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Speaker 1: so let's jump straight into it. Uh, we're gonna need
Speaker 1: to get the definition of acceptance the websters or the
Speaker 1: regular definition, and of course the Urban Dictionary definition. So
Speaker 1: we can talk all about acceptance while Shot pulls that up.
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Speaker 1: race what we're doing? Alright? So the textbook definition of
Speaker 1: acceptances the action of consenting to receive or undertaking something offered. Okay,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. The action of process of being received
Speaker 1: as adequent or suitable typically to be admitted into a group.
Speaker 1: That's two different definitions. So it's kind of like trying
Speaker 1: to fit in, but also acceptance could be like how
Speaker 1: you deal with like in certain things like that really
Speaker 1: got the steps and should have been it is what
Speaker 1: it is, right, Well, let's see what the Urban Dictionary says, Um,
Speaker 1: this is a stage age of grief where you experienced death,
Speaker 1: whether from life, a relationship or job, a dream. The
Speaker 1: stage of acceptances where there's no ill will towards anyone,
Speaker 1: no regret, no sadness, no desperation. You have to accept
Speaker 1: the fact that all that has come before in this
Speaker 1: moment um, what's to teach you something to propel you forward?
Speaker 1: It's all good man, that gene got in. So you
Speaker 1: want to talk about the acceptance as far as the
Speaker 1: internet before we talk about fitting in. So I guess
Speaker 1: what some of the steps to bring yourself to that
Speaker 1: place to accept things or accept yourself or accept yourself,
Speaker 1: accept your others circumstances except the good the bad. Like
Speaker 1: I think the first step is just to accept that
Speaker 1: you won't accept the first step, man, except that you
Speaker 1: need to start accepting ship man. Yeah, yeah, that the
Speaker 1: first and foremost if you step didn't them choose, you
Speaker 1: need to win. So a lot of people would call
Speaker 1: someone who just kind of accept and shrugs everything off.
Speaker 1: The word for that would be nonchalant, and people are like,
Speaker 1: you're nonchalant. Sometimes people get frustrated by nonchalant people because
Speaker 1: they can't be bothered by nothing. Well, that don't mean
Speaker 1: that they don't accept it. But that don't mean that
Speaker 1: they don't accept it. You could be nonchalant. It's still
Speaker 1: acception for what it is. It's just that it don't
Speaker 1: bother you. You know what I'm saying that, Yeah, he's saying.
Speaker 1: He's saying, like some people be bothered that you can't
Speaker 1: accept She Yeah, this is going on. I want to
Speaker 1: do something. How you keep taking? Yeah, how you keep
Speaker 1: moving like because nigger don't move past it? Like when
Speaker 1: you I feel like once you accept, man, that ship
Speaker 1: really is like a healing It heals you piece like that.
Speaker 1: The everydictionarself. So you're gonna you're gonna like people. I
Speaker 1: know it's unfortunate delf and sittnals and everything, but what
Speaker 1: you're gonna do. You're just gonna stop right now. You
Speaker 1: can't the end of the day. Then what it is?
Speaker 1: It is what it is? Right, But how didn't turn out?
Speaker 1: People will be such stuck in it? How do they
Speaker 1: usually they be in the bad They put them in
Speaker 1: a bad situation. Though they still put you in a
Speaker 1: bad situation though nobody want to be in a bad situation.
Speaker 1: So if you want to get out of it, she
Speaker 1: then what it is, you gotta move past it. You
Speaker 1: you can't control ship, can't control nothing, really, I mean yourself.
Speaker 1: But you can't control nothing. You can't control what's gonna happen.
Speaker 1: Who's gonna do it? Period? You can't ain't control ship.
Speaker 1: You can't even control how you feel most of the time,
Speaker 1: like how yourself feeling certain things, like especially when it
Speaker 1: comes to grief, like some people, you really don't know
Speaker 1: how you're gonna feel when somebody close to you die.
Speaker 1: Some people may go smoke, some people may go drink.
Speaker 1: Another person may be sad and depressed for like a
Speaker 1: year or two years, three years, I think, but I
Speaker 1: think they're still a part of a septance though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: grief and anything whatever. If you if you're trying so
Speaker 1: if you're doing that type of ship smoking and drinking
Speaker 1: and trying to like kind of like I don't know,
Speaker 1: fight the pain and everything like that. Is that really
Speaker 1: acceptance or that's another word we acceptance is like I
Speaker 1: can deal with it without trying to suppress. But if
Speaker 1: you already accept deaf, then I feel like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, if you already got to understand that,
Speaker 1: like it comes with it comes with it, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like and if you know to me,
Speaker 1: if you know a person, if you got love on
Speaker 1: in your I when they passed away, you know why
Speaker 1: they was here. I gave him a hundred percent. I
Speaker 1: feel like they make it easy for you to be
Speaker 1: able to sip. But what I'm saying is if you
Speaker 1: if you if you don't accept it, and you start
Speaker 1: smoking and drinking or doing being out of character and
Speaker 1: doing a bunch of like self harm, self inflicting ship
Speaker 1: to create more, giving up on life, becoming okay, despair.
Speaker 1: But is that giving because I don't know, because I like,
Speaker 1: if you're trying to give yourself because you want to
Speaker 1: know more because that person you're trying to give yourself,
Speaker 1: you're giving up on life, m you're doing anything you
Speaker 1: it's just like add some then the murder like somebody
Speaker 1: absolutely that they like took some piers. They dropped too
Speaker 1: much and they went down and hit the pole. They
Speaker 1: ain't they ain't playing it, but they knew what they
Speaker 1: were doing. Just trying to see what this ship happened,
Speaker 1: so they can go, I can die too. You know
Speaker 1: what you say. You're saying that a person that's an
Speaker 1: abusing drug us or something, because someone is something after
Speaker 1: time happened, they really got them. How do they go?
Speaker 1: They go, how have we going? But really suicide? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're scared to pull the trickers stuff. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? They're going there getting the gun. Did you
Speaker 1: want to if she take some piel, keep drinking, drinking,
Speaker 1: get in the car, drive thou mouth power? Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. I think people don't know how to deal
Speaker 1: with their pain. A lot of people just don't know
Speaker 1: how to deal with their pain. Some people when they hurt,
Speaker 1: like they get angry because you're hurt your feelings, so
Speaker 1: you get angry. People just don't know deal with their pain.
Speaker 1: Everybody like it until you start learning. You start so
Speaker 1: another day, not the end day, end of the days.
Speaker 1: Accept it, just saying it is should you accept everything
Speaker 1: you got? You got to if that's what it is,
Speaker 1: you want to be it, that's what it is. It
Speaker 1: can't be changed. That's the surrendered for right now. You're right, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know it can't be changed. It can't be changed.
Speaker 1: Give me the straight to control of the camera. Crying
Speaker 1: I was spilt milk. Yeah, what I'm talking to you do?
Speaker 1: I'll just think. I'm just thinking about them all. I'm
Speaker 1: just and I'm just thinking I might not have it.
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking about when you might be accepting something
Speaker 1: that you shouldn't accept, Like should you accept defeat? Like
Speaker 1: if you're ain't going right, you want to make it better?
Speaker 1: Should you accept the fact that I'm at this place
Speaker 1: in life and this one I won't be my whole life?
Speaker 1: Should you? No, that ain't that ain't there ain't set
Speaker 1: in stone, and that's what that is. Where you gotta accept. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you if you if your finger cut off, you
Speaker 1: gotta accept that exactly I got you. You might can
Speaker 1: get what they call it, but if you'll never see
Speaker 1: that finger, it's yeah. So you don't have to accept
Speaker 1: up things you keep, you can change. So somebody's sad
Speaker 1: about the relationship, they got to accept that because they
Speaker 1: might be able to get that person back. That's not
Speaker 1: necessarily permanent. You're saying permanent things. Yes, that's how I feel.
Speaker 1: That makes if I if I can't change it, I
Speaker 1: gott if I don't reach out to this woman more
Speaker 1: over numerous times and cry my heart off, and she
Speaker 1: started showing me, fuck me. I have to accept that,
Speaker 1: because that's what that is. Yeah, Like I can't. I
Speaker 1: can't sit here and keep trying and trying and trying
Speaker 1: and trying and try, like I can take your mind.
Speaker 1: She already told me what it is you stopped doing.
Speaker 1: Get the hell jail time, stalking to right right. You
Speaker 1: ain't accepted in fact that it's over with. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I think sometimes you can accept um situ wife's there's
Speaker 1: not temporary. You just accept Yeah, yeah, exactly like that,
Speaker 1: like what you were saying, like you're in a place
Speaker 1: in your life, like like what he was saying, Like
Speaker 1: you're in a place where you're in your life and
Speaker 1: you want to get to the next step. Why can't
Speaker 1: you just need that set where you wait right now?
Speaker 1: Set where you wait. You're saying like that's like content
Speaker 1: though it's not being content. That is if you accept that,
Speaker 1: if you if you feel like you want more and
Speaker 1: you you set what you got, that's content. That's kind
Speaker 1: of giving up. I'll take it as you're just giving
Speaker 1: up on yourself. You ain't just gonna take it step first.
Speaker 1: If you want more now, if you don't want more, yeah,
Speaker 1: if you accept your position, like what you're trying to say,
Speaker 1: position at the moment, like what I always said, Like
Speaker 1: like what I always said. Then she trying to say,
Speaker 1: she's trying to say, like, Okay, be grateful, not accept.
Speaker 1: She really trying to put you saying, be grateful what
Speaker 1: you got, want more? Yeah, but I'm accept who I
Speaker 1: am and accept the position than I am right now. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's basically being grateful because gonna you're gonna continue to
Speaker 1: keep ground and get out of here. So I feel
Speaker 1: like a mother to accept the positioned and he don't
Speaker 1: want to go No. Forever, you get somebody growing up
Speaker 1: in the projects or some ship and they're like, I'm
Speaker 1: cool with this. I'm just I'm straight. This is it.
Speaker 1: They're being complacent, complacent and like you said, content, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because at the end of the day, he could be worse.
Speaker 1: It could be worse, and out there you just don't
Speaker 1: want to take the other step to go completely. They
Speaker 1: might not even want to feel no shoes or being
Speaker 1: a boss or ceo, how them bills and how this card?
Speaker 1: Everybody loves us, suscess ain't the same. Everybody love her
Speaker 1: happens ain't the same. Like, that's one thing I don't
Speaker 1: want to take in. I have to pay the light. Billy,
Speaker 1: you haven't seen anything on the street, happy baby like
Speaker 1: free man. Yeah, the stressing you want you and tell
Speaker 1: you like everybody happens is different, real special. When you
Speaker 1: got acceptance in accept who I am that I'm happy
Speaker 1: like this right right, So let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: How do you feel when people talk about accepting other
Speaker 1: people like you have to accept people for who they are?
Speaker 1: Do you feel like people can like do you feel
Speaker 1: like you have to accept people for who they are?
Speaker 1: Or do you could You can talk to them and
Speaker 1: they could change who they are, well, not necessarily change
Speaker 1: who they are, to change their perspective who they are
Speaker 1: until they're ready to be somebody else or a better
Speaker 1: person or worse or whatever. Just got to accept that ship,
Speaker 1: they said, else we'll not get big. What if what
Speaker 1: they're doing is like not good? That's who they are,
Speaker 1: that's who they are. That what they do, what you mean,
Speaker 1: what you mean, what they're doing? It is not good.
Speaker 1: They're just not being a good person. Yeah, like they're
Speaker 1: just nodded like that's like if you know, Okay, for example,
Speaker 1: you and Dave hella close. If you see Dave start
Speaker 1: to change who he is and do some ship that's
Speaker 1: like not good. Do you accept the new Dave or
Speaker 1: do you now call Dave out and say, hey, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna bring to the attention to make sure heal, well,
Speaker 1: what are he's doing? And then if he said, well,
Speaker 1: what are he's doing? Like, yeah, I know, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm on. That's what I'm on, then I gotta either
Speaker 1: accept it or remove myself. Right, Okay, it's one or
Speaker 1: the other. I can't got them and get mad at
Speaker 1: you for who you like, this's who I am. Always
Speaker 1: to people who out of Yeah, exactly, ain't gotta funk
Speaker 1: with you because that ain't who I am. Yeah, like,
Speaker 1: that's gonna got them. Fuck you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That ain't gonna be be right for me. So it
Speaker 1: sounds like lacking acceptance can create a lot of stress.
Speaker 1: But what about the other definition of acceptance, which is
Speaker 1: a lot of people basically trying to be something they're
Speaker 1: not to gain acceptance. So it's kind of like the
Speaker 1: other end of your question, like if a person is
Speaker 1: who they are, then David said, well, I'm gonna change
Speaker 1: it so everyone will accept me per se. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying? What about that? What's our thoughts on that? Marketing? Marketing?
Speaker 1: Some of this ship marketed talking about entertainment, talk about
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get around the news. Yeah, but like
Speaker 1: I might not like your but they like Jerry in
Speaker 1: this rap game. If I'm a wrapper, they might not.
Speaker 1: I might not like the web drip. You see the
Speaker 1: ship I wear. I wear Bullshit comes traight. I may
Speaker 1: not like the web Drip, but this is what you
Speaker 1: need to have to be accepted. Let's take this for example, right,
Speaker 1: shouts to Rage three and Jazz there in here. They
Speaker 1: are generally quiet people when they're around there themselves. Now
Speaker 1: they came in here. It was trying to be all
Speaker 1: extra and loud and it'll be weird. Right, They just
Speaker 1: themselves rather than trying to be something that they'd not
Speaker 1: to fit in. You see what I'm saying. That's not
Speaker 1: that's what's that called your face? Yeah? No, um, I
Speaker 1: think the marketing. No, I'll talk about you're not even listening.
Speaker 1: Three and jazz started coming to here being loud and
Speaker 1: boisterous and being something other than what they are. It
Speaker 1: would be weird, right, thanks for Dave, it'll be weird.
Speaker 1: But it's like it really ain't got them. It's really
Speaker 1: it's really it's really more personal like this, I ain't
Speaker 1: got to accept that though weird, or it wouldn't be
Speaker 1: weird because I'm the type of person. I'm gonna tell you,
Speaker 1: like what happen? Do you? But it used to be cool?
Speaker 1: So you're talking about But then you gotta also realize
Speaker 1: that people don't be they normalself trying to be other
Speaker 1: people and we don't accept that that you get on.
Speaker 1: Something might have came in quiet because they don't know us,
Speaker 1: but that ain't even them. They're being that to be accepted.
Speaker 1: Then you get comfortable, you start getting cool. Now being
Speaker 1: myself and we're looking at that is strange, but that's
Speaker 1: who they really is, like our extra voice. Now she
Speaker 1: used to be quiet, and now she we got down.
Speaker 1: She got our own podcasts with a podcast. But that's
Speaker 1: who she is the right, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So comfortability is important, but I still think that it ain't.
Speaker 1: You should you shouldn't try to like be something other
Speaker 1: than yourself overall to try to feel it in. But
Speaker 1: I guess if you're a rapper, if you anything, or
Speaker 1: a character, if you're a character, you just gotta you're
Speaker 1: gonna blow it the leaves. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: You're gonna blow it the leaves. But if you just you,
Speaker 1: you just you, you get what I'm saying, But you can't.
Speaker 1: That's why back to the Southern we said the last time,
Speaker 1: we can't take an entertainer that's who they are when
Speaker 1: the cameras are because I could be in character, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I get the podcasts the closest thing,
Speaker 1: and the raps the closest thing until you probably first
Speaker 1: people being their self, giving the real open that people
Speaker 1: and people lying, people are being characters. People are doing
Speaker 1: what they what they've following in or their fans pushed
Speaker 1: them towards. You know what I'm saying, all those comments
Speaker 1: you go to feed into that sh You might not
Speaker 1: never like Jerry, but when I put the girl on
Speaker 1: I made a hit. Yeah when I put the girl
Speaker 1: on my video, did a million of you? Yeah, you
Speaker 1: get want to say, so having the powder sit on
Speaker 1: to do this ship and then they become a part
Speaker 1: of you. It don't be. It don't even be to
Speaker 1: be accepted in your mind because you're not thinking about you,
Speaker 1: just thinking about hurt defolks. But what about what what about?
Speaker 1: What about people? Let's take social media? What about people
Speaker 1: get too deep into that ship and do too much?
Speaker 1: Like you say, one person to do something like a
Speaker 1: girl might show her toes and then that works so
Speaker 1: that she keeps taking more clothes and more clothes and
Speaker 1: more clothes off for the acceptance of her social media following.
Speaker 1: I think once again, that's marketing. And is it is
Speaker 1: it okay to do marketing that goals? If I'm already
Speaker 1: selling toes, that's a part of my body. That the
Speaker 1: same ship. It's all she's making money. It's just it's marketing.
Speaker 1: It's all on my body. Reference Baker said, toes the
Speaker 1: same as they is if you, if you're show them
Speaker 1: it is, it's the same. I think wind gonna cost
Speaker 1: way more than you. That's what they love. Like, No,
Speaker 1: I'm serious toe fetish is real. It's the same. You've
Speaker 1: got people that if you're exploring your body or in
Speaker 1: any part, everybody else, everybody in here would take their
Speaker 1: feet off, shoes off right now and show their toes.
Speaker 1: The women are not gonna feel comfortable show they're gonna
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. They know we ain't gonna feel comfortable. They're
Speaker 1: gonna bout showing them titties. They don't feel like they
Speaker 1: disrespected up. They want to wish they could have on
Speaker 1: No church like niggles man. That's a big right now,
Speaker 1: that's a big women gotta right. It could be the
Speaker 1: other way around. The once I'm already selling something to
Speaker 1: ship getting show selling. We different in selling ara, Why
Speaker 1: are you thinking them for? It went from che Burger
Speaker 1: to beat Man to double Cheah, from g Bird and
Speaker 1: Double che Bird to the big Man to the Philate,
Speaker 1: to the make real to the quarterback. Yeah what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Let this ship slow up like you see a bit
Speaker 1: twigging fir with some jeans on. Then she realized the
Speaker 1: jeans it's not not. Then that ship wobbing a little
Speaker 1: sundressed like then we shot, then we pay it. Then
Speaker 1: we only paying them so I think gaining acceptance is
Speaker 1: a gateway drugs. What you're saying if you can't pay
Speaker 1: I think if you're getting paid off, it's not accepting.
Speaker 1: People ain't getting pay it on social media, they're just
Speaker 1: doing it for the attention that the attention. Attention has
Speaker 1: became a new currency. So at the end of the day, Bro,
Speaker 1: once once I get enough attention, he didn't even turn
Speaker 1: around and have a book? You did, Bro, you like
Speaker 1: it different. I didn't understand it, and I don't understand it,
Speaker 1: but I see it happening. Yeah, you like the dude
Speaker 1: who's in the court got if you think I'm here
Speaker 1: to play with you, damning him nut that one little ship,
Speaker 1: he got a book, he got somebody about it just
Speaker 1: off of that attention he got. Yeah, something different. Just
Speaker 1: think about it. Like people give people with a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of follows the everybody want to send them ship.
Speaker 1: They get free shipped by just having followers. You got
Speaker 1: everybody that want to be around you just because you
Speaker 1: got followers. They don't care about how much money you got.
Speaker 1: You got all them followers for let's hang out. But
Speaker 1: when they come to in a in a sense like that,
Speaker 1: I think it's most on the investment than asseltence, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: what what's the investment of them? Want to be around
Speaker 1: them people, y'all just trying to go viral, like yeah,
Speaker 1: exactly like changing your parents. It's all in investment. Ain't
Speaker 1: really about being in silthy investment going virus like a
Speaker 1: hit song. It really is, because think about when you
Speaker 1: need to go viral, you need you start seeing them
Speaker 1: just like what what they ain't like? He different now
Speaker 1: he's just no coming in nigga? Are you talking about
Speaker 1: Drew Drew Desert banks and playing on internet? Playing around
Speaker 1: enough these the businesses. Now, yeah, you're out of here, right,
Speaker 1: So these ain't folks sending at home and ain't did
Speaker 1: nothing that man. They know. All that man did was
Speaker 1: got in front of the camera. That's what they're trying
Speaker 1: to do. That's that's like the new hit. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: can't argue with that once you know, man, Now you're
Speaker 1: gonna get to no man, and I got something to say.
Speaker 1: That's all these folks un live y'all don't got to
Speaker 1: know y'all smelling my flame? Now I got something to
Speaker 1: say too. Now you see me. What it did is
Speaker 1: in the in the in the y Uh, I'm an entertainer.
Speaker 1: Ship different, bro, Yeah, I gotta agree with that. Different
Speaker 1: Like we never seen nothing like that, But it's different.
Speaker 1: You just gotta respect everyone the movie. They just working
Speaker 1: a whole nother movie. Got to accept every hustle. So
Speaker 1: are we telling people to push the limits to be accepted? No,
Speaker 1: you always got to be how you get. I'm saying,
Speaker 1: that's what it's for. Clarity, no validating what y'all say.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. If you're already doing it,
Speaker 1: why is you playing? You don't play with it? Why
Speaker 1: is you playing? You already doing ship for acceptance? Why
Speaker 1: is you're playing? Yeah, So if you're wrapping them, you're
Speaker 1: on one type of whatever type of vibe you're on,
Speaker 1: or you might a gonna go to that vibe. If
Speaker 1: you're gonna be the weed smoking currency with Khalifa, I
Speaker 1: live stoner, weed smoking rapper, you might as well be
Speaker 1: the stoner. Don't play with it because you're already doing it. Whatever,
Speaker 1: come with that lane you're doing, Gonna come with that anyway,
Speaker 1: whatever it is that. You know what I'm saying. If
Speaker 1: you if you're saying you want to go to the
Speaker 1: Olympic light bank. You need to do you ten miles
Speaker 1: and five miles and the least five. You get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You gotta push that ship to the limit.
Speaker 1: You can't do nothing had weight, all right, because now
Speaker 1: you ain't even accept that yourself is who you really
Speaker 1: want to. You want to put some little shit in Huh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't even think it. You ain't even accepted that
Speaker 1: you're great yet. That's that's so that's something else with acceptance,
Speaker 1: Like what what about people who are not accepting the paint,
Speaker 1: who are not accepting their destiny, like not accepting their greatness,
Speaker 1: like kind of running from it. It ain't even net.
Speaker 1: Sometime they'd be fear And these can't even believe that
Speaker 1: I'm net, you got something. They can't even believe that
Speaker 1: they for great, being the chosen on the pressure, the depressure,
Speaker 1: you know how much you know, how much you know
Speaker 1: how much you got they're realicule up. But but hold
Speaker 1: up what y'all just said. It is what it is.
Speaker 1: If you're the one you, if you accept, if you
Speaker 1: don't underscept that, then you could you could be you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. The niggas came out of high
Speaker 1: school better than Jodan the d damn can fight like
Speaker 1: Mike Tyson. But they didn't accept it. They wouldn't. Ain't
Speaker 1: it accept it? Right? They accepted something else, They accepted
Speaker 1: their demise instead of now they chase something milk. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they changed it something else. Yeah, the wrong ship. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh god, I can say something I don't know? Yeah,
Speaker 1: how about to say something what you think? Think? Um,
Speaker 1: it can be a broad nigga like, but he has
Speaker 1: accepted that he's gonna be great, Like I'm that nigger like,
Speaker 1: but eventually I just know one day I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: be there. Facts. Yeah, now that makes sense, that makes sense.
Speaker 1: But what else in relationship to acceptance? Can acceptance going?
Speaker 1: Like physical attributes as well? What you mean should you
Speaker 1: accept your physical attributes? What you mean? Should you just
Speaker 1: accept your physical attributes? Like if you if if somebody say,
Speaker 1: I don't know, somebody's not attracted? What of jade, did
Speaker 1: somebody say somebody is not attractive? Or they this or
Speaker 1: they that? You say? It kind of is what it is?
Speaker 1: So should they accept that? What? Like? What if you
Speaker 1: know you something that could be ugly, it could be
Speaker 1: anything not because you can change that, Okay, how are
Speaker 1: you going to sell if a nigga said you just
Speaker 1: a f how you gonna set that? You can change it?
Speaker 1: You can change it. Okay, I got you. That's not
Speaker 1: one of the permanent circumstances. But you can't really change
Speaker 1: But the NEA say, black head Bank, I can't change that.
Speaker 1: I got to accept that I'm a black head and
Speaker 1: I'm black and the most of the nigga that will
Speaker 1: be around me. Yeah, I got you. Yeah, all right, Ship,
Speaker 1: it is what it is. Except before what it is,
Speaker 1: we're talking about acceptance. What's the what's the what's the
Speaker 1: point of acceptance? I mean, what it like? What's the
Speaker 1: what are we talking about? Oh? We have to accept
Speaker 1: that every other episode j might be late. We have
Speaker 1: to accept that the change just got all the flight
Speaker 1: and it's all good. We have to accept that every
Speaker 1: other episode maybe late. We have to accept that. Right,
Speaker 1: have you accepted that is what it is? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying? Well, we're gonna get in where we
Speaker 1: fitted that, So we have accepted that. I appreciate. I
Speaker 1: appreciate the acceptance abundantly that I'm learning a lot of
Speaker 1: words with this big ship were dropping. I'll be talking
Speaker 1: like tipping a minute. Yeah, I didn't know which one's
Speaker 1: wrong with which one Fast Friday. It probably our head
Speaker 1: overs on the words. Oh no, no, then they was
Speaker 1: just saying, like, niggas, I feel like there's gonna be
Speaker 1: far off and what we're somebody. That's how niggas tell
Speaker 1: when nas get caught up and ship. That would make
Speaker 1: nega tell because they don't accept what they'd be undid
Speaker 1: came up with the word they don't. Yeah, they don't
Speaker 1: accept that I did this ship. Yeah yeah, yeah, Like
Speaker 1: you've been lying so long, like we've been lying to
Speaker 1: everybody that's your own lines. So now you have an
Speaker 1: acsembly you're talking about are you speaking on niggas they
Speaker 1: get caught up and ship that weren't really doing ship
Speaker 1: but that we're just trying to be in some ship
Speaker 1: that really did it? Yeah? Who did it till? But
Speaker 1: till like it's like if I go, if all of
Speaker 1: us go rob the store and I get caught instead
Speaker 1: of me just saying they and they're like, shot, you
Speaker 1: rob the store, You're about to go to jail. I'm
Speaker 1: like with ship, in fact, everybody else did it. How
Speaker 1: y'all let bank screen Pink Jay Dave, Dave wear glasses,
Speaker 1: get away like I didn't accept my pay even though
Speaker 1: I put yeah it is I got because we're I
Speaker 1: met with everybody you could be, so we're lying, like
Speaker 1: lying to yourself so bad that you'll trick yourself into
Speaker 1: a worse situation. You get what I'm saying, mine instead
Speaker 1: of destiny? Yeah? Yeah, exactly. You around because you're not
Speaker 1: accepting like I did say, if if, if your wife's
Speaker 1: leave you because something that you know you cannot change
Speaker 1: within yourself. You have debate accept that right then and there.
Speaker 1: If not, you're gonna go crazy. You're gonna be sitting
Speaker 1: sounding like the nile who making excuses to everybody like
Speaker 1: cauld We see it too, but you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like we see what she's talking about. But well yeah yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah yeah you in your mind? You retarded? Bro? You
Speaker 1: you ain't accepting it. How many people know people like
Speaker 1: that be real? A lot of people like Nigga You
Speaker 1: ain't except didn't it? Bro? You laugh to yourself and
Speaker 1: Motherucker's will hate you and be mad at you because
Speaker 1: you ain't to believe a lot of I know, not
Speaker 1: this alive. Bro. You want me to accept so don't live.
Speaker 1: You said it is what it is. I can accept
Speaker 1: that you are liar, but man like when you're a liar,
Speaker 1: you know you're a liar. We both know you alive, right,
Speaker 1: so I want me to believe you. Mad that I
Speaker 1: won't believe live and they tell me if they're telling
Speaker 1: the truth at one time, you're just not gonna bread.
Speaker 1: She's questionable. One time, the only believe you because they
Speaker 1: didn't so well. I did not know. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: lie till today. This conversation is good because I didn't
Speaker 1: know how important and how peaceful acceptance. I didn't know
Speaker 1: the importance of that word. But it's important, like any nigga,
Speaker 1: bro ever man fucked up, locked up anything when them
Speaker 1: need to be like bro that she was the best
Speaker 1: place for me because they reached acceptance. Like Okay, I
Speaker 1: fucked up. We find out how to live fit like
Speaker 1: and a dept. You get locked up. It ain't no
Speaker 1: way around that. But niggas who can't accept that they
Speaker 1: what you're doing. No, you gotta accept that it's time
Speaker 1: for me to live a different life Nowance will make
Speaker 1: tell you. They'll make you telling because you have not
Speaker 1: accelf did it because honestly, you just find with yourself.
Speaker 1: You ain't find with nobody. You just find with yourself.
Speaker 1: Does everybody else have the he's gone? He's gone? Just
Speaker 1: how that ship be? Bro? I was like out of mind?
Speaker 1: So we go right back to the beginning. You got
Speaker 1: to accept yourself like haveing accept us with their first
Speaker 1: first tell anything, first, wake up because I'd be like that, Bro.
Speaker 1: I just need to be thinking like bro, they need
Speaker 1: They don't give a funk about nothing I do. I
Speaker 1: can about everything, but I know when what me giving
Speaker 1: the funk about that ain't gonna help nothing. Period. Me
Speaker 1: giving the funk about this right here is gonna stop this.
Speaker 1: So that is what that is. God bless that situation.
Speaker 1: But this is what this is. We're not get big.
Speaker 1: People will be mad, but says you can accept with them.
Speaker 1: They just can't. They could be your own situations like
Speaker 1: and people will be like man or why y like
Speaker 1: she is? What it is is that mother wants want
Speaker 1: me to be mad. The more the story it is,
Speaker 1: take it, how though, take out, come taking hard, don't
Speaker 1: come if you don't you put yourself in the situation
Speaker 1: where you very bad, always blaming the next motherfucker. Don't
Speaker 1: be the mothercker that always blame the neck. Motherfucker. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. It's like because I don't accept
Speaker 1: that I didn't work hard for my ship. All, like
Speaker 1: I said, is what Jay didn't do. If I had
Speaker 1: a better manager, I could have been drinking me saying this.
Speaker 1: Now I had one song, try that, but I could
Speaker 1: have been drink if I had somebody else hand to
Speaker 1: my baby. You ain't even recorded, but the whole life
Speaker 1: you have, No, it's been easy. Didn't believe that, like
Speaker 1: beat you on me back? How you do except this
Speaker 1: in the same family as accountability that ease you got,
Speaker 1: mother motherfucker's tell you everything that you didn't do. That's
Speaker 1: all I can see is what you didn't do. I
Speaker 1: can't see that I only recorded six songs in my
Speaker 1: whole life, you get what I'm saying. I can't see
Speaker 1: that I've never been to a studio, to my old
Speaker 1: sex whatever whatever they come in to being that are
Speaker 1: did you try to be? I'm gonna blame it on
Speaker 1: everything I shouldn't have fought with dearl jam. I knew
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have them folk right, because what it was
Speaker 1: going on it was the greatest ship, the greatest shiver.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, that ship hold you back?
Speaker 1: What except I haven't kind of buil of it, bro,
Speaker 1: of your action if you kind of building that hand. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like if I ain't, I don't know, Bro, make it blessed, Bro,
Speaker 1: blesses just no, like it's on me. I gotta eat
Speaker 1: that that week up is like you could be in
Speaker 1: a situation where somebody really did something to you, but
Speaker 1: it's just like someone in there. I did something to
Speaker 1: put myself in this situation. I ain't gonna blame any
Speaker 1: person like, oh that you're wrong me, No, put myself
Speaker 1: in this situation. Sign out some way to get wrong.
Speaker 1: I should have been my mind told me, like, however, whatever,
Speaker 1: how is it though first did something because you Yeah,
Speaker 1: just because you're a sept thing, don't mean you can't
Speaker 1: react to right. But you still gotta put yourself, hold
Speaker 1: yourself a kind of about the rip off the real See,
Speaker 1: you gotta be your biggest hater. You gotta be your
Speaker 1: biggest hater. Bro. That's the only way accountability and it's
Speaker 1: up is coming into plate. If you hate on yourself,
Speaker 1: like critique yourself, like even if it's good, it's bad.
Speaker 1: Something could be better than that. The only thing is
Speaker 1: gonna make that ship whether it pold to be Listen,
Speaker 1: you listen to my music from a hater ear like
Speaker 1: then he came in that wrapped for real and he
Speaker 1: got let you know what I'm saying, that's ruth. So
Speaker 1: I'm not I would take accepted that I may not
Speaker 1: be a rapper. You get what I'm saying. I may not,
Speaker 1: even though my niggas and everybody saying, man, hey not,
Speaker 1: you know I ain't. I have accepted that it ain't
Speaker 1: for me. I don't even like as I was doing
Speaker 1: shows and I don't. I don't want to do that,
Speaker 1: but me doing that and I get a panic attack
Speaker 1: on some ship. Now I'm blaming others. You know it's
Speaker 1: gonna be j So it's a kound of bentity first
Speaker 1: for real, Bro, you know you know, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, you know you know. Because can't nobody to
Speaker 1: make you do ship. I can't nobody to make you entice.
Speaker 1: You can't about to make you do you know? Do
Speaker 1: you know? People a lot of their self, Bro, I
Speaker 1: used to do that ship, but a lot of myself
Speaker 1: by ship, Like ain't they ain't even yes she did.
Speaker 1: But it's like once you learn the quicker that chicken
Speaker 1: self to take accountabentity and the self, the ship and
Speaker 1: Jimmy like it is what it is, I'll give a yeah,
Speaker 1: life easier like because bro, the quicker, you let it
Speaker 1: be what it is. If it is what it is,
Speaker 1: that's where it be what it is. So whatever situation
Speaker 1: you try to go's trying to follow that. I get it.
Speaker 1: You let it be with it. It's gonna be whatever
Speaker 1: because it did g bro, you can try to hold
Speaker 1: that sheep, don't is that is that? I didn't catch
Speaker 1: up with that in her mouth? She did, buddy, that
Speaker 1: it is what it is? That show is that? But
Speaker 1: is that? You know how like phrases in turns sometimes
Speaker 1: like wear out, but that's one that don't never wor out.
Speaker 1: He's saying that ships just what old one because that's
Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, it probably go back yeah somebody ever,
Speaker 1: but somebody, yeah it is. But see something like that
Speaker 1: people like a lot of And this goes back to
Speaker 1: the whole acceptance thing. A lot of people say it
Speaker 1: is what it is, but I'll still be wishing that
Speaker 1: it was what it was. For sure, you're gonna do
Speaker 1: that the human nature, I wish you, but it is, yeah,
Speaker 1: does until you just say it is what it is
Speaker 1: period and you know what I'm saying, cut it off
Speaker 1: right there, You're always gonna like be miserable and not happy.
Speaker 1: Not really you could be You're right by what you said,
Speaker 1: but not really you could it could be. It is
Speaker 1: what it is, But I wish you want to like that,
Speaker 1: because I got a lot of situations like that. Ye,
Speaker 1: but but but it still ain't. But that that wishing
Speaker 1: that it wasn't like that still make peace the situation alive.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And that ship man, that ship, it just
Speaker 1: get on time. It is what it is, but you
Speaker 1: wish you weren't like that. It's some ship that really
Speaker 1: it ain't what it is. A't it ain't. It's just
Speaker 1: sit your it's just the situation. And like like an
Speaker 1: edge friend, it ain't. It is what it is. But
Speaker 1: you're making it what it is because you can easy
Speaker 1: pick up the phone and say it's pride what it is.
Speaker 1: Because if you wish, you want to like that, you
Speaker 1: can make that not like that. But if you wish,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to say that's just like it
Speaker 1: is what it is, but I wish you want to
Speaker 1: like that that's what that is. They ain't coming back
Speaker 1: from that. Yeah, But like with the friendship, it is
Speaker 1: what it is. But picking up the phone and saying
Speaker 1: certain ships like may not necessarily be pride. If you're
Speaker 1: the one that was sucked over. Everybody feel fun when
Speaker 1: they got a disagreement. You think the person that you
Speaker 1: feel like that about don't feel like you suck them
Speaker 1: out because they have an accept They don't put something
Speaker 1: in the mind that it is what daddy is. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: or you did something to deserve them to do whatever
Speaker 1: they did exactly. But you can feel like that one name, Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's tripping over nothing and waiting on you to go. Said,
Speaker 1: you know what they said about waiting broke the water wheels.
Speaker 1: I think it ain't it ain't what it is when
Speaker 1: you ain't what it is you wish it was what
Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, man, it ain't when you wish it
Speaker 1: ain't what it No, it ain't not. It ain't what
Speaker 1: it is. If you're still wishing that it was what
Speaker 1: it was. Okay, that's hard, that's hard. But that fact though,
Speaker 1: because makes all the sense in the world. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: if you're still wishing that it was what it was,
Speaker 1: then it ain't what it is because they're still in
Speaker 1: my mind. Can go back to what it was. It
Speaker 1: depends on the situation that now that situational Okay, what
Speaker 1: you mean, can't go back for the world, it can
Speaker 1: go It could be better than what it is. How
Speaker 1: could you could be broke rich and go back to
Speaker 1: being broke? You go back to what it was. No,
Speaker 1: back to being broke, and then go back to being
Speaker 1: um rich, no, not rich. You can go back to
Speaker 1: being comfortable comfortable. Yeah, yeah, so it wasn't what it was,
Speaker 1: but comfortably is better than broke. Comfortably bro Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: not comfortable, ain't broke. That's what I said. That's what
Speaker 1: it sounds like. If you go from rich, if you
Speaker 1: go from pole to rich back to pole, you said,
Speaker 1: go from broke from zero running mind up to timmy
Speaker 1: fun it alway back up to zero, running back up
Speaker 1: the five five me or even a hundred dollars. I
Speaker 1: see what you're saying. Yeah, I'm talking about but it's
Speaker 1: not I'm not when do you fun? Right? It is
Speaker 1: what it is. If you call negative from zero, that
Speaker 1: ain't it. It happens. It isn't what it is, what
Speaker 1: it was. What people get more money. People get more
Speaker 1: money sometimes they spend a whole bunch of un a
Speaker 1: lot of them. We're seeing all the stories. This is
Speaker 1: what happened to my ship. Might Tyson admitted it? I
Speaker 1: went admitted, But daddy is where that is. Come out
Speaker 1: of the hood. But you gotta funk up your fur bag.
Speaker 1: And unless you unless you got proper. That man didn't
Speaker 1: have proper And I am not blaming nobody nothing. All
Speaker 1: I am is a box I'm not accounting. I'm not
Speaker 1: none of this ship. It was a boxer ready to fight.
Speaker 1: I want some, But I don't know his story. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying how I look at it, like just like athletes,
Speaker 1: like if you don't do the right ship Nia is
Speaker 1: learning through his mistake. He's backing on track doing what
Speaker 1: he do. Yeah, yeah, well helmed. Yeah he act like
Speaker 1: you said, he's probably comfortable. He's still hampering. He getting
Speaker 1: paid on this song. Hey man, A lot of people
Speaker 1: don't Blue Tyson Dune did it. A lot of football
Speaker 1: player rappers don't did that ship. So it's better than
Speaker 1: what it is, but it's still ain't what it was,
Speaker 1: even if you go back to broke. But see, even
Speaker 1: if you go back to broke, when you walk down
Speaker 1: the street, you're not the same person you were. You
Speaker 1: might be broke, but you're now a celebrity. You said
Speaker 1: you're worse. But everybody don't know you broke yet. How
Speaker 1: they don't know? Ain't know you broke? When you broke,
Speaker 1: it was like, because how to have you? How to
Speaker 1: have you still the sign name? You're walking down the street,
Speaker 1: don't even ad down the street. I felt like, just
Speaker 1: just like when you're coming up, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: fake it til you make it when you're up there.
Speaker 1: If you fall off, you could keep faking it to
Speaker 1: try to keep that image. No, that that ain't don't
Speaker 1: work like that, niggas. No, you ain't doing the same
Speaker 1: thing you used to do when you had that money.
Speaker 1: Pe you were doing something different. You humbling. Oh we
Speaker 1: all talk about characters. Yeah, mainly make you humble? He
Speaker 1: said that up. No, really it's not. It's not even
Speaker 1: money that makes you humble. It's the last that girl. Yeah,
Speaker 1: um black China, she get baptize that money get away.
Speaker 1: But yeah, you know what I I say that hurt. What
Speaker 1: I guess. So she on a boxing match too, doing
Speaker 1: a boxing match too? What she's doing with some some
Speaker 1: girl from Bad Girls Club? Natalie? None, No, somebody else?
Speaker 1: But that ship crash. Funny when I see that ship
Speaker 1: mine never mind, I'm I'm never mind. What clock I
Speaker 1: came about this? Okay, that ship was funny here when
Speaker 1: I've seen that ship that they can't go to gud
Speaker 1: but I didn't. But and that was right after she
Speaker 1: lost a little lost. It was like a week later.
Speaker 1: You know, I ain't laughing about it when they get rokes,
Speaker 1: but it's like, but why is it like that? Though?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like who else you're gonna call?
Speaker 1: Right they get there? God on your knee, Talk of
Speaker 1: God when it's going great, it's going good, and it's
Speaker 1: going bad. Talking different when it ain't going good. Ain't
Speaker 1: to the higher power when they funked up, and then
Speaker 1: the higher power bring you back, and then you don't
Speaker 1: keep them promises, like I promise I get back up.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna do that no more. I promise take
Speaker 1: you back and not right there? Yeah, but not right then,
Speaker 1: like they let you go and let you think you're
Speaker 1: gonna do what you're gonna do, and then you just
Speaker 1: end up in the situation and come back to reality.
Speaker 1: Nigga lying, don't don't do that back what saying? What
Speaker 1: if I let's say, let's say a nigga and jail.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna do that no more. God, I know
Speaker 1: you lie when you tell that lot of when. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he gave you that, He gave you, give you the
Speaker 1: mercy to heave. He know you lying right now. He
Speaker 1: did give you another opportunity. He's trying you out. He
Speaker 1: know you lying. If you're gonna do it, how you
Speaker 1: gonna do it? Yeah, so you think he's gonna have
Speaker 1: mercy for you if you did it doing it? You
Speaker 1: did it how you done? But you ain't doing how
Speaker 1: you don't done it? But like I rob, like I
Speaker 1: was just rubbing nia just to rub nigga's but this
Speaker 1: time I had to rub the NIU chromatime. Like I
Speaker 1: just in a photo situation where I need to do
Speaker 1: something for my kids. Oh God, please the rolls not No, No,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it. I O way it's going to
Speaker 1: the kids. That's a real conversation. Some people have got
Speaker 1: to do this up. Yeah, you give me a turn.
Speaker 1: But do you listening? Not to do that? Please? Like you,
Speaker 1: but you trying to treat guns show me? Should I
Speaker 1: go here? I'm almost here, gud. It's a stop sign
Speaker 1: right there. But you ain't the sign God that ain't
Speaker 1: be inside. I should go do this. Everybody call you
Speaker 1: ain't calling your grandma? Hey baby, how are you doing?
Speaker 1: I've just been thinking about love you. I'm being no trouble. Okay,
Speaker 1: you wanna wait to elite? People called you thirty year said,
Speaker 1: whoever you call it? Staring right here? Yeah, I heard
Speaker 1: my man. She was giving him a blessing. She just
Speaker 1: blessed this leg. This won't just see me by blessing
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's to go through really clean, It's
Speaker 1: to go through. Grandma always bless you. I'm glad she called.
Speaker 1: I know this ship from the work. Do everything to
Speaker 1: make yourself valid? Yeah, the valid. He reversed the week exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what were doing the screen? Accept this will bring you peace.
Speaker 1: I personally today learned or accept and I'm fun to
Speaker 1: accept for you know why? Because it is what it is?
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