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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we go. This one is from

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Speaker 1: Yolanda in Auburn. Yolanda says, my ex husband called and

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Speaker 1: asked if he could stay with my brother. I don't

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Speaker 1: care where he stays, but my brother shouldn't even be

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Speaker 1: talking to that man after the way he treated me.

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Speaker 1: I lit into my brother and he said, I need

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Speaker 1: to learn to let things go and move on with

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Speaker 1: my life. How could my brother say that to me?

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Speaker 1: Is he siding with my ex or what?

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Speaker 2: Uh? I see this all the time. Basically, you know,

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Speaker 2: the two brothers in laws, even though they're not brother

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Speaker 2: in law consider brother in laws anymore, they still remain

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Speaker 2: brother in laws and they have, you know, they developed

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Speaker 2: a friendship over the course of time, so they boys basically,

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Speaker 2: So that's why your brother trying to tell you to

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Speaker 2: let it go. And that's why now I don't know

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Speaker 2: why your husband, your exs even call to ask you

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Speaker 2: if it was okay. Y'all ain't communicating like that no more. Basically,

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Speaker 2: if he gonna go stay with your brother, he gonna

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Speaker 2: go stay with your brother. It is what it is.

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Speaker 2: So I don't even know why he brought it to

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Speaker 2: your attention. That just creates an argument and create friction

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Speaker 2: between you and your brother unless you're gonna run into humnless.

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Speaker 2: You're going over there to your brother house and you

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Speaker 2: know you're giving it. They giving you a heads up

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Speaker 2: to let you know he gonna be there. I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but you know, don't be mad. They boys, they they

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Speaker 2: became friends, and you ain't gonna be able to get

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Speaker 2: rid of that.

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Speaker 1: I'm with the wife. Nope, right there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so basically when when when we divorced, the whole

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Speaker 2: family divorced you.

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Speaker 1: That's how it. Yeah, you're on my team. No.

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Speaker 3: See right now, your brother don't care, which is so

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Speaker 3: your brother told you. Okay, now he already told you

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Speaker 3: because what your brother see is not what you see.

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Speaker 3: Your brother see that back room back there worth five

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Speaker 3: fifty a month. See, you're not finna stop that. He's

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Speaker 3: gonna make this money.

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Speaker 1: He want that room.

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Speaker 2: Whether you like it or not.

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Speaker 3: It's five fifty a month, and your ex husband will

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Speaker 3: be in that room. Just don't go back there. He

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Speaker 3: gonna be in that room. That is what you see.

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Speaker 3: You need to mind your business. What your brother told you.

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Speaker 1: A month over here, the brother is definitely siding with

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Speaker 1: the ex over his sister.

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Speaker 3: The brother is becoming a landlord.

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Speaker 1: He is, That's what he's becomes. It's not y'all confused.

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Speaker 3: Okay, per month for that backroom? Did he ain't even

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Speaker 3: use it?

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Speaker 1: That's so fun? All right, all right, we have time

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Speaker 1: for another one, guys. This one's from Butler in Hollywood.

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Speaker 1: Butler says, my wife tracks my every move and I

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Speaker 1: know it. So I parked at an outlet mall and

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Speaker 1: rented a car for the day. My car got towed,

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Speaker 1: and I had no idea that my wife had been

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Speaker 1: calling me frantically for hours after she noticed that my

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Speaker 1: car was at a police m pound lot. When I

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Speaker 1: finally answered her, she thought I had gotten arrested. She

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Speaker 1: had a really bad panic attack, and I felt horrible

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Speaker 1: for what I did. I was honest with her. Uh,

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Speaker 1: and she's hurt, crushed, She's crushed. So how do I

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Speaker 1: fix this crazy situation? That's what Butler in Hollywood wants

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Speaker 1: to know.

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Speaker 2: These women got for playing these csis and putting all

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Speaker 2: these trackers on everybody car. Look either love him and

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Speaker 2: let him go, let him go, let him leave the

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Speaker 2: house and go do what he gonna do and come home.

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Speaker 2: But you do not have to track every man's move

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Speaker 2: across the dog On city. Why do you got to

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Speaker 2: know all of that? Why?

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Speaker 1: Why why do he lieh.

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Speaker 2: Way lighted way light it. He ain't lied by nothing.

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Speaker 1: He didn't verbally lie to her. No, he didn't verbally lie.

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Speaker 1: He did not lie.

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Speaker 2: He went and got another vehicle and parked the one

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Speaker 2: that he has. That's what he did. Now, he's ignorant,

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Speaker 2: parked evidently in the wrong place.

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Speaker 1: He did say, I was honest with her. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: you see the honesty is the opposite of lying. I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying he didn't lie.

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Speaker 3: No, he parked his car at an added mall and

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Speaker 3: got a rental car for the day. Sometimes you want

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Speaker 3: to drive your car all day whatever.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you want to.

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Speaker 3: Go down the enterprise and get.

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Speaker 1: Another park in the wrong place.

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Speaker 2: You in the wrong place.

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Speaker 1: If he got told yeah, or had a panic attack,

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Speaker 1: huh playing games?

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Speaker 4: He's playing games, played an expensive game. Who then cost

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Speaker 4: him money? And he hurt his wife's feelings. And what

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Speaker 4: you're trying to say, Shirley is be honest. Everybody, be honest,

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Speaker 4: have an open conversation.

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Speaker 3: Who put the track on the car.

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Speaker 1: That hurt my thing?

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: That hurt your feelings. All right, guys, you're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.