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Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effects aspected aspect aspects. Just like that,

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Speaker 1: we back with another carefully Reckless episode. I'm here again

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Speaker 1: with the Labria Shannon. Last week's guests, what's our baby

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Speaker 1: ain't nothing. You're gonna be a little bit more lit

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Speaker 1: this week. Yeah, because she wasn't trying to show us

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Speaker 1: the bottomore. I really feel like you need to show

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Speaker 1: us the bottom are ok Okay? Cool? So listen last week,

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Speaker 1: approaching the end of the episode, you asked me about

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Speaker 1: Justin li boy okay, and why he pulls a lot

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Speaker 1: of stuff on this page that I have been in

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Speaker 1: him thinking. So I'm like, he pulls a question last

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Speaker 1: week like what sign was a woman coming to another woman?

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Speaker 1: And I calment it and I was like, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to come up to me about about anything. And

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Speaker 1: I got a little back from that. Okay, that's the thing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well he said, what what was it coming? How do

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Speaker 1: you feel about um a woman coming to you as

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Speaker 1: a woman. Well, I do, honestly, but I do know

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Speaker 1: who that is. I do not know Justin boy I

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Speaker 1: or Justin l A. But I still don't even know

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Speaker 1: if it's l a boy or little boy. I don't

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Speaker 1: know um either way. I know that he is the

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Speaker 1: voice for a lot of our thoughts as women, and

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Speaker 1: then he is the voice for a lot of the

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Speaker 1: men's thoughts. I do respect his page, I respect his content.

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Speaker 1: Now coming to you as a woman about your man. Now, listen, listen, listen.

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Speaker 1: It's two ways you can look at that. You can

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Speaker 1: look at it one way and say, I don't want

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Speaker 1: to know ship because I know my nigga out there

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Speaker 1: doing so. I don't want to look because a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, nine times out of tend a lot of

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Speaker 1: these women know that their men are out there, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, So they don't need you coming

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Speaker 1: to them. Now listen. Then you have the other woman

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Speaker 1: who's completely in a blind who don't know. I've seen

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Speaker 1: like family members that go through that ship like they

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Speaker 1: they want to know because they don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Like they put these men up on pedestals so high

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Speaker 1: that they don't even expect to be cheated on one

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Speaker 1: of my aunts. She never checked phone, she never and

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Speaker 1: then you shouldn't have to do that. But he got

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Speaker 1: so comfortable with her being so lax in the relationship

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Speaker 1: that when somebody ended up coming to her as a woman,

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Speaker 1: everything was a fucking surprise to her, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. She was like, I'm not even gonna say

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Speaker 1: she was naive, She just was fucking I don't know.

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Speaker 1: She was so into her man, and he was into

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Speaker 1: her too. He just had a lot of motherfucker energy

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Speaker 1: because he had an energy for this bitch. That bitch

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Speaker 1: and my aunt, you know what I mean. So it's

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Speaker 1: just like some women already don't even expect to be

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Speaker 1: cheated on, you know what I'm saying, Like that still

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Speaker 1: is a thing. You know, you don't expect it, but

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Speaker 1: it happens. But you have your women that want to know.

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Speaker 1: And then you got the ones that don't want to know,

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Speaker 1: you know. Then you got the ones that want to

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Speaker 1: fight the bitches when you know you ain't gonna lead

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Speaker 1: a snigger and and and none times I say, he

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna stop messing with the girl that you're about

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Speaker 1: to fight. I just feel like women when they come

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Speaker 1: into the type of situation, I feel they need validation

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Speaker 1: that day in his life. They do so much on

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Speaker 1: this social media like oh this we got miss that

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Speaker 1: man was with another lady yesterday. You know so much

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Speaker 1: that goes on, and then you want to come to

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Speaker 1: somebody as a woman for confirmation. What do you want

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Speaker 1: to know that you already don't know? Because some people

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Speaker 1: know they go through them phones. I'm not that type person.

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Speaker 1: Ain't going to white phone. I have desernment, baby, ain't

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Speaker 1: doing all that, but like, okay, discernment, but I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing all that. And I feel like you have to

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Speaker 1: do all of that, go through people's phones and all that.

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Speaker 1: It's already a problem for you. Put yourself through the

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Speaker 1: whole insecure stage, and insecurity is already flowing over, like

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Speaker 1: sneaking and looking at guy's phone, you're texting lady and

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Speaker 1: all that. No, talk to your man, like what's gonna

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Speaker 1: talk about y'all? All right, well, listen, let me ask

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Speaker 1: you this. You ever come to somebody as a woman.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel it's necessary. So you've never, So that's

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Speaker 1: a no. You never came to somebody as a wel

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Speaker 1: you've never been dealing with a guy who had a

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Speaker 1: girlfriend that you didn't know about until youth and you

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Speaker 1: found out about a it and you hit her up,

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Speaker 1: like listen, this is what's going on. Never did, never

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Speaker 1: you never has anybody ever come to you as a woman.

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Speaker 1: But hey, I want to talk to you my man,

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Speaker 1: well about why I hit the man. The lady said,

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Speaker 1: you want to talk, don't talk to him. So that's

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Speaker 1: what the guy told you, okay. And it was this

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Speaker 1: the ex that we was talking about last last week.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you know all my ex and talking the

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Speaker 1: mic so we can hear you high. I don't did

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Speaker 1: about it. That's the same one. Yeah, okay, So somebody

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Speaker 1: came to you as a woman, okay, and he told

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Speaker 1: he told you do not talk to her because she

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Speaker 1: was gonna spill the beans on what the funk he

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Speaker 1: was telling her. You know what I mean? And I

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Speaker 1: know as a woman, you know, from woman to woman

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Speaker 1: we share things and we share things and often we

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Speaker 1: are judged for sharing them by the woman that we

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Speaker 1: shared with, you know what I'm saying. But at the

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Speaker 1: same time, uh, you still gotta leave that reservation open

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Speaker 1: for the fact that you'll really could be hot and

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Speaker 1: some other ship, you understand what I'm saying. And she

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Speaker 1: was the girlfriend huh yeah, yeah, So both of y'all

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Speaker 1: were being played by this nigger. So understand if he

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Speaker 1: told you not to talk to her, he told her

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Speaker 1: not to talk to you too. This was him trying

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Speaker 1: to keep y'all separate and funk with y'all at the

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Speaker 1: same time for as long as he could. Now me personally,

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Speaker 1: I have I have come to somebody as a woman. Um,

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Speaker 1: I felt bad for a situation. I found out somebody

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Speaker 1: this story. And I tried to approach her. I tried

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Speaker 1: social media. She really wanted to keep like going there

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Speaker 1: with it when they knew. She knew that they were

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Speaker 1: getting a divorce, you know what I'm saying. Like, the

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Speaker 1: only thing that I didn't agree with was that he

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Speaker 1: lied and told me that they were already divorced, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, after not even telling me that

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Speaker 1: he had a wife. We woke up together in Puerto Rico,

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't say plenty of times, and the shade world,

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Speaker 1: merrige certificate and said we are still happily married. I

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Speaker 1: don't know anything about no divorce. That that line, and

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Speaker 1: as we waken up in Puerto Rico together. Okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: and we got three more days here. Let me leave

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Speaker 1: because I don't have signed for this. You have you

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Speaker 1: have a wife, all right, I was gonna tell you,

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Speaker 1: but but we divorce, were divorced. First of all, I

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Speaker 1: didn't even know there was a wife. Now you're saying

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Speaker 1: it's a divorce, but but your marriage license, your marriage

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Speaker 1: certificate is on shade room, up and down all day,

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Speaker 1: so it's like divorce, like you know, so, and I

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Speaker 1: tried to go to her, like, listen, I did not

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Speaker 1: know about you. His fans don't even know about you.

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Speaker 1: A lot of his fans did not even know he

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Speaker 1: was married until that ship came out. You should have

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Speaker 1: seen up and down comments like damn you, you murdered.

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Speaker 1: They still try to bring it up. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying to this day, you know, And it's just

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Speaker 1: like I didn't know that. And then I really didn't

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Speaker 1: pay any attention to him outside of him just liking me.

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I wasn't watching his comedy, I wasn't watching

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Speaker 1: You know, we're all in that same industry, that same

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Speaker 1: lane where these names come across your your desk like

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Speaker 1: it's like okay, cool. And I know I had seen

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Speaker 1: him a couple of times time. I ran into him

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Speaker 1: were crossing paths because of TV and film. Did not

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I didn't know that,

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Speaker 1: and people were like, bitch, you knew he was married. No,

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Speaker 1: I did not know he was. Like when I was

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Speaker 1: in my whole situation, man said he was saying, we

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Speaker 1: trying it on his feet, using this lady, all that

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Speaker 1: type of frudishness. But like, you know, it's only certain

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Speaker 1: amount of things that you're gonna get away with me.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna lay up under me but me and

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Speaker 1: for that type of food, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So I'll play the game. Let's play the game. We

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Speaker 1: both gonna play the game. But guess what, I'm not

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Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about this person. Did they hit

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Speaker 1: my phone? You don't speak about you? Yeah, no, I

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Speaker 1: get it. But did you penalize him in anyway? Like?

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Speaker 1: Why is this girl hitting me? Why? What is going on?

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Speaker 1: Did you sit him down and talk to him, like listen,

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Speaker 1: why she wouldn't have to hit me unless she really

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Speaker 1: thought she had something to tell me? So did you

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Speaker 1: fucking hit him? Absolutely? Every every time? The call? Can do? What?

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Speaker 1: What is this every time? So this was just a call?

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Speaker 1: A call? It no, just a text, just a text?

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Speaker 1: Like why do you keep it in me about this man?

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Speaker 1: I don't deal with that in my personal life, Like,

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Speaker 1: but I wouldn't even want to be on that side either,

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Speaker 1: breathe because it's like obviously it's something that he fucking

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Speaker 1: telling her. And when he not with you, he could

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Speaker 1: he was with her And no, you're right, charl and error.

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Speaker 1: You know not to do this ship no more, you

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Speaker 1: know how to you know not to step you're footing

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Speaker 1: ship no more. But I don't know. I remember there

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Speaker 1: was a time another time where somebody came to me

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Speaker 1: as a woman. I and I this guy wasn't even

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend. I was dating him, and he was using

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Speaker 1: this girl for money to buy me ship. I'm talking

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Speaker 1: me when I'm not even the one who you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But like, I felt bad in that

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Speaker 1: fucking moment when she hit me. I'm talking about we

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Speaker 1: we met down to my she was crying to know

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Speaker 1: she was and I just was like, yo, I feel

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Speaker 1: horrible because it was around my birthday. She was able

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Speaker 1: to tell me every single thing that she knew that

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Speaker 1: he had bought for me, because how much it amounted

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Speaker 1: to when he used her money. I did not give

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Speaker 1: not give anything back. But I felt bad in that moment,

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Speaker 1: and I called that nigga like right there in front

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Speaker 1: give me You got such and such from her? And

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Speaker 1: know what one couple that I feel like it's going

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Speaker 1: It pisces me off so bad, yo, because he did

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Speaker 1: This nigga would not leave her alone. He chased her

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Speaker 1: but what you show us, what you show us on TV,

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Speaker 1: a Jamaican bass at their mansion. He'd been wanting to

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Speaker 1: talking about like nigga, that that nigga played her up

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Speaker 1: And it's like, why it like that? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: not even interested and not even all type. They worked

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Speaker 1: so hard to get us, they got us, and then

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Speaker 1: I have no idea, I really don't know. Listen to the

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Speaker 1: the beginning, you got me, I'm felling I'm in love,

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Speaker 1: and then we're going down here like what happened? That's

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Speaker 1: what we gotta call Justin boy and see what he

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Speaker 1: We gotta write this nigga, because honestly, I don't understand

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Speaker 1: now listen that that has never happened to me, but

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Speaker 1: I can honestly sympathize with the women that it happens to,

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Speaker 1: because you don't ever want to feel unwanted by somebody

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Speaker 1: that you didn't even want it first, like they did

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Speaker 1: all this work to make you see that they're the

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Speaker 1: one for you. And then now it's like, nah, real ship,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like all of that ship

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Speaker 1: is crazy, you know. So I just want to commend

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Speaker 1: that ship has not got to be easy, Like, it

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Speaker 1: has not got to be like I know. And then

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Speaker 1: that she was pregnant. Erica was scared to tell this

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Speaker 1: nigga that she was pregnant. You know, how funked up

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Speaker 1: But she didn't even know she was pregnant, you know,

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Speaker 1: but he wasn't paying attention, wasn't paying attention. That's my

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Speaker 1: And then played, yeah, that's the part, play me while

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Speaker 1: But once we get that energy out in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: But if we won't start like that's that's that's make

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Speaker 1: for that. I know, but we paid so much attention

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Speaker 1: pay age to the ones that are staying it. We

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Speaker 1: got Grant Hall and to Mia, we got Boris co

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Speaker 1: I want to be like Will and Jada. I want

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Speaker 1: you see some ship come out. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It's like we shouldn't know people. We shouldn't look to

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Speaker 1: people that behind the closed door, you get a whole

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Speaker 1: another story. We should not look to other people as goals,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because everybody is different. Everybody

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Speaker 1: A lot of it has a lot to do with imagery,

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Speaker 1: you know. So I love Serra Merge though I love

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Speaker 1: Sierra and Russell's and listen, prime example, she didn't even

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Speaker 1: like him at first. That was not her type, that

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Speaker 1: that man a chance at first, and he stayed persistent,

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Speaker 1: he stayed with it, and he got her and he

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Speaker 1: fairy tale marriage. And the babies are beautiful, all of them,

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Speaker 1: all of her babies, their baby's future, like everybody little future.

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Speaker 1: I was meant to say, but they are. They are adorable.

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Speaker 1: I love that family, you know what I love Gabriel. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: is not the situation, the marriage, the marriage no ever

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Speaker 1: down places like but like I might get married, um

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Speaker 1: you like when I don't know, Like it's like, it's

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Speaker 1: it's coming. It's it's coming. It's gonna get damn like

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Speaker 1: it's yeah, but until we get there. We've come to

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Speaker 1: the end of another episode of Carefully Reckless. What's your Girl?

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Speaker 1: Just sillaries and I got my baby Labria Shannon and

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