on

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:45.279
<v Speaker 1>top of that and and just being again being realistic

0:34:45.320 --> 0:34:48.760
<v Speaker 1>with yourself doesn't mean giving up on yourself. It actually

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:50.480
<v Speaker 1>is like the better way to really like give yourself

0:34:50.520 --> 0:34:53.319
<v Speaker 1>a chance of success. So saying like I'm gonna make

0:34:53.480 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 1>three meals this week that have these fresh vegetables and

0:34:56.080 --> 0:34:58.320
<v Speaker 1>I have a plan for them, and then you won't

0:34:58.400 --> 0:35:01.439
<v Speaker 1>end up like with these things that that are wasted. Yeah,

0:35:01.520 --> 0:35:03.480
<v Speaker 1>And you mean you gave some very just simple practical

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 1>stuff to you. I mean, like you know, keeping your

0:35:05.320 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 1>leftovers and clear containers so that you can actually see

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>what's inside of them, or keeping all of the you know,

0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:12.840
<v Speaker 1>the food that's that's ready for them. The glassock ones

0:35:13.080 --> 0:35:17.000
<v Speaker 1>are so fabulous, like there and there you can clean

0:35:17.040 --> 0:35:20.239
<v Speaker 1>them so easily. Um, you can. Everything looks nice in them,

0:35:20.280 --> 0:35:23.120
<v Speaker 1>They look appealing. It reminds you that it's there. All

0:35:23.160 --> 0:35:25.840
<v Speaker 1>that kind of stuff. Yeah, absolutely, well, all that like

0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:28.560
<v Speaker 1>by behavioral science, you know where it's like keep your

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>chocolate covered pretzels in the jars that you can't see through,

0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:35.200
<v Speaker 1>so that you don't just eat those, and keep the yeah,

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 1>the food that you want to snack on, the carrot

0:35:37.200 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 1>sticks in in a clear glass jar exactly. Yeah. So

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:42.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I was kind of asking about that

0:35:42.840 --> 0:35:44.840
<v Speaker 1>because I I feel like I'm, you know, here at

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:47.600
<v Speaker 1>how the money at least I'm the king of leftovers. Leftovers.

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:51.439
<v Speaker 1>Uh and and that's a style thing, right absolutely, people

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:54.239
<v Speaker 1>is like a badge of monitor. Yeah, had it on

0:35:54.239 --> 0:35:57.719
<v Speaker 1>my bicep. But yeah, we've got several other questions we

0:35:57.760 --> 0:35:59.839
<v Speaker 1>want to get to including we we want to talk

0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:02.120
<v Speaker 1>to you too about like meal delivery, your thoughts on that,

0:36:02.800 --> 0:36:04.959
<v Speaker 1>getting out of ruts as well when it comes to cooking.

0:36:05.000 --> 0:36:15.680
<v Speaker 1>We'll get to all that right after this break. All right,

0:36:15.680 --> 0:36:17.759
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna keep this train rolling. We're talking with Lean

0:36:17.880 --> 0:36:22.879
<v Speaker 1>Brown about making good food on less money. And uh, Lean,

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:24.799
<v Speaker 1>we we hinted at the beginning of the show where

0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I mentioned that all these basically are quick go to

0:36:28.520 --> 0:36:30.440
<v Speaker 1>answer for people who want to save money when it

0:36:30.480 --> 0:36:32.359
<v Speaker 1>comes to cooking their own food. It seems like lean

0:36:32.400 --> 0:36:35.239
<v Speaker 1>approved too, and that was like, up, what's your take

0:36:35.280 --> 0:36:38.879
<v Speaker 1>on the low cost grocery stores? Okay, all right, yeah

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:40.959
<v Speaker 1>it's great. I mean all the is a great place.

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>Not only it's like low cost, but it's also they

0:36:43.560 --> 0:36:46.919
<v Speaker 1>have really good quality basics, which allows you to make

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:50.880
<v Speaker 1>really great quality food at home. Um okay, so full disclosure.

0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I actually was like on an Aldi like board a

0:36:54.040 --> 0:36:58.920
<v Speaker 1>few years ago. They like, I was consulting for something. Um,

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 1>so I am a fan of theirs, and uh, I

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 1>just yeah, I just I think they are doing a

0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:07.279
<v Speaker 1>really good job. I think the way that they cut

0:37:07.320 --> 0:37:10.480
<v Speaker 1>costs is usually like to reduce like packaging and to

0:37:10.560 --> 0:37:12.799
<v Speaker 1>reduce the way that they advertise and things like that.

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 1>So none of those actually affect the quality of food.

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>You're still yeah, yeah, And because it's again it's like

0:37:18.600 --> 0:37:21.759
<v Speaker 1>it's your water down milk or anything like that, you

0:37:21.760 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>know exactly, no, not at all all of its cood quality.

0:37:24.239 --> 0:37:26.160
<v Speaker 1>And because it's yeah it's Germans, like they have like

0:37:26.200 --> 0:37:28.719
<v Speaker 1>that good German chocolate and stuff like that, like they

0:37:28.760 --> 0:37:31.560
<v Speaker 1>have good food there, and so yeah, I I absolutely

0:37:31.600 --> 0:37:35.279
<v Speaker 1>think that they're a wonderful place to start shopping and

0:37:35.600 --> 0:37:37.760
<v Speaker 1>in addition to cooking for ourselves, which can be a challenge,

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, I can dundrum for many parents, uh that

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:43.000
<v Speaker 1>that they face our kids who are picky eaters, you know,

0:37:43.200 --> 0:37:45.960
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of kids are begging for snacks, for

0:37:46.000 --> 0:37:47.640
<v Speaker 1>the fruit roll ups and stuff that their friends have

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:50.560
<v Speaker 1>in their school lunches. How how do you deal or

0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:52.879
<v Speaker 1>how do you recommend dealing with the best complaints because

0:37:52.960 --> 0:37:56.319
<v Speaker 1>I assume your baby, your toddler isn't necessarily the same,

0:37:57.080 --> 0:37:59.160
<v Speaker 1>of course, you know, that's always the funny thing, right,

0:37:59.200 --> 0:38:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I think, And again I guess I'll go We'll go

0:38:01.160 --> 0:38:04.279
<v Speaker 1>back to uh just normalizing, like it's just yeah, that's

0:38:04.280 --> 0:38:06.600
<v Speaker 1>what kids are like, um, and that's okay. And so

0:38:06.640 --> 0:38:09.759
<v Speaker 1>I think part of it is acceptance, like just sort

0:38:09.760 --> 0:38:13.479
<v Speaker 1>of surrendering to when children are young, they are going

0:38:13.560 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 1>to be what we call picky, which really is like

0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:22.520
<v Speaker 1>again from a historical sort of evolutionary biology perspective, is

0:38:22.560 --> 0:38:26.320
<v Speaker 1>completely appropriate. It's a real thing that they're experiencing their body.

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:30.040
<v Speaker 1>They have a very strong disgust response to um new

0:38:30.120 --> 0:38:33.239
<v Speaker 1>foods in order for you know, millions of years ago

0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:38.720
<v Speaker 1>or many many many millennia go protecting themselves from eating

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:42.120
<v Speaker 1>something poisonous um. And so these are like strong biological

0:38:42.160 --> 0:38:44.239
<v Speaker 1>responses that they're having in their body and so on

0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:46.920
<v Speaker 1>that note, Basically, what I always say is kind of

0:38:46.920 --> 0:38:49.359
<v Speaker 1>like don't stress and don't try to fight it too much,

0:38:49.520 --> 0:38:52.480
<v Speaker 1>because like then you can create like all this sort

0:38:52.480 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>of misery around food and fighting that you don't that

0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:58.480
<v Speaker 1>like it's just a losing battle. Um. So part of

0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:01.480
<v Speaker 1>the acceptance and then and yeah, and just knowing that

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:03.520
<v Speaker 1>like you know, your kids probably gonna cry when you

0:39:03.560 --> 0:39:06.879
<v Speaker 1>say no to the tenth threat of the day, and

0:39:06.960 --> 0:39:10.520
<v Speaker 1>that that is also okay and um, and that for

0:39:10.600 --> 0:39:12.719
<v Speaker 1>kids to want to eat mac and cheese every day

0:39:12.800 --> 0:39:14.879
<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean you are a failure. It doesn't mean there's

0:39:14.920 --> 0:39:17.160
<v Speaker 1>anything wrong with them. And it also doesn't mean that

0:39:17.200 --> 0:39:19.800
<v Speaker 1>they're not going to eat a huge and wonderful variety

0:39:19.800 --> 0:39:21.719
<v Speaker 1>of foods when they're older. And it might mean that

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:25.640
<v Speaker 1>you're making mac and cheese, you know, or that you

0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:30.160
<v Speaker 1>are raising a survivor exactly that Yeah, like I know

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:33.840
<v Speaker 1>it sounds so silly, But the evolutionary biology piece I

0:39:33.880 --> 0:39:37.000
<v Speaker 1>often do bring in because I think that parents forget

0:39:37.080 --> 0:39:39.239
<v Speaker 1>like when the kid, you know, when you've had that

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 1>like your kid tries something that they liked last week

0:39:42.280 --> 0:39:44.880
<v Speaker 1>and then they get this like just repulsed look on

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:47.839
<v Speaker 1>their face. They're not faking it. It's like they're really

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>having an experience in their body that is hard for

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:53.880
<v Speaker 1>them to control. Um, it's so it's not personal, but

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:55.920
<v Speaker 1>that's really hard. You know, it's hard when and especially

0:39:56.000 --> 0:39:59.120
<v Speaker 1>for those of us who you know, preparing food for

0:39:59.480 --> 0:40:02.600
<v Speaker 1>the people love is a way of expressing love, it

0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:05.800
<v Speaker 1>can feel like a rejection when they don't, and especially

0:40:05.840 --> 0:40:07.600
<v Speaker 1>because the other way we try to show love is

0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:09.719
<v Speaker 1>by taking care of each other's body. So when you're

0:40:09.719 --> 0:40:11.840
<v Speaker 1>trying to say be like we're putting peas in the

0:40:11.840 --> 0:40:16.000
<v Speaker 1>mac and cheese and they're like never tossed across room. Um,

0:40:16.120 --> 0:40:18.799
<v Speaker 1>it can hurt. But just know that that's normal and

0:40:18.840 --> 0:40:21.600
<v Speaker 1>that it's not personal, and just that it's a process,

0:40:21.640 --> 0:40:25.520
<v Speaker 1>and that nobody cookbook authors and you know, parenting advice

0:40:25.560 --> 0:40:29.080
<v Speaker 1>columnists and all of us are struggling with the exact

0:40:29.160 --> 0:40:31.680
<v Speaker 1>same thing. All right, I want to know your take

0:40:31.760 --> 0:40:34.160
<v Speaker 1>on meal delivery services. It's one of those things that

0:40:34.160 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 1>that my wife and I we've tried, and by my

0:40:36.080 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>wife and I mean mostly she's like she's like wanted

0:40:39.000 --> 0:40:41.960
<v Speaker 1>to do it, and we got just like a super

0:40:42.080 --> 0:40:46.200
<v Speaker 1>cheap trial offer, right, and my wife really enjoyed it

0:40:46.280 --> 0:40:48.799
<v Speaker 1>just having all the media ingredients shipped to the door,

0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:51.839
<v Speaker 1>and then it was just incredibly easy to cook a

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:53.960
<v Speaker 1>meal and to get out of maybe the rut of

0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:56.360
<v Speaker 1>some of the things that were used to cooking. But

0:40:56.480 --> 0:40:59.360
<v Speaker 1>then on the regular basis, it's just it's prohibitively expensive.

0:40:59.360 --> 0:41:01.640
<v Speaker 1>We thought it, but you know, what's your take on those?

0:41:01.640 --> 0:41:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Because she felt great after doing it and the food

0:41:04.320 --> 0:41:07.719
<v Speaker 1>was good too. Yes, So I think it has a

0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.720
<v Speaker 1>time to place. And I think really what you said

0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:13.840
<v Speaker 1>is my own experience and the experience of you know,

0:41:13.880 --> 0:41:15.919
<v Speaker 1>many many people who I've I've talked with. I think

0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:17.960
<v Speaker 1>it can be really nice thing to do for a

0:41:18.000 --> 0:41:20.719
<v Speaker 1>period of time if you are feeling stuck in a

0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:23.640
<v Speaker 1>rut or you're needing to kind of reconnect with cooking

0:41:23.760 --> 0:41:26.600
<v Speaker 1>or reconnect with some new flavors. Um it can be

0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:29.320
<v Speaker 1>a really great thing to try for a little while

0:41:29.400 --> 0:41:31.799
<v Speaker 1>to bring something new into your life. Um, in a

0:41:31.840 --> 0:41:33.880
<v Speaker 1>way that is, you know, not the pressure of like

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:37.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to create, like like get a new cookbook

0:41:37.280 --> 0:41:39.200
<v Speaker 1>and cook it through it or something like that. It's

0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:41.200
<v Speaker 1>something where it's all delivered to your door and all

0:41:41.280 --> 0:41:43.640
<v Speaker 1>that kind of thing. It's contained someone else is doing

0:41:43.640 --> 0:41:46.200
<v Speaker 1>the decision making. I think all of that is great.

0:41:46.320 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 1>And yes, some of the trial offers also can be

0:41:48.719 --> 0:41:53.000
<v Speaker 1>really reasonably priced. Um. But yeah, over time, the downsides

0:41:53.040 --> 0:41:55.960
<v Speaker 1>are absolutely most of them. You don't do the same

0:41:56.000 --> 0:41:58.640
<v Speaker 1>thing again, and so sometimes you know, if you're having

0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:00.600
<v Speaker 1>it like five days a week, it can be it's

0:42:00.640 --> 0:42:03.400
<v Speaker 1>just a lot of cooking, which sometimes can put you

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 1>off a little bit, and it's not the same thing

0:42:05.760 --> 0:42:08.040
<v Speaker 1>because you know, much as many of us are like

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:09.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm not at all a five year old, were also

0:42:09.880 --> 0:42:11.719
<v Speaker 1>kind of five year old and the things we like

0:42:11.960 --> 0:42:17.440
<v Speaker 1>sometimes again right, um, And so you're also talking about

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:20.839
<v Speaker 1>cost again. One of the best ways to have things

0:42:20.920 --> 0:42:23.279
<v Speaker 1>below cost is to do repeat meals and to have

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:25.719
<v Speaker 1>sort of your rotation of favorites that you always have

0:42:25.800 --> 0:42:28.480
<v Speaker 1>the ingredients for and that you can always make. Um.

0:42:28.640 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 1>That is absolutely going to be a great way to

0:42:31.560 --> 0:42:35.120
<v Speaker 1>save money in the long term. Um. So so Yeah, basically,

0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:37.920
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a style thing. I think it's also

0:42:37.960 --> 0:42:40.839
<v Speaker 1>something that's really lovely for parents. It's something I would

0:42:40.840 --> 0:42:43.360
<v Speaker 1>love to give to like parents of a new baby

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:46.319
<v Speaker 1>w they have one baby, not when you have like

0:42:46.360 --> 0:42:48.719
<v Speaker 1>a four year old too, or a two year old

0:42:48.760 --> 0:42:51.160
<v Speaker 1>as well, but parents of a new baby sort of

0:42:51.200 --> 0:42:52.759
<v Speaker 1>who have a little bit of time and you can

0:42:52.800 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 1>hold like a newborn and like create some fresh food

0:42:55.800 --> 0:42:59.200
<v Speaker 1>but have it all delivered in this sort of contained way, UM,

0:42:59.239 --> 0:43:01.160
<v Speaker 1>but maybe have time to do like a half hour

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:03.839
<v Speaker 1>forty five minute UM kind of cook session. I think

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:05.719
<v Speaker 1>it can be really good. And then, of course the

0:43:05.760 --> 0:43:10.839
<v Speaker 1>other criticism is most of them require tremendous amounts of

0:43:10.880 --> 0:43:14.799
<v Speaker 1>packaging UM, which is wasted not only UM. And then

0:43:14.800 --> 0:43:17.840
<v Speaker 1>there's the single serving nature of it, which again is

0:43:18.080 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 1>all to the good in order to take UM, your

0:43:21.000 --> 0:43:24.759
<v Speaker 1>sort of the mental energy that you would put into

0:43:24.800 --> 0:43:27.520
<v Speaker 1>this is taken away by making it these lovely single

0:43:27.560 --> 0:43:32.080
<v Speaker 1>serving things. But also it creates like an environmental waste issue,

0:43:32.160 --> 0:43:36.400
<v Speaker 1>which I don't think it's really worth it in the end, unfortunately,

0:43:36.520 --> 0:43:38.440
<v Speaker 1>and there are are places that are working on that,

0:43:38.520 --> 0:43:40.600
<v Speaker 1>but I think even you know, the sort of best

0:43:40.640 --> 0:43:43.719
<v Speaker 1>of the best really eco minded ones are still you know,

0:43:43.800 --> 0:43:46.040
<v Speaker 1>it's still like it's a fridge box shows up at

0:43:46.040 --> 0:43:50.279
<v Speaker 1>your every day at a front step, Like, is there

0:43:50.320 --> 0:43:53.000
<v Speaker 1>a way to do that that isn't bad for the environment?

0:43:53.880 --> 0:43:57.719
<v Speaker 1>So okay, speaking of the environment, meat protein, animal protein specifically,

0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:01.359
<v Speaker 1>is this purely like an American obsession because not only

0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:06.400
<v Speaker 1>is it happening, yeah, just the quantities that we consume

0:44:06.719 --> 0:44:10.080
<v Speaker 1>animal proteins here in the States because obviously it's expensive, right,

0:44:10.520 --> 0:44:12.960
<v Speaker 1>and it's something that we think a lot about when

0:44:13.000 --> 0:44:15.399
<v Speaker 1>it comes to our meals. But you know, you also

0:44:15.440 --> 0:44:17.560
<v Speaker 1>read the work of Mutner and just the amount of

0:44:17.600 --> 0:44:21.160
<v Speaker 1>protein that other cultures eat has shown to to lead

0:44:21.160 --> 0:44:23.239
<v Speaker 1>to even till the longer lives. And so I would

0:44:23.280 --> 0:44:25.400
<v Speaker 1>love to hear your thoughts on the amount of animal

0:44:25.400 --> 0:44:28.000
<v Speaker 1>protein that we can see. Yeah, for sure, I mean

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I would agree with that, Like it's we don't need

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 1>as much as we think we do. It's just a

0:44:32.760 --> 0:44:37.160
<v Speaker 1>myth um And yeah, this sort of it's almost like

0:44:37.280 --> 0:44:39.400
<v Speaker 1>there's this American like I have a right to the

0:44:39.440 --> 0:44:41.480
<v Speaker 1>amount of meat that I want kind of thing. And

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:44.719
<v Speaker 1>there's also been this cultural obsession for the last you know,

0:44:45.200 --> 0:44:48.280
<v Speaker 1>many decades of trying to make meat cheaper and cheaper

0:44:48.280 --> 0:44:51.360
<v Speaker 1>and cheaper, because there's just like fundamental human right to

0:44:51.440 --> 0:44:53.920
<v Speaker 1>meet and it's like that doesn't actually make sense, and

0:44:53.960 --> 0:44:56.680
<v Speaker 1>it's sort of this like false market that's been created,

0:44:56.680 --> 0:44:59.600
<v Speaker 1>and it comes at tremendous costs to of course animal welfare,

0:45:00.120 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 1>environment and actually I think our health as well. And

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:07.120
<v Speaker 1>it's it's not on only American accept obsession. I think

0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:10.200
<v Speaker 1>it's anywhere where there's affluence in the world, which is

0:45:10.239 --> 0:45:15.000
<v Speaker 1>all over the world, meat consumption, dairy consumption um is

0:45:15.160 --> 0:45:18.759
<v Speaker 1>on the rise, and yeah, I think it's just sensible

0:45:18.800 --> 0:45:22.239
<v Speaker 1>and good for us to bring some reality to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Veganism and stuff is so much on the rise, especially

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<v Speaker 1>amongst um younger, younger people, and I think that's wonderful

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<v Speaker 1>for people to just have different meal patterns and to

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<v Speaker 1>begin to uh just learn to eat in different ways

0:45:36.520 --> 0:45:38.960
<v Speaker 1>and in different ways that sort of our body and

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<v Speaker 1>so that we can all like as a culture begin

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<v Speaker 1>to realize, like you don't have to eat a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of meat in order to be an athlete or something.

0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:49.520
<v Speaker 1>You can be like a really strict careful vegan and

0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:53.719
<v Speaker 1>who's also gluten free and whatever, and like be a

0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:56.560
<v Speaker 1>weightlifter and all these kinds of things. Um to just

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<v Speaker 1>sort of take away some of these essentialist um sorts

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<v Speaker 1>of notions. I think is always good, Like it's all

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<v Speaker 1>about us as individuals and what we individually need. And Leeann,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, we love the work that you've been

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<v Speaker 1>putting out there, and we love your mission to help

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<v Speaker 1>people eat better on less money. And the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you also you put your money where your mouth is

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<v Speaker 1>and you give away that cookbook that you wrote, which

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<v Speaker 1>again will link to in the show notes. But yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for joining us working. How do

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<v Speaker 1>money listeners find out more about you, about what you're

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<v Speaker 1>up to and about your brand new cookbook? Awesome? Um, well,

0:46:31.440 --> 0:46:34.400
<v Speaker 1>you can always go to Leanne Brown dot com. Just

0:46:34.520 --> 0:46:37.520
<v Speaker 1>my name l E A and and E Brown just

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<v Speaker 1>like the color my website. And then I'm on Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of the only social media I do any

0:46:42.400 --> 0:46:47.000
<v Speaker 1>anything regularly on Leanne E Brown there. Yeah, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be just trying to get the word out about good enough.

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<v Speaker 1>You can border it now, that would be wonderful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm so honored anyone wants to engage with

0:46:55.600 --> 0:46:59.040
<v Speaker 1>my recipes, with my writing. Um, it's an absolute joy

0:46:59.120 --> 0:47:02.759
<v Speaker 1>to be here, and I'm excited to offer anything and

0:47:03.000 --> 0:47:05.120
<v Speaker 1>reach out any time. If anything resonates with you, I'd

0:47:05.120 --> 0:47:07.200
<v Speaker 1>love to hear it. All right, we'll be awaiting that

0:47:07.360 --> 0:47:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Lean Brown TikTok page in your future, right about Leanne.

0:47:12.360 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for joining us today. Thank you

0:47:14.800 --> 0:47:17.520
<v Speaker 1>so it's fun, all right, Matt gotta love that conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with Lean Brown. I feel like she's part food therapist,

0:47:20.680 --> 0:47:23.560
<v Speaker 1>part book author, so true how to money co host.

0:47:23.760 --> 0:47:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like even though she's you know, craft beer

0:47:26.600 --> 0:47:29.840
<v Speaker 1>isn't necessarily her thing, I feel like she uh speaks

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<v Speaker 1>about food and approaches it in the same way that

0:47:32.480 --> 0:47:35.360
<v Speaker 1>we approach personal finance. Yes, And I think, well, you know,

0:47:35.440 --> 0:47:38.360
<v Speaker 1>we've talked about this before, to that shame and guilt

0:47:38.520 --> 0:47:40.480
<v Speaker 1>and how we need to avoid that when it comes

0:47:40.520 --> 0:47:43.960
<v Speaker 1>to our money progress. And it's easy to compare ourselves

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<v Speaker 1>to what other people have been able to accomplish, and

0:47:46.320 --> 0:47:48.440
<v Speaker 1>if we do that, we're sending ourselves up for failure.

0:47:48.480 --> 0:47:50.080
<v Speaker 1>And she's saying the same thing. With food, it's easier

0:47:50.080 --> 0:47:52.319
<v Speaker 1>to see your neighbor and the nice meal they just

0:47:52.680 --> 0:47:54.759
<v Speaker 1>turned out and maybe invited you over for, and you're like,

0:47:54.800 --> 0:47:56.600
<v Speaker 1>why don't I do stuff like that? But that's not

0:47:56.640 --> 0:47:59.120
<v Speaker 1>what you're comparing yourself to. That's unhealthy and you're not

0:47:59.160 --> 0:48:00.880
<v Speaker 1>going to make much progress that way. But what was

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<v Speaker 1>your big takeaway from this conversation with Lean, Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to continue to pay you back off of this

0:48:05.200 --> 0:48:07.000
<v Speaker 1>conversation because it does have to do with that shame

0:48:07.080 --> 0:48:09.680
<v Speaker 1>and guilts and what she's what she was really getting at,

0:48:09.719 --> 0:48:11.759
<v Speaker 1>I think with good Enough with this new cookbook is

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<v Speaker 1>that there's a mindset shift that takes place with how

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<v Speaker 1>it is that you cook. It's not necessarily about the

0:48:17.800 --> 0:48:20.160
<v Speaker 1>nuts and bolts per se, It's not about you know,

0:48:20.200 --> 0:48:21.919
<v Speaker 1>it is about some of the technique, but she's really

0:48:21.920 --> 0:48:25.040
<v Speaker 1>speaking to the mindset shift that that takes place when

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<v Speaker 1>you can think about cooking uh in a different way.

0:48:28.120 --> 0:48:30.080
<v Speaker 1>And then she was talking about how that can empower

0:48:30.120 --> 0:48:32.560
<v Speaker 1>you to make other positive changes in your life. And

0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:34.520
<v Speaker 1>that is one what we try to do here on

0:48:34.520 --> 0:48:36.440
<v Speaker 1>the show when it comes to our money. Yes, we

0:48:36.520 --> 0:48:38.200
<v Speaker 1>do talk a lot about the nuts and bolts, just

0:48:38.239 --> 0:48:41.319
<v Speaker 1>like yes, she does talk about how the microplane is

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<v Speaker 1>a affordable, great sool to spice up your dishes and

0:48:44.600 --> 0:48:48.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, great whatever, fine cheese you want over that, Carbonara,

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<v Speaker 1>and we do talk about the specific things and laws

0:48:50.880 --> 0:48:52.840
<v Speaker 1>that are changing and the techniques when it comes to

0:48:52.920 --> 0:48:54.920
<v Speaker 1>how it is that you can save and invest your money,

0:48:54.920 --> 0:48:57.439
<v Speaker 1>but so much of it has to do with how

0:48:57.680 --> 0:49:00.880
<v Speaker 1>you mentally approach the money that you earn, the money

0:49:00.920 --> 0:49:03.160
<v Speaker 1>that you spend, the money that you save. Because you

0:49:03.200 --> 0:49:05.480
<v Speaker 1>can be doing all the correct things, but if you

0:49:05.480 --> 0:49:07.480
<v Speaker 1>feel guilty about it, or if you feel that you're

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<v Speaker 1>never making enough, those negative attitudes canna have a terrible

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<v Speaker 1>effect on our ability to enjoy our money and to

0:49:13.719 --> 0:49:15.960
<v Speaker 1>do things with it that we want to. So that

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<v Speaker 1>one was a little more esoteric. I guess it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>that she gave the stamp of approval for all the

0:49:21.520 --> 0:49:23.480
<v Speaker 1>But yet, what was your your big take away? Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did appreciate that because we love all the and

0:49:25.840 --> 0:49:28.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad she does too. But I think my big

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<v Speaker 1>thing was really starts of the beginning of the conversation

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:35.600
<v Speaker 1>when she basically said, technique is greater than costly ingredients,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think sometimes we think we need the finest

0:49:37.640 --> 0:49:39.640
<v Speaker 1>stuff in order to cook well. And that was yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when we were talking about all that, she was saying

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<v Speaker 1>that like the ingredients are great there. It's not like that.

0:49:43.320 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 1>It's a frugal first is cheap and you're making a

0:49:45.040 --> 0:49:46.920
<v Speaker 1>trade off and you're getting the cheap stuff at all

0:49:46.920 --> 0:49:48.359
<v Speaker 1>the and you're like, well, is it worth paying less?

0:49:48.360 --> 0:49:51.399
<v Speaker 1>And those ingredients inferior quality are good enough? Yes they are.

0:49:51.520 --> 0:49:53.680
<v Speaker 1>They're they're very good ingredients. She's not telling us to

0:49:53.719 --> 0:49:56.399
<v Speaker 1>go to Whole Foods or whatever, you know, super high

0:49:56.400 --> 0:49:59.000
<v Speaker 1>and local grocery that you have wherever you live. Just

0:49:59.080 --> 0:50:02.480
<v Speaker 1>learning a couple of basic techniques trying out. I think

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<v Speaker 1>starting with some of those you know, low effort meals

0:50:04.719 --> 0:50:08.200
<v Speaker 1>that she that she describes in this Newest cookebook, are

0:50:08.280 --> 0:50:10.040
<v Speaker 1>are great ways to kind of get the ball rolling,

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<v Speaker 1>because yeah, you don't have to go get the nicest stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was just at Costco the other day, Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>like I am, and there were I realized Ribby steaks

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<v Speaker 1>were double the price that they were fifteen months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>like double for real, And I was like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>eating Ribby like these days. Like it's a it's a

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<v Speaker 1>very very like once you hear treat typically maybe twice um,

0:50:28.680 --> 0:50:31.120
<v Speaker 1>but I'm like, well, I'm probably for going Ribbi for

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<v Speaker 1>the foreseeable future until those prices start to come back down.

0:50:33.800 --> 0:50:34.960
<v Speaker 1>And and that's the kind of thing though, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like there's ways to cook delicious meals that don't

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<v Speaker 1>involve twenty dollar pound Rabbi exactly. No, I love it, man,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's go ahead and shift gears. Get back

0:50:41.440 --> 0:50:44.239
<v Speaker 1>to the beer that you and I enjoyed during this episode.

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<v Speaker 1>This was a stout that was barrel aged by our

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<v Speaker 1>friend Jess uh and he and his friends brew under

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<v Speaker 1>the name Easy Chair Brewing Garage. What were your thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>on this beer? Alright? So I love that it was

0:50:54.840 --> 0:50:56.919
<v Speaker 1>a barrel aged town because it had some of that

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<v Speaker 1>I think he said Woodford Reserve barres. I forget what

0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:04.480
<v Speaker 1>he said. Maybe was um trace ok alright, so yeah

0:51:04.520 --> 0:51:07.319
<v Speaker 1>it had it had some of that whiskey note on

0:51:07.360 --> 0:51:10.200
<v Speaker 1>the finish. But at the same time, it was low

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<v Speaker 1>a bv. It's like six percent, he told me. And

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<v Speaker 1>so it's this nice, But usually a barrel aged sounds

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:17.440
<v Speaker 1>like mr boozy, because I don't know, does it actually

0:51:17.440 --> 0:51:20.040
<v Speaker 1>pick up some alcohol, you know, like from the barrel?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe a little right, yeah, maybe a little bit. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not uh, we're not superversed and I'm not smart enough

0:51:25.360 --> 0:51:28.000
<v Speaker 1>to know the craft brewing process, yes, but I would

0:51:28.000 --> 0:51:29.680
<v Speaker 1>say it was delicious because I liked how it had

0:51:29.680 --> 0:51:31.600
<v Speaker 1>both those things going on. It was it was light

0:51:31.760 --> 0:51:35.000
<v Speaker 1>enough with a little bit of that like bourbon finish

0:51:35.040 --> 0:51:36.839
<v Speaker 1>on the beer, and like, what's better than a barrel

0:51:36.880 --> 0:51:39.880
<v Speaker 1>aged out in January? Honestly, like not much. This was

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<v Speaker 1>a great example of a homebrew stouts and crafted with

0:51:43.080 --> 0:51:46.040
<v Speaker 1>care by Jess over there for sure. Yeah, crafted with love,

0:51:46.239 --> 0:51:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and it was almost brewed like this. This isn't an

0:51:49.560 --> 0:51:53.000
<v Speaker 1>overly heavy, thick, dark, clunky kind of stout right like it's.

0:51:53.000 --> 0:51:55.480
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of it's a very chipper, bright on its

0:51:55.480 --> 0:51:58.439
<v Speaker 1>toes type of stouts while still incorporating some of those

0:51:58.480 --> 0:52:01.239
<v Speaker 1>woody barrel aged notes. That's was a fantastic stout. I'm

0:52:01.239 --> 0:52:03.000
<v Speaker 1>glad that you and I got to enjoy this one together,

0:52:03.239 --> 0:52:05.920
<v Speaker 1>And a huge thanks to our friend Jess for donating

0:52:05.960 --> 0:52:07.480
<v Speaker 1>this one to the show. Yeah, he drove it over,

0:52:07.560 --> 0:52:09.399
<v Speaker 1>dropped it off on the stuff. So yeah, thank you, Jess.

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<v Speaker 1>We appreciate it. I think he said they bottled this

0:52:11.200 --> 0:52:13.319
<v Speaker 1>one like not even two weeks ago. It's pretty great.

0:52:13.320 --> 0:52:16.399
<v Speaker 1>So so it's fresh, fresh, fresh, fresh, all right, well, Matt,

0:52:16.440 --> 0:52:18.520
<v Speaker 1>that's gonna do it. For this episode. We'll have links

0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:20.799
<v Speaker 1>to both of the cookbooks we talked about today with

0:52:20.920 --> 0:52:23.200
<v Speaker 1>Leanne in our show notes, up on our website at

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<v Speaker 1>how to money dot com. That's all right, Joel, that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be it until next time. Best Friends Out, Best

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<v Speaker 1>Friends Out,