1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: I had a threesome, but I didn't tell my girlfriend. 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Now she's having doubts. What should I do? This is 3 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: okay where we read the craziest stories on planet Earth. 4 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 2: I'm Sam and John. What should OP do? 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 3: Of course she's having freaking doubts because just assuming you're 6 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 3: just putting one and two together, you had a threesome, 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 3: not with her. 8 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 2: You double cheated. Well, it could be before the relationship. 9 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 3: Oh, okay, you're right, you're right, You're right. 10 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 2: Okay. 11 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 3: If it was before and she's like being negative on you, 12 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 3: that's whack. 13 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: Come on, now, your. 14 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: Past threesomes should not should not affect your current relationship. 15 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: Thres do not define you. 16 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 3: And then Riley, and then in the relationship, you know, 17 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 3: without her, obviously you're a. 18 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,919 Speaker 2: Fucking a hole. Yeah, and of course she should leave you. 19 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 2: But what should you do? 20 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 3: I think it's probably the before, Yeah, and she's judging him. 21 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 3: I think you sit down and be like, look, we 22 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: have a good thing going. Like I think it's a 23 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 3: little unfair to be dood. 24 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 2: You know, everyone has their Greg days. 25 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 3: Dude, Greggs are going to Greg. 26 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 1: So cut to the throwaway, says a year ago my 27 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: mail twenty one first serious relationship officially ended with it 28 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 1: came all the heartbreak and trauma you'd expect from being 29 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: cheated on and manipulated for months. I've never before been 30 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: so hurt and swore off any relationship for the foreseeable future. 31 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: My ex left me with a severe fear of abandonment, commitment, 32 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 1: and need for sexual validation caused by some pretty hurtful 33 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:28,120 Speaker 1: things she did. Fast forward five months, after lots of 34 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: hug it up and casual sex as a typical in 35 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: college town, I had done very little healing and just 36 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 1: covered up my pain with sex until I met Francine. 37 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: She is the single most beautiful, kind, fun loving girl 38 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 1: I've ever met. The second she introduced herself to me 39 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: at the bar, I knew she was different. We went 40 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: on a date and hooked up, but it felt way 41 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: more meaningful. I began to develop feelings for her, and 42 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: that terrified me. Those feelings heightened when she expressed the 43 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: same back to me with where I was mentally the 44 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: fact we were about to be eight hours long distance 45 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: over the summer, and her own recent relationship trauma. We 46 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: expressed our liking of each other, but came to set 47 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: terms of non exclusivity. Okay, so they are not seeing 48 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: other people, no non exclusivity, so they can see other people. 49 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 1: They can see other people because are kind of long distance, right. 50 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: I assured her I was telling the truth about my 51 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: inability commit at the time, and wasn't just telling her that, 52 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: but let her know that she's free to do whatever 53 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: she wants. Over the summer, working as a bartender, I 54 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: had plenty of opportunities to continue casually hooking up. At first, 55 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: I was conflicted about what I wanted. I didn't take 56 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: these I liked fran scene after all. However, as I 57 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: began to overthink, I felt as though refusing this was 58 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: making me more vulnerable to being hurt if I came 59 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: back to school to her disinterested, like if she was 60 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: disinterested in him. To me at the time, that seemed 61 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: like the exclusive commitment I was scared of. So I 62 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: had a casual hookup, except this time it didn't even 63 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,919 Speaker 1: give the temporary validation like before. Just kind of made 64 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: me more confused and like I wanted to commit even more, 65 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: which scared me. I shouldn't have done it twice, but 66 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: I stupidly did it after just feeling more conflicted, I stopped, 67 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: realizing it wasn't helping anything and just making my mental 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: situation worse. While we were both free to do what 69 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 1: we wanted and discussed this, I didn't feel right about it, 70 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: especially since Francine and I were still texting and staying 71 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 1: in contact. As scared as I was of committing, the 72 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: idea of effing it up with franccening seemed way worse. 73 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: So when we got back to college and she asked 74 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: about my summer, I told her I hadn't pursued anyone. 75 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: Oh, that's idea. We need to throw one up. 76 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I need not a good move. It's gonna come 77 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: out red flag. 78 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 3: And like, the crazy thing to me is you both 79 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 3: already agreed on it. 80 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 81 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: Like so it's like, why would you lie about something 82 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: that you know you agreed on it. 83 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 3: I did something perfectly within the bounds of what we 84 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 3: communicated and agreed upon. 85 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, bro, Yeah, don't be read fun. 86 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 4: And maybe he realized he's not an f point, he's 87 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 4: a lover boy and that's what was. 88 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,840 Speaker 1: Well he should say that, then, yeah, he should say, like, 89 00:03:53,880 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 1: I hooked up with someone. And honestly, I realized when 90 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: that happened that I didn't want to be with anyone else. 91 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 3: But yeah, part, I'm sorry he didn't break any of 92 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 3: the boundaries that they set, and he's like showing his 93 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 3: love for this person's love for this person. 94 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: Come on, I think it's completely what he should have done. 95 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: Lying is not a good myth. Well, I hadn't pursued 96 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 1: anything serious. I wasn't telling the full truth. I wish 97 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: I was strong enough to just tell her everything i'd done, 98 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: but decided I didn't care to know what she'd done, 99 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: so I'd leave it behind me. Some months pass and 100 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: we're hanging out a ton. I'm staying over her house 101 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 1: multi times a week. We've gone on some amazing dates, 102 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: and most importantly, despite her past trauma, she managed to 103 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: heal a lot of mine. She showed me so much affection, trust, 104 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: in patience. While I slowly became more ready to officially 105 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: make it exclusive with her WOO. This entire time, I 106 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,360 Speaker 1: was loyal to her and figured, as terrifying as it seemed, 107 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: I was already basically her boyfriend and I didn't want 108 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: to risk not getting to be hers. The months since 109 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: then have been incredible. She's been everything my ex wasn't, 110 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 1: and despite how recent it all is. I truly do 111 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: love her and wouldn't do anything to hurt her. Do 112 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 1: you think anything that is going to happen? 113 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 3: I feel like Opie's giving like I want to do 114 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 3: the right thing. Oh jeez, gosh, Kelly darn and I 115 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 3: effed up again. 116 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 2: Oh well, I think should come clean? Ope, come clean. 117 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: We both went home for Christmas a few days ago 118 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: and things were normal. However, drunk on Christmas Eve, she 119 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 1: facetimed me again and began talking. The conversation suddenly turned 120 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:22,159 Speaker 1: to her past trauma and her expressing that she's felt 121 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: distant to me lately because of an intense worry I'm 122 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: going to hurt her in the future. Not only does 123 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: this stem from her exes, but also a very rocky 124 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: relationship with her father, and I gave her tons of 125 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 1: reassurance and love as she deserves. She responded by telling 126 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: me that she's going to ask me a question that 127 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 1: I have to answer one hundred percent honestly. Here we go, 128 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: I pinky promised her over the phone I would, and 129 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: she asked, did you do anything with anybody over the summer. 130 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 3: I think it might be a setup. I think she 131 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 3: knows Ooh, I think she knows. Oh, I didn't even 132 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 3: think about that. 133 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:57,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I might have to put on the conspiracy hat 134 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 2: over here. Yeah. 135 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 3: I think that maybe somewhere through the grapevine or something, 136 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: maybe she saw some Instagram for. 137 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: College towns are small word travels fast word travels fast. 138 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,559 Speaker 3: I think that she somehow dug up the dirt, figured 139 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 3: out what's happening, and is like, he lied to me, 140 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: and I want to make I'm hurt and I want 141 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 3: to make things serious with him. So I'm going to 142 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 3: give him this opportunity, last chance, one last try. I mean, 143 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 3: that's my chin foihaw. Conspiracy. 144 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: Well, let's go back to reality, know it and see 145 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 1: what really happens. So I took a deep breath and 146 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: knew while it would likely hurt her a bit, I 147 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 1: had to come clean. I confessed that I had two 148 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: random hookups, explaining to her that I didn't continue to 149 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: contact them and that it was months before we became exclusive. 150 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: She lost it. The hurt I saw on her face 151 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: is the worst thing I've ever seen. She explained that 152 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: she was loyal to me all summer and that she 153 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: feels like she was in love with a lie. I've 154 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: tried to express to her how sorry I am, how 155 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: much I regret it, and how I was completely in 156 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: a different headspace. I've assured her that's nowhere near the 157 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: person I am now that I'm sorry. I let my 158 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: own trauma hurt her, but done everything I can prove 159 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 1: that this is long behind me. It completely destroyed her 160 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: trust in me. I couldn't sit there and lie to 161 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: my girlfriend's face. But I didn't know it would cause this. 162 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: I should have never lied in the first place, but 163 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: I didn't expect it to ruin our entire relationship. She 164 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: wants to talk in person in a few days, but 165 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 1: she's livid, and I think she's going to end things. 166 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: I know I ft it up, but I'm in a 167 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: completely different spot now, probably too late, but I learned 168 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: my extremely painful lesson. I'm terrified to lose her, but 169 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 1: I think I will. And there are some comments that 170 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: I want to get into. Yeah, but I mean, we 171 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: already said that he didn't do the right thing by 172 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: coming clean. Is there anything that he should have said 173 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,119 Speaker 1: in this final admission that maybe he didn't? 174 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 3: I don't know, really what more you can say. I mean, honestly, 175 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 3: I think the only thing more he could have said 176 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 3: would be expressing just how like remorseful he is. I mean, 177 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,119 Speaker 3: he might have. It wasn't one hundred percent clear, but like, wow, 178 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 3: I realized what a gem you are and that I've 179 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 3: broken your trust, and like, you. 180 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 2: Know what you deserve to feel the way you feel. 181 00:07:58,520 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 2: But I'm still here. 182 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: I almost feel though that she would have had the 183 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: same reaction had he said it initially, because it feels 184 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: like it's more like I was loyal to you and 185 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: you weren't loyal to me, even though they really because 186 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: that's what she said. She said, I was loyal to 187 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: you the whole summer. 188 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 3: I see, I see. I was thinking I didn't pick 189 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: up on that as much. I was thinking it was 190 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 3: because of the lie, because it's like, hey, we well, okay, 191 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 3: we did it. 192 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 2: It's worse. 193 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: And I think because of the lie, yes, for sure 194 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: right now, but I almost think like they were non exclusive, 195 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: but I feel like she was treating it almost as 196 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: they were. 197 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 3: I got one more, one more tinfa conspiracy for you? 198 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 3: Is this a advanced orange test? 199 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 2: Is this a oh? 200 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: Like, if he doesn't treat you as an exclusion, as exclusive. 201 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: Then he's the one. But The problem is you said, Hey, it's. 202 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 3: Okay for you to go and see other people, fir 203 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 3: sleep you can't. 204 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: But I don't think you can be mad about that 205 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: if if you're a non exclusive. 206 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, if it was agreed upon, it's yeah. 207 00:08:56,880 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 1: I also don't I think if you're non exclusive, I 208 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: just also don't think you should ask. 209 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Well, I guess it depends. 210 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 3: People have all different ranging arrangements of it, right, because 211 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 3: some people We've read a ton of stories where it 212 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 3: was like they were married, so it was like, hey, 213 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 3: for like the kids or whatever, like let me know 214 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:14,719 Speaker 3: when you won't be. 215 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 2: Home, yeah or whatever. I mean, you have like swinging partners, Yeah, exactly. 216 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 2: I mean it's tough. I you know, God speed all 217 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 2: you guys who do that. Is that for me? 218 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, we actually had someone on the show recently 219 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: that except with swingers the guy. 220 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, the guy, the guy. 221 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: About the co hosts, Oh, yeah, I'm lost talk about Sam. 222 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm just joking. 223 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 4: That was a bad joke. 224 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 1: But there are some relevant comments. So no atmosphere five 225 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: one thirty two says, Nah, if you explain the reasoning 226 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 1: to her and she still doesn't understand, I would talk 227 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: it up to how young you both are. But you 228 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: didn't do anything wrong. You should probably explain a little 229 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: more than yeah, I had two hookups. If you wanted 230 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: to listen, give her a few days. Though, when I 231 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: was in college, I probably would have freaked out if 232 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: my boyfriend told me he was with someone else before 233 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: we were exclusive, too, and the op says, I've everything 234 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: to her over the phone and told her the truth 235 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: of where I was and why I did it, while 236 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: also admitting my fault, but she's still upset and still 237 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: wants to settle it in person. I hope she wants 238 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: to move forward, but I get it if not. And 239 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: then another commenter says, of course there is a chance, 240 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 1: though for her sake, I hope she leaves you or else. 241 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: She's potentially setting herself up for a cycle of lies 242 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: in deceit from future partners. This is a lesson for 243 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 1: both of you. 244 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like that's a little you 245 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 2: know what, you know what? 246 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 3: I feel like Both of these comments are on either 247 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 3: end of the spectrum, and it's more kind of in 248 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 3: the middle. 249 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, this may be hard to grasp at twenty one. 250 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: The things you and she does now could help or 251 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: hurt you decades later. Ope, he responds, I know she 252 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: has every right to leave. I just know how I 253 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 1: feel about her and that I want to be honest 254 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: with her from now on. I've been truthful for months, 255 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 1: and the other night proves it. I won't continue the behavior. 256 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: But if she doesn't stick around for me to prove it, 257 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: it's my fault. And like it is true, it is 258 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: bad that he lied, But to say that, like you've 259 00:10:57,679 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: now set the relationship for lies and to see I 260 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:01,599 Speaker 1: think is maybe a little too far. But hey, I 261 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 1: would love to know what you guys think of the comments, Like, 262 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: definitely let us know if you think we're out of 263 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: bounds here. 264 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 2: That's right. Do we have an okay storytime? Yeah? 265 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 4: I think you do have an okay story time? Drop 266 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 4: off A little gift for you for Christmas? 267 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 2: All right? Here is another. 268 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: Here's another question for the audience, A real question, A 269 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: real question. 270 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 2: All right. 271 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 1: So I have an ex girlfriend that I think this 272 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:26,679 Speaker 1: is too this might be too might be this might 273 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,320 Speaker 1: be too much, It might be too deep, this might 274 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:28,719 Speaker 1: be too deep. 275 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 2: I can say I have another Greg story of infinite. 276 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 4: Any relationship things? 277 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 2: Yes, all right, tell us another Greg story. 278 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 4: All right, so you have another okop story. 279 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 3: Do you know what we're let's let's bring Greg back 280 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 3: from the dead. So there was another time where he was, yeah, 281 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 3: she's just so crazy. He he had this on again, 282 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 3: off again, just non stop relationship with this girl that 283 00:11:55,679 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 3: we'll call Sally, and you know, teenagers teenagers being teenage. 284 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 3: They had hopped on Skype and you know, we're doing 285 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 3: some business. 286 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 2: You know, having a little have a little fun. 287 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 3: So Greg, Greg pulls up and by the way most 288 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 3: of this happened we it was actually pretty dope. So 289 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 3: our drumline had an actual class during school where we 290 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: would like, you know, most of most of times after school, 291 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 3: but that we had a class during school. So he 292 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 3: pulls up, He's like, hey, guys, look what I recorded 293 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 3: last night and just opens his laptop and just press 294 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 3: his play and it is the two of them doing 295 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 3: their business on Skype. 296 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 2: And I was like, what is happening right now? Skype? Yes? 297 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 1: Was the teacher in the room, like like they're each 298 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 1: like masturbating or something. 299 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:42,200 Speaker 3: Yes, oh wow with each other on Skype and the teacher. 300 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 3: It was always like thirty feet away in a all 301 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 3: glass office with the door open. So like anytime these 302 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 3: things happened, he was like right. 303 00:12:51,960 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: There, but the teacher never did anything. 304 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 3: It was just enough for him to I mean, he 305 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 3: would poke out sometimes. He knew that they were freaking 306 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:04,319 Speaker 3: rash schools. He knew that there were scoundrels, just absolute degenerates. 307 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 3: So like he would sometimes come and break it up 308 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 3: and whatever, but like it was just enough to where 309 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 3: he didn't know if we were like passing a meme 310 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 3: around or doing that. Yeah, better to just not look. Yeah, 311 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 3: Pandora's box. Greg was a maniac. 312 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 2: I actually had a Greg. 313 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: I had a Greg, really Greg that I'm still pretty 314 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: good friends with. Oh wow, I mean not as good 315 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: friends with, but was like good friends with in high school. 316 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: And I remember going to his house. He was he 317 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 1: lived in a frat that got kicked off the row 318 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: at USC. Oh my god, and you have to do 319 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: some fuck shit to get kicked off the row at USC, 320 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 1: I'm sure, But I remember when I went to his 321 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: When went to his place, he showed me around. He 322 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: didn't have a door on his like his like frat 323 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: room door, because he instantly just like busted through it 324 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: and destroyed it. There were holes all over on the 325 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: walls of his walk because he would just punch holes 326 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 1: in the wall. There wasn't a door in his bathroom. 327 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: What he had done is he had a blanket and 328 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: one side of the blanket was had a nail in it, 329 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: and the other side had handcuffs that he put through 330 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: a hole of the blanket for complete privacy. And we 331 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: played a game called handle baseball where he would get 332 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,400 Speaker 1: a glass handle of vodka and I would throw him 333 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: a glass handle of vodka and in his room he 334 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: would try to hit it as hard as he could 335 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: and glass would shatter everywhere. And then that very day, 336 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: actually he got a new door for his room, which 337 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: we proceeded to immediately hug together and run through the 338 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: door and split in half. I have videos of that 339 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,880 Speaker 1: whole day. Wow, would you like to see? 340 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 4: Yes? 341 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely? 342 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 3: Oh my god, oh my. 343 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 4: As it's cooking, I'm going to try and think of 344 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 4: some Greg stories of mine. 345 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. If you have a Greg story, put it in 346 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 2: the comments below. 347 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 4: My mom would let me like, hang out with you Greggs. Really, 348 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 4: I got uncle Greg. But he's like as calm as 349 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 4: a peach. 350 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, he's not like a real Greg. 351 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 4: It's just Gregory. 352 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 2: How do I look at my past snap stories. 353 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 4: You just scroll down, you go to story and you 354 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 4: scroll down story. 355 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 3: Right, It's like you millennial, millennial. 356 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 4: You're basically belie. Just put in your favorites. Nope. 357 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I asked Riley the other day, what is subscribing 358 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:19,520 Speaker 3: to a snapchat mean? 359 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 4: Respect to jan two? Look at this? Woo had friend 360 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,920 Speaker 4: his name was Gavin, and he was kind of crazy. 361 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 4: We would in our closet in my room. So my 362 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 4: closet back home, my closet would connect to my room 363 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 4: in my brother's room, so we had a sharing closet. Yeah, 364 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 4: And we were in my brother's room and we put 365 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 4: like a bunch of pillows down and we would run 366 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 4: and jump on the pillows. And my mom woke up 367 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 4: at one o'clock in the morning, was like, what are 368 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 4: you guys doing? It wasn't crazy jumping up hill. He 369 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 4: was like a six foot three fifty guy. And then 370 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 4: I have a friend Chandler there and he's a six 371 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 4: foot like two hundred guy, a linebacker, and you guys 372 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 4: ready we just jump in and be left. 373 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 2: All right? I mean, how should I How should I 374 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: show this? I guess? 375 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 4: And then just send me the video. 376 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 2: Kah, is that a fridge. That's a fridge broken? 377 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god, okay, m hm. 378 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 5: Oh oh he's just stabbing. Oh my god, Oh my god. 379 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 2: That was his door. Wait play that one one more time. 380 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 381 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 4: Who where was his parents? 382 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 2: Was that the. 383 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 4: Oh no, oh? 384 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:16,119 Speaker 2: Why would you do that? 385 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,640 Speaker 3: Bro? That you're Greg might have out gregged my Greg. 386 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie some big Greg entergy that Greg? 387 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 2: That Greg? 388 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 1: Can we blur his face? And I have so many stories. Wow, 389 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: used to lick my eyeball? 390 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 2: You out gregged me? Dude, you're Greg outgregs my Greg. 391 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna lie to you. 392 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: Used to beat me up in carpool and like one 393 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 1: day I pinned like or he would like always try 394 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: to lick my eyeballs. 395 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:42,679 Speaker 3: That's so disgusting. That is horrendously disgusting. Oh my god, 396 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 3: Ye's a man of God. 397 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 4: Now let's go. 398 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's just how I God, that's how the 399 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 2: best of them get how the best of them get here? 400 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: That always come back around? 401 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,240 Speaker 1: But what are your Greg stories? Please drop them below? 402 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: Answer us below. 403 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 4: Oh, also, when are sober? 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This is an episode from Deep within 411 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 2: the Archives. 412 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: Time for okop reward Today up by taking random door 413 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: dash orders on my porch. 414 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 2: Hell yeah, stealing. 415 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: So for context, me, eighteen mail, and my family have 416 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 1: been having an issue where we get random door dash 417 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 1: orders on our porch. 418 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 2: That's the greatest issue of all time. Free food, bro, 419 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 2: I would definitely take that. 420 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: The first time that happened, I assumed it was mistake, 421 00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: and after no one claimed it for two hours, we 422 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 1: just decided to take it. Then randomly every month another 423 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 1: would appear. After the second meal, we called door dashed 424 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: and they told us it was most likely a glitch 425 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: and not to worry about it. Ever since, we've just 426 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:52,639 Speaker 1: taken orders as a stroke of luck. Until today. 427 00:18:53,119 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 2: Oh. 428 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 1: Now, out my window, I see someone deliver some food. 429 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: The same thing happens. I go ahead and grab it. 430 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: My brother starts to eat, eat the cheeseburger and fries, 431 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 1: and right as I'm about to dig in. 432 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 2: We hear a knock on the front door. 433 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 1: Of course, we panic and throw everything back in and 434 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: I see a short twenty five year old guy. He 435 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: says he's nice and says that their house number is 436 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: the same as ours, and our addresses got mixed up, 437 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,439 Speaker 1: saying how he even brings us our packages. Man is 438 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 1: like the good guy bringing the packages that get mixed up, 439 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 1: and said to his place. 440 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 2: But they are eating the food. Oh so tragic. 441 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,880 Speaker 1: We both apologizes, and he leaves, saying enjoy your night. 442 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 1: So I hand him back all the food, with the 443 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:35,640 Speaker 1: exception of the fries and burger. 444 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,360 Speaker 2: That's like all the food. I mean, you've already you've 445 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:39,439 Speaker 2: already beaten part of it. 446 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: So he leaves, and I thought that was the end 447 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: of it. About five minutes later comes another knock. I 448 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,119 Speaker 1: answered the door, and a woman about the same age 449 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: and stature as the other guy shows up, and she's 450 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,160 Speaker 1: visually upset. She asks about the burger and the fries 451 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 1: that were inside the bag. Where's the burger and fries? 452 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: My mom shouts a no as she walks upstairs, and 453 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,120 Speaker 1: my brother shrugs it off. I step outside with her 454 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 1: and apologize, saying that he ate it and that they 455 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: didn't want to fess up. I asked if she would 456 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 1: want us to pay her back, and she tells me no. 457 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: Then she points to her house and then tells me 458 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: we get her orders. I tell her sorry and that 459 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 1: we thought the orders were random. She then says I 460 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,440 Speaker 1: don't believe you in an angry tone and walks off. 461 00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: So she's bizz that they've been taking your It's like 462 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: a whole plot. Yeah, like taking this conspiracy now watching 463 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 1: a movie, feeling like shit taking their food. I'm wondering 464 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: if there's anything I can do to make it up 465 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 1: to them, but I'm guessing there isn't. 466 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 3: There's absolutely something you can do. All the food the 467 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 3: next time to their mouth a baby bird. Yeah, you 468 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 3: can not just eat the food the next time the 469 00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 3: order comes. Like, get a ring like camera thing, yeah, 470 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 3: so you can see the instant it gets there, grab 471 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,440 Speaker 3: it and then pretend like like I don't know what 472 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 3: she's talking about. Yeah, yeah, I'm talking about I've never 473 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 3: seen this door down, I've what's door to door day. 474 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 2: I don't even know what that. I don't know what 475 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 2: that is. Yeah, yeah, I'm culture and uh I don't 476 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:06,040 Speaker 2: dash the doors. I know about caveat. I've never heard 477 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:06,639 Speaker 2: of such a thing.