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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Flipping through my feed and I saw this one wanted

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Speaker 2: to bring it to you, guys.

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Speaker 1: One of two point seven kids set up.

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Speaker 2: But hopefully no one in this room has ever had

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Speaker 2: any career regrets, right I career.

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Speaker 3: Regrets, no, no regrets at all.

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Speaker 2: Fortunately we kind of picked the path that we're lucky

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Speaker 2: to be on and have a job that is not

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Speaker 2: really a job.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm sure you have regrets of things in

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Speaker 4: your career that you wish you would have tried to

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Speaker 4: different different yeah.

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Speaker 2: Timing, sure, But all in all, I feel lucky that

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Speaker 2: this is our job. Why do you think I've done

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Speaker 2: this for twenty years? Same in other stations, right yeah.

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Speaker 2: Uh so think about that if it happened to you,

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Speaker 2: and if you're just like new and young and starting

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Speaker 2: out in the workforce, listen to this. Don't make the

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Speaker 2: same mistakes that a lot of people say they made.

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Speaker 2: In fact, from Generation Boomers to Generation Z, the number

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Speaker 2: one career regret not asking for a raise. That's the

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Speaker 2: one career regret that across the board, all ages, looking back,

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Speaker 2: young and wise have had asking for it because hard

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Speaker 2: to do sometimes, and you also don't want the hurt.

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Speaker 2: The feeling you think about having if someone denies you

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Speaker 2: that and how it makes you feel about your own

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Speaker 2: value is all a bunch of hurt.

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Speaker 3: And I take it personally, right, hunter take.

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Speaker 2: Step any even Like remember when we used to have

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Speaker 2: to sit in a program director's office and they play

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Speaker 2: back tapes of us. It's called an air check meeting. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: that thing they tell you all the bad things you

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Speaker 2: do on the air. How do I not take it personally?

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Speaker 2: I took it personally.

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Speaker 5: I have my time, hated.

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Speaker 1: Myself after those things. Really. Oh yeah, I used to

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Speaker 1: beat myself up.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: I would cry during those during it as constructive criticism, and.

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Speaker 2: In this of this skin Nope, I didn't take it

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Speaker 2: as that. I took it as personal attack. I did anyway.

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Speaker 2: So So also on the list not prioritizing work life balance,

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Speaker 2: I guess a lot of people after they've done it,

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Speaker 2: they say, wait, I wish I would have spent more time.

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Speaker 2: I think now today more and more people are trying

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Speaker 2: to after COVID, especially trying to make that a priority.

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Speaker 3: I agree.

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Speaker 1: Also, staying at a job for a long time.

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Speaker 3: Guilty, Well, I think we're biased in that sense.

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Speaker 1: No, this is the one we want to do for

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Speaker 1: forty years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, we made it.

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Speaker 2: How about not speaking up in a meeting. I find

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Speaker 2: this to be I mean I do it now, but

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Speaker 2: I think for a long time, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: say anything. Or when they ask you're a manager, asked

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Speaker 2: iHeart with the sales It wasn't with some salespeople from

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Speaker 2: other parts of the country, and they were asking questions

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Speaker 2: like someone from iHeart was asking questions to.

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Speaker 3: Me like a pan totally and in front of like

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Speaker 3: all these salespeople, like what can we do differently to

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Speaker 2: And then I actually at the end they said, would

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Speaker 1: They weren't I Heart salespeople.

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Speaker 2: They were outside salespeople or something like that, and we

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Speaker 2: were advertising people. And they said, yeah, tell me, what

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Speaker 2: are your greatest challenges? What's on your mind?

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Speaker 3: Oh, your greatest challenge fifty people, not one person's spook, right,

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Speaker 3: what could we do differently in the company.

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Speaker 1: No, it wasn't. It wasn't even that.

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Speaker 2: It was just like general And I thought, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: I've asked a question no one wants to answer. But

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Speaker 2: I'm totally fair. But those are things, just like it

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Speaker 2: is interesting after you work for a while you go

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Speaker 2: back and look at these similar things that you wish

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Speaker 2: Uh okay Siciny lot of people are talking about AI constantly,

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Speaker 2: but this is something very seemingly useful that has to

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Speaker 3: Yes, so I don't know about you. When when I'm

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Speaker 3: online shopping, I you know, see the models wearing whatever,

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Speaker 3: but how it look on me? Well, now, the next

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Speaker 3: time you shopping on Google you might see a little

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Speaker 3: tag that says virtual try on, and essentially it's going

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Speaker 3: to be an AI model, But you can go through.

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Speaker 3: I think they have eighty different models that you can

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Speaker 2: So I think it's great. But if it's AI, why

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Speaker 2: can't they just put it on me and let me

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Speaker 3: Maybe this is like the first step, but.

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Speaker 2: Because like, right, if it's a it's all this AI

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Speaker 2: craziness technology I've been hearing about, then put it on

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Speaker 1: One thing might be if you put it on me,

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Speaker 1: I might not buy it?

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Speaker 3: Right, Maybe that thing.

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Speaker 1: On a model my size.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of models like walking around my size,

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Speaker 2: and there might be there are a lot of five

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Speaker 2: nine and a half models out there, Tanya.

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Speaker 3: Right right right, I'm sorry your five nine you're kind

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Speaker 3: of like mannequin body vibes.

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Speaker 2: No, yeah, you are mannekin body, yes, Like the kids

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Speaker 2: are solid time.

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like a little like everything looks great

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Speaker 1: Oh, being so nice to me it's supposed to be nice.

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Speaker 1: We did your photo shoot.

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Speaker 3: It's actually do photo shoots together. And you see like

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Speaker 3: like you're exactly the same in all twenty photos.

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Speaker 2: Can tell you why I want to be done. I

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Speaker 2: what's this thing called.

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Speaker 3: It's called virtual try on And I was actually on Google.

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Speaker 3: but it probably will just depend on the company that

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Speaker 3: and stuff like that. It's not they're actually not really

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Speaker 3: a great idea, I think for me, I just I

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Speaker 3: I hate chopping online because I'll get it in at

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Speaker 1: Figure out sizes online.

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Speaker 2: I can't either I always I generally think I reach

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Speaker 2: Then I get into sad head, right, sad head kicks

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Speaker 2: in and all that. Well, it's a step into a

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Speaker 2: good direction. But really, if it's a I put me

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Speaker 3: In the close.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and let me see how I look. Let's see

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Speaker 1: how I vibe with myself. Okay, I need to bring

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Speaker 1: in the back room. Mikayla.

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Speaker 2: This might be interesting for you because you've got that

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Speaker 2: real interesting uh wow opening line from the guy that

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Speaker 3: On some still thinking about that line.

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Speaker 1: In the line he said.

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Speaker 6: If you're regularly taking birth control, you should match with me.

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Speaker 1: That's what the guy said as an opening line on

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Speaker 1: hinge with people.

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Speaker 3: It was hinge hinge.

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Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Well, Erica ETI. You might want to meet her, Mikayla.

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Speaker 3: I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: She's an online dating coach. She think everybody's excited. Hell,

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Speaker 2: online dating coach, Erica.

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Speaker 1: And how you doing.

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Speaker 7: I'm great, I'm glad you found me.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we listen this guy.

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Speaker 2: We have a couple of staff members here who are

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Speaker 2: single and looking and are on different dating apps, and

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Speaker 2: it's really astonishing how tricky it can be and how

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Speaker 2: reaching out to Mikhayela on Hinge was just weird and

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Speaker 1: So do you what do you? What do you do?

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Speaker 1: What is your work?

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Speaker 7: Okay, so a good question. So I'm an online dating coach.

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Speaker 7: I help people with all aspects of online dating. So

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Speaker 7: think your profile, your pictures, the messaging, what do you say,

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Speaker 7: all the way to the point of the first date,

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Speaker 7: because that is where people struggle. And you know, it's

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Speaker 7: not rocket science on how to send a good message

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Speaker 7: or not, but when it comes down to it, people

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Speaker 2: Is the biggest or most important thing to do out

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I put people on what I call a how

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Speaker 7: are you cleans. I don't allow hey, how are you?

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Speaker 7: How is your day? How's it going. All you can

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Speaker 7: do is read the profile, find something anything in the

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Speaker 7: profile you want to comment on, and ask a question

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Speaker 7: about it. So like, for example, I just wrote for

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Speaker 7: someone this morning. A guy said he was a pilot,

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Speaker 7: and as you know, I suggested to her to write,

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Speaker 7: were you one of those kids who was always playing

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Speaker 7: with Foy airplanes?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 7: That's cute. It shows that you read the profile and

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Speaker 7: it gets the conversation started.

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Speaker 2: I like that because how are you doing? What was

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Speaker 2: your daily I'm not so benign, right, But here's the thing, so, Carka,

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Speaker 2: let's say that one of us has your assistance and

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Speaker 2: your expertise helping us along.

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Speaker 1: Will I be a worst performer without you?

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Speaker 2: I worry that, Like, okay, well my game's going to

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Speaker 2: go not as strong once you aren't with me.

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Speaker 7: Well, also, way you can learn from everything I do,

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Speaker 7: so I do I can sort of my work. So

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Speaker 7: for some people, I do their work with them, which

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Speaker 7: is coaching. So they'll actually get on a zoom with me.

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Speaker 2: Yes, thank you for coming on. I think we all

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Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna start doing hot pilates.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Can we please do it together?

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Speaker 1: Get back to us on it.

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Speaker 2: Veronica's with us now, Veronica, I've got everybody in here.

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Speaker 2: We're all listening about your boyfriend. Tell us what's happening.

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Speaker 2: He's going to be teaching at an all girls college.

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Speaker 9: Yes, he is.

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Speaker 10: I mean he's very attractive, and you know the very

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Speaker 9: That's definitely most.

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Speaker 10: Likely going to be the scenario.

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Speaker 9: So I just don't know. I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 2: Well, here's my first question. How much do you not

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Speaker 10: It's just I think I don't know.

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Speaker 9: You know, obviously I don't have control over what other

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Speaker 2: You're saying that he would violate policies as an employee.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like both.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean maybe a little bit of both.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, jealousy, Okay, trust something that's a real

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Speaker 3: You don't have trust, okay, No, but it shouldn't matter

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Speaker 4: But this could be not necessarily an issue in your relationship.

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Speaker 4: This could be a you issue. Do you know your

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Speaker 5: By chance?

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Speaker 9: I don't.

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Speaker 4: No, you should definitely do the test because you might

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Speaker 4: It's like rooted in you from deep childhood things, and

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Speaker 5: I don't you know.

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Speaker 4: It's just saying I have this insecurely attacked matched thing

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Speaker 4: So I just want you to know that. But I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that sounds like Honestly, I was like, is this

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Speaker 4: No, I think learning your attachment is so fascinating.

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Speaker 3: Sitting down, sitting you down, they during a fight or

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Speaker 1: It is great advice if you can handle it, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 9: I mean I definitely do want to.

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Speaker 11: I mean, obviously I've been in a relationship with them

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, take Tanya's approach. It's a good one.

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Speaker 2: It's a thoughtful one, and it's one he'll understand. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and thank you for listening. Good luck, keep us posted

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Speaker 2: if we can do anything else.

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Speaker 11: Okay, thank you?

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Speaker 1: How nice?

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Speaker 2: I mean, really you as if you've taken that clock

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Speaker 4: Because I think a lot of the time we project

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Speaker 4: when you really get to learn who you are and

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Speaker 4: how you deal with situations, it's like easier to express

446
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:19,600
Speaker 4: that to your partner, and then neither one of you

447
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:20,280
Speaker 4: take it personal.

448
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,400
Speaker 3: It doesn't come usually until you're a little bit older.

449
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Speaker 7: One.

450
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I might learn that one year.

451
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Speaker 3: Take take the test.

452
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Speaker 5: I'll send it to you.

453
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:27,440
Speaker 3: Say never.

454
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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just trying to go to a hot yoga

455
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Speaker 2: class on a Saturday with you, one step.

456
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Speaker 1: At a time. Over there, tea rad Can we get

457
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Speaker 1: into a second date update?

458
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Speaker 10: Yeah?

459
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Speaker 2: Right, we've got some uh worried about the advice non

460
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Speaker 2: attached here. Let me grab Aaron. So Aaron reaches out

461
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,480
Speaker 2: to us. He's like, well, I can need some help here.

462
00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:46,159
Speaker 2: I went on his date and here's the deal. So

463
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Speaker 2: he met an amazing woman in San Francisco, right, he says,

464
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Speaker 2: I live in that area.

465
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Speaker 1: We had an amazing weekend together date date date.

466
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Speaker 2: We immediately made plans for him to come visit her

467
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Speaker 2: in La I was supposed to spend a week at

468
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Speaker 2: her place, but three days after she ended it Aaron,

469
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Speaker 2: good morning. We've all sort of been in situations like

470
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Speaker 2: this on one side of the other. So you're talking

471
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Speaker 2: to uh, some folks with familiarity. But what happened like

472
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Speaker 2: and how did she say it's over in the middle

473
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Speaker 2: of the trip?

474
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Speaker 12: Oh man, like three days in she just said, I

475
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,119
Speaker 12: don't think this is going to work out. And that

476
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Speaker 12: was pretty much it. There wasn't much of a discussion.

477
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Speaker 1: Did you find.

478
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Speaker 2: Generally people feel things. Did you feel anything off during

479
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Speaker 2: this day?

480
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Speaker 12: Absolutely nothing.

481
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Speaker 13: Nope.

482
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Speaker 12: We were having a great time, great time. We went

483
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Speaker 12: like the Holy she wasn't there like we No, I

484
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Speaker 12: guess not. I mean I thought it was great. We

485
00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:42,840
Speaker 12: went to Disneyland, we we did, went to Getty, Getty Center,

486
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,679
Speaker 12: just all the iconic places that you go with go

487
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Speaker 12: in LA And I just was with her, so it

488
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 12: was it was great to me. I had a blast

489
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:53,720
Speaker 12: and we were talking. We're getting along.

490
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Speaker 1: But she give you any reason why she ended it.

491
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Speaker 12: She said her landlord apparently had like an issue with

492
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Speaker 12: long stay people, like long stay friends or something like that.

493
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Speaker 2: Yeah, when I when I was the renter of an apartment,

494
00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 2: I couldn't have multiple guests.

495
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Speaker 1: Stay over.

496
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Speaker 3: For I did this once guy, and it was it

497
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 3: was truly just because I got the ick. So I'm

498
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Speaker 3: wondering if you're ready to hear what you might not

499
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Speaker 3: want to hear.

500
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Speaker 2: He is he reached out to us, But I'm all right,

501
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 2: so Aaron, hold on, We're going to find out why

502
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:34,760
Speaker 2: she broke it off in the middle.

503
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Speaker 1: What the assistance is?

504
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Speaker 3: The ick was, Yeah, I meta got in Vegas and

505
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Speaker 3: then brought him back.

506
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Speaker 1: I'm not bad.

507
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, she's an Encino.

508
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Speaker 1: Let's see if we can link this up. It's a

509
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Speaker 1: second day update.

510
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Speaker 2: Can we get Miranda and Encino to explain why she

511
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Speaker 2: dropped him off in the middle of the week. I

512
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 2: need to grab Miranda right now so we don't lose her.

513
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:56,640
Speaker 2: It's been a whole for a few minutes. Miranda, thank

514
00:22:56,680 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 2: you for coming on. Uh hold on one second, Okay,

515
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 2: right there, I'm doing a second date update to you listening.

516
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 2: I just want to tell you that I forgot to

517
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,439
Speaker 2: say that before I got right because I don't want

518
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 2: to say we're in the middle of second date up there,

519
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 2: but didn't want to tell her that, right, So we've

520
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 2: got I got it, Aaron, I screwed this whole thing up, Aaron. Aaron, Sorry, Aaron,

521
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to rush this. She doesn't hang up because

522
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Speaker 2: I feel like.

523
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Speaker 1: She might Aaron. We got Miranda should be quiet and

524
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: on't say anything. Okay, okay, okay.

525
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 2: So he lives in San Francisco. She invited him. They

526
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 2: met one to date. She says, come stay with me

527
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Speaker 2: for a week. It's gonna be great. Three days in,

528
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Speaker 2: she says, you're out. It's not working out. Yeah, he

529
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Speaker 2: has no idea.

530
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Speaker 1: He said it was great, It's perfect.

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Speaker 2: I don't right here we go all right, Sorry, Miranda,

532
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 2: thanks for holding Sorry about the way. So we're calling

533
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Speaker 2: you on the air here at Kiss FM about a

534
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 2: guy named Aaron who came to stay with you from

535
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Speaker 2: San Francisco. Does that make sense?

536
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Speaker 8: You are?

537
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Speaker 2: Why why did you go out with a guy named

538
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 2: Aaron invite him to stay with you in l I?

539
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And how did it go?

541
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Speaker 14: I mean like we had a good time, like for

542
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Speaker 14: the weekend. I was in San Francisco for a bachelorette

543
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 14: party and that's how we met, and it was the time.

544
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Speaker 1: How was to stay with you when he came down?

545
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 1: How'd that go?

546
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Speaker 14: I mean, like we all make mistakes, so.

547
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Speaker 1: It didn't go. We understand that he was supposed to

548
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Speaker 1: be there for a week.

549
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Speaker 3: Was he so he made a mistake while he was

550
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Speaker 3: with you.

551
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 14: Yeah, I would say it was a mistake. It definitely

552
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 14: turned me off. He wasn't there for the whole week.

553
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 14: He only stayed for a couple of days.

554
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Speaker 2: And did you tell him to leave sooner than you

555
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 2: thought he was gonna leave?

556
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 14: Yeah?

557
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Speaker 1: And do you want to tell us why?

558
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Speaker 13: I mean, I just.

559
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Speaker 14: Barely knew him, and I just realized like he wasn't

560
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 14: for me.

561
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Speaker 1: But who invited him to stay with you?

562
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Speaker 3: I invited him, Okay, so you.

563
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 2: Knew it could go either way when you bring somebody

564
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Speaker 2: in for about I say, a long period of time.

565
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Speaker 3: But she didn't mean to like suck it up and

566
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 3: finish out the week even though she's not into him,

567
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 3: and be like I did the same thing.

568
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 1: What was the mistake he made?

569
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Speaker 15: Like?

570
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 14: Okay, I was feeling it at first, but then he

571
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,239
Speaker 14: was like he was smoking weed in my car and

572
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Speaker 14: I have a nice car, so it was super gross

573
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Speaker 14: and I just realized, like, this is not the type

574
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Speaker 14: of guy that I want in my life.

575
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Speaker 1: Did he ask you if you could smoke the week?

576
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 14: Not only that when he was in the car, he

577
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,479
Speaker 14: was posting on Instagram acting like my car was his car,

578
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Speaker 14: and that was a huge dick.

579
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Speaker 1: What do you mean? All right, well, what do you

580
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,439
Speaker 1: mean he made people think it was his car? What

581
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: do you do? How do you do that?

582
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 14: Because he was posting on Instagram acting like the car

583
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 14: that he was in with his and it was driving

584
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 14: it's mine, it was my car.

585
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Speaker 1: So do you want to go out with him again? Ever?

586
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:50,119
Speaker 2: No?

587
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 8: No?

588
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: Do you want him to know this is why you

589
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Speaker 1: blow him off?

590
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Speaker 14: I mean I just stopped talking to him. I don't

591
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 14: think I necessarily like I wouldn't like divulged all of this.

592
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 14: I just stopped talking to him.

593
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Speaker 1: Well what do you mean, Aaron?

594
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Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, you said yeah, you said weed wasn't you

595
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 12: didn't you were cool with weed? And I don't. I mean,

596
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Speaker 12: I'm really I didn't I had.

597
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Speaker 2: Did you did you post there? Did you post that

598
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,719
Speaker 2: it was your car on Instagram?

599
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 13: No?

600
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Speaker 3: It was.

601
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Speaker 12: I mean it's a nice whip like really nice car.

602
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 12: I don't have one like that. So I posted a

603
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 12: lot of pictures of the car because it was nice.

604
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 12: But I mean, it was us in the car. It

605
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 12: was me in the car. It was the car. It

606
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 12: was you know, it was part of the part of

607
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Speaker 12: the whole trip, the.

608
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Speaker 3: Cool car part of the LA weekend.

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Speaker 14: I really I didn't like that you were posting on

610
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Speaker 14: social media when we were together, and like, it's okay

611
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 14: that you smoke weed, but I'm more of like an edible,

612
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 14: like I take edible like you're smoker, and I just

613
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 14: didn't realize how much and it was just a turn off.

614
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:09,679
Speaker 1: I'm totally uncomfortable. That's why i'm quiet.

615
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm uncomfortable.

616
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: Okay, let's let's end this uncomfortableness.

617
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Speaker 2: Then, I think so soon, Miranda, it's not going to

618
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 2: work out. That's our view. I think you would agree

619
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Speaker 2: with that, and good luck. We appreciate you Miranda coming

620
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 2: on to tell the story. And Aaron, thank you for

621
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 2: listening and reaching out. I think you're gonna find somebody

622
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 2: that fits you both perfectly.

623
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Speaker 12: Yeah, I hope so.

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Speaker 6: Shoot, than I really appreciate it a.

625
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 10: Pleasure meeting you.

626
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 7: But I can't believe you called kiss FM to track

627
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 7: me down and you gave me the ache and this

628
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 7: isn't even bigger.

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Speaker 14: So have a great life.

630
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, bye, guys. Life life is dark, have

631
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:51,679
Speaker 1: a great day. Life is harsh.

632
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, I don't think she.

633
00:27:53,880 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: Is, well, fine, should we call the guy from all

634
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 2: those years ago that gave you the itck and let

635
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: him know what happens?

636
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, No, he like hates me. He wanted

637
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 3: me to pay for his flight because he was from

638
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 3: New York and so he's like, you owe me for

639
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 3: the fly. Afterwards, yes, afterwards he was like so mad

640
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 3: at me.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I'm impressed that you guys like kick them out.

642
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 4: I just suck it through the whole.

643
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 1: I would the same.

644
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, like anytime, even if I have something with like

645
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 2: hair in it at a restaurant.

646
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 3: You'll still eat.

647
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 1: And they asked me, how's the meal.

648
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's great, it's great, perfect, And I just

649
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 2: pulled curly hair out.

650
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 3: I kind of know what you mean.

651
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't ruin anybody's day.

652
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can deal with it.

653
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: It's hair, right, we'll pe okay.

654
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 2: So Tanya Scott has taken the kind of attached, insecure,

655
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Speaker 2: secure person.

656
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 1: Are you to your spouse?

657
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's your attachment style, right, So.

658
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 2: She said, if you can figure out your attachment style,

659
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 2: are are you insecure?

660
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: Are you secure? Are you void? What was the other one?

661
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 5: Avoidant?

662
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: Avoidant? Then it's going to move mountains in your relationship.

663
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, that going on on one plate, right, I'm

664
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 2: still not done with it, Disney saunters in here with

665
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 2: this one. It's going to help you create better friends.

666
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 2: All the different trends and tests, we're just gond have

667
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: the greatest relationships of all time romantic and friendship.

668
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 3: That's true, true, So go ahead.

669
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: What is this sixth besties theory on TikTok? When it

670
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: comes to friends?

671
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: Now?

672
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 3: Well, and I think this one because friendships are something

673
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 3: that like, as you get older, they're more difficult to keep.

674
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 3: People move away. You're not you know. I think in

675
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 3: high school and college your friends are your world. You know,

676
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 3: you see them every day, they live down the house.

677
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:46,479
Speaker 2: I always thought the friends I was going to school with,

678
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 2: we would never not see each other every day exactly,

679
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: would always live in the same place exactly.

680
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 3: And life happens, people move away, and you really have

681
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 3: to make an effort. So a lot of people think

682
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 3: and they expect so much out of a friendship, and

683
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 3: that might be your problem. You expect too much out

684
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 3: of a one person and they can't fulfill all of

685
00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: these needs for you. So that's with this six bestie

686
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,480
Speaker 3: theory on TikTok kind of went viral, and when you

687
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 3: break it down like this, I'm like, oh, this makes sense.

688
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 3: So what you're supposed to have is six different types

689
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 3: of besties. So these are the six that you should

690
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 3: have to really kind of like balance out with your friends.

691
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: Six best friends. Is that a problem.

692
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 4: Because I think like some of your one of your

693
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 4: friends could could be two of these.

694
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, but but having one person be all six

695
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: is like, there's that would be crazy. So one of

696
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 3: the besties that you should have is a dead body bestie. Okay,

697
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 3: so this person is a no judgment friend. You can

698
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 3: tell them anything, any major screw up, you can go

699
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 3: to them and they.

700
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: Will probably have one of those yes.

701
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 3: Okay, here's the good time bestie, the perfect plus one

702
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 3: who is always down for a fun night and adventure.

703
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 3: That's like Nelson for me.

704
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 2: But it's not a bestie, he's my best friend. Oh well, sorry,

705
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 2: you have a few best friends that I've heard about

706
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: over the last twenty year.

707
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 3: But this is the thing. So these are like I

708
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 3: all have.

709
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: Different You plug and you plug and play for fun

710
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: for him.

711
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 3: Right. Then there's the work bestie, someone who already knows

712
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 3: all the work drama, and then you can discuss more

713
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 3: of it like off slack theory, similar ambitions bestie, So

714
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 3: the friend who is on a similar journey as you.

715
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 3: Sure this is Don Francisco for you. For me, you

716
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 3: have the og bestie, someone who knows your biography like

717
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,840
Speaker 3: it's their own. They know you like the you know

718
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 3: the back of their hand. And you guys are just

719
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 3: og bestI is that's like Tasa. For me, we go

720
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 3: back to like middle school. And then your north star bestie,

721
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: the ultimate bestie who fully sees you like almost like

722
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:50,160
Speaker 3: your twin flame.

723
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I need to take this down at three, and

724
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: people need to double up because this is way too

725
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 2: many best.

726
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 4: No, like like the north start, my north Star bestie

727
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 4: is like my good time best It's the same girl.

728
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 4: But they would she would be my good time bestie

729
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 4: and my north star.

730
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 2: But so let me take Kurt, right, Let's see God

731
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: buddy Kurt, So Kurt, dead body, busty bestie. All right,

732
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm reading your thing here, doesn't okay? Yeah, he could

733
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 2: be that good time he's that work. No he's not

734
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 2: that No, he's not that similar ambition. No, no, you're different.

735
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 3: O G.

736
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's that north Star. Hey, I don't know if

737
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 2: he's a north Star.

738
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 5: So he does.

739
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 2: So we covered a couple bases there. All right, Well,

740
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 2: who's our best friend here? Let's talk about our work

741
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 2: besties while we're on it. I don't want to point.

742
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 3: Fingers like Tubbs is yours?

743
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: You think Tubbs is mine? You don't think y'all's is mine.

744
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,959
Speaker 3: No, I think you and Tubbs have like this weird

745
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 3: like bond.

746
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: Why do you think that?

747
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 3: I think just because you are listening smiling about it.

748
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's like the closeness that you two

749
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 3: share and like this bronus.

750
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys have a bromance.

751
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 1: Well, we just don't have to speak so nice.

752
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 3: Well that's the thing. It's like he knows what you're

753
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 3: thinking without you even have literally nodding his head.

754
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 1: Yes, you guys, I have to speak. I have to talk,

755
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: yes myself.

756
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 15: Yeah.

757
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 3: And there's a lot of emotions being besties with Tanya

758
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 3: and I. Yeah.

759
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you for recognizing that.

760
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 3: I mean, look, we're a lot. Thank you.

761
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 2: Like Tubbs is just chill waiting for this day. Good morning,

762
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 2: Los Angeles, Orange County. I'm grabbing Jasmine on the phone. Here, Jasmin,

763
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: good Morning's Seacrest, it's Tanya, it's Cistin.

764
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: It's the back room. Even Tubbs is listening.

765
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,719
Speaker 8: Hey guys, good morning.

766
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: Got our attention. How are you doing this morning?

767
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 8: You know it's a great day to be alive, and uh.

768
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with you. Of all the days to live,

769
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 2: I like this one because we got it.

770
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 8: Right now, and that's all that matters is right now.

771
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 2: I'll look at you with the positive spirit. Got my

772
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: spirit stick. I love that.

773
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: It's so good.

774
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 8: I got stuff to start with you that. I don't

775
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 8: know if it's too positive, but I want to try

776
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 8: to make it positive or make okay.

777
00:33:58,040 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 1: What's going on in Silver Lake? How can we help?

778
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 4: All right?

779
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 8: Ryan ain't true. Here's the deal. I'm a girl's girl.

780
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 8: I mean here skin nails that they mean everything to me.

781
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,320
Speaker 8: So here's the hair affector. I needed a last minute

782
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 8: haircut and I forgot to get my employment. So you know,

783
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 8: I ran into my girls to salon where my girl

784
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 8: is and unfortunately she wasn't there. So there was another

785
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 8: woman I ended up sitting with who did my hair.

786
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 8: And here's the kickers. She did a way better job than.

787
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 13: My normal girl.

788
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 1: You're feeling guilty and a.

789
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 8: Lot of guilt. But here's the thing, Like, I pay

790
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 8: my money, I want to get great service in the

791
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:44,959
Speaker 8: best service at that, you know. So all is well.

792
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 8: I get in the chair, she cuts my hair. I

793
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 8: love it. It's fabulous. So as I'm leaving out of

794
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 8: the salon, guess who I see.

795
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 3: Your other hairstack girl?

796
00:34:55,280 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 8: No, my girl. So there was like a awkward exchange

797
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 8: for a second, and she was like, oh hey, and

798
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 8: it wasn't me, but it wasn't too nice. And I

799
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 8: were with you.

800
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 2: When you were with the substitute hairstyle and you ran

801
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 2: into your main hairstylist.

802
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 8: Exactly, That's exactly what happened. Wait, Ryan, listen, I tried

803
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 8: to get an appointment with her. I tried to go

804
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 8: at the last minute, but she wasn't there. So what

805
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 8: was I.

806
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 13: Supposed to do?

807
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 5: But then that's fine, Yeah, totally fine.

808
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: Yea, I was going to know that she was too

809
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: booked up for you.

810
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 3: That's a weird, well, because she's price surprised to even

811
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 3: see you and not have an appointment on the books

812
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 3: with her.

813
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 8: Okay, so you're you're thinking, how I'm thinking, man, So

814
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 8: me immediately I tell her, I'm like, oh my gosh,

815
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 8: you know, I just went with whomever's there. But you know,

816
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 8: you know when somebody's bothered by something, So she kind

817
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 8: of just gave a look like, you know, like whatever.

818
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 8: And now I don't know what to do. And I

819
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 8: say that because I want to go to the other file.

820
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 8: How am I supposed to do?

821
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 2: You want to go to the new stylist that you

822
00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 2: just discovered exactly?

823
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:08,439
Speaker 3: I think you just do it.

824
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, by the way, your your regular stylist

825
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 2: didn't have the room for you in her book, and

826
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 2: so you had to enterprisingly go find someone to get

827
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 2: your hair done, and you did it.

828
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,799
Speaker 1: Are they in the same salon? Yeah, they're in the

829
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: same build.

830
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 8: Yeah.

831
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 3: I mean, probably be awkward, but you'll get through it.

832
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: I've been through this, okay. I've actually had to do

833
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 2: this in my boxing gym. So yeah, one of the

834
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 2: one of the guys you know, boxes and he boxes

835
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 2: with me, but every time we're boxing, he is preparing

836
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,879
Speaker 2: me for an actual boxing match. I'm not in there

837
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 2: to box. I'm in there to lose my waist, right,

838
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 2: I'm in there to get fit.

839
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: I don't need to. I'm not getting ready for a fight.

840
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 2: So the one guy, you know, when I go in there,

841
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 2: they said, well, who you want to box with today?

842
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: And I say guy Too. But Guy one is there,

843
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:00,919
Speaker 2: and Guy One's just watched to me with Guy Too.

844
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 2: And I had to actually say to Guy one, hey,

845
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 2: I'm with Guy Too because I don't want to prepare

846
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 2: for a fight. I just want to burn calories. And

847
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 2: so now I see Guy one all the time with

848
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 2: Guy Too, and I think you're gonna have to do

849
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 2: the same thing.

850
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: Just be honest. You want to be with stylist two?

851
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, your service, and you'd like I feel the guilt

852
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 3: the other service.

853
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 1: She's not hurting. Sounds like she's booked up.

854
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 2: True, her books are full, books are full. Just think

855
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 2: about my boxing, think about my boxing scenario. When you're

856
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 2: doing this and you are not tripping jazzm and nobody

857
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 2: here is tripping on anything.

858
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 1: Okay. I appreciate you, Thank you guys.

859
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 5: I appreciate you all so funny. I can't do that.

860
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 4: I literally only left my old hairstylace because she moved

861
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 4: to Florida.

862
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,399
Speaker 3: It's tough. We just have to rip the band it off.

863
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 2: But I would say, like I thought, Tony, you would

864
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 2: have gone in one of those uh workbooks that has

865
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 2: to do with not carrying guilt like you've done all

866
00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 2: the other ones.

867
00:37:59,000 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 5: I know, but.

868
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 4: I don't know what it is. I think when it

869
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 4: comes to that kind of stuff, I feel like loyal.

870
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 4: I think I'm very loyal, and so it's hard for

871
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,880
Speaker 4: me to jump.

872
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: Do you still go to the Dennis and tu La Vista?

873
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 5: Yes? I do?

874
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 3: I do.

875
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 5: It's hard for me.

876
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: You go to San Diego for you dn't.

877
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 3: Jewel a Vista?

878
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 5: No, No, it's in for Tondo Beach.

879
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

880
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: I was making a geography joke, but.

881
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 3: Everyone's head city before Mexico. Yeah, I got it.

882
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 5: I was picking up what you're thrown down.

883
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 1: You were picking it up. I was throwing it down there,

884
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: way down there. Yeahs St.

885
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: Clementi, I was sitting it down beyond San Clemente. I

886
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 2: went past San Diego almost.

887
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, you did right.

888
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 3: On air with a Ryan Seacret.

889
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,840
Speaker 1: Hey can I grab Sarah here? Sarah? Good morning, Sarah?

890
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: How are you good morning? How are you super good?

891
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 1: So you're calling us about your sister and what's the issue.

892
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 13: I am called out my sister. But first I want

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Speaker 13: to say quick congratulations to An. I know she recently

894
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Speaker 13: got engaged, so she did.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you so much, thank you, thank you.

896
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 2: We're so relieved, I mean excited. We're just in the

897
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 2: planning phase. Now, in the planning phase.

898
00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 3: We he says, we are.

899
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:19,800
Speaker 1: This is going to be a group.

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00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 8: Yeah.

901
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 4: By the way, no, I know, guys, we're gonna start planning.

902
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 4: But we wanted to enjoy the bubble of this engagement.

903
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 3: What did I tell you? I was like, enjoy being

904
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 3: engaged because you're only going to be engaged for like

905
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 3: a small.

906
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 5: Portion, right, because once we start planning, it's.

907
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Speaker 3: That's going to save the date coming within the next

908
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Speaker 3: few weeks.

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00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

910
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 5: Really, I don't know.

911
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to chill.

912
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 1: Shut him up.

913
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 10: Yeah.

914
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 1: By the way, Mikayla, did you hear Ruby got a reservation.

915
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 3: At no Idea? You got it?

916
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 1: We got it? Mark, did you hear.

917
00:39:58,600 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 3: It's gonna be so excited?

918
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 1: Well, bunch, you text her okay and ask her how

919
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 1: it was.

920
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 2: I think she did it. Yeah, Ruby, Mexico City. Still

921
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Speaker 2: when she's coming back ever.

922
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Speaker 1: Sarah, anyway, Sorry, we digress. Go ahead, that's.

923
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Speaker 13: Okay, I no, Yeah, onto my sister. So you know,

924
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Speaker 13: I've had my sister. She's staying with me for a

925
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Speaker 13: couple of months. I'm really excited, but I'm a few

926
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Speaker 13: weeks in and she started making these really offhand, kind

927
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 13: of rude comments about my decor, like about like the

928
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 13: wallpaper and the mirrors and like the things that I've chosen,

929
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 13: and I'm just you know, at first, I like let

930
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 13: it slide. I wasn't even sure how to react to it.

931
00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 13: But then Amazon boxes started showing up and she's like

932
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 13: like literally ordering stuff from my house and like trying

933
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 13: to put it up, and so I don't know, I

934
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 13: just am not sure how to even react.

935
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Speaker 2: Or like always like this, do you know what you're

936
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 2: getting when your sister's around?

937
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Speaker 13: You know, she is kind of always like this, but

938
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 13: not to this degree. Like she definitely is a person

939
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 13: who will make her opinions known, so I understand that

940
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 13: about her, but this is like kind of passive aggressive

941
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 13: comments about ship lap like that is it's to a

942
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:12,800
Speaker 13: new level.

943
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 3: So how long is she staying with you?

944
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 13: She's saying for about four months. She's just kind of

945
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,760
Speaker 13: in between, you know, she's moving to a new place

946
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 13: things like that, So just.

947
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 3: You just let it go. It's your sister. It's so

948
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:27,959
Speaker 3: petty to try to get.

949
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,919
Speaker 1: I agree about it. Not worth it.

950
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 2: And frankly, maybe she's got a few good ideas to

951
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 2: spruce up your place.

952
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 5: What No, that's so annoying.

953
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 3: And my sister does too. But my sister's an interior designer,

954
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 3: so I really have to let it go. Lucky you.

955
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:44,720
Speaker 1: What is her charge?

956
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 3: We can talk off life if you want, But does

957
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 3: she up.

958
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: Charge on a purchase?

959
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 3: No, not for me.

960
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: But for her clients.

961
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, she didn't give you a homeidation. I don't know that.

962
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 3: I'm disclosed to talk about that on.

963
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 2: The industry standard is here, Sarah. So my mom does this,

964
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 2: She shows up and all of a sudden, there's a

965
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 2: new bath mat in my bathroom, Like what is that?

966
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 3: She's going to think it's cute, it's endearing and like

967
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, like it's always funny

968
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 3: because Michael even knows, Oh, like when Jeanette's gonna come over,

969
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 3: like some stuff is going to be either rearranged or

970
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 3: we're going to buy a new.

971
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: Couch for the corner of this dread coming home.

972
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 3: Now dreads it but like we know that she's going

973
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 3: to rearrange your bookshelves, like and you just you just

974
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 3: let it happen and then when they leave, you just

975
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 3: put it back to how you celebrate.

976
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, exactly, Sarah.

977
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 2: This is one of those things we think when it

978
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 2: comes to the picking our battles, we don't pick much.

979
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't pick this because you don't want to mess

980
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,840
Speaker 3: with family and dynamics. And it's not it's so petty

981
00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 3: to get in the argument about that.

982
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 13: Totally. It's coming from a place of love. I hear you.

983
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 2: It really is, all right, thanks Sarah. For a second,

984
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 2: I thought she's like, no, not what I want to

985
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 2: some else? Call you guys, have any other stations? I

986
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 2: can call it all slew them here. Uh okay what

987
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 2: talk backs? Yes, so this is really easy. If you

988
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 2: go inside our KISSFM page and Ietradio there's the red

989
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: microphone you can send us talkbacks and we love these.

990
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: So here's the first. So this from Blondie listening in

991
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Speaker 1: the three to one.

992
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Speaker 15: Oh, Ryan, Tanya and Siciny, good morning. So I have

993
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 15: a question right now that you guys are talking about

994
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 15: Tinder and Hinge, my boyfriend of six years. We broke

995
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 15: up in November and he moved down in December. I

996
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:32,160
Speaker 15: haven't talked to him since January. I haven't seen him

997
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 15: since January. Question, what is the okay time to download

998
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 15: an app like that just to look around and make friends?

999
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: Now?

1000
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, asap?

1001
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 1: Now?

1002
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 2: I think you can do it now. I mean you

1003
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 2: guys broke up. You did it in November through December.

1004
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 2: It's a new year, and I think it's start. I mean,

1005
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 2: you've got to get out and socialize. You can't keeping

1006
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 2: it all in the next day. Motion creates emotion. I say,

1007
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 2: go for it. I don't think you should feel bad

1008
00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: about that at all. But thank you, Bunny. Love that question.

1009
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,879
Speaker 2: That's why these talkbacks are great. Could be anything. That's

1010
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 2: the other part. It's a real Popori. Let's grab John

1011
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 2: and Glynny.

1012
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 3: I was wanting to know where you go to per pedicure.

1013
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 2: I appreciate you being so covert with the question. Now

1014
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 2: it kind of depends, like I can. I don't have

1015
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 2: a regular place. There are a lot. You don't realize

1016
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 2: how many places have signs out front and shopping center

1017
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 2: that say nails any shopping center, John, Honestly, where you

1018
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 2: see this on Big nails.

1019
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: That's for you. Don't be intimidated. I was at one point.

1020
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 2: I was little scared of going in some of those

1021
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 2: places is it nails, because I didn't want much stuff

1022
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 2: done in my nails.

1023
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: I just want them cleaned up. I'm clear.

1024
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 2: But they know, like all the nails places, know how

1025
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 2: to do what you want if you want that shiny

1026
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 2: buff simple.

1027
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: Also I am.

1028
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 2: Pedicure too, but I also try and John tell them like,

1029
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 2: can we do it in twenty twenty minutes?

1030
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,439
Speaker 5: Because maybe Jone wants a longer massage.

1031
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1032
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 3: There's a lot of guys that go to my salon.

1033
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: I don't mean the rub and the ankle.

1034
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, the best part is going to be the whole thing.

1035
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 3: I just grubbed down.

1036
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: If you can get in and out in twenty minutes, bro,

1037
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 2: now maybe if you add the petty, it might be

1038
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 2: thirty two minutes. But any sign that says nails, don't

1039
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 2: be afraid. Okay, this is Heather in Canoga Park, one

1040
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 2: of our talkbacks.

1041
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 10: I'm trying to find out when Ryan's roses is well.

1042
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 2: I'm here to tell you all right, thank you for asking.

1043
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 2: If you've never heard Ryan's roses it's worth it. It's

1044
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,359
Speaker 2: worth checking out. If you've heard about it, it's worth

1045
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 2: checking out. It is Mondays and Thursdays. It's seven forty

1046
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Speaker 2: Ryan's roses. All right, one more up tubs. Guess who

1047
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Speaker 2: it is? Tony and Virginia Beach your guy.

1048
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 16: So, guys, Tony from Virginia Beach talk back Tony as

1049
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,760
Speaker 16: you all put it. Hey, listen, Noah, No one listens

1050
00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:57,439
Speaker 16: to you, guys, because you incentiviy things.

1051
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:57,879
Speaker 6: All right.

1052
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 16: We listen because you know, over time we get to

1053
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 16: know you. And it's kind of like each morning we

1054
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:04,879
Speaker 16: tune in, we're kind of hanging out.

1055
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 5: What people were getting to know.

1056
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 16: So you know, I love that alt centivizing things. That's

1057
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 16: not why we do it.

1058
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 12: So just keep doing your thing.

1059
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: Chicken wigh. Yeah, Tony's a brother officially the show.

1060
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 3: He sounds like someone in my family.

1061
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 1: Like you got those one liners. Yeah, So all right, Tony.

1062
00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 2: Then to that point, if you're just getting to know us,

1063
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 2: what would you like to know more about us? Send

1064
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 2: your next talk back to us, Tony, and uh, what

1065
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 2: can we specifically reveal to you that would help you

1066
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 2: know us and understand us better? Just use that red

1067
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,800
Speaker 2: microphone inside the page there, because I've been page on

1068
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 2: IET radio talk back Tony Now Tubbs, that's the guy

1069
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 2: that's gonna come jiu jitsu with you, and he's visiting

1070
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 2: this summer. Yeah, I believe. So I don't believe. So

1071
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 2: he talked him four times tough talkbacks.

1072
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 1: That's the guy. Yeah, bail on him, are you? Nope? No? No, no,

1073
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 1: all right.

1074
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,760
Speaker 2: You know Jess is online ten and has been holding

1075
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: four a song or two. So let me grab Jess.

1076
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 2: Good morning, Jess. You're calling about dating again? Yes, so

1077
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 2: the question is when can you start dating again?

1078
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 6: Yes?

1079
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:12,720
Speaker 1: What happened?

1080
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 8: Okay?

1081
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 6: So like basically, like long story short, like back in March,

1082
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 6: I like called off my engagement and I'm not even

1083
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 6: kidding you, Ryan, maybe like two weeks later, he already

1084
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 6: has a new girlfriend's already out and about with her,

1085
00:47:33,680 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 6: and I.

1086
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 9: Like I'm really having a hard.

1087
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 6: Time like shaking off feeling guilty and like obviously obviously

1088
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 6: it like still hurts. And all my friends keep telling me, like,

1089
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 6: you know, Jess, like you need to get back out there,

1090
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 6: you need to do this for you. So like I

1091
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:49,720
Speaker 6: don't know, like what do you guys think?

1092
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 1: Well, why was the engagement called off.

1093
00:47:54,239 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 6: So he was very like manipulative and controlling and like

1094
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 6: emotionally abusive, and it like got to the point where

1095
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 6: like my friends and family were like so concerned about

1096
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:11,480
Speaker 6: me that they literally shut me down and was like,

1097
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 6: you know, this is what we think. And I finally

1098
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 6: was able to snap out of it and realize that

1099
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 6: I can't go through with it.

1100
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 2: Well, I'm happy that you got to that place for yourself.

1101
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: And I don't know why you feel guilt.

1102
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 2: Why do you feel guilt if you were in a

1103
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 2: bad relationship with a person treating you badly? Where is

1104
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 2: the guilt coming from?

1105
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 8: I don't know.

1106
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,840
Speaker 6: It just like feels weird, like or like why he

1107
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 6: is okay? Just moving on so quickly, Like I don't look.

1108
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: I think that I can't possibly understand what you went through.

1109
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 2: But I want to say this that if you were

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Speaker 2: going through what you just described and you're now out

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Speaker 2: of it, that's positive. That's just that's very very good news.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're you're starting with the clean slate. You're

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Speaker 2: in a positive hopefully stay in mind moving forward. And

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Speaker 2: so I don't even know if we should question anything

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Speaker 2: about why this and why that? The point is you

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Speaker 2: realize that this was bad for you and you got

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Speaker 2: out of it, and that's great. So I don't think

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Speaker 2: you should focus on setting a date or or feeling

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Speaker 2: the guilt when you feel like you want to go

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Speaker 2: see somebody, have some fun, meet someone, go out, then

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Speaker 2: you just do it right.

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Speaker 3: You'll know when you're ready.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So don't don't put the pressure on yourself.

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Speaker 2: Don't if your friend look, friends want to get you

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Speaker 2: into you know, they're like, go have a good time.

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Speaker 2: You deserve it. But don't put pressure on yourself. You're

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Speaker 2: in a great place. You made the right decision. Know

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Speaker 2: that when you put your head on your pillow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Easier said, I know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good luck, Jess. I'm glad that you're in this

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Speaker 1: new chapter of your life.

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Speaker 8: Thanks guys, Okay, take.

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Speaker 1: Care, Okay bye.

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Speaker 3: That's hard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm starting to think, was that that guy

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Speaker 2: started seeing somebody two weeks after the breakup? Was he

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Speaker 2: already seeing somebody? I mean, he sounds like bad news anyway,

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Speaker 2: or or was he.

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Speaker 3: Going to once they got married, like you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean, Like, yeah, like he didn't seem like the

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Speaker 3: right dude for her anyways.

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Speaker 2: But I think It's like we all we do put

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Speaker 2: pressure on ourselves, you know, we put unneeded pressure on ourselves.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes she had the weight lifted off of her by

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Speaker 2: getting past this relationship.

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Speaker 1: That's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: You guys coming over tonight tonight Now, I have dinner plans.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for the invite.

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Speaker 1: How about not the same day invite?

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Speaker 5: Taco Tuesday broke kettle black? Yeah yeah, texting us an

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Speaker 5: hour before lunch. Hey, guys, want to be that noon?

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Speaker 1: For not going all right, We'll see tomorrow. Guys. Thanks

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Speaker 1: for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure

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