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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels second dat day. Remember, if you want

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Speaker 1: to know why somebody didn't call you back after a date,

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Speaker 1: you can always email us at Brook and Jewel at

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Speaker 1: Movie nine two five dot com and we'll do a

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Speaker 1: second date update for you today. Though, we have Austin

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Speaker 1: on the phone. Austin, what's up? Man? Hey? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good? So you were blown off by a girl

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Speaker 1: named Rachel. Um what happened? Um? We actually met on

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Speaker 1: on a dating site. Um we went on okay, too good. Um.

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Speaker 1: We went back and forth email or message or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and finally we started texting and then decided to go

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Speaker 1: out to dinner. Okay, Um, we go out to dinner. Um,

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Speaker 1: We're sitting right in front of each other. We're having

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Speaker 1: a pretty good conversation, you know. I Mean, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: like I want to marry this girl or anything, but um,

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Speaker 1: it was just a decent time. It was just a

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Speaker 1: was fun. We had a co cocktail. Everything was fine. Um,

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Speaker 1: and then dinner was over. We got up. I turned

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Speaker 1: to say thank you to the hostess and she felined

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Speaker 1: for her car. How long were you at dinner? Austin, UM,

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Speaker 1: a little over an hour. I think, Okay, did she

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Speaker 1: just leave without saying goodbye? Didn't just say yeah, she

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Speaker 1: didn't say anything. It was it was one of these

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Speaker 1: where I'm like it was obvious that she was. She

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Speaker 1: was like she was leaving like I had lepsy or something.

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Speaker 1: You can't think of anything that happened on the date

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Speaker 1: that would make her want to leave like that. I

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Speaker 1: don't think so. I mean, I I mean, everything was okay,

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Speaker 1: it was. I mean, it was informal date. We just said.

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Speaker 1: I asked her what she did? She has what I did? UM?

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Speaker 1: Have you tried to contact her? UM? I've texted her

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Speaker 1: twite UM, because that's that's that's how we set up

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Speaker 1: did her UM. But I've got nothing. I even I

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Speaker 1: messaged her. I messaged her once through the sight okay, UM,

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Speaker 1: And you know I checked back and I got nothing.

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Speaker 1: You know. The reason that I emailed you guys is

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Speaker 1: because like I just want to kind of know, you know,

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Speaker 1: if I did something that horrendous for her to look

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Speaker 1: out leave, Okay, Well, you didn't meet her on a

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Speaker 1: dating website. She could just be crazy. You know that, right. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call her right after this, and you're prepared

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Speaker 1: to hear whatever her answer is. Yeah, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: just want to I just want to know the truth. Okay, Austin,

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Speaker 1: we'll get your second date update next Jubil in the morning. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Austin emailed us because he wanted to find out why

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Speaker 1: Rachel ditched him at a restaurant. She left right after

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Speaker 1: they were eating. He would say goodbye to the hostess,

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Speaker 1: and she made a bee line for her car. He

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Speaker 1: has and talk to her since. Austin, are you ready

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Speaker 1: to give her a call? I'm ready? He sounds super ready.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing you can think of that would have turned

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Speaker 1: her off that much. I was. I was on my game,

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Speaker 1: or at least I thought maybe that's the problem. Right. Hi,

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Speaker 1: this is Rachel. Hey Rachel, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm moving

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Speaker 1: ninety two point five. Hi. He didn't win anything, now

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Speaker 1: you didn't You didn't win. If you're car we actually

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Speaker 1: have a mutual friend, a guy named Austin. You went

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Speaker 1: out on a date with him a little while ago,

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Speaker 1: and then you kind of just like took off after dinner. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he really kipped me off. He pissed you off? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: still angry about it? Actually, I am. I'm kind of annoyed.

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Speaker 1: I've been thinking about it ever since. How annoying it was?

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Speaker 1: All right? Um, it seems like we kind of have

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Speaker 1: to do a lot of coaxing to get people to

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Speaker 1: do the second A updates. It sounds like you just

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Speaker 1: want to tell your story. So what do you do

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Speaker 1: to piss you off? Um? Honestly, he seems like a

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Speaker 1: nice guy. It was. It was a fun dinner. We

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Speaker 1: was actually thinking, hey, this might go awhere. But then um,

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Speaker 1: I happened to look over he paid the check. He

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Speaker 1: insisted on paying the check, which I thought was, you know, interesting,

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Speaker 1: and he's okay. So the bill was seventy five dollars.

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Speaker 1: Two dollars. He dipped two dollars on a seventy five

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Speaker 1: dollars tab. Oh yeah, and the service was, you know fine,

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Speaker 1: There was no problem with the service. And I don't

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Speaker 1: even really believe in talking service anyway. Yeah, two dollars. Now,

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Speaker 1: maybe that's bad at math, Rachel, nobody's that bad at math.

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Speaker 1: I'm terrible. And if he's that bad at math, and

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Speaker 1: it's the deal breaker anyway, Okay, okay, I'll oh man,

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Speaker 1: have you worked in the service industry before? Is that

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Speaker 1: why you're extra pisted? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, for like ten years.

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Speaker 1: I was a server, and you just that's unacceptable. It's

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Speaker 1: completely unacceptable. I mean I overtipped because I was a server.

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Speaker 1: I was so stunned that there. I just actually I

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Speaker 1: the phone with us right now, Austin, I'm gonna start

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Speaker 1: calling you cheap ass. Austin, did you really just tip

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Speaker 1: two dollars on a seventy five dollars tab? I absolutely

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Speaker 1: did tip two dollars? Who are you? Well? Listen, listen, okay,

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Speaker 1: for for one. For one. You know, service people like

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Speaker 1: waiters and waitresses and what have you. You know, they

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Speaker 1: work on their tips. This person, okay, as we're having dinner,

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Speaker 1: kept repeatedly coming over, couldn't remember what we ordered, Our

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Speaker 1: the whole thing. I was joking mc Jokerton the whole time. Um,

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah. So I'm not gonna look

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Speaker 1: this waitress, you know, screw up my date. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to cover for Austin. Don't you think that it looked

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Speaker 1: bad on you to only tip two dollars? If there

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Speaker 1: really was that big of an issue that you never

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Speaker 1: said anything about. You know what, it's not supposed to

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Speaker 1: look bad because it's customary not to a look at

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Speaker 1: you're doing and judge a person by that. I you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't agree with his tipping, but you shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: looking at a bill that somebody else is paying for,

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Speaker 1: especially on a date. I always looked at a fire tipping. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but at the end I actually do. But you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: be on a date. Like even if they wanted to

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Speaker 1: pay for a coupon, that's none of your business. The

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Speaker 1: way they pay is their own business. That doesn't have

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Speaker 1: anything to do with you. Rachel, So did you notice

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Speaker 1: bad service? I thought it was fine. I mean, he

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Speaker 1: was right. The meals came out like lightly apart. It

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Speaker 1: was not perfect, like it was a fun casual restaurant.

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Speaker 1: It was. It was fun, all right. So the show

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Speaker 1: will offer you guys a second date. We'll pay for

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Speaker 1: it including tip. No, we're not paying for the tip, okay,

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Speaker 1: because I have no idea how the service is going

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Speaker 1: to go. Would you guys want to go on a

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Speaker 1: second date if we pay for it that way, neither

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Speaker 1: of you have to look at a bill. As I

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Speaker 1: said often, I did have a fun time et Ton

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Speaker 1: with you. I think this is not gonna work. The

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Speaker 1: way you think about that is not compassionate. And I

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Speaker 1: just I know it's a tiny deal, but I think

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Speaker 1: it's a bigger deal, and I just passed. Yes, go Rachel.

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Speaker 1: I'm with you. It's gone from just tipping to people's

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Speaker 1: compassion on a whole people's lives from now. On Second

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Speaker 1: Date update, we discussed the sital issues in the morning,