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Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sororiti Life with

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Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia, Judice, Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush.

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Speaker 1: Today's episode is a little different and honestly long overdue.

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Speaker 1: We've got some very special guests joining me today. My sisters.

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Speaker 1: You guys, hear me talk about college rush and Sororiti

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Speaker 1: life all the time, but now we're getting the real,

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Speaker 1: unfiltered version from the people actually living it right now.

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Speaker 1: They've been through the chaos of recruitment, figured out where

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Speaker 1: they fit, and have their own stories to tell. So

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Speaker 1: let's get into it. Gabriella Milania, Welcome to Dirty Rush.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for having us, Love you Chia.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so why don't we just share with everyone where

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Speaker 1: you guys are, where you're at right now? If you

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Speaker 1: want to disclose what Sororiti.

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Speaker 2: You're in, Hi, I'm currently in Barcelona, Spain. I'm usually

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Speaker 2: in an arbor, but I'm studying abroad at Michigan. I'm

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Speaker 2: in tri Ita.

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Speaker 1: And what about you, Millennia, So.

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Speaker 3: I go to University of Tampa. I'm in sigd Out and.

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Speaker 4: Love my sorority.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so did you guys always plan on rushing or

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Speaker 1: did that decision happen once you got to school.

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Speaker 3: I always knew I was gonna rush because of Jia.

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Speaker 3: I kind of like everything that like she did like

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Speaker 3: if I kind of like I just followed because she's

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Speaker 3: my older sister, so like she went in a sorority.

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Speaker 4: She was always thinking, you need to do that.

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Speaker 3: So I always knew it not the thing Gabriella did it.

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Speaker 3: So my sisters always gave me advice on what to do,

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Speaker 3: and I listened.

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Speaker 1: I think your story was a little different, though, Gabrielle,

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Speaker 1: because I didn't know, if you write you didn't fully

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Speaker 1: know if you wanted to rush.

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Speaker 2: I guess I didn't know where I wanted to go

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Speaker 2: to school at first, and I was like it was

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Speaker 2: dependent on where I chose. But because I went to

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Speaker 2: a big ten, then I knew I wanted to rush.

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Speaker 2: But if it was a difference, maybe not. It's just

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Speaker 2: part of the social life there, so I feel like

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Speaker 2: it adds to the experience.

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Speaker 1: I think it is a great way. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: happy you both rushed. I do think it's a great

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Speaker 1: way to meet people, even if you know, obviously you

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Speaker 1: have your close friends and your sorority, but just being

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Speaker 1: in Greek life in general, you also meet girls from

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Speaker 1: different sororities that you end up being close with. And

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Speaker 1: that kind of is what happens freshman year. You meet

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Speaker 1: a bunch of people. Sometimes you get separated when you

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Speaker 1: go through recruitment, but even though you're in different sororities,

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Speaker 1: you still can hang out, go out together, go out

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Speaker 1: to different places. So I think it just is broadens

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Speaker 1: the family of Greek life and you're all one big family.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I completely agree. It's also like a completely different

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Speaker 2: crowd of people at school. Like I'm studying abroad right

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Speaker 2: now and I run into people that go to my

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Speaker 2: school all the time, but I didn't know they went

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Speaker 2: to my school because they're not in Greek life, because

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you guys not remember the week I

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Speaker 3: called you and I was like, I don't really think

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna rush when I want to drop with you.

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Speaker 4: Guys, You're like, no, don't do that.

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, but you rushed first semester, right,

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Speaker 2: It was different for me.

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Speaker 3: I rushed first semester, so like I went like one

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Speaker 3: week with meeting friends without being in a sorority, and

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Speaker 3: then I joined my sorority and met a whole bunch

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Speaker 3: of friends during recruitment. We all went in different sororities,

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Speaker 3: and we're all still friends.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a good move, though, especially if you

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Speaker 1: do have to rush first semester, because it kind of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess in a way, if you were struggling

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Speaker 2: But for me it was a little different. I rushed

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Speaker 3: Yeah, University of Tampa's different, though, it's definitely not a

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, she's in Sigdell. She's in sig Deel

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Speaker 4: Just doesn't look.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't. But I guess for

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Speaker 2: like game days, it's better to be in a sorority.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so what was rush like for each of you? Long?

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Speaker 1: I'm sure yours was like not even close to what

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Speaker 4: Like, all right, well, who wants to go.

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Speaker 1: To you have rock as your sorority.

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Speaker 3: We had different classrooms and like talk to like literally

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Don't you have rocks on

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Speaker 1: campus that represent No, we.

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Speaker 4: Have rocks and they're pretty and they're painted.

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Speaker 1: No I'm saying smaller schools have rocks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we have rocks. You don't have houses.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 4: It's okay.

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Speaker 1: So you had to go so you had to go

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Speaker 3: Yes, went to a cash gym. And it's a I

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Speaker 3: don't know, like making them like make.

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Speaker 2: Wait, So how long was rush?

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Speaker 3: It was two weekends, Saturday and Sunday each weekend.

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Speaker 4: Only four days total. Yeah, oh yeah, that's literally nothing.

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Speaker 4: Well it was still a lot o.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure, but I guess it's just different. Like

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Speaker 2: were the classrooms decorated? Like how did you get a

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well I knew I like myself, Like yeah,

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Speaker 3: they like decked them all out, like they like put up,

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Speaker 3: But I went into every sorority and then first, oh god,

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Speaker 4: This is not for me. And then I go into

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Speaker 4: my story. They're like s I.

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Speaker 5: It's like screaming on the top of their breaking and

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Speaker 3: I was like, wait, this is me, this is me,

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Speaker 3: like like dancing like in this circle to like Cardi

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Speaker 4: It was funny. It was really funny.

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Speaker 3: And I had a great conversation and all the girls

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 1: So you found your home.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The second they started playing Cardi B, you knew you belonged.

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Speaker 3: And the second they started like jumping up and down

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Speaker 1: So what was your brush experience?

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Speaker 2: Like everyella, mine was a lot different. Mine started in January,

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Speaker 2: second semester, and it was like in the brink of winter.

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Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna lie. That was probably the most

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Speaker 2: miserable time, like ever. I was in my skirt tights

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Speaker 1: I think, no, yeah, I mean Michigan gets really cold

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Speaker 2: this winter, but like last year was so much more

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Speaker 2: was Do I go on acutane?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I was on acutane so my skin felt like it

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Speaker 2: at least like three weeks. Who open house, Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: Each round was a weekend. It's what it's open house

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Speaker 1: round Sisterhood and then philanthropy.

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Speaker 2: Open house, philanthropy Sisterhood, than pres and open house is

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Speaker 2: virtual and then you go, I think from sixteen to

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Speaker 2: I think it's twelve right after open house.

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Speaker 1: Okay, see, I think we did open house philanthropy and

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Speaker 1: then preth or we didn't have sister run no or

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Speaker 1: no okay, actually I think it was open house, Sisterhood

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Speaker 1: and PREF. But during PREF they like explained what our

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Speaker 2: A comed Yeah. Yeah, then like right after open house

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Speaker 2: you start going to the houses. So like as soon

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Speaker 2: as I went to the houses, like then I really

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Speaker 1: But you you were conflicted a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was conflicted because, like I said, I had

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Speaker 2: first semester friends, and I think you're under the inception

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Speaker 2: but like obviously you're gonna connect with different girls in

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Speaker 2: down to two like kind of the whole time. But

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Speaker 2: was debating between which one to drop.

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Speaker 1: Which part of the process do you guys think was

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Speaker 1: the most challenging.

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Speaker 3: Last year when were rushing, we weren't allowed to chew gum,

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Speaker 3: say rush talk about boys, alcohol, going out that standard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what was the most challenging when you were

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Speaker 1: rushing for a sorority? Like what part it was the

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Speaker 1: most challenging for you? Or was it not challenging because

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Speaker 1: the second you heard Cardi B you knew where you belonged.

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Speaker 3: The most challenging was at the end, I called my sisters,

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Speaker 3: and I was between when Sigdell.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I remember this, you were in between two too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I really like this one girl who rushed me.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, at the end of the day,

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Speaker 4: Was like more my vibe.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, really in between the two, you

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