1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: Nicky Glazer Podcast. Nikki here, I am, Hey guys, Nicky Glazer, 2 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Nicki Glazer Podcast on this Wednesday afternoon. 3 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: I guess here and Saint Louis God. You know. Um, 4 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: I've been up a while already today. Uh didn't go 5 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: to bed last night. You know, one of those days 6 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: I had to get up super early. Um, f Boy 7 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: Island is They had me do this thing this morning 8 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: where I had to like put a green screen up. 9 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 1: They sent me a green screen in this like bag Noah. 10 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: That is like I had a set up behind me. 11 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 1: Um to shoot this thing. That's like, you know, they're 12 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: trying to make Fay Island international, um and go global 13 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 1: with it. And so they're interviewing the stars on the 14 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: show and like trying to package it like, hey, bring 15 00:00:56,160 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: this to Malaysia and Uruguay and you know every know 16 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: F Boy is a global it's a global it's a pandemic. 17 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: And there's no vaccine for f boys. Actually there is. 18 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: It's called gardasil and uh it prevents HPV related Um 19 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 1: well HPV actually and then that you know down the 20 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: road leads and things. Can you get gardens sil after 21 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: the fact that you already have HPV, Like, can you 22 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 1: get like because you know, you can get the coronavirus 23 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 1: vaccine if you've already had coronavirus and then could prevent 24 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: different strains. So if if I've tested, you know, pause 25 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: for like if I've had UM abnormal pap smears, which 26 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: is means that you have HPV generally. I didn't know 27 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: that until I went and got like a I got 28 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: a letter in the mail. It was like, you have 29 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: a normal smear and I was like, well, smears. Nothing 30 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: sounds normal about a smear anyway. Um, that's the nature 31 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: of a smear. It's is messy. And they were like, 32 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: this one's messier than usual. And I had to go 33 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: in and get a whole poscope where they like buy 34 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: up like so painful. They say they know you do 35 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: not they do not UM. And then I guess I 36 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 1: I guess I had HPV, which I I should maybe 37 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: admit to that. But then I've never had an abnormal 38 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: past marriget and like I've never had tested for it. Again, 39 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: I've definitely had UM A planner's a word before begging 40 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: to get a new one. UM, but that's years ago, 41 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: and so it's the thing is in my system, but 42 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 1: it's not. Um, it's not anywhere showing up where I 43 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: don't want it to yet, you know what I'm saying. Um, 44 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: But if it does show up for you in some way, 45 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 1: that also doesn't mean anything about you other than you 46 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: trusted someone you had sex with that didn't know that 47 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: they had it or disclose to you that they had it, 48 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: and that doesn't make you bad person. Um. Also, wait, 49 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: what was they saying? Oh, yeah, guard as sil I 50 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: wonder if you can get the vaccine and then like 51 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: preventing gets other types. I wonder if HPV is like 52 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 1: there's a delta HPV. I know there's a Delta del 53 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 1: the delta one in that sorority house. There's a strain 54 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: that they've created. They've modified all their own those horse 55 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: j K. I um, the Delta Delta deltas. I don't 56 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: know if they're hors. I mean on some campuses. I'm 57 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: sure that that's the Oh those are the sluts. You know, 58 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 1: there's always that one sorority And I say slet affectionately. 59 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: No shame in that game. But um, yeah, I had 60 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: to do the Stepway Island thing this morning and they 61 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: were taping it in London, so there's like, you know, 62 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: however many hours I had three o'clock there, I had 63 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: to do it at nine am last night. It was 64 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: like twelve o'clock. I saw this little green screen thing 65 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: that they had sent in a box. I was like, 66 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: I'll set it up in the morning. I just don't 67 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: feel like dealing with this right now. I love to 68 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: procrastinate on every I love to push. I would rather 69 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: wake up two hours early to get ready for something. Then, 70 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: you know, there were parts of me when I would 71 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: was young that was like, oh my gosh, I will 72 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: wear my clothes to bed for school tomorrow because I 73 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: hated so much getting ready in the morning. It was 74 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: always so cold, and I would have to like change 75 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: by the heater. I don't know why I was living 76 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: a life like tiny tim Like I think back to 77 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: changing by the heater and being like so cold and 78 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: like laying next to the heater when I was a child, 79 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: Like we didn't grow up in the nineteen thirties in 80 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: you know gangs of New York style, uh, you know 81 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: housing projects, not that there's anything wrong with that, and 82 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: then those are people are living in those types of 83 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: situations currently but we had like a nice house, but 84 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: it was always fucking cold anyway. Um, there were times 85 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: where I was like, I'm just gonna get dressed before 86 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: I go to bed. And I didn't have night sweats 87 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: as a kid, so that would have actually panned out. 88 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 1: But now you know, my hair gets all fucked up 89 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: as I sleep, and I can't really trust it's gonna 90 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: look good in the morning. So I was like, oh, 91 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: I'll just do it in the morning. But then I 92 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 1: rolled around to twelve o'clock last night, I'm watching White 93 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: Lotus by myself because Andrew goes to bed. He abandons 94 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: me to go watch the same show I'm going to watch, 95 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: and I'm like, because he likes to fall asleep to 96 00:04:57,640 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: the show, I'm like, just watch it and then go 97 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: walk into bed. You don't You don't wash your face, 98 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: you don't pump pajamas, you don't brush your teeth, you 99 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: don't have to do anything to prepare for bed. Like 100 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 1: I understand if you're doing a bunch of skin regiments 101 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: and then you get in bed and you want to 102 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: watch your show after you do all of that, because 103 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: you have to prepare for bed, Andrew just has to 104 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: walk to bed. I have nineteen skincare and an oral 105 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: hygiene steps before I can, you know, put a sleep 106 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 1: mask on and put my white noise machine on. Andrew 107 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: literally takes nine steps to walk to bed and hurl 108 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: himself into it and fall into a bed that isn't 109 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: even made. He doesn't even need to peel back the sheets. 110 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: They're already open to him. So for him to go 111 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: in bed and be like, I just want to watch 112 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: in there, I'm like, God, it's not fun watching things alone, 113 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: especially when I can hear it five minutes ahead through 114 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: the wall because I stopped and start a lot when 115 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: I'm alone because I look at my phone. So I'm 116 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: watching White Lotus last night, episode two. I do like 117 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 1: that show. I don't love it, um I thought I would. 118 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of Mike White, who is there eader, 119 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: But listen, I'm I'm actually I like it as much 120 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: as I should like it. Right now, I'd be I'd 121 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: be really hurt if Mike White heard me say. That's 122 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: not that he would ever. But let's say we meet 123 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 1: each other down the road and he's like, we're friends, 124 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, I wonder if Nikki ever talked 125 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 1: about White Lotus on her podcast and then he looks 126 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: at it and I'm like mouthing off about how his 127 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: shows didn't meet my standards, and it does. It's very 128 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: Have you seen it yet? Know? Uh no, Okay, you 129 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: need to check it out, you need I want you 130 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 1: to watch it. Um it's really there's parts of it 131 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: that you know. My friend told me to watch it 132 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: because she said it was dealing with a woman in 133 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: a powerful position and her husband who felt emasculated by 134 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: you know, making less money than her and like not 135 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:47,040 Speaker 1: feeling very masculine, and how he felt like kind of neutered. 136 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: And I'm seeing that and I'm interested in how that 137 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 1: dynamic works out. Anya told me that at some point 138 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: he like really becomes the hero for and men like 139 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: to be the hero, and like, I'm really interested in 140 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: when that's going to happen. We'll see it, will all. 141 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: I just I'm so tired of TV shows that are 142 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 1: presented like this is so a slice of life, Like 143 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: it's really what happens in life, and people behave just 144 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: like they wouldn't. That's my problem with Mr Corman. No one, 145 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: if people talk to you like this in real life, 146 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: you'd go fuck you, and it would be the end 147 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: of the scene. You just go the world, what's going 148 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: would Truman show? You would go, what's happening right now? 149 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: And I understand there has to be some sort of 150 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: you know, um, you have to raise the stakes in 151 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: a dramatic, episodic thing, and these are actors, so they 152 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: have to like play it bigger. But it's not high 153 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: school theater. These people. You know, in Curb Your Enthusiasm 154 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: when everyone that Larry David meets as an asshole and 155 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 1: calls him out on stuff and it's just like kind 156 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: of not understanding and not empathetic even that. I go, God, 157 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: is everyone in his world just the biggest asshole? And um, 158 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: But the truth is that's a comedy that's a very 159 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: uh like obvious like these are very it's it's supposed 160 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: to be that exact rated White Lotus is supposed to 161 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: be very like I think, realistic. And to me, none 162 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: of these people act like the way people would act, 163 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: and if they did, I would think it was It's 164 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: like Twilight Zone the way people act. I just hate it. 165 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm just like she would never say that. Those two 166 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: girls do not they don't act like friends would act 167 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 1: it bothers me anyway, But I guess all should be 168 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: revealed because I was kind of bitching about it last 169 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: night on my Instagram story and people wrote, just hold on, 170 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 1: it's it makes sense why those girls aren't like, like 171 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: acting like real friends. I'm like, okay, got it. Whatever. Um. 172 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: I was watching White Lotus twelve thirty at night and 173 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: I had to get up at seven o'clock for this 174 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: nine o'clock thing because I was gonna, you know, I 175 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: have to set up the green screen, and I got 176 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: up blow draw my hair and take a shower and 177 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:41,599 Speaker 1: all the stuff. But then the last night, I was like, 178 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: you know what, No, I'm gonna get ready tonight and 179 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: then sleep in a little bit. That's what I did. 180 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 1: Spray tand myself. It is coming off all over this 181 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: um chair that my mom bought for our new studio. 182 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: It's like great chair and the chair is going to 183 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: have an orange tent. By the time we go live 184 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: with video, it will have an orange hue to it. 185 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: But so do I, And so that's okay, everything I 186 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: touched turns to orange and um, but I look so 187 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 1: much better with a spray tan, and it's just undeniable. 188 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: I mean. I was walking the dog today and caught 189 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: a guy that was really hot outside Starbucks checking old 190 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: glazed dog out. Um, and I was like, oh, it's 191 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: because I put on spray tan, like I just look better. 192 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: I just always look better. Um. So I did my 193 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: hair last night, which was just me scrunching it in 194 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: the sink, doing the old you know, congealing as I 195 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: call it. Went to bed wet head. Woke up. Hair 196 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,559 Speaker 1: looked fine, a little messy, but it's like Beechey and 197 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: it's very f boy. Set up the green I go 198 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 1: into the wake up at eight. I have a nine 199 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: o'clock thing. I have to do all my makeup, go, 200 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: walk the dog, gets Starbucks, eat some food, um, feed 201 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 1: the dog. All these things before nine o'clock, and look 202 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: at my notes to remind myself of some topics I 203 00:09:56,960 --> 00:10:00,319 Speaker 1: want to talk about it for f boy and UM. 204 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 1: And set up the green screen. I opened the box. 205 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: This thing comes in like a circular zipper case like 206 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: the green screen, and then it folds out on the instructions. 207 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: It says be careful when opening. Who reads instructions before 208 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 1: they open something? Not not me. I opened it. It 209 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: unfolds so quickly like, you know, um, one of those 210 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: snakes coming out of a pringles can hits me in 211 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:26,839 Speaker 1: the chin. I now have a um, a bum by 212 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: my chin. But it actually looks good. It looks like 213 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 1: gives me a little bit more of a of a chin, 214 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: you know, Like it's almost like I got injected in 215 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: the chin. It reminds me of when I vibrated my 216 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: head for my migraine and it gave me botox. Before 217 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: I ever knew what that was, like, I saw like, 218 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, when your head looks frozen, it looks 219 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,559 Speaker 1: like kind of cool. Um. So I got hit in 220 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: the face by green screen. Did the interview. It was 221 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,079 Speaker 1: supposed to be forty five minutes. They asked for an hour. 222 00:10:51,559 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 1: I go, sure, you know what, let's do an hour. 223 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: But I can't shut the funk up and I and 224 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: I really want to show to sell in other markets. 225 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: So I up doing bits and then I would say, 226 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: you know what, actually I can deliver that better. There's 227 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: one that that I really liked that I did. I go, 228 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: you know, um, on the show Fight Island. We were 229 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: talking about the women on the show and how honestly 230 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: watching them every week they would do these elimination ceremonies, 231 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: and unlike the bachelorrette where they just either get a 232 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: rose or don't and then they just all hug goodbye, 233 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 1: the girls would like tell the guys that we're getting 234 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: kicked off, like why they're getting kicked off or why 235 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 1: they're up for elimination, like you did this, this and this, 236 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: and it's not okay, Like you have to be accountable. 237 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 1: Why did you do that. I don't like when you 238 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 1: talk to me that way. I don't like when you 239 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 1: talk to that girl like stuff that. I am so 240 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: bad at confronting men about things that issues in our 241 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: relationship because I am scared that they will go, well, 242 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: that's just the way I am. And if you don't 243 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: like it, then leave, because that happened to me one 244 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: time when I brought up something good relationship, he goes, well, 245 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: I'm not going to change, So I guess you have 246 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: to break up with me because you know that you 247 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: just put you said that you want to be with 248 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: someone that does that so and I'm not going to 249 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: so by And I was just like, and so I 250 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,439 Speaker 1: just learned to never ever say what you want because 251 00:12:03,440 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 1: people might just go no, I can't give that to 252 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: you and then you go, oh, they don't love me. Um. 253 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: And I'm sure that comes from my childhood as well. 254 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: But um, I told the woman on the that was 255 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 1: interviewing me, I said, when I watched these girls week 256 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: after weeks stand up to these guys, I would get 257 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: nervous because I was so scared the guys were going 258 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: to retaliate when they got criticized, especially these guys that 259 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: are like so about their image and looking cool, and 260 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: when when a girl that they you know, and there's 261 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 1: only three girls there, and there was kind of um 262 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: rumblings among them, or rumors that the guys were a 263 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: little disappointed that they didn't know they weren't going to 264 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 1: be They thought it was gonna be like tons of girls. 265 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: They were all quarantined for two weeks, talking to each 266 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: other on their balconies, going like, oh my god, this 267 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: show is gonna be awesome. They're so horny for like, 268 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 1: they thought it was gonna be a fucking, you know, 269 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: orgy with as many women as there were men. They 270 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: all knew that there were twenty four guys at least, 271 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: and so they thought they were gonna be so when 272 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 1: they were only three girls, they were all kind of 273 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 1: like what they were kind of disappointed, and then they 274 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: were rumblings that the guys were like there was like 275 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: one guy that said, like, you know, these girls aren't 276 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: even as hot as girls that I can pull back wherever. 277 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 1: And I think it's because he said that, because it 278 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: was Garrett, I remember, and Garrett even said I said 279 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:16,719 Speaker 1: that because I got rejected, and I was like being defensive, 280 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 1: you know, like it wasn't true. There's all really hot 281 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 1: as they I mean, they're gorgeous as you saw. But 282 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: I was scared that one of those guys were going 283 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: to say something like that to them, like, well, you're 284 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,079 Speaker 1: not even that hot. I wouldn't even want to fuck 285 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: you if it wasn't for this Island or something like that. 286 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: I was so scared they were gonna say that to 287 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: these girls, because guys say really mean things when they're rejected. 288 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 1: We've all heard the story about the cat call where 289 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: the guy's like, hey, baby, what do you what are 290 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 1: you doing? And the girl goes fuck you and he goes, well, 291 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 1: you're a fat, dumb cunt, and the girls like, because 292 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 1: they didn't want to suck you, you got mean, like 293 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 1: and they say something really mean because they get hurt. 294 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: So I was always scared these guys were gonna get 295 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:53,719 Speaker 1: confronted and be like, fuck you, you're ugly or not 296 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: hot or whatever, and I was like, you have small boobs. 297 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: Whatever they were gonna say to these girls, I was 298 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: just terrified for them. But every time the guy would 299 00:14:00,600 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 1: just go, you're totally right. And I mean, these guys 300 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 1: were probably trying to stay on the show and knew 301 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: that that behavior wouldn't get them too. And maybe they were. 302 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,800 Speaker 1: Maybe I was wrong, Maybe these guys would neveryone would 303 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:13,719 Speaker 1: have that reaction. But I you know, I told this 304 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 1: to my therapist that my biggest fears that men are 305 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: gonna say when I reject to them, They're gonna say, well, 306 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: you're ugly, and I wouldn't want you anyway. The only 307 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: reason I want to do was because you know, you're 308 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: famous or some other reason other than like I'm attractive, 309 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: Like they'll be like I was already taking a dive, 310 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 1: like even wanting to funk you in the first, Like 311 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 1: I always scare they're gonna say something mean about my looks. 312 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: She goes, that sounds like a fifteen year old boy. 313 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: She goes, what happened? I go, I don't even know 314 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: what happened. I think maybe that happened to me, and 315 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: I blocked out because I can't even think of a 316 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: time that happened. But she goes, that's that's the fear 317 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: of a fifteen year old girl, like dealing with fifteen 318 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: year old and I go, well, that's I live with 319 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: a four year old, like sometimes Andrew acts like a 320 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: four year old. That it's not beyond comprehension that I 321 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: would date guys that sometimes act fifteen. But it's true. 322 00:14:57,760 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: These are fears of a fifteen year old girl dealing 323 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: with senior boys, because men do not sometimes progress, especially 324 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 1: the men that I'm into, sometimes get really defensive and 325 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: say ugly things. I mean, even I do, I slip 326 00:15:08,960 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 1: back into my teenage, um you know, anger and like 327 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: really mean, uh insecure, cruel, jugular type um things when 328 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 1: I when I'm back into a corner. So I said 329 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: it to this girl, I go, you know, these women 330 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: actually inspired me. I was dealing. I was dating a 331 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: guy during the show who was behaving like an f boy, 332 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: and I was putting up with it so much and 333 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: just like accepting it because I was just happy to 334 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: be had, you know, and I didn't want to say 335 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: anything because I was scared he was gonna just be like, Okay, fine, 336 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: let's stop hooking up. And I really liked it, and 337 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: so I said, though, like, but it was becoming to 338 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: the point where I was really starting to feel like 339 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: I was just kind of taking abuse, a little bit 340 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: or emotional abuse, and it was making me feel so 341 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: sad um and I wanted to confront him, but I 342 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: just wasn't brave enough too. But then when I said 343 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: Nikkia Ce Jane Sarah, like a week after week when 344 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: I saw them, I was able to concoct a text 345 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: to this guy and like hold him accountable for behavior 346 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: that I would have never done before. I saw these 347 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: girls week after week doing it and the guys actually 348 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: answering to it and being like these girls were brave 349 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: to me, and I was like, I can do this too. 350 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: So I did it, and I told the woman, I go, 351 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: and you know what, that guy that used to give 352 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 1: me the run around, that wasn't able to commit to 353 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: me right now, look what I can show you. And 354 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: I held up my left hand and I got pointed 355 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 1: out my finger and then I did the middle finger. 356 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: I go, fuck you. We're not talking anymore. And I 357 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: go and guess what. We're not talking because he didn't 358 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: want to talk to me. We're not talking because I 359 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: didn't want to talk to him. And I said, if 360 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: you don't change this, I'm out. And he didn't, so 361 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: I was out. And um, but I liked the little, uh, 362 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 1: little switch runey of the ring. But it's really hard 363 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 1: to do a middle finger with your left hand. That's 364 00:16:55,320 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: what I learned. Let's get Andrew in here. Why not Andrew? Hey, Andrew, 365 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 1: don't call me kid, don't call me baby. Um. Yeah, 366 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 1: I've been singing that song a lot. Yeah, I love 367 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: that line. I don't know what it is about those 368 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 1: two two by Taylor Swift. Yeah, I mean, yesterday we 369 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:23,640 Speaker 1: had a full on concert with your dad. It was awesome. 370 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: It was awesome. I filmed you too, and I felt 371 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: like you guys, like it was a beautiful moment. And 372 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:33,199 Speaker 1: I know, like if we were around a campfire like 373 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 1: that was a touching moment for a father and daughter, 374 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: especially knowing that, like you guys have had some issues 375 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 1: with playing together in the past, you know, and it 376 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: just I don't know, it felt great or I don't 377 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: know I'm like, I just you know, I I love 378 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: my dad and uh I just feel you know, I 379 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: I don't know, like it was it was a lot 380 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 1: better than our normal jam sessions, but he um, he 381 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: just struggles to be invested in me as like a 382 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 1: guitar player and like trying to help me or facilitate 383 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: me being better or encouraging me. It's there's just a 384 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: block for him where he can't comment on it. And 385 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: it's not because I go, Dad, I know, like you know, 386 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: there's a lot of times where I just God like 387 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 1: a good dude, but this is like I would like 388 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 1: feedback from him, and I do think he gave feedback yesterday. 389 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: I think sometimes because you don't get it, you don't 390 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 1: hear it, you're you're he goes you're getting good. The 391 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: thing is that that to me is just him playcating 392 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 1: because he knows that I've complained about him not but no, no, no, no, 393 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:41,440 Speaker 1: but let me just that's him just giving me something. 394 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,879 Speaker 1: And my dad, what I really want from him is 395 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:48,479 Speaker 1: actually feedback because he's a really good guitarist. He I 396 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: know that if he did stand up for a year, 397 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: he was a year in and he showed progress that 398 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 1: I've made because I watched videos when I started a 399 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: year ago. I've made substantial progress, so I know it's 400 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: it's happened. I I feel, and I know that everyone 401 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: isn't me, but you know, I kind of was like, 402 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 1: you know, if anyone's as close to who I am, 403 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: it's my dad. So like when I he's the only 404 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 1: person that I can actually go, well, I would do this, 405 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: so he should probably do that too, because I am 406 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 1: my dad, Like we act the same way in almost 407 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 1: every scenario, so for him too, I would say, wow, Dad, 408 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 1: like this is really good. I like this, Your timing 409 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 1: is good, your like specifics about like that joke structure. 410 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: Here's where I think you could really um like based 411 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: on my experience a year in, because you're obsessed with 412 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: this in the same way I was, like the exact 413 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 1: same way, which I am as obsessed with guitar as 414 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: my dad was when he first started. And he knows 415 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 1: that he could say it really you know what helped 416 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 1: me a lot was just it would skip me ahead 417 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: if I would have learned this before then, like, hey, 418 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: put the mic stand behind you, don't fidget with it, 419 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: like little things that he doesn't offer any suggestions to 420 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 1: me have you asked for like like most lessons where 421 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 1: he let's slow down, let's not play a song, let's 422 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 1: actually pick up part my strum. Me not a teacher though, 423 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:09,199 Speaker 1: Like I guess I'm just asking for things that he 424 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: can't give. But he always tries to teach me something 425 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 1: that is so advanced, and it's like he'll he'll just 426 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: start noodling around and showing me a thing, and it 427 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: just becomes him doing something that I am years away 428 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 1: from even being able to do or understand based on 429 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 1: music theory. So all I want him to say is 430 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 1: like he's just not good at empathizing and like understanding 431 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 1: what position I'm in in terms of being a beginning. 432 00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: And that's just I said yesterday. My parents struggle with empathy. 433 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 1: They cannot put themselves in my shoes, even though he 434 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: was once in my shoes, and I certainly don't want 435 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: to be in his because you were calling them made 436 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 1: of the same material that the floor was. And usually 437 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 1: you shouldn't wear shoes in the house, but in his case, 438 00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 1: his shoes wore the house. He wore floors on his feet. Um, yeah, 439 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 1: I was worried about him stepping on other shoes they were. 440 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: They were like chea shues. We were waiting for the 441 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 1: grass to grow chia. Dude, I love those invents. The 442 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,639 Speaker 1: pet Rock, the pet Rock might be my favorite. Were 443 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: you born in nineteen seventy one? Why would you even 444 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 1: the pet Rock? Really? No, dude, No, the pet Rock 445 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: came out in like the seventies. No, can we check this? 446 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 1: I feel like the pet Rock was like seven Oh sorry, han, 447 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: that's not going to check out. That's I'm gonna say. 448 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 1: The pet Rock was nineteen seventy four, nineteen seventy seven, 449 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: but in no way was in seven off by deck 450 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: it was. It was released in nineteen seventy five. Dude, 451 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,640 Speaker 1: I nailed it. How did you know? Because I know ship, 452 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: I feel like it was around when I was a kid. 453 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 1: I mean maybe it was still years. I mean it was. 454 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,400 Speaker 1: It became like it was the Tomagotchi of nineteen seventy five. 455 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: But tomagotch you know, we're still around. I'm sorry, Gotchi. Wait, 456 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: you don't know what a tomagotchi is. Just honestly, it's 457 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: a toy. Okay, what does it do. It's a little 458 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 1: round toy. It would be on a key chain. It 459 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,680 Speaker 1: was digital. It was like kind of like a video game. 460 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 1: Is this we're doing any You had to like, it's 461 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 1: a little ball that you had to take care of, 462 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: a little digital thing that you would feed it and 463 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 1: like bathe it. You know, things you didn't have, probably child, 464 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 1: That's probably why I didn't pay attention to it. I 465 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: was a Tomagotchi that never got taken care of. I mean, 466 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 1: it was like sims, but it was like it was 467 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: so cute to do with tomagotcheese. No what, Yeah, I did. 468 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 1: I used to love him. I loved him so much. 469 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 1: They were so cute. They were like this little ball 470 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 1: that would it looks like the Zoloft cartoon. You know 471 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 1: that cartoon that a little ball cartoon that like jumps 472 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:52,120 Speaker 1: around commercials. Yeah, I think I don't. I don't remember 473 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: that at all. I do love the pet Rock. How 474 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: did you miss? Are you a time traveler? I might 475 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: be black out from nineteen seven to well the Tomagotchi 476 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: let me guess when that came out? Noah, I think, 477 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 1: I bet. I'm really good at placing dates. I know 478 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: every toy. I mean, I cannot believe you don't know 479 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 1: the tamagotchi people are listening right now in their full 480 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: or I like the things you put in water and 481 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: they expand. Those are pretty cool. Oh the little spongey 482 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: things in the pills. Yeah yeah, Okay, So Tomagotchi is 483 00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 1: nineteen nine. I don't you know what, I don't even remember. 484 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go nine six ninety seven. I'm gonna say 485 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: Christmas ninety six was like when Tomagotchis were like, that's 486 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: the year it was released in six. Dude, that's the Tomagotchi. 487 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: Do you see it? Oh? Still it looks like is 488 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 1: that the first iPod? iPod? No, it's like a little 489 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 1: circle that would be on a key chain. They three, 490 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: but I guess I kind of remember now seen the three. 491 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: But dude, I want to play this game. I just 492 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 1: guess dates of things I can I'm really good with music, 493 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:07,640 Speaker 1: you know, from you know, since I was born until now. 494 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: Trying to think of other toys that I could get 495 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,360 Speaker 1: that you have to guess when was he man? Oh, 496 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:20,440 Speaker 1: he man was nineteen. I'm gonna say eighty eight through 497 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 1: two when it was like really earlier. But I you know, 498 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 1: I was three in or four. Yeah, I mean, I'm 499 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 1: trying to think of like toys that were you didn't 500 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 1: have toys or something. I did have many toys. I 501 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 1: had a couple wrestling for Christmas. Wouldn't you be able 502 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 1: for hanaka? Weren't you able to ask for? Like things 503 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: that you get eight presents? But we usually would only 504 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: get three on the first night and then But what 505 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 1: didn't you get things that you asked for? Like what 506 00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: would you ask for? Trying to remember I loved I 507 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: love wrestling. For a little while, I had all the 508 00:24:55,920 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 1: different wrestling figures. I had Junkyard Dog, Ultimate Warrior, Whole Cogan. 509 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: I remember Whole Cogan was in my mom's shower and 510 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,679 Speaker 1: I was playing with her razor like her razor blade, 511 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 1: and I sliced myself and I told my mom that 512 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 1: Hulk Hogan did it, because I thought that would me 513 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: playing with Whole like Hulk Hogan scratched me, Stretched Armstrong 514 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: scratch Armstrong? Did? I don't think I did, but I 515 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 1: would have been stretch Armstrong so much Teddy Rux, Ben Barbies, UM, 516 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 1: Creepy Crawlers, UM, a little Mini bake Oven, Polly Pocket, 517 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 1: Polly Pocket? What about the song little strat Shop? It's 518 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: my kid? No, When I grow, grow up. I want 519 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 1: no not be a toy toys r us was the ship. 520 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm getting a toy store, geting in 521 00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,119 Speaker 1: the toy aisle of like a Target or even a 522 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 1: value city when my mom would want to go shopping 523 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 1: for cheap clothes, a t J Max toy aisles. Just 524 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 1: my buddy, dopamine, my buddy, my buddy, wherever he goes, 525 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 1: I go. Water baby. No one knew what water baby. 526 00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 1: Those were a little rubber like hollow rubber babies that 527 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:13,959 Speaker 1: were that had nothing in them, and you fill them 528 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: with water and they kind of like have the movements 529 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: of a baby because it's filled with water. It's like 530 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 1: a waterbed, but a baby and their rubber. They're really cute. 531 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 1: Some dolls scare the ship out of me, like chucky 532 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 1: like obviously, but like the porcelain dolls that some people 533 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: would put around. I never was really into dolls. I 534 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: liked barbies. I liked you know, um, I liked women. 535 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 1: Did you have one like raggedy doll that you had 536 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 1: sense of? Kids wanted wanted something like that, And I 537 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: never had a velveteen rabbit. I was never a little 538 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,160 Speaker 1: girl with like a toy that I would like take 539 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 1: around and like chew on and like you know, rub 540 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: on my face and it would make me comfortable. I 541 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 1: would have really like probably benefited for some some kind 542 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: of weighted blanket or something. To know. I had nothing 543 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 1: like that to do. There's some girl us I go 544 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 1: to college and bring their blank I have one kind 545 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: of I have a pillow that is like my if 546 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 1: place went up in flames, I would I would go 547 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 1: get that pillow. Luigi. No, I mean obviously not. Yeah, 548 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 1: I mean obviously not. I mean I did I not 549 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: say not. I love your kind hearted answer. And then 550 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 1: the joke get like, well I would get I would 551 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: get Luigi, but I would definitely hud, you're on your own, buddy. 552 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,120 Speaker 1: I mean the place is burning down because you left 553 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,640 Speaker 1: the oven on anyway, so you told me to put 554 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: the pizza box in it. Um, we'll get that later 555 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 1: in the show. The pizza incident that some of you 556 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 1: pizza gate some of you saw in the story. Um, 557 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: what were you talking about before that? We're talking about Tomagotchie. Um. 558 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 1: And then before that, it was oh the pet rock 559 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,360 Speaker 1: a chee up my dad, Oh the dad thing. I 560 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 1: just can I just say and my dad's not going 561 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 1: to hear this. Um, But I love him so much 562 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 1: and it was really good to see him yesterday. I 563 00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: haven't seen him in so long. I just, you know, 564 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: I struggle with when he you know, I only know 565 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: so many songs. He knows he could play anything, and 566 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: for him to not find a song that we can 567 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: both play that is easy, and I'm the one that 568 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 1: has to pick out a song. Just it doesn't make 569 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 1: sense to me where I'm like where he's like well, 570 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,120 Speaker 1: or like no, He's the one that he he doesn't 571 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 1: let me pick a song. He's the one that picks 572 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: a song. And then he never picks and then he 573 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,399 Speaker 1: just starts playing, and I have to just guess. Now 574 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,960 Speaker 1: I'm good enough that I can watch him and just 575 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,160 Speaker 1: play along. But initially I'd be like, we just give 576 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: me the chord progression, and he go, it's just um, 577 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,479 Speaker 1: just watch just I'm just gonna play it. And then 578 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,479 Speaker 1: he starts going up the neck and doing bar records. 579 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. Bar chords is when you're 580 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: playing regular like bar chords or regular chords. He started solo. 581 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: I think he might get something like that. He doesn't 582 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: do because that's what I always want to do is 583 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 1: And he doesn't like Taylor Swift songs because he says 584 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: they're all too fast. But the reason I sing them 585 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 1: fast is because he hates them and wants me to 586 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 1: get through them. It's like when I tell you a story. Yeah, 587 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: I mean honestly, but I don't get to, you know, 588 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: freestyle during it. Um, I do want to swim freestyle 589 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: away from you telling me that you're crying because we're 590 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: in the ocean and the sunset made you think of 591 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: your Yeah with my I mean, that's a reference to 592 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 1: a joke. You just sound like a joke I made 593 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: that The audience doesn't know, though they don't if they saw. 594 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: I mean, that's the tiniest percentage of our fame. We 595 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 1: talked about how we swam a race in swimming and 596 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: I and I toasted your ass. Yeah, yeah, you did 597 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 1: toast my ass. I don't know if I toast you 598 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 1: in the butterfly though, I think, oh, yeah, I don't 599 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: know freestyle and it was never that good at um 600 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: and uh, yeah, that makes sense to me that you 601 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 1: toasted me. I don't. I don't have a problem with that. 602 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 1: We went golfing or Andrew went golfing last night and 603 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: I went on a run and I love that you 604 00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: came and hung out with them. Why he golfed. It 605 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: is a that is where all single men are. It's 606 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 1: so funny. I posted about on my Instagram story. Jamie 607 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: from um F boy Jamie nice guy. Uh he wrote 608 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 1: to me and was like, um he said something about like, yeah, 609 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: those guys are there, but like they're probably he said 610 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 1: something about to the illusion of like to the allusion 611 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: to alluding to the fact that they are men that 612 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,880 Speaker 1: are like probably just like filling their lives with that 613 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 1: instead of other things. Because you're addicted to golf in 614 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: a way that I mean it's unhealthy. Yeah, like you're 615 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 1: over you're you're doing that instead of something else. Maybe. 616 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 1: And I looked at all these men and they're all 617 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 1: like good looking men that are just there at the 618 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: driving range at nine o'clock at night. But to me, 619 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: I wasn't like, damn, maybe I can pick up a 620 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 1: guy here. I'm like, I want to just scream, go 621 00:30:52,920 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: to therapy, then run off it. Stop it. It's I know, 622 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,240 Speaker 1: it's it's great for your mental health to do something 623 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: active that you love, for sure, but I did. I 624 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: guarantee you narry one of those twenty men swinging uh 625 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 1: their aggression towards their father's away where go actually go 626 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 1: to therapy. They were all they're they're all. Golf is 627 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: was created for men to avoid their their lives. And 628 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 1: I mean I get I get that. I I you know, 629 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 1: use pot and guitar and read it and stuff like 630 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: that to to skip mine. But I was at first, 631 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,239 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I should come here 632 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: and like go with Andrew more often meet a guy. 633 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: But I don't want a guy that goes to the 634 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: driving range. Yeah, it's kind of like a real life 635 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: video game or the gym, you know what I mean, 636 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 1: Like people that are addicted to video games and will 637 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: play for hours. Those guys were focused. Golf takes up. 638 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 1: I mean, golf is a beautiful sport. Man. I appreciate 639 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 1: it more and more the older I get because I 640 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 1: really can't play other sports because then I tear my hamstring. 641 00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: You know, golf you can play until you're a hundred. 642 00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:03,320 Speaker 1: Mike Grandpa started playing golf at seventy and won his 643 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 1: club championship. B division got to throw that out. Sorry, 644 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: you definitely can play in an elderly league. What did 645 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: my dad say that? Um to, I not, I will 646 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,959 Speaker 1: never be that good? But could why not? My grandpa 647 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 1: Henry used to far really not think you could play 648 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 1: in the Senior Tour. I mean it starts a fifty, 649 00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 1: so I'd have nine years to get I mean you 650 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: play four you could play if you played four hours 651 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 1: a day for sixty five days times nine, I think 652 00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 1: that would be hours, and then you could be an 653 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: expert potentially. My grandpa used to fart during my back 654 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,520 Speaker 1: swing and and claim that it wasn't on purpose, it 655 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: was unbelievable, like on command and uh, and then he died. 656 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: You can get thirteen thousand hours and nine years, and 657 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 1: that that's playing four hours a day. Well, I'm not 658 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:54,160 Speaker 1: gonna play four hours, so I do two hours. All 659 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: you need is ten thousand hours, and you've probably already 660 00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: done about, you know, twelve hundred, so let's not. You 661 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 1: only need about eight thousand probably to complete this. Divided 662 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 1: by four two thousand, and then divide that by three 663 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:13,480 Speaker 1: sixty five you could you could in five years playing 664 00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 1: four hours a day. You could get ten thousand hours 665 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 1: and for seven days a week. That's too many I 666 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 1: know so so, but that means you to ten years, 667 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: you could definitely get that in. Look, I'm not ruling 668 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 1: it out, but that's not my focus because that's a 669 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:32,240 Speaker 1: goal that's so unlofty, like a golf club, like a 670 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: four iron on that's the goal that's that's so unlofty. Yeah, no, 671 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 1: it's lofty. Yes, it's not unlofty. Would be a pitching wedge. Okay, Well, 672 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 1: all I have to say is why I honestly would 673 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: not do anything if I didn't think I could be 674 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: on the senior tour of it. Why Because I want 675 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 1: to be the best at things, or at least in 676 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: the top of everything that I do. I mean, I run, 677 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 1: but I know I'm never going to be the best 678 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 1: of that. That to me is meditative. But I'm not 679 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: obsessed with it like you are, Like I do it 680 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 1: like you know, three times a week. If I were 681 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,959 Speaker 1: only playing guitar to be the best singer, songwriter, the best, 682 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,440 Speaker 1: but the best that I can be, and which I 683 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: do believe I could be, I could be as good 684 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:21,439 Speaker 1: as senior Senior Tour level of golf. At that level, 685 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,719 Speaker 1: like it could be that good. Here's the thing. The 686 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: senior tour guys. Most of them have been playing at 687 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: my age. They were already playing. They already have so 688 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,600 Speaker 1: I'm catching up, that's all I'm saying. But what I'm 689 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: saying those people have wives and kids and you don't 690 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,399 Speaker 1: have that ship, and you can actually get in more 691 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 1: hours than them. And that's why I like feel like 692 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: I was getting on the plane the other day walking 693 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: on the tar, or like the gate the hallway when 694 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 1: these two old guys were behind me to senior tours 695 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 1: when they saw my guitar and the guy goes, oh, 696 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: is that a you know, big viola or tiny guitar. 697 00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's a guitar. And he's like, I go, 698 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: I not good. I just started playing a year ago 699 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 1: and I'm like obsessed with it. So I bring it 700 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 1: with me everywhere and I go, do you play? And 701 00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: he's like, no, God, I wish I. He goes, stay 702 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 1: with it, stay with it because when you get older, 703 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 1: you can't do it. And I go, I am older 704 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,759 Speaker 1: and I started a year ago and he goes, no, 705 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: stay you you you you can do this. He goes, 706 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 1: I gave up because I I started it. I started 707 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: the piano at twenty eight and I go, I'm too 708 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,360 Speaker 1: old for this, and I go, I'm thirty seven. And 709 00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm so happy that you assumed I was probably in 710 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: twenties based on it was the first time anyone's I 711 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,239 Speaker 1: did have a mask on. And then when I have 712 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,240 Speaker 1: a mask on, people tell me I look like Jennifer Lawrence, 713 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 1: so I things are good when I have a mask on. 714 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,240 Speaker 1: No one's ever told me I look young for my age. Never, 715 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,840 Speaker 1: not one time has anyone said. And I hear it 716 00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 1: said to every other woman in the world. You've never 717 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 1: heard that. The only time was DeMarcus ware On on 718 00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,600 Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars, where he said you're thirty five. 719 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 1: What I could have I swear to God, when I 720 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 1: met you, I thought you were thirty three. The only 721 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: time it's happened, and that's two years, and that was 722 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: a joke to me. You have a very like strong appearance, 723 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: where like, how do I put this where I really 724 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,400 Speaker 1: think we should get to the news before you go 725 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: any deeper here. But I've never been told you don't 726 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 1: want the busties decided and say I look young, because 727 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: I know I don't. I don't think you age. I 728 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 1: think you you kind of stay exactly at when I 729 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: was eighteen. Well, then you just stayed thirty seven. I mean, 730 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 1: look at this picture of me. A lot of look 731 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,480 Speaker 1: older when we were Like this picture of me when 732 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,759 Speaker 1: I was eighteen, I look honestly the same, and I 733 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 1: have to say, I'm pretty proud of it. But I look, 734 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,799 Speaker 1: I look thirty seven in this That's my point. You 735 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:41,640 Speaker 1: don't age past a certain Look at this picture. Doesn't 736 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: that look like me now? Pretty much? Yes? Yeah, that's 737 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 1: my point? Alright? Good? Yes, I hope I stay this 738 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 1: way forever. I always look thirty seven seven is a 739 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,200 Speaker 1: great age to look. I'll go up to forty four, 740 00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,399 Speaker 1: you know what, and then I want to stop. Let's 741 00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:02,480 Speaker 1: get to the news first. I hope you're having a 742 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: great time out there. We know we love Tuesdays, and 743 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,839 Speaker 1: today's Tuesday. Get yourself a taco, get yourself a tambourine. 744 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: Have all the swells out there? Okay? Um? Do do 745 00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 1: I tell him it's not Tuesday? Do you like? What 746 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 1: do we do here? Jeff? Saturday? Over here? Jeff? Yeah, 747 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 1: it's Jeff Wednesday. You're it's Wednesday. Andrew. You're going tomorrow 748 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,320 Speaker 1: to see Brenna. You just wrote a tweet about it 749 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,479 Speaker 1: or an instant post about it. I mean, I don't 750 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 1: even just let's get to the news. I hope you're 751 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 1: having all the swells. Oh god, Okay, Luigi is falling 752 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,240 Speaker 1: asleep on your lap. It's so cute. When asked about 753 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 1: hosting Bachelor in Paradise and being a comedian in the 754 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: age of cancel culture, David Spade responds, it's very dicey, 755 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:52,839 Speaker 1: it's very tricky. So David was interviewed recently and asked 756 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 1: him about Bachelor Paradise. I'm so sick of hearing about 757 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,480 Speaker 1: David Spade. I'm just kidding. That's all I want to 758 00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:04,399 Speaker 1: talk about. No, okay, So what did he say? He said, Yeah, 759 00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,359 Speaker 1: I know, and yeah I've heard him say this stuff. Yeah, 760 00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 1: I mean essentially. But do you think he did? You 761 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,760 Speaker 1: watch him on Batchelom Paradise. Oh yeah, he was great. 762 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 1: He's so I mean, he was so funny on this 763 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 1: like it was it was kind of they they showed enough. 764 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: They showed more comedy from him than they loud for 765 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 1: me on f boy, Like they didn't let me go 766 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,320 Speaker 1: in and he like real long of any of my bits. 767 00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 1: They caught him down. Um, but for him, they let 768 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 1: some stuff really go. It is so fun. He does 769 00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 1: this bit about crabs at the end of the first episode, 770 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: like during the credits, about his room having crabs in it. 771 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,480 Speaker 1: Like he's like, and he worked it out with me 772 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: in a voice memo, I think because he was telling 773 00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 1: me about his accommodations. He goes, I don't want to 774 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,839 Speaker 1: say that um dump who said dump is a strong 775 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:49,919 Speaker 1: word that they put me up in the dump. But yeah, 776 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:51,879 Speaker 1: there's like crabs all over my room. My room has 777 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 1: six crabs in it at at all times. He goes, 778 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 1: there's nowhere they're not. He was like, you opened a 779 00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 1: cabinet and there's a crab, just like eating a trip. 780 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 1: Just get like you want some of this. There's like 781 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,239 Speaker 1: he was saying, I don't. He goes there and they're 782 00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 1: not like Sebastian like little mermaid crabs that have like 783 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,880 Speaker 1: a good personality. These crabs they're walking sideways. They're shifty, 784 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,240 Speaker 1: Like he hates his His rants about crabs are so funny. 785 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 1: They really he just had crabs in his room. Yeah, 786 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,839 Speaker 1: and this when they were in Mexico, they were just like, yeah, 787 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 1: it's crab season. They're like He's like we'll get them out, 788 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 1: and he like complains Scott, and the guy goes, I'll go, 789 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: I'll bring you a crab room. What is as the 790 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 1: crabs out? And I really hope these crabs aren't injured 791 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: with the broom. I think they probably are, but um, yeah, 792 00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 1: cancel culture. He was saying, it's tricky. Yeah, he says, uh, 793 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: I mean, he goes. You used to have to say 794 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,479 Speaker 1: anything to go as far as you could, to push 795 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:51,880 Speaker 1: the envelope to get attention, and people would be like, 796 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:54,279 Speaker 1: I like this guy, he's pushing it. But now you 797 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 1: say one wrong move and you're canceled. It's a very 798 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: tough world out there. I think all comedians have gone 799 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 1: together in a way to to say we just have 800 00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 1: to keep doing what we're doing and people that come 801 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,320 Speaker 1: to shows will appreciate it. But you get an outsider 802 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,759 Speaker 1: that comes in and goes, I was so offended. The 803 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 1: intent is not to be mean. If the intent is 804 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,280 Speaker 1: to do it as a joke or a spin or something, 805 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:17,800 Speaker 1: and it is mean to people, but you're just making 806 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,319 Speaker 1: fun of that. I don't think that's horrible. Yeah, it's 807 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: if there's if you're you know, if you're on stage 808 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:24,799 Speaker 1: and you do a joke about rape, but it's like 809 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,359 Speaker 1: making the victim out to be the one that we're 810 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,959 Speaker 1: like ha ha. Then like come on, that's not that's mean. 811 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 1: But talking about the subject of something and people doing oh, 812 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 1: it's just like shut up. I make one joke about 813 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 1: like my hotel being um having a scale in it 814 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 1: and a magnifying mirror, and I'm like, it's like makes 815 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: me want to jump out the window. I'm like, I did, 816 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 1: I got the suicide suite. I was like, is this 817 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,840 Speaker 1: the Bourdain bungalow? And people go, oh, I mean he 818 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,919 Speaker 1: killed himself? Do you guys not know that? I hate 819 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,240 Speaker 1: that I did. I just did I say something wrong? 820 00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 1: Is that because he did kill himself in a hotel room? 821 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: Is that my fault? Or I am am I making more? 822 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 1: Am I making light of his desk? No, I'm just 823 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,959 Speaker 1: acknowledging that he took his life there. He was also 824 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,400 Speaker 1: in a bungalow. Who doesn't want to die in a bungalow? No, 825 00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:15,120 Speaker 1: he was actually in like a nice hotel and France 826 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:20,080 Speaker 1: and like this, I mean the ironic part is Spade 827 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 1: has this job because Chris Harrison got canceled for and 828 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 1: he's not a comedian. Over over defending that girl. Yeah yeah, 829 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,640 Speaker 1: I mean it's all kind of um. I was really 830 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,760 Speaker 1: upset by someone's cancelation recently. Who was it? Someone got 831 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:38,479 Speaker 1: oh the Jeopardy host on his podcast ten years ago. 832 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 1: The guy that made himself the host of Jeopardy is 833 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:43,320 Speaker 1: a producer on Departy, Mike Richards. How it happens, he 834 00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: got canceled because he his host on the show, like 835 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 1: his Andrew Collin, like this girl that's like a buddy 836 00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 1: of his. They were joking about her working like some 837 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 1: kind of convention in a booth and he called her like, oh, 838 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 1: you're one of those booth sluts, like booth horse. And 839 00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:01,360 Speaker 1: he got canceled with that. That's and she was joking 840 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 1: with it. Someone went through his past. I mean that 841 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,720 Speaker 1: person should be canceled. The person that because I'm gonna 842 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 1: find that something has date raped before and probably worse like, 843 00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,400 Speaker 1: the person that goes to those lengths is a terrible 844 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,080 Speaker 1: Anyone who's one of these people that's like these gotcha 845 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:25,120 Speaker 1: guys that goes out like roots around, they're they're bad 846 00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 1: people too. They've done heinous things. And that's why anyone 847 00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:32,160 Speaker 1: who's super loud about you did this, like you shouldn't 848 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 1: do that. They either think thoughts that are so awful 849 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 1: that they have to like that's why they hate people 850 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: that think the same thoughts and want to call them 851 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 1: out because that it deflects that. That's you know, whenever 852 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,319 Speaker 1: I get mad at you about something, it's because it's 853 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 1: something that I hate about myself and so well, maybe 854 00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:56,080 Speaker 1: their dad bordained themselves in a booth. You know. That 855 00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,600 Speaker 1: was um, I mean, that was a call back to 856 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,359 Speaker 1: something that everyone would get, but it just I would 857 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 1: rather you call back to something that we did at 858 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 1: a show for four people at a show. I mean 859 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 1: Luigi's face right now, I wish you could see it 860 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,880 Speaker 1: is how I feel about that joke, rolling in the 861 00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,360 Speaker 1: back of his head and his eyes are squinting like 862 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 1: he's about to fall asleep, but they're also rolling. It 863 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 1: was B and B right. You know, I'm gonna take 864 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 1: a picture of Luigi's face right now so you can 865 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:28,480 Speaker 1: see how like it was like booth Bourdaine, Bungalow. It 866 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:32,360 Speaker 1: was a nice dry and I say that as a liar. Okay, 867 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 1: next story, Yeah, I wish what's his name? John Wilkes 868 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:40,279 Speaker 1: Booth would come in here and put that joke out 869 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:44,920 Speaker 1: of its misery. I'll be here like Mary Todd, like 870 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 1: he's right here, you freaking point me out. Even though 871 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:51,759 Speaker 1: I love this play that we're watching and I want 872 00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 1: to see how it ends, I would rather see how 873 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,960 Speaker 1: you end. You don't like the play, I know, I 874 00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,320 Speaker 1: really don't care for play. I'm so bored at ways. 875 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 1: Next story, a man goes viral after he posts why 876 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:07,080 Speaker 1: he was ghosted by his date gay man. By the way. 877 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 1: The message from the man he went on the date 878 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:12,160 Speaker 1: was said, hey man, sorry for not messaging until now. 879 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 1: I enjoyed our date last week. But when you said 880 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:18,480 Speaker 1: the phrase put my thinking cap on, it kind of 881 00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,360 Speaker 1: gave me the ick. So I wasn't really interested in 882 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,200 Speaker 1: pursuing things. Also, do you know any like soul, funk, 883 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:30,120 Speaker 1: hip hop, disco kind of vibes? DJ's in Manchester? Wait? 884 00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 1: So then he asked for music reminations after saying like 885 00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:37,440 Speaker 1: I didn't like tell me again what he said? What 886 00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,799 Speaker 1: was that said put my thinking cap on? It turned 887 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:45,880 Speaker 1: him off? I mean, I'm sure is that what a 888 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:52,239 Speaker 1: is that euphemism for I wish you didn't say that? Joe, No, 889 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:58,680 Speaker 1: we can't do this to each other. Comes there are 890 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,600 Speaker 1: sometimes that someone says something like really nerdy, and I'm like, 891 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,920 Speaker 1: but there's no way I would ever tell the person that, 892 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 1: and I would be embarrassed that that would be a 893 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 1: thing that would make me turn off by someone, So 894 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,480 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't tell the Luigi is falling asleep 895 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,760 Speaker 1: in your laugh. It's so funny. Have you ever fallen 896 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: to sleep in class and you just like your like 897 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,280 Speaker 1: doing that. He's looking at me like I'm a teacher, 898 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 1: like he's I'm trying to I have to film this 899 00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:25,880 Speaker 1: you guys. I'm so sorry. I hope people had a 900 00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:30,280 Speaker 1: home ar asleep, like it's just worth that. Um okay. 901 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,200 Speaker 1: So what what I think is that, yes, I might 902 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:37,719 Speaker 1: be also irritated, but thinking kept wouldn't bother me. Though. 903 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,120 Speaker 1: Can you think of anything that anyone's ever said that 904 00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 1: has made you go? When I heard about you? When 905 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 1: I first wrote Brenda back, I sent the back emo 906 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 1: like an emoji or two emojis, and it almost killed 907 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:54,759 Speaker 1: it for me. Right, she was like, I don't know, 908 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:58,080 Speaker 1: I'd have to look through yeah, but she was just like, like, 909 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:02,319 Speaker 1: just write something original, and you so like it maybe 910 00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 1: showed your age and it was the pet rock Moti. 911 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 1: It was a pet the the What was I gonna say? Oh, 912 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: someone said they should have responded to that question. Let 913 00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:15,960 Speaker 1: me put my thinking cap on about the DJs, like 914 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:20,600 Speaker 1: throw it back at the guy. Oh that would be funny. Yeah, 915 00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: I mean this this guy is in the right to 916 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:29,360 Speaker 1: call this guy out. Yeah, that's a dumb reason to 917 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:33,239 Speaker 1: give for why you're not feeling someone. And I don't 918 00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,080 Speaker 1: know it. What has been so scared that I'm gonna 919 00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 1: you know, like when I go on dates sometimes, like 920 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 1: I worry that it's gonna be one thing. I said, 921 00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,480 Speaker 1: if there's one thing that I say, they don't. The 922 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 1: other night, I was like going on this thing and 923 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 1: I was meeting someone and I go, you know, I 924 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,560 Speaker 1: was talking to Noah, like what should like, is there 925 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: any advice you can give me based on you know, 926 00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,160 Speaker 1: the getting too I do book? Like what stay in 927 00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 1: this feminine org whatever it is. And then I was like, 928 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 1: I don't even know if I like this person yet. 929 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 1: I feel like this book is more for like when 930 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 1: you do like someone and you're like, I want this person, 931 00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,319 Speaker 1: I want to like focus in and and I want 932 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,080 Speaker 1: to be in a committed relationship. I'm ready for that 933 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:13,960 Speaker 1: with this person. I don't even know if I like 934 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 1: this person. I'm just gonna be me and me was 935 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,600 Speaker 1: telling this guy that I've read a book called Getting 936 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 1: Too I do, and that I don't know if I'm 937 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 1: a masculine or feminine energy woman. I love that, by 938 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: the way. I love the honesty and the openness. I 939 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,799 Speaker 1: know my friends are gonna laugh so hard when I 940 00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:32,040 Speaker 1: tell like, you're not not only are never supposed to 941 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 1: disclose that you've read this book to the person that 942 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,959 Speaker 1: you catch for using it, but you are not ever 943 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,920 Speaker 1: like it's it's You're just never supposed to reveal anything 944 00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,239 Speaker 1: about it. Let alone give the person the title and 945 00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,640 Speaker 1: say that I've picked up a book called this I 946 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,200 Speaker 1: mean it's just And I told the guy because I 947 00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 1: also I love asking guys um and and and this 948 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 1: guy is someone that I was like, just well, I 949 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,239 Speaker 1: was feeling it out. I didn't even know if I 950 00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:58,200 Speaker 1: liked him or not. But I like this question of like, 951 00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:02,399 Speaker 1: what's the number one problem in a relationship that you've had? 952 00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 1: Like that? So if I asked your ex girlfriends, what 953 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,120 Speaker 1: would they say is your biggest flaw in a relationship, 954 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,359 Speaker 1: like what do you re leads to conflict that you 955 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 1: bring to the table, you know? And uh, I I'm 956 00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,600 Speaker 1: not gonna say what he said, but I'll say what 957 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 1: I said was, um, I think I can be and 958 00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:24,200 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have said that. This was a moment where 959 00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:25,520 Speaker 1: I go, I don't even know if I like this 960 00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,319 Speaker 1: person or not. Still still don't, but I go, I 961 00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,120 Speaker 1: think I just shot myself with the foot whether or not, 962 00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 1: because I go, I think that guys think I'm clinging 963 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,279 Speaker 1: and he was just like, and I go. And the 964 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,720 Speaker 1: truth is when I like someone, I liked to touch 965 00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,279 Speaker 1: them a lot, and I like to spend a lot 966 00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,759 Speaker 1: of time together. And I think I get pegged as clinging, 967 00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:47,040 Speaker 1: not because someone who's very I like my Space and 968 00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:49,680 Speaker 1: I like to be like it's that was an app 969 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,759 Speaker 1: or that that's a website. You're still on you and 970 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 1: your pet rock. You like my space to write so 971 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:01,720 Speaker 1: um friends stir so. Uh I I said, I get clingy. 972 00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,799 Speaker 1: And you can see this guy's like horror in his 973 00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: face kind of of just like what do you mean 974 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,280 Speaker 1: by that? And I was just like, honestly, it's because 975 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 1: any guy that would say that didn't like me, and 976 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,880 Speaker 1: if you like me, you're gonna love the fact that 977 00:49:15,960 --> 00:49:18,600 Speaker 1: I want to fuck you a lot and like hang 978 00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 1: out with you. But if you don't, and if you're 979 00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,840 Speaker 1: scared of commitment, I mean I would. I've described guys 980 00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 1: that I didn't like that really liked me as clingy, 981 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:28,919 Speaker 1: when really they that would have been a perfect amount 982 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,640 Speaker 1: of affection for a guy I liked. So it's I 983 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,160 Speaker 1: think you get labeled clingy if you're pursuing someone who 984 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 1: doesn't actually like you, whereas if you if the person 985 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:40,000 Speaker 1: liked you, they would they wouldn't call them clinging. Because 986 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,399 Speaker 1: I ask someone who's like I go because he goes, 987 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,120 Speaker 1: are you like do you need to check in? You 988 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,880 Speaker 1: need to know where they are? And I'm like, no, 989 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:49,160 Speaker 1: I've never been that way. I'm I literally am the 990 00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,680 Speaker 1: least jealous person in a relationship that I've ever known, 991 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm flawed in many ways, but in 992 00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,040 Speaker 1: terms of jealousy, I think people get think clingy as 993 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,360 Speaker 1: jealousy and like, where are you tell me? Tell me 994 00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 1: you love me? I need to check in? And I 995 00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 1: don't think I'm that, I'm just like I just want 996 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,360 Speaker 1: I want to just like snuggle sometimes and then I 997 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:09,880 Speaker 1: want you to get the funk away from me when 998 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,759 Speaker 1: I when I want you to as well. So I 999 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:15,920 Speaker 1: don't know what um by doing that, by telling him 1000 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,880 Speaker 1: about the book, by being honest about being clingy, What 1001 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,439 Speaker 1: is your takeaway from that? Because this guy still wants 1002 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,400 Speaker 1: to hang out with you? Is there a level like 1003 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: a relevation revelation in the sense of, oh, maybe I wasn't. 1004 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,600 Speaker 1: Maybe it's not right. I didn't tell you that I 1005 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,160 Speaker 1: didn't do the book. I didn't say that I didn't 1006 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 1: do the book. I just told him. I told him 1007 00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,399 Speaker 1: about the book, but I didn't say that I wasn't 1008 00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,240 Speaker 1: still using things from the book that would have defied 1009 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:45,640 Speaker 1: the way I would behave before, but actually aren't. Aren't 1010 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:52,000 Speaker 1: aren't It's not contrary to how I would actually the book. Essentially, 1011 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:53,719 Speaker 1: you can you can look at it as like, oh, 1012 00:50:53,840 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 1: you're tricking a guy. You're doing things opposite of how 1013 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,239 Speaker 1: you normally would do things. But there are a lot 1014 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,080 Speaker 1: of things in life not just about getting me and 1015 00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,239 Speaker 1: that you know are not giving you the results you want. 1016 00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 1: You know, like I just saw this guy on Instagram, 1017 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,920 Speaker 1: Like like if you were working out in someone and 1018 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:11,520 Speaker 1: and you read a book that was like, here's how 1019 00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 1: to have bigger muscles. What do you think that's like 1020 00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 1: just be yourself and just do the curls that you 1021 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:19,120 Speaker 1: know that's you're not being yourself. Man, You're reading a 1022 00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:21,799 Speaker 1: book to learn how to do it. It's like, yeah, 1023 00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:24,200 Speaker 1: because this is actually going to give me the results 1024 00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,600 Speaker 1: I want as opposed to the things I've been doing, 1025 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: which I don't. I'm not an expert in human behavior, 1026 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 1: and so it's based on getting what you really want 1027 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:37,200 Speaker 1: in life, and I just my only question is this 1028 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:43,120 Speaker 1: is that ony fans uh? Which is meant the next story? Actually? Uh? 1029 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 1: Do you think that it's your actions like what you 1030 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:50,640 Speaker 1: would learn from the book, or who you're choosing? I mean, 1031 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 1: I think a lot of it is like you're saying, like, oh, 1032 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 1: I'm not getting what I want. But is it so 1033 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:59,280 Speaker 1: much your actions or it's the person that you're deciding 1034 00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:00,880 Speaker 1: to be with. I think it's I think it's a 1035 00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:04,520 Speaker 1: mixture of both. I think that, um, the book doesn't 1036 00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 1: work on someone who isn't gonna be the right person 1037 00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:10,040 Speaker 1: for you. Is the thing if someone can't give you 1038 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,359 Speaker 1: a commitment and you want one with them, this book 1039 00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,960 Speaker 1: isn't going to trick them into doing that. What this 1040 00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 1: book gives you as someone that is able to give 1041 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:21,680 Speaker 1: you what you want, it facilitates that quicker than um 1042 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:24,920 Speaker 1: the way you've been going about it, so like you know, 1043 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 1: I just I, and now I'm I don't even have 1044 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 1: to think about like oh I should answer it this 1045 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,799 Speaker 1: way and phrase it this way. It's like it comes 1046 00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,920 Speaker 1: kind of natural to me because I'm like, oh I 1047 00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:37,280 Speaker 1: do I don't want to open this door. I actually 1048 00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,400 Speaker 1: want him to order. I really want him to go 1049 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 1: get the waitress and say that we want dessert. I 1050 00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 1: don't really want to get up and do that, whereas 1051 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:44,560 Speaker 1: before I would be like, I'll just do it real 1052 00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 1: quick because I like like things moving fast. It's just like, oh, 1053 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:49,560 Speaker 1: it's kind of nice letting someone else do it and 1054 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:53,200 Speaker 1: just being more receiving, when really, because I like things 1055 00:52:53,239 --> 00:52:57,160 Speaker 1: done so fast that being slower it's like actually giving 1056 00:52:57,200 --> 00:53:00,239 Speaker 1: me what I want, which is like just calmness, and 1057 00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:03,319 Speaker 1: then that way I don't. It's not as frantic, which 1058 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:06,120 Speaker 1: I is more my masculine energy, and it's it's exhausting 1059 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:11,319 Speaker 1: to be that way constantly. Next only fans Ony has 1060 00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:15,359 Speaker 1: backed down from its plans to ban explicit content after 1061 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,040 Speaker 1: being blasted by creators and members. I have a theory. 1062 00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,399 Speaker 1: I also know why they did it. I got I 1063 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,759 Speaker 1: found out it's not because the kids stuff. Yeah, it 1064 00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:28,520 Speaker 1: was about you know, possible child porn and people not 1065 00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 1: wanting to be associated with that. Yes, I think it 1066 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,680 Speaker 1: would be brilliant if their marketing team knew that by 1067 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:38,120 Speaker 1: doing this, it would be all over the papers for free, 1068 00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 1: and they get free marketing and then they back off 1069 00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,240 Speaker 1: from it and it only brings more eyes to the website. 1070 00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,440 Speaker 1: You're not. You were also someone who thought Lady Gaga's 1071 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:53,640 Speaker 1: dog walker set up attack and uh. And you always 1072 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 1: have these conspiracy theories of like I think I think 1073 00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:58,799 Speaker 1: that guy's brother died because he wanted to post about 1074 00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:00,840 Speaker 1: his brother dying and get some likes for it. I 1075 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:02,759 Speaker 1: think he killed his brother instead of he had died 1076 00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:05,239 Speaker 1: of an opioid addiction. Like you always like think the 1077 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:09,040 Speaker 1: worst things of people. But I mean that that's actually 1078 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 1: kind of a good conspiracy theory. I kind of support it. Um. 1079 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:15,640 Speaker 1: I think it's a long way to go about things, 1080 00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:19,200 Speaker 1: and I think, honestly, it is so risky and companies, 1081 00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:23,080 Speaker 1: companies are so risk adverse, just based on like what 1082 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:26,799 Speaker 1: I know from TV, and like these multimedia companies that 1083 00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,560 Speaker 1: have so much money and so much wealth and so 1084 00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,040 Speaker 1: many investors, they never take any risk. That's why you 1085 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:35,680 Speaker 1: see nothing interesting on TV or in music or it. 1086 00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 1: It's all there's so little things that actually are unique, 1087 00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:42,520 Speaker 1: and when they are, and you're like Billie Eilish, it's 1088 00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:44,880 Speaker 1: so different. She's in her bedroom with her brother and 1089 00:54:45,239 --> 00:54:46,839 Speaker 1: she sings like a baby. It's like all of that 1090 00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,719 Speaker 1: was precedented, Like it's it was. It was she was 1091 00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,680 Speaker 1: popular before people invested in or no one takes risks, 1092 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 1: So that to me seems like a huge risk that 1093 00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:58,600 Speaker 1: maybe they could have um predicted would work out. But 1094 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:02,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, and on record, I don't 1095 00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:05,800 Speaker 1: want anyone to die for someone to get likes that. No, 1096 00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:07,080 Speaker 1: I didn't say you one of the one to die. 1097 00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:10,000 Speaker 1: You said. I was just presenting an outlant of scenario 1098 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:13,120 Speaker 1: where you kind of go, I think this guy's kind 1099 00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 1: of happy his brother died. Because I didn't say that. 1100 00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 1: You just go, it's interesting like he seems to be, 1101 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,839 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I think he's mourning and trying to 1102 00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:24,239 Speaker 1: share his feelings because he doesn't usually do that, and 1103 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,080 Speaker 1: social media is a good way to I think turning 1104 00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:30,040 Speaker 1: negative into a positive. But you were being suspicious and 1105 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 1: kind of like this guy using this. We gotta go 1106 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,000 Speaker 1: to break. Let's get back into it when we come 1107 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:41,560 Speaker 1: back with why do I care? Alright, Andrew, hy do 1108 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,359 Speaker 1: I care? I have no idea? Why do I care? 1109 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if you're going to care 1110 00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:50,080 Speaker 1: about this one? You ready? Ye? When Stefani's ex husband 1111 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:55,720 Speaker 1: Gavin rod Do Gavin Rossdale's dating a twentiesothing year old 1112 00:55:56,160 --> 00:56:00,200 Speaker 1: I saw this on wa Do you know her name? No? Oh, 1113 00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:04,160 Speaker 1: it's it's Gwen. It's Gwen. You said you didn't have 1114 00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:08,120 Speaker 1: a problem dating a guy who dated a girl that 1115 00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:11,879 Speaker 1: look like Oh, I would love it. I go, ah, don't. 1116 00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:15,960 Speaker 1: Ironically enough, Pete Lee texted me last night and says 1117 00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm dating a girl. Her name is Nicki, and I 1118 00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:21,960 Speaker 1: go It kind of irritated me only because I'm like, 1119 00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:25,640 Speaker 1: I wanted to be the only Nikki in your life. 1120 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:28,360 Speaker 1: But um, yeah, I guess I got kind of a 1121 00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:30,400 Speaker 1: little bit more jealous than I would have if she 1122 00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 1: just looked like me. And it turns out she's even 1123 00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:38,560 Speaker 1: better looking than me. She looks thirty six and no, um, no, 1124 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:41,560 Speaker 1: I actually was. I liked it, NICKI. I love that 1125 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,520 Speaker 1: because I knew that he probably one of the first 1126 00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 1: things they probably talked about was me, because he was 1127 00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:47,719 Speaker 1: probably like one of my best friends named Nicki, and 1128 00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 1: so I got I was like, oh, I bet their 1129 00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:53,240 Speaker 1: courtship involved a story of me, and maybe she googled 1130 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:54,920 Speaker 1: me and was like, God, this guy has dated a 1131 00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:59,080 Speaker 1: pretty hot girl that made his currency go up. Because 1132 00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,520 Speaker 1: you said that to me recently, where you said that 1133 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:04,120 Speaker 1: I probably helped someone stock a little bit because their 1134 00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:08,279 Speaker 1: girlfriend knows that I have gone for them before, and 1135 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:12,480 Speaker 1: she probably likes him more because we had dated. Yes, 1136 00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 1: I think that. I think that definitely can that makes 1137 00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 1: me feel good. Gwen, Um, I mean she dates Blake 1138 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: Blake Shelton, who is a musician who is kind of 1139 00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 1: like the um and I'm sure he has a bush beer. 1140 00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:33,640 Speaker 1: I mean Gavin Gavin is from and I bet he 1141 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:38,680 Speaker 1: uses glystering in that bedroom. Boy. Yeah, Gwen singers twenty six. 1142 00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 1: She's like an Instagram thought model, Like, I mean, you 1143 00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,080 Speaker 1: know it is what it is. I bet they met 1144 00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 1: on Ryan. I haven't seen him on Ryan but I 1145 00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:49,640 Speaker 1: bet they met him or Instagram maybe Instagram. Goddamn, he's 1146 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:52,040 Speaker 1: so cute. He reminds me of Billy krut Up, who 1147 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:55,400 Speaker 1: is my number one. It's that long, like curly hair 1148 00:57:56,240 --> 00:58:00,440 Speaker 1: that it seems like he ages around his his airline, 1149 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:02,920 Speaker 1: like his hairline stays strong. Really, I haven't seen his 1150 00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,120 Speaker 1: hairline in a while, but um, good for him. And 1151 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:08,560 Speaker 1: gwen Seffani looks like she's twenty six, and I wonder 1152 00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:15,080 Speaker 1: if the girl it looks like this so cool. I mean, 1153 00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:17,360 Speaker 1: she's still it's there's a you know, and I'm not 1154 00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:20,280 Speaker 1: someone who likes to mouth out about celebrities, but um, 1155 00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:22,120 Speaker 1: there's a part of me that resents how young she 1156 00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:25,040 Speaker 1: looks and stays looking. And it looks exhausting to me, 1157 00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 1: is all I'm gonna say. There's sometimes I look at 1158 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 1: j Lo and these girls that just stay young, and 1159 00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: I know how much work it takes, and I just 1160 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 1: go when I'll like you if you if you gain 1161 00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:38,280 Speaker 1: weight and if you have hair, if I see your roots, 1162 00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 1: and if you don't have fake eyelift, like, I'll still like, 1163 00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:43,760 Speaker 1: We'll still like you. You're still talented. And maybe I'm 1164 00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,960 Speaker 1: just talking to myself. Let's get to Slice of Life. 1165 00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 1: It's our special segment today Wednesday. It's where we take 1166 00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:54,800 Speaker 1: a moment from our life, are recording a video that happens, 1167 00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 1: you know, when we don't know we're on camera or 1168 00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,480 Speaker 1: you know, we just take it out side of the 1169 00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,760 Speaker 1: studio and we dissect it and talk about it. Today's 1170 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:07,160 Speaker 1: Slice of Life is a video I captured the other 1171 00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:10,480 Speaker 1: day while Andrew was taking a pizza out of our oven. 1172 00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:14,920 Speaker 1: Um and he did not know I was filming him, 1173 00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:17,480 Speaker 1: but I started filming him about a minute and a 1174 00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:20,280 Speaker 1: half after he had already been struggling to get this 1175 00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:22,800 Speaker 1: pizza out. If you haven't seen it, he did post 1176 00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 1: it on his Instagram um on his main post Andrew 1177 00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:29,520 Speaker 1: T Colin on there you can watch it. The feedback 1178 00:59:29,560 --> 00:59:32,440 Speaker 1: Guy got from this was incredible and I do want 1179 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:34,400 Speaker 1: to go through some of the comments that people wrote in, 1180 00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 1: but let's go ahead and listen to what happened and 1181 00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 1: I will narrate. You can also chime in. So he's 1182 00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:45,320 Speaker 1: trying to get he's trying to get the pizza out 1183 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:51,040 Speaker 1: of the oven on the top rack UH with a 1184 00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:54,080 Speaker 1: plastic spatula, and he has a plate in his left 1185 00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 1: hand and he's putting the spatial in. He's refusing to 1186 00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:59,760 Speaker 1: pull out the rack like I suggested. But that's okay. Um. 1187 00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:02,560 Speaker 1: He now attacking it from the right side and kind 1188 01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,920 Speaker 1: of moving it. Oh, it seems to be working. It's 1189 01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 1: shifting out, it's moving off the rack. It's um. Oh, 1190 01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:13,160 Speaker 1: now it's being pushed further back. Um, it's oh, well, 1191 01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,280 Speaker 1: it seems seems to be getting Bro's okay, it's moved 1192 01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,120 Speaker 1: on about a half an inch forward. Now he is 1193 01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:21,200 Speaker 1: putting the spatilor underneath. It's still not pulling out the 1194 01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 1: rack or attempting to do so. Now the pizza has 1195 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:28,160 Speaker 1: now slipped. Oh, this is the video isn't shot right, 1196 01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:35,840 Speaker 1: but the he's looking for a h holder. So what 1197 01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:38,240 Speaker 1: happens with the pizza is that it falls between two 1198 01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:41,600 Speaker 1: of the racks, like two of the little um bars 1199 01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:43,880 Speaker 1: on the rack, and then half of the pizza just 1200 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:48,200 Speaker 1: starts is completely vertical, going down and slipping and dripping 1201 01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:51,360 Speaker 1: into the pizza oven. And um, he's looking for a 1202 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:54,520 Speaker 1: pot holder or something to pull out the rack. Um. 1203 01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,320 Speaker 1: And I said, you know, I don't think sometimes I 1204 01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,840 Speaker 1: think boys are so scared of things that they don't 1205 01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:02,120 Speaker 1: need be scared of like burning their hand on a rack. 1206 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:04,240 Speaker 1: You can just use a paper towel kind of like 1207 01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,880 Speaker 1: they wouldn't burn you. And I think that people guys 1208 01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 1: just don't understand that they are so cautious. It's so 1209 01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:15,240 Speaker 1: funny because men are so daredevil's, sporty, strong callous hands, 1210 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,040 Speaker 1: but they can't they're so scared of a rack and 1211 01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,920 Speaker 1: they need to find an oven. Mid Instead of just 1212 01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,040 Speaker 1: using a paper towel to like gently pull out a rack, 1213 01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:23,440 Speaker 1: you could just ball it up. You could just do 1214 01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,280 Speaker 1: to you know, ball it in the way that it 1215 01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:28,320 Speaker 1: was just crumpled, use the li at old napkin and 1216 01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:30,280 Speaker 1: um and you refuse to pull out the rack. It 1217 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:33,480 Speaker 1: slipped into the thing. And then and then well I 1218 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 1: used to have a joke only about like four years 1219 01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 1: ago where I've never used an oven in my life. 1220 01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 1: Uh right, I thought about how like an oven compared 1221 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,920 Speaker 1: to a microwave. It's like it just shows like a 1222 01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:47,640 Speaker 1: sign of like you have to be an adult now, 1223 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:51,600 Speaker 1: like it's time to have a family. Yeah, but uh 1224 01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 1: so I never really said about rolling joints. I'm like, 1225 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:56,600 Speaker 1: why would I roll a joint instead of putting it 1226 01:01:56,920 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 1: a pipe? I go that's like it's like microwaving versus 1227 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 1: a joint is like an oven, and it's just like 1228 01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,320 Speaker 1: it's the same ship. Yeah, same ship. Agree. I mean 1229 01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,640 Speaker 1: some people would say bagel bites, do you oven or 1230 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:10,640 Speaker 1: do you microwave? Someone just say you got a toaster 1231 01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,720 Speaker 1: of him, because then it's not as crispy, then it's 1232 01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,760 Speaker 1: too chewy. Yeah, I don't know. Anyway, there's something that 1233 01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 1: makes you feel like your jota de laurentis when you 1234 01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:21,360 Speaker 1: just put a frozen pizza in an oven, or like 1235 01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,760 Speaker 1: anything that could be microwaved in an oven, Like I 1236 01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:28,640 Speaker 1: feel like I'm suddenly emerald. I think, yeah, yeah, it's 1237 01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:32,440 Speaker 1: like but I do, like I get I get frustrated 1238 01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:36,960 Speaker 1: because like I must have eaten probably twelve pizzas in 1239 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:40,680 Speaker 1: the last you know months, Yeah, yeah, three or three hours, 1240 01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:44,440 Speaker 1: and uh, and I've taken it out of there the 1241 01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 1: same exact way. It's so annoying when when you do 1242 01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:50,920 Speaker 1: something on your own thousands of times and then when 1243 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:53,840 Speaker 1: you have one audience member or ten audience and and 1244 01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:56,760 Speaker 1: it just doesn't go the right way. Yeah, And it 1245 01:02:56,880 --> 01:02:58,960 Speaker 1: was just very frustrating, and I was just like I 1246 01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:01,960 Speaker 1: would almost argue, I know, when you the eye got it. 1247 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:03,400 Speaker 1: I just want to play the eye got it again 1248 01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:06,640 Speaker 1: because you can hear I should have seen the anger 1249 01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:11,040 Speaker 1: that would proceed or proceed this video coming with this. 1250 01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:12,920 Speaker 1: I got it, and I just want to I just 1251 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,640 Speaker 1: want to ask if the way I say pull the 1252 01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:19,200 Speaker 1: rack out is um what you would? Can you say 1253 01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:25,200 Speaker 1: the word naggie? Is it? Is it naggie? And I 1254 01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:26,960 Speaker 1: really want to. I really want to know, because I 1255 01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:29,040 Speaker 1: I promise you I'm trying not to be a nag 1256 01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:31,200 Speaker 1: and I was. I was observing this for a while 1257 01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,080 Speaker 1: and thinking about how I want the tone of my 1258 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,720 Speaker 1: voice to come across, because first of all, I was filming, 1259 01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:37,919 Speaker 1: so I knew i'd be accountable to it, and also 1260 01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:40,680 Speaker 1: I know that Andrew doesn't want me to be. I 1261 01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:42,680 Speaker 1: didn't want to be like pull the rack out dummy, 1262 01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,400 Speaker 1: which is what I wanted to say, um because it 1263 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,000 Speaker 1: was so frustrating to watch, or like that's my initial 1264 01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:49,360 Speaker 1: lits like in the bag with a little devil on 1265 01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:51,640 Speaker 1: my shoulder, right. So I just want to know if 1266 01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:58,120 Speaker 1: my tone was naggy and then listen to his I 1267 01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:05,800 Speaker 1: got it, you can rack maybe, Oh, I get it? 1268 01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:09,600 Speaker 1: Wasn't that bad? I sent so much hatred in it. 1269 01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:12,439 Speaker 1: I thought, if that was like the ocean coming out 1270 01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:16,280 Speaker 1: like before tsunami, and everyone goes, oh my god, look 1271 01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,040 Speaker 1: at it so fun. We can go play out in 1272 01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:20,760 Speaker 1: the sea. And then I that's what I did. I go, 1273 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:22,920 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is gonna be so fun. And 1274 01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:24,840 Speaker 1: then when you at the end, when you catch me 1275 01:04:24,880 --> 01:04:27,720 Speaker 1: filming you and you go, fuck you. I that's when 1276 01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:30,880 Speaker 1: it was like. That was when I saw the wave 1277 01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,360 Speaker 1: and I started I should have started running, but I 1278 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:38,080 Speaker 1: also shouldn't have been out in the surf poken around. Well, yes, 1279 01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:42,200 Speaker 1: and the tsunami started like the golf course. Well, the 1280 01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:46,080 Speaker 1: earthquake started way before that. Yeah. Yeah, and it was 1281 01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 1: like rumbling through the ocean. Yes, the before that ractor 1282 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:56,800 Speaker 1: scale was had noticed a couple of Yeah. I know 1283 01:04:56,920 --> 01:05:00,560 Speaker 1: it's not fun to be called a nag a nag person, 1284 01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:04,080 Speaker 1: but you know, you know, there's no other word for it. 1285 01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:08,920 Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, I mean the the the man when 1286 01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:11,760 Speaker 1: he's a nagg, Like, what do people say, you're such 1287 01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:15,840 Speaker 1: a know what, you're such a boss? Um, thank you sir, 1288 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:22,000 Speaker 1: I'll do whatever you say. Yeah, you're such a earner. Um, 1289 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: can I blow you more? What is it called. Yeah, 1290 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:29,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, but there's all all you want is 1291 01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:31,640 Speaker 1: a woman is not to be a nag, not to 1292 01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:33,520 Speaker 1: be a whore, not to be a tease. Those are 1293 01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,400 Speaker 1: my three things that I don't want to be. More 1294 01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:37,320 Speaker 1: than anything in the world. I'd rather be a bitch 1295 01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:40,240 Speaker 1: a count like my mom is. Her trigger word is bitch. 1296 01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:42,800 Speaker 1: You can't even call her a bee, which I amended 1297 01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 1: it to because I used to realize if you said bitch, 1298 01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 1: she would fly off, and so sometimes I would go 1299 01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:49,280 Speaker 1: for the jugguler as my dad saidn't call her be 1300 01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:51,520 Speaker 1: bitch when I was really met and my mom cannot 1301 01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:54,840 Speaker 1: handle it. I can handle bitch and cunt I can't handle, 1302 01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:57,919 Speaker 1: and now I can handle nag. But um, I felt 1303 01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:01,479 Speaker 1: like when I said naggery or a couple of days ago, 1304 01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:06,720 Speaker 1: it triggered you, Like, that's like a word. I mean, 1305 01:06:06,760 --> 01:06:09,080 Speaker 1: it sounded like the N words. So that wasn't fun 1306 01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:12,640 Speaker 1: to hear really loud in our apartment building. But uh, 1307 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:16,360 Speaker 1: I guess that word isn't that great. Yeah, it was 1308 01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 1: funny almost that I was like, that's the N word 1309 01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:23,520 Speaker 1: for women is nagger. I mean, I feel I can't 1310 01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:27,320 Speaker 1: I don't even feel comfortable saying that right now. You 1311 01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:32,200 Speaker 1: and I was just like, we have neighbors concrime, don't 1312 01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:38,120 Speaker 1: say neighbor neighbor uh the uh yeah. But before that, 1313 01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:41,560 Speaker 1: there was like a comment about me not charging the 1314 01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,880 Speaker 1: battery on my thing. So I think it was like 1315 01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,760 Speaker 1: an addition. You have one of those like hyper vault 1316 01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,680 Speaker 1: things I put on my Instagram where it's like like 1317 01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:54,240 Speaker 1: a massager thing that like goes and uh, he had 1318 01:06:54,280 --> 01:06:57,000 Speaker 1: been using it and he on his arm and he 1319 01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:58,840 Speaker 1: he just left it on, like the green light was on. 1320 01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:01,040 Speaker 1: I saw in the couch and I go, hey, um, 1321 01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:03,440 Speaker 1: and I believe I said like this, you correct me. 1322 01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:05,360 Speaker 1: I think I just said, hey, you should turn this 1323 01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,840 Speaker 1: off because the battery runs out. And so I just 1324 01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:09,120 Speaker 1: turned it off and I just go, next time, just 1325 01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,600 Speaker 1: turn it off, and then I put it down. And 1326 01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:15,120 Speaker 1: then that that was right before the pizza incident. And 1327 01:07:15,400 --> 01:07:19,960 Speaker 1: oh boy, yeah, I mean I just uh, it's yeah, 1328 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:23,840 Speaker 1: the biggest fight we've ever had. Yeah, it was a 1329 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:26,560 Speaker 1: good one. It was. It was like Jerry Springer levels 1330 01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:30,640 Speaker 1: of screaming and it ended pretty funny. I'm I'm surprised 1331 01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:33,560 Speaker 1: you didn't we literally go it's because of you. It's 1332 01:07:33,560 --> 01:07:36,880 Speaker 1: because of your mom, and I go, you're you're dead. Yeah. 1333 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,400 Speaker 1: I didn't hear that part until you told me later on. 1334 01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:43,520 Speaker 1: I just was like, I think I yelled, go to 1335 01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:47,600 Speaker 1: it's all about your mom, dude, it's not me. Fucking 1336 01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:50,240 Speaker 1: deal with it. And then I screamed and left and 1337 01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:53,440 Speaker 1: then laughed on my run and had a pretty good run. 1338 01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,280 Speaker 1: Gotta be honest, I'm sure your time there was a 1339 01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:59,400 Speaker 1: rainbow on my run, and I was like, I was right, 1340 01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:02,400 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know. I didn't think that at all. 1341 01:08:03,200 --> 01:08:06,960 Speaker 1: Final thought, there was also a rainbow after our storm, 1342 01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:09,520 Speaker 1: much like you know, rainbow show up after a lot 1343 01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 1: of storm. We I I was able to reflect upon it. 1344 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,960 Speaker 1: We didn't talk that night. I went um out and 1345 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:20,120 Speaker 1: then I got home and you were already asleep, and 1346 01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:23,880 Speaker 1: uh and I knew, I mean I knew you were 1347 01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:27,720 Speaker 1: just like on the phone with Brenna, just texting her 1348 01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:30,360 Speaker 1: about it, like I'm sure she was like, you guys 1349 01:08:30,360 --> 01:08:33,320 Speaker 1: were just talking ship and which is fine. It's like 1350 01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:35,519 Speaker 1: you got you go off in your corner and you like, 1351 01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:38,519 Speaker 1: you talk to the people who you love you and 1352 01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,400 Speaker 1: you vent and you get support. So I was just like, oh, 1353 01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:43,439 Speaker 1: I'm sure, he's just in there like saying how much 1354 01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:45,519 Speaker 1: he hates me, looking at places to move in with 1355 01:08:45,560 --> 01:08:47,200 Speaker 1: her and like moving out and stuff like that, all 1356 01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:52,080 Speaker 1: that whole thing. And I know you so well, dude, 1357 01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:56,840 Speaker 1: I could predict. I bet I could honestly verbatim, like 1358 01:08:57,360 --> 01:09:00,160 Speaker 1: I know exactly what you like texted her everything, like 1359 01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,960 Speaker 1: I just know. Um, but maybe I'm wrong, But I 1360 01:09:03,000 --> 01:09:05,639 Speaker 1: think that you probably were like, I'm gonna fucking move out, 1361 01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:08,720 Speaker 1: and you probably googled like two bedroom apartment, what you 1362 01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:11,360 Speaker 1: could get for that, and yeah, and then you were 1363 01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:13,360 Speaker 1: like I could just do the podcast, like I don't 1364 01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:15,360 Speaker 1: even need the podcast. You probably looked at your contract 1365 01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:17,120 Speaker 1: to see if, like if I fired you from this, 1366 01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:19,320 Speaker 1: would you be able to stay on? Like I didn't 1367 01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:21,439 Speaker 1: look at that. I mean, that's a little extreme, really, 1368 01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:24,920 Speaker 1: but I guess no, No, No, I just was thinking 1369 01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:27,080 Speaker 1: like no, I didn't have those thoughts, Like I was 1370 01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:30,280 Speaker 1: just like this, I mean, I go, cana, are we 1371 01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:32,240 Speaker 1: gonna what are we gonna do tomorrow? Because I don't ever, 1372 01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:33,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to fight on this podcast. And I 1373 01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,240 Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know, I texted Noah being like 1374 01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:38,400 Speaker 1: we're fighting right now. I don't know if we're gonna 1375 01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:40,679 Speaker 1: make up by tomorrow, what do we do? What? What's 1376 01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:43,960 Speaker 1: the protocol here? And um, and I was like, I'm 1377 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:46,080 Speaker 1: not gonna not do the show with him if we're fighting, 1378 01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,400 Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna be like, um, Andrew's sick today 1379 01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:51,240 Speaker 1: because I told him to go to therapy and screamed 1380 01:09:51,240 --> 01:09:55,000 Speaker 1: at him about the pizza and so um. Yeah, so 1381 01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,080 Speaker 1: I just I I we had to but it was 1382 01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:59,920 Speaker 1: the morning, and we U I had to do the podcast, 1383 01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:03,120 Speaker 1: and so I was like, and I know that like 1384 01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:05,040 Speaker 1: for me, I just need to get an apology out 1385 01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:07,600 Speaker 1: without like interruptions, and so I just like wrote it 1386 01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:10,479 Speaker 1: in a card and was like able to write it 1387 01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:14,000 Speaker 1: much easier than saying it. And so I just put 1388 01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:16,240 Speaker 1: a card in front of your door. Um, thank god, 1389 01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:17,720 Speaker 1: I have so many cards in my room. And I 1390 01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:25,479 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this car already had that car. That's insane, really, 1391 01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,720 Speaker 1: But I mean like the card it was that like 1392 01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,400 Speaker 1: gets on people's nerves, has like a card for each thing. 1393 01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:34,680 Speaker 1: Maybe it was it's a number one best friend and 1394 01:10:34,680 --> 01:10:37,080 Speaker 1: it was said like I'm so grateful for I forget 1395 01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:42,679 Speaker 1: what the inside said. Sorry, yeah, I said, I was projecting. Yeah, 1396 01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:45,519 Speaker 1: it's a projector screen. It was like, what do I 1397 01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,559 Speaker 1: have in common with this? Well? I did it all 1398 01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:51,719 Speaker 1: over you. Um yeah, I mean I just like saw 1399 01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:56,479 Speaker 1: what I contributed to it and was realized that I 1400 01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:59,559 Speaker 1: don't need to do that be that way, and I 1401 01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:01,920 Speaker 1: want to be better. And yeah, it worked out. And 1402 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:04,040 Speaker 1: then we ran into each other at Starbucks and he 1403 01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:06,080 Speaker 1: had already read the card. I was walking the dogs. 1404 01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:08,240 Speaker 1: We ran to each other at Starbucks. I was picking 1405 01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:11,360 Speaker 1: him up breakfast in a coffee to be like here 1406 01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:14,120 Speaker 1: you go, like, buddy, I'm sorry. We hugged and it 1407 01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:16,759 Speaker 1: was all good. Yeah, And I wrote you a text, 1408 01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:19,280 Speaker 1: a pretty long text that I didn't send yet, and 1409 01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:21,559 Speaker 1: then you just read it on my end of your phone. 1410 01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,519 Speaker 1: And then and then I watched her read it, and 1411 01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:26,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think we I think we both 1412 01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:30,559 Speaker 1: had like whatever. I mean it it is what it is. 1413 01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:34,400 Speaker 1: I I I feel like we both, like I really 1414 01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:36,760 Speaker 1: want the best for each other. It's just getting it's 1415 01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:39,879 Speaker 1: our own brains getting in the way sometimes, yes, and egos. 1416 01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:43,920 Speaker 1: It's all about like when you like that Jocko Willing 1417 01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:47,960 Speaker 1: think yesterday that I was sharing, like when you let 1418 01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:52,600 Speaker 1: someone's whatever throw you off and make you explode in 1419 01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:55,360 Speaker 1: a way, it's up to you, like I don't. I 1420 01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,960 Speaker 1: know there's no free will, and I'm certain of that, 1421 01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:01,400 Speaker 1: but I do know that there are things in my 1422 01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:04,720 Speaker 1: arsenal of self care that I can do instead of 1423 01:12:05,320 --> 01:12:09,000 Speaker 1: when I feel provoked and feel like screaming at someone 1424 01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:10,760 Speaker 1: and going for the juggular like I did with you, 1425 01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:14,280 Speaker 1: that I can there's other options and that I can 1426 01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:16,519 Speaker 1: turn to those, and that I also know that that 1427 01:12:17,320 --> 01:12:21,960 Speaker 1: is my If I were centered and like liked myself 1428 01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:26,160 Speaker 1: and felt good about myself and um, I was really 1429 01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:30,160 Speaker 1: tapped into my love for you and like gratitude for you, 1430 01:12:30,880 --> 01:12:33,680 Speaker 1: it wouldn't have bubbled up like that. So it reminds. 1431 01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:35,920 Speaker 1: It's a reminder for me that like, I need to 1432 01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:38,400 Speaker 1: do better and like and I don't. And you were like, 1433 01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:40,840 Speaker 1: I don't want you to be like typic toeing around 1434 01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:42,320 Speaker 1: me and feel like you're a bad person. I was like, 1435 01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:44,760 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I'm a bad person because 1436 01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:47,439 Speaker 1: I yelled all those things that you I know that 1437 01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm I'm just not perfect. I'm I don't think I was. 1438 01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:53,479 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna keep making mistakes, like I'm going 1439 01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:56,639 Speaker 1: to not pull the rack out when I make pizzas sometimes, 1440 01:12:56,680 --> 01:13:02,400 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do the opposite thing honest is get no. 1441 01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:06,360 Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I'm getting o and uh bourdain in 1442 01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,879 Speaker 1: the booth. Sorry, no, no, no. What I'll do honestly 1443 01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:14,479 Speaker 1: is uh like, I'm not gonna like if I feel 1444 01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:18,640 Speaker 1: like there's like nagging going on or whatever, like the 1445 01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:21,200 Speaker 1: first time it happens, I'll just be like, I won't 1446 01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:23,360 Speaker 1: even get angry at the point, like an hour later, 1447 01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:25,200 Speaker 1: I'll be like, hey, do you mind? Like I I 1448 01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:28,640 Speaker 1: could not be so sensitive too, because I do know. 1449 01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:30,120 Speaker 1: But you are going to be what you are. I 1450 01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:32,960 Speaker 1: think what you if I were in your shoes or 1451 01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:35,920 Speaker 1: in times where I've been felt like triggered by things 1452 01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:39,240 Speaker 1: that build up like that, you can't say to yourself, oh, 1453 01:13:39,280 --> 01:13:40,680 Speaker 1: next time, I'm just gonna get it as soon as 1454 01:13:40,680 --> 01:13:43,960 Speaker 1: it comes up. You just need to do the things 1455 01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,559 Speaker 1: in the past that have helped you conquer other things 1456 01:13:46,560 --> 01:13:49,439 Speaker 1: that you've been able to get over. And like, like 1457 01:13:49,479 --> 01:13:51,280 Speaker 1: I said, I have an arsenal things that have helped 1458 01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:56,639 Speaker 1: me conquering eating disorder, alcoholism, uh, smoking pot um uh, 1459 01:13:56,920 --> 01:14:00,559 Speaker 1: saying hateful things to my mom, being jealous of other people. 1460 01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:03,280 Speaker 1: I know all the things to do. Because I've done 1461 01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:05,400 Speaker 1: all those things, I can apply those to this as well. 1462 01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:09,000 Speaker 1: So I think, yeah, that's what that's what I learned. 1463 01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:11,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. Um, but we're good. Yeah, I think 1464 01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:17,040 Speaker 1: we're good. I mean search even though it's Tuesday in 1465 01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:24,240 Speaker 1: your head, still have the Zillo search hilarious? Yeah, keep 1466 01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:27,120 Speaker 1: it up. Uh, put out some offers. All right, guys, 1467 01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:28,880 Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening to the show. We'll 1468 01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:32,040 Speaker 1: be here tomorrow on the podcast. Thank you, Busti's follow 1469 01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:33,960 Speaker 1: us on Nikki Glazer Pod, leave us voice memos, will 1470 01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:39,600 Speaker 1: get to um the fan tracks tomorrow and don't be 1471 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:43,080 Speaker 1: good out there, and uh, Luigi is breaking up because 1472 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:44,760 Speaker 1: he knows this is the tone I have when he 1473 01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,800 Speaker 1: gets to go for a walk. Yeah, okay, dope, be 1474 01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:53,960 Speaker 1: cool and uh