1 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for 2 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,079 Speaker 1: joining us. Hey, Susan, how are you so glad to 3 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: be back? 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 2: Really excited? And if you haven't done it yet, now's 5 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 2: the time. 6 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 3: People, you got to follow our podcast so you never 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 3: miss anything that we do. 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We had some really good stuff. 20 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: We've been having so much fun answering your questions, so 21 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 3: please keep them coming, and also you have to do 22 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 3: is submit them to Bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour. 23 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: We have some. 24 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 3: Great questions today and some extremely special guests. 25 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 1: And I hope everyone heard that word guess because we 26 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: have a really exciting episode today that we have just 27 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 1: been waiting for this episode for so long. Our kids 28 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 1: are joining us. Susan's daughter Britney is here, and my 29 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: son Kyle and his wife Candy are here as well. 30 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: We can't wait to have some fun today with everyone. Hi, guys, 31 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 1: how are y'all doing? 32 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 4: Hi? 33 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 2: Welcome. It's like the family reunion and reunion. 34 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, Susan, you need to start this off because, 35 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: as everyone knows or should know by now, you officiated 36 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: Kyle and Candy's wedding. 37 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: Okay, guys, give me a rating on how I did 38 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:01,559 Speaker 2: for your way. 39 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 4: We were really happy with you. 40 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 5: It was it was such a special day and you 41 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 5: made it just that much more so. 42 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 4: It was really fantastic. 43 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: Were we immediate friends and family or what? Right like that? 44 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 5: You were kind of like Kathy, you feel like you 45 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 5: just haven't really met a stranger ever. 46 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 4: It was very. 47 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: Excuse me, it's mom to you, Kyle, It's mom, not Kathy. 48 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 2: And Brittany. I know you talked to Kathy a lot 49 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: on the phone. 50 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 3: You've guided Kathy through our Instagram accounts and such. Now 51 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 3: you see her, not that you have it by FaceTime, 52 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 3: but that's Kathy. 53 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: Yes Hi. I just want to say, for those of 54 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: you who can't see these beautiful women, Brittany and Candy, 55 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: even though they're both married, they should be bachelorettes. Why 56 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: because they both have gorgeous hair, both of them. 57 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: That's ridiculous. 58 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,239 Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to hear about your kids, Brittany, 59 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 1: how many kids do you have? 60 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 6: I have three kids, two teenagers, fourteen and soon to 61 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 6: be twelve, and then I have a three year old. 62 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: How's that? 63 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 2: Doesn't she be? 64 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 6: Is three year old and she is very independent right now. 65 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 6: She's like a three ninger. This is what I call it, 66 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 6: the teenagers and the will but just not not quite 67 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 6: there yet. 68 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 3: You know, it's gonna get a lot of explain one 69 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 3: thing about her because I don't know how to put 70 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 3: this into words. 71 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 2: My granddaughter. 72 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 3: Toby TV II A V I like Victor. She takes 73 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 3: things apart. I think she's going to be some kind 74 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 3: of a scientist or something. How about what she does? 75 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 6: She's an engineer. Yeah, she tinkers. So if somebody's playing 76 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 6: with the toy, she has to take the whole thing 77 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 6: apart and see the insides and then put it back 78 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 6: together and she'll test it to show you like, yes, 79 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 6: this is thirty, this is correct, and it's usable again. 80 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 6: But she had to know how the whole thing works. 81 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: It's great takes toilets apart. I mean, Candy, what about 82 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 2: your boys? 83 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: Kyle, Kyle and Candy, you have how many kids between 84 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: you are? Tell me what? I know the answer, but 85 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: the world doesn't. 86 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 4: So we have four. 87 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 5: So Candy has three boys from a previous marriage, and 88 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 5: I have a daughter from a previous. 89 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 2: Marriage, the angel, the Angel Lindley. So it's the little. 90 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: Angel Lindley who has my middle name. So I want 91 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: to know, guys, tell me how it is raising four kids, Like, Kyle, 92 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,359 Speaker 1: you went from one to four. Candy, you've had three 93 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: boys and now you have this adorable little girl. You know, 94 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 1: I may be just a little prejudice here, but how 95 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: is how's it going raising all those kids? 96 00:04:59,240 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 4: It's a lot of. 97 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 6: So many schedules. 98 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, but Kyle and I are a really great team. 99 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 4: Oh it makes it much easier kind of kind of 100 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 4: have to be with four kids. 101 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,359 Speaker 2: I don't have a schedule. I know that. 102 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 4: Oh my god, We're I mean this year we counted it. 103 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 5: We're We're going to have four kids across three different 104 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 5: school districts, so that's going to be excited. 105 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 3: One thing I want Brittany to share this. I love 106 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 3: this moment. My daughter has called me not on one 107 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 3: occasion and more recent since their children are this age, 108 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 3: and has apologized, Mom, tell them what you said. 109 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 6: I'm so sorry and thank you for just you know, 110 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 6: she did something when I was younger that kind of helped, 111 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 6: and I do it with my kids. I will react 112 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 6: as a parent and then also as someone who's been 113 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 6: that age where has gone through something similar. So that 114 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 6: was helpful and I've passed that on because I don't 115 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 6: want to be too harsh and keep with the times, 116 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 6: you know, with the phones and the social media and everything. 117 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 6: So that's been helpful. 118 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 3: Okay, what's a moment when she said, I'm so sorry 119 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:22,160 Speaker 3: for what put you through? 120 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: I have to do it for one second, Kyle, do 121 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: you have something to say to me? 122 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 4: I love you? 123 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: Okay, no apologies, no apologies coming from this one. 124 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 5: I have apologized many times before for my childhood. 125 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: But I love that they get it. 126 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 3: So what we did, Kat, we didn't do it all right, 127 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 3: but we did something right because they're experience it now 128 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 3: as you two are as well. 129 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 2: They try you, they really do. 130 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 3: When you guys realize that we deserve credit for making 131 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 3: it through that. 132 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 6: Time, we resilient state. 133 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: I don't think we give our kids enough credit that 134 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: I think. I mean, Kyle knows, Candy. I love my kids. 135 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: But you know, Kyle, you're doing a great job. And Brittany, 136 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: I know your mom thinks you are. It's hard racing kids. 137 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: You guys are. You're all doing such a great job. 138 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 2: And we're so glad we're grandparents. 139 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I want to know. We got to move to 140 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: the show here. I want to know all of you, 141 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: three of you. What was it like watching your mom's 142 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: candy mother in the law look for Love on TV? 143 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: What do you think, Brittany, what was it like? 144 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 6: Oh, I was living through. I thought it was fantastic. 145 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 6: I was fan like I fell in love with all 146 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 6: of the women you. I fell in love. I've talked 147 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 6: to all of you, became best friends. 148 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: What about what about you? 149 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 4: It was kind of surreal. 150 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 5: I was remembering when I was a kid and I 151 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 5: did like some tea, the commercial stuff, and it was 152 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 5: weird seeing myself on TV and then seeing my mother 153 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 5: on TV was. 154 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 4: Just kind of weird. 155 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 5: And then like was at the fire station, the guy 156 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 5: we were like watching the show and they're like, hey, 157 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 5: that's that's Kyle's mom, and I don't know, it was 158 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 5: it was. I think the bigger thing for me has 159 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 5: been like when we've been out and about and like 160 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 5: we were just up in New York. 161 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 4: And people were coming up to you in upstate New. 162 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 5: York like, Yo, you're Kathy from from Golden Bachelor, And 163 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 5: that's been kind of surreal as well, well. 164 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: What about you, Candy? 165 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 7: Yeah? 166 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 4: That that too. 167 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:39,040 Speaker 7: That at like every place we go to, there's at 168 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,839 Speaker 7: least a few people that are like, hey, I've been 169 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 7: watching you and not kind of creepy, but you know whatever. 170 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 5: And they spanned all age groups because we had like 171 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 5: younger like like early twenties, and then we had a 172 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 5: woman that was like in her seventies, like everybody in between. 173 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, And watching both of you on the show 174 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 7: was really what an experience. I just felt excited and 175 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 7: like proud. 176 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: Just were you ever upset? 177 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 3: Like what did she do that my sons would be 178 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 3: telling a different story than my daughter. 179 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry for those of you who didn't watch the show. 180 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:16,719 Speaker 1: Susan talked something about six inches was fine with her? 181 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 1: You mean that my daughter did. 182 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 2: A remake on her Instagram? 183 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 1: Brendan, Did that embarrass you? Did that embarrass you? 184 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 6: Brendan, No, I don't think she could. I just I 185 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 6: don't know. When you grow up in my family, everyone 186 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 6: try like just deals with it. So we were kind 187 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 6: of always in the spotlight for some reason. So she 188 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 6: looks you guys, the Jenner Kardashian thing had you know, 189 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 6: that's crazy. And I just love the girl power, the 190 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 6: camaraderie that you guys had on the whole show. Just 191 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 6: how supportive you were in the friendships that you've made 192 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 6: that have made it continuously this long and just lifelong friendships. 193 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 6: That's amazing. 194 00:09:58,640 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 2: Did you did him? 195 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 3: You did have to talk your brother off the ledge 196 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 3: a couple of times, though, right, make them see it straight. 197 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: Very used to doing this, so when I have to 198 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: say when I just when I put myself forward to 199 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:14,079 Speaker 1: go on the show, Kyle and my older son Douglas 200 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: and Candy, they were all very supportive of me doing it. Oh, mom, 201 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: you deserve to find love. It's great. My daughter was. 202 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: I thought it was great for about the first two 203 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: Will you accepted and then it was like, Mom, you're 204 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: going to call this off right, You're not. You're not 205 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: going through with this, are you? But do you remember that? 206 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 7: Kyle? 207 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 4: Very very much so? 208 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 5: And I mean I think we were all supportive of 209 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 5: you and happy for you. I think Kate, it took 210 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 5: Caitlin some time to sort of, you know, figure things out, 211 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 5: but I think once she kind of saw you doing 212 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 5: it and enjoying yourself and how much fun you had 213 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 5: and all the positive experiences that came from it, I 214 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 5: think she kind of kind of came around. 215 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: Generally, you're all happy for us. 216 00:10:55,720 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, absolutely, So how do you. 217 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 3: Feel about us having a podcast and talking about sex 218 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 3: and relationships and romance? 219 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 5: And I just I just want to say that this 220 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 5: is funny to me because my mom growing up was 221 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 5: always the one she'd get some electronic device and then 222 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 5: she's like, I can do it, I can do it, 223 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 5: and then two minutes later she'd be asking me to 224 00:11:25,679 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 5: show her how to do something simple. So the fact 225 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 5: that she of the podcast is actually still kind of 226 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 5: mind blowing to me. 227 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 2: Because I set it all up for it. 228 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: Scott put on headphones. I can put on headphones about 229 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 1: not well cap. 230 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 4: I don't think you knew what a podcast was a 231 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 4: couple of years ago. 232 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: I didn't know what an influencer was. Kyle. I knew 233 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 1: what a podcast was, just not what it. 234 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: She has schooled us all that. 235 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 1: That's right. Brittany has helped me do put stuff on 236 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: my Instagram. She's been great. Okay, I have a question. 237 00:11:57,800 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 1: Can we just talk about Brittany? You you know, I 238 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: don't know if your husband's older or younger than you. 239 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 6: I'm twelve days older. 240 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: Oh well, I am. That's that's interesting because Candy is 241 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: ten years older than Kyle. She doesn't look at he 242 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: looks ten years older. 243 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 2: I love you, girl, I have hope. 244 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 1: We all have hope. So here's the question. I want 245 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 1: to know Kyle and Candy, and then I'm going to 246 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: ask you, Brittany. 247 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 6: What. 248 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 1: Was going on your head? You met online? I think 249 00:12:33,440 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: this is what they've told me, Like, I can't get 250 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 1: a guy ten minutes older than I am to look 251 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 1: at me. So what was the deal? Candy? What was 252 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: the draw here? Kyle? What were you doing looking at 253 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: women ten years your senior? I want the truth. I 254 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: want the World Bachelor Nations. 255 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 3: Swiping And it was a picture during a swipe that 256 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 3: caught your eye. 257 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 1: Or and no one's listening, Kyle, No one's listening but 258 00:12:57,640 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: the few of us right here in the world, Bill 259 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: Ye spill spill. 260 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 4: For well, So we met on on hinge on the hinge. 261 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 5: And for me, I remember, obviously, I mean I think 262 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 5: the first thing you see is the picture, so obviously 263 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,839 Speaker 5: initially there has to be some degree of physical attraction. 264 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 4: And she was beautiful. It is beautiful. 265 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:29,560 Speaker 5: And but then I started like reading her stuff and 266 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 5: it was just very intriguing what she had written, what 267 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 5: I could see, and so I remember seeing the age 268 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 5: on there, and I was like, well, this is a 269 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 5: little bit older than i've I've branched out to and 270 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 5: also why not try something new and different, And so 271 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,160 Speaker 5: I just kind of took a shot and we started 272 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 5: talking and just kind of hit it off from there. 273 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 4: So to me, it was taking the shot dark a 274 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 4: little bit. 275 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 3: She's well written, though, right, she is a teacher, am 276 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 3: I am? 277 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: I So she's a professional. What are you? What are you, Candy? 278 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 3: You kept right, Yeah, I'm a therapist and as school counselor, That's. 279 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 4: What it was. 280 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 2: I knew the school was in there somewhere. 281 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 4: She got you good. 282 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, so it was funny like our first date, Like 283 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 5: we still laugh about it. It was like several hours 284 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 5: and we got into like very deep talks about a 285 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 5: lot of things where I think a lot of people 286 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 5: might have been scared off on the first date, but 287 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 5: I think that was something that was mutually like attractive 288 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 5: to both of us that we were so easily able 289 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 5: to kind of just open up and talk about these 290 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 5: things that were pretty deep and personal. 291 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 3: Okay, never even thought about our age from that point, right. 292 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 4: I really don't think about it now. 293 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 5: The only time I think about it is when she 294 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 5: points out that, like my mom did that, Like sometimes 295 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 5: I kind of maybe act older or look older. 296 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: Wait, I want to know, Candy, and then I'm going 297 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 1: to ask you, Brittany, So get your answer ready, Candy, 298 00:14:55,600 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: when did you know he was the one? Do you 299 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: love it? Oh? That's where. 300 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was super early, really early, So. 301 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: There's hope for us, there's hope. 302 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't follow any rules about either. 303 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 4: Timelines or any of that. 304 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 1: What about you so early on, Candy, Yeah, totally, like 305 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: less than a month you knew Kyle. 306 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we we both talked about it. It was. 307 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 4: It was very quick and and early on. 308 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 5: And what's funny about it this year talking about the 309 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 5: timelines like I've I've done that in the past, and 310 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 5: my family was very skeptical because they've seen that before, 311 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 5: and I think that this is very different, and I 312 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 5: think they've started to see that it's very different. 313 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, I will say nationally to anyone Bachelor Nation, 314 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: Kyle's being very kind to his mother Hare When Kyle 315 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 1: met Candy, as you all know, my husband passed away 316 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: by suicide and holidays were really tough for us. And 317 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: Kyle met Candy in like September October and we didn't 318 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: know that, and he wanted to invite her for Christmas, 319 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 1: and uh, Kyle's sister Caitlin and I were like, no, 320 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 1: you know, we were. We were not nice about it 321 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 1: because family holidays were really tough. And now that we 322 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 1: know you, Candy, we love you and we ipolke it 323 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 1: all back. We take it all back. You are lovely 324 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 1: and we adore you. But that is very true. We 325 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: were not ready for that. Okay, Brittany, what about you? 326 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 2: Brittany met That's what I'm dating app as. 327 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: Well, Right, what did you get me. 328 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: And you were here. We're telling them what happened. 329 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 6: Tell them, I think you were like looking in your 330 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 6: you need to get out of the house. I had 331 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 6: just been divorce single mom too, and she wanted me 332 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 6: to go out and have a date. Know what that 333 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 6: felt like? And I went out and I might have 334 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 6: been a bit of aggressive today. 335 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, do you have you met Susan Knowles? 336 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 2: Go ahead, wait, tell them about the first date. They 337 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 2: are I'm stopped. 338 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 6: At her house and my brothers were like all tatted muscles, 339 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 6: sitting out on the front porch smoking, and they're like, 340 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 6: who are you? She got my sister and I'm like, 341 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 6: oh god. So then we were asking me and we 342 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 6: got to dinner and I'm like, look, I have the kids, 343 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 6: I'm divorced. 344 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 4: I don't do this. 345 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 6: I worked. I want this. I want a relationship. I 346 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 6: want real If you're not deco away, I will cook 347 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 6: the food and eating the dinner and you're paying for it. 348 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 6: I'm not a salad girl. I'm like, no, this is 349 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 6: what I want. And he didn't think I was crazy. 350 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 4: Did you just. 351 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 1: Say I'm not a salad salad girl. 352 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 3: She's not a real milk But wait, you tell them 353 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 3: about the the romantic party. 354 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 6: Took me to the third date. He took me to 355 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 6: the steps in Philadelphia, the Rocky Steps, and he had 356 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 6: a boombox radio in his pocket and he called it 357 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 6: the prom date. We all I had a long dress 358 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 6: on and he slow danced with me on every step 359 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 6: and then when we got to the top, had like 360 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 6: this big performance that he like had radios and he 361 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 6: swung me around and danced with me in front of everything. 362 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 6: We didn't film any of it. We were very in 363 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 6: the moment, but I was like, okay, Prince Jarby, like 364 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:18,360 Speaker 6: what is this? 365 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 1: So what did you know? 366 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 2: What You're like? I don't know. 367 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: Susan was like, shign the bands, get marry him now? 368 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: So when did you know he was the one? Brittany 369 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: Probably that night. 370 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,959 Speaker 6: Bro was hyper cautious. He was the baseball player, and 371 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 6: I had sworn up and down I would never date 372 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 6: or marry a baseball player. And I promise my father. 373 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 1: Oh wait, for those of you who don't know, Britney's 374 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 1: father played professional baseball. Just so people now I was born. 375 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 6: But he he's also a virgo. He just he's my 376 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 6: best friend. 377 00:18:57,240 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 2: So that was and he loved your two children. 378 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 6: Absolutely? 379 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: Are you feeling it all here? These little love birds here, 380 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 1: like we're just sitting out in the cold. 381 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 3: Just we get to go to Saint Martin again, that's 382 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 3: all okay? 383 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we go to Saint Martin and Susan's yelling 384 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: at me, I'm going to the nude beach. Yeah, it's 385 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 1: great fun for me. 386 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 6: Nude. 387 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 8: Don't say that. Excuse me, he knows top talk. Last, 388 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 8: I have the next question. 389 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 3: All right, what do all of you think of your 390 00:19:37,680 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 3: birds and the bees talk when you were kids? 391 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 2: What would you have done differently? 392 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:45,879 Speaker 6: Whoever? 393 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:51,160 Speaker 7: My birds and bees talk was when I was probably 394 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 7: sixteen and after, Like, it didn't matter that that talk 395 00:19:58,600 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 7: was being had with. 396 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: Me because you already knew. 397 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 7: Yeah, and they waited long. 398 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 4: I didn't wait. 399 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 7: They they were not my parents, they were my siblings, 400 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:22,840 Speaker 7: because I'm the youngest of four and my siblings are ten, eleven, 401 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 7: and thirteen years older than me. 402 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:29,600 Speaker 4: Oh, a lot of them, jor Carl Junior. 403 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 7: And there were some green condoms that were given to me. 404 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 2: And green that's what color they were, then, Kat. 405 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 5: They probably came from one of those little, you know, 406 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 5: coin dispenser things in the bathroom. 407 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 2: Remember that statement when I tell you something, Go ahead. 408 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,439 Speaker 1: I'm just curious that Kyle knows that they dispensed in 409 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 1: the bathroom. Okay, what about you, Kyle. 410 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:54,919 Speaker 5: I don't remember of birds and Bees talk with you 411 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 5: or Dad. I think my Birds and the Bees talk 412 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 5: came from probably the Internet in Victoria's Secret magazine. 413 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 1: Are you serious, Kyle? 414 00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 8: I have father, I know your old school and come 415 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 8: from Boston. 416 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: But really, Kyle, you're throwing me under the bus here? 417 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: Are you serious? Did I call I didn't call little 418 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 1: peeps and wee Weeze. We called it penis. We has 419 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 1: nothing to do with the I. 420 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 4: Don't remember official talk or anything. 421 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 2: Oh I'll share mine, but go ahead, Brittany, tell you 422 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 2: what I mean. 423 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 6: I've known everything about the beautiful anatomy since I've been 424 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 6: very young, and I know the pegs in the beer. 425 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 6: However you swing, that happens. 426 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 3: And I convinced my daughter to communicate so well. When 427 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 3: when it was time that she started, it was one 428 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 3: of the bases, not all the way. 429 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:53,719 Speaker 2: I'm laying there waiting for her to come home. 430 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 1: Tell you people talking night. 431 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 6: Out and running jump water bed mom. 432 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 4: Guess what I was like? 433 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 2: Oh, my god. 434 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,240 Speaker 6: I had to tell her thank you. 435 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 1: Wait, I'm sorry. I don't mean to be old here. 436 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: You had to tell her. 437 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 6: What everything, everything I ever did. 438 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: You told you? 439 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 2: And she said Mom. 440 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 1: He felt like thank you the brawl or over the brawl. 441 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 2: She goes over, Mom, I'm going to bed. 442 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, okay. 443 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 6: You're up out of dead sleep. And she's like, what's wrong? 444 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 6: And I'm like, I just have to tell you something. 445 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 3: And my boys are twins, right, they were pretty young, 446 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 3: and I said to my husband, you're going to have 447 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,640 Speaker 3: the talk they should refrain until they're married. 448 00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: I go, all right, boys sit down. 449 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 3: And I started and I go, you know what no means? 450 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 3: And they're like, Mom, seriously seriously. I go, okay, let 451 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 3: me just ask this. Are you embarrassed to purchase a condom? 452 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 3: And they're both looking at each other. They're twins, laughing 453 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,360 Speaker 3: at me. I go, this is not funny. This needs 454 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,800 Speaker 3: to be serious. If you wanted to end, let me 455 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 3: get through this. They go, Mom, we buy them at 456 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 3: the mall in the men's room, like you said, Kyle. 457 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 2: I go, what do you mean we buy them? You 458 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 2: already bought them. I was late. They were like twelve thirteen. 459 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. 460 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: So you know what the dale here is. Parents, wait, 461 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: Kyle and Brittany and Candy, listen up. Parents wait too 462 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: long to have conversations with their kids about drugs, alcohol, sex, 463 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 1: because by the time you're having to talk with them, 464 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 1: they've already done it all it Candy, Am I right? 465 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: You're the therapist? Am I right? 466 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 7: I mean maybe for many and we've already had that 467 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 7: conversation with and the boys, with the boys, and they're eleven, thirteen, 468 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 7: and sixteen. 469 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 1: Now, what if you told my perfect granddaughter Lindley? What 470 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:09,040 Speaker 1: have you told her? Kyle? 471 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 2: She's too young. 472 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 5: We moderate things, we don't tell her things we tell 473 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,639 Speaker 5: the boys, or we change the narrative a little bit 474 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 5: to make it appropriate for a five year old almost 475 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 5: six year old. 476 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 4: We don't talk. We're not having that conversation in front 477 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 4: of Linley. 478 00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: Can I just say, though, Linley is so cute because 479 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: these boys, Candies boys are just adorable, and Linley falls 480 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: after them like a puppy. She just loves having her 481 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: three brothers and is it not the cutest thing ever? 482 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:39,719 Speaker 2: It is? All right? 483 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 3: Another question, if we were all the same age, do 484 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:45,719 Speaker 3: you guys think we would be friends? 485 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 2: Yes, who's going to say no? 486 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: Here? I mean really, Oh, Kyle, I just. 487 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 6: Told you I needed more time with you without my kids. 488 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 4: If we're all the same age, would we. 489 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 1: Be hanging out, Kyle? 490 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:06,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, Kathy, you hang. 491 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: Out with me, Kyle if we were the same age. 492 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 2: Kay, I asked Kats, he's talking to me now. 493 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,360 Speaker 4: We already hang out, so like like. 494 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 1: Good, say, well, we just had this vacation in New York. 495 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: My whole family was there. Like, as I get older, 496 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 1: even if not older, I don't know about you, Susan, 497 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: but time with my family and my kids and my 498 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 1: grandkids like that, to me is better than dating some 499 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 1: guy who's not worth the time of day anyway. Don't 500 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: you agree? 501 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 6: Now? 502 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 2: Yes, I love I just had them here. 503 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're jumping in the pool and what my other 504 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 3: granddaughter was drowned. 505 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 2: She jumps in forgot no float. 506 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:44,919 Speaker 7: He's on. 507 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:49,119 Speaker 1: She's so brave, Kyle, what did you think about Linley? 508 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 1: So Brittany, we all were in upstate New York. We 509 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 1: had a lake house for a week, and Candy's boys 510 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 1: were there and my daughter was there with her baby, 511 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: and Kyle got Kyle, what did you get Limley to do? 512 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 1: And by the way, I was so impressed, how you 513 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: did it? What did you get her to do? 514 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 6: Oh? 515 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 5: On the yeah she was. She was petrified of going 516 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:12,679 Speaker 5: on the like the float being dragged behind a boat. Oh, 517 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,160 Speaker 5: she was like she was really scared. She didn't want 518 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 5: to do it. So I finally got. 519 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 4: Her to agree, like, okay, daddy goes with me, I'll 520 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 4: do it. 521 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 5: And so we finally got her out there on it, 522 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,720 Speaker 5: and then they didn't go too fast. She was like 523 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 5: kind of slow, but we got going and she just 524 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 5: had the biggest smile on her face. 525 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 4: She was so happy. 526 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 5: They brought us back the other boats that were tied up, 527 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 5: and she was waiting everybody waiting. 528 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 1: I will never forget that. I will never forget that. 529 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 3: All Right, It's like Toby finally getting Swimmy's and realizing 530 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 3: we could let go of her in the pool. 531 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: Right, she was so great. 532 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,879 Speaker 6: She can do anything the older kids can do. So 533 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 6: she wants to go too, and she wants to paddle board. 534 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 6: She's fine on the paddle board. But then no fear 535 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 6: is starting to like worry me because she just straight 536 00:26:58,600 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 6: first they get anything. 537 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 1: I mean, look at who her grandmother is. That's all 538 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 1: I'm saying. All Right, I have a question and I'm 539 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: as far as it goes. I'm worried to ask Kyle this, 540 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 1: but I'm brave. I'm going to do it. 541 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 4: Thanks, thanks for prefacing that. 542 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, what is y and Brittain you I want 543 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: you to answer to do So, what is one time, 544 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 1: one memory Kyle in your childhood? What is the I'm 545 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: sure you have several, but what's a memory that really 546 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: stands out to you of growing up with your perfect mother? 547 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 4: Here? 548 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,159 Speaker 1: It comes no. 549 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,919 Speaker 5: What I remember was you were always and this is 550 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,440 Speaker 5: not like a specific memory, but you you were always 551 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 5: there for us, and you were always taking us to 552 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 5: places like we did piano lessons, all three of us, 553 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 5: And I just remember every every week consistently, you know. 554 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 4: You picked us up from school, You drove us. 555 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 5: You know, thirty forty five minutes whatever it was, out 556 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 5: to myreland in Houston and sat there with you know 557 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,360 Speaker 5: a couple hours of us doing lessons, and it took 558 00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 5: us back home making sure we did our homework. 559 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 4: You were a very good mother. You were attentive, you 560 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 4: were loving. That's why I. 561 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: Swear I didn't pay him to say this as good 562 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 1: as him. No, thank you, Kyle. I really thought you 563 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,919 Speaker 1: were going to I really thought where he was going 564 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,479 Speaker 1: to go was when they had these piano lessons and 565 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: if they hadn't practiced. I'm a big needle pointer, and Kyle, 566 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 1: you just. 567 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 4: Because the no. 568 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 5: Usually usually it was me if I hadn't done the 569 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,479 Speaker 5: work and hadn't practiced well, and I was having a 570 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 5: bad lesson, I knew. And I would look over and 571 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 5: she was sitting with the teacher had done her garage 572 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 5: into a studio and so it was all carpet, it 573 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 5: was done nice. But my mom was sitting over, sitting 574 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 5: on the floor in front of the couch, and I 575 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 5: would just look over past the teacher and she was 576 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 5: just sitting there angrily stabbing her needle point canvas stared. 577 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 5: I justs at me, and I knew the car ride 578 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 5: home was going to be terrible. 579 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: My kids said to me once, we just were. We 580 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 1: just knew the ride home with which one is she 581 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,040 Speaker 1: going to be angry about from the piano lesson? 582 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 4: About you? 583 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 1: All right, Brittany, what about you? What's your memory? 584 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 4: There's what? 585 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 1: So? 586 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,479 Speaker 6: I had a jerk high school boyfriend that had cheated 587 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 6: on me, and everyone was going to spring break and 588 00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 6: I was being left out. So my mom flew me 589 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 6: the cancuon and did spring break with me. Or when 590 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 6: I drove through our house and she didn't kill me. 591 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 2: Through the garage. 592 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you drove into the family. 593 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 2: Room in my Mercedes. Okay, she was in the car too. 594 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,959 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry you drove through the garage. 595 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:55,400 Speaker 2: Why tell the story? So she has a perm and 596 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 2: she had got to drive. I made her pull into 597 00:29:58,440 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 2: the garage. 598 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 3: She was scared, and I used to mark on the 599 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 3: garage wall a permanent marker mirror on car here, because 600 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 3: I would shut the garage door on the car. 601 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 2: It's a single car garage. 602 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,760 Speaker 3: So I was in the passenger seat, not judging very well, 603 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:18,040 Speaker 3: correct Brittany, And she pulls in and I said, no, honey, 604 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 3: just ease up on the break. 605 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 6: I was like, no, here's good, here's good, here's safe, 606 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 6: here's fine. You can do it. I don't need to 607 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 6: go over the lip and into the garage like and 608 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 6: she said, do you just do it and pushed my 609 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 6: thigh in. 610 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 3: She got it, since almost killed the doll. 611 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 1: What I'm hearing Susan is Britney was a fine driver, 612 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 1: and it's your phone. 613 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 2: Who's the best driver in the house. 614 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 6: I don't know. I'm not in your house. I'm the 615 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 6: best in my house. 616 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 4: No, you're not. 617 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 1: I am a movie right along. 618 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 4: Who's the better driver? 619 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:08,760 Speaker 1: Kyle? Who's the best driver in our family? 620 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,000 Speaker 4: Candy? Kyle? Who's the better driver? I mean I would 621 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 4: say myself agree? 622 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 1: Okay, I gotta chi him in here. Kyle is a 623 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,600 Speaker 1: firefighter and has been how long? How many years? 624 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 4: Kyle seventeen? 625 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 1: Okay? Seven years? And literally I have seen Kyle back 626 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: into a parking space that you couldn't get a flea 627 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: out of. It's that why because he has driven fire 628 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: engines and you have to back him in and put 629 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 1: any and he does it so fast, Like. 630 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 2: I bet I could do it. 631 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 1: I bet you couldn't. 632 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 2: I bet I could. 633 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 4: Hey, it's an open invitation, come down and visit you can. 634 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 3: You can put next time on there on parting the engine? 635 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 1: All right, everyone that does it? For part one of 636 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: this episode, be sure to stay tuned for part two, 637 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,640 Speaker 1: coming later this week, when we get into some of 638 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: your questions with our kids. 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