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Speaker 1: I welcome to episode one oh eight of the Bobby Cast.

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Speaker 1: It is right after a show on Tuesday, and we

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Speaker 1: have celebrated five years of being a show. So I

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Speaker 1: thought we would come on and talked about that for

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Speaker 1: a minute, because what's up. I don't I mean, I

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Speaker 1: didn't know what we were going to do. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: when you bring it up, like five years, it's still

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Speaker 1: crazy to believe that. And I think at some point

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have a big show, big concert in our studio.

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Speaker 1: But just for us to be able to talk about

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Speaker 1: it long form, it's pretty crazy because I consider March

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Speaker 1: first to be our five year anniversary. So it's March

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Speaker 1: thirteenth and now, I mean it's five years, but it

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Speaker 1: feels like at times like twenty, doesn't it. Yeah, take

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Speaker 1: a different life, Yeah, Like I feel like when we

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Speaker 1: got here, man, we hit the ground running so hard

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Speaker 1: that we haven't had time to breathe even today. I

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Speaker 1: was thinking about it the other day. I haven't had

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Speaker 1: time to just go at all because it's been first

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Speaker 1: ratings pressure all the time because we're always in new

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Speaker 1: and then it's a lot so anyway, we're here five

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Speaker 1: years and what do you think about? It was the

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Speaker 1: first memory that comes to your mind. We think about

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Speaker 1: moving here, us living in those apartments right when we

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Speaker 1: got here, and I was thinking what are we doing?

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Speaker 1: And it was temporary housing provided by our work, and

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Speaker 1: I didn't know how to get anywhere, drive anywhere, and

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Speaker 1: And it was so cold we moved here. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: was going, what is happening? And we were trying to

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Speaker 1: work out? We moved all the way here the whole.

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Speaker 1: Then that leads me to the weirdness and here with

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Speaker 1: the people may not understand exactly how the show works,

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Speaker 1: but you're relying upon clocks and times and commercial and

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Speaker 1: we were changing the way we did that a little bit,

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Speaker 1: and you were so fixated on it that it just

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Speaker 1: nothing felt normal. And we've been doing a pretty normal

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Speaker 1: And we did okay talk show before we came here. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was a lot of talk. We played one song maybe,

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Speaker 1: and that was as before Eddie was part of the show.

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Speaker 1: So this is you know, pretty Eddie, because Eddie moved

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Speaker 1: over here with us. But we we played one song,

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Speaker 1: And then we came here and everybody was so stunned

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Speaker 1: and get out and like lunchbox and I haven't started

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Speaker 1: to talking. Bobby be like wrap it up, we gotta go.

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Speaker 1: We were like, okay, well and listen. Over the last

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Speaker 1: five years, we've definitely earned a bit of flexibility. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was a crazy change living those apartments though, now

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Speaker 1: that you talk about that, I haven't thought about that forever.

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Speaker 1: I remember living over there and Bell me, why didn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't know where we wanted to live. I had

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Speaker 1: no idea where I live. I didn't know anything about Nashville.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, I mean none of us did. I remember

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Speaker 1: the pressure of I had to come. We all came

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Speaker 1: to scout a place. You did? We all we all

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Speaker 1: I wanted to wait for my husband, and now I

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Speaker 1: I didn't that part. Yes, that's the brutal part because

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Speaker 1: He wasn't over a format. He had like, you know,

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Speaker 1: We should prown a couple of stations. And then all

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Speaker 1: And she never questioned what's gonna happen with us. She

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Speaker 1: And it was I don't think that I'm ready to

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Speaker 1: But and and you learn over the years just through

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Speaker 1: Think about how I lived with Raymond. Oh, yeah, you

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Speaker 1: Eddie didn't work with us now, I worked in TV.

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Speaker 1: I remember the weather. It was the biggest thing for me.

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Speaker 1: all right, then we reveal this is where we're gonna live,

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Speaker 1: this is the school district, this is where we are.

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Speaker 1: And it was stressful, and thank god she like liked it.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it was stressful because I remember shipmate Cruise

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Speaker 1: But yeah, and then I was idiot and moved forty

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Speaker 1: I golfed, Oh, life was so easy. Boy. Then Eddie

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Speaker 1: Like those hurts very much, I know, But the hurts

429
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Speaker 1: are blocking you. That hurts very much. They don't have

430
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,600
Speaker 1: to get rid of them. They've molded you into who

431
00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,879
Speaker 1: you are, thank you, but you can learn how to

432
00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: process some of them. He's not even complimenting me. I

433
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,360
Speaker 1: just say thank you, thank you, thanks, thank you very much,

434
00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 1: and okay, got it. Well. I do think that. Um.

435
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 1: By the way, I think everybody should download Criminal from

436
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 1: Lindsay too, because I hope that she soars and has

437
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 1: much success. But he's challenging on that. No, no, I know,

438
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 1: but I just hope that it happens. We listen, we

439
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 1: were together. That was a big part of it bombing out,

440
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,680
Speaker 1: and I think it was the seed of everything else.

441
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 1: I think that's the seed that made everything else grow

442
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 1: a little faster. Or I'm fixed and you don't even

443
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 1: know maybe I'm fixing. I just yeah, well, can we

444
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 1: can talking about like the five years and what the

445
00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:43,080
Speaker 1: five years have done to you? Like you've obviously changed

446
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 1: since we moved here, right, I'm better with time management,

447
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:51,280
Speaker 1: a lot more jobs. I've done a lot in five years.

448
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 1: Just not I've had to have a good run personally,

449
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: I guess, but I've done a lot of career wise. Yeah,

450
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,640
Speaker 1: we're on a freaking radio Hall of fame. That's crazy.

451
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, I know. I think in the next

452
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: five I'll probably get a girlfriend and wait another okay,

453
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: and so will you. I know we're getting it. Look,

454
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 1: we're literally growing out together. Do you know in our

455
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:15,479
Speaker 1: early forties will have been like you know, we've been

456
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 1: doing the show tod for twenty years, and then young

457
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: people can look at us to go, that's the old show.

458
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 1: Then you look at us like we look at old show.

459
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 1: We have to maintain being the young show. You can't

460
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 1: can't do? How do you do that? Let me talk

461
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,640
Speaker 1: about sleep number. We've gotten far away from what we're

462
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 1: want to talk about here. Uh sleep number. Did you

463
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: know that decluttering your bedroom can make you feel more

464
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:40,400
Speaker 1: relaxed so you can sleep more restfully. Maybe a new mattress.

465
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: Oh do you stop your sleep number? Yes, me too.

466
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Speaker 1: Nine ten couples for a different mattress firmness. Do you

467
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Speaker 1: and your husband for a different matress firmness? Yes, I'm

468
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Speaker 1: a forty, he's a sixty. M if he's a sixty,

469
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Speaker 1: and then add nine. Yep, what is he? He likes

470
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Speaker 1: it more. With the sleep Number bed, you can teach

471
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: your firmness on each side of the bed so it's comfortable. Yeah,

472
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 1: my sleep number settings a thirty. That tells you how

473
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Speaker 1: tough I am com here to Amy's husband. Granted, I'm

474
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Speaker 1: over here in a cotton bog. One out my sleep

475
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Speaker 1: IQ score last night. I gotta be honest, I don't

476
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Speaker 1: remember it, but I do love my sleep Number bed.

477
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Speaker 1: They start right now during the spring clearance event. Save

478
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Speaker 1: up to six hundred bucks in the most popular beds.

479
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Speaker 1: There are more than five fifty sleep number stores. Visit

480
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Speaker 1: sleep number dot com slash bones to find the store

481
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Speaker 1: near you. There you go, anything else, you guys will

482
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,360
Speaker 1: talk about, see what else have we done? I don't

483
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: even know. If I still sit down and went through

484
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: the calendar, I think there'd be a lot of cool

485
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: things I mean they're I mean, Bunny, you've like the

486
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: fact that you've the band part is still crazy to me,

487
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: and like singing on stage with Garth Brooks and Carrie Underwood,

488
00:23:55,320 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: and like Tim mcgrawl giving you his hat, like little things.

489
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 1: I think to me, the biggest part is we the show,

490
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,959
Speaker 1: and our listeners showed other companies and shows that they

491
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: could put on a normal person show and it'd be

492
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 1: a thing, because there are like ten clones of us now,

493
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 1: for better or worse, there are like ten clones of

494
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: us around the country because they go, oh, they can

495
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: do that. Why don't we find somebody from Top forty

496
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: and put them on and take them from Hot a c.

497
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 1: But we were never a show from Top forty. Weren't

498
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 1: supposed to be a Top forty. We were told we weren't.

499
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: We didn't fit that format. It's just a lucky mix

500
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 1: of whatever I am with all my friends and people

501
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: try to replicate. They try to replicate across the street.

502
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: They've done it in like five or six other markets

503
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: where they go, let's just get a Top forty guy

504
00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: and stick them with some country people and see what works.

505
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: There is no amazing success strategy to this show. There

506
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 1: never has been. It's never been, uh, this is how

507
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: to win. It's always been this is what we do.

508
00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:01,119
Speaker 1: Who wants it? And it's a difference. So it's weird too.

509
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: We got here, I didn't know any of the brand

510
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: new country. I knew all the nine eighties and nineties stuff,

511
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: all of it. That's what this is. A kid, I

512
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 1: know any of the stuff in the two years prior

513
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 1: to getting here. So I was like, huh, well, let

514
00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: me have Thomas. And he was a kid, was a kid.

515
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: He has a whole whole weird thing. And now we're

516
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 1: we're here, We're stuck the end. Mm hmm. Five more years?

517
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,640
Speaker 1: Oh I don't. I don't know like that. Maybe maybe

518
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 1: one more week. You never know. I don't. I'm not

519
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: I'm not bound here, okay, movie, wouldn't you know? Let

520
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 1: me know. I got a plan. I think you are

521
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 1: bound here for a bit, even without you. You're not

522
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: attached to me back up, So I mean I get that,

523
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 1: but I felt like, contractually, if you go somewhere, I

524
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: don't have to go with you necessarily, but I would

525
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 1: just fall away or my contract self des does a

526
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: self destruct? Why what if? What? Who did I sign

527
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 1: my right life to the company, so then they could

528
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: just throw somebody else in your seat and I'm bound

529
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: to work here basically. Okay, cool, because I have often

530
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: said like I don't, I wouldn't. You can retire, but

531
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to do radio without you. You can

532
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:24,719
Speaker 1: retire and go I'm out of radio. They can't make

533
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,479
Speaker 1: you keep doing something you don't want to do. But

534
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 1: you can't go to another company. Okay. I'm not trying

535
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: to go in another company, right unless you do. And

536
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: you can take me trying to say no, I'm not.

537
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 1: I'm not saying anything. I'm just saying, well, you know

538
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: you do. You're doing the whole thing right now where

539
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 1: you're speaking it speaking speaking, put it out there like Oprah,

540
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: you know, like dream board, Yeah, your vision board? What's

541
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: the vision board? Division board? You talk about how you

542
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: put things on your phone, like to make it what

543
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: you put on my phone? What I don't know. I

544
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: didn't know if by you saying I don't know if

545
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be here and if I'm gone, I don't know,

546
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: there'll be another five years. I don't know if I

547
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: can do mornings that long. Yeah, I'm pried and waking

548
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 1: up early in the morning. It's been fifteen years for

549
00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: me now waking up at three am. I think, And

550
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: it also gives me an excuse or I don't have

551
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: an excuse anymore about my social life because its always

552
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: I got go beit early. I can't do stuff. I

553
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: can't go out and cultivate friendships, can't do. But if

554
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,439
Speaker 1: I'm not working up our ear in the morning, then

555
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,880
Speaker 1: I don't have that excuse, and I find out I'm

556
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 1: really a losing or not. That's an interesting little study. Yeah,

557
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: then if I still I am a loser when I

558
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: get to stay out later, then I'm just a loser.

559
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: All right, I know, now, I know. Back to mornings.

560
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 1: It is all right, Gods of the game. Well, anyway,

561
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna wrap it. Thanks for five years of letting

562
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 1: us break artists be part of your morning show. That's

563
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 1: something we didn't talk about, like the Kelsey Ballerini's and

564
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: the christ Jansen's and the Cams and the low Cashes

565
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: and like the artists that we've taken and we're able

566
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 1: to just put them out there in our listeners, embrace

567
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: them totally and boom the way their careers went, you know,

568
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: We were the launching pad for a lot of cool

569
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: artists that are our friends now. So that's a cool thing.

570
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: Anybody else kind of mind with that Stapleton, Yeah, we

571
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 1: didn't launch Chris. He was just up here a lot

572
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,919
Speaker 1: before he got famous. That's my best story. It's how

573
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 1: I was getting told by the boss, not this one,

574
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: a different went to stop whoever this guy was. It

575
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 1: was singing all the time that nobody knew. I stopped

576
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: bring him in because nobody knew him because he had

577
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: been up a few times. Then he played the Cmas

578
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 1: and it was Chris Stapleton. And that's why Chris is

579
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 1: so loyal and he'll do whatever because we didn't jump

580
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: on the band. We were on the krist Apleton bandwagon

581
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: before that thing was what's the Chris Stapleton bandwagon? Yeah,

582
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 1: I think his life got pretty crazy once he blew up,

583
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: and it's like, WHOA, who can I trust? It's almost

584
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: I bet it's a similar feeling. But we had when

585
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: we first moved here and all of a sudden were

586
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: the coolest people. Light down, people want to be our friends.

587
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: We never had friends, but yeah, it stepple and stuff

588
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: is cool, all right, We're good Good was crushing me too,

589
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 1: Like I feel so tired and my head hurts, yeah,

590
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: and probably dehydrated. So I'm gonna drink probably I don't

591
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: want girl, what because I because I'm thirsty. I had

592
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: one one note leave us on one note five years

593
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: in the books, Amy, thank you leave like a note

594
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: something that you something that you remember vividly from the

595
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: five years. Give us one fun fact. My My main

596
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: thing is UM relating with listeners, and we've been through

597
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 1: a lot. For me, my life totally changed in the

598
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: last five years, and I've had so many listeners offer

599
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: up so much support, and it's like we have these

600
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: people all over the country that give us advice and

601
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: tips and some stuff I've really taken to heart. UM

602
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: from not to get too do, but from like losing

603
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: my mom to adopting kids like I get. I've gotten

604
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: so much support through that and they've allowed us to

605
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,719
Speaker 1: share our journeys with them, And for me, that's important

606
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 1: because I don't want anybody else to feel alone, and

607
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to feel alone. I know I'm not

608
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: the only one going through something like that. And the

609
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: way we can communicate with listeners through social media and

610
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: email it's crazy lunch box. Fun fact. Fun fact is

611
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: I got married and I might have a kid. I

612
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: never thought that was possible five years ago, but here

613
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: we are today, and holy crowd. Fun fact, daddie. Fun

614
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: fact man. I mean, I never ever thought that Bobby

615
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: and I would ever be in a band, and we

616
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 1: got to do what we got to do. And so

617
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: it was always been a dream of mine to be

618
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: able to tour in a band and inflated our listeners

619
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: and entertain everyone. So that's that's a memory and something

620
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: that I'll just always be so grateful and thankful for.

621
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: M fun fact. See, it's harder than you think. Huh.

622
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: They're just so many. I don't know which one to share.

623
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: Fun fact. I got all tatted up when you moved here. Yeah.

624
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: I didn't come to have a bad boy. Yeah. Um.

625
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 1: You know, I think that I've even in friendships, I've

626
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 1: tried to push them all away, but there have been

627
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: some that have hung in there in this town that

628
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 1: I didn't really expect to, you know what I mean,

629
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: Because I always think, God, nobody wants to be be my friend.

630
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: They just want the guy on the radio or the

631
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: guy that can change their life. About playing their song

632
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: or something like that. But I think I've been able

633
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: to make some small steps in there, some most scratches,

634
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 1: and I've kept some friends. Yeah, yeah, I see, all right,

635
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: thank you very much. We're gonna wrap this up. We're

636
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: gonna do a whole broadcast on the show to a

637
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: live thing. I guess I shouldn't say who the artist

638
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 1: is gonna come play. Who do you think if I

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Speaker 1: the whole, he did and we didn't know it. All right,

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Speaker 1: we gotta go, thank you everybody, goodbye, and we'll see

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Speaker 1: you next week. Now you guys won't. But yeah, Bobby, yeah,

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