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Speaker 1: Second date update, Brooke, your husband is a collector of

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Speaker 1: sports cards.

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Speaker 2: He loves them. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 3: Does that make you more attracted to him? Or super

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Speaker 3: more attracted?

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Speaker 2: When he pulls out that Michael Jordan Rookie.

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Speaker 4: Cards, if only it wasn't rated a three, I don't

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Speaker 4: know what that is. Actually, I think it's a one

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Speaker 4: because he wrote his initials on it when he was

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Speaker 4: seven years old.

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Speaker 3: That you just rubbed that card all because it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Much as.

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Speaker 1: I bring it up because one of our listeners says

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Speaker 1: that the guy that she went out with mentioned that

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Speaker 1: he is a collector of items and it stopped her

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Speaker 1: in her track.

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Speaker 3: Collection.

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Speaker 1: We'll find out more about that in just a second,

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Speaker 1: but first let's talk to Carly here. Carly, you send

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Speaker 1: in your email that the guy's name is Ethan. How

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Speaker 1: did you meet him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? We met on a dating app.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and whatever he collects part of his profile.

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Speaker 2: No, oh, it wasn't listed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, nope, little surprise for you.

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Speaker 2: You don't say it with a smile on.

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Speaker 5: Your face that it was revealed like midway to the date.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay.

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Speaker 1: Well let's go chronologically then, before we get to the

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Speaker 1: collecting of stuff. Tell us more about Ethan and what

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Speaker 1: attracted you to him.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so initially his one liner joke to me about

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Speaker 5: he was the world's okayist cook and he had a

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Speaker 5: picture of bart grilled cheese.

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Speaker 2: That's really cute.

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Speaker 1: The fact that he could cook at all, even if

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Speaker 1: it is just okay, he's impressive.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean it's a cute line, and it's an

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Speaker 4: easy way to then transition to let me cook you

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Speaker 3: Sting a standard. Okay, So did your date involve cooking?

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Speaker 5: He did not know.

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, all right, So tell us about what happened.

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Speaker 5: So, I mean, you know, we've been dating for like

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Speaker 5: ten eleven days, like not super long, talking, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: we were talking texting, you know, ten eleven days.

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Speaker 1: In the in the build up to the actual first meeting.

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Speaker 1: So what did you guys actually do when you went out?

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Speaker 5: Well, we decided to meet up for dinner and we

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Speaker 5: went to Steak and Shake.

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Speaker 6: I love.

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Speaker 2: Is fast food.

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Speaker 4: It is, yeah, shake shacks over there and shakes in

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Speaker 2: Was that cool with you or was that a disappointment?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: I was okay with it. I mean he burns girlled cheese,

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Speaker 5: so you know, low standards.

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Speaker 3: Sure, all right, And how was the chemistry between you

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Speaker 5: It was really good. He was super funny, super sweet.

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Speaker 5: He held a door, he was like pulling out.

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Speaker 4: My chair and you like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, No, I'm old school, like.

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Speaker 4: I think people being polite is probably is pretty well received.

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Speaker 1: Well I slam the door in their face. We all

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Speaker 1: have different styles of Okay.

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Speaker 4: So he does that to me this studio, honestly, like

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Speaker 4: learn to open the door for somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't want to like get in the way

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to equal. We're equal in the work,

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Speaker 3: I'm saying. So okay.

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Speaker 1: So but you you thought that he was being a

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Speaker 1: real gentleman on this date with you, Carly, I.

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Speaker 5: Did for sure.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So this is all sounding great. Was there something

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Speaker 2: When did that come into play?

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Speaker 5: Well, he just randomly was like I collect rubber duck.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's the item that he collected.

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Speaker 2: The deep owners the one of those people.

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Speaker 3: That's a great idea.

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Speaker 2: Rubber ducks are huge right now. There is every type

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Speaker 2: of rubber duck.

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Speaker 3: Ever Okay, Yeah, how did you feel about it, Carly?

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Speaker 5: I was kind of like weirded out. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that you could do that.

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Speaker 2: Was that a joke?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he was like, it was a joke.

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Speaker 3: He was just kidding everyone.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's trying not to judge.

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Speaker 1: We all just a big sigh of relief, all right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: although just to be clear, there's nothing wrong with having

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Speaker 1: emotional support ducks. If anybody out there ducks, yes, support Okay,

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Speaker 1: but that was.

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Speaker 2: A joke, but the rubber ducks were real.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, he has rubber ducks, all right, And.

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Speaker 4: So why is this a big part of the date,

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Speaker 4: like he mentioned it?

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? He had some like super funny one liners like

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Speaker 2: You can't control it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like a what does you think? You

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Speaker 3: think it's too unattractive that it's a deal breaker.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. Listen, he still walked me to my

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Speaker 5: car and like kiss me and everything. The texting is

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Speaker 5: just not the same. Like I'm just getting those like

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Speaker 4: I am obviously biased, but I think storting is quite endearing.

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Speaker 3: I'm also a weird blast.

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Speaker 1: So you're thinking that at the end of the night

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Speaker 1: didn't approve of your snort.

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Speaker 3: He was like, okay, final still just you know.

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Speaker 5: I hope not.

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Speaker 2: You know, people have weird things. So I have a

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Speaker 4: Who won't date women depending on their thumb size, and

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Speaker 4: like he thinks thumbs are really weird.

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Speaker 2: They like creep him out for I.

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Speaker 1: Think I know that that is very very personal information

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Speaker 3: On the radio. Okay, we're not trying to body shame anybody.

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Speaker 2: Like some people have weird it.

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Speaker 3: Don't call it weird, it's maybe yes.

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Speaker 2: Well, and if it's that, then he's not the guy

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Speaker 1: Is it possible that he's not calling you back because

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Speaker 1: you've got dragon thumbs?

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Speaker 3: An Brooks theory?

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Speaker 4: Are you holding the phone with just your thumb look

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Speaker 1: Yeah, long claw let's just okay, enough about the dragon

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Speaker 3: Let's call this Ethan guy.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if he picks up, and we will ask

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Speaker 1: him all the questions to figure out why he's not

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Speaker 1: going out with you one more time. Carly, you're going

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Speaker 1: to get your second date update right after this second

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Speaker 3: You're the one.

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Speaker 6: If you're.

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Speaker 3: A minute story, yeah, if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 1: I'm playing this song because our listener Carly went out

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Speaker 1: with a guy named Ethan who told her that he

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Speaker 1: as emotional support pets. Again, just a joke, but he

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Speaker 1: does collect them, which begs the question, how bad do

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Speaker 1: you feel when even the rubber duck guy won't call

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Speaker 1: you back?

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Speaker 2: Say it like that, she's a door up.

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Speaker 3: Do you consider this your rock bottom? Carly?

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Speaker 4: I mean, if you're on this show, I think most

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Speaker 5: I feel pretty low, but not as low as you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. There is more phone call to come,

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Speaker 3: so we can.

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Speaker 4: Always You are supposed to hype our listeners up. Carly,

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Speaker 4: You're amazing and you deserve a second date.

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Speaker 1: We see how much she struggled to get that.

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Speaker 3: That was really inspired.

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Speaker 4: I was going to bring up the snort and maybe

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Speaker 3: It is a good point.

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Speaker 1: She did mention that she laughed so hard during the

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Speaker 1: date that she snorted and that could have been a

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Speaker 3: But we don't know. Which reminds me nobody be too

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Speaker 1: If she starts snorting and then Brooks starts snorting, Oh yeah, you.

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Speaker 5: Guys are funny, but as funny as him.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, that's really motivated me to try super

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Speaker 1: hard for you. I'm gonna get one hundred percent effort

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Speaker 1: into this. I'm dialing his number right now. Let's see

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Speaker 6: Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, guys. I really hope you can get another

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Speaker 3: All right, let's see here we go. Hello, Hey, we're

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Speaker 3: looking to talk with Ethan.

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Speaker 6: Okay, this is Ethan.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Ethan.

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Speaker 2: There's a bunch of us here.

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Speaker 6: Who's this Hello?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a radio show called brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. We're like a team, very dysfunctional team,

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Speaker 1: and we're doing Yeah, we are together, and we're here

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Speaker 1: doing a segment called a second date update.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, why are you calling me?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 6: This is?

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Speaker 3: Love?

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Speaker 4: When people ask that, ye's just such a natural transition.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So it's a segment where we help out listeners who've

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Speaker 1: gone out on a date with somebody but the second

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Speaker 1: date hasn't materialized yet. We try and figure out why

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Speaker 1: if there's a reason. So we're doing that for one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners that you went out with, named Carly.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Carly, I know, Carly, what does this mean?

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Speaker 3: She mentioned you were a funny guy. It's coming across dude.

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Speaker 4: No, I mean, honestly, from your response, it sounds like

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Speaker 4: maybe you were planning on calling Carly back and going

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Speaker 6: Uh yeah, I mean are you serious? Am I really

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Speaker 6: on the air talking about this?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, segment we have based around dating it you

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Speaker 4: were just gonna say, yeah, trust us.

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Speaker 3: I know this is a weird situation to be in.

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Speaker 1: But Carly is seriously confused because she says she had

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Speaker 1: a great time with you, but she's not seeing the

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Speaker 1: same amount of effort from you as she was.

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Speaker 3: Before the date, kind of like an energy. We're not

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Speaker 3: sure if anything's changed.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's surprising because I'm not trying to blow her off.

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Speaker 6: We got a great time Okay.

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Speaker 2: That is so cute to hear. So you really liked her?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I thought she was great. She has a great

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Speaker 2: She was actually worried about that.

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Speaker 3: So it sounds like you do want to go out

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Speaker 3: As far, she doesn't know you well enough yet. She

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but everything that we're hearing right now sounds like

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Speaker 3: You want to see her.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 6: You know, maybe I shouldn't be saying this. Don't don't

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Speaker 6: tell her this, it's maybe too early. I kind of

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Speaker 3: You bought that's interesting. That's cute, like a travel size

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Speaker 6: Why?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what made you do that? Is it like a

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Speaker 1: For her or something?

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Speaker 6: To be honest, my ex used to wear it and

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Speaker 1: Wild who God, you bought it because it's the same

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Speaker 5: For bro like the way I'm on the phone, I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's Carly that's on the other line listening to this. Uh,

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Speaker 1: that's how this works. We usually call her in.

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Speaker 2: That is so weird.

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Speaker 5: He didn't know even the same as your ex? Are

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Speaker 6: I didn't know you were on, Harley, I didn't know

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well I am. And that's disturbing, Like why, like, okay, seriously,

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Speaker 5: Brooke Alexis, can you guys help me out on that?

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Speaker 4: I mean, it could be worse. He could have bought

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Speaker 3: Oh, that would have been a mousweeter.

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Speaker 2: My mind did not even do that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I think it's a good question.

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Speaker 1: Why why do you want Carly to be wearing that

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Speaker 3: Remind you of your ex.

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Speaker 6: I like the sense. I thought she would smell grate

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, Okay, maybe maybe there could be a different

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Speaker 4: scent though for Carly. You know, like, yes, like my guy,

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Speaker 4: my husband is a sent guy. He loves sense like

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Speaker 4: you just maybe need to explore a different set trumps.

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Speaker 3: Stop trying to change men with every sentence.

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Speaker 2: Say, dude, that is disturbing. You do not want to

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm trying to read this and help you out here. Ethan,

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Speaker 1: you're saying you didn't buy it because it reminds you

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Speaker 6: That's right. This is not about my ex at all.

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Speaker 6: She doesn't own the sense, she doesn't own the perfume.

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Speaker 6: Anyone could buy it. I love the scent, and I

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Speaker 6: thought Carley would smell great with an honor. That was

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Speaker 3: Are you hearing him?

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Speaker 5: I'm trying. I'm really trying to be open about this.

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Speaker 5: But like I also, I feel like when you smell

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Speaker 5: a smell, you associate it with whoever was wearing it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but maybe you're a more powerful woman and he'll

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Speaker 2: Did the sense on your body have different effects too?

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Speaker 3: Literally, it could have been anybody.

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Speaker 1: If his male man had been wearing the perfume, it

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Speaker 3: And I say the.

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Speaker 1: Fact here that like the scent is the number one

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Speaker 4: Like okay, but but listen, he was never going to

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, I thought I was just talking to you, guys.

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Speaker 4: I mean, so technically we set him up for this,

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Speaker 4: ye know what I mean, Carly, like you got to

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Speaker 5: Of I feel like you're not wrong. I agree with you, guys,

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Speaker 5: so you.

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Speaker 6: Wear it then? Because I really like it?

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Speaker 3: Oh why don't I shouldn't have heard that question.

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Speaker 1: Is that very very important to you if you're going

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Speaker 6: Like I said, guys, I really like it.

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Speaker 5: You had me up until there. I don't know. Now

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Speaker 5: I'm getting like creep again.

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Speaker 2: That's our fault. We're piling not yes, okay.

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Speaker 1: We are the weirdos in this conversation. He is totally normal,

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Speaker 1: I would.

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Speaker 3: Spray another before he sprays that.

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Speaker 6: That's a great point. I could wear it so you

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Speaker 6: could know it on me first.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I don't think men with women is real hot.

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Speaker 1: I'm starting to like this even more. Yeah, I'm very curious,

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Speaker 1: just as an experiment to see how the second interaction

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Speaker 4: She's gonna wear a cologne now, yeah, get some Georgia HARMANI.

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Speaker 5: But really were my ex boyfriend's cologne.

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Speaker 6: I'll wear it?

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Speaker 4: Sure, Okay, all fair in love and sense.

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Speaker 1: And the whole reason that we called you is to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you need to ask a different set.

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Speaker 6: I would love to see her again.

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Speaker 3: You are okay?

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Speaker 1: And Carly, are you still up for this even despite

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Speaker 5: I guess so I'll give it.

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Speaker 3: I'm a little bit surprised.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we did a good job. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: One way better than if he had said she had

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Speaker 1: So that's this was actually a big win for.

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Speaker 2: Every can't come from back from that, No, you can't.

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Speaker 3: Looking Jeffrey in the morning. Man.

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Speaker 1: I'm just really happy that she didn't overreact when she

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Speaker 3: At first, I thought like, oh no, this is it.

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Speaker 3: It's over. We're not gonna come back.

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Speaker 4: You don't say that part out loud, man, Like you

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Speaker 4: like hell yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I understand he didn't know.

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Speaker 4: But let's just keep it to myself.

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Speaker 1: It was, like you said, like it was kind of

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Speaker 3: And also he didn't.

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Speaker 1: He's like, oh yeah, I'm just gonna get her the

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Speaker 4: Let's be honest, the only reason any guy ever knows

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Speaker 3: I don't know they'll smell like Michelle.

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Speaker 1: So then let's give credit to Carle who was able

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Speaker 3: I'm worried about how pungent it's gonna be. Are they

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