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Speaker 1: Madison Beer is on Kiss FM. Tuesday's my least favorite

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Speaker 1: day of the week, but we try and make it

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Speaker 1: feel as good as a Thursday.

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Speaker 2: See, the energy is a Thursday energy.

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Speaker 3: I do your energy today.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you feel that. All right, we're gonna pay bills.

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Speaker 1: I got a second date, update this hour, all those

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Speaker 1: tickets to six likes Magic Mountain. But first I want

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Speaker 1: to stop the entire show to find out is there

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Speaker 1: a true tension between the two of you your best

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Speaker 1: friends or have you gotten past it yet?

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Speaker 4: It's an underlying tension. Just feel we need to settle.

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Speaker 1: This, all right, let's I'm happy to settle this. I'm

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Speaker 1: happy that you came in to settle this. This is

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Speaker 1: a big deal. But she's here in person. So your

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Speaker 1: friendship goes for how many years now, Becka, you and Tanya.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say since twenty fifteen, so.

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Speaker 3: About a decade.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to know that someone at the gym

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Speaker 1: came up to me and said I'm Tanya's best friend

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Speaker 1: and it wasn't you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that happens a lot, and you're okay with that.

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Speaker 4: I'm fine with that. But if roles are reversed, somebody

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Speaker 4: would viral. Really, yeah, tiny would spiral. If that happened

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Speaker 4: the other way, we would have to have a full

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Speaker 4: conversation and I'd have to validate her feelings.

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Speaker 2: Yes, let her know.

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Speaker 4: She's also my best friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of to be her best friend.

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Speaker 4: Listen. I thought the engagement would take some of the

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Speaker 4: pressure off, but it's it's maybe increased.

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Speaker 3: Territorialism. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm doing this by myself without today.

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Speaker 1: All right, So what happened and let's get to the

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Speaker 1: bottom of this and figure out who's right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So this happened last weekend. I texted my best

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Speaker 3: friend Becca and I said, Hey, do you have plans

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Speaker 3: this weekend? I'm going to try and go dress shopping.

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Speaker 3: Would love for you to come. And she hit me

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Speaker 3: back and said, it's my sister's birthday and I know

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Speaker 3: her sister lives in Orange County, so I'm gonna go

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Speaker 3: be with her. And then Haley's moving on Sunday, so

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be helping her with that.

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Speaker 2: Haley your significant other.

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Speaker 3: Correct, So in my mind, she's down for the count

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Speaker 3: for the weekend. You know, that's what she says.

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Speaker 2: So did she say, I'm out for the weekend.

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Speaker 3: She said, I'm since my sister's birthday on Saturday, so

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be celebrating that, and on Sunday, I'm helping

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Speaker 3: Haley the weekend. Okay, So come to Sunday and we

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Speaker 3: decide to have just impromptu barbecue. We'd just go to

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Speaker 3: the grocery store and get a couple meats and shrimps.

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Speaker 3: And I invite two of my other best friends over,

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Speaker 3: and Becca is upset that I did not invite her. However,

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Speaker 3: I had reinvited her earlier for weekend festivities and she

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Speaker 3: was out, So why would I open myself up to

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Speaker 3: rejection if I knew she was busy?

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Speaker 2: Becca, what say you?

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Speaker 4: Well, the meat, the meats and shrimps was never mentioned,

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Speaker 4: so I never even had a chance. And I was thinking, man,

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Speaker 4: what would have been so good after a long moving

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Speaker 4: day barbecue some grilled shrimps friend and my friend's backyard.

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Speaker 1: Sort of like yeah, without any work on mysel because

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Speaker 1: I've been working with my partner moving. Uh So here's

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Speaker 1: the thing, why does it are you? Why does it

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Speaker 1: matter so much? Like I feel like if you didn't

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Speaker 1: invite it it's fine, Like, it's.

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Speaker 4: More about the sentiment of like if roles were reversed.

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Speaker 2: To think she's the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and let's not talk about the shrimps and the

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Speaker 1: meats and the Sundays. This is about the level of

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Speaker 1: pressure because I keep hitting rolls reversed. It doesn't sound

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Speaker 1: like a balanced friendship. It doesn't. The theme here is

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Speaker 1: Tanya needs more than I need, and I'm aware of that,

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Speaker 1: but I'm kind of it's laborious, I.

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Speaker 3: Know, but it's about love languages with your best friends.

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Speaker 2: So I get you needy for Becca, but I respect.

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Speaker 3: Her non neediness and I rarely.

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Speaker 2: Respect my non neediness.

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Speaker 4: So she tries to say she was trying to respect

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Speaker 4: the boundary because I told her I had plans, but

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Speaker 4: she never respects that.

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Speaker 2: So if it was convenient for her this time, no

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Speaker 2: doubt when I called her.

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Speaker 3: Out, I've stopped face timing. I now call her on

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Speaker 3: the phone without face time, because that's what she refers.

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Speaker 3: That's me speaking.

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Speaker 1: I would have thought her fiance would have taken some

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Speaker 1: of the load off of you for this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Robbie, Robbie in the text, that's true.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I hear we're part of the wedding together are we? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I had not gotten any news.

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Speaker 1: I heard it was on Thanksgiving and officiating when she performing?

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Speaker 2: What are you performing? I too, am performing great of honor.

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Speaker 4: I'm one of one of a few.

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Speaker 2: How many do I have?

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Speaker 3: Just one?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Great?

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Speaker 4: But I just if you needed to get together and

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Speaker 4: review some things, because I know, like public speaking is hard, and.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the crowd.

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Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I'll go shrimps shopping and Saturday or

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Speaker 1: sun deck perfect, get the meat and you enjoy.

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Speaker 2: Robbie and Becka and I we're planning to perform.

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Speaker 3: We're planning.

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Speaker 2: We're planning the Robbie and Tanya festival.

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Speaker 3: If you guys have a barbecue and don't invite me spiral.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I can't wait for this week pictures too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thanks for coming in. You guys are a lovely friendship.

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Speaker 1: Let's not let this rock the boat, but tiny, maybe

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Speaker 1: a little less push and be Thanks for your patience.

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Speaker 3: I'm so chill.

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Speaker 2: You're not chill.

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Speaker 1: One thing you are not chill is next to me.

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Speaker 1: The alarm goes off, doesn't bother her. I know you

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Speaker 1: are waking up before it.

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Speaker 3: That's true, all right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you and I are not chill. No, okay, let's

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Speaker 1: come back. When is scrubbing in next episode?

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Speaker 3: Up?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Thanks Ryan, Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 3: We actually just released a really good episode with Daisy Kent.

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Speaker 4: Yes, she was on the Bachelor, Okay, Daisy Kent doesn't

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Speaker 4: ring a bell.

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Speaker 2: My head was like.

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Speaker 3: An America sweetheart.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, America's sweethearted stimmy fallon.

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Speaker 3: I could argue it's Daisy Kent.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's come back with Jasmine martin In l