Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Betsy Happy Hour.
Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena and we.
Speaker 1: Are here with Daisy. We're so excited that you're here, Daisy.
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on.
Speaker 3: How are you hi? Thanks for having me. I'm so
Speaker 3: excited to be on here.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're really honestly, we're really excited to have you.
Speaker 1: I don't, I mean, the feedback on everything, Daisy has
Speaker 1: just been so positive. So, like I said, we're gonna
Speaker 1: try to try to get you say something you shouldn't.
Speaker 1: So are you ready for that?
Speaker 3: I'm ready?
Speaker 1: So Okay, let's start. How How did you get on
Speaker 1: the show?
Speaker 3: So I actually was making tiktoks like a year ago,
Speaker 3: just about my cochlear implant, like my process of getting it,
Speaker 3: and a producer someone in casting saw one of my
Speaker 3: tiktoks that had gone viral and then they damned and
Speaker 3: reached after me and we're like, would you ever be
Speaker 3: interested in going on The Bachelor?
Speaker 4: Was like, maybe, Yeah, what was that decision?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 4: Because I know you just said at the finale that
Speaker 4: it's just been now one year since you got your
Speaker 4: cochlear implant, right, So it was still kind of early
Speaker 4: in that transition. Was it a hard decision to go
Speaker 4: on the show or were you like, no, live my
Speaker 4: best life, let's do it it.
Speaker 3: Definitely it was because at the time I was still
Speaker 3: really learning a lot with it, and speech didn't sound
Speaker 3: as good as like it can with it, So it
Speaker 3: was kind of I had a lot of conversations with
Speaker 3: my parents about it too, just because I already had
Speaker 3: gone through like a ton of stress because of that
Speaker 3: and just the whole process and like relearning to hear
Speaker 3: in a different way. And I knew it was gonna
Speaker 3: be hard going on the show because I was going
Speaker 3: to be around people I had never met, so I
Speaker 3: couldn't really focus on their like mannerisms and like I
Speaker 3: didn't know anyone. And so I also talked to the
Speaker 3: producers a lot too, and I was like, you know,
Speaker 3: I don't know how this is gonna go for me.
Speaker 3: And actually the first night when I walked in, I
Speaker 3: was like, I don't think I can do this. And
Speaker 3: I actually talked to a couple of the producers. I
Speaker 3: was like, I think I need to leave, Like I
Speaker 3: don't think. I don't think I was ready for this yet,
Speaker 3: just because of all the noise. But everyone was so
Speaker 3: comforting and like found ways to make me more comfortable.
Speaker 3: So that was great. But yeah, I definitely it was
Speaker 3: a hard decision. But now I'm so happy that I
Speaker 3: did it.
Speaker 4: It's also so hard because like there's not an ease
Speaker 4: into the show and night one is the longest and
Speaker 4: the most overwhelming night, so you're kind of just thrown
Speaker 4: into the deep end right away.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and they were definitely, like they kept reassuring me.
Speaker 3: They were like, this is gonna be like the hardest night,
Speaker 3: like probably probably like acoustic for you. And it's like
Speaker 3: you're going in you don't know anybody, You're meeting this
Speaker 3: guy you never met, and all of the girls are
Speaker 3: going for the same guy. So that's intimidating too. And
Speaker 3: so the first time I was like, my gosh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know night one is Night one's awful for everyone.
Speaker 1: I do. I have. So I have a friend that
Speaker 1: that has lime disease, and I actually looked up the
Speaker 1: hospital that you went to in Germany. Yeah, do you
Speaker 1: think if you do you think like if you didn't
Speaker 1: go to that hospital, you would have found another way
Speaker 1: to cure it, or you think like that hospital is
Speaker 1: like the reason.
Speaker 3: I think that's the reason for me, definitely, because I
Speaker 3: did a lot of other treatments in the States, and
Speaker 3: I tried basically everything I could from like eastern to
Speaker 3: western medicine, and then I heard of this place, so
Speaker 3: I went and I did it. It was kind of
Speaker 3: I was at that point in my life where I
Speaker 3: was like, it can't get worse, nothing worse, and so
Speaker 3: that's when I decided to go and do it. And
Speaker 3: I'm so thankful that I did it, and I know
Speaker 3: a lot of people that have done it that it's
Speaker 3: worked for. So so yeah, that for me was definitely it.
Speaker 3: And I always say if I were to get sick
Speaker 3: again or anything were to happen, I would go back
Speaker 3: there in a second.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: That's amazing interesting too, because, like I mean, it is
Speaker 3: in a different country, so there's like a whole different
Speaker 3: aspect to it, and just the doctors kind of look
Speaker 3: at medicine differently. So it was really interesting being there too.
Speaker 1: And I can I ask you once so then once
Speaker 1: you leave that hospital and you're done with that treatment, like,
Speaker 1: how how much longer did it take for you to
Speaker 1: be I guess back healthy again? Back to like fully healthy?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say probably two months after that is
Speaker 3: when I really noticed. I was like, I feel like
Speaker 3: a completely different person. Some people right after they do
Speaker 3: like the main part of the treatment. They feel better
Speaker 3: right after, and then people can take like up to
Speaker 3: six months because your body can still be like detoxing,
Speaker 3: and also like everything that was kind of damaged damaged
Speaker 3: has to like replenish and build.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I would figure. Cool. Welcome, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you for opening up about that. Okay, so let's
Speaker 1: go to Joey Joey, Joey Joey. You see him out
Speaker 1: of the limbo. What are your thoughts?
Speaker 3: I At the beginning, I was like, I don't really
Speaker 3: know how this is gonna go. But I was really excited.
Speaker 3: And when like he was announced as the bachelor, I
Speaker 3: was like I could actually see myself like me and
Speaker 3: him getting along really really well. And so I was
Speaker 3: excited about it. And I got out. I was just
Speaker 3: so nervous. But then and then you walked in and
Speaker 3: it was just like craziness, all the girls and everything.
Speaker 3: But then when I talked to him, that was the
Speaker 3: first time I was like, oh, I was like maybe
Speaker 3: I think something's like there.
Speaker 4: That's always like a good feeling too, because you're like,
Speaker 4: this night's so crazy.
Speaker 2: I've just like turned my life upside down to be here.
Speaker 4: So to have that first conversation be like, Okay, this
Speaker 4: wasn't all for nothing, like there's a potential connection, must
Speaker 4: have felt really good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I didn't talk to him until like six am.
Speaker 4: I think, no, were you panicking thinking you might not
Speaker 4: get a chance.
Speaker 3: I mean, yes, a little bit, because I'm I was
Speaker 3: the last one to talk to him that night, So
Speaker 3: as the time was going on, as I got like
Speaker 3: three am, I was like, I don't know if I'm
Speaker 3: gonna talk to him and Halloween.
Speaker 2: Here if he's got some time to chat.
Speaker 1: But how was he when you when you had that
Speaker 1: last conversation that he seemed exhausted or was he just
Speaker 1: like amped up on adrenaline and fine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he seemed really present, so okay, yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I remember being like at from three to four, I
Speaker 3: was like, I'm not gonna make it. But then I
Speaker 3: got another.
Speaker 1: Woman nice and then I would say, like, what what
Speaker 1: point in the season did you realize like I'm really
Speaker 1: starting to catch feeling and I'm one of his stronger connections.
Speaker 3: I would say that a lot of the other girls
Speaker 3: in the house noticed it before I did, and a
Speaker 3: lot of my friends were like, no, he's really really
Speaker 3: into you. And I think I was still I kind
Speaker 3: of with the whole process. I was always being like
Speaker 3: kind of careful about it all and how I was feeling.
Speaker 3: But I would say every time I was with him,
Speaker 3: I was like liking him more and more, and then
Speaker 3: when I was away from him, I was kind of like,
Speaker 3: but is this whole thing like real? I was like
Speaker 3: kind of in my head about it, you know, But
Speaker 3: I would say definitely. I would say our date in Jasper,
Speaker 3: for sure was kind of like a huge like stepping stone,
Speaker 3: like getting to the next step and like my feelings.
Speaker 3: But I would say, like, even after our first one
Speaker 3: on one, I was like, whoa, I really really like
Speaker 3: this guy. And I didn't expect myself to be like that.
Speaker 4: But yeah, you opened up a lot on your first
Speaker 4: one on one. Two, How did you expect him to react?
Speaker 4: Was that the first time you shared that story in
Speaker 4: like a dating sense?
Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, definitely. So after I got my cochlear and plan,
Speaker 3: i'd only been on like one date since, but it
Speaker 3: was somebody that I had known prior, so they like
Speaker 3: knew all my health stuff and knew everything about me,
Speaker 3: but this was my first time like sitting down literally
Speaker 3: with anybody in my life and being like, so, like,
Speaker 3: this is what's happened, and it happened really recently. That's
Speaker 3: why it was such a big thing for me to
Speaker 3: tell him and like, for yeah, that's just why it
Speaker 3: was such a big thing for me to like sit
Speaker 3: down and talk to him about because I had never
Speaker 3: done that and it was still like a huge thing
Speaker 3: I was learning and being comfortable with. So it was
Speaker 3: important like that he knew, especially after that first night,
Speaker 3: because I was like, I don't know how this is
Speaker 3: going to go for me. So yeah, I was like
Speaker 3: I was nervous, but I knew, like everything I had
Speaker 3: heard about him is super nice and kind, so I
Speaker 3: knew it was probably going to be a good conversation.
Speaker 3: But it was still difficult because you never know, oh.
Speaker 4: Of course, and it's still you had the first one
Speaker 4: on one date, so it's still early on. I feel
Speaker 4: like that it's not like you've had a few weeks
Speaker 4: to get to know him. Where you're going in with like, oh,
Speaker 4: I think this is how he's going to react based
Speaker 4: on like my time with him, how were you thinking
Speaker 4: expecting hoping he was going to react to you sharing
Speaker 4: your story?
Speaker 3: Honestly, just the way he did. I thought it was
Speaker 3: like perfect how he reacted. I honestly, he reacted better
Speaker 3: than I even like imagined somebody would. So that was
Speaker 3: really good to see. And it was really special too,
Speaker 3: because after that episode, I had so many parents reaching
Speaker 3: out to me with like kids who had cochlear implants
Speaker 3: or if they have other things, and they were just like,
Speaker 3: you know, it gave us kind of a sense and
Speaker 3: like an understanding of how they do ever want to
Speaker 3: talk about it, like a way they can talk about it,
Speaker 3: And so that was really special to see too. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think getting the first one
Speaker 1: on one date is good or bad.
Speaker 3: For me?
Speaker 1: Because nothing, Sorry not to cut you off, because it
Speaker 1: is something that's like you get the first one on
Speaker 1: one and you guys, if it's really seemed like you
Speaker 1: really liked each other, but then like so much happens
Speaker 1: and we're kind of like, what's going on with Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's going on with Joey and Daisy? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think in my case, I think it was
Speaker 3: really good and I think it allowed for us to
Speaker 3: kind of build a good like foundation from the beginning
Speaker 3: and talk about a lot of things that we both
Speaker 3: like wanted and felt like we needed to talk about.
Speaker 3: And then I think moving forward, we just kept like
Speaker 3: building and building from that. But it is weird because
Speaker 3: like you go from having all that time with them
Speaker 3: and then it's super cut short, like on group dates
Speaker 3: and stuff. But I kind of looked at it like, Okay,
Speaker 3: I have to make the most out of like the time,
Speaker 3: the small amount of time that I have now. But
Speaker 3: also I don't know, I could just tell after that
Speaker 3: like first one on one, like I never felt very
Speaker 3: like insecure in mine and his relationship. I feel like it.
Speaker 3: I feel like we just kept like progressing until we didn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I feel like that just goes to show
Speaker 4: that he was probably making a conscious effort to validate you,
Speaker 4: and like I feel like we saw both of you
Speaker 4: like making an effort to like move the relationship forward.
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Like throughout those small times that you had together, I
Speaker 4: know you said that your date and Jasper was kind
Speaker 4: of like a big turning point.
Speaker 2: I want to talk about your conversation with him.
Speaker 4: On how you said like, Hey, I'm not in love
Speaker 4: with you, but kind of what was your thought process
Speaker 4: going into that conversation.
Speaker 3: I mean I felt like I had heard like other
Speaker 3: girls in the house and I was friends with a
Speaker 3: lot of them, and I had heard a lot of
Speaker 3: people I told him that they were falling in love
Speaker 3: with him, and I remember when we were in Spain,
Speaker 3: I was like, I I'm not there yet, but I
Speaker 3: feel like I should be because I was like, I've
Speaker 3: gotten like the most time out of a lot of people,
Speaker 3: and I'm like I was kind of like should I
Speaker 3: be here? Like that was my like my thought process.
Speaker 3: And then going into our date, like I knew where
Speaker 3: hometowns were, so I just wanted to be super honest
Speaker 3: because I know, like his biggest fear was like somebody
Speaker 3: not getting there, and so I didn't want to if
Speaker 3: like that was going to be like a caught off
Speaker 3: thing for him, Like I didn't want to take somebody
Speaker 3: else's like opportunity, and like I wanted to go to
Speaker 3: hometown so badly, But I was just like I wasn't
Speaker 3: like in love with him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, was there any part of you that was worried
Speaker 4: that when you said that he was going to be like, well,
Speaker 4: you know, you're steps behind these other connections and maybe
Speaker 4: end the relationship right there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely I thought that was like that could be
Speaker 3: a thing for sure, But I also knew I could
Speaker 3: tell he like really cared about me, and I really
Speaker 3: cared about him too, and I think I was holding
Speaker 3: back in ways also, But yeah, that definitely went through
Speaker 3: my mind.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's go to com down. So yeah, I guess
Speaker 1: when was when was the switch where You're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I actually I now I'm now here or I'm getting here,
Speaker 1: and yeah, like hometowns went really well. It was it
Speaker 1: maybe just him meeting your your family, Like what was it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think meeting my family and after that date
Speaker 3: in Jasper, I think it shows a clip of me
Speaker 3: and I'm like, it's happening. Remember after that I was
Speaker 3: talking and I was like, yeah, I think I think
Speaker 3: I might be like in love with him, and then yeah,
Speaker 3: and then going to hometowns and like meeting my family
Speaker 3: and everything it just went. It was like such a
Speaker 3: perfect day. And so that was definitely the moment. And
Speaker 3: I think talking to my parents too, because it is
Speaker 3: a crazy experience and you're cut off from everyone, and
Speaker 3: so I didn't have like my family I could talk to.
Speaker 3: I didn't have my typical like friends that I could
Speaker 3: talk to all the time to be like, oh, like
Speaker 3: this guy and tell them all this stuff kind of
Speaker 3: get their input. But it was really good for me too,
Speaker 3: because it made me kind of work and process through
Speaker 3: my own emotions in a way that I hadn't before.
Speaker 3: So I think overall it was really good. But I
Speaker 3: think that would be like the turning point. Probably.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was crazy as a if you were watching
Speaker 4: your last few weeks of the show, because I feel
Speaker 4: like we went from that conversation on your one on
Speaker 4: one where you tell Joey like, I'm not in love
Speaker 4: with you yet, and then it's really like this quick
Speaker 4: snowball effect of your feelings. It's like almost like you
Speaker 4: said that and he was like, I still want you here,
Speaker 4: I still have a connection, and then it was your
Speaker 4: family and then it was fantasy sweetes. Did it feel
Speaker 4: like that, like, did it feel like you kind of
Speaker 4: fell in love really quickly and like all at once.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to see if, like the way we
Speaker 4: viewed it was in line with how you felt about
Speaker 4: the journey.
Speaker 1: You jinked yourself, Daisy, you drinked yourself out there.
Speaker 3: I really did, But no, I think it was slowly
Speaker 3: like filling it up, and I was kind of denying
Speaker 3: it a little bit. But then yeah, at the end,
Speaker 3: and I remember going into the real ceremony before Fantasy
Speaker 3: Sweets Week, I remember doing like an interview. Then I
Speaker 3: was like, you know, I'm just worried that I like
Speaker 3: wasn't allowing myself to feel it, and now I'm feeling everything,
Speaker 3: and I'm wishing I would have felt it sooner because
Speaker 3: now I feel like I'm like gonna miss out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I can totally understand how you would maybe
Speaker 4: have like a guard up in the sense of like
Speaker 4: you were maybe holding back those feelings because he is
Speaker 4: dating multiple women and it is scary to be like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna let myself like totally fall in love
Speaker 4: with this guy when there's like fifteen other girls here
Speaker 4: and I might get my heart broken.
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, that definitely is a reason I feel like
Speaker 3: a lot of people hold back sometimes. But yeah, I'm happy.
Speaker 1: You kind of like, yeah, it's kind of it's it's
Speaker 1: kind of insane. Not to hold back a little bit
Speaker 1: because yeah, like there's just there's so many other women there.
Speaker 4: But but with how it ends, are you happy you
Speaker 4: eventually let yourself feel everything despite everything that happens.
Speaker 3: Yes, I am, because I think I think it really
Speaker 3: like opened me up in a different way, and I think, yeah,
Speaker 3: I just think the ending happened like really beautifully for
Speaker 3: everyone involved. And yeah, and I am really happy I
Speaker 3: did it because it was such a great experience and
Speaker 3: I had so much fun and I did create like
Speaker 3: really good relationships through it too, and so yeah, honestly
Speaker 3: it's as hard as it was in that moment, Like
Speaker 3: looking back on it, I'm like, I think it was
Speaker 3: like everything I needed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. That's that's definitely a positive outlook. The
Speaker 1: in between time between after Fantasy Suites and before that
Speaker 1: last date, right, that's what. Yeah, like the sauna date,
Speaker 1: where was your headspace before that that date?
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I know you mentioned on the finale that
Speaker 4: the first time you felt that shadow of a doubt
Speaker 4: was after the rose ceremony after Fantasy Sweet, seeing Kelsey
Speaker 4: and Joey.
Speaker 2: Look at each other.
Speaker 4: So yeah, to reiterate what joe said, where was your
Speaker 4: head at Yeah.
Speaker 3: So from yeah, from that last ye of ceremony, when
Speaker 3: I saw him and Kelsey, I could just tell her
Speaker 3: was like this energy between them, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I don't think it's me. For like a second, I
Speaker 3: remember thinking that, and I remember I like broke down
Speaker 3: crying and they both like hugged me, and I was
Speaker 3: like it's gonna be okay. Yeah. And then and then
Speaker 3: from I think I kind of just like blocked it
Speaker 3: out because I was like, oh, we're meeting the family.
Speaker 3: Meeting the family went great, and then after that I
Speaker 3: was like, Okay, that went so good, and I was like,
Speaker 3: but I was, I didn't get you didn't really get
Speaker 3: to talk to him when you like meet the family,
Speaker 3: don't get to talk to him that much, just basically
Speaker 3: just talking to the family. And then going into our
Speaker 3: next I was just so like filled with anxiety and
Speaker 3: it didn't feel like the excitement I had always felt
Speaker 3: when I was going to see him, and everything just
Speaker 3: started to like physically like hurt, like my whole body.
Speaker 3: Like I was just like, this doesn't feel right. And
Speaker 3: then we went into that date and I don't know,
Speaker 3: maybe I had some like spiritual awakening.
Speaker 4: I don't know, but I feel like it's like women's
Speaker 4: intuition or like you just have this six sent Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, because it did feel like as a viewer,
Speaker 1: it kind of felt like Joey was like soft breaking
Speaker 1: up with you, like.
Speaker 2: He launching the break.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And then and then I know, at the reunion
Speaker 1: or not the reunion whatever it's called, I should know
Speaker 1: by now because I've been doing this for ten years.
Speaker 1: He he like was like, how did you know? But
Speaker 1: like as a viewer, we were kind of it was
Speaker 1: kind of like, yeah, it's it's kind of obvious.
Speaker 4: The It's like, Joey, your poker face, it wasn't as
Speaker 4: good as you thought it was.
Speaker 1: And like, do you think do you think like do
Speaker 1: you think you, I guess, poked that out of him
Speaker 1: at all? Or do you think like it was kind
Speaker 1: of just like you both were feeling it.
Speaker 3: I guess I think we both were feeling it and
Speaker 3: we both knew, But I think it was just processing
Speaker 3: and kind of like coming to terms with it. For me. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but I think I think I definitely knew, and I
Speaker 3: think there was something, if I'm being honest, there was
Speaker 3: something always missing between us, and I felt like in ways.
Speaker 3: I was kind of trying to like force it to
Speaker 3: be there because I felt like we are a lot
Speaker 3: alike in ways. But I also I just felt like
Speaker 3: there was something always missing between us, and I think
Speaker 3: for a period of the show I just kind of
Speaker 3: ignored it, and then when it got to like the ending,
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, like, I'm I'm right, like there
Speaker 3: is something missing between us.
Speaker 2: So did you ever feel.
Speaker 4: Or consider like pushing the answer out of him on
Speaker 4: that last date either the day or the night portion
Speaker 4: and just like asking him like is it me? You know?
Speaker 3: I I didn't think about asking him that. I always
Speaker 3: felt like if he knew for sure that it wasn't me,
Speaker 3: that he would have enough like respect for me to
Speaker 3: send me home whenever he was feeling that. So I
Speaker 3: trusted him in the aspect that if he knew one
Speaker 3: percent it wasn't me, he would have enough respect for
Speaker 3: me to send me home.
Speaker 1: Then, Yeah, was there any part of you, okay, so
Speaker 1: that you you make the active choice to basically go
Speaker 1: to Kelsey and tell her like it's not me? I
Speaker 1: guess why did you? Why did you decide to do that?
Speaker 1: And that? And then was there any part of you
Speaker 1: that maybe you were saying that to Kelsey and then
Speaker 1: second guessing like, oh what if what if it is me? Though,
Speaker 1: Like what if I'm wrong?
Speaker 3: No, I've never been more sure of something, And honestly,
Speaker 3: and like my reason going to talk to Kelsey was
Speaker 3: from like a friendship standpoint, and I think just talking
Speaker 3: to her about like how both of our weeks have been.
Speaker 3: And also it was a way like I know they
Speaker 3: both really cared about me, and I wanted them to
Speaker 3: know that, like I was going to be okay and
Speaker 3: that I supported them and I want them to be happy.
Speaker 3: Even though like this was really hard for me, it's
Speaker 3: still something that I can be happy for them for.
Speaker 3: And I don't think everyone will always understand that, especially
Speaker 3: if you haven't been on this show and gone through
Speaker 3: the position, but you don't understand how much time like
Speaker 3: you spend with the girls, especially towards the end. Like me,
Speaker 3: Rachel and Kelsey were extremely close towards the end, and
Speaker 3: I felt like we all just had a lot of
Speaker 3: respect for each other. Also, that conversation with me and Kelsey,
Speaker 3: it was like I know, it's it's the show is
Speaker 3: only like two hours, so they can't have everything in it,
Speaker 3: but there was like a lot more parts to it
Speaker 3: of me and her just like talking about how I
Speaker 3: was feeling, talking about how she was feeling, talking about
Speaker 3: like we want the best for each other, and like
Speaker 3: me saying he's not my person, like I know he's
Speaker 3: your person. And there was a lot of like beautiful
Speaker 3: moments behind that, and she she like she knew it
Speaker 3: was her and she knew it wasn't me, and she said,
Speaker 3: I've been worried about you all week because I felt
Speaker 3: that it was going to be me. And so it
Speaker 3: was a really like beautiful conversation between me and her,
Speaker 3: and it's going to be like something that me and
Speaker 3: her will always have and like the important thing is
Speaker 3: that like her and Joey know why I did it
Speaker 3: and know like what was behind it all, and so
Speaker 3: like that's what matters. And I know some people will
Speaker 3: probably have different things to say about it, but they
Speaker 3: know why and they were really like accepting of it
Speaker 3: and supportive of how everything went.
Speaker 1: So you're, you know, it's your life, your choice, so
Speaker 1: you have to do what you feel in the moment.
Speaker 1: I think there's there'll be a lot of people that
Speaker 1: will criticize you for that. But they, you know, they
Speaker 1: don't know what it's like to be in that position.
Speaker 1: And I think you have to go with your gut,
Speaker 1: and if that's what you were feeling, it was the
Speaker 1: right move.
Speaker 4: Was it validating in any way watching the show back
Speaker 4: and seeing their connection. I know you said you were
Speaker 4: like super confident it wasn't you on the show, but
Speaker 4: just watching it back and being like I see it
Speaker 4: between them and maybe help you understand maybe what was
Speaker 4: missing between you and Joey.
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. And it's interesting that you ask about that
Speaker 3: because in my journal, I liked, I journaled every single
Speaker 3: day and when we were in I think it was
Speaker 3: in Montreal, it was either Montreal, yeah, I think it
Speaker 3: was Montreal or no Jasper, Yeah, Jasper. There was the
Speaker 3: day me and Kelsey were like sitting on this like
Speaker 3: dock on the little lake there and we were just
Speaker 3: talking about like so many things. And then I went
Speaker 3: back to my room and I started journaling, and I
Speaker 3: was like, you know, if it's not me, I think
Speaker 3: Kelsey would be perfect for him. And I was like,
Speaker 3: I think I like I knew because I like had
Speaker 3: seen them together, you know what I mean. But yeah,
Speaker 3: it's just it's a weird situation to be in and
Speaker 3: kind of be processing everything too. But I remember I
Speaker 3: like when the shows would air, I would go back
Speaker 3: and read like my journal for them like that week,
Speaker 3: and I remember reading that and I was like, oh
Speaker 3: my gosh. I was like I kind of called it.
Speaker 4: But it is weird because it's so hard if you
Speaker 4: haven't been on it to but it's like you're getting
Speaker 4: to know this guy so well, but you're also getting
Speaker 4: to know all these girls so well. So it's like
Speaker 4: you kind of were in a position where you could
Speaker 4: be like I can like if you were to match them,
Speaker 4: like you could essentially you would have all the information
Speaker 4: to do.
Speaker 3: So yeah, for sure, And definitely like watching them back
Speaker 3: and seeing like how like you can definitely tell like
Speaker 3: they're so in love with each other like on the
Speaker 3: show they were in like even now seeing them in person.
Speaker 1: So yeah, knowing what you know now after going through
Speaker 1: all this and kind of maybe trying to look at
Speaker 1: it from like Joey's point of view, and I know, like,
Speaker 1: I think Jen's going to be an excellent bachelorette. And
Speaker 1: I know you kind of expressed that you weren't. You
Speaker 1: weren't really ready for that. But do you think you
Speaker 1: could ever be the lead of a show like this?
Speaker 3: I think I definitely could. I think right now, just
Speaker 3: in my life, I had, like I said, I had
Speaker 3: like two really huge things happen in a short amount
Speaker 3: of time, and I haven't really just had time to
Speaker 3: like live and be me and do the things I
Speaker 3: want to do, and so like right now, it's just
Speaker 3: like not a good time for me to do something
Speaker 3: like that. But I'm like, I loved being on the
Speaker 3: show and I had such a great experience, but I
Speaker 3: just think, yeah, just right now, it's just not right
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 4: And then you had a very big year, You're allowed
Speaker 4: to have a chill year now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I had a very big year, and I'm excited
Speaker 3: to see everything that comes from this and everything that
Speaker 3: I can do. But it's just I knew it wouldn't
Speaker 3: be like best for me right now.
Speaker 1: I think that was smart. That's smart. What is something
Speaker 1: that you want to do from this?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What's next for Daisy?
Speaker 3: I've been working on my nonprofit a lot, so I
Speaker 3: really want to keep working on that.
Speaker 4: I want to plug it what's it called? Tell people
Speaker 4: where they can find information about it?
Speaker 3: It's called here Your Heart. You can go to Hear
Speaker 3: Yourheart dot org. But I want to do that. There's
Speaker 3: also I have another children's book that's in the works.
Speaker 1: I want.
Speaker 3: I have like a kind of a like memoir from
Speaker 3: my life that I actually had finished like six months before,
Speaker 3: like before I even ever got atim on the show.
Speaker 3: So it's interesting because it's about my life like before
Speaker 3: the show. Yeah, it goes through all my health stuff
Speaker 3: and everything, and I had it done before I came on.
Speaker 3: So I want to publish that eventually. And I really
Speaker 3: want to do a lot of like public speaking, especially
Speaker 3: to the younger kids. That's kind of like the stuff
Speaker 3: I want to do right now. Yeah, I'm excited to
Speaker 3: see where everything goes from here.
Speaker 1: Are you ready to potentially start dating?
Speaker 3: I think yes, Like I'm I'm not going to say
Speaker 3: like no, I'm not ready to date. I think if
Speaker 3: it was somebody like really special and someone that I
Speaker 3: really connected with, well like yes, but I don't know.
Speaker 3: You never know what's going to happen.
Speaker 1: True, It's true.
Speaker 3: I will say I think right now is a time
Speaker 3: in my life where I like I want to put
Speaker 3: myself first because I haven't been able to do that
Speaker 3: in a really long time, and so I think, like
Speaker 3: that's kind of my standpoint on it, Like I just
Speaker 3: need to put myself first. But I'm not going.
Speaker 4: To be like no, you know, yeah, like if your
Speaker 4: husband walked into the room, you're not going to turn
Speaker 4: turn away, but you're prioritizing yourself and like settling into
Speaker 4: your single.
Speaker 1: Yes, but you're open. You're open. You're open to.
Speaker 2: The open guys.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're okay. So we have to ask. There's been
Speaker 1: a lot of online chatter and podcast talking about the
Speaker 1: music video that you were in with with with the
Speaker 1: what's the chorus? Do you can you touch on that
Speaker 1: at all? Do you want to?
Speaker 4: Yeah, give us the story. How did this music video
Speaker 4: come to be? How did you meet the guy?
Speaker 2: What's the story?
Speaker 3: It's actually no, it's all good. It's actually one of
Speaker 3: my best friends since like we were probably fourth or
Speaker 3: fifth grade. He's always been like one of my best friends,
Speaker 3: and he like makes a lot of music, does a
Speaker 3: lot of beats and stuff. I like always did choir
Speaker 3: and everything. I like played piano and play guitar, so
Speaker 3: we would always just do random music stuff together. And
Speaker 3: then he made that song and He's like, you want
Speaker 3: to be honest. I was like sure, So I was
Speaker 3: on it and I'm like, yeah, but it was the
Speaker 3: red of the internet when you went on the show.
Speaker 2: Did you ever think, like, I wonder if people are
Speaker 2: going to see this?
Speaker 3: I mean I thought like, yeah, people were probably going
Speaker 3: to see everything that was online. I didn't. I honestly
Speaker 3: didn't think people would have that big of a reaction
Speaker 3: to it. But it was kind of funny because like
Speaker 3: me and all of my hometown friends were all like
Speaker 3: laughing about it, because honestly, most people weren't like mean
Speaker 3: about it. They were just like, what the heck, this
Speaker 3: is so like out of the fuck.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I mean the lyrics. I mean, did you
Speaker 1: when when you did the music video or did you
Speaker 1: question his lyrics and all? Were you kind of like
Speaker 1: a little like it's a little aggressive. I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: a little bit.
Speaker 3: And I my mom my mom was like, oh this
Speaker 3: is interesting. And I remember calling my mom and I
Speaker 3: was like laughing and She's like, what's going on? And
Speaker 3: like me and Brandon's video, the video or like the
Speaker 3: music video I was on a Brandon's I'm like, it's
Speaker 3: like going viral and people are seeing so much stuff
Speaker 3: about it, and my mom goes, my mom's like the
Speaker 3: most supportive person ever of me, and my mom goes, hm,
Speaker 3: I get it. And I was like, okay, you're like.
Speaker 4: Hey, mom, remember that music video I did four years
Speaker 4: ago was Brandon about uh you know that line about balls.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's going viral, my mom, let go.
Speaker 3: I get it. But honestly, like, I don't regret doing
Speaker 3: it because we had so much fun that day and
Speaker 3: it was like a time in my life where honestly
Speaker 3: I was like so so sad and so whenever I
Speaker 3: had a day where I was just like having fun
Speaker 3: and like doing whatever, Like I don't know, it was
Speaker 3: a great day. And he's one of my best friends
Speaker 3: and like me and him laugh about it so much now,
Speaker 3: so like I don't regret it being there. And also
Speaker 3: like it was kind of a time in the show
Speaker 3: We're like I was like kind of like slowing down
Speaker 3: and like other people were like getting more like focus
Speaker 3: on and then I feel like all of a sudden
Speaker 3: that came out and about and people were like, oh Daisy, what.
Speaker 2: It is so true.
Speaker 4: It was like mid season where it was like all
Speaker 4: of a sudden, like wait, why is Daisy in this
Speaker 4: blue light all over my Instagram page.
Speaker 3: And then but yeah, it was funny. But also like
Speaker 3: during that time too, like I think on my YouTube
Speaker 3: it's still I have like I have like so many
Speaker 3: videos in me like covering songs and like singing and
Speaker 3: playing music. And a huge reason that like I did
Speaker 3: that is because that period of my life is when
Speaker 3: I found out like I was probably going deaf, and
Speaker 3: so I was like, Okay, I'm gonna like do like
Speaker 3: as much music stuff as I and because it's always
Speaker 3: been such a big part of my life. So I
Speaker 3: have like literally like hundreds and hundreds of like covers
Speaker 3: on like this drive that I have. So but yeah,
Speaker 3: I mean.
Speaker 1: Make sure you check the lyrics before before me before
Speaker 1: you're at least.
Speaker 3: Say but honestly, yeah, I mean everyone's got to have
Speaker 3: something come up, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny. Honestly, you guys should truly make t
Speaker 1: shirts and sell them because you crush.
Speaker 2: You should make a new one. You should make a
Speaker 2: new one. People want more.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's we're gonna play a game with you and
Speaker 1: then and then we'll let you go. Also, I know
Speaker 1: I asked you about about potentially being The Bachelor atte
Speaker 1: But let's say Bachelor and Paradise came around, would you
Speaker 1: consider that.
Speaker 3: Like in this in this moment. Probably now, But I
Speaker 3: don't know, you never really. But I think I think
Speaker 3: I didn't realize like I always. I think I knew
Speaker 3: how like big The Bachelor was because I watched it,
Speaker 3: but I didn't really understand how crazy some people are.
Speaker 3: I think right now, like I always like want to
Speaker 3: be involved in some way, but I think right now
Speaker 3: I just kind of want to kind of take control of.
Speaker 1: My life. Yeah, makes sense, All right, let's do this
Speaker 1: rapid fire. Rapid fire with Daisy.
Speaker 2: It's all easy, easy, easy, fine. Question. It's not just
Speaker 2: like favorite food kind of thing.
Speaker 5: Okay, night in or go out? Night in early bird
Speaker 5: or night owl early bird? Favorite food or cuisine?
Speaker 3: I love sushi, Impasta, same girl.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what is your love language?
Speaker 3: Physical touch?
Speaker 1: What is a deal breaker for you?
Speaker 3: Cheeter?
Speaker 1: What is your go to cocktail?
Speaker 3: Skinny spicy mark?
Speaker 1: Favorite place you visited this season?
Speaker 3: This season Jasper, that's really the favorite.
Speaker 2: All everyone says that they loved Jasper.
Speaker 3: It's beautiful and just like the energy there and like
Speaker 3: all of us girls us like six girls we had
Speaker 3: so much fun that week, even like in the Bluebirds,
Speaker 3: it's us like sitting by the fire like kind of
Speaker 3: impersonating each other and my bad night was so much fun.
Speaker 3: But yeah it was great vibes.
Speaker 5: Favorite group date, favorite group date on the tennis date,
Speaker 5: least favorite group date.
Speaker 3: I honestly, I don't think I have one. I like,
Speaker 3: I had a really good time at them all, honestly,
Speaker 3: maybe the I loved the painting one when we were
Speaker 3: in Spain, but I was really really like sick that day,
Speaker 3: so I did not.
Speaker 1: Uh, Okay, A favorite look you wore this season?
Speaker 3: I really liked the white like cut out us I
Speaker 3: wore when we are in Malta because I felt like
Speaker 3: it wasn't like something people would expect me to wear.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a good one.
Speaker 1: Gold or silver, gold go to go to hangover care.
Speaker 3: Liquid ivy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's the best.
Speaker 1: Favorite color to wear.
Speaker 3: Favorite color to wear green or black?
Speaker 1: I like Kareen myself. I feel like Serena probably should
Speaker 1: have been the one asking these questions. Favorite favorite beauty product.
Speaker 3: Favorite beauty product. I love the rare beauty blush.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, Serena, you know that I do. I do.
Speaker 2: It's a classic Joe. Do you know that?
Speaker 1: Of course?
Speaker 2: Do you know what celebrity owns? Rare beauty?
Speaker 1: Rare beauty? Yeah, give me a call.
Speaker 4: She it's a female singer slash actress. She's a brunette.
Speaker 2: She's dating a car guy. Yeah, good job, good job.
Speaker 1: Adventurous or relaxing vacation a mix? Can I say yes
Speaker 1: you can because that is the correct answer. Dream destination spot.
Speaker 3: I really want to go to Australia.
Speaker 1: Nice. Okay, Well, Daisy, you were wonderful as we expect it,
Speaker 1: and thank you so much for coming on Bachelor Happy Hour.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you both so much. It was nice to
Speaker 3: meet you guys in person, well.
Speaker 1: Well kind of imperfect, kind of in person. And thank
Speaker 1: you to all our listeners for tuning in. We hope
Speaker 1: you enjoyed this interview as much as we did, and
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