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Speaker 2: My husband's hot coworker might be trying to sleep with him.

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Speaker 2: How hot is she?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 2: That's the question.

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Speaker 3: God?

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Speaker 2: So I'm joking God enough to choke on Golly, you

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Speaker 2: know I can't take a lot of spice. Well, my husband,

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Speaker 2: forty mail Jay, had worked at a job where he

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Speaker 2: was the top supervisor of his department. For a while,

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Speaker 2: there was an employee twenty five to twenty eight ish,

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Speaker 2: a female will call Claire that he was mentoring. For context,

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Speaker 2: this is a job that requires a specialized degree and internship.

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Speaker 2: I also have the same degree in job, but I

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Speaker 2: do more freelance work. By the way, this comes from

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Speaker 2: slash Okay storytime subreddits. So when Claire worked with Jay,

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Speaker 2: she was also a supervisor, but just under him, so

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Speaker 2: still kind of kind of senior, but like still under him,

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Speaker 2: assistant to a regional baby. Now, Jay was the head

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Speaker 2: supervisor for the department and Claire was a mid level

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Speaker 2: supervisor along with another person, Sam Forty's male who was

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Speaker 2: also married. So Jay always thought that Claire was a

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Speaker 2: super prodigy and he mentored her a lot. This was fine,

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Speaker 2: nothing weird, because I understand how the industry works. Niche

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Speaker 4: Yeah, mutry, I'm gonna s I'm gonna say that their

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Speaker 4: niche industry is like prop making for the movie industry.

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Speaker 2: Love it, love it. A lot of supervisors in that one. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean sure, it's hands on, hands on, and I

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Speaker 2: know that mentoring young people in the career is normal.

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Speaker 2: When Claire left that job, Jay maintained a friendship and

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Speaker 2: communication with her because she still wanted his guidance and mentorship.

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Speaker 2: I was fully aware of this and knew they would

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Speaker 2: talk about work stuff often. I have also known Claire

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Speaker 2: for the entire time, and we've always been cordial. We

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Speaker 2: spoke friendly enough at work events for their company. I

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Speaker 2: was invited to her wedding and graduation party with Jay.

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Speaker 2: What could go wrong?

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Speaker 3: Okay, she's just getting married. That's all gonna be good.

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Speaker 4: You're in the think of it now. We're not building

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Speaker 4: up to anything bad. No, No, he couldn't be.

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Speaker 2: She has never purposefully excluded me from any events that

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Speaker 2: show her kindness and extend friendship to her, but she's

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Speaker 2: not receptive. We might be going, we might be tipping

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Speaker 3: Hmmm.

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Speaker 2: For example, for her graduation, I have put together an

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Speaker 2: amazing gift for her because we share an interest in

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Speaker 2: but she only wrote a thank you note to Jay

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Speaker 2: for the gift and years of mentorship.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean he did do all that mentoring.

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Speaker 2: You know, where were you all those years out here

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Speaker 2: building your expensive arts and crafts giving her, you know,

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Speaker 2: zero leverage in her in her job positioning, you know,

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Speaker 3: She's gonna sneak in there.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's she's positioning and jockeying on something else.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, on that guy. Oh huh, yeah, well that was

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Speaker 4: Oh she's position she's positioning in jockey position, just not

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Speaker 2: She literally did not even acknowledge me in the note

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Speaker 2: current issue. Claire is getting divorced.

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Speaker 3: She's been married the whole time.

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Speaker 2: For a lot of the time, it seems okay. She

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Speaker 3: That's so embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: Which one of you find looking married fellas is about

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Speaker 4: This the vibe of like, remember remember that problem I

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Speaker 3: He's gone. God, which one of you men want to

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Speaker 2: Now it's a bite to the death. Who's gonna do it? Now?

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Speaker 4: She's positioning and jockeying these two men to battle for her.

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Speaker 3: We stayed positioning and jockey. Let's go now.

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Speaker 2: I knew it could be an innocent text between friends,

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Speaker 2: because I thought it was weird. Claire flipped out. She

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Speaker 4: Okay, but so you can't say both of those things

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Speaker 4: collide with each other ideologically. You're like, well, you're just

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Speaker 4: being controlling and also you're you're shaming me for wanting

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Speaker 3: Well well well those sounds like something you shouldn't do.

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Speaker 2: Right, Katie says Claire's cringe. So am I wrong to

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Speaker 2: think it was inappropriate? And am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: By the way, we're trying to set a little something new.

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Speaker 2: These are short stories so we can have longer periods

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Speaker 3: Oh really? Oh yes, so the.

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Speaker 2: Story is over, but I I want you to talk

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, of course it was the Only time this

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Speaker 4: And even then it's still like, what, like you gotta

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Speaker 4: be friends with me? Yeah, if you're gonna be the

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Speaker 4: like ooh, I'm like the bro ski girl, like I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, I think so like the the not thinking

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Speaker 2: her for the gift was so bad, and and sus

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Speaker 2: and more sus with this thing. But that I'm like,

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Speaker 2: that's really egregious in my mind, Kean, I'm actually curious.

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Speaker 2: I think in a vacuum, I might, I might. I

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Speaker 2: might be disagreeing with you a little bit here, Dakota.

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Speaker 2: I think in a vacuum, if it was a one

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Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, that makes me think because like what

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Speaker 3: Now, if she is.

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Speaker 4: Being tricky right now, she got you, ohically I could look, well,

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Speaker 4: what she hasn't her jest going? She knows and it's

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Speaker 4: because she you know, it's either because it's hard, because

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Speaker 4: so she's already covering her tracks by being like, well,

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Speaker 4: I wasn't just taking your husband out, you went it

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Speaker 4: was my coworkers. I can't help that I work with

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Speaker 4: your husband. Okay, sorry, you're so controlling.

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Speaker 2: Kean, what do you think?

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Speaker 5: Well, first and foremost, to give you an idea, this

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Speaker 4: Because the Dakota went full, she said, I was trying

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Speaker 3: It's funny.

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Speaker 5: It's a weird fine line because she's asking all the

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Speaker 5: playing that game. I mean, she could be like, I'm

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Speaker 5: bound some bruise. I don't know, like the context the

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Speaker 3: I don't know if she doesn't. Yeah, it's weird. It's weird.

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Speaker 4: I went not getting drinks because hey, my coworker just

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Speaker 4: you go, hey, fellows, who's getting my drinks?

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Speaker 6: Huh?

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Speaker 4: Because I split with my husband and not in a

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Speaker 4: just like a yeah, I'm drinking tonight, who's buying?

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Speaker 5: If I were, you know, if my husband was asked

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Speaker 5: I'm like, do some reconnaissance, you know. I guess see

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Speaker 5: how she acts with y'all and like don't you know,

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Speaker 5: like act normal, don't be like oh on the fence,

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Speaker 5: be like see how she is? Is she like flirty with you?

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Speaker 5: Is she touching your arm? Or she like guys, what's up?

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Speaker 5: Like how about them red Sox? Or like I'm sad

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Speaker 5: I'm divorced? Be my bro friends.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Lawyer Princess has a phenomenal comment. And it's if

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Speaker 4: she was a guy's girl, though, she wouldn't have went

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Speaker 3: Yes when they were like no drinks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think her other reactions make this a thousand

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Speaker 2: times works. I was curious of like putting it in

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Speaker 2: a vacuum and like, oh, how does it?

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Speaker 4: But like in a vacuum, it's one thing, do you

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Speaker 3: Her not being friends with the wife yea with op

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Speaker 4: Especially op did all that to make that gift, and

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Speaker 4: she explicitly goes out of the way to not acknowledge Op. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's that's like, all right, it's clear now something is wrong.

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Speaker 2: From that point, even before we get to the drinks

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Speaker 2: not it. And then well, here's an interesting question at

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Speaker 4: My boyfriend told me he was a doctor. I walked

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Speaker 3: Man, how have your order one liver? Yeah, I have

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Speaker 3: your order one liver, cannibal Taco Bell.

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Speaker 4: I met him on an app three months ago. He

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Speaker 4: have a joke there yet, don't know. Everything was going great.

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Speaker 4: Camp four thousand and nine, and if you want to

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Speaker 4: storytime subbreddit. So last night I just happened to walk

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Speaker 3: Oops, my bad.

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Speaker 4: He's moonlight the amount of precision it takes to put

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Speaker 2: Brother, you might as well be a surgeon's.

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Speaker 3: What we call he just he's a doctor that clears

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Speaker 2: Oh that's yeah. I got something for you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, doctor Kat, says doctor of burritos.

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Speaker 2: Why is that funny?

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Speaker 3: We looked at.

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Speaker 4: Each other, and I went up and ordered without addressing him.

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Speaker 4: Then I went home to process what I had seen.

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Speaker 3: Like like, she ordered from him, she.

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Speaker 4: Said, she said, I'll have the number six. Please chi

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Speaker 4: Lupa Supreme. Don't talk to me. He's Chilupa Supreme.

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Speaker 3: Ordering from him is horrible. Oh God.

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Speaker 4: Then I tried calling him today, but he wouldn't answer.

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Speaker 4: How could he lie to me like this? Well, he

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Speaker 4: put it on his bio first of all. Then he

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Speaker 4: prays to God, you don't walk into Taco Bell.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 3: He didn't pray hard enough. Do men do this often?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I'm in absolute shock.

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Speaker 4: Should I just forgive him for lying and move on

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Speaker 4: sure if I would have given him a chance if

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Speaker 3: But I'm in love with him at this point. What

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Speaker 3: so damn?

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Speaker 4: Okay wait a minute, all right, Oh we did we

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Speaker 4: just you would? Okay, So we fully acknowledged that you

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Speaker 4: would have never fallen in love with Taco Bell boy

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Speaker 5: So what she said, Hey, let's look at let's look

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Speaker 5: at the pros and cons here. Yeah, cons not a doctor.

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Speaker 5: Pros you get free Taco Bell. Now you get free

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Speaker 5: Taco Bell from this guy.

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Speaker 3: Also, you're in love.

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Speaker 2: I think that's that's more worth the most. Stuff that's

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Speaker 2: worth more than except two for one. Two for one

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Speaker 2: is worth one of love?

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Speaker 4: True if he's if he's not giving you the two

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Speaker 4: for one Apple and panadas, oh, I don't know if

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Speaker 4: it still got those, but I brought him back. I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna have I'd commit no crime for Apple and oh

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Speaker 4: I would never commit crimes for Apple and panadus.

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Speaker 2: How does we come a Taco bella?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Can we get sponsored?

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Speaker 2: That would be amazing?

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Speaker 4: Hey, Taco Bell in love literally an inseparable duo what

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Speaker 4: do I do once I managed to talk to him again, TLDR.

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Speaker 4: He lied about his job and I don't know if

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Speaker 4: I want to continue the relationship and that the end

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Speaker 3: Well, Jonathan, yes, sir, oh.

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Speaker 4: Johnny boy, what do we have to say about this?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 2: I think I have to say exactly what Kat and

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Speaker 2: Chat said, which is you're in love with a liar.

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Speaker 2: So I think, like, now, is is there possibility for

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Speaker 2: as the sour cream over our snack craps? I think so?

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Speaker 2: But they really have to sit down chance to be like, listen,

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Speaker 2: you you not only lied to me, but you made

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Speaker 2: a that was a big lie about like your whole life,

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Speaker 2: and you were prepared. You did it for three months

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Speaker 2: and you had no intention clearly of like of changing,

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Speaker 2: and so like, tell me now, like, how can you

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Speaker 4: It is a really bad look that he didn't admit

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Speaker 4: it and it just happened organically, much like Taco Bell's

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Speaker 4: products are produced. Give us the sponsorship, Please give us

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Speaker 4: the sponsorship Taco Bell. Yeah, I think there's a lot,

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Speaker 4: it's a lot of interesting facets there because you fell

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Speaker 4: look at the drive through boy when well, now you

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Speaker 4: just didn't know it. So I mean, and of course

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Speaker 4: and that doesn't it's not like a slight on you.

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Speaker 4: It's everyone is allowed to make their choices. But like

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Speaker 4: ended up when maybe you're in law, is it good

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Speaker 3: No? Have we all lied on a job resume? Yeah, like.

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Speaker 4: This is what I wouldn't have to lie about all

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Speaker 2: Also, wasn't any application. It was literally just like we

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Speaker 4: Well, when I got the job for the snowboard instructing,

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Speaker 3: I started snowboarding when I was thirteen. I was twenty

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Speaker 3: That's why they asked me.

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Speaker 2: That's the question.

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Speaker 3: That's a lie. You'll get caught in every time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so this guy knew that he couldn't keep this up.

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Speaker 4: So I think the whole point is is you could.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna walk away. You would be right to do that.

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Speaker 4: But I think if you're really in love with this guy,

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Speaker 4: You did admit you're like, oh if he did, if

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Speaker 4: The job he was playing a trick on, well, you

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Speaker 3: But like, I don't know if he can.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's the two sides of the coin.

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Speaker 4: Of course, the guy who got there by lying is

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Speaker 3: The guy who lied, the guy who lied is wrong.

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Speaker 4: But it does bring up like an interesting thing where

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Speaker 2: You see, or your your crispy fried turty exterior. What

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Speaker 4: the memes where it's like you go through.

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Speaker 3: The McDonald's drive through and then you're just like my

439
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Speaker 3: wife I found it.

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Speaker 4: She's like they're at the drive through window and it's

441
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Speaker 4: like we're not thinking about like, oh, it's like she, well,

442
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Speaker 4: she's working at McDonald's. She doesn't make any money. I

443
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Speaker 4: want to We're just like that's my wife I saw her.

444
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Speaker 2: John is a.

445
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Speaker 3: No no, but I know exactly what he knows what

446
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Speaker 3: I'm talking about. I wonder if anyone in chatt knows

447
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Speaker 3: what I'm talking about.

448
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Speaker 4: But it's like, you know, I'm sure there's girls who

449
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Speaker 4: are like that too, but I feel like there's that's

450
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Speaker 4: kind of like a big difference. Yeah, man, I don't

451
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Speaker 4: want anyone to come out of this being like he's

452
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Speaker 4: like defending the.

453
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Speaker 3: Guy who lied about being a doctor.

454
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Speaker 2: It does sound like I'm doing that, but yeah, I

455
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Speaker 2: think to to sum it all up, it's like he

456
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Speaker 2: did lie, so's he did the big oopsie here. But

457
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Speaker 2: there's a chance if they are both in love, if

458
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Speaker 2: he's a could actually like be truthful and redeem himself,

459
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Speaker 2: and maybe she can both build the trust from lie

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Speaker 2: and maybe also look past his U taco bellery.

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Speaker 4: It's just such a strange position to be like, yeah,

462
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Speaker 4: well I lied to you because I knew you wouldn't

463
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Speaker 4: have given me a chance if I didn't lie to you.

464
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Speaker 4: And she's like, you're right, but now I'm in love

465
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Speaker 4: with you, So I'm glad I gave you a chance,

466
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Speaker 4: but I'm mad that you lied to me about it.

467
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Speaker 3: But you had to lie to me about it for

468
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Speaker 3: us to even fall in love, because I never would

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Speaker 3: have given you a chance.

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Speaker 2: And it like goes.

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Speaker 4: So at the end of the day, if you guys

472
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Speaker 4: are really just both in love with each other, I say,

473
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Speaker 4: who cares?

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Speaker 3: It's funny. Now, Okay, that's it.

475
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Speaker 4: If it's real love, let it be funny, because it

476
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Speaker 4: can be right.

477
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Speaker 3: But only if it's that real love.

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Speaker 2: That's that's that's it for that story. But ladies and gentlemen,

479
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Speaker 2: we've got uh, we've got a few more for you here.

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Speaker 3: Is that enough talking? Or too much? That's slightly too much?

481
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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I'm sorry, I'm I'm I'm all over the place.

482
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Speaker 3: I dumb my fiance because he demanded we have a baby,

483
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Speaker 3: give me the baby.

484
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Speaker 2: My fiance, thirty one male, and I, twenty five female,

485
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Speaker 2: have been together for two years and engaged for six months.

486
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Speaker 2: We've both wanted kids at some point, but never set

487
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Speaker 2: a specific timeline. Lately, he's been making comments about how

488
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Speaker 2: I'll give him a baby once we're married. The first

489
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Speaker 2: time I let it go, but when he said it

490
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Speaker 2: another time, I joked back, Uh, so that's my job now,

491
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Speaker 2: think babies that's it.

492
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Speaker 3: And he just said, yeah, you're the one making it.

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Speaker 4: She's like, I don't remember joining the union. I don't

494
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Speaker 4: remember joining the babymakers union.

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Speaker 2: I'm a hard working union man. Me and Jimmy haff

496
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Speaker 2: a truck in These baby's.

497
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Speaker 4: In for miles if the storks were unionized.

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Speaker 3: This is a post made by a bird.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, okay, Oh I knew I had thought too,

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Speaker 2: would like that one. By the way, this comes from deleted.

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Speaker 2: If you want to submit your own stories, go to

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Speaker 2: the r.

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Speaker 3: Slash Okay storytime, So how about it?

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Speaker 2: So? I told him I thought the way he was

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Speaker 2: wording it was rubbing me the wrong way and not

506
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Speaker 2: the way that makes babies. And he rolled his eyes

507
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Speaker 2: and said I was overthinking it. But he said it

508
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Speaker 2: like a couple more times later, SO kept saying that

509
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Speaker 2: you're gonna be giving me the path took the bear.

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Speaker 2: He knew what he was doing.

511
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Speaker 3: Why would you do that?

512
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Speaker 2: I started to feel less excited about starting a family.

513
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Speaker 2: I told him straight up that was making me uncomfortable.

514
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Speaker 2: After he said it like that again, later he laughed

515
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Speaker 2: and said, it's not that deep.

516
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Speaker 3: That's just how it works. Just how it works, baby,

517
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Speaker 3: No stop it stop, why are you doing this? Stop?

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Speaker 2: And in that moment, I was starting to feel done,

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Speaker 2: so I called off the engagements. Dang not getting married

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Speaker 2: no more? He said, I was being ridiculous over a

521
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Speaker 2: poor choice of words. Quote unquote. His family got involved

522
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Speaker 2: and is telling me I misunderstood him that he just

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Speaker 2: meant to say he was excited to start a family

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Speaker 2: with me.

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Speaker 3: No no, no, no no no no. He had vibes.

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Speaker 3: That's what they're not picking up. He had vibes.

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Speaker 4: Es.

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Speaker 3: It came with vibes that sentence.

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Speaker 2: Yes. So I'm wondering if I overreacted and am I

530
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Speaker 2: the a hole?

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Speaker 3: Let's discuss. So I'm sorry, what was that? Nice will say,

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Speaker 3: look at your chops on you.

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Speaker 4: I will say, if you had no further discussion about

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Speaker 4: this and then just called off your engagement, might have

535
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Speaker 4: been rushing it, but like you will always know better

536
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Speaker 4: than us.

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Speaker 3: However, that's nook where we're here for. We're here to

538
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Speaker 3: give advice.

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Speaker 4: I think the whole point was that it's like him

540
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Speaker 4: being like, it's you're treating you like the baby making unit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, baby making unit.

542
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Speaker 4: So the baby is your thing and it'll always be

543
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Speaker 4: your thing and when we have one or we have two,

544
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Speaker 4: you'll be taking care of them till they're eighteen.

545
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and forever. And what am I gonna do? I'm not.

546
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Speaker 3: It's not my job.

547
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Speaker 4: God didn't give me the baby making part, so it's

548
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Speaker 4: not naturally it's your.

549
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Speaker 3: Job to take care of the kids forever. You're preordained,

550
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Speaker 3: and I have no all. I can't. I can't.

551
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Speaker 2: It's like the dishes, like, oh right, exactly.

552
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 3: So bad, and doing the dishes, you go.

553
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Speaker 4: So just briefly he opened that window and said, hey,

554
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Speaker 4: look at what the future's gonna look like. Baby making machine. Yes,

555
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Speaker 4: that's what I'm looking at. You as not my wife.

556
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Speaker 4: It's not a we're making children together, it's you're making

557
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Speaker 4: the baby. It's your responsibility to take care of it. Crazy,

558
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 4: get out of there, maybe yeah, but also definitely be like, hey,

559
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Speaker 4: it feels like you're just going to completely leave our

560
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Speaker 4: child up to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not doing that, right, yeah? Right, but yeah,

562
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Speaker 3: I don't know.

563
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Speaker 4: Maybe Op just picked up on such a critically acute vibe. Yeah,

564
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,160
Speaker 4: he's like, oh my god, I just saw the future

565
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 4: and I'm leaving not letting that happen.

566
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Speaker 2: That seems like exactly what he's saying with that like

567
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 2: one line. Yeah, and I will say to your earlier

568
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 2: point too. She definitely told him multiple times like hey,

569
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 2: stop saying that, but doing it, and he kept doing it.

570
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 2: She didn't like and just based off the context we

571
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Speaker 2: have here, maybe she did explain it, but like if

572
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Speaker 2: she had said, I think exactly what you said of like, hey,

573
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Speaker 2: it sounds like I'm gonna be like basically alone and

574
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 2: raising this baby. It seems like you view me as

575
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Speaker 2: literally just a machine to pump out fetuses. And that's

576
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 2: like kind of all I am. Like, that's what it

577
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 2: makes me feel like, especially when I tell you to

578
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 2: like stop saying that and you continue over and over

579
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: and over to keep saying it. Like then it really

580
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 2: it goes from like oh it's kind of weird to

581
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 2: now actually really feel.

582
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 3: Like that you're only doing that for one reason too.

583
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Speaker 4: It's not like you're like, oh I forgot, It's like

584
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Speaker 4: you're trying to wear it down. Yeah, like all right,

585
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,199
Speaker 4: she said, she like didn't react, well the first time,

586
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:10,880
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say it again. I'm gonna say it again

587
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Speaker 4: until she gets conditioned to her new normal.

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00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think like again could could it have

589
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Speaker 2: been helpful to explain to kind of get you know,

590
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Speaker 2: there is maybe a world where he just didn't truly

591
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Speaker 2: get it, and he was it was giving dumb boy

592
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,719
Speaker 2: energy and it's like, okay, let me just sit down

593
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 2: and explain it to you. But I feel like most

594
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 2: likely was the case he knew what he was doing,

595
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 2: he kept pressing it, and now he actually gets to

596
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: face the repercussions of looking at a woman as a

597
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Speaker 2: fetus factory.

598
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Speaker 4: Right, but yeah, as a birthing unit, birthing unit. Yeah,

599
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 4: and you get what you get what you get. He

600
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Speaker 4: had the opportunity, she told them both both times. Yeah,

601
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Speaker 4: And you know, look if you if you really pick

602
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 4: it up and you're like, dang, this is just not

603
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 4: gonna work anymore, and you know that, then you know that.

604
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 4: But you know, there's I would think some reason you

605
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 4: had gotten engaged, toy, But if this was just a

606
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 4: moment they made you realize, oh my god, all those

607
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 4: reasons are meaningless and I don't want to do this,

608
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 4: then you know what?

609
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 2: Good for you?

610
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 3: Good for you, babe?

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00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 2: There it is there. It is Ladies and gentlemen. I

612
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 2: think so, I think so?

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Speaker 4: Am I the a hole for leaving during my wife's labor.

614
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 4: Probably gotta agree. My wife went into labor around six

615
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Speaker 4: pm on Sunday. We were expecting twins. It quickly turns

616
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Speaker 4: into a very painful process. She kept cutting off the

617
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Speaker 4: blood pressure to my hand when she squeezed, and nearly

618
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Speaker 4: sprayed my shirt with vomit. Oh, you poor things. Around

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Speaker 4: three am, my dad calls. I worked for my dad's

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Speaker 4: company and we had a presentation for clients Monday morning

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Speaker 4: that I had to get ready for. By the way,

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Speaker 4: this comes from user APCSS and if you want to

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Speaker 4: submit your own stories, go to the r slash Okay

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Speaker 4: storytime sub bred it.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 4: My dad heard my wife was in labor, but told

627
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Speaker 4: me he needed me on this presentation. He said there

628
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Speaker 4: was nothing I could do to help my wife and

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Speaker 4: delivery and seeing the baby come out was overrated and

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Speaker 4: people don't.

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Speaker 3: Prepare you for the gore. He said.

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Speaker 4: He needed me to rest up and make myself presentable

633
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Speaker 4: for the presentation. No what literally doing anything but laughing

634
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Speaker 4: at your dad and telling him to go f himself

635
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Speaker 4: is the wrong move.

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Speaker 6: Oh you're going to see the movie. Oh it's overrated,

637
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Speaker 6: don't go. I wouldn't even go, yeah, should come home.

638
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Speaker 6: Just imagine applying that to anything else. Someone's like, yeah,

639
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Speaker 6: I'm gonna go do this thing. I'm really excited for

640
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 6: this thing. Oh yeah, it's overrated.

641
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 4: And then you're applying it to the birth of your

642
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Speaker 4: son's child. You're just completely lifeless. Huskin side.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy. Also, chat keon, we can look it up

644
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Speaker 2: real quick. I am almost popping. Maybe it was on

645
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Speaker 2: another show, but not this show. Y'all have heard this one,

646
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Speaker 2: but not here. We're gonna check the data.

647
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Speaker 4: Bait.

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Speaker 3: Don't do these. This is eighteen. There's no way. No,

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Speaker 3: we don't need stories. This is short, short story. We've

650
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Speaker 3: not read this. If you have heard this, you heard

651
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Speaker 3: it somewhere else.

652
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Speaker 2: We're gonna keep going.

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Speaker 4: Yes, my wife's labor was progressing very slowly, and we

654
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Speaker 4: were all certain she would need forceps or other assistants

655
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Speaker 4: to deliver the babies. I realized that I couldn't help

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Speaker 4: her here and my dad was counting on me, so

657
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 4: I told her I needed to leave. She started screaming

658
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 4: at me so loudly that a few nurses rushed over

659
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 4: to our room. I ended up doing the presentation with

660
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 4: the clients and things went well, I leave the office

661
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 4: and see a text on my phone that my wife

662
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 4: delivered an hour ago at around ten thirty am and

663
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 4: they had to use fourceeps. I would have missed the

664
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 4: meeting had I stayed. And my dad has given me

665
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 4: everything he could possibly give me in life, except for

666
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 4: your child that your wife.

667
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 3: Just gave birth to alone. Come on, did you child?

668
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 3: Did your dad give you that? Kids?

669
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 4: Uh?

670
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 3: You buffoon? So I didn't want to let him down.

671
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: Am I the a hole?

672
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 4: I had responsibilities I had to take care of And

673
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 4: while my wife is still screaming at me, saying that

674
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 4: she was alone when they destroyed her body in air

675
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 4: quotes there which, by the way, buddy, not really in

676
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 4: air quotes.

677
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 3: I'm the only one who.

678
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 4: Works, and her mom herself said that she was emotional

679
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 4: and overreacting. My wife even went as far as to

680
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 4: say that her family would disown her if she was

681
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 4: the first of them to divorce, but that she doesn't

682
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 4: consider me her husband right now.

683
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, buddy, could you abandon her when she was giving

684
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 3: birth to your child?

685
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 2: Uh? Huh oh hmm.

686
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,719
Speaker 4: By the way, being like, I'm the only one who works, bro,

687
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 4: you work for your dad? Is your dad gonna fire

688
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 4: you for taking the day off for your child being born.

689
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 3: Exactly, dude.

690
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 2: So oh, like.

691
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,960
Speaker 3: Marry your dad, Dude, go marry your dad.

692
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 2: Ohg go marry your dad, and then you can both

693
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 2: guess what, you both won't have a baby.

694
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 3: It's not gonna happen. I'm unlessly. Yeah, you guys can

695
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 3: be uh what is that dinks? You could be dual income,

696
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 3: no kids.

697
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 4: Oh yeah yeah, you guys can just make that business

698
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 4: your baby, right, guys have a little business baby together,

699
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 4: and then that's it.

700
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah right.

701
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 3: Also the fact that he was like, oh, like her family, I.

702
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 2: Mean, there's so many layers here, but like, uh oh,

703
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 2: her family said they'd just own her.

704
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 3: She was the force of divorce, the first to divorce.

705
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 2: It's like, one, how could you not be like, yo,

706
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 2: your family is insane and that's a horrible way to

707
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 2: treat you, right. But two it's like he's clearly saying

708
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: that and as a means of like, oh, I've got

709
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 2: like I've got leverage over her, like I get to

710
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 2: you know, I can do whatever I want and she's

711
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 2: not going to divorce me.

712
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 4: It's like it's truly just like a how could anyone

713
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 4: not innately know that they were wrong in this situation? Yeah,

714
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 4: how could anyone not just know? With the five senses

715
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 4: that they have to smell, sight, sound, touch, and taste,

716
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 4: none of those added up to Oh my god, I'm wrong,

717
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 4: none of it. I hear my wife screaming at me.

718
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 4: I feel her grabbing my hands so hard that the

719
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 4: circulations being cut off off because she's pushing a baby out.

720
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 3: Of her true babies too.

721
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're like, but I got a PowerPoint presentation

722
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 4: in the morning.

723
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 3: My daddy needs me.

724
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 4: I really need you on this, which is really just

725
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 4: like he probably wanted to watch like some reruns.

726
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 2: He says, my dad needs me when he really needs

727
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 2: to be a dad.

728
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 4: It's being witnessing the birth of the child you and

729
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 4: your wife conceived together, overrated, watching the thing that you

730
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 4: made together be pushed out into the world for the

731
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 4: first time literally meaningless.

732
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 3: I can value I can.

733
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 2: I can hold my child like a million times when

734
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 2: they're out, you know, and they're like less sticky or whatever.

735
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 4: How much money are you gonna make watching your kid

736
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 4: get born? Yes, you could come make a bunch of

737
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 4: money with me instead of hanging out with that broke baby.

738
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 3: I'm just naming my child Roy because I'm looking for

739
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,720
Speaker 3: the ROI. Yeah, I can't.

740
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 4: I hate being in hospitals because every baby that's born

741
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 4: is inherently poor and has no assets, and thus it

742
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 4: is useless, and I hate them. That's Opie's dad, and

743
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 4: he's like, I should listen to that one. That's who

744
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 4: I should be listening to. I can't help you, brother.

745
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 4: You need to go to Jupiter to get more stupider

746
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 4: with all the rest of those boys, because that's you'd

747
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 4: be their king.

748
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 2: That's right.

749
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 3: Wow, you would have to really be bringing in the

750
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 3: bacon from that presentation.

751
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 4: Whatever you that presentation have to give us us a

752
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 4: mega yacht and a bicoastal mansions, private jet and eight

753
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 4: hundred million dollars cash.

754
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 3: That's the end of that story.

755
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 4: Man, Oh my god, I wish I hurting from smiling that.

756
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 2: Hey's Sam. We're going to get back to the stories.

757
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,400
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758
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Speaker 2: My best friend just kissed my husband. So I twenty

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00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 2: eight female, have been with my husband twenty seven male

760
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 2: for six years and married for four years. And we

761
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 2: have two kids, three female and almost one female. Everything

762
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 2: in our relationship is perfect for us. He's the best

763
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 2: husband and father to our kids that I could have

764
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 2: asked for. I am absolutely in love with him, and

765
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 2: his actions and words have always shown me that he

766
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 2: feels the same way. There's no better feeling than going

767
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 2: to sleep in his arms every night. By the way,

768
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Speaker 2: r slash Okay story Times to about it. It's all

771
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 2: gonna be peachy peache keen Okay. So last weekend, my

772
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 2: husband and I had some friends over and we were

773
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 2: having a barbecue. We were all outside in the backyard,

774
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 2: surrounding my husband, who was on the grill. As the

775
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,399
Speaker 2: food got closer to being ready to eat, we all

776
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 2: started sitting at our backyard table. Once the food was

777
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 2: already and at the table, my husban went inside to

778
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,840
Speaker 2: use the washroom and get another case of adult soda.

779
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 2: I didn't realize that my friend twenty eighth female had followed.

780
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 2: When he was coming back out, my best friend hid

781
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 2: behind the wall separating our kitchen and living room and

782
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 2: surprised him by forcing a kiss.

783
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 3: Ah, I'm gonna surprise you by committing a felony.

784
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 4: Ah, surprise, surprise, surprise.

785
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 3: If the roles were reversed, I'd be in jail immediately.

786
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 2: Surprise, prise, surprise.

787
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 4: You're doing the same thing as that guy. Yep, it's true,

788
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 4: and he's married.

789
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 3: Like just he's getting surprised.

790
00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 2: My husband immediately pushed her back and yelled what the

791
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 2: f She immediately started crying and ran out of the

792
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 2: house and left. My husband came into the backyard and

793
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 2: asked to speak to me privately and immediately told me

794
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 2: what had just happened. I was shocked and told him

795
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,439
Speaker 2: that it would be okay and that we could talk

796
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 2: after every one else left. I managed to put on

797
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 2: the appearances for the next couple of hours, but I

798
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 2: was mentally distrothed. After everyone left, my husband sat me

799
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 2: down and told me what happened and showed me the

800
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 2: footage from our living room camera. Even have freaking video

801
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 2: evidence receipts.

802
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:20,879
Speaker 7: Uh oh, you got recorded being felonious in four K

803
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 7: It is a felony, right, I wonder if that's I

804
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 7: don't know, I don't know the legal definements we're going

805
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,360
Speaker 7: with it, but yeah.

806
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 3: Whatever you did, it was sa Z.

807
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 2: It was exactly as my husband has had described it.

808
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 2: My best friend of ten years, the person who I

809
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 2: treated as my literal sister, forcibly kissed my husband after

810
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 2: the third date with my husband. She was the one

811
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 2: I told that I was going to marry him. She

812
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 2: knows how much I love him and how strong our

813
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,959
Speaker 2: relationship is, and still she chose to try to come

814
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:52,560
Speaker 2: in the middle.

815
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 3: Oh, there's a joke there, there is there. Well, we

816
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 3: all know what the joke. We all know what the

817
00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 3: joke is.

818
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 2: We don't have to say it.

819
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:00,720
Speaker 3: We can just all make the joke ourselves.

820
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 2: That's right there, You go, good one. So, for f's sake,

821
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: our three year old calls are auntie, auntie, Mommy coming soon.

822
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 2: My best friend tried showing up the next day just

823
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 2: to talk, and my husband had to hold me back

824
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 2: from beating the crap out of her, and he punted

825
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,839
Speaker 2: her out and told her not to come back. It's

826
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,959
Speaker 2: been almost a week now and I'm no work close

827
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 2: to moving on. I don't blame my husband one bit.

828
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 2: He's completely innocent in this, and if anything, he's the victim.

829
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 3: He is.

830
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 2: I've been laying down on my husband's chest and just

831
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 2: crying every day and night. I'm so angry and frustrated

832
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,320
Speaker 2: and don't know what to do. My husband has been amazing,

833
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 2: and like always, he just gets it and understands how

834
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 2: I'm feeling. He brought me flowers almost every day and

835
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 2: cooks me my favorite meals multiple times in the last

836
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: few days. I love and appreciate him all the more

837
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:53,920
Speaker 2: for it. I just don't know how I'm going to

838
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: move on and trust any of my friends again after this.

839
00:39:58,080 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 3: It's gonna be hard.

840
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 4: You've been friends with someone for ten years and they

841
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:02,360
Speaker 4: they do something like that.

842
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 2: And they know all the context of of everything that

843
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 2: happened in your like your kids, like how how their

844
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 2: stories It wasn't like oh they were again even if

845
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 2: it was like on the rocks or whatever, still insanely

846
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 2: agregious and crazy, out of line and essay, but like

847
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 2: like she knows how Opie feels about this man, the

848
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 2: father of her children.

849
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:31,240
Speaker 3: If I ever come down from like well, oh who

850
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 3: do you think you are? How do you think you are?

851
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 2: You know, like a science experiment, like what what goes

852
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 2: through your brain? Yeah, asked you to do that.

853
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 4: It's like where were you at that made you think

854
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 4: that was the move, you know, like just from a

855
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 4: purely curious place because like, I don't think I'm ever

856
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 4: chill with this person again.

857
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like if it ever is, it's like after

858
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 3: a long time and like we're just so much to.

859
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 2: Be and I kind of understand it where it's kind

860
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 2: of like yeah, wrestling mama and Chat says the friendship

861
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: is over. I'm like, you've had children with the person.

862
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 2: I can see that, but I mean, I guess a

863
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,759
Speaker 2: friend for ten years. But it's just it's just so

864
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 2: it's just so crazy. It just doesn't make any sense.

865
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 4: Feel like would you I would hunt, I would hunt

866
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 4: for the info like the Red October. I also feel

867
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 4: I want to say that Eleana Bans is bringing up

868
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 4: a really good point about like disparity and like reported

869
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 4: essays and stuff between like men and women, and I

870
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 4: said that if the roles were reversed, you'd be going

871
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 4: to jail. That is a very good point that like

872
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 4: a lot are not reported and a lot of times

873
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 4: action is not taken.

874
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 3: I was speaking more on just the principle of.

875
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 4: Like and it's illegal, equally illegal, Yeah, equally illegal. Although

876
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 4: that is very important and also sombering information that a

877
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 4: lot of it, you know, essay does not get reported.

878
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 3: It is not prosecuted to the extents of the law.

879
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 4: Look, I think at this point what you can take

880
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 4: away is that, yeah, your best friend of ten years

881
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 4: did this to you, and it's like all messed up

882
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 4: hunt for that information. But like the big thing is like,

883
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 4: don't let that like poison like all of your friends forever. Yes,

884
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 4: that's I think that's a great It's probably you're in

885
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 4: an acute place of like, I'm so nervous because I

886
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 4: never expected that my best friend of ten years could

887
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 4: do this, So who's to say my friend of three

888
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 4: years won't do it?

889
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah. But it's like, hopefully you.

890
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 4: Can get through that, and if you can't, if that's

891
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 4: a thought that is like constantly holding you back. Yeah,

892
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 4: definitely get help to work through that. Definitely, because you

893
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 4: don't lose all your friendship. Oh, you don't want to

894
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 4: lose all your friends. Of course, nobody wants that. I

895
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:37,919
Speaker 4: mean there's probably at least one person, but like person, Yeah,

896
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 4: it's pure numbers, but like people don't want that.

897
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 3: The ninety nine point of us, it's like, hey, we

898
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 3: want friends.

899
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 2: And you know what, Also, I think her husband too

900
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 2: seems like a very supporting person who could hopefully help

901
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 2: her through that process as well as like a therapist

902
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 2: or like seache w husband, there you.

903
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:58,520
Speaker 3: W husband, the husband man husband. Let me just say,

904
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 3: thoughts are just thoughts, and that's okay. Everyone has thoughts.

905
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 4: Sometimes you're gonna have thoughts you don't like and that

906
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 4: maybe you don't even agree with. If those thoughts are

907
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 4: having an impact on your ability to live life, that's

908
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 4: when we need to get real like help with them,

909
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 4: because if you can't work through them and they're starting

910
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 4: to impact your day to day, that's when it's I

911
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:22,919
Speaker 4: need professional help.

912
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 3: I need somebody to get me on the other side

913
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 3: of this. Just a thought.

914
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 2: I completely agree the game. That's right, Liz.

915
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 3: And then I think that's when I stopped talking.

916
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 2: There that's the end of that story.

917
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: But we got I think at least one more. Hey,

918
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: it's Sam. We get back to the stories. But here's

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00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,440
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Speaker 4: Would you and your marriage over something that happened years ago?

921
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 4: Maybe it really depends on the thing depends trigger warning,

922
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 4: because I know what's in this story because I read

923
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 4: it downstairs with Eddie. This story does talk about loss

924
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 4: of pregnancy, so if you can't hear that, I would

925
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,959
Speaker 4: not listen to this story.

926
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 3: I've been thinking about this since Sunday night.

927
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,320
Speaker 4: I need some perspective and I know it's ancient history,

928
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 4: but I feel so hurt. Seven years ago, when I

929
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 4: was twenty one, I was dating my now husband, Paul

930
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 4: thirty one at the time, for over a year. We

931
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 4: got a ten year age gap. I was a university

932
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 4: student and working too. Paul got a great job opportunity

933
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 4: within his company, but in Canada. He wanted me to

934
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 4: leave with him, but I wanted to finish my studies first.

935
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 4: And by the way, this comes from a deleted user

936
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 4: and if you want to submit your own stories, go

937
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 4: to the r slash Okay storytime subburn it. So we

938
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 4: started dating long distance, but it was really hard. He

939
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 4: was spoiling me rotten every time he would visit me.

940
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 4: One time he booked a resort for a ski trip,

941
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 4: I realized that I forgot to pack my birth control pills.

942
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,919
Speaker 4: I told Paul and he said, it's not a big deal,

943
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 4: and he went and bought some Wiener wrappers We had

944
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 4: a great vacation. We drank a lot, so it's a

945
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 4: bit of a blur. But I found out I got pregnant.

946
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 4: I was feeling like an idiot because I should have

947
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:06,240
Speaker 4: been more careful and packed my birth control pill. Paul, however,

948
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 4: was so kind and said he would support me and

949
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 4: would be there for me and the baby.

950
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 3: Okay, oh, gay, we like that.

951
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:17,760
Speaker 2: We like fathers fathering babies.

952
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 3: Poit. Oh oh, the story's not over. Ok okay oh.

953
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 4: I dropped out of school with only one year to graduate.

954
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 4: We had a courthouse wedding and I moved to Canada

955
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 4: with him. He was wonderful with the baby. He's a

956
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 4: great husband and helps around so much. We decided to

957
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 4: have another baby trigger warning when my first born was three,

958
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 4: but unfortunately it ended up being stillborn. I couldn't carry

959
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 4: a baby after that. We had tried many times but

960
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 4: it never worked. And I have gone back to school

961
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 4: now in a different field, and I'm doing fine. Last weekend,

962
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 4: my husband and I were cuddling on the couch and

963
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,439
Speaker 4: watching Netflix. I was telling him how happy I am

964
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 4: that we live in Canada now. We were talking about

965
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 4: us politics, Hugh. He said, yeah, agreed. He then accidentally said, quote,

966
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 4: getting you pregnant was the smartest thing I've ever done.

967
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 4: And I said, well, technically I was the careless one

968
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 4: who forgot to pack my birth control pills and he said, well,

969
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 4: technically no, I threw them away and made you think

970
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 4: that I never used Wiener wrappers either, and you were

971
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 4: two wasted to care I was floored.

972
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, no.

973
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 4: No, who would do this. I don't even mean like

974
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 4: lying in the first place. I mean, like, yeah, getting

975
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 4: you pregnant was the best thing I ever did. And

976
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,880
Speaker 4: then it was like, oh, well, well technically it was

977
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 4: me and he didn't go, oh my god, yeah, you're right.

978
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 4: I should not have said that like that, because the

979
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 4: truth could have been revealed. He went, no, actually, no,

980
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 4: funny story. I lied about the whole thing, which is.

981
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 2: Like, it's like, uh, pick, what's the fact that he

982
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 2: doesn't realize how insane and wrong that is? Or why no,

983
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,840
Speaker 2: that's worse than anything If he doesn't even know how

984
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 2: messed up that was, Oh my god, what is he capable? Though?

985
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 3: Yep?

986
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 4: He said he wanted me to move and have a

987
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 4: happy life. There was no future for me in a

988
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 4: small city where I used to live. You now have

989
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 4: a house, a husband, a perfect kid, and and oh

990
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 4: oh god, yeah, okay, god, we had to fix that.

991
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:43,799
Speaker 4: You now have a house, husband, a perfect kid, and studies.

992
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 4: I'm so disgusted by him, he tried to explain, but

993
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 4: I'm not ready to talk to him.

994
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 3: My sister thinks, Wow, what he did was wrong and stupid.

995
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 3: It all worked out. She thinks it's stupid breaking a

996
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 3: family over a dumb thing he did years ago. Move

997
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 3: on and focus on the future.

998
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 4: I'm so full of rage and can't get over it.

999
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:06,839
Speaker 4: Is there a way to move on from this?

1000
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 3: Well? With that being said, m M, you know nothing.

1001
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 3: Tell me what are we doing here?

1002
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:18,439
Speaker 2: We're taking these things here, see these guys right here, right,

1003
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 2: we're taking We're going and we're running away as fast

1004
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,839
Speaker 2: as we can, as far as we can.

1005
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:26,760
Speaker 3: And that's exactly what's happened.

1006
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,879
Speaker 4: That's it crazy to think that if he had never

1007
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 4: said that, there's a shot that they just live like

1008
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,800
Speaker 4: a fleet, like fulfilled, beautiful.

1009
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,359
Speaker 2: And go to the grave and then that's it.

1010
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 3: So is the lesson of this story that there are

1011
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 3: things you should take to the grave. No, let me finished.

1012
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,400
Speaker 3: I was halfway or is the lesson of the story?

1013
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 3: Never say lies. You should have to take to the grave.

1014
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 3: That's where I was going. I was going, you had

1015
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:55,880
Speaker 3: to let me cook.

1016
00:48:56,160 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 2: Well, never never do the things that right, Okay.

1017
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,400
Speaker 4: It was that you shouldn't take things to the graves.

1018
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:09,279
Speaker 4: You should never have things you need to take to

1019
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 4: the grave.

1020
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 3: That's crazy that he thinks he's like a hero. Yeah,

1021
00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 3: he was like, I saved you what least for us?

1022
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 3: For you.

1023
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 4: This is one of those times where people, you know,

1024
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:25,799
Speaker 4: you've heard like the phrase my life is a lie, but.

1025
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 3: This time it's real because your life was a lie.

1026
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 2: You think back on everything and you're like, I never

1027
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 2: would have had the kid, I never would have moved

1028
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 2: like everything, all those choices that you feel you were like, okay,

1029
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 2: I'm you know, she's like, oh, I'm gonna, you know,

1030
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 2: have this baby. I'm gonna like move with this guy.

1031
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: We're gonna we're gonna take everything to the next level. No,

1032
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:48,720
Speaker 2: all of that, all of those decisions were from something

1033
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 2: that was manipulated from him. Manipulated. That's like the kindest

1034
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 2: possible word. There's many other way yeah, way, worse way, way, way, way, way, way,

1035
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 2: worst w because it's socio.

1036
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,319
Speaker 3: After being up at the top.

1037
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 4: Literally, I don't think you cannot be somewhat pathic if

1038
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 4: you can lie to and then keep the line. Yes

1039
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 4: for years you kept it. You moved her to this

1040
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 4: and it's all, oh, because I'm daving her that again

1041
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 4: is like just a fundamentally, I'm now afraid of you.

1042
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 4: If you don't think that was messed up. You're scaring me. Yes,

1043
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 4: And I don't want to be around you because you

1044
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 4: might show up with a lamp and I'm like.

1045
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:31,720
Speaker 3: Where'd you get the lamp?

1046
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 4: And you're like, the neighbors Huh. You're like, the neighbors

1047
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 4: owned that lamp. You're like, no, the neighbors didn't own

1048
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 4: this lamp. Where'd you get the lamp?

1049
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 3: The neighbors are we putting the dots together. We're not

1050
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 3: getting it. No one has seen silence of the lambs

1051
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 3: in this room.

1052
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 4: The lamp is made of people. Oh he got the

1053
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 4: lamp from the neighbors.

1054
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 2: I don't like that lamp.

1055
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 3: Okay, well yeah, but if.

1056
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 4: You can pull this, I'm afraid that you're capable of

1057
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:02,280
Speaker 4: something insane like that, because you already did something insane.

1058
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,760
Speaker 4: Well it was it was a fun, low key reference

1059
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 4: until no one in the room understood it, and then

1060
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:08,239
Speaker 4: I had to say it out loud yeat.

1061
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 3: Do we get it?

1062
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 4: Chat definitely got it because I know my babies have

1063
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 4: seen silence.

1064
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:13,959
Speaker 3: Of the lamp.

1065
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 2: The babies.

1066
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 4: Oh maybe let's not put this people lamps in the

1067
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 4: final cut. Okay, I don't know if people lamps will

1068
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,959
Speaker 4: make it. I thought it was funny. The point being

1069
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 4: run away from this dude. Yes, you can full blown

1070
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 4: run away from this guy. Don't listen to anybody.

1071
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 3: Telling you, Oh, it's not a big deal. It worked

1072
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:32,319
Speaker 3: out in the end.

1073
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 2: Kat, your sister saying that is wild, that's absurd. I

1074
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 2: wouldn't trust you, like I don't look out for me,

1075
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 2: like my best interest, like you're it's uh, no good,

1076
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 2: no good. Dug and Dug.

1077
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,720
Speaker 4: I wish they need to invent like a new kind

1078
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 4: of criminal prosecution avenue. But like this whatever you call this, Yes,

1079
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 4: like there's a bunch of stuff that happened, but like whatever,

1080
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 4: you put it all in like one jar and you

1081
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:01,399
Speaker 4: label that jar that's the jar we need to send

1082
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 4: to prison.

1083
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 3: There we go, put him in the jar. Put him

1084
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:04,759
Speaker 3: in the jar.

1085
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 2: But ladies and gentlemen, that's all we got today, so

1086
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,520
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