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Speaker 1: I was waiting for You're ready in case you missed it.

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Speaker 1: Just the other day at this time we were talking

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Speaker 1: this point. Well, I'm just really excited for her because

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Speaker 1: to the phones now and see who's out there for you.

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Speaker 1: Vicky Bear, Oh, how are you, Klin, I'm good? Are

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Speaker 1: you good? Let me introduce you to Victoria. Hi? Hi,

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Speaker 1: that guy said how romantic action? This is great? Do

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Speaker 1: All right, calin, what's your advice for Victoria? So my

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Speaker 1: And okay, so here's my rationale. Okay, even if you

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Speaker 1: You guys are always asking stupid questions. Anyway, chick want

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Speaker 1: each other out. Eight three four three one six one

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Speaker 1: are you? I am good? Thank you for asking. More importantly,

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Speaker 1: Dustin meet Victoria. Hire every time. My first question is

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Speaker 1: The Jewil Show on demand, it's another Jewbil phone frame

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Speaker 1: day mornings. That's twenties nurse three, Valerie, How can I

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Speaker 1: I am the owner and the managers. I was in

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Speaker 1: Plants can't really be faulty, They're just plants. Okay. So

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Speaker 1: And how are the ferns that I purchased from you dying?

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Speaker 1: Did you water the plants? Did I what water? Did

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Speaker 1: you're trying to put the death of these plants on me.

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Speaker 1: And I had no idea. Nobody informed me at your

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Speaker 1: Why did you buy plants if you didn't want to

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Speaker 1: take care of them? Well, because I thought they were

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Speaker 1: so it's possible that they might just need a little

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Speaker 1: that plants need sunlight and water. Okay, well, where'd you

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Speaker 1: learn that? Well? I learned it when I was a

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Speaker 1: kid in elementary school learning about photosynthesis. You're talking about

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Speaker 1: the Jewel Show doing a phone prank on you and

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Speaker 1: your employee. Do your employee John set you up? Oh?

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Speaker 1: None of them said, oh my god, you have me so,

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Speaker 1: but never that beligerous. That's the Jewel Show on demand.

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Speaker 1: I've never been ghosted. Scientists just released a study from

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Speaker 1: right now? Okay, okay, all right, here we go, Hello him,

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Speaker 1: speak to Marissa. Please, Yes, this is she, Hi, Marissa,

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Speaker 1: how's it going good? I mean I think did I

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Speaker 1: Like he likes to wear jeans and sneakers and T

421
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: shirts and like very clearly doesn't really pay attention to

422
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 1: like fashion friends and stuff like that, which like here

423
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,959
Speaker 1: to each their own. But like I'm a very fashion

424
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,719
Speaker 1: forward person, Like I'm that person and he's not that person.

425
00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 1: And I also just think like people who don't really

426
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 1: like invest that time in themselves like need to work

427
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 1: on themselves, you know what I mean. It's kind of

428
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 1: like they don't really care. So like what else don't

429
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,879
Speaker 1: they care about themselves? You know? I get that, you

430
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 1: know impression, However, you didn't see it as an opportunity

431
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: to be like, oh I can change this, I could

432
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: upgrade you. I don't think you can teach like a

433
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 1: guy to have pride in himself, you know what I mean,

434
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: Like either he thinks he's awesome or he doesn't. And

435
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,199
Speaker 1: I just don't think he does by the way he

436
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,880
Speaker 1: presents hisself. Okay, what was so? What was so bad

437
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 1: about his clothes? His jeans? Like you could tell he's

438
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,239
Speaker 1: probably worn them, like for maybe two weeks straight, like

439
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,880
Speaker 1: you know, to the butt area looks good. It was Staggie.

440
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: You're like, I just if you're going to dress up

441
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: on a first date and like you're Saggie, super worn

442
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: jeans that need a wash, Like come on, all right, Well,

443
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 1: thank you for being honest about that. So now I

444
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 1: should tell you something that's truthful to Aiden is actually

445
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 1: on the phone. He's been listening the whole time, and

446
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: he wants to talk to you. Still I feel that

447
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: I think, so, Hi, hey didn't know you were there,

448
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 1: So you didn't like the clothes. That's that was the

449
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 1: deal breaker for you. I mean, what is the saying

450
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,640
Speaker 1: if the clothes day a lot about the man? So yeah,

451
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: like for a first date, you know, I dress a

452
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 1: little more comfortable, so then I'm more comfortable. I can

453
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: not have to worry about being stiff or not presenting myself,

454
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,159
Speaker 1: you know, in a certain way that can be a

455
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: little more intimidating. I mean, I have all the designer

456
00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,400
Speaker 1: suits at home that you could want, but for date,

457
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to Yeah, I don't want to show

458
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: up in something and have the woman be like, oh, well,

459
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,119
Speaker 1: this is a little intimidating that he's wearing a power

460
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 1: suit to a first date. So I tried to dress

461
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 1: a little more casually so then I can be comfortable

462
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: and then she can be comfortable with me. I oh,

463
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: I mean, it's like unbelievable that you have those types

464
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: of things, because like you did not even go like

465
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,439
Speaker 1: big brown. It's like, you know, like you went like

466
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: we've been dating slash married for seven years and I

467
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: don't care about development you have like the wardrobe at home,

468
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 1: like it's the first date. You gotta go like at

469
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: least in between, Like, you know, if I'm meeting with

470
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 1: a client, I'm not going to show up in my

471
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 1: jeans and sneakers. But at the same time, I didn't

472
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 1: feel like I was meeting with a client. I thought

473
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: I was meeting, you know, on a casual first date.

474
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 1: I mean, if I had known that that was the

475
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: type of person you were. I guess I would have

476
00:24:56,600 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: dressed more that way. That's not who I and when

477
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm not at work all the time, so I didn't

478
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: want to set an impression, especially a first impression. Would

479
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: it have made a difference to you if he was

480
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: in a power suit when he showed up. I mean, yeah, like,

481
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:17,120
Speaker 1: I definitely probably would have went on like another date

482
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: or two. But then the second I found out that,

483
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: like the power suit is kind of a costume and

484
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: that's not really his personality, Like, it probably wouldn't have

485
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: gone much further, you know what I mean. You can

486
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: go off on what I was wearing all you like,

487
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: but for someone who claims to be fashion forward, everything

488
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: you were wearing was at least a season ago, if

489
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:41,439
Speaker 1: not more. Oh all right, fashion is terrible, you should

490
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: look it up. I liked our Earth a little bit,

491
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: so like, don't throchet on somebody who was rugal and

492
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: can still keep things fresh. There's a difference of being

493
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 1: though past fashion and being like retro chic, and you

494
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 1: kind of fell somewhere in the middle there that it

495
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: didn't quite work. I didn't, but I don't judge on

496
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: the superficial things like that. I was more going off

497
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 1: of the conversation. I mean, if I got to be honest, though,

498
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: it wasn't working for me either. It was a first date.

499
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: You know, first dates sometimes go a little sideways, they're

500
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: a little awkward. So I thought, well, let's do a

501
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 1: second date and see, you know, if the first feeling

502
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: is right or if it was just a matter of

503
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: first date jitters, let's try it, Aiden Mercer, would you

504
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: like to go on another day with Aiden? We'll pay

505
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: for it. No, thank you. I don't know why, Like Aiden,

506
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: like you thought like insulting me after like all that

507
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 1: would win me over at the end, But no, I do.

508
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't insulting you, but I mean your

509
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 1: fashion was kind of insulting everyone in the room. Oh,

510
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: all that aside, I would like a second chance if

511
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,479
Speaker 1: the big issue was the clothing. All wear what you

512
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 1: want me to wear? I mean absolutely not. There is

513
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: no fit in the world that would make me want

514
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,959
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with you. Well, all right, then,

515
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: good to know. I guess I don't need to The

516
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: Jewels show on demand Jewils, Dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hey,

517
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: what's up? This is the Jewels show. You texted us

518
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: at four or six one and said you had a

519
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: dirty little secret. So now we're calling you back. What's up?

520
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 1: Hih hi? Can you tell us your dirty little secret?

521
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 1: How are you busy? No? I mean no, okay, let

522
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: me just move away from my desk. Um okay. So

523
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 1: it was like a year ago. I'm on tender and

524
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: I see this woman and she's kind of like, kind

525
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: of intimidating, looking like a little wild and I'm like, okay,

526
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: well I'll shoot my shot and I do and it

527
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 1: works out. She matches with me. I'm like great. So

528
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: we go out and she shows up and she is

529
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:08,200
Speaker 1: like stunning people. Other people's heads were turning in the restaurant. Okay,

530
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 1: it was like tight leather pants, like steals, makeup, lipstick,

531
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: like it looks like she just came out of the

532
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: salon like it was. It was shocking. Okay, a good way.

533
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: Then she suggests, do you want to go out afterwards?

534
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: You want to go grab a drink. I'm like oh great,

535
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: So things are going really well. And then we end

536
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: up back at my place and it was wild, just intense,

537
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: just had this confidence and just she it was like

538
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: she knew what she wanted, and she knew how to

539
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: get what I wanted. Yeah, like I always say, you know,

540
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: you don't want someone who's timid or somebody who's fairly

541
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: new to the game. I wanted Michael Jordan, Lebron James

542
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: sound a date with Lebron James, and that's great, And

543
00:28:52,560 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: if Lebron wants the ball, you get Lebron the ball. Okay. Yeah.

544
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: The next morning, right, she leaves, It's all good, and

545
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: then completely ghosts me. I thought everything was fine, I

546
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 1: thought it was all good, but like I could not

547
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 1: get her out of my mind. Right, this was this

548
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: felt like a dream, like it didn't even happen. Then,

549
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: since she's ghosting me, I'm like, okay, well, a couple

550
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 1: of weeks go by, I just move on. I think,

551
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,880
Speaker 1: you know, too bad. Another month goes by, I meet

552
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: someone new. She's great, she's awesome, and I'm still beating her.

553
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: So last week we're out in town my girlfriend and

554
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: I'm a current girlfriend, and who do I see but

555
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 1: that girl from the hookup, oh, and still looking stunning.

556
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 1: And I am like, now that's all I can think about.

557
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: And I start to think about the way things are

558
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: with my current girlfriend, which is good, but it's not

559
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: where was right. You're playing college ball with your girlfriend

560
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 1: and the other one is Lebron James. I'm not saying that,

561
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: but I'm not disagreed. You don't have to because I

562
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 1: said it for you still at least in the NBA. Okay,

563
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: but maybe just not a name everybody knows. Yeah, let's

564
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: say that she might be coming off the bench. Okay,

565
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: whatever that one person did that you liked so much, Yeah,

566
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: throw it out there and just go. You know what

567
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: I was thinking about. I was thinking you could do

568
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 1: this very specific move on me, just randomly. I thought

569
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: about it. I want to try it, and then your

570
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 1: girlfriend could also be doing the thing that you like. Honestly,

571
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: I think it's really hot when dudes ask for certain things,

572
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: and I'm sure guys feel the same way when girls do.

573
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 1: It's just when you can communicate in that space, that's hot.

574
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I've had it before. Yeah, do

575
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: we have a whiffleball that I don't know? But what

576
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: that ruma do? You know? All right? Man, thank you

577
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: for your little secret. Appreciate it all right? Thanks? Good love.

578
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: The Jewel Show on demand if you're a fan of

579
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: terrible singing, You're in luck. It's the Jewel Show and

580
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: it's time for Good Vibes Only. It's the segment that

581
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: we do this same time every single week. You call

582
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: up and tell us what you feel good about, because

583
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: the world wants you to focus on the negative. You know,

584
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: you spend most of your week focusing on the things

585
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 1: that are wrong, So we take a few moments to

586
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 1: focus on what's good. I love that, except you have

587
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: to tell us what your good vibe is, usually in

588
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: a very weird way. And today people have to sing

589
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: their good vibe and you must include one high note.

590
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: So this was made for Victoria. Yeah, let's go to

591
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: the phones eight at eight three four three one six

592
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 1: one text in four one o six one. Hello Amanda, Hello, Hello, Amanda, Welcome, Hello,

593
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: Welcome to Good Vibes Only. What is your good vibe?

594
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear you sing it? Thirty and

595
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm on yeah, yeah, congratulations, that's amazing. I would be

596
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: singing as well well. Yeah, absolutely, good job on hitting

597
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: that high note too. Yea, oh, thank you. I practiced

598
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: like you're really good at karaaoke. I'm a master. Marily

599
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: I knew. Yeah, is that how you've been losing the weight?

600
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: Just karaoking like crazy? It is good caliber. No. I

601
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 1: do a hip hop dance YouTube channel called Fitness Marshal. Okay,

602
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: a little plug in there. We can do it with you. Yes,

603
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 1: you can do it on YouTube. And honestly, he's great.

604
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 1: He has like these thirty minutest sweat sessions, so it's

605
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: like if you only have thirty minutes, at least you're

606
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: getting some cardio in. So yeah, I I've just kind

607
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: of changed my diet and been doing hip hop dancing

608
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: and of it, I've lost thirty one. Thank you for

609
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: your phone call, Amanda, appreciate it. Yeah, and good for you. Yep,

610
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: have a good one one six one text and four

611
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: one six one Hey Jamie, what is your good vibe? Um?

612
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: Going to Guadamala with my family. My daughter's daycare owner

613
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: is from there and she's organizing our trip and Jess

614
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 1: taking care of all up the planning, and it's expensive,

615
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: we can't afford it, but we can't pass up this opportunity.

616
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: And we're going to hike to amay In Ruin and

617
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: even hike to a bikane that whole oh good. That

618
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: whole five, that whole story is beautiful. And also that

619
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 1: was a wonderful tune that you put together. I was

620
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: waiting to see where the high note was gonna get

621
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: that volcano and apeck, really you sealed the deal. You

622
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: really took it home with the volcano high No, thank

623
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: you guys. Have a good one, Jamie, enjoy your trip,

624
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 1: have a great time. That's so cool. Yeah, calls up

625
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: beaday three four three one six one, text in four

626
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: one six one? What are you feeling good about today?

627
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,320
Speaker 1: And you have to sing it? And now it's time

628
00:33:56,360 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: for Victoria Ramirez. Victoria, what are you feeling good about today?

629
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go out tonight. Yeah. She even put her

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Speaker 1: hand Victoria put her hand over her like she was

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Speaker 1: Mariah carry in the recording studio. Did that was all right? Girl?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Call us one six one, text in four

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Speaker 1: one oh six one Melissa, what are you feeling good about?

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Speaker 1: My good vibe and said I've both gone a masking cruise?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm sorry what I can't hear anymore? Alaskan cruise?

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Speaker 1: That's fun? That is fun. You know why cruises are

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Speaker 1: the best. It's always the buffets. And usually if it's

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Speaker 1: a good cruise, they have the twenty four hours soft

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Speaker 1: serve ice cream ready to go at all to do Yes,

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Speaker 1: call us one, text in four one O six one, Nina,

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Speaker 1: what is your good vibe? Um? I started a new

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Speaker 1: job this week. Nina and I have known each other

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Speaker 1: for a long time. You sing though you can't sing right,

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Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna do that. Really, I want to

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Speaker 1: hear you say, yeah, I'm not gonna do It's funny

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Speaker 1: because I used to sing, but now I don't sing anymore.

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Speaker 1: Now it's just something I do for myself in the shower.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Now's your opportunity though, for your big comeback. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna stick with. I started a new job. We'll

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Speaker 1: keep it there. That's not call us eight three one

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Speaker 1: six one. Text in four one O six one. What's

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Speaker 1: your good vibe? And for me, my good vibe today

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Speaker 1: is I'm so freaking happy that I didn't get caught

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Speaker 1: by security. We're not Pete in the parking garage today? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I had when I showed him. Nah, we parked there too.

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Speaker 1: I know, Now, what do you think this is? I

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Speaker 1: went to the little corner spot just so I could pee,

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Speaker 1: and then I parked in the normal spot that I'm parking.

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Speaker 1: Oh so happy that I didn't get caught in the pocket.

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Speaker 1: See also, I walk right by that spot every time

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Speaker 1: when I go to my car. I got I walk

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Speaker 1: by Jewels car and that little corner that you peeed

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Speaker 1: in didn't hold it today. I'm so gross. So that's

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Speaker 1: how I'm feeling good about all this. Up three six

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Speaker 1: one six one The Jewels Show on demand