1 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:13,400 Speaker 1: This is teddy tea pod with cabinet. Guys. Welcome to 2 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: this week's teddy Te Pod. I am so excited to 3 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: have Tori Spelling and Whitney Carson joining me. We're gonna 4 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: talk about all the things that you know that we've 5 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: given up since being a mom, or maybe things that 6 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: we've added or not. But really it's just gonna be 7 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: a super fun episode. I'm so excited to talk with them. 8 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: You guys also have to tune into Tories podcast. So 9 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: good nine O two one, o MG amazing. Plus, Whitney 10 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: has an incredible diaper line bag coming out with Juju b. 11 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: For updates on her diaper line bag, follow her on 12 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: Instagram at Whitney Carson. So the first segment is people 13 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: wrote in questions, so we're just gonna rapid fire go 14 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: through them. Uh you are a new mommy, right, Whitney, Yes, 15 00:00:57,160 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm a new mommy. I'm he's three months, three and 16 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: a half months. Oh my goodness, congratulations. How are you feeling? 17 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: I feel absolutely crazy. Uh. Everybody's like, oh my gosh, 18 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: it's gonna get so easy, and I'm like, when is 19 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 1: it going to get easy? Because still like no sleep. 20 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to work and like be a mom, it's insane. 21 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: You guys, I don't know how you guys do it. 22 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: You guys are incredible, Like Tori, you seriously like an author, 23 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: your producer. You're like, I don't know how you have 24 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: five kids and you still work, Like how busy? People's 25 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: the best that my moms can get so much done. Seriously, 26 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 1: I'm like, what is the secret? But Tori, don't you 27 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: think it's the hardest after the first because that's when 28 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: like your life totally like you're not fully ready when 29 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: all of it's happening, Like you think in your head like, oh, 30 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: I know what's gonna happen. I know exactly what being 31 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: a mom is gonna be like, and then all of 32 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 1: a sudden, it's like whack, No, you had no idea. 33 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: That's how I feel. I feel like I've gotten like 34 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 1: whip flash, and like I seriously thought before I got pregnant, like, oh, 35 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: this is gonna be so easy, Like I've seen my 36 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: sister in law's do it like they've got it together, 37 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: and then it happens to me and I'm like, this 38 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: is so hard. It's amazing. But it's what about the 39 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: fact that you had COVID when you were giving birth. 40 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 1: Can you believe that not COVID when you were giving birth? Yes? 41 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: So I actually so. For the whole nine months that 42 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: I was pregnant, we didn't go anywhere, like literally, like 43 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: no restaurants, like nothing, because I was so worried and 44 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: I didn't get it. I didn't get it. I didn't 45 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: I didn't get it. And then when I went into labor, 46 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: they tested me for COVID and I was positive for COVID. 47 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: It was mind blowing. I was like, of course this 48 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 1: would happen to me right now when it actually matters. Um. 49 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: But luckily everybody was healthy, everybody was safe, the baby 50 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: was good. Um. But it was so scary. It was 51 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: the scariest day of my life. Well, I got emotional 52 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: looking at the picture of you with like your mask on, 53 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: because when I had baby Dove, it was a couple 54 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: of weeks before everything kind of shut down, so it 55 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 1: was we could still have visitors and all that kind 56 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: of stuff, and seeing that picture of you, I was like, oh, 57 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: my gosh, I can't imagine. It was hard. It was 58 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: honestly a really hard birth, and I've just kind of 59 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: been struggling I've been kind of open on it with 60 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: social media. If you guys follow me tour, you probably 61 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: are like, I have no idea who you are, but 62 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: that is not just kidding. I know who you are. 63 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: I'm a big fan, so I'd be honored to expect 64 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: you to know who I am. So don't work, Oh, Presley, 65 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: I actually watched your reality show, um growing up, So yeah, 66 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: I know who you are. Well, I know you're two 67 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: on to so okay, how do you make sense? But 68 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: my mom is obsessed, so I've heard it about it. 69 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: Go oh my gosh. But I definitely feel older now 70 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: that I have a kid. I'm like, I'm twenty seven 71 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 1: now seven Yeah, I'll turn twenty eight in October. But anyway, 72 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: it was just a couple of weeks, guys, not all, 73 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 1: but I'm going to be and literally in a couple 74 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: of weeks like, well you don't look you look amazing. Um, 75 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, the birth was just kind of a crazy experience. 76 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: I just I wanted that, like normal vaginal delivery so 77 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: bad and just with complications and his heart rate was 78 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: too high and I pushed for so long and they're 79 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: just like, we're gonna have to do an emergency c sections, 80 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: so they rushed me in and cut me open. And 81 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys had c sections, but 82 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: it's really it's Tori. You have have you had it 83 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:53,599 Speaker 1: for kids? All five c sections? Five It was the 84 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: same experience that you're talking about with my first. Our 85 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: seventeen hours in labor and then just his heart rate, 86 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: So emergency. I think it's almost better that way. I 87 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: was devastated that I didn't get to do it vaginally, 88 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,679 Speaker 1: but um, if I had had time to think about 89 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: a C section, it would have sent me over the edge. 90 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: So the fact that they were like, we're going now, 91 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: I was like what And then it's just too late. 92 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: You're in it. So yeah, and then you have the baby. Um, 93 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: so did you do a vback for your second or no? 94 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 1: You didn't know? And I don't really believe in regrets, 95 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 1: but that is one of my regrets that my doctor 96 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: was like, you didn't dilate fully, like you only hit 97 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: a certain point. It's not going to happen the second time. 98 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:34,919 Speaker 1: But I wish I would have tried, because if it 99 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:39,720 Speaker 1: had work, then I could have had all mine, you know, vaginally, Okay, 100 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: because I'm trying to debate. I'm like, I don't know 101 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: if I want to go through all of that again. 102 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: I mean, the pushing, honestly was the worst part, just 103 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: because there was no progression at all, Like I would 104 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: just push, push, push, push, and like his head would 105 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: just not come out. And the doctor said my pelvis 106 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: was shaped weird, Like have you guys ever heard that? 107 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 1: They said the same thing, mind, But what it caused 108 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: an issue for me was actually getting pregnant because my 109 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: pelvis was tilted. So it was very hard for me 110 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: to get pregnant naturally. Was my first two I don't 111 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: know how miraculously got pregnant at thirty eight with nothing 112 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: after I v f an insemination with the other. But 113 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: they said that my pelt, my pelvis was tilted and 114 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:23,359 Speaker 1: that's why it like wasn't going up and over. Yeah, okay, 115 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: so weird, but anyway, so that's what happened to me 116 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: and C section, and I feel like I've mourned like 117 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: that natural delivery for so long, but I finally come 118 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 1: to terms with like, you know what, everybody who gives birth, 119 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: no matter what it is, is a hero to me, 120 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: because it is freaking hard and it's amazing, so I'm 121 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: like finally like come to terms with it. But and 122 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,119 Speaker 1: I mean bright side, you're not gonna pee your pants, 123 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: That's I mean true. I had I can't jump on 124 00:06:55,600 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: a trampoline. I can't break it to you guys, I've 125 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 1: had five C sections. That's not true. Are you mean no? 126 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: It still happens, so there's no works No, I mean 127 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: it's not crazy. I you know, I have friends that 128 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: definitely like it happens to them more. But I think 129 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: just as you get older, naturally things are not working 130 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: the way I used to it. I definitely feel that still, 131 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: Like I'll work out sometimes and I'll be like I 132 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: am exhausted, Like my hips are totally jacked up, Like 133 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: this baby put me through the ringer for sure. I 134 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: don't know how I'm going to go back to dancing. 135 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: That's gonna be a whole Well, you're you just had 136 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: a bit. It just takes time, and the first one 137 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: that really you're just you gotta like just give yourself 138 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: grace and know that you're gonna like come to but 139 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: also know like you're in it with so many other moms. 140 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: Even if I like that now more moms are talking 141 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: about all the things that they go through because I 142 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: feel like back ten years ago, even that wasn't happening, 143 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: Like people weren't being my vocal on social media. People 144 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: weren't talking the good, the bad, and the ugly of 145 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: you know, childbirth or how you feel afterwards. Yes, I 146 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 1: like for me, when I see other moms struggling, like 147 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: it's kind of like, oh good, so everybody's going through this. Yeah, 148 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: So it's really important too, especially for me to be 149 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: honest and open about it, because I'm like that has 150 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: helped me so much when other people do that, so 151 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: hopefully hopefully other people can relate and we can all 152 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 1: just come together and be strong. So the next thing 153 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 1: that they asked, which now we already know the answer, 154 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: is did you guys get the husband stitch? Which I 155 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: got with the first and then they said I didn't 156 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 1: need it afterwards, which I was like, that's even worse, 157 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: like the husband's what do they mean you don't need it? 158 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:51,319 Speaker 1: Like I was already prepared, like there was no me, 159 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 1: Like there was no ripping. Oh, there was no ripping. 160 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: I was like that, I don't know what's worse. I 161 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: feel like it's better that you get a stitch and 162 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: no that she's down there than not. Oh my gosh, well, 163 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: I have no idea. I mean I was dilated to 164 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: a ten um, so I didn't have obviously any ripping 165 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 1: or anything, and it just kind of went back the 166 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: husband's stitch they mean like sex right, they say they 167 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: call it the husband's stitch because it's supposed to make 168 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: it better afterwards. But my doctor wasn't saying to me 169 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: like do you want the husband stitch? He just stitched. 170 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: But like then you know, you realize after what You're like, 171 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,839 Speaker 1: oh this is really painful and what what else is 172 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: going on down there? And then they feel you in. 173 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 1: But I heard now it's a thing that the doctors 174 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,679 Speaker 1: are like, hey, bro like wing wing to the husband, 175 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: Like I'm just gonna do it anyway, whether there's or not. 176 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: It's like instant badge rejuvenation, Like is that true? Like 177 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:52,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, who knows. Maybe my doctor came in. 178 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: He had like a baseball cap on. He's like, what's 179 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: that part of people? I'm like, I'm like ten centimeters dilated? 180 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: Can we like get this show on the Like I 181 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 1: hate to bother you. What what would you guys say? 182 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: Was your number one hospital bag necessity, hospital bag necessity. 183 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:14,600 Speaker 1: I loved having my own shampoo conditioner and like my 184 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: own soap because I felt like after I had the surgery, 185 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: I was just like not myself at all, So just 186 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: to have a piece of something at home was like 187 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 1: so key for me. So I would say, like my 188 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: shampoon conditioner, like to like in the hospital impressed. I know. 189 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: I was like what I had to I was a 190 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 1: complete disaster. I was like sweating, like my hair is 191 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: just like all over the place, so I had to 192 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 1: there was like blood, I don't know where I was. 193 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm not mad, and I have the same hair stylist. 194 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: We would have been like Laura, where you come over 195 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: because I couldn't even be bothered to wash my hair today, 196 00:10:54,240 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: let alone right after. I know. But was a long 197 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,600 Speaker 1: phone cord because I like to like have music or things, 198 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: and the first time around, I had a little tiny 199 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 1: phone cord and I was like trying to like use 200 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: it while I was plugged in. But I liked having 201 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 1: it so I could like have my music near me, 202 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: like I had a playlist for the last one, like 203 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: I learned things throughout. And also like comfy, uh like 204 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: a comfy road because I was like, the hospital gown, yep, yep, yeah, 205 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: I just used the hospital gown. I didn't even really care. 206 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: I did bring a ton of that though, and and 207 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: the chord is key. That was very key for me 208 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: because I was like texting everybody and any so it 209 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,679 Speaker 1: was it was good to have that right there. Next year, 210 00:11:40,040 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: I actually designed my own hospital gowns, but hold on 211 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: for the first four and then the fifth one, I 212 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: just used the old ones. Bothered, Oh my gosh. But 213 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: it was like the fabric so scratchy, and I was like, 214 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:56,599 Speaker 1: I want to look cute, and I just felt like 215 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 1: they weren't cute. And there were some out there, but 216 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: they weren't great. So I went and picked a fabric 217 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: and just had it made with all the right snaps. 218 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: My doctor approved it. It was hospital grade. Like whatever, 219 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: I love you, you you couldn't find one, so you just 220 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 1: designed it. It's like, I'll just make my own, make 221 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: my own thanks for myself, you know. Not. Another big 222 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 1: thing that everybody's asking is what is like the one 223 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: thing you did to try to make yourself feel like 224 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: sexy after having a baby, like feel good, feel comfy 225 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 1: in your own skin? Like I remember right after like 226 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: when you're sent home the first time and those mesh 227 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 1: underwear that's not underwear, it's like a pamper. Yeah. And 228 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: I mean I wasn't. That wasn't even on my mind 229 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,840 Speaker 1: for weeks, Like it wasn't. I was not nowhere near 230 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: rushing into it, nowhere thinking about feeling sexy. I was 231 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: mainly like worried about my milk coming in. What about 232 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: you guys? Oh for sure. I literally was like I 233 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: don't even know who I am. Like I looked in 234 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: the mirror and I was like, this is so different 235 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: than what I'm used to And I just kind of 236 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 1: like broke down crying. If we're going to be real 237 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: for a minute. And I definitely I was not thinking 238 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: about being sexy at all. I was worried about nursing, 239 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: like you, Teddy, and just like all like keeping this 240 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 1: kid alive. Like literally I just didn't I didn't know 241 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: the first thing. I mean, you slowly start to figure 242 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: it out, but I was just mostly just so scared, 243 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: So I didn't even have that in my mind. But 244 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: I think when I started getting a little bit more 245 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: comfortable and I started like seeing my body change a 246 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: little bit more, and I kind of had like a 247 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: better grip on things. Um, I just had like a 248 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 1: piece of Lauderie, And I feel like that kind of 249 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: helped me just to be like, oh I still fit 250 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,960 Speaker 1: in these, Okay, I feel a little bit sex here. First, baby, 251 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: You're so lucky. I definitely didn't fit in anything nothing 252 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: for the first that was underwear, though. You just gave 253 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: me like such a fond memories. I I cried I 254 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: took home. So when I got to my fifth I 255 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 1: love those mesh underwear so much that I actually asked 256 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,360 Speaker 1: them at the hospital for a stack more than I 257 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: needed to take home, and I cried. I think when 258 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: the last one was gone, like far beyond needing them. 259 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: I just thought they were so cozy, and I don't know, 260 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,120 Speaker 1: I fully agree with you. I thought they were really cozy. 261 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: They're really comfy. And then now they have these like 262 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 1: frieda ice packs you can also put in, and I was, 263 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: I was like, those were amazing, amazing, I mean, and 264 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: then you they have like even like a little sticky 265 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: strip where you just on stick it and then you 266 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: put it right in the mesh. Yeah, it's like those 267 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: hot packs used when with skiing, except it's like ice 268 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: pack to go, it's a badge cover since I had 269 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: my last baby. Oh my gosh, I missed out. But 270 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: I always thought there was a way to transition those 271 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: mesh underwear to like cute ones that we would wear, 272 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: but I don't know, make it action. Yeah, I would 273 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: definitely buy that. I mean, I definitely was not feeling 274 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: sexy after any of mine, except uh, you know, especially 275 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: with a C section. They say to wait six weeks 276 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: before you have sex again, and my third and fourth 277 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: are only ten months apart. Oh hey, I just did 278 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: the math. I'm not that I'm not that bright when 279 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: it comes to math, but I just got it. I'm terrible. 280 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: So that was four weeks. Four weeks, right. It was 281 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: the first time, the first time, and I was like, 282 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like each time my husband was like, uh, 283 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: can we have sex now? I was like the first one, 284 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, with the second one, I'm like, no, we've 285 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 1: to wait six weeks. Something's going to happen bad. Then 286 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: as you have more kids, you're like, I guess it'll 287 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: be okay. Yeah, the first time after we had sex 288 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,480 Speaker 1: after the third baby got pregnant with Oh my gosh, 289 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: So were you when you found out that you were 290 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: pregnant ten months after. Were you like so excited or 291 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: were you devastated. I found I was pregnant. She was 292 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: a month and I was like, this can't be true. 293 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: I went to the hospital for a migraine. I had 294 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: a really bad migraine. Went to the hospital and they said, 295 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: we have to check your ear where we can treat 296 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 1: you with medication. And I said, oh, don't worry, I 297 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: have a newborn, like I'm breast being I'm a newborn, 298 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: and they said it's protocol. They did it, and they 299 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: came in. It was like a soap opera, like you know, 300 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 1: you know, excuse me was spelling. We'd like to inform 301 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:23,200 Speaker 1: me you're pregnant. I'm like that's not possible. And they're like, well, 302 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: we could do a blood test and I was like, 303 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: please do so and they were like, you're pregnant. Yeah, 304 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: I would die. So your baby was a month old. 305 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: She was a month old. I would die. O god. 306 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: So in other words, be careful with it could happen. 307 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 1: It doesn't really happen, and you think it can't happen. 308 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you don't really do the math. You're like, 309 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: it probably won't happen. What it's the likely exactly? Well, 310 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: it took us like five months to get pregnant, and 311 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: so I didn't even worry about that at all. So 312 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: luckily I'm not pregnant, because that scared the crap out 313 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: of it. Worried. Yes, So definitely for the second one, 314 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 1: I will be for sure to get some protections. But 315 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: I already have my I U D in six weeks after. 316 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 1: I was like, boom, well then you're then you're you're 317 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: probably pretty covered. Then you're pretty good. Well Torison's you 318 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 1: have older kids? Have your kids ever walked in? Oh? Yeah, 319 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: what do you do? We're not there yet. We like 320 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 1: to have to do closet time or like random times 321 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 1: and locations. Because I'm like panicked about that conversation. M okay, 322 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: So I guess my question for you guys then would 323 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: be he having to reverse it? Like at what age 324 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 1: do you still do it in the room with him 325 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: there and think it's okay? Oh? I don't know. I 326 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: feel weird still, like we'll go to different and he's 327 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 1: just he's three months old, so obviously it's fine, but 328 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 1: I don't know why for me I have to go 329 00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: in a different room I don't know. I was okay 330 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 1: while doub was in the snow because like she's like 331 00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: a little burrito in there's that they didn't have a 332 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: probably when you had your last one either, Tori. But 333 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 1: like I was like, she is such a little breed 334 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: over there. She has no idea what's going on over here. 335 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,440 Speaker 1: But then the second she like got to the point 336 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: where like she wasn't swaddled anymore, I was like, no, 337 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 1: can't she can be up and look at what he 338 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: would even know? Yeah, I think it was to the 339 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: point with our first that, you know, when he was 340 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: like getting up and he we turned around at one 341 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:25,720 Speaker 1: point and he was holding onto the railing and he 342 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 1: was like jumping and looking at us. I was like, oh, 343 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 1: that's weird from his nap, I mean, and he was 344 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: like under he was like a year you know. But yeah, 345 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: well it's even crazy now that like my daughter will 346 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 1: come home and talk about crushes at school, or like 347 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 1: my son was like you know this guy's this guy's 348 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: given me a hard time and calling me chicken butt 349 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: and like these, you know, all these different things. So 350 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: you're just watching your kids, like so as they start 351 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: to get older, you watched them like start to go 352 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: through these emotions, and you want them to always share 353 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: everything with you, but then sometimes you're like the advice 354 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: you want to give. What he was telling me that 355 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: somebody was calling the chicken butt, I was like, look, 356 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,879 Speaker 1: then you need to go up. And then I was like, 357 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:10,760 Speaker 1: take a breath, like how did you handle that kind 358 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: of stuff? Tory? Because your kids are a little bit 359 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 1: older than mine. I mean when they say you don't 360 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 1: get a manual, they mean you don't get a manual, 361 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: and then you never get the books. Throughout the whole 362 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: like journey, like it just keeps evolving and there's new 363 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,359 Speaker 1: things that come up and you're like, wait, I'm not 364 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 1: prepared to deal with this, and then you think like 365 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:30,440 Speaker 1: how did my parents handle it? And then it's like, no, 366 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,640 Speaker 1: that kind of that was a whole different generation. It's 367 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: really difficult. It's hard, and I feel all the time 368 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,440 Speaker 1: I say I am not I always say to myself, 369 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: I'm not prepared to talk about this, and I'm like, 370 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 1: I'm not an expert on this, but I do my 371 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:47,479 Speaker 1: best of going between the fine line of being a 372 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: parent and a friend because I still feel like at 373 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:52,159 Speaker 1: that age where I'm like I want to talk to 374 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 1: my My daughter is almost thirteen, and sometimes I feel 375 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: like I'm talking to her like a friend, and I 376 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: have to check myself and be like, okay, you're still 377 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 1: her parent. Reel it back. You know. It's so hard 378 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: and I never know what to say because I don't 379 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:06,840 Speaker 1: like for me, I was always you know, I didn't 380 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 1: have a voice. I was very like I wouldn't stand 381 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 1: up for myself. But I want my kids to stand 382 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: up for themselves, so I can't go by what I did. 383 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 1: I have to kind of reassess the situation of how 384 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:20,160 Speaker 1: I think they should handle it. How do you think 385 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: you transitioned to having a voice now? How do you 386 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 1: think you were able to grow and create that confidence 387 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 1: in yourself. It's taken a long time, UM, And I think, honestly, 388 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 1: it has a lot to do with kind of my 389 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: public persona. I think I was so much. I grew 390 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,200 Speaker 1: up on TV, and you know, back in the nineties, 391 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,040 Speaker 1: people you didn't have an outside persona, Like people knew 392 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,359 Speaker 1: what they saw you in interviews, where your media trained 393 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: to say just this and that's it, um, and what 394 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 1: they see on screen and what they kind of envision 395 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: your life to be and the perception they have. So, 396 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 1: you know, when we started having social media and I 397 00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: started doing reality TV, start writing my books, I was 398 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: able to have a voice because I was always like, 399 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:04,640 Speaker 1: I think people would like me if they knew me, 400 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,360 Speaker 1: rather than making up in their heads what I am 401 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,880 Speaker 1: based on television or based who my dad is. Um So, 402 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 1: I think that's what gave me a voice honestly, which 403 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 1: is different advice than I give my kids obviously, But yeah, 404 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: so how did you how do you how are your 405 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 1: kids like dealing with this spotlight because obviously you grew 406 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: up in the spotlight, but how how is it for 407 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: them like having a mom so famous. I've always wondered 408 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: that about celebrities and how they kind of deal with 409 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: that attention they were I mean, Teddy knows this too. 410 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 1: I mean they were born into it. Um So, they 411 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: that's all they really know. But they all compared to yeah, 412 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 1: they also have an opinion, like they definitely you know 413 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: there they understand like when we're out and there's fans, 414 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,199 Speaker 1: um you know, well before the pandemic that you know, 415 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 1: I would sign autographs and I always hug my fans 416 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 1: and and they get that up. But then they're also kids, 417 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 1: so they were in moments they'd be like, Mom, you 418 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 1: know we're in Disneyland. We just want to go on 419 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: the rides, or you know, we just want to keep 420 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 1: popping room. You know, we're out getting school clothes. Like 421 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: so they go back and forth, but they handle it 422 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: graciously and they say hello. They get recognized to like 423 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: my my fortunal people come up to them and they're 424 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: like monkey and he's like, mom, because that's what on 425 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 1: Reality TV when he was born, I called him monkey 426 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: and they recognize him from a baby and they're like 427 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: monkey and he's like that's embarrassing. Well that's good. They 428 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 1: can kind of laugh it off and and kind of 429 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,439 Speaker 1: social media. I mean, now I've taught them. I'm like, 430 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: you know what, you have to develop thick skin. There's 431 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 1: always gonna be the haters, the trolls out there. There's 432 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: nothing we can do about it. And they're like, you know, 433 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 1: that really sucks, mom. But now they go through like 434 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: when I've been putting up videos lately, and they're like 435 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: really positive and people are laughing at them. And then 436 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,960 Speaker 1: there's also the people that write horrible things about me. 437 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: So my two only with my two oldest because there 438 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,879 Speaker 1: he's fourteen, she's almost thirteen. We go through them and 439 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: and Liam's like, mom, listen to this one. He picks 440 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,959 Speaker 1: out like the most horrible one, and he's like, can 441 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: you believe that. I'm like, oh, that's a good one. 442 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: That's a great one. You guys clap back or do 443 00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: you let it be? No? No, I never. I don't know. 444 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 1: I've had moments where I have clapped back, but I 445 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 1: feel like it just starts. And then you have the 446 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,159 Speaker 1: people that say the meanest thing about you, and as 447 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 1: soon as you answer them, they're like, oh my, so sorry, 448 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 1: I love you. I'm sorry. I'm like they just wanted attention. 449 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's so bizarre to me, because have you 450 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:39,120 Speaker 1: ever commented something? Have you ever gone onto somebody's page 451 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: you don't know, never met, and written them mean to them. No? Never, 452 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: not even if my worst enemy, I wouldn't do that too. No. 453 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like I'm fine. If people 454 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: attack me, I usually laugh it off, but like lately, 455 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 1: like when they attack the baby, that's when I'm just 456 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:03,200 Speaker 1: like they together. Yes, I mean, I've had a few 457 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: times where people are like your your kid is like 458 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: so like he always has a scowl on his face. 459 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: Something's wrong with him. You need to go to Oh 460 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 1: my god. And I'm like, okay, I'm so, I'm trying 461 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 1: to hold in my mama bear so hard, but it 462 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: is it's difficult when they go after your kids, Like 463 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm I'm learning to laugh it off, 464 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: but it's it's hard. It's hard because social media gives 465 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 1: people a voice to say whatever it is they want, 466 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,920 Speaker 1: which can also which we saw like kind of play 467 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,880 Speaker 1: out in the press this week with Demi Levado, like 468 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 1: talking about the Big Chill and all these things back 469 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: and forth. Then it plays out publicly though, So even so, 470 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 1: no matter what the situation is, when it comes to 471 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,479 Speaker 1: if you're in the public eye and you have an 472 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 1: opinion and you're putting it out there, nine times out 473 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: of ten, it's gonna backfire, right, yeah, exactly, Like I mean, 474 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: I just think it's so social media can be so 475 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 1: damaging because then you you say something, you make a mistake, 476 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: you do the wrong thing, and then you know your 477 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: choice is to apologize or to not and then you 478 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: just you're you're kind of going down some sort of 479 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 1: spiral and then people have more of a reason to 480 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: kind of come for you. Yeah, you have to be 481 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 1: really careful what you put out there, but that's just 482 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: kind of it. Like if you want to share your 483 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 1: life with everybody, you've got to know that that negative 484 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: backlash can happen and good backlash can happen. I always 485 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: tell myself, I'm like, you could be like so sweet 486 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 1: like a peach, but there's gonna be people who don't 487 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,440 Speaker 1: like peaches, and then you're just gonna find with that. 488 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 1: That's a nice way to put it. Like now it's 489 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,360 Speaker 1: like it's on the other way, Like I feel like 490 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: no matter what you do or say, someone will find 491 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 1: something about it that's wrong. Like I understand being PC. 492 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: Of course we all want to be PC, but it's 493 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,679 Speaker 1: gone the other direction about things I don't know, Like 494 00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: it could be anything. I'm trying to look around for 495 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: anything I have on my desk because you could say 496 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 1: something that I'd be like, why do you have that? 497 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 1: You can't have that? And I've had that so much 498 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 1: with kind of mom shaming to like I'll be I'll 499 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: be like having Leo sleep like in his little I 500 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,919 Speaker 1: don't know if you guys know what a docata is, 501 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: but it's just like no, and he'll just be napping 502 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 1: like on my bed, and then he's supervised and everyone's like, um, 503 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: you're not supposed to do that. That's really unsafe and 504 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,680 Speaker 1: actually he could get sits and die and I'm like, okay, 505 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,439 Speaker 1: he's supervised. Like there's just so much that like people 506 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: have to say something about it's crazy. I think it's 507 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:41,160 Speaker 1: just because they're lonely and they're looking for some sort 508 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: of rise out of somebody or some sort of communication. 509 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: And you know, it drives me crazy too, especially when 510 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: it comes to my kids. Like they'll say it about 511 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: Dove often about like her her dot band, which is 512 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: her helmet. She's already had neurosurgery. Anybody that's followed me 513 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 1: for a long enough time like knows the whole situation. 514 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 1: But then you've got the people like what do you 515 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:04,719 Speaker 1: what did you do to your kid that she has 516 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 1: to wear this helmet? And how much longer? And you're 517 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 1: just like testing, you know, like and then you want 518 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 1: to clap back, but then you're like, then you know 519 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: that that will be the post that they look at 520 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 1: the most exactly exactly. Yeah, it's almost better just not 521 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: to give any attention to the negativity. All right, I'm 522 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: getting I'm getting I'm getting told that I need to 523 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:28,520 Speaker 1: fire through more of the questions. All right, sorry, how 524 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,199 Speaker 1: all right? When was the last time we went to 525 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 1: the toilet alone? Fourteen years ago? Between kids and dogs, 526 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 1: I never go to the toilet alone, all right? And 527 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: then final one before we take our break is do 528 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 1: you guys have the same parenting style as your as 529 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 1: your person, like as your husband? Yeah, I would say 530 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,919 Speaker 1: pretty close to you're chaking your head. I don't, but 531 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 1: do you know you might not know how you haven't 532 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 1: gotten to the disciplinary so like I'm the disciplinarian and 533 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:21,600 Speaker 1: my husband's like Disneyland dad. That is shocking. That's shocking, Teddy, 534 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: really shocking. And I'm the opposite, which isn't gonna shock Teddy. 535 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm the Disneyland mom and not the time and can't 536 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 1: for all rules, not organized. Yeah, it's you couldn't find 537 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,360 Speaker 1: more polar opposite Tori and I. But also like love 538 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: her so much, She's so much fun at the best part. 539 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 1: But I need people like you because I am the 540 00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:44,200 Speaker 1: way that I am. Yeah, let's take a quick break 541 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:55,720 Speaker 1: and then we'll come back and chat. Mark, Okay, guys, 542 00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: welcome back to Teddy Teapot. You don't want to miss 543 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: this because we're dishing all things mom with Tori and 544 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 1: Whitney and I'm so grateful. Um, I was just reading 545 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: this article, you guys. Katie Perry recently admitted she quit 546 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: shaving her legs since becoming a mom, and she like 547 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 1: even put her leg up on American idol and you 548 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 1: could like see the hair on her legs. What are 549 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: things that have shifted with you, guys? I feel like everything, 550 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,479 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I really pampered myself. Like my 551 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 1: morning routine was like, you know, I'm gonna shower and 552 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: exfoliate and try it and um do a hair mask 553 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: in a face, like just all of this pamper And 554 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: now I'm just like I need to hurry get it. 555 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 1: The baby screaming and I'm just like a mess. So 556 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 1: I feel like any sort of grooming in general grooming, Yes, 557 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 1: I literally this hair style every day, just a pony. 558 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,680 Speaker 1: You look great, You're you look like it every day, 559 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 1: keep it so nice. I had the same answer, but 560 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 1: mine was more like external, like I would go out 561 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: and get like manicures and pedicures every week. I would 562 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:10,040 Speaker 1: get my eyebrows done. Um, I would get waxing down there. 563 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: I haven't done that since. Yeah, I was like, forget it, 564 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: I'll shave every once in a blue moon. You know, 565 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,440 Speaker 1: like that hurts more. I swear as I get older, 566 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 1: I think waxing hurts more. I'm like, I don't have 567 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: that is really too painful for me. Laser is what 568 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 1: it's all about. Laser. I know I need to get 569 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: around too. It's I haven't really done it yet, but 570 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: I heard it's amazing. And then did any of you 571 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,720 Speaker 1: guys have like postpartum or anxiety or anything like that 572 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 1: after having the babies? I did not. You didn't, did 573 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: you hire ahead? I did a little bit. I feel 574 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: like I am not an anxious person by nature, Like 575 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm pretty easy going and I kind 576 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 1: of just live in the moment. And my husband is 577 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 1: kind of the O c D like anxiety like warrior, 578 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: and so every time, you know, he'd go through these 579 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 1: like phases, I would just be like, it's fine, like 580 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 1: just don't worry about it, like not really understanding. And 581 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 1: then after I had Leo, I was like, Okay, I 582 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: understand your anxiety now because I have it, Like I 583 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 1: feel like I just would wake up in the middle 584 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: of the night and just touch him and make sure 585 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: he's breathing. Like I feel like I had that sort 586 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: of anxiety of like, Okay, I need to keep you 587 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: alive kind of thing. So I don't know if it 588 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 1: was like full on postpartum anxiety or depression, but it 589 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 1: definitely was some sort of anxiety that I've never had before. Yeah, 590 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 1: I had it pretty bad after after my first and 591 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 1: then even after my second, and that's when I had 592 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: to like completely like switch my life around and do 593 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 1: a complete transition, like where I had to like take 594 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: action every day and do the steps and follow the 595 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 1: things that that worked for me. But it's anxiety is 596 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,480 Speaker 1: something that it's been with me forever, you know, and 597 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 1: it's just exacerbated by whatever is going on, you know, 598 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 1: like if one of my kids is sick or something, 599 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: you know, then all of a sudden, it's like this 600 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: adjustment anxiety where I'm not it's like I'm not prepared 601 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 1: for it. And then I go back to like some 602 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: of my old ritualistic type things like making lists and 603 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 1: like just all of those things, and I'm like, why, 604 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: like the amount if you guys saw my paper calendar 605 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 1: right now. The level it's like between my eye twitch 606 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: and the paper calendar. Like, yeah, so how do you 607 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: deal with that anxiety? Is that what you do? You 608 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 1: just write it all down and you make a plan. 609 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: So for me, it's like I have to do some 610 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 1: sort of like exercise, even if it's just being outside 611 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,280 Speaker 1: going on a walk, like I have to move, I 612 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: have to like get vitamin d um, I pray, I 613 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,000 Speaker 1: do devotionals, I do journals, I do all pretty much 614 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: all the things you can potentially do, and some days 615 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: it's just still there. Yeah, because I feel like with anxiety, 616 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: all you wanna do is just like close off and 617 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 1: you just want to watch a movie and not do 618 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 1: any of it. Like I'm like, I just want to 619 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 1: like sit here and just like think about it until 620 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 1: I go crazy, and then I love the thing you do. Yeah, 621 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm permit crap, And I just like 622 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 1: what if you go on your heads and you can't 623 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: get it out and it's just there and it's just 624 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 1: running through your mind and you think if you keep 625 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 1: thinking about it, it'll solve itself, but it never does. 626 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 1: But the one thing that I did kind of learn 627 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: as the kids got older, is whenever I am struggling, 628 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,520 Speaker 1: it's always best for me to be straightforward with my 629 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 1: kids and just kind of like, hey, like, mommy is 630 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 1: not having the world's best day. I just want you 631 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 1: to know it has nothing to do with you. I 632 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: love you so much. I'm a little anxious today. I 633 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 1: don't know why. I have a bunch of meetings or 634 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: whatever it may be that's you know, creating, or maybe 635 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 1: it's nothing. Maybe it's just you know, because it's what's 636 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,600 Speaker 1: going on inside of me. But I just feel like, 637 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 1: you know, if you tell them, then there they at 638 00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: least feel like, okay, um, I know love a problem 639 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: when my four year old literally like he did something 640 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 1: and he like got it frustrated and he's like, my life, 641 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 1: oh from me, Oh when I'm like frustrating her anxious, 642 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: like I think I just like will be like and 643 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: then I'm like, oh, it's such a you know, I'm 644 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,240 Speaker 1: just saying it because that's like the topical word fml 645 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 1: my life. Like I don't really mean it, Like, you know, 646 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,760 Speaker 1: we have a great life. I'm so grateful for everything. 647 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,040 Speaker 1: It's such a small thing and I'm probably anxious over 648 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 1: but I stay it out loud, and I was like, 649 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: I gotta curb that, because now he thinks that's like 650 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 1: when he's something's frustrating, he says my life and I'm like, oh, 651 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 1: you're like, that could happen to anybody, you know what, 652 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 1: he wouldn't heard it from somebody else, I mean in 653 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 1: the Okay, So final final question, what's the one thing 654 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:53,919 Speaker 1: you wish you told yourself before having kids? Oh? Where 655 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 1: middrift top? One last time? Where are your booty shorts? Be? 656 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,439 Speaker 1: You get into this? My god would have I would 657 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 1: have worn like a fong bikini and like gone to 658 00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:10,760 Speaker 1: the beach and be like look at me, Oh my gosh, 659 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: I love you. That's an amazing I don't know. I 660 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:18,080 Speaker 1: would just tell myself to just know that it's going 661 00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: to be harder than you think, but it's also going 662 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: to be better than you think, and you're gonna have 663 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: a lot of ups and downs and just roll with 664 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:30,800 Speaker 1: the punches and don't worry about stressing about naps or 665 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 1: anything that doesn't really matter, and just like enjoy it. 666 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: Just trying to enjoy it. I feel like I tried 667 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,879 Speaker 1: to plan every single thing so exact, and I was like, oh, 668 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm I'm going to do this, I'm gonna put him 669 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 1: to sleep but this time and feed at this time, 670 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 1: and it just like didn't even work, and so that 671 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,439 Speaker 1: ended up making me more stressed. I think I would 672 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,720 Speaker 1: just tell myself just let it all go, have fun, 673 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,000 Speaker 1: enjoy it, because you know they're gonna grow up so fast. 674 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,760 Speaker 1: Like I can't believe how fast he's grown in three months. 675 00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: I like was just getting rid of his newborn clothes 676 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: and I was like fallowing my eyes out. I think 677 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,399 Speaker 1: for mine, I would be travel and do as much 678 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 1: as you can before you have kids, because you will 679 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,400 Speaker 1: never be on it that type of vacation ever. Again, 680 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: that's true. You will never all of a sudden your 681 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 1: baby will be sleeping in the bathroom in a pack 682 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: and play and you'll be like trying to figure out 683 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: where you're gonna go botty in the middle of the 684 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,240 Speaker 1: night because you don't want to wake them up. Vacation 685 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 1: will will change forever once you have kids, So do 686 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,880 Speaker 1: what you can after all of this craziness ends in 687 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 1: the world. Um, because traveling with kids it's fun, but 688 00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 1: it's a next level, it's it's work. Yes, we've done 689 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,839 Speaker 1: a few trips already and I'm like, wow, I'm never 690 00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 1: going on a trip again. Like Grandma is gonna have 691 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: to watch you. You come back from your vacation needing 692 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:58,400 Speaker 1: a vacation for sure? For sure? That is so accurate. 693 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:00,040 Speaker 1: All right, Tory, will you tell me a little what 694 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 1: about your podcast? Yes, my podcast is nine o two 695 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 1: one OMG with my best friend Jenny Garth, and we 696 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:11,040 Speaker 1: do a rewatch nine o two and we started season one, 697 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,760 Speaker 1: just wrapped our first season, headed into our second season, 698 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,920 Speaker 1: and then obviously we've been best friends for thirty years, 699 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 1: so we get a little girlfriend's stories in there and 700 00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,799 Speaker 1: go off on wild tangents like we did today. Do 701 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: you have a favorite episode episode ever? Oh my gosh, 702 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: I guess I should technically say the one where it's 703 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 1: Don and Martin graduates, who fans say to me the 704 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 1: most um, But for me, it was anytime I got 705 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 1: to do comedy because it was a teen drama primarily, 706 00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,200 Speaker 1: and then I felt like I was kind of like, 707 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,840 Speaker 1: I want to do comedy, which you know, they allowed 708 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: me to do, which was great. So it's probably like 709 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 1: Spring Dance or Halloween when I wore a mermaid costume. 710 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: I couldn't walk in Whenever I like funny stuff, I 711 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:55,240 Speaker 1: love it. I love it. I can't wait to watch. 712 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:56,920 Speaker 1: I need to go back and watch all nine o 713 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,319 Speaker 1: two and oh now that I have met you, Tori, 714 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 1: and and I'm so excited to listen to your podcast, 715 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun. Well, you're gonna love it. You're 716 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: gonna love it when you tell us a little bit 717 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:11,240 Speaker 1: about your diaper bag line. Oh, I'm so excited. So 718 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:13,919 Speaker 1: I've got three different bags in my diaper bag line. 719 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,520 Speaker 1: It's actually with Juju b And I just felt like 720 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:20,319 Speaker 1: I needed something organized because I feel like with all 721 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 1: my other diaper bags, I was the kid was screaming 722 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 1: and I just was rummaging through stuff I couldn't find anything. 723 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 1: So we designed something that is super organized but also 724 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,320 Speaker 1: like aesthetically so beautiful and it's like a nice brown 725 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:38,359 Speaker 1: It's called Spice. Um. But I'm really really excited about it, 726 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,479 Speaker 1: and I know any mom that tries it is gonna 727 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,359 Speaker 1: love it. So perfect timing now that everybody's starting to 728 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 1: go out and do stuff, so they're gonna need that bag. 729 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 1: Juju is so amazing. Well, um, I can't wait to 730 00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 1: try one because I feel like diaper bags, Like if 731 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:57,799 Speaker 1: you have a good one, it transitions to the rest 732 00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 1: of your life exactly. And we've actually traveled with it too, 733 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 1: and I'm like, there's a pocket for literally everything, Like 734 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 1: it makes your life so much easier. So I can't 735 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,839 Speaker 1: wait for you guys to try it. It's gonna be awesome. Well, 736 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 1: you guys, thank you so much for joining me this week. 737 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,760 Speaker 1: We could go on for hours and talk all different topics, 738 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:16,839 Speaker 1: right know, but we're gonna have to wrap it up. 739 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:18,799 Speaker 1: But thanks you guys for tuning in, and thanks you 740 00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 1: guys for joining me. Thank you, Thank you so mud 741 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 1: nice to meet you guys. Thank you guys. Thanks for listening. 742 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,880 Speaker 1: Subscribe to any Tea Pot on her radio or wherever 743 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 1: you listen to podcasts.