1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. Katie is on the phone 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been married to 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 2: her husband for eight years. His name is Seth, but 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 2: now she thinks that something might be going on, so 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Katie, sorry 7 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,479 Speaker 2: you're going through this, but why of yourselves was going on? 8 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: Why do you think your husband is cheating? 9 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if he's cheating or not. It's just 10 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 1: this weird. 11 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 3: We have a very good marriage, and we have I mean, 12 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 3: I guess we've had a handful of rough spots, but 13 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 3: I mean over the course of eight Like, well, we 14 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 3: were together for eleven years, so a couple of years 15 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: before we got married. 16 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 4: And so there's going to be some rough spots. But 17 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, we we still went out. You know, 18 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 4: we were trying, we were having fun. We were going 19 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 4: to concerts and like, I don't know, we like. 20 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:45,639 Speaker 1: To bowl, and I don't know. 21 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 4: I always looked at us and thought of us as 22 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 4: being like a really strong couple. 23 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 3: And I don't know, I guess in the last couple. 24 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 4: Of years, we both just started to work more and more, 25 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 4: you know, I got this promotion and were at work 26 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 4: so much that I guess I kind of got complacent, 27 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 4: you know, maybe he did too, you know, get home 28 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 4: and just eat dinner and go to bed, and now 29 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 4: he doesn't really want to go out as much anymore, 30 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 4: which I'm in it. All of this, in my mind 31 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 4: is kind of normal. Like, you know, we've been together 32 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 4: for a really long time, and he's kind of a 33 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 4: stereotypically kind of lazy dude, and I like that about him, 34 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 4: you know, I like being comfy and cozy. 35 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 3: At home, but he does you know, he goes to see. 36 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 4: His friend Josh, but he's like that's been one of 37 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 4: his best friends since high school. And I don't think 38 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 4: he could be the two your types because he doesn't 39 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 4: really want to go out and do anything. But like 40 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 4: I said, things have been different this last month. So 41 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,119 Speaker 4: he's going over to Josh's place like twice as much 42 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 4: as he usually does. 43 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: And I don't know, I'm wondering what he's really doing 44 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: at his house. 45 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: I mean, I've heard he's complained in the past. 46 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 4: About how Josh was, like he can get annoying after 47 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 4: a while. And I've hung out with Josh and Seth 48 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 4: before and he's I can confirm that. 49 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,559 Speaker 1: Like, I don't know if we met. 50 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 4: Him now in real life, like would we be would 51 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 4: he be close friends with him? 52 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 53 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 4: It's not like he's been friends with him since high 54 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 4: school and you know they've I respect that and I 55 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 4: admire that, and I see, you know, there's a lot 56 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 4: of love there for him, But like, I. 57 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: Don't know, he's a boring dude and he's. 58 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,959 Speaker 3: Kind of annoying and I can't I can't figure out 59 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 3: what he's. 60 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: Doing over there twice as much as usual. So that's 61 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: one thing. 62 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 4: And then the other thing that's been this kind of 63 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 4: like huge change is that, all of a sudden seth 64 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 4: is a workout guy. I probably wouldn't have called you 65 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 4: guys if it wasn't for that. He's working out every 66 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 4: single day for several hours at a time. 67 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: But I don't think he's ever worked out since we 68 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: first met. I'm just is he doing it to impress someone? 69 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: Is it someone at work? Like he's there a long time. 70 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 4: I don't know. This is not me, Like I'm not 71 00:02:58,440 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 4: normally an insecure person. 72 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: I know that it doesn't feel good. 73 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I wouldn't call yourself insecure, even though it's like 74 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,080 Speaker 5: you're noticing things are changing and of course it's going 75 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 5: to set off an alarm in you. So that's not 76 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 5: even an insecurity. 77 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 4: And his appetite is less too now, Like he said, 78 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 4: he's not really very hungry when we have dinner. 79 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 1: Like he had a big lunch or something like that, and. 80 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 4: That, like there's never been a time where Seth hasn't 81 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 4: wanted like pizza or Friday, we usually get Mexican dinner, 82 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 4: and I don't know, he's just not finishing his plate, 83 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 4: which is again unusual, And I asked him about it, 84 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 4: and he and he just said he wanted. 85 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: To get back out of shape, which again totally valid. 86 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 1: I want to support him in that. I don't want 87 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: to deter him in any way. I'm just nervous. 88 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, and then if you're spending more time at the 89 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 5: boring Josh's house, I'm just curious as well. Triggered it. 90 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 5: Maybe it's not necessarily cheating. Maybe it's just he was 91 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 5: inspired by something. 92 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 6: I don't know. Hopefully he's not all right. 93 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 2: You already told us what grocery store you guys are 94 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 2: rewards card members at, So we'll play a song come 95 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: back and then call him and pretend to be from 96 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: the grocery store and say that every single month, we 97 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: choose one Awards card member who gets free flowers delivered 98 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: from our floral department. 99 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 6: We'll see if he sends us to you or somebody else. 100 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, thank you, all right, we'll plaus don't come 101 00:04:19,640 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 2: back and get your to catch teeter next. Right in 102 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: the middle of to Catch a Teeter if you're just 103 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: joining us, Katie is on the phone and she thinks 104 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: that her husband's seth of eight years might be cheating. 105 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: So in a second, we're gonna call him and pretend 106 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards 107 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 2: member at, and say that every single month we choose 108 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 2: one lucky Rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered 109 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: from our floral department, and he's this month's big winner. 110 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: We'll see if he sends those flowers to his wife, 111 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 2: Katie or someone else. But first, Katie, why don't you 112 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 2: refresh everybody's memory on what's going on. 113 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've just drifted a little. In the last couple 114 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: of years. 115 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 4: We both work a lot, and in the last couple 116 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 4: of months he's totally changed. Suddenly he's going over to 117 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 4: his friend house twice as much as. 118 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: Usual as all high school buddy, who I think is 119 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: pretty boring. He's told me he's boring. 120 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 4: And the big thing that's worrying me is suddenly he's 121 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: working out every day, which is great. He's looking great, 122 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 4: but he's never going to work out. Guy, he's eating healthy. 123 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 4: It's just such a sudden shift, and I'm just worried. 124 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 6: Okay, you ready for us to call him? Yeah, okay, 125 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 6: here we go. 126 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: Hell, Hi, this is corrible calling from I was looking 127 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 2: for a rewards card member named Seth. 128 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 6: Seth. 129 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 2: Hi, Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing 130 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: phone call. I'm calling to actually tell you congratulations. Here 131 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 2: this month's big winner. 132 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 7: Okay, what did I win? 133 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one lucky rewards card member 134 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,919 Speaker 2: who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department, absolutely 135 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: free on us to anybody that you want. You won 136 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 2: thirty six long stain red roses, a box of can 137 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 2: or glad on a car to be delivered to anybody. 138 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 6: That you want. 139 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 7: Hi, it's very cool, not bad. 140 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 6: So here's how it works. 141 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 2: I can take down the information in just a couple 142 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 2: of minutes over the phone. 143 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 7: No, that's fine, No, that's fine. I actually have a 144 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 7: little bit of downtime. 145 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 1: It's good. 146 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 6: All I will need is the first and last name 147 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 6: of the person you want to send them to. 148 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 7: Okay, same last name as mine and Katie. 149 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 6: And anything you'd like to put on a card. 150 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 7: Uh yeah, pretty roses for a pretty lady. Love you kid. 151 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 6: Oh that is I like that? 152 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 7: Thanks? 153 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, So you have very ever cheat on your wife 154 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 6: at all? Ever? 155 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 2: Set My name is Jebel and I ho's the radio show. 156 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: It's called the Jebels Show. 157 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 5: Hi, poll shows here. 158 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:44,039 Speaker 6: I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria. And your wife Katie 159 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 6: is actually on the phone listening to this. 160 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 7: Ah, so this is kind of like a set up 161 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 7: to see them cheating or something like that. 162 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 6: Is that like a yes, that's exactly what it is. 163 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: We do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, and 164 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 2: Katie thought maybe there. 165 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 6: Might be something going on. 166 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: So we were saying if we could catch you by 167 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 2: who it's in flowers too. 168 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: It's kind of flowers babe. What would you do this? 169 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 4: Oh? 170 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just didn't know what to do. 171 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 4: You've been so different this last month. I mean, you're 172 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 4: not the same guy. You just you're working out every 173 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 4: single day for like multiple hours at a. 174 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: Time, and I don't know, I just got in my 175 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 3: head about stuff. 176 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: I mean I just I asked you why, and you 177 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: didn't give me a raising. You just said you wanted 178 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: to be more healthy, which is valid. 179 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 3: But like it's just so sudden, and I don't know. 180 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 4: You're spending all this time over at Josh is like 181 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 4: double sometimes triple as much as you used to, and. 182 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: Like it's just a like, are you really there? 183 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 7: I don't know, it's crazy you think that I actually 184 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 7: cheat on you. It's pretty cute, but like not really 185 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 7: giving that cheat on you with some like hot hot 186 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 7: lady or something. 187 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 6: I'm sorry, He's definitely not cheating. 188 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 7: I love you. I wouldn't I wouldn't that, But also 189 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 7: I guess I should. We should probably talk about it. 190 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 7: Something kind of happened that to made me, uh kind 191 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 7: of look at my life and where I am right 192 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 7: now as this is, uh, this is weird. So uh 193 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 7: the reason I haven't spend a lot of time with 194 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 7: Josh and he doesn't really want anybody to know, but 195 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 7: you're kind of forcing the hand in this. He's he's 196 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 7: been diagnosed with uh cancer. 197 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 6: I'm so sorry. 198 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 8: I've been going with him to. 199 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 7: Doctor visits and stuff, you know, because he's not he 200 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 7: doesn't live near his family, and we just you know, 201 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 7: we've have been best friends for a long time. And 202 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 7: doctors are saying that it's totally tradable and success rates 203 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 7: are pretty pretty good, pretty pretty irresponsive with how how 204 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 7: early they caught it. But I mean that's kind of 205 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 7: what's going on with him, and you know, he's he's Josh. 206 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 8: Is really kind of secretive in his life, and he's like, 207 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 8: you know, don't tell anybody. It's very embarrassing and everything. 208 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 8: And I just didn't know what to do. So I've 209 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 8: just really been kind of there for him as he's 210 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 8: going through this so he doesn't have. 211 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 7: To do it alone. 212 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: I had no idea. 213 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 3: I had no idea, and so I mean, wow, but 214 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 3: what does that what does that have. 215 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: To do with you? Like the working out and the eating. 216 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 3: I mean, it's all that was. 217 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:20,199 Speaker 8: Honestly. 218 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 7: It was when I saw the look in his eyes 219 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 7: when he first told me, you know, he couldn't stop crying, 220 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,559 Speaker 7: and I it kind of freaked me out. It kind 221 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 7: of like made me think about my mortality and everything. 222 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 7: And I just as soon as I saw it, I 223 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 7: look in his eyes, I just decided. I was like, 224 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 7: you have to make sure that you're around for the 225 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 7: people who you care about. You know, it wouldn't be 226 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 7: good if you know he's going through this, and you 227 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 7: know I haven't been healthy. I haven't been you know, 228 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 7: I'm black blax and eating pizza. You know, we always 229 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 7: go out for Chinese, go aut for Mexican food and everything, 230 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,719 Speaker 7: and I'm just like, let me just make sure that 231 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 7: I'm here. Let me just make sure that I'm around. 232 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 7: So I really just wanted to be healthier and just 233 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 7: be here for him, be here for you, be here 234 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 7: for everybody that I care about. And uh, you know, 235 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 7: it just it sucked too, because I mean I haven't 236 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 7: worked out like this in years. But now that I'm 237 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 7: doing it and really focusing on the reasons for doing it, 238 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,199 Speaker 7: it makes me start to enjoy it. Like I kind 239 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 7: of tricked my brain and thinking like you want to 240 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 7: do this, and next thing, you know, it's like I 241 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 7: do want to do this, and then eating right kind 242 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 7: of followed. I mean, I know, I say I don't 243 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 7: have an apathet a lot of times, but I don't. 244 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 7: I'm just trying to eat, eat a little bit better. 245 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: You know, Well, now it's terrible. Why didn't you just 246 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 1: tell me? Why didn't you tell me any of this? 247 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: I would have understood completely. 248 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 7: I'm I'm a little to be honest, I'm a little 249 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 7: embarrassed about it too. I haven't you know, I haven't 250 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:54,079 Speaker 7: done anything physical since way way before the pandemic, and 251 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 7: I just. 252 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 8: Got used to that lacked lifestyle, you know, like we 253 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 8: just hang out and we always just kind of stay 254 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 8: home and hang out on and we've just been in 255 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 8: that mode. 256 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 7: And you know, when I josh is health scare made 257 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:07,839 Speaker 7: me kind of realize that, you know, that's not a 258 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 7: way to live. It's just kind of a way to 259 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 7: just be. 260 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 8: And I want to I just want to do more. 261 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 7: I just want to be here and just have a better, 262 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 7: healthier life and you know, not make a noise every 263 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 7: single time I've been over. And honestly, I think that 264 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 7: maybe I didn't tell you because as Josh was going 265 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 7: to this house, trying to respect his privacy, and then 266 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 7: you know, the embarrassment from him kind of leaked over 267 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,599 Speaker 7: unto me and I was like, let me just you know, 268 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 7: it's like, sometimes you're improving yourself, you kind of want 269 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 7: to hide from the world and reappear as a better 270 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 7: version of yourself. I should have definitely told you, because 271 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 7: you clearly thought I was you care around for somebody. 272 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm really god, I'm. 273 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:53,679 Speaker 6: Really sorry sorry about your friend man. But Katie, you 274 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 6: know now he's not cheating. 275 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm glad they caught it early. Never got 276 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 5: this awakened to need for wellness, and I think that's 277 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 5: a great thing. 278 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I keep looking for a side piece though. 279 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 5: Well, if that happens, you know, you can hear from 280 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 5: us again. 281 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: There the Jewel Shows to catch a cheater.