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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.

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Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com.

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Speaker 1: All you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live like we're gonna

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Speaker 1: do this one right here, right now, and you never

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Speaker 1: know it could be yours nephews. Back, Oh, buckle up

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Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you here.

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Speaker 1: It is Strawberry letter and he sounds sexy. You hear

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Speaker 1: all that. You hear that right? Oh? Please? I know

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Speaker 1: right like you don't want to hear that subject? My

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Speaker 1: thank you, nephew, welcome back again. My wife's co worker's

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Speaker 1: feet is the subject. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a fifty

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Speaker 1: five year old married man and my wife and I

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Speaker 1: work in the same building, but for different companies. I'm

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Speaker 1: able to dress down for work, but my wife has

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Speaker 1: to always dress up and be jazzy because she interacts

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Speaker 1: with the public. Her office is full of dime pieces

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Speaker 1: in their early thirties, and everything on these women is

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Speaker 1: right where it needs to be, if you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. Me and my coworkers love to sit in

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Speaker 1: the courtyard watching the women come and go. I started

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Speaker 1: following one of the ladies on IG because she is

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Speaker 1: a most beautiful woman I've ever seen, and on top

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Speaker 1: of that, she smiles and makes eye contact with me

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Speaker 1: whenever I see her. What I love most about her

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Speaker 1: is her pretty feet. They're the sexiest part of her,

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Speaker 1: and they had their own Instagram page. I secretly looked

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Speaker 1: at her ig footpage for months until my wife saw

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Speaker 1: me and took my phone. She kept my phone for

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Speaker 1: two days and I was a nervous wreck. When I

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Speaker 1: got it back. I made a fake IG page so

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Speaker 1: I can see pictures of my wife's co workers pretty

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Speaker 1: feet without my wife knowing it. I thought I had

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Speaker 1: outsmart at her this time, but she caught me again.

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Speaker 1: She went into my settings and found the fake IG

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Speaker 1: account attached to my real account, and I was busted again.

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Speaker 1: She saw all of the emojis and the comments that

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Speaker 1: I left under her co workers pictures, and she started crying.

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Speaker 1: She didn't react how I thought she would at all.

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Speaker 1: She told me that my actions made her feel unpretty

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Speaker 1: and undervalued. That broke my heart, and I cried too.

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Speaker 1: How can I hurt my soul mate like this. I

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Speaker 1: saw it as harmless entertainment, but now she's so hurt

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Speaker 1: and broken because of me. How do I restore my

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Speaker 1: wife's confidence in herself and in me. Okay, let me

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Speaker 1: get this straight. You're about to ruin your marriage and

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Speaker 1: all this is over some feet. You've got to be

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Speaker 1: kidding me. I mean, I know people have all kinds

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Speaker 1: of fetishes, and foot fetishes are big, and people are

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Speaker 1: really into feet, but to do what you did this

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Speaker 1: was just so stupid. I mean, yeah, you say you

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Speaker 1: like her feet, but admitted you'd like her too, and

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Speaker 1: you went too far. I mean, you're stalking her on

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Speaker 1: Instagram and commenting and putting little emojis on her page.

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Speaker 1: This woman, your colleague works. Your wife's colleague works in

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Speaker 1: the same building and place as your wife, and this

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Speaker 1: is right under your wife's nose. It's disrespectful. And now

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Speaker 1: your wife's hurt and feels undervalued and unpretty, like she said,

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Speaker 1: and she doesn't trust you, and rightfully so. So this

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Speaker 1: was not harmless entertainment as you call it. And now

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Speaker 1: your wife is blaming herself, which a lot of women

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Speaker 1: do when their men do things like this. And it's

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Speaker 1: not the wives. It's just that their husbands, you know,

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Speaker 1: get stupid. I mean, you created a problem in your

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Speaker 1: marriage where there was none. So now it's your job

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Speaker 1: you ask how you can fix this. Now it's your

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Speaker 1: job to do everything you can to reassure your wife

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Speaker 1: how you can possibly make this up to her and

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Speaker 1: do what she says. And you're gonna have to be

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Speaker 1: patient with your wife as you guys work through this. Uh.

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Speaker 1: And in the meantime, you gotta stay off Instagram, stay

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Speaker 1: out of the courtyard with the fellas checking out the women,

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Speaker 1: and stop making eye contact with this woman, leave her alone,

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Speaker 1: focus on your wife and your marriage, and just stop

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Speaker 1: doing stupid stuff, because this was stupid. Steve for real

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Speaker 1: man surely said it best. You're gonna lose your wife

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Speaker 1: over some damn feet and you stupid. Ain't no food

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Speaker 1: like old foot and you just a old food. Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you how stupid you. I'm a fit five,

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Speaker 1: you old man man. My wife and I work in

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Speaker 1: this same damn bill. I'd have been quit that job

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Speaker 1: long time ago. Really trying for me out put me

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Speaker 1: cross town something your wife always got to dress up

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Speaker 1: and be jazzy because she interacts to the public. You

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Speaker 1: able to dress down for work? Her office this high

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Speaker 1: know you old? Her office full of dime pieces? Put

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Speaker 1: the hell say that we are and we are old,

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Speaker 1: dude to thank he a player? To see that's your

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Speaker 1: real problem. Full of dime pieces in their early thirties.

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Speaker 1: And everything on these women is right where it needs

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Speaker 1: to be, if you know what I mean. Now we don't.

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Speaker 1: But since when they start moving people lass around on

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Speaker 1: their stomach. The last time you seen some one with

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Speaker 1: some breasts on her knee? Kelp? What do that mean?

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Speaker 1: And everything on these women is the right where it

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Speaker 1: need to be? Where what? What? You don't even know

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Speaker 1: how to describe being a player with your old if

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? No, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: hell you mean? Stupid ass statement. Me and my co

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Speaker 1: workers love to sit in the courtyard or ain't nobody

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Speaker 1: gonna see that? Oh God, you and your co workers

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Speaker 1: sitting there the co y'all watching women come and go.

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Speaker 1: I started following one of the ladies on I g

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Speaker 1: because she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen. And

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Speaker 1: on top of that, she smiles and make eye contact

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Speaker 1: with me whenever I see her. No, she don't, Now

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Speaker 1: she don't. That's your damn imagination. She'll make eye contact

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Speaker 1: and smile at you. Fall you know, she cock eye.

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Speaker 1: She's smiling at the man next to you. Hold on,

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Speaker 1: see hold on that your old ass damn pieces. We'll

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Speaker 1: have heard two of your response coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after be our today's strawberry letter, subject my

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Speaker 1: wife's co workers fate. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

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Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today's crazy strawberry letter and

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Speaker 1: finish up with your response. The subject is my wife's

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Speaker 1: co workers feet. What this old fool over here and

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Speaker 1: wrote this letter? Tumber he fifty five. He mad he

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Speaker 1: work in the same bill and his wife he dressed

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Speaker 1: down because his job ain't he don't require him dress up.

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Speaker 1: His wife got to be jazz and everything and all

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Speaker 1: who went and her wife work around a bunch of

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Speaker 1: them thirty year olds in the office, and they died pieces. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's how he described. Ye, he's so old they die

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Speaker 1: pieces and everything and everything on these women is right

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Speaker 1: for a need to be if you know what's your

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Speaker 1: favorite line? Ooh hey, old ass player. Now I didn't

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Speaker 1: really know what you meant by that. If you refer

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Speaker 1: to their breast is up there by their chest and

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Speaker 1: they foot it right behind they pelvet, ain't they where

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Speaker 1: it's supposed to be? That's where it's supposed to be? Yes, yea.

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Speaker 1: When the last time you saw a woman unless she

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Speaker 1: was old, with her breath down on her knee, Well,

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Speaker 1: last time you've seen it, you know, breasts like what

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Speaker 1: they posted. So let's save all these ignorant ass statements. Then.

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Speaker 1: My co workers love to sit in the court y'all

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Speaker 1: watching the women coming go. Didn't you just say that

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Speaker 1: you and your wife work in the same building. It

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Speaker 1: you don't think words and got around the building that

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Speaker 1: all the men are sitting in the court y'all work

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Speaker 1: watching people. I started following one of these ladies on

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Speaker 1: I G because she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen.

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Speaker 1: And on top of that, she smiles and make eye

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Speaker 1: contact with me whenever I see her. No, she don't,

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Speaker 1: it's your imagination. Don't how the baddest chick in the building,

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Speaker 1: won't you y'all? She the finest woman you'dn't ever seen

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Speaker 1: and she won't you, boy stop. What I love most

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Speaker 1: about her as her pretty feet. That's the sexiest part

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Speaker 1: of her. And they have their own Instagram page. I

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Speaker 1: secretly looked at her it's ig footpage for months until

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Speaker 1: my wife saw me and took my phone. She kept

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Speaker 1: my phone for two days. I was a nervous wreck

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Speaker 1: when I got it back. I made a fake IG

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Speaker 1: page so I could see pictures of my wife co

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Speaker 1: workers pretty feet without my wife knowing it. Now right there,

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Speaker 1: you're thinking, my man, great move right away. I thought

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Speaker 1: I had outsmart at hood this time. You ain't done

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Speaker 1: nothing smart in this whole damn letter. Now you have

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Speaker 1: made a fake i G page and you said I

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Speaker 1: thought I had outsmart at hood this time. Wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: didn't she bushed you on the phone? Yes? Ain't you

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Speaker 1: the same one to think this girl is looking at

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Speaker 1: you every time you out? Ain't you the same one

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Speaker 1: that's still calling women damn pieces? Ain't you the someone

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Speaker 1: to work in the same off as your wife, but

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Speaker 1: Yeah this year? Right? Yeah, I thought I had out

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Speaker 1: smart at hood this time. M hmm. But she caught

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Speaker 1: me again that well, that ain't taking long. She went

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Speaker 1: attaching my real account, and I was busted again because

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Speaker 1: you stupid. You ain't out smart nobody, You stupid, I thought,

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Speaker 1: and I and I, and she saw all the emojis

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Speaker 1: in comment right, there were fifty five emojis eos. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: why are you fifty five with the heart? What is what? What? What?

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Speaker 1: Which one? What is you putting that to the feat? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Which one is to her show? Want to know? And

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Speaker 1: have you figured out how to make your hands black yet?

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Speaker 1: Because you probably ain't. You need to learn how to

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Speaker 1: make your emojens hair dark, skin on it. It's so

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Speaker 1: stupid ass, you're still sitting in our white prayer of hands.

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Speaker 1: I hate when black people praying for me and seeing

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Speaker 1: white handy. Hey act like you praying for me. I

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Speaker 1: could pray for me. Fifty five, stupid ass with your

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Speaker 1: white hands on everything, confidence stuff. I got a partner

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Speaker 1: to be sending me stuff. I just deleted text ad

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Speaker 1: on me sending me so. Yeah, you know why you

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Speaker 1: got busted again because you fifty five. It's too old

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Speaker 1: to think that you can do anything. Tech savvy. You

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Speaker 1: think you the first person create a fake page? Stupid,

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Speaker 1: Now listen to this. She saw the emojens in the

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Speaker 1: comment that I left under the co workers pictures, and

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Speaker 1: she started crying. She didn't react high how I thought

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Speaker 1: she would at all. She told me my actions made

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Speaker 1: her feel unpretty and unwanted. That broke my heart, and

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Speaker 1: I cried too. You can stop all that because I

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Speaker 1: can't tell you right now. You can't outcry woman. So

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Speaker 1: you can stop all this crying too, trying to cause

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Speaker 1: that's stupid. You can't outcry her. You don't cry with me.

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Speaker 1: Had we had dull. We'll do that right here, and

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Speaker 1: then let me tell you something he would see. I

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Speaker 1: saw that as harmless entertainment, But now she saw her

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Speaker 1: some broken because of me. How do I restore my

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Speaker 1: wife's confidence in herself? And you probably can't, cause you

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Speaker 1: probably because your white feet probably ain't that flat. That's

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Speaker 1: the problem. See one of the whole problems you've got

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Speaker 1: in this letter. Your wife feet. She know her feet

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Speaker 1: ain't fit to be like and now she found out

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Speaker 1: that's what you really like, and now she ain't got it.

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Speaker 1: She's this go we go all right, listen. It's up

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