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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: It's your girl Lex and it's Sugarl Dre and the

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Speaker 2: call and you are tuned in to another episode of

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Speaker 2: Poor Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: What's up walking in here?

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Speaker 1: Late?

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Speaker 2: I'm jet like jet like.

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Speaker 1: Bali, bitch, I'm so tired. Way to get and go

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Speaker 1: to sleep. I have to go to Houston. It was fun.

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Speaker 2: I actually went because I actually went because I had

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Speaker 2: an appointment to get feelers.

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Speaker 1: That experience was horrible.

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Speaker 2: My lips are very bruised right now because I ended

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Speaker 2: up not getting fillers and I had to get them

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Speaker 2: the ones that I already have dissolved. It was a

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Speaker 2: super painful process. I do not recommend. I never want

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Speaker 2: to have to go through this shit again. So I

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Speaker 2: didn't end up getting my feelings, but I had to

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Speaker 2: get the old ones dis all. So now I have

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Speaker 2: to go back to Houston in two weeks to get

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Speaker 2: the actual feelers. Okay, But then I also was there

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Speaker 2: because my mom's birthday was yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well she turned up.

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Speaker 2: You had a good time, yes, So I took her

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Speaker 2: to eat at Steak forty eight, and I also paid

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Speaker 2: for her to go get a massage earlier yesterday. I

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Speaker 2: feel like she had a good birthday. You know, I

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Speaker 2: just wanted to make sure she had a good time.

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Speaker 1: We got to come out here.

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Speaker 4: We could have went to Medusa.

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Speaker 1: Was she actually gonna be out here for Thanksgiving? We

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Speaker 1: might have to turn one good time. How was your weekend? Girl?

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Speaker 5: I didn't do nothing like I was supposed to go

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Speaker 5: to Puerto Rico and the end up going to Puerto

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Speaker 5: Rico rapper base here.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's still here. He just got here. I thought

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Speaker 1: he got here today that I left.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, he just got here.

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Speaker 2: He was supposed to. Okay, that was another argument. So

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Speaker 2: we've basically just been arguing, you know, the.

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Speaker 4: Being the toxic people we are.

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Speaker 3: So he just got here today. Uh, he got here

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Speaker 3: last night.

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Speaker 1: Sorry to do anything today.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna go going probably it's like a little dick,

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Speaker 2: you know, the usual, the usual.

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Speaker 4: I'm back.

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Speaker 2: I'm back in the the nails.

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Speaker 3: I took my nails off with He's actually about to

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Speaker 3: take me to the nail shop.

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Speaker 1: Took mine off.

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Speaker 2: Tinyness they are, and I'm actually upset because I feel

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Speaker 2: like a little boy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah they're really ugly.

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Speaker 1: I know they are. I don't like them either.

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Speaker 2: I was like, in two weeks when I go get

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Speaker 2: my I'm going back to I wanted them short, though

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Speaker 2: I did, but she did them too short.

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Speaker 5: You know how like when little kids go get their

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Speaker 5: nails done for the first time. My little girls, that's

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Speaker 5: what it looks like.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I done.

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Speaker 2: I mean I think they look I don't think they

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Speaker 2: like little girl nails because they're super square little girl nails.

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Speaker 3: I definitely have my nails done like that in kindergarten.

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Speaker 5: You but I'm also wearing lashes, So that's another Okay,

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Speaker 5: So let's go ahead and get into these topics today.

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Speaker 5: So the first thing I wanted to talk about, because

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Speaker 5: for some reason this has always happened to me, I

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Speaker 5: want to talk about dating broken men. I know we

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Speaker 5: talked about missing the red flags before and ignoring it,

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Speaker 5: but I want to talk about once you're past those

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Speaker 5: red flags and you're actually dating a broken man, Like,

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Speaker 5: how do you deal with that?

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Speaker 1: Do you leave?

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Speaker 3: How long are you supposed to stay? Are you going

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Speaker 3: to be a ride or die?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: What is the stay broken? Like? What exactly do you mean?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: What is your My definition I'm broken is it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it can be It's very vague, like it

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Speaker 2: could be from a past relationship. It could be from

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Speaker 2: a bad relationship with his mother. It could be just

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Speaker 2: from him used to being around niggas who always want

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Speaker 1: And you know what I'm saying, like, you know, just

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Speaker 1: being around people treat you bad.

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Speaker 5: Not that he treats you bad, but you know how

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Speaker 5: it is dating a broken man. Don't act like you

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Speaker 5: don't know, yeah, because you're.

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Speaker 3: Dating a few humped and dump this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but I feel like that's why I was asking, like,

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Speaker 2: but how does he treat you?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Because I feel like.

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Speaker 2: Everybody has like past traumas and stuff like that, but

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Speaker 2: as long as you don't go into a situation taking

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Speaker 2: it out on the new person.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but that's what happens.

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Speaker 2: Like everybody that's broken does that though, you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean, Some people they have their issues that they

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Speaker 2: deal with or whatever, are things that they going through,

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Speaker 2: but they don't necessarily take it out on who they're dating.

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Speaker 1: They just have things that they need to work on.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like a.

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Speaker 3: Good person that doesn't exist.

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Speaker 1: But you could be broken and be a good person.

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying you're a bad person. I'm just saying

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Speaker 5: that doesn't exist.

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Speaker 1: Most of time.

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Speaker 2: Broken people it's not that they're doing it on purpose,

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Speaker 2: they just tend to take it out on the person

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Speaker 2: that they're dating.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever dated a man that.

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Speaker 2: You knew was broken and he didn't put you through

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Speaker 2: that roller coaster ride of emotions like one day, y'all

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Speaker 2: be great and then the next day he just like

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Speaker 2: acting like, well, I feel like every person that I've dated,

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Speaker 2: that I guess would be quote unquote broken. I didn't

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Speaker 2: know that getting into the situation like who actually is

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Speaker 2: about to be.

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, well, I'm who actually? I mean?

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Speaker 2: Because I would never do that, Like I would never

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Speaker 2: knowingly get into a relationship with somebody that I feel

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Speaker 2: like is like I know that.

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Speaker 1: You're broken his plug and I'm gonna be with you.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's just me being the dumb ass.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, because I feel like I'm so I feel

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Speaker 2: like I've accepted that you can't fix people, but I

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Speaker 2: think that's my problem. I'll be trying to fix people.

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Speaker 2: I'll be thinking, I'm like, you know what, I'm such

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Speaker 2: an amazing one.

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Speaker 3: This is my pick me side coming out.

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Speaker 2: I thought I thought to pick me and me dies

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Speaker 2: she is still kicking.

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Speaker 1: She is.

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Speaker 4: I'll be thinking I can.

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Speaker 1: Like you know what, i'ma be a good woman.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna hold it down, I'm gonna comfort him, and

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Speaker 5: I'll be thinking that shit gonna be And it's just

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Speaker 5: it never happens that way.

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Speaker 1: So why do you still do it?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm dumb and I like dig.

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Speaker 2: So but like the don't have nothing to do but

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Speaker 2: like around, but good dick be attached to the broken

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Speaker 2: niggas a lot of the.

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Speaker 1: Times of dude, Well shit, that was fine though, because

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Speaker 1: he had other assi That was cool with me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So how so how do you deal with

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Speaker 2: how do you deal with broken men? How did you

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Speaker 2: deal with your situation like dating a broken man once

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Speaker 2: you found out because like you said, at the beginning,

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Speaker 2: you didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I used to be like blocking him and I used

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Speaker 1: to stop talking, so you weren't trying to help him.

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel like at first I was yeah,

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Speaker 2: but then once I realized that, like you can't be helped,

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Speaker 2: I'm just don't let you do you and I'm do

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Speaker 2: me and then whenever I mean, I still loved but

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Speaker 2: just kind of like our relationship was toxic because I

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Speaker 2: would let him do him and then I would do me,

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Speaker 2: and then when he would want to come back, I'd

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Speaker 2: be like, Okay, you know what I mean. But I

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Speaker 2: definitely had been stopped trying to fix the person because

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Speaker 2: it's just like some people cannot be fed. But I'm

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Speaker 2: glad I really people, But I'm glad you said that

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Speaker 2: because I feel like a lot of women we do this,

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Speaker 2: We try to fix people, and that's my problem.

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Speaker 1: I'm not no fucking therapist.

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Speaker 2: And it's nothing wrong with I mean, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: say it's nothing wrong with it, because that would be lying.

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Speaker 2: It is something wrong with dating, like toxic people. But

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Speaker 2: I also feel like if you've accepted what it is

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Speaker 2: though between you and the person, and you just I

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Speaker 2: don't know, if you've accepted what it is and you

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Speaker 2: know that you can't change them, but you still want

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Speaker 4: Be that's me.

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Speaker 2: I'm you also can't be mad when your feelings get

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Speaker 2: like that's kind of the role that I took to

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Speaker 2: when I dated a few broken people, Like I just

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Speaker 2: really couldn't be that upset when they did things to

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Speaker 2: hurt me because you already know what it is and

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Speaker 2: you still.

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Speaker 1: Fucking with these persons.

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Speaker 2: You're still fucking with these people, you already know what

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Speaker 2: type of niggas they are. It'd be like in like,

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Speaker 2: honestly seriously, when I was dealing with this person, it

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Speaker 2: was like I woke up, I'm like, oh, he dumped

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Speaker 2: me again, and then like two days later he's back,

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Speaker 2: and it's like three days after, oh he dumped me again.

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Speaker 2: It's really like a roller coaster ride, and I love

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Speaker 2: roller coasters.

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Speaker 1: I'm dead.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why it's fun. It's not fun. It's

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Speaker 2: really not fun.

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Speaker 5: But it's like when you get that call back after

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Speaker 5: he said he not fucking like, he's like, I can't

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Speaker 5: do this, it's just too much, and then he called back.

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Speaker 1: So excited. Why are you smiling?

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Speaker 5: Because I'd be like he called me, he called me,

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Speaker 5: and I'll be right writing my little car head.

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Speaker 2: I know you know what I'm starting with that, I

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Speaker 2: know I'm starting to realize, like about myself.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a broken person. I am perfectly healthy.

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Speaker 3: I have no bad I'm from this conversation.

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Speaker 2: You ain't. I'm not mentally no, that's another topic. But

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying is I have no baggage. I don't

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Speaker 2: have any kids. I've never been married. I don't have

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Speaker 2: a crazy excess like sticking around.

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Speaker 1: So when I'm dating somebody, I got nothing but time.

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Speaker 2: Bitch, you want the time to keep sucking with them,

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Speaker 2: even if they trash.

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Speaker 1: But what about you getting older? Okay, okay, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: be with.

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Speaker 3: Thirty four, I'm gonna be sixty.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna be thirty five in four years.

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Speaker 4: You want to say thirty five next year.

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Speaker 2: I also say you're gonna be thirty five in four years.

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Speaker 2: So like you don't want to, like, no, find a

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Speaker 2: stable situation. This is my most stable situation right here, travel.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I feel the same way about myself too. Like,

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Speaker 2: Like every I'm just thinking about all the niggas that

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Speaker 1: Because I've been here for four years, you've been here

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Speaker 2: All the niggas that we done dated like they were

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Speaker 1: But at least we.

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Speaker 4: Got a little coin.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's true. We had a good time.

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Speaker 1: Is what it is. Cause I'm thirty one at this point.

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Speaker 2: Everybody that I meet, I date older men or I

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Speaker 1: Everybody that I meet, they either.

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Speaker 5: Are in a relationship, they have kids, or they're just

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Speaker 3: I don't have no baggage, bro what baggage?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: Me an example.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he's just trying to do right.

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Speaker 2: He's just like, I really want to make this work,

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Speaker 1: Oh me come to Atlanta and we just.

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Speaker 2: He's like, I want us to build something like I

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Speaker 2: Like I see you being my girl and my wife,

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Speaker 2: Like he's trying to turn over that new leave because

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Speaker 2: he's tired of being out and he.

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Speaker 1: Don't like in the street, these streets. That's why he

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Speaker 5: And I keep letting it do get cold out there now,

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Speaker 5: It do get cold out there now.

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Speaker 1: So would y'all go to like you explore.

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Speaker 2: I've been suggesting therapy for us in the past and

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Speaker 2: he's always been like, no, no, But we actually talked

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Speaker 2: So I don't know, we'll see, we'll see. You know,

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Speaker 4: He paid the unblocked feed, he.

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Speaker 2: Paid thee we love to see it.

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Speaker 5: Yes, he paid the unblocked fee, and like we had

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Speaker 5: It's like this is gonna he's really trying to like.

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Speaker 1: He trying to stuck the game up. I can with it,

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Speaker 1: you know, but this is the this is again. Money

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Speaker 1: don't fix everything.

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Speaker 4: Speak for yourself.

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Speaker 2: The money don't fix everything. I'm like, you can't say

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Speaker 1: Didn't because it wasn't fixing anything.

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Speaker 2: It was just cool and I was like, thank you,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't like, oh yeah, this is great.

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Speaker 4: Well you know what.

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Speaker 2: It was a cool situation and I was getting compensated

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Speaker 2: for my time. Well, I get compensated for my time too.

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Speaker 3: I need to get back Yeah, I need some back

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Speaker 3: pay too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I guess you're right, But you know, it's a little

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It's hard because we have so much

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Speaker 2: do because I always say, you can't put time on

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Speaker 2: whatever it's supposed to matter, and it really doesn't. Like

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Speaker 2: then he'll meet somebody and be married in a week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that shit is crazy. They be happening to people

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Speaker 3: Like niggas would be like, I don't want to have kids,

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Speaker 1: We have a cool little situation. This is what I want.

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Speaker 1: Why do they want all that shit?

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Speaker 3: They want all that shit just not with you.

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Speaker 1: So why do you think they won't tell the girl

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Speaker 2: I mean cause I think that niggas will have feelings

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Speaker 1: Probably just feels like that's.

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Speaker 5: Just not the person that he wants to propreate with

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Speaker 5: or start a life with. Like a nigga will like

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Speaker 5: you so much, and they do that all the time though,

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Speaker 5: like you spend time with, you, spend money on you.

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Speaker 2: I got him on lock and the right bitch come

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Speaker 2: along and he like, I mean, just like your situation.

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Speaker 1: Nigga's like, oh shit, I'll leave.

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Speaker 4: This bitch if you want me.

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Speaker 2: To, you know what I'm saying. And who knows how

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Speaker 2: long you been kniddle with that girl? Shit crazy, shit

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Speaker 2: is really fucking crazy. I mean I got I mean,

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Speaker 4: He was like, I'm ready to go.

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Speaker 3: I hate it there and she over there thinking that

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Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying, Like, you can't that's said

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Speaker 2: I just always prayed that I would never be in

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Speaker 1: It would help me out here looking crazy like this

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Speaker 2: But I would never want to be in our relationship

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Speaker 2: with our niggas who like giving other beaches the opportunity

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Speaker 2: to be laughing at me, because it's like you in

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Speaker 2: She's what I could leave. But listen, stop laughing at

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Speaker 2: each other because all these niggas are gonna make us

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Speaker 1: That's true. Nobody is exhimined.

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Speaker 3: Even Beyonce was out here looking crazy.

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Speaker 1: Nobody exam. Once I see Beyonce looking crazy, I.

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Speaker 3: Knew I had no fucking hope because I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, we can both by and me and Beyonce can

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Speaker 4: What you got something to say?

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Speaker 1: No, that's gonna you have that, mom.

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Speaker 2: All I'm saying is we as women, we gotta stick

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Speaker 1: Time, laughing at itam.

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Speaker 4: We're supposed to be positive.

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Speaker 1: We are positive when we all fucking honey speech. I'll

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Speaker 2: I laugh at bitches when they put there, They put

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Speaker 2: y'all want to post things online.

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Speaker 1: If you put your shit out there.

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Speaker 3: To be laughed at, that's a difference.

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Speaker 2: But like something like the situation like that happened with Beyonce,

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Speaker 3: That didn't mean she didn't want that to go public.

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Speaker 2: A lot of times girls are being situations, especially in Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: These Atlanta girls love posting shit about a nigga that

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Speaker 2: they fuck with, if he's like a rapper or an

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Speaker 1: It's like, girl, take your l in silence.

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Speaker 3: One thing about me, when my nigga playing me, you

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Speaker 3: don't have to let everybody. You don't have to let

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Speaker 5: I love to take my l's and silence every time

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Speaker 4: I'll be posting old videos and me like a bad bus.

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Speaker 2: You ain't even gonna no no dinner plate like I'm

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Speaker 2: at denling.

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Speaker 1: Yes, bitch, you know I love to post that say,

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Speaker 1: ain't little salmon plate.

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Speaker 2: I know I was talking about your ass when I

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Speaker 1: Yo.

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Speaker 2: I got the same little salmon plate dinner I saved,

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Speaker 2: and I'll be posting it every time I'm sad. So

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Speaker 2: a nigga think I'm at dinner. Nobody called on yet,

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Speaker 2: but you in caves. Every time you post that week

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Speaker 2: ass plate, I'll be likeitch at home.

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Speaker 1: TK plate, give me a break.

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Speaker 2: You know what I need to do next time. But

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Speaker 2: to eat. I'm going out to eat tonight. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: get me a new one, you know, And then how

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Speaker 2: that you're gonna eat weak and he gonna know. I

448
00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,280
Speaker 2: might be like, oh, that's that plate from when he

449
00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:42,760
Speaker 2: was together.

450
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Speaker 1: I get the same.

451
00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,960
Speaker 2: Everybody know all I eat is salmon. They he don't know.

452
00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,480
Speaker 2: I could be at the same place either.

453
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Speaker 1: I don't want to know that. So he gonna come

454
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Speaker 1: to your page today and see that you posted this.

455
00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,239
Speaker 1: In a few weeks, you try to post it, he's

456
00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:56,760
Speaker 1: gonna be like this.

457
00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,520
Speaker 2: I got yelled at for that. Launer right, sure, I

458
00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:03,480
Speaker 2: thought it was funny. What did he say? He was like, oh,

459
00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:07,119
Speaker 2: hell no, he was like, don't send me no pictures

460
00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,359
Speaker 2: that you're playing on posting. Oh, because you sent it

461
00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,159
Speaker 2: to him first, any post, but he you should have

462
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:12,560
Speaker 2: said what you got it first.

463
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,080
Speaker 1: And he got it without the bars on it exactly.

464
00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,320
Speaker 2: That's all right, he's out of bullet That's okay. I mean,

465
00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:22,040
Speaker 2: when you're dealing with a battie, it's what you gotta

466
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Speaker 2: deal with. But it was like a fun I thought

467
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,280
Speaker 2: it was funny. That was like, it was hilarious. I

468
00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,600
Speaker 2: always think it's funny anytime a nigga say something to

469
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Speaker 2: me about anything I post on social media, because I'd

470
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Speaker 2: be like, guess what he says something else, You're gonna

471
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Speaker 2: get blocked.

472
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Speaker 1: I'm fucking dead.

473
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Speaker 2: Okay, So let us know how y'all feel about dealing

474
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Speaker 2: with broken men.

475
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476
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Speaker 2: Okay, So what I wanted to talk about today This

496
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,920
Speaker 2: recently happened to my friends. I want to talk about,

497
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 2: like when you fucking with a nigga and you know

498
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 2: that y'all an't gonna be together, but.

499
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 1: Y'all fucking around.

500
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 2: That's like your late night height, somebody you might go

501
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,840
Speaker 2: out with every now and then, and then you find

502
00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:01,080
Speaker 2: out he likes sleeting of friends then before like but

503
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,879
Speaker 2: first of all, I didn't like him at all, but

504
00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:06,360
Speaker 2: he definitely slid in your DNS, like on someone life,

505
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 2: and then he trying to act like he was trying

506
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,919
Speaker 2: to like with you or something. So I want to

507
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 2: talk about how do you deal with somebody.

508
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 1: That tries to fuck with your friends?

509
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:16,920
Speaker 2: And even though even if y'all not own but I'm

510
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 2: saying though, but like even if like that's a that's

511
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 2: disrespectful though, right, would you say something or would you not?

512
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 2: Because this isn't mind you. This is not a situation

513
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,159
Speaker 2: where it's your nigga. This is just somebody you fuck with,

514
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 2: you know, every now and the yeah, yeah, yeah yeah,

515
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: Like y'all fuck y'all fucking not constantly, but you know,

516
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 2: y'all link up. Get a little pussy, get a little

517
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 2: dig get, a little bodie hole.

518
00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:39,080
Speaker 1: A bodie hole. I probably would just not talk to

519
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 1: him anymore. You just cut him off cold turkey.

520
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 2: Probably, yeah, because I wouldn't even say anything because I

521
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 2: feel like in me and you fucking consistently you nine

522
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,200
Speaker 2: times out of tea, and know who my friends.

523
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Speaker 5: Are, right right, especially us, because we all over each

524
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 5: other page.

525
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, especially us, Like it's no way at this point

526
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 2: that no guy could ever be like, oh I didn't

527
00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 2: know you and Lenks was friends, or oh I didn't

528
00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 2: know you Andrea was friends.

529
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Speaker 1: How you in.

530
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,119
Speaker 2: So yeah, I would definitely just cut the person off.

531
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 2: I don't even need to have a conversation with you

532
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 2: because you know that she was out of line when

533
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 2: you did, right. But I feel like I'm gonna always

534
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,160
Speaker 2: test theyment fucking look, they probably trying to see where

535
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 2: you're headed and.

536
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,240
Speaker 1: See if you with you with you down exactly.

537
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 5: But you know what's crazy to me because I expect

538
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,719
Speaker 5: that from men, because men are trash in the bottom

539
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 5: of the barrel.

540
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 1: We already know that. But it just surprises me that there.

541
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 2: Are they are trying this because obviously it has worked

542
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 2: before absolutely, So it's not any girls done fucked the

543
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 2: same nigga. Thats they friends don't fuck, have you ever

544
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 2: done that? Have I ever fucked a guy that my friend.

545
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 5: Has fucked like like like your friend was like fucking

546
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 5: with somebody I used to fuck with somebody he tried to.

547
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,679
Speaker 1: Fuck with you, and he was like, ooh, let me

548
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 1: fuck with him.

549
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 2: I don't fuck somebody that like somebody I used to

550
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:55,120
Speaker 2: be friends with food. But like, I've never fucked somebody. Yeah,

551
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 2: I've never fucked somebody while I've never fucked somebody that

552
00:22:58,320 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: one of my friends was.

553
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 1: Fucking right, That's why I was asking you, no, But

554
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 1: I definitely have fucked somebody and somebody I used to

555
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: be after. Sorry, now I've got a situation.

556
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 2: She's probably gonna kill me when I talk about this

557
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 2: because she hates when I bring this up.

558
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna say her.

559
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Speaker 3: Name, of course, but you know what, you're probably not

560
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:20,919
Speaker 3: gonna know.

561
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 2: But I had a friend that started sucking with a

562
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: guy that I used to fuck with, and I don't know,

563
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 2: I do know, Yeah, okay, Well it was just like honestly,

564
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: I didn't care about the guy anymore. And this is

565
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 2: my this is my outlook on it. Didn't I didn't

566
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 2: care about the guy anymore. I didn't care, but I did.

567
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Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie at that time, I felt some

568
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 5: type of way just because I felt like nobody told

569
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 5: me and everybody was trying to like keep it from me.

570
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,439
Speaker 1: I feel like it was a sneaky lin. It was

571
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: definitely a sneaky link. And he wasn't even a bad b.

572
00:23:54,800 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 2: It was a sneaky line definitely. So I would have

573
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: feelt some type of way too, cause it's like, if

574
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 2: you ain't doing shit wrong. It's my thing about people.

575
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 2: If you gotta be sneaky, you're being sneaky because you

576
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 2: know you're doing something wrong.

577
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: Right exactly.

578
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 2: I ain't never in my life did something that was

579
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 2: being sneaky about it if I didn't see nothing wrong.

580
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 2: But my thing is, but not not pertain to that situation,

581
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 2: but like like my homegirl had a situation and like

582
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 2: the guy she was kind of fucking with like called

583
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 2: her homegirl, was like trying to fly her out, And

584
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 2: of course the homegirl immediately called my friend and was like, Hey,

585
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 2: just trying to let you know your nigga is doing

586
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 2: this and doing that, and I'm trying to think, like

587
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 2: what man in his right mind are you bitches really

588
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,960
Speaker 2: out here? Not being friends with each other to where

589
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 2: they think that they can really try that shit. I

590
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,439
Speaker 2: feel like bitch, first of all, and this is a

591
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 2: whole other topic, but it's absolutely a lot of frenemies

592
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 2: out here.

593
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,959
Speaker 1: Frenemies, let's talk about it. I got a little time now.

594
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:54,919
Speaker 1: Definitely a lot of frenemies out here.

595
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 2: Think I think bitches be mad weird, Like bitches will

596
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 2: be bitches will lo he hate you but then and

597
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 2: like were trying to be your friend but then secretly

598
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 2: hating you and then trying to competition with you, just

599
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 2: all types of.

600
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: Ship Like we just be weird, they be weird.

601
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 2: So yes, like I absolutely feel like it's that's the

602
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 2: reason why niggas do what they do, because they know

603
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:20,199
Speaker 2: that they can get away with it because a lot

604
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,919
Speaker 2: of the time, have these bitches don't even really be

605
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 2: liking each other for real.

606
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 5: That's crazy because I swear if any guy that you've

607
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 5: ever even licked the tip of his dick looked at me,

608
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 5: I'm telling, I'm telling, if.

609
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 2: We got that deep, I would hope not what you mean,

610
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 2: because I thought she was about to say, I don't know,

611
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 2: lick the tip of his nose, Wellcas, not that deep.

612
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 1: I didn't say suck it. I said.

613
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 2: For somebody I'm about to, not necessarily sometimes you lock

614
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: the tipish me because if you it and it don't

615
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 2: taste right, I gotta reconsider.

616
00:25:58,880 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't it taste?

617
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 2: Hey?

618
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes niggas have a hard day at work. Man, come on,

619
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,919
Speaker 1: you don't do it now, it's gonna be a little salty.

620
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 2: A little salty. I said, barbecue sauce, not garlic salt.

621
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 2: Now it's a big difference, bro.

622
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 5: But no, I do feel like I think like I said,

623
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 5: I this is the on this podcast. I always try

624
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 5: to put the women on game, and I want us

625
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 5: to all be on the same page. So not only

626
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 5: do we need to stop laughing at each other, we

627
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 5: need to stop sucking each other's men.

628
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,199
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Now, now hold on that.

629
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 4: Let me correct myself.

630
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 1: I'm fucking some of y'all men out there.

631
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 6: Not God.

632
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely was looking somebody and I didn't

633
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 2: even know.

634
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this, stop trying to fuck your friends. Man,

635
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 1: I don't care if a girl fuck you. We sharing

636
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: see how you are fucking terrible.

637
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 2: How you just gonna try to sit here and have

638
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 2: a whole little.

639
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: On me talking about how we need to stop fucking people.

640
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 2: Man, then I just said, sorry to that lady you're

641
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 2: talking about niver mind you're talking about, don't give a

642
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: I'm kidd okay, I'm kidding. First, I'm on the side

643
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:20,880
Speaker 2: of staying in your lane.

644
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:26,400
Speaker 1: I don't bother that lady. You mean, okay, let me stop,

645
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 1: Let me stop, Let me stop. You're a homewrecker, Let

646
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: me stop.

647
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 2: No, No, I'm not trying of wrecked up. Stay where

648
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 2: you act, please, please stay at your home. But no,

649
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 2: get back to what I was saying.

650
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 5: I do feel like, stop being friends with people that

651
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 5: you don't like, Stop following people on the internet that

652
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 5: you don't like.

653
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: Stop linking up with people just because they're pretty or

654
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 1: they're doing stuff that you want to do. No, when

655
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: me and Ra.

656
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 2: Became friends, it had nothing to do with anything minus.

657
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 2: It was just like she was cool, I was cool.

658
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 2: We had a common interest, and it just started from there.

659
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 2: It wasn't no, oh my god, bitch, you pretty, let's

660
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,080
Speaker 2: link or oh shit, bitch, I said you be with

661
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 2: the rich niggas, let's go out together.

662
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: That shit never never works out. Yeah, no, it doesn't.

663
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I've had friendships like that in the past,

664
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 2: not on my end, but like cause I don't ever

665
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 2: be trying to be friends with people, but they were

666
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 2: trying to be my friend and it was.

667
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 5: Just like and I hate to say I told you so,

668
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 5: but girls shut up.

669
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 2: But anyways, but ye know, when girls be trying to

670
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: be your friend based off of like superficial sheep, like

671
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 2: how you live or like who how you look, who

672
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 2: you be around, the things that you have to offer

673
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: the friendship, it never ends up working out because it's

674
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: not built on nothing genuine, nothing real, you know what

675
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 2: I mean. So how can you expect for a situation

676
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 2: to thrive, a relationship or a friendship to thrive what

677
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 2: it is to build on nothing but fake, superficial shit,

678
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So I don't know, and

679
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: then be the type of bitches too. It's always a

680
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 2: bad idea in my opinion, to become friends with people

681
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 2: based off of those type of principles because those be

682
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 2: the main beaches who will go fuck.

683
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: Me type of That's what I'm saying.

684
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 2: It just be so crazy when I see some of

685
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 2: the girls running in the same click and they both

686
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 2: fuck with this nigga, they both fuck with that nigga

687
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 2: and then they end up falling out and getting in

688
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 2: a fight. I'm like, why did y'all put y'allself in

689
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 2: that situation in the first place.

690
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: That shit is so fucking weird to me.

691
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 2: I always think it's weird when I'll be seeing hoes

692
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 2: hanging together they didn't fuck the same nigga.

693
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: You will never see me hang with me.

694
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 5: I mean, well, sometimes it does happen, Like I'm not

695
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 5: gonna lie to me, you know what I'm saying, Like,

696
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 5: if you fuck the nigga and then I fucked the nigga,

697
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 5: like and it wasn't in the same vicinity or time,

698
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 5: then we end up becoming friends later in life.

699
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes that happens.

700
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: Shit, it wouldn't happen with me, y'a don't want to

701
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 2: be friends with no beach that I know fucked the

702
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: same nigga as me. Now, if me and you fucked

703
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 2: the same niggain and I did not know that we

704
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: fucked the same Yeah, that's what I'm saying, and we're friends,

705
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,479
Speaker 2: and we're friends and then we later find out like, yeah,

706
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 2: but it wasn't like we beefed up over a nigga

707
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 2: and then all of a sudden we become friends. But

708
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I mean when not even beefed up,

709
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 2: but it because I feel like a lot of girls

710
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 2: don't necessarily be beefed up with other girls over the fact

711
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 2: that they fucked the same nigga, but they be knowing

712
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 2: that they fuck the same nigga and they start hanging

713
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 2: with each other.

714
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: No, no, yeah, I think that is weird.

715
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 2: It ain't gotta be that y'all had beef, because why

716
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 2: would you have beef with somebody over a nigga? Like

717
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: if y'all weren't friends, y'all don't have no loyalty to

718
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: each other. But it's still weird to become friends with

719
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 2: the girl after you know that she was fucking the

720
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 2: same nigga as you, Like, why do I want to

721
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: hang with somebody who we were sitting on the same gig.

722
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is kind of weird. And you know what,

723
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: especially as an adult now, I guess it didn't.

724
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about like a friend that I have, and

725
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 2: we became friends, and then like as we became closer

726
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 2: and we started talking about past relationship, we realized that

727
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: we had like two bodies in common. I mean, we

728
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 2: got a whole group chat called Eskimo's Sisters. But yeah,

729
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 2: like us, I mean, we do sometimes shit. Sometimes shit

730
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 2: be happening, you know, and you can't control it. But

731
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,000
Speaker 2: now at this age, but again to like.

732
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 5: Knowingly going to a friendship and knowing we fucked the same, nigga,

733
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 5: I probably wouldn't.

734
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,959
Speaker 2: You're right, You're right, I mean, and even with our

735
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 2: little Eskimo Sister group chat, none of us knew that

736
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 2: prior to becoming cool with each other, you know what

737
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 2: I mean, how everybody is kind of connected in the

738
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 2: group chair.

739
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: Nobody nobody knew. Nobody knew.

740
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 2: Well maybe he said for me, No, you didn't know,

741
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, I did know.

742
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: We got too many of the same names.

743
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 5: We both got a big papa, we both got a

744
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 5: football bad but it's okay. But yeah, I don't ever

745
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 5: talk about my big pappa no more. Though, yeah, I

746
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 5: don't never talk about mine either, don't but he is

747
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 5: still there live.

748
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, so that was what I did know about

749
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: football bad. I did know that our goods. Yeah, but

750
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 2: find out for myself.

751
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to find out too. I don't know

752
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: if you're gonna like it, you know what. This is

753
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: what we're not gonna do. Okay, this is when we're

754
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: not gonna live.

755
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: So how would you handle a situation if you found

756
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 2: out your nigga like fuck your friend, Like if you

757
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 2: were on the other side of the situation, like you

758
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 2: were the girl that got done wrong, Like what do

759
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 2: you mean fucked my friend? Like fucked my friend before

760
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:10,959
Speaker 2: we got together?

761
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 5: Like yeah, like he tried to get at your friend

762
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 5: behind your back and the Okay, let's do two scenarios.

763
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 5: Let's say I come to you and I'm like, Drea,

764
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 5: somebody tried to holler at me.

765
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: What would you do? Because I know a lot of girls.

766
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 2: I know you've been in a situation where you've brought

767
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: it to your friends and they got mad at you,

768
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 2: Like you're a flirt.

769
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: Your will do that.

770
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, they'll be like, oh, but you're flirty and you

771
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 2: seductive bitch. So what I don't be flirting with that

772
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 2: nigga If I do, I'm just I don't know that

773
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 2: I'm doing it, and I'm just being nice because I

774
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 2: would never fuck nobody.

775
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: Did my friends fucked me? You know what I mean?

776
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 2: So I just feel like sometimes again, it's just my personality.

777
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 2: But if your nigga try to talk to me, then bitch,

778
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,400
Speaker 2: he's out of line, because I'm not gonna go for

779
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 2: this sit and I'm gonna come tell you.

780
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: Right, So how would you handle the situation?

781
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 2: Like if I came to you and I'm like, oh,

782
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 2: Drea such and such try to holler at me, would

783
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: you say something to him? I would laugh about it,

784
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 2: like I'd just be laughing like in my head because

785
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 2: I'd be like, I can't believe that nigga tried this year,

786
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,239
Speaker 2: And then I probably would say like, depending on how

787
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: tough I fucked with him, I probably would say something

788
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 2: to him about it.

789
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: Later, Like would you would stop fucking with him?

790
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, But it just depends on how much

791
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 2: I fuck with him, whether I would talk to him

792
00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 2: about it first or just yeah, you know what I mean,

793
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 2: But I would stop talking to him regardless because you

794
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 2: out of line? Why are you trying to Why are

795
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: you gonna be in my friend mysagriesod.

796
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 1: That's so crazy. It ain't no excuse.

797
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 2: It ain't nothing that nigga could tell me that would

798
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 2: be a good reason to me for him being in

799
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 2: any of my friends messages, right, that is true. I

800
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 2: just feel like niggas. But like I said, niggas ain't ship.

801
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 2: But we already expect that.

802
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 5: But the reason that they're doing this it says a

803
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 5: lot about what's really going on.

804
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: It'll be her you a fighter, yes, and then you

805
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: would beat her ass.

806
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: I swear to God, you own god, I would beat

807
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 2: her as my own God.

808
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 1: Yes.

809
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: And I don't even be liking to fight, like I

810
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 2: ain't even a fighter, but because I would feel like

811
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 2: beat you.

812
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: Really damn that hand got close, because.

813
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 2: I feel like bach you really fucking tried, like you

814
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 2: really try to like to me, that's disrespectful, it's fuck.

815
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 1: Why would you fuck my niggas?

816
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 5: That baby now that baby nails mean business, that kindergarten.

817
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 2: I would get my nails. Donetil when it's time to

818
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 2: fight me. I can never breaking.

819
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: I can never see you getting in the fight.

820
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,319
Speaker 2: I don't know why not because I have Oh when

821
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 2: the last time you got in a fight in high school,

822
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: exactly beat you eighty six? Relax that he is not

823
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,919
Speaker 2: about the pomp back in place, bitch, and I ain't

824
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 2: helping your ass. But I swear I haven't gotten the

825
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 2: fights in high school, but I swore to beat My

826
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 2: friend asked if my nigga.

827
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: Well, let me stay away from you. She was gonna

828
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,320
Speaker 1: do that anyways, Well.

829
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 2: I would ask permission, nucles, I am totally totally kitty. Now.

830
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 5: There was one man that I askedre if I could

831
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 5: have because she don't want a bigger No all, no way.

832
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:31,479
Speaker 1: You think it's so lame and you hate him. Oh girl,

833
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: it was hot.

834
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 7: Bro Oh oh you wasn't gonna be happy with that dick,

835
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 7: no way.

836
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. We do not have to talk about this.

837
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:45,919
Speaker 1: You know they know what we're talking about.

838
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 2: You just whispered, Okay, okay, if.

839
00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: You want to know, I think I'm good. I'm good

840
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: on rappers. Hit him one time and pass them to

841
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 1: my homie. No, thank you. Okay.

842
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 2: So y'all know we love to talk about bdb's and

843
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 2: getting money from niggas and doing what you're supposed to

844
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 2: do whenever you date a nigga. But I know a

845
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 2: lot of y'all be on y'all shit and y'all trying

846
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 2: to boss up because that's that's the one thing that

847
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 2: we do talk about.

848
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 1: Though. We always talk about.

849
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 2: Getting your own money and things that you get from

850
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 2: your BDB is extra, you know what I'm saying. So

851
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 2: I want to talk to y'all about something that's gonna

852
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 2: help y'all with y'all's businesses. So anybody out there listening,

853
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 2: if you have a Shopify store, or you know somebody

854
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 2: that has a Shopify store, and this is like what

855
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 2: you're doing for a living, or you're trying to do

856
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 2: this for a living, like this is where you have

857
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 2: a lot of income coming in. This is for you.

858
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 2: I got something for y'all. Y'all gonna be so happy.

859
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,280
Speaker 2: Y'all gonna be so happy. So I basically have somebody

860
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 2: for y'all that is going to take your brand to

861
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 2: the next level, because I know with any business, I

862
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 2: know that's happened to us a few times, Like you're

863
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 2: doing well and then you just become stagnant. And so

864
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 2: whenever you become stagnant, you gotta do something else to

865
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 2: level you up. That's what we're trying to do right now.

866
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,720
Speaker 2: We're trying to level on up. We're in the process

867
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 2: of re brand it right now. So sometimes that's what

868
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,360
Speaker 2: you have to do for your business. So I have

869
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 2: somebody that's gonna hook y'all up and rebrand everything and

870
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 2: help your website. They gonna take your website everything to

871
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 2: the next level. I've actually worked with him before, Drea

872
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 2: has before, and he cool as fucking He gonna get

873
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 2: the job done. So if you want to really like

874
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 2: take your store or your business, like I said, if

875
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 2: you have a Shopify store to the next level, this

876
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,399
Speaker 2: is gonna help you out. So basically, he's gonna build

877
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,879
Speaker 2: your brand, build your website. You wanna have ads on

878
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 2: Facebook and Instagram, y'all know when y'all see them asking,

879
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 2: you're like, how did that ad pop up? And I

880
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 2: was just thinking about it. He's gonna do all that

881
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 2: shit for you. Okay. So one thing I'm telling y'all

882
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 2: you have to invest money to make money. It takes

883
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:41,240
Speaker 2: money to make money, so just have y'all money ready,

884
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 2: and it's super affordable though it's not nothing crazy, but

885
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: also this is what's dope about it for the ladies

886
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 2: and some men out there. He actually is does exchange

887
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 2: brands for bags. I think that's what he calls it.

888
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 2: So if you have like a luxury bag that's in

889
00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: nice condition, he'll actually exchange the bag and and helping

890
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 2: your website. So if you I'm sure some of y'all

891
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 2: have like a Louis Vauton nice bag, if it's value

892
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 2: at like thirty five hundred dollars or more, in exchange

893
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 2: for your bag, he'll help build your website, do your

894
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm pretty sure he'll give't taking the bags

895
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 2: and regifting the mode.

896
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, but Martha, but it is smart. Like

897
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: I said, a lot of people are buying vintage bags

898
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 1: and they're doing it. So you if you have a bag,

899
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: if you have.

900
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 2: A bag that's sitting in the back of your closet,

901
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: and you have a website and a business that you're

902
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 2: trying to run, run, that bag can be your investment.

903
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 2: You don't even have to dig in your bank account

904
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 2: for that.

905
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm telling you that's actually a really good idea.

906
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 2: Like it's so many women out here who have lash

907
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 2: businesses or you know, makeup lines, lift glass lines, this, hairlines,

908
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 2: and they have an old bag sitting in the back

909
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 2: of your closet. You can revamp your whole website for

910
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 2: a bag that you're not even wearing. Like, this is

911
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 2: a really good idea. And I feel like if you're

912
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 2: trying to invest in your business. We gotta go hard.

913
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,919
Speaker 2: Like Maria said last week, it's the last three months

914
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 2: of twenty twenty. You're trying to finish the ship with

915
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 2: a bang. Go hard invest in your business. His yes,

916
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna put all his information in the description.

917
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 2: His act is the Shopify guy. And when I tell

918
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,879
Speaker 2: you this, he gonna make you some money. It's gonna

919
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 2: really change your life. Okay, So I'll put all his Yeah,

920
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 2: he's super cool. Like I said, this is a guy

921
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 2: that me Andre have worked with personally before. This ain't

922
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: no like no, oh, it ain't no scammeror nothing. But

923
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 2: like I said, if you have a business, online business

924
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 2: and you want to take it to the next level,

925
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 2: this is definitely for you at the dot Shopify dot guy.

926
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put all his info below, Okay, Okay, So

927
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 2: now we're gonna get into the bed. Ay ay ay.

928
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 2: This is a very kindergarten conversation that we're about to have,

929
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 2: but you niggas are so stupid that we have to

930
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 2: have it.

931
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: M Mmmm. We're gonna talk.

932
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 2: About how to correctly finger a vagina because honestly, I

933
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 2: had an incident where a man was fingering and I

934
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: literally started bleeding because.

935
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 1: He was like this. It was very violent.

936
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 5: Sorry, if y'all listen to the podcast, you can't obviously

937
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 5: see what I just did, but it was it was

938
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:18,439
Speaker 5: very violent, like to a whole new level.

939
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 1: I wasn't even I thought I was on my period.

940
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: It was that much blood.

941
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 5: It looked like I was scissorhands. Girl, I'm not lying

942
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 5: to you.

943
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 2: I really had to like, is this nigga finger me

944
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 2: with some scissors?

945
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: It wasn't his nails.

946
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 4: It was the violence.

947
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 1: Girl.

948
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 5: It was violent. Okay girl, Field looked at me. It

949
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 5: was like this, we got to go. So I think

950
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 5: we need to talk about how to properly finger of

951
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 5: jihnny because then you say you had an incident where

952
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 5: somebody was fingering.

953
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 2: You all wrong.

954
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: You want to talk about it? Did you like to

955
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 1: discuss it? Or it's just like.

956
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 2: I don't understand what he was doing. I don't understand

957
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 2: what he was trying to accomplish. You know what I mean.

958
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: He was rubbing it very aggressively.

959
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 2: Pick up your phone requests, that's what he.

960
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: Is going on, Like, why are you doing that?

961
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 2: It was like he was doing he was like rubbing

962
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 2: on my clip was like rubbing like hard, like really hard,

963
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 2: just like rubbing it.

964
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

965
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, okay, what the fuck, like what

966
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 2: are you doing? Like, what are you doing?

967
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: That is so embarrassing? No, it was. It was very embarrassing,

968
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: very very Oh my god.

969
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 2: Then I was laying on my stomach and he was

970
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 2: like grabbing my butt cheek and he grabbed it so

971
00:41:53,920 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 2: hard that it like stretched my vaginachie like a rip.

972
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 1: He like grabbed my ash cheeks so hard and pulled

973
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: them up. This is so violent.

974
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 3: It was so bad.

975
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 7: Violid night, very violent, nice solid episode violent.

976
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 1: I'm crying. Yes, he like grabbed my ash cheeks so hard.

977
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 2: My cochie was about to rip in half, screaming, still

978
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 2: holding one cheek with one hand, and he stuck his

979
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,959
Speaker 2: finger in the other one. And just okay, I feel

980
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 2: like you're lying that this is so Why did he

981
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:44,280
Speaker 2: pull your button?

982
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 1: I don't know?

983
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 4: Are you okay?

984
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 2: No, I'm not okay. Do I look like I'm okay?

985
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 4: I'm okay.

986
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: First of all, it's okay. Now I'm sorry, I'm crying.

987
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: I'm just mash. Then I was laying there like, did

988
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:04,439
Speaker 1: you say something to him?

989
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 2: Yes? Actually Okay. So we actually didn't even finish sucking

990
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 2: because I just was over eat.

991
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: So you did nothing he didn't not No, Wow, if

992
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: I can't get mine, you can't get yours. I'm just imagined.

993
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 2: I'm with you on that one. So I'm just imagining.

994
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 2: I was telling him that I was not I didn't

995
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,359
Speaker 2: like what he was doing. And it wasn't just that

996
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,280
Speaker 2: like he was like sucking on my titd too hard

997
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 2: like everything. He was just being muscular he is, but yeah,

998
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 2: he was just being too aggressive and I was letting

999
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 2: him know that I didn't like it. And so it's

1000
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 2: like you're not trying to do nothing to change it.

1001
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:43,640
Speaker 2: Then you're just trying to stick yo dick up in me. Like, nah,

1002
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 2: that's not what we doing. I'm tired, I'm about to

1003
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 2: go to sleep. Okay, So teach the boys how to

1004
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: properly finger. I feel like, first of all, you have

1005
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 2: to have four play. You have to have four play,

1006
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 2: like why do me and I be wanting to right

1007
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 2: to be kissing? You need to be touching fondly, right, caressing,

1008
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 2: and then because you because if the woman is aroused,

1009
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 2: then she's going to be what So you have to

1010
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 2: start off with kissing and rubbing pussy, right, So this

1011
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 2: has the first part of fingering has nothing to do

1012
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 2: with the vagina, Let's get that straight. The first part

1013
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 2: is the kissing, the getting in the mood, setting the vibe, like,

1014
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: what's up.

1015
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: Baby, m m, you gotta cariss, just caress very softly.

1016
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 2: So yeah, so that's the first thing that's gonna get

1017
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 2: her aroused.

1018
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: The second thing is just fucking be gentle, yes, just

1019
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: fucking honestly.

1020
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 5: Okay, So do you like to get fingered in the

1021
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 5: hole first or then rub the clip or the clip

1022
00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 5: first and then.

1023
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,319
Speaker 1: The whole I like, I mean it does to me.

1024
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: It doesn't necessarily matter what order it goes in that order,

1025
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter what order it goes as long as

1026
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 2: I'm aroused, because I think what makes getting fingered uncomfortable

1027
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 2: is when you're not right, you know what I mean, Like,

1028
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 2: I feel like that's kind of two Well, it's it's

1029
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 2: being aroused and then also how roough the person is,

1030
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 2: but mostly being.

1031
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 1: Aud right, Yeah, so you know what I mean.

1032
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 2: If I'm turned on, then it doesn't matter what order

1033
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 2: you do it in, but be gentle when you're do

1034
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: an it too. Don't be just trying to steak two

1035
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 2: three singles and somebody pussy. Why niggas be doing that

1036
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:22,919
Speaker 2: shit too?

1037
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 4: I'm dead.

1038
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 2: You gotta gradually, you gotta do one well, not want

1039
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 2: to Garfield, not gonna feel that you can start with you.

1040
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 1: Can start with starts. You can start with two with

1041
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 1: me too. But why niggas be trying to steak three? Yeah? Like,

1042
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 1: what are you doing? I hate that sort?

1043
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, that's why I stopped fingering booty holes myself. Wow,

1044
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 2: Because yeah, yeah, you gotta have some short You gotta

1045
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 2: have short nails that need to be manicured.

1046
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:54,760
Speaker 1: You can't be having no hang nails.

1047
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 2: And don't we have no dirty nails and nails throw

1048
00:45:58,400 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 2: my phr.

1049
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: We are They talked about that. But yeah, I just

1050
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: feel like you just need to be gentle, Yes, just be.

1051
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 2: Gentle and rub it like I like the fingers to

1052
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 2: be inserted first. It kind of it spreads the juices,

1053
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 2: rub the clid a little bit, and you know.

1054
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 5: That's just how you and just go slow and be soft.

1055
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,280
Speaker 5: I don't feel like finger is to be like save

1056
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 5: that for the sex. Like when you're hitting it from

1057
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 5: the back, that's when you can be rough. Yeah, Like

1058
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 5: fingering is not meant to be rough, Like save the.

1059
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 2: Rough for the actual sex. Don't rip people's buttholes apart.

1060
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that that happened to you.

1061
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: You feel like I had got a paper cut.

1062
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I can only imagine.

1063
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 1: I can only imagine. So, yeah, those are our steps.

1064
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: That's pretty simple on how to finger because a lot

1065
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:49,720
Speaker 2: of y'all just don't simply.

1066
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,920
Speaker 1: Know a lot of y'all is wild. I mean, but

1067
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: you know what, a lot of men they.

1068
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 3: Just think that they're masters in the bedroom.

1069
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 5: But I go back to blaming that on us because

1070
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 5: we're not being honest with them in the bedroom. We're

1071
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 5: not telling them, hey, that doesn't feel good or ouch

1072
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 5: that hurts, We're not telling them.

1073
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: And I feel like.

1074
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 2: This person they were just telling me that too, like

1075
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 2: they was telling me a story about some girl they

1076
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 2: had wanted to fuck them, like just really had wanted

1077
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 2: to fuck them bad, and.

1078
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 1: And I was just looking like, why cause you're not

1079
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: good in bed.

1080
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes with people like niggas really be giving,

1081
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: they still way too much created like y'all, a lot

1082
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 2: of y'all be I and some of y'all don't even

1083
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 2: be I.

1084
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 4: You know what I on.

1085
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,800
Speaker 2: Out of everybody that I've had sex with, it's way

1086
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 2: more bad partners than good partners, way more.

1087
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 1: It's some niggas that I was.

1088
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 2: Just like, it's just so funny cause one nigga, the

1089
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 2: nigga that slit in your DMS, was literally just texting

1090
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 2: me the other day and I was on some ship.

1091
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 2: I was like telling them, I'm like, you know, I'm

1092
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 2: just not interested in you like that, like we're good.

1093
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 2: He was like, Oh, I don't even look at you

1094
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 2: like that, sir, Yes you do, girl.

1095
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:56,479
Speaker 1: I'm dead.

1096
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 2: He told you, he don't even look at you like that,

1097
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 2: because that's how men feel when they get curt. But

1098
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 2: you were ranting and raving about this pussy. You could

1099
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:05,240
Speaker 2: not stop texting me about the pussy.

1100
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 5: Like, let's be real, Yeah, the sex just wasn't good.

1101
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 5: There was no benefits of me fucking you at all.

1102
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 5: I wasn't having an orgasm.

1103
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 2: It just wasn't you know what I'm saying, Right, I'm

1104
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 2: at the point now if why are we having sex

1105
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 2: if I'm not having an orgastic?

1106
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,839
Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you. That's how I felt about

1107
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,520
Speaker 1: that sittuar just so I was like, nah, and I'm

1108
00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: not gonna lie.

1109
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,400
Speaker 2: I haven't did this to somebody in a long time,

1110
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, I haven't just been

1111
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 2: like in the middle of six like, oh no, I

1112
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 2: don't want to have sex anymore.

1113
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, but I mean I wasn't enjoying it.

1114
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 1: So it's like, why I.

1115
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 2: Keep doing it for you and you're not even doing

1116
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 2: shit right?

1117
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 1: You don't care about how I'm feeling. So we can

1118
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: end this shit right now. So fellus.

1119
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,280
Speaker 2: I hope y'all took the tips on how to finger ladies.

1120
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: Make sure you teach these men how to be better

1121
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 2: in bed, because, like I said, this is all about

1122
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 2: women uniteen and doing what we gotta do for each other.

1123
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 2: So that's the third one what I said, don't laugh

1124
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 2: at each other, don't fuck you other man, and tell

1125
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 2: a man when he's not doing what the fun he's

1126
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 2: supposed to do in bed. Amen, Okay, I agree with that.

1127
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into the vibey.

1128
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: Oh you got about this week? Party next Door came

1129
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 1: out with a new album. Damn you were supposed to

1130
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: say yes or no? I love Party next Door. Okay,

1131
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 1: he got a new album. Check it out. It's good.

1132
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 2: I forgot the name of it because I can't look

1133
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 2: on my phone because he's about to go dead.

1134
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: Oh ship mine is too hurry up.

1135
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 2: That's the only reason why didn't because I actually did

1136
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 2: listen to it. It's like seven songs and it is

1137
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 2: really good. I like it, But I mean.

1138
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: I like him.

1139
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 2: It depends on if you like him, you know what

1140
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 2: I mean, Because I feel like it's kind of like

1141
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 2: with the Weekend.

1142
00:49:43,760 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what I mean.

1143
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:50,880
Speaker 2: Those are already necessarily everybody not gonna really right. So

1144
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:52,479
Speaker 2: I mean, if you like Party next Door.

1145
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,879
Speaker 1: I've never been a huge Party next Door fan. Yeah,

1146
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, I've always liked him. But yeah,

1147
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 1: so check out their album at the name movie, y'all.

1148
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Okay, okay, So my bop of the week, Giveon,

1149
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 2: just came out with an EP. If y'all don't know

1150
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 2: who he is, He's the one that came out with

1151
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 2: like with a remix of Drake's Chicago Freestyle.

1152
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,560
Speaker 5: He his voice is very unique. It's like very deep,

1153
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 5: but it kind of sounds like he has a frog

1154
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 5: in his throat.

1155
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 1: It's very weird. It's very it sounds his voice sounds

1156
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: like it's chopped and screwed. Wait, so he's the guy

1157
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,840
Speaker 1: that was singing on the Chicago.

1158
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, so yeah, So he dropped his EP. It's

1159
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 2: called take Time, and it's really fucking good. This is

1160
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 2: like the kind of music y'all know. I like to

1161
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 2: sit in my bathtub and drink wine, and that's the

1162
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 2: vibes that it's on. It's like definitely some chill shit

1163
00:50:45,280 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 2: like you can just you know, kind of be in

1164
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 2: your feelings sip a little wine too.

1165
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 5: So yeah, the whole EP is good. My favorite one

1166
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 5: is this Ain't Love. So yeah, y'all check that out

1167
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,280
Speaker 5: if you like the slow R and B tip. Somebody

1168
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 5: said to me the other day, I said, because I

1169
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 5: tweeted some and I said, good vie and good music

1170
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 5: always gets me. And they said, I don't know how,

1171
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 5: cause your bops of the week's be trash.

1172
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: Oh ya, I've seen.

1173
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 2: Somebody say that up on on YouTube about.

1174
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 5: Well, that's because I don't listen to what are you know,

1175
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 5: I don't listen to the same type of music, like

1176
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 5: you know, we have a mostly black artist that I

1177
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 5: don't really listen to a lot I guess traditionally R

1178
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 5: and B black music, so I don't expect y'all. Yeah,

1179
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 5: I don't listen to that stuff, so of course I

1180
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 5: know y'all not gonna like it.

1181
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 1: I'll be trying to put y'all on something now.

1182
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:32,360
Speaker 2: Trying to put y'all on some new sy I'll be

1183
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 2: telling you all about stuff that y'all probably.

1184
00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: Right already you haven't listened to it.

1185
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 2: Once I say, you're gonna be like, oh, let me

1186
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 2: check that out, because you're already gonna know the artist.

1187
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 2: Lex be trying to put y'all on different people. Yeah,

1188
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,879
Speaker 2: damn it, y'all gotta show some appreciation.

1189
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 1: Rude.

1190
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:53,240
Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the questions portion

1191
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 2: of the show. If y'all want your question to answered

1192
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 2: on the show, make sure you email us at ask

1193
00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1194
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: Makes you keep it a paragraph, keep it short, keep

1195
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 1: it cute, keep it sweet.

1196
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 2: We're actually gonna do five today because one of the

1197
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:08,839
Speaker 2: Patreon members sent in a question, and as you know,

1198
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 2: if you're on Patreon, you get to skip the line

1199
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 2: on the question. So if y'all want y'all question answered,

1200
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 2: the quicker. You're gonna have to become a Patreon member.

1201
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 2: But you can't just become any Patreon memory. You gotta

1202
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 2: be a top tier member. That's where the top tier

1203
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 2: members only. So shout out to you, queen. So this

1204
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 2: is from Alia of Beauty. It says Hidra and Lex

1205
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 2: I love listening to y'all. I'm a BBW and I

1206
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 2: want a BDB. I often hear y'all giving advice on

1207
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 2: getting a BDB, but never in the perspective of a BBW.

1208
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 2: Do you think being a big girl takes away my

1209
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 2: chances of getting a BDB? How can I go about

1210
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 2: getting a BDB knowing I'm not the size, I'm an

1211
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 2: average woman. I also would like to hear y'all opinions

1212
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:46,479
Speaker 2: of why dating bbw's or plus five women is looked

1213
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: down upon.

1214
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 1: We actually hit Yeah, we talked about Remni on Horrible Decisions.

1215
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, Wenna talk about this on the episode that we

1216
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 2: did with I definitely don't think that's nothing to do

1217
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,840
Speaker 2: with it for me, you know, I mean there are

1218
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 2: some men who like that's me.

1219
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: Actually said that all the time.

1220
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 2: She was like, when I was a big girl, I

1221
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 2: used to be pulling and she definitely was.

1222
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 1: I can attest to that. Oh I thought she was

1223
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 1: about to say something else. Never mind, No, it doesn't

1224
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: matter at all.

1225
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 2: I felt like, now I can't tell you any advice

1226
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 2: on how to get a BDB as a BBW, because

1227
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 2: you know we're not a BBW, you know what I'm saying. So,

1228
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 2: but I will say that has your size has nothing

1229
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 2: to do with it. I say this all the time.

1230
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 2: It's all about your confidence and how you carry your

1231
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 2: confidence and how you carry yourself.

1232
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: Are you well put together?

1233
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 2: Do you look like you could be on somebody's arm

1234
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 2: at an event or something like that. That's the kind

1235
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,399
Speaker 2: of stuff that they're looking at. Are your nails done

1236
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 2: or your hair done it? Do you look good? And

1237
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: I don't care if you three hundred pounds or you

1238
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 2: three pounds. If you three hundred pounds and you dressed

1239
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 2: to the tea versus the girl who looks like Drea

1240
00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 2: but she is not dressed properly in her hair and

1241
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 2: her thing, He's gonna pick the bigger girl because she

1242
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:00,280
Speaker 2: looks good and she's well put together.

1243
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's all about confidence in me.

1244
00:54:03,320 --> 00:54:06,880
Speaker 1: If she ain't will put together? What I said how

1245
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 1: much does she really look?

1246
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 2: Like?

1247
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: Well, you know what I mean.

1248
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,760
Speaker 2: I mean, like you know what I'm saying, Oh girl,

1249
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 2: do you think being a big girl takes away my

1250
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 2: chance of getting no answer?

1251
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 1: That you don't think?

1252
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 2: So, I mean, I just feel like you have to

1253
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 2: put yourself in the space to be able to run

1254
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 2: into the type of people that you try into a trade.

1255
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:24,799
Speaker 7: Right.

1256
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 2: That answers the question when she says, how can I

1257
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 2: go about getting a BDB knowing I'm not the size

1258
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 2: of an average woman And a lot of times I

1259
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:34,439
Speaker 2: feel like sometimes women that are bigger, they show that

1260
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 2: like they are insecure about their size. That way, let

1261
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:40,839
Speaker 2: that shit go because half thetime, if a nigga looking

1262
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 2: at you, he likes that about you. So don't even

1263
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 2: think about that, don't even think about your weight being

1264
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 2: an issue, or don't even try to bring it up.

1265
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 2: Don't crack jokes about it, because that's something that I

1266
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,680
Speaker 2: used to do. I used to crack jokes on myself

1267
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 2: because I wasn't confidence. So I was like, let me

1268
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 2: beat them to the punch and call myself this and

1269
00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 2: call myself that so they can't make fun of.

1270
00:54:58,120 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: Me about it.

1271
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 2: But then you're probably drawing a attention to right and

1272
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 2: a lot of times people probably be like, what the

1273
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 2: fuck is she talking about? You know what I'm saying.

1274
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 2: So I feel like, just be yourself, be confident, and

1275
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 2: that's what you know, that's what they're attracted to. Why

1276
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 2: do you think that dating bbw's and plus sized women

1277
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:17,279
Speaker 2: is looked down upon?

1278
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 1: I don't think it's no, it is.

1279
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 2: I see people saying little stuff and people be like,

1280
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 2: I think the reason being because men. We talked about

1281
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 2: this when I was on the show with Orlando, when

1282
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 2: Orlando and Donald were here. Men that look down on

1283
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 2: other men for dating bigger women, those are the men

1284
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 2: you don't even want to deal with anyway, because those

1285
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 2: are the niggas that care more about looking good in

1286
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 2: front of their homeboy than satisfying a woman. So these

1287
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 2: are men that care about pleasing the niggas, you know

1288
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:47,919
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Like when you go to a club

1289
00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: and you see nigga like, men, let my niggas sit down?

1290
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 2: Are nigga sitting down not letting the women sit down?

1291
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 2: Those are the type of men you don't want to

1292
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 2: deal with anyway. So any man that's a shame to

1293
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 2: deal with you, because you know what, I feel like

1294
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 2: I deal with that too.

1295
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 5: Not men not want to deal with me because of

1296
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,400
Speaker 5: what I do for a living, Like they feel like

1297
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:04,280
Speaker 5: I'm go'a talk about them or I talk about sucking

1298
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 5: it too much, but they don't realize, like, this is

1299
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 5: two entities of my life. So if you can't respect that,

1300
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:10,839
Speaker 5: if they can't respect who you are, then fuck them.

1301
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 5: So I feel like, yeah, there are people that are,

1302
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 5: you know, probably embarrassed to deal with bigger women, just

1303
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 5: like there are men that are probably embarrassed to deal

1304
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:19,479
Speaker 5: with me because I be talking about booty holes and shit,

1305
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 5: we all gotta deal with somebody being embarrassed or something

1306
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 5: that we have or that we do, but that's just

1307
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:27,879
Speaker 5: not the person for you. So I feel like those

1308
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 5: men are just men that care too much about what

1309
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 5: their homeboys think, and that's not somebody you want to

1310
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 5: deal with anyway.

1311
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: So fuck them, girl. And I can see from y'all

1312
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,240
Speaker 1: aby you a baddie yes's period a baddie prey cute,

1313
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, So yeah, shout out to you.

1314
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: Let's get to the next one.

1315
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 2: Okay, we didn't read this worl uh no, okay, it says,

1316
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 2: Hey ladies, love y'all any for advice on how to

1317
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:53,279
Speaker 2: keep your vaginal pH on point? My body has been

1318
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:56,279
Speaker 2: going through a lot of hormonal changes recently, and I

1319
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 2: can't seem to keep it consistent.

1320
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,240
Speaker 1: Looking forward to your advice.

1321
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 2: Watch that third, okay, But honestly, I feel like this

1322
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:09,760
Speaker 2: a lot of times. You have to leave your vagina alone.

1323
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes you do what you're doing too much. Y'all want

1324
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 2: to stick a doution in there, y'all want to stick

1325
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 2: this in there?

1326
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: Stop sticking stuff and y'all pussy.

1327
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 2: Yo vagina is self cleaning, And I think a lot

1328
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 2: of people don't realize that yo vagina is self cleaning

1329
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 2: a lot of the time. So you gotta stop, like

1330
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 2: Lex said, doing all of this extra stuff. Like I

1331
00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 2: remember when I was in high school, I didn't even

1332
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 2: have like any type of older issues or anything, but

1333
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 2: I just used to love to use this summer's eve spray.

1334
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 1: And then I went to my doctor one time and

1335
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: my doctor was.

1336
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:41,919
Speaker 2: Telling me, like, you're not supposed to be using those

1337
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 2: sprays and stuff down there because it actually can throw

1338
00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 2: your pH off.

1339
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: Vaginosis, you know what I mean.

1340
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 2: And if you have an older or something down there,

1341
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 2: you shouldn't be trying to mask the older. You need

1342
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 2: to be trying to figure out what the root of

1343
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 2: the problem is because and that that also means, you

1344
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 2: know what I mean, not trying to self heal yourself

1345
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 2: by like going to the like CBS or the pharmacy

1346
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 2: or whatever and getting something for an Eastern fiction. If

1347
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,959
Speaker 2: you're not one hundred percent sure you have an Eastern fiction,

1348
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 2: you need to go to the doctor.

1349
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1350
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,320
Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of times women are scared

1351
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 5: and the girl go to the doctor. That would be

1352
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 5: your best thing. Like, if you feel like things have

1353
00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 5: been off down let me tell you something. And my

1354
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 5: vagina even yeah, like my vagina even looks a different color.

1355
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm going to the doctor, don't. I don't play

1356
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: with little Garfield like I just do not.

1357
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 2: My skin is super super sensitive down there, especially with

1358
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 2: older age. I don't know what's going on me. I'm

1359
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 2: turning to a grandma, y'all. Now, my vagina will be

1360
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: reacting to everything. But the best thing for me that

1361
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 2: my doctor be telling me is just lead you pussy alone, girl,

1362
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 2: stop putting stuff up there.

1363
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: We'll just wash your vagina and let it do it,

1364
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:47,400
Speaker 1: let it do his thing like.

1365
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 5: All these That's one thing I hate that you go

1366
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 5: to the aisle to get passed and there's like sprays,

1367
00:58:52,200 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 5: washing is this and that, and it's like white, so

1368
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 5: it's like.

1369
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 1: Half of stuff you don't even really need.

1370
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you down, and it's like if you are going

1371
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: to use the wash, you need to use a very

1372
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 2: gentle wash that doesn't have any type of sense.

1373
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: Yeah what I mean, You're definitely not supposed to use

1374
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: body wash down there, Oh, definitely not.

1375
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 2: And another good tip is like after you have six,

1376
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 2: you need to make sure you go pee every time

1377
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 2: after you have six.

1378
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 1: And definitely wash your reagina wash.

1379
00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but some bit just be like day, well, some

1380
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 2: bitches you know they have sex.

1381
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: I think it's laying it. Well, yeah, you don't need

1382
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 1: to let that go. You need to take the.

1383
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:32,840
Speaker 2: Shop because you know niggas will just pull out, lay

1384
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,479
Speaker 2: down and go to sleep. But you know, we don't

1385
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 2: have the same niggas be walking around with Dirty Dixon

1386
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:40,919
Speaker 2: don't even know it, Like ours a vagina is very

1387
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 2: different from their, you know area, So it's like you

1388
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 2: can't follow what your nigga's doing. I don't care if

1389
00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 2: the nigga let there and go to sleep, Go wash

1390
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 2: your vagina. If you at your manhouse and you don't

1391
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 2: feel comfortable taking a shower, are you somewhere at least

1392
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 2: get a towel and wipe it down down there, just

1393
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: clean up the area. So yeah, and I mean yeah,

1394
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 2: just make sure you not do any stuff too, and

1395
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 2: then try to find you like a daily probioti.

1396
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 5: I know when I I whenever I doush. Sometimes I do,

1397
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 5: Like when my period is letting up, I empty it out.

1398
01:00:11,200 --> 01:00:12,959
Speaker 5: I clean it out, and I just put warm water

1399
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 5: in there, and that's it, just so I can get

1400
01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 5: all that gunk out and warm water.

1401
01:00:17,160 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: That's it. You don't need nothing else in there. I

1402
01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: dump it out.

1403
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 2: I just I just really get it for the actual tool,

1404
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. But I just put warm

1405
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 2: water in there and get all that shit down.

1406
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 1: Callar day. Why'd you skip thieves? I wasn't sure if

1407
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:31,880
Speaker 1: we read those. Oh okay, they weren't deleted. They didn't

1408
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: have you know.

1409
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So this one is from let me see,

1410
01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 2: she doesn't say, don't real name. This one is from Adonis.

1411
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:42,160
Speaker 2: It says, hey, y'all. Me and my sister listening to

1412
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 2: y'all religiously. We recently found a plastic surgeon in Mexico.

1413
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 2: My sister's twenty and I'm twenty four. I have a

1414
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,440
Speaker 2: one year old, and I'm nervous about surgery, especially overseas.

1415
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,280
Speaker 5: Do y'all know anyone who went to Mexico? Is this

1416
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 5: reckless as fuck? Or that's the common thing upon among

1417
01:00:57,280 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 5: plastic surgeons?

1418
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 2: Please help? So I tell y'all this every week. Just

1419
01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 2: do your research. I feel like going to Mexico. I

1420
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 2: don't know anybody that's going to Mexico to get a BBL.

1421
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 2: Mexico is not really known for their bbls. I feel like,

1422
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:11,560
Speaker 2: if you're gonna go out the country, most people do

1423
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 2: go to Columbia and they go to the dr.

1424
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: But even with that, you have to do your research.

1425
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 5: But one thing y'all have to do is to do

1426
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 5: your own research. I know a lot of y'all be

1427
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 5: coming to us, and I am never gonna give y'all

1428
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 5: advice or never gonna tell y'all which doctor to go to,

1429
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 5: because my experience can.

1430
01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: Be completely different from your experience.

1431
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 5: And yes, because I had a situation where a friend

1432
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 5: of mine went to the same doctor I went to

1433
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 5: and she hated her results and she was actually mad

1434
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 5: at me.

1435
01:01:39,280 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 2: I said, what, big, didn't nobody tell you to go

1436
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:42,400
Speaker 2: to the same doctor I went through? So that's why

1437
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 2: I avoid doing that. So I feel like, just do

1438
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 2: your research. But I don't know anybody who's going to Mexico.

1439
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 5: My main thing that I always tell people that want

1440
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,480
Speaker 5: to go out the country is what are your reasons

1441
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 5: for going out the country? Because if you're going out

1442
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 5: the country because you think it's gonna be cheaper, then

1443
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 5: you just need to say, gave up some more money

1444
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 5: and get to where you can really get the doctor

1445
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 5: that you want. Because if you're trying to go out

1446
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 5: the country to save money, one is really not gonna

1447
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 5: save you money in the long run, and two, that's

1448
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 5: how you end up in a fucked up situation and

1449
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 5: being botched. So when you're getting plastic surgery, stop looking

1450
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:16,680
Speaker 5: for the cheap route.

1451
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's plastic surgery is not cheap.

1452
01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 2: It's not ever gonna be cheap, and you're gonna have

1453
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,320
Speaker 2: to spend money to look good. You shouldn't want to

1454
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:26,560
Speaker 2: not spend a lot of money on something that you

1455
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 2: getting done to your.

1456
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: Body right, And I'm not saying that's y'all's reason.

1457
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 5: I'm just saying for people out there that are always

1458
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 5: trying to save money with you know, plastic surgery.

1459
01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't really know. I don't know anybody that's.

1460
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard of people want to Mexico for

1461
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 2: a BBO, So good lucks is I'm dead? It says, Hey,

1462
01:02:47,960 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 2: lex Andrea, please don't say my name, but you can

1463
01:02:50,120 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 2: call me Lan.

1464
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 1: I just wanted to.

1465
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 2: Start off that reminds me. I just want to start

1466
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:00,920
Speaker 2: off and say I truly love y'all. I recently started

1467
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:03,360
Speaker 2: listening to the podcast after my friend told me about it.

1468
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 2: At first, I was like, so you really just die

1469
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 2: and listen to people talk. Then once I started listening,

1470
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 2: I was like, Damn, this shit is really good.

1471
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 1: Y'all.

1472
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 2: Make my nights at work go by fast anyway, not

1473
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:15,680
Speaker 2: to make this long. Not to make this long episode

1474
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 2: seventy three, I think y'all asked, what was something what

1475
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 2: was something crazy you ever did for Dick? Well, one

1476
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 2: day during my college days, I wanted Dick from this

1477
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 2: nigga so bad, Like Dick was bomb as fuck. He's

1478
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 2: not a BDB side. But his dick, But his dick

1479
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 2: just made my pussy fall in love. Well, it was

1480
01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 2: a big snowstorm on campus and the campus was clothed. Well,

1481
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:38,160
Speaker 2: it was a big snowstorm and campus was closed, streets

1482
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 2: were hard to drive on. But I told his nigga

1483
01:03:40,080 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 2: I wanted some dick and guess what his ass? His

1484
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 2: ass came and what did I do? Ceise, I matched

1485
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:49,920
Speaker 2: my ass, I guess you member marched. I marched my

1486
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 2: ass right through that snow blizzard to the end of

1487
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 2: the road on campus and got my back blown.

1488
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: The fuck out.

1489
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:57,520
Speaker 2: Crazy thing is, after I got back inside the dorm,

1490
01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:00,160
Speaker 2: this nigga said he can't move his fucking car.

1491
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 1: He was not staying with me.

1492
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 2: That night in my dorm, I called his ass a

1493
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,959
Speaker 2: cab to take his ass home. It was between him

1494
01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 2: and the lord if his car was still there in

1495
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 2: the morning, if if.

1496
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 1: He didn't get told. But it was there. I just

1497
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 1: wanted to share my story with y'all. Love a true

1498
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 1: poor girl.

1499
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 2: I'm dead not you march it through the snow for

1500
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 2: some dick girl and called him acab. Well, thank you,

1501
01:04:24,320 --> 01:04:27,560
Speaker 2: queen for that story, and we appreciate that Okay, so

1502
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,280
Speaker 2: we got one more and then we go get on

1503
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 2: out of here.

1504
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,160
Speaker 3: So this says, hey love the show.

1505
01:04:33,840 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 2: This guy, who is now twenty six, took my virginity

1506
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 2: when I was twenty one three years ago.

1507
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:40,720
Speaker 1: He didn't have much going on in life.

1508
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 2: Besides a car and had a kid and a set

1509
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 2: of twins. Oh hell no, I don't like where this

1510
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:49,520
Speaker 2: is going, Miss Garrett. His foreplay and good Dick have

1511
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,840
Speaker 2: me cloud and looking past the bro dumb.

1512
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,720
Speaker 1: What is up with y'all in this dick?

1513
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 2: If he sounded like they like money and I.

1514
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 1: Don't like it, that is not in our ministry.

1515
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:04,440
Speaker 2: Okay, so let me keep going fast forward. I just

1516
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,760
Speaker 2: graduated college. Price went up, bitch, and we are cool

1517
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 2: and we speak on the phone. I'm in Texas and

1518
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:12,439
Speaker 2: he's in Missouri. He calls me to see what I'm doing.

1519
01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 2: My response was making money. He says, I'm glad you

1520
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 2: are due to the fact that I'm going to visit

1521
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 2: Missouri this week from my family. He plans for us

1522
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 2: to link and I guess I was supposed to cover

1523
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 2: gas with the car I'm borrowing and to come fuck

1524
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:28,040
Speaker 2: him in his eyes. To backtrack, a month ago, He

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01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 2: said he would get us a hotel when I flew

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01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 2: out there and he would take me out. But now

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01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:34,120
Speaker 2: he's saying he didn't work enough and his money is low.

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01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 2: I said, well, if you don't got no money, then

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01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 2: you can't see me see girl talk, but I deserve

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01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 2: He says, Okay, there's ten other bitches that I can

1531
01:05:42,040 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 2: call that I don't need to pay the sea. So

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01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:46,280
Speaker 2: I said okay, by and hung up. I had a

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01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 2: soft spot in my heart for him since he took

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01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:51,040
Speaker 2: my virginity and we get along well. Idk if he

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01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:54,200
Speaker 2: was playing or he might surprise me and come up

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01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 2: with money. Do y'all think I should cut him off

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01:05:56,200 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 2: completely or just keep him as a friend. The broke

1538
01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 2: shit turns me off, but I still have love for him.

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01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 2: Please advice on how to find men with a little

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01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 2: money and ambition without going to the club. It's hard

1541
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 2: to meet new people in the city during COVID nineteen.

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01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 2: Please let me know.

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Speaker 1: Thanks.

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01:06:10,200 --> 01:06:13,040
Speaker 2: Ordinary girl that wants to say wants a nigga to say,

1545
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 2: whatever you want, I got you well first of all,

1546
01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 2: says I think a lot of times we hold on

1547
01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 2: to men for no reason like you hold on to him.

1548
01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:22,880
Speaker 2: Just because he broke in virginity. I understand that that's hard,

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01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 2: but he's not playing Sis. A nigga that has money

1550
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 2: is not gonna be like, oh well I got ten

1551
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 2: other bitches I can go.

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01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:30,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, he don't got it.

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01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 2: Sis, you need to let that situation go if that's

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01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 2: something that you're looking for, unless y'all can find a

1555
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 2: way to be platonic friends. He don't got it and

1556
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:41,560
Speaker 2: he's not trying to make sure that you straight. So

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01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 2: in my eyes, I would cut it off because this

1558
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:51,680
Speaker 2: puss he ain't free. And I mean I hate to

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01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 2: say that because I know y'all connect, But like I said,

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01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 2: if y'all could be platonic friends, cool, you know. I

1561
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 2: think that's fine to be platonic friends. But anything other

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01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 2: than that, he tried to play you. I got ten

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01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 2: other bitches, Well go be with them.

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01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 1: But you're a poor girl. We don't get down like that. No,

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01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: anybody got signed for this girl. Cut him off.

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01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 2: Then you say, you've just graduated your degree, the price

1567
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,600
Speaker 2: went up. You can find you a way better, you

1568
01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Yeah, you lost o Virgina be.

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Speaker 1: To him, but.

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Speaker 5: Whatever, you know, it's gonna be a lot more niggas

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01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 5: after him. Girl, So it's not you know, good luck.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're still young girl at least.

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01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:32,880
Speaker 2: Look just only get word when you like me and

1574
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 2: still just kind of out here. I'm just doing whatever

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01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 2: making it work, okay, all right, So make sure if

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01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:41,760
Speaker 2: y'all want y'all questions answer, y'all email us to ask

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01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 2: Poor Minds at gmail dot com. If you're not a

1578
01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 2: Patreon member, make sure you sign up to our Patreon account.

1579
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:50,439
Speaker 2: We released bonus contents every fucking week.

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01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: Did you release video?

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01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna drop it today. Already recorded it so I'm

1582
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:57,480
Speaker 2: actually gonna upload that so by the time y'all listen

1583
01:07:57,560 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 2: to this, the Patreon will be dropped. If you're a

1584
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:01,320
Speaker 2: patren remember you're lit into this on Monday right now,

1585
01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 2: so the episode is about to go up. I'm gonna

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01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,560
Speaker 2: drop part two to my Q and A this weekend

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Speaker 2: as well.

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Speaker 1: My hair is my Emerald Goddess hair as always. You

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01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 1: got anything else you want to add? No, not really,

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01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank y'all so much for tuning in. This has

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Speaker 2: been another episode of Poor Minds. We thank y'all so much.

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01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,360
Speaker 2: Shout out to the new listeners, thank y'all for tuning in,

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01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:24,559
Speaker 2: and we'll see y'all next week.

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Speaker 3: Bye Bye,