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Speaker 1: Subject Bigger is not always better. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm

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Speaker 1: a forty four year old single woman recently divorced. I

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Speaker 1: was with the same man for over half of my life.

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Speaker 1: Since the divorce, I've dated two men. The first guy

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Speaker 1: was over six feet tall, but he had little feet,

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Speaker 1: if you know what I mean. I cannot see us

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Speaker 1: staying together because I lived with mediocre sex all throughout

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Speaker 1: my marriage. This new guy I'm dating has the same issue.

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Speaker 1: I used to assume that the bigger the feet the

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Speaker 1: hands meant that all of his things would be bigger.

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Speaker 1: This guy is six' four with a flat, stomach a nice,

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Speaker 1: chest big muscular thighs and that's. It he's a youth,

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Speaker 1: pastor he's never been, married and he doesn't have any.

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Speaker 1: CHILDREN i know why my girlfriends laugh at me WHEN

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Speaker 1: i complain about this, man because their expectations are lower than.

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Speaker 1: Mine they keep telling me that, nowadays if the man

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Speaker 1: is eighty percent, perfect then just go with. IT i

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Speaker 1: am not ready to settle right, now So i've planned

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Speaker 1: a girl's trip to go to The caribbean to see

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Speaker 1: if the hype is true about those. MEN i know

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Speaker 1: it sounds Like i'm wild and too free right, now

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Speaker 1: but during my sexless, MARRIAGE i read a lot and

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Speaker 1: watched a lot of explicit. VIDEOS i owe it to

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Speaker 1: myself to live a little and see what men of

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Speaker 1: other cultures have to. Offer three of my girlfriends are

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Speaker 1: going with, me and they Think i'm joking about trying

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Speaker 1: to get my groove. Back it's quite possible that my

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Speaker 1: next husband is over there BECAUSE i have been disappointed

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Speaker 1: in THE. Us what's wrong with living out a fantasy

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Speaker 1: IF i do it.

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Speaker 2: Safely come, On, shirley.

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Speaker 3: Let's hear what you got to. Say, okay, well give

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Speaker 3: me a. Second i'm ready, Now i'm, excited.

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Speaker 4: All.

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Speaker 1: RIGHT i want to tell this woman to live her.

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Speaker 1: Life but please know that doing it the way she's

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Speaker 1: trying to do it could backfire on. HER i, mean

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Speaker 1: men do this all the. Time they go To brazil

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Speaker 1: to hook, up blah blah. Blah it's just a good

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Speaker 1: time for. Them but, you as a, woman if you

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Speaker 1: hook up with a man in The caribbean just to

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Speaker 1: explore and all that blah blah, blah you will not

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Speaker 1: be looked upon the same because of double. Standards but

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Speaker 1: my question to you.

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Speaker 2: Is what do you really?

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Speaker 1: WANT i, mean you say that's is that all it

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Speaker 1: is that You you don't want anything. Serious you just

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Speaker 1: want to play, safely you, Say and you want a

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Speaker 1: man with a big. Ego, okay you don't want a.

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Speaker 1: Relationship it'll be purely physical on your. Part you don't

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Speaker 1: Need steve or my permission for.

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Speaker 2: That you really. Don't you're. Grown you said it would be.

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Speaker 1: Safe but but the fact that you wrote us tells

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Speaker 1: me that you're second guessing this.

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Speaker 2: Decision and you're not one hundred percent with this. DECISION

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Speaker 2: i don't think this is really who you. Are You're

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Speaker 2: you're just on one right.

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Speaker 1: Now you just want to while, Out like you, say

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Speaker 1: so remember you can change your. Mind if that's the.

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Speaker 1: Case you you have a good, man, right you have

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Speaker 1: a good man who's interested in.

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Speaker 2: You SO i, say don't throw him, away and please.

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Speaker 1: Do not tell him the real purpose of your trip

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Speaker 1: to The caribbean is to wile out with an island

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Speaker 1: man to see what the rumors about them are? True

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Speaker 1: is you know concerning their size that that's not going

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Speaker 1: to go over, Well.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Again, SURELEY i don't know what's the letter for.

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Speaker 2: Exactly she doesn't need our.

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Speaker 5: Position you live in a sexless. Marriage you're dating two guys.

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Speaker 5: Now one of them got small, feet small. Everything the

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Speaker 5: other one got big, thighs flat, stomach big, chest and

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Speaker 5: he's still.

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Speaker 3: Small and now you, mad, okay and you know.

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Speaker 2: What are you looking?

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Speaker 3: FOR i mean and and and and what is going

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Speaker 3: to be acceptable for?

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Speaker 5: You because you'd, say while you and your sexist, marriage

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Speaker 5: you read a lot and you saw a lot of,

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Speaker 5: videos and you just think you should go somewhere and

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Speaker 5: experience things for. Yourself, okay go, ahead, okay go. Ahead

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Speaker 5: what you're asking us?

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Speaker 3: For you?

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Speaker 5: Know and And i'm at the point now where you know.

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Speaker 3: Just what what do you? Want? OH i got.

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Speaker 5: It she want to have some good, Sex, okay go have.

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Speaker 5: It you do not have to leave the country for.

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Speaker 5: That i've been disappointed in the men in THE. Us,

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Speaker 5: well a lot of men probably been disappointed in you. Too,

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Speaker 5: yes one Thing i've. Learned you, know if you keep

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Speaker 5: complaining about, something have you ever thought that maybe?

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Speaker 3: Issue could it?

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Speaker 5: Issue ain't? Nothing ain't nobody good? Enoughing and and here's

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Speaker 5: the problem in this whole letter for, me you're not

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Speaker 5: describing any qualities of a man that you're actually looking.

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Speaker 5: For you're not looking for a man to treat you.

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Speaker 5: Right you're not looking for somebody you can make it

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Speaker 5: kind and, generous who's. Ambitious you're not looking for anybody

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Speaker 5: who has. Goals they, said none of. That you're just

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Speaker 5: looking for something that's the right. Size you can go

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Speaker 5: do what do you? Want if that's, it why write

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Speaker 5: a letter about?

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Speaker 5: Now you done planning this trip to The, caribbeans and

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Speaker 5: the girls think you joking about getting your groove. Back

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Speaker 5: you've heard that them men over, there it's gonna be

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Speaker 5: small me and over there too hard to find the

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Speaker 5: life out. Here, yeah you know, what we come. Back

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Speaker 5: i'm gonna ask you a. Question i'm gonna.

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Speaker 3: Ask her a, Question, okay all, right.

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Speaker 5: And if anybody can answer it on this, show please

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Speaker 5: just answer far all, right ask her.

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Speaker 2: Question she just wants to while.

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Speaker 3: Out, steve all, Right i'm gonna ask you a.

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Speaker 1: Question, well have part two of your response coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the. Hour Today's Strawberry letters

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Speaker 1: subject Is bigger is not always. Better we'll get back

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Speaker 1: into it right after. This you're Listening Steve Hardy Morning.

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Speaker 4: it or your money?

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Speaker 2: Back all?

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Speaker 1: Right come, On, Steve let's recap today's strawberry. Letter the

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Speaker 1: subject Is bigger is not always? Better you said before

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Speaker 1: the break that you wanted a question you wanted to

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Speaker 1: ask a.

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Speaker 3: Question let me just recap.

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Speaker 5: It forty four you old woman in sexless, marriage had

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Speaker 5: been doing some reading and watching videos while she was.

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Speaker 3: Married now she's.

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Speaker 5: Single she's dating two, men one of them six feet

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Speaker 5: and but he got small, feet so he's small. Everywhere

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Speaker 5: then she dating another man the six four flat, stomach big,

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Speaker 5: chest big. Dives but that's all she. Got friends are totally.

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Speaker 5: Nowadays get somebody eighty perent since you're doing.

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Speaker 3: Good she don't. Know, yep she thinks she deserved.

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Speaker 5: More so now she'd have planned the trip to The,

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Speaker 5: caribbean gonna do What stella got her groove. BACK a

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Speaker 5: girls think she's, joking but she's seriously because she has

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Speaker 5: heard over there that men are more. WELL i got

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Speaker 5: news for. You you can go To, jamaica you can

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Speaker 5: to and some small people over there to. You SO

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Speaker 5: i have a question for. You what exactly are you looking?

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Speaker 5: For do you have some criteria anything we can help you.

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Speaker 5: WITH i, MEAN i don't know how much is their?

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Speaker 5: Limit is too? Much too? Much what's too? Small let's

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Speaker 5: let's let's just start. There let's just start with what

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Speaker 3: We don't know.

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Speaker 5: That and you know, what when you keep having the

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Speaker 3: You have to ask, yourself is it? Me is it?

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Speaker 3: Me maybe some people have actually been. Adequate maybe maybe.

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Speaker 5: write their own. Jokes let me give you an example. That,

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Speaker 5: is maybe you wanted the wonders of the. WORLD i,

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Speaker 5: Know i've been to The Grand canyon AND i stood

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Speaker 3: Me maybe maybe maybe some people don't feel that. Way you,

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Speaker 3: know that's what she. WANTS i, like you, KNOW i like.

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Speaker 2: Cups she wants an epic.

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Speaker 3: Experience let me be. DONE i like drinking my water

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Speaker 2: Bucket, okay not, That, no these.

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Speaker 5: Are Questions i'm without Without i'm not being explicit in any.

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Speaker 5: Way i'm just, saying what do you? Prefer because we

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Speaker 5: have to find a way to.

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Speaker 1: Help we know what she.

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Speaker 2: Prefers she wants an epic.

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Speaker 5: Experience, well epic know. That, well the men want an

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Speaker 5: epic experience. Too everybody want. Epic maybe you ain't been.

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Speaker 5: Epic maybe maybe it's.

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Speaker 3: You, sweeted ain't nothing good enough of. You she ain't met, nobody.

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Speaker 1: No, one no, one forty four years.

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Speaker 3: OLD i ain't met. Nobody that's.

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Speaker 1: Sad but she's done a quest, though she is gone

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Speaker 1: a quest, now so have had?

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Speaker 2: IT i, mean, yeah she's gonna be. Safe, well going over,

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Speaker 2: there you're fin to be.

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Speaker 5: Disappointed you, know why don't you look for somebody that

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Speaker 3: You why don't you look.

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Speaker 5: For somebody who's, loyal somebody who is loving and, kind who's,

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Speaker 5: ambition who can who can help y'all build a life?

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Speaker 5: Together y'all can have Some you're finna be just a

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Speaker 5: poet woman in search of big.

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Speaker 3: Things, oh you're making.

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Speaker 2: Sense i'm just telling. You she doesn't want to make.

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Speaker 1: Sense she doesn't want to be.

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Speaker 2: Serious, well, okay she doesn't want. Anything don't drag us into.

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Speaker 2: THIS i know we're not going out permission to do

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Speaker 2: what she.

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Speaker 3: Wants i'm gonna go over, there And i'm gonna be. Safe,

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Speaker 1: That she should want, that but she doesn't say that

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Speaker 2: That she thinks she. Does though you going Craigs.

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Speaker 1: There, Now, steve she, SAYS i owe it to myself

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Speaker 2: Of other cultures have to.

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Speaker 1: Says it's quite possible that my next husband is over

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Speaker 5: Us, WELL i Recommend africa BECAUSE i was over there

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Speaker 3: I was watching the tribal, dance And lord have.

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Speaker 3: DARE i, SAID i, went what tribe is? This, everybody old,

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Speaker 3: Lady oh, no they were.

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Speaker 5: BLESSED i was going. OUT i couldn't EVEN i. COULDN'T

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Speaker 5: What, hey, man y'all need to stop all this. Kicking

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Speaker 5: y'all need kicking out because all this many they don't

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Speaker 2: WORRIED i pulled all.

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Speaker 5: SIDE i, said y'all will need some long skirts to.

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Speaker 2: Do out with you all?

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