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Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. Here we go subject Yes,

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Speaker 1: years and years of cheating you, Steve, Shirley and Tommy.

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Speaker 1: I'm a wife of fourteen years. I've been with my

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Speaker 1: husband for eighteen years. We were together as young teenagers.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't know that I've been seeing someone else since

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Speaker 1: before we got married. I love this other man simply

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Speaker 1: for the man that he is when we're together. His

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Speaker 1: focus is on me. He is he has unlimited he

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Speaker 1: has limitless sex drive is what she meant to say,

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Speaker 1: and pleases me every time. About a year ago, I

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Speaker 1: began a sexual relationship with another man who I care

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Speaker 1: very much for. I love his company, I love the sex,

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Speaker 1: and I feel safe when we are together. My husband

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Speaker 1: and I spend our time arguing, screaming, yelling, and slinging insults.

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Speaker 1: I know everyone will say that it's because of my cheating,

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Speaker 1: but my husband has no idea, never busted me. It's

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Speaker 1: more about his shortcomings. He hardly works. I pay mostly everything,

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Speaker 1: and I don't respect him for that. I love him,

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Speaker 1: but I don't like who he has become. Sometimes I

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Speaker 1: pray that he comes home after I am asleep so

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Speaker 1: I don't have to hear his voice he failed me.

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Speaker 1: I believed in him, but in all these years he

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Speaker 1: has failed to deliver. His only true passion is smoking weeds.

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Speaker 1: Am I wrong for running to the arms of two

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Speaker 1: very successful men? Well, morally, I know, take that all

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Speaker 1: in right. Morally, yes, of course you're wrong. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know as well as I do that this is

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Speaker 1: adultery and that cheating is wrong. You know that. But

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Speaker 1: I mean, why did you write the letter as the question?

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Speaker 1: Is this like a true confession sort of thing that

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Speaker 1: you just wanted to get this off your chest? What

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Speaker 1: is really going on with you? And I'm quite frankly,

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Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that, um, your husband never caught you,

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Speaker 1: because usually women are just way smarter than men at cheating.

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Speaker 1: But but having said that, you are miserable in your

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Speaker 1: marriage and something else is going on. You're cheating with

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Speaker 1: not one, but two different men. I don't get that.

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Speaker 1: Why just haven't you filed for divorce? You're some sort

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Speaker 1: of serial cheater? I think, Um, I think it's just

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Speaker 1: sort of some sort of really uh, you know, I

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Speaker 1: think you enjoy the thrill of cheating, you know, of

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Speaker 1: possibly getting caught maybe or something. You need that excitement

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Speaker 1: in your life, because honestly, I don't think you ever

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Speaker 1: gave your marriage a fighting chance because you admit that

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Speaker 1: you were cheating with this man before you even married him.

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Speaker 1: Now you're cheating not only on your husband, but you're

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Speaker 1: cheating on the man you started cheating with. So you're

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Speaker 1: just a serial cheater to me, Steve, Uh, years and

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Speaker 1: years of cheating. Let's start at the bottom on the letter.

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Speaker 1: Am I wrong for running to the on of two

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Speaker 1: very successful men? Uh? You're asking us this? Am I wrong?

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Speaker 1: You already know the thing is. You don't care though. Okay,

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Speaker 1: then now let's go back up to the top, Shirley,

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Speaker 1: Steve and Tommy. You're the first person to ever put

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Speaker 1: Tommy in the Strawberry Letter, and I know why because

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Speaker 1: he's been talking a lot during the Strawberry Letters. And

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Speaker 1: we offer you are humblest apologies about that. Now, let's

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Speaker 1: get to the letter. You've been with y'all. You've been

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Speaker 1: a wife for fourteen years. You've been with your husband

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Speaker 1: for eighteen. You got together as teenagers. He doesn't know

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Speaker 1: that I've been seeing someone else since before we got married. Okay,

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Speaker 1: right there, right there, you would never ever committed to

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Speaker 1: this man or to the marriage. Now you got the

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Speaker 1: nerd in your letter. After you state your case as

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Speaker 1: to why you with these two men, you say in

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Speaker 1: the nerve of you to say he failed me. I

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Speaker 1: believed in him, but in all these years he has

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Speaker 1: failed to deliver. He has failed you. Right, You've never

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Speaker 1: really been in the man's wife, You've never been true

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Speaker 1: to him, you've never been committed to him. And then

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Speaker 1: you got the audacity to turn around and say that

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Speaker 1: this man has failed you, failed you. You're getting out

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Speaker 1: of him what you deserve. What is nothing. You're putting

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Speaker 1: nothing in you. You've been getting a lot put in you,

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Speaker 1: but you ain't put nothing in. Oh you a trip later,

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Speaker 1: you man, because he's smoking weed. You ain't here, just

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Speaker 1: watching watching cartoons eat You ain't here. We'll be back

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Speaker 1: with more of Steve's response to the Strawberry Letter. But Steve,

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Speaker 1: come on. Finished with your response to part two of

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. Let's have it right now. You know, Uh,

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Speaker 1: this woman right here surely says it's just a chronic cheating,

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Speaker 1: and that's what she is. I don't care. See. One

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Speaker 1: of the things we were discussing off the air was, uh,

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Speaker 1: she's been seeing this man since before they got married.

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Speaker 1: She says, I love this man simply for the man

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Speaker 1: that he is. But we're together, his focus is one

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Speaker 1: of him sent on me. He has a limitless sex

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Speaker 1: drive and pleases me every time. Okay. Then the question was, well,

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Speaker 1: why didn't she marry him then, because then, guess what,

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Speaker 1: she didn't marry him, she would still be seeing someone else.

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Speaker 1: Just let me explain something to you. If you have

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Speaker 1: a husband and you're cheating on him with someone since

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Speaker 1: you were married, and your description of this other man

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Speaker 1: is that when we're together, his focus is on me.

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Speaker 1: He has unlimitless sex drive and pleases me every time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that you would think was the ultimate. Right after that,

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Speaker 1: she goes, about a year ago, I began a sexual

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Speaker 1: relationship with another man. But what you just said, he

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Speaker 1: was a man who is unlimitless and pleases you every

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Speaker 1: time you turn around and go get another man. You're

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Speaker 1: not just a shader. You're freaking a wing for you.

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Speaker 1: Just what's wrong with you? Can't get enough? Why don't

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Speaker 1: you sit your hot trash tail down somewhere? Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: just thirsty. She just to tick thirsty bad. It's nothing

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Speaker 1: worse than an old thirsty ship. You're just thirst you

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Speaker 1: see you got to drink. That's her just sits your

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Speaker 1: tail down. For do you have children? She didn't say that,

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Speaker 1: but does she? She probably does after fourteen years to

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Speaker 1: marriage you. Now there's other man who I care for

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Speaker 1: very much, love his current. She would love the sex

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Speaker 1: and I feel safe when he together. Oh he's just great,

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Speaker 1: big old man dingo, big old slave love. If she

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Speaker 1: did have children, who would the daddy being though she

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Speaker 1: ain't got that kind of time. It ain't the dope.

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Speaker 1: Don't you just opencus? You got a freak show, you

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Speaker 1: got you got a man dingo. Man, you gotta weed

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Speaker 1: smoking curcus and have exhibits here here he is smoking

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Speaker 1: weed all day refor man, I think we get it.

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Speaker 1: We gotta go. Yeah, it's overload, isn't it? Email or Instagram?

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Speaker 1: What's your thoughts on today's strawberry letter? At my girls shirt?

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