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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey Tommy, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 3: How are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh, you know, not bad?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for asking. But we're trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: what's going on with this one. Kayla. You emailed us

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Speaker 1: about her. You met on one of the dating apps,

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Speaker 1: which is how I feel like everybody meets all the

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Speaker 1: time now, and you you asked her out for drinks

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Speaker 1: and then what happened?

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Speaker 3: So yeah, so, like you said, met on the apps,

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Speaker 3: we had a great back and forth via you know,

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Speaker 3: texting app or on the app so to speak, and yeah, hey,

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Speaker 3: do you want to go out for drinks?

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Speaker 4: Sounds great?

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Speaker 2: Things are going well, and we were.

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Speaker 4: I mean things are going well to the extent that

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Speaker 4: we were like flirting a ton on before the date,

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Speaker 4: like via the app. And then you know, we switched

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Speaker 4: over to our regular phone numbers.

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Speaker 5: So we go out for drinks and once we got there,

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Speaker 5: he started acting a bit weird and then just up

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Speaker 5: in the middle of things, just dipped out and.

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Speaker 1: She walked out in the middle of the day. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's right, huh.

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Speaker 4: And now I'm just kind of sitting here being like,

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Speaker 4: what's up.

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Speaker 2: I want to figure out what the issue was.

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Speaker 4: I hope she's okay, you know, and uh, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 4: just I'm just used and all the.

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Speaker 2: All those things. Yeah, yeah, shoes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't blame you because and so you haven't

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Speaker 1: heard from her, sense I assume. But this is a

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Speaker 1: different kind of ghosting. I mean, she she ghosted you

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Speaker 1: ride in front of your face.

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Speaker 4: She got to see me mid date, which is which

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Speaker 4: is yeah, that's uh, that's not not great for the ego.

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Speaker 4: But but more so, I just I really liked her,

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Speaker 4: and and you know, like I said, I wanted to

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Speaker 4: want to make sure that everything's okay, and and but yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm curious.

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Speaker 1: I don't really blame you. I'd want to know what

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Speaker 1: was going on too. So let's I'm gonna play a song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back in just a couple of minutes. We'll

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Speaker 1: call this one Kyle. You'll be on the phone too.

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Speaker 1: At some point. You're welcome to jump in, but let's

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Speaker 1: try to try and get some in for you. And

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Speaker 1: you know, the hope here is that whatever happened we

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Speaker 1: can straighten out and then we'll set you up on

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Speaker 1: another date. That we pay for, so we have we

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Speaker 1: have good intentions here. You know, we're trying to do

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Speaker 1: a nice thing. Usually the first person involved screwed it up,

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Speaker 1: which would be you, Tommy. But let's see, we'll see

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Speaker 1: what happens next day. Right here, thank you. We got

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Speaker 1: to find out what's going on. We'll do a part

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Speaker 1: two of waiting meta PHO two minutes from now after

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Speaker 1: Sizza on the Fread Show. You've got to hear it,

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Speaker 1: Sizz It's the Fread Show. It's Friday. Good morning, Hey Tommy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Caleb. You met on the dating apps.

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Speaker 1: You chatted on the app, and then you texted, and

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Speaker 1: then you went on a date. You thought that was

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Speaker 1: going well, except right in the middle of the date,

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Speaker 1: she gets up, walks out, and you haven't heard from

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Speaker 1: her since, and you really have no idea why exactly.

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Speaker 4: And now I'm just I'm a little hurt, a little confused. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: and I'm massively curious as to what happened.

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Speaker 1: We all would like to know too, and we're find

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Speaker 1: out right now. Good luck, Tommy, Thank you, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hi is this Kayla?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Calling Hi Kayla, Good morning, My name is Fredam calling

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Speaker 1: from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, and I

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Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio

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Speaker 1: right now. I would need your permission to continue with

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Speaker 1: the call. So okay if we chat for just a second,

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Speaker 1: Yeah sure, okay, Well, thank you very much for calling

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Speaker 1: on behalf of a guy who says you mentioned on

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Speaker 1: one of the dating apps and you went out recently.

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Speaker 2: His name is Tommy. I'm assuming you remember who Tommy is. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So he told us that things are going really well.

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Speaker 1: He liked you a lot, but that you got to

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Speaker 2: So what's that about? Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 5: He doesn't know why, he.

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Speaker 1: Says, he does not know why, which is not uncommon

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Speaker 1: for these people not to know what happened.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So everything was everything was fine.

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Speaker 2: You know, we like met on the apps.

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Speaker 6: We started to get to know each other and after

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Speaker 6: you know, a little bit of talking, like, he invited

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Speaker 6: it was going to be really great, especially because of

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Speaker 6: how promising our conversation was. And then Tommy offered to

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Speaker 6: pick me up, which is usually a red flag. I

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Speaker 6: know that, Like men are like, oh, maybe that's the

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Speaker 6: gentlemanly thing to do, but like you're a man on

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Speaker 6: the internet who I don't know. I want to meet

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Speaker 6: you somewhere. I want to have an out, you know, okay,

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Speaker 6: And that should have been my first red flag.

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Speaker 2: And so I will say, I mean, you could say no.

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Speaker 1: But what I hear, well, we hear all the time

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Speaker 1: around here talking about dating, you know, with people who

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Speaker 1: call in it whatever is that men don't put in

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Speaker 1: any effort. So you know, maybe what he was trying

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Speaker 2: But anyway, so.

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Speaker 1: You you you probably shouldn't have let him do that, okay,

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Speaker 6: Did, yes, And if that was the case, that would

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Speaker 6: been pleasantly surprised to get picked up and go somewhere,

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Speaker 6: do you know what I mean. But after I got

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Speaker 2: He was driving away from all.

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Speaker 6: The bars and restaurants and turned into a neighborhood and

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Speaker 6: I was like, yo, like where are we going? And

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Speaker 6: he was like, I forgot something at my house. Why

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Speaker 2: And I was like that old trick, I know exactly,

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Speaker 6: I was like, oh my, and.

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Speaker 2: That's why, Like looking back, I was like, oh.

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Speaker 6: That's a red flag, you know what I mean, because

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Speaker 6: Like you're I'm buying myself in this situation, right, So

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Speaker 6: I just like called an uber and I told Tommy

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of creepy. I forgot that Tommy is here.

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Tommy And I always leave that part up,

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Speaker 1: But I really can't let you get away with that, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: because you that's not cool, Like if you're gonna pick

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Speaker 1: Take her where you say you're gonna take her.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, hold hold the phone a second here, Okay, hold,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I fully.

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Speaker 4: Admit I am a moron.

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Speaker 2: I legitimately left my wallet back in my place.

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Speaker 4: I guess, and looking back, I should have, like I

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Speaker 4: and then said like I'm going to go back to

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Speaker 4: my tape pick.

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Speaker 3: Up my wallet.

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Speaker 4: It just seemed like an inordinate amount of time to

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Speaker 2: Anyway. I think it's ridiculous that.

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Speaker 4: Like you assume the worst and men or women completely

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Speaker 1: These days, which and Tommy, that may be true, but

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Speaker 1: you didn't have to invite her in. If that is

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Speaker 1: really what happened, then you could have said, Hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: I messed up. I gotta swing by the house. Stay

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Speaker 1: right here, I'm gonna get my wallet, come back out.

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Speaker 1: We're going to someplace public or something.

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Speaker 2: I'm not buying it.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not buying it either, but like, yeah, the

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Speaker 1: whole thing, Well, while we're here, why did you come

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Speaker 1: into my home, right exactly, yeah, right exactly, Like I

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Speaker 1: think there was another way to handle that. My other

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Speaker 1: pants I got Yeah, oh I did have my well underwear.

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Speaker 1: Come on, come on dude.

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Speaker 2: Look. I legitimately was like, hey, why not.

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Speaker 4: I had just gotten the great new bottles gotch.

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Speaker 1: Like this is okay try I'm a stranger. Yeah, Kayla,

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Speaker 1: are you buying any of this because we're not. I mean, oh,

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Speaker 1: I forgot the all, I forgot my wallet trick.

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Speaker 6: I'm literally not buying it at all. Like I assumed

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Speaker 6: and you didn't tell me you were driving there. That's

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not well.

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Speaker 1: And he also when he picked you up and realized

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Speaker 1: have said something like hey, I need to go home

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Speaker 1: and get my wallet. Do you want me to come

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Speaker 2: You didn't forget well, I only realized.

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Speaker 4: I only realized I didn't have my wallet when I

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Speaker 4: was on the way to the ground.

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Speaker 2: Right. But that's what I'm saying. You could have text

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know about the whole pick you

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't It doesn't sound for me.

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Speaker 1: And maybe if you told her all that and she

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Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, cool, Yeah, let's go to

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Speaker 1: your house and I'd like to see. I guess the

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Speaker 1: whole thing here is that you didn't really tell her

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Speaker 1: come off, and or you wanted it to come off

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Speaker 1: that way. So anyway, I don't know. I'll ask the question,

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Speaker 1: but I know they answer, Kayla another date with this guy?

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Speaker 5: Mmm?

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Speaker 2: Let me think about it. Yeah, no, do you want

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Speaker 2: to be kidnapped again? Right?

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Speaker 1: This is how datelight She lit up the room. That's

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Speaker 1: something right, fact, that's how they light it left the room.

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Speaker 1: That's how they describe everybody who's dead on dateline. She

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Speaker 1: lit up the room. Don't light up the room. Anybody

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Speaker 1: be boring as hell. Okay, Tommy's not gonna work. Caleb,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for your time and and good

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Speaker 1: luck to both of you.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome, Jesus