1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,279 Speaker 1: If you could give your younger self some words of advice, 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: what would that be and why being. 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 2: Able to say no? Like no, I don't feel comfortable 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 2: with that. No, I don't like that No. No. 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: You know, it's a very small but very strong word. 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: I was always very afraid to read in front of 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: the classroom. 8 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: I was in fifth grade. 9 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: So I go up there and I'm reading the paragraph, 10 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: and I'll never forget I said island. 11 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: Island. 12 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: I said island, you guys, and the whole freaking class 13 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:38,599 Speaker 1: laughed at me. So since then, it's like, get really nervous. 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to Cheeky's and Chill and Happy 15 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: first Monday of February, you guys, Oh my goodness. 16 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 2: Starty February. AnyWho. 17 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: So today we're going to be answering questions from our listeners. 18 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: I was answering questions at our first live event with Miketura, 19 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 1: and some of you were there and some of you 20 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: were streaming, and a lot of people sent questions, so 21 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: we have them here and I wasn't able to get 22 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: to all of them that day. So that's what we're 23 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: gonna do today on Chiki's and Chill. Okay, we're gonna 24 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: be answering questions. So let's just get started. I'm just 25 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: gonna pull one out right, Let's do this. 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: Here we go. 27 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: These are real questions, by the way, you guys, these 28 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: are real questions from listeners. You guys sent them in. 29 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: I haven't seen them, you guys know. I like to 30 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: be very like I like weaning it. 31 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 2: So here we go. Here's the first one. 32 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: It's like a little siphem. It's coffee, you guys, not 33 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: anything else. Just FYI, all right, this is from Betty. 34 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: All right. 35 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three 36 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: years now. 37 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: I love him so much. He treats me. 38 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: Really well, and things are really good between us. The 39 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: only problem is I want to be a mom someday 40 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: and he says he doesn't want kids. Do you think 41 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: he'll ever change his mind? Or should I break my 42 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: own heart and move on? Oh my gosh, girl, ooh, 43 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: this is a one because I don't think that you 44 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: should want to change someone. If that person is for you, 45 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: you will find a way to make it work if 46 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: you If you feel at the that you can be 47 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: okay with not having any kids, this is the person 48 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: that you want for the rest of your life then 49 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: and if he's worth it, you have to weigh it out. 50 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: Then you stay with him. If you feel that I 51 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 1: want kids it doesn't matter who the father is, or 52 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: I just want kids and that's what you really want, 53 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: then yes, you're gonna have to let him go, let 54 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 1: him be happy, and you have to find your happiness. 55 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: It is a deeper conversation. I don't know if he'll 56 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:48,079 Speaker 1: ever change his mind. I think that a man never 57 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 1: knows if he wants to be a dad until he 58 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 1: actually has a child in their hands. Like this is 59 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: what I hear, or sometimes like hey, there's guys that's 60 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: like I want kids no matter what. 61 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 2: So it's it's a tough one. 62 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: I wish I could give you better advice, but I 63 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: do think that it's a deeper conversation and you really 64 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: need to ask yourself, is he worth it? Is he 65 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: the person that I want and I see myself with 66 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 1: forever Things are going great, But if you really want children, 67 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: then you're gonna have to choose yourself. 68 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 2: And that's the best advice I can give you. Betty. 69 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that sound's tough. Okay, guys, you guys, 70 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: pray for Betty. Okay, Okay, here we go. 71 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: Next question. 72 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: Alrighty see if it's a spicy one, it is from Madi. 73 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: You're a singer, songwriter, author, entrepreneur, and god knows what else. Thanks, 74 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: But you've also mentioned how much you love podcasting. 75 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: I do. 76 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: What makes podcasting different and what is it about it 77 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: that you love so much? 78 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 2: Okay? 79 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: I love podcasting because I feel that my mission in 80 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: life is to help others, and this is my way 81 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: of helping others, of bringing information to you guys, of 82 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: giving you guys advice. It's a form of therapy for myself. 83 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: It's not because I love to talk and to hear 84 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: myself talk. No, it's because it's healing for me. And 85 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,839 Speaker 1: it's healing for me because I'm letting it out. I'm 86 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: sharing my experiences with you guys, and I feel that 87 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: everything that I've gone through has made me a wiser person. 88 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: And if I can help anyone else through my experiences 89 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: and having a platform like this to have guests or 90 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: to answer questions, I feel like I'm living my godly purpose. 91 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: I'm living my mission. It's part of who I am, 92 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: it's part of what I do. It's my testimony. So 93 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 1: That's why I love it. And because even now with 94 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: like the video part of things, like before, I was like, oh, 95 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: I just get to sit in my house and I'm 96 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: just talking to a microphone or no makeup, hair done 97 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: like now, but I am really enjoying putting on a 98 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: little bit of a makeup even when I don't have to. 99 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: But I have to now and maybe you guys will 100 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: see me off. 101 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: I don't got here too. 102 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: But really, really, what I just told you is the 103 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: reason why I love podcasting so much. 104 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 2: It's such a blessing. 105 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: And we're on our third season. I'm so excited. I'm 106 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 1: so grateful to all of you guys, so thank you 107 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: for that. So give me like another twenty seasons. Okay, guys, please, Okay, 108 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: here we go, next question and. 109 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 2: Here we go. 110 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: All right, albao, who are some dream guests that you 111 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: would love to have on your podcast? I love this 112 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: very like you know, podcasting questions. 113 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 2: I love that. 114 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So who would I like to have on the podcast? 115 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, honestly, I've had great guests. I can't 116 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: even complain. I would love to have Carol G. I 117 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: would like to have a very deep conversation with her 118 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: about just things, you know, all kinds of things, being 119 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: a woman in the industry, her music, just so many things. 120 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: Uh who else? Oh my gosh, Michelle Obama. Would love 121 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 1: to have Michelle Obama, you guys, pray I would have 122 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: loved that, love to have a conversation with her. Oprah, Hey, 123 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with dreaming. One day, we can make 124 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: it happen. Yg he's my neighbor and he's my homie. 125 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: But but he's a little selective, so I don't know 126 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: if he'd come, but I would love to have him 127 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: on here. I was just thinking about that this morning. 128 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: I was like, what would I ask him? So many people, 129 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: but those are the ones that come to mine now, 130 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: So thank you for the question. 131 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: At it. Okay, here we go. Ooh one felt Nemo. 132 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 2: I think this is the one I should answer. 133 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: Okay, this is from Vanessa. I think I'm in love 134 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 1: with my best friend. Okay, We've been friends for almost 135 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: ten years and I've kept the secret to myself. Part 136 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: of me thinks that if he ever felt the same way, 137 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: he would have told me. By now, not sure what 138 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: I should do. Is there a way to find out 139 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: if he likes me? In the same way without exposing myself. Hmm, 140 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: it's a good question. Maybe you should write him a 141 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: little card and just say, hey, do you like me? 142 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 2: Yes or no? Circle one? And I'm kidding. 143 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: Oh it's tough because I get you like you feel 144 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: like especially a man. Unless he's very shy, you're gonna 145 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: know him better than I do obviously, So I don't know. 146 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: If he's a shy person, that just he's one to 147 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: wait for the he's respectful, he's one to wait for 148 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: the woman to make the first move. 149 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. 150 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: One thing I will say is if you think about 151 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: telling him like, hey, I like you, I have stronger 152 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: feelings for you, just be okay with him the relationship 153 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: and that the what should the dynamic of the relationship 154 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: changing a little bit? Hopefully you guys are I mean, 155 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: hopefully he does like you. That's the best outcome. But 156 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: if he doesn't feel the same way, I hope you're 157 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: okay with still feeling like okay, not feeling rejected. Remember, 158 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: rejection is God's protection. Okay, So if it doesn't, then 159 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: you know, you guys both have to be mature enough 160 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: to say, okay, hey, we're still gonna be friends. We're 161 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: not gonna let that get in the way. But you 162 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: have to really think about that before you say something. 163 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: If not, then you have to be okay with having 164 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: him as a friend. But if I were you, my 165 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: advice is, I wouldn't want to live with the what 166 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: if I would say, Hey, I have strong feelings for you, 167 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: I love you, I don't want to lose you as 168 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: a friend, but I like you in a different way, 169 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: and be ready with whatever answer that may be emotionally, 170 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: you know, And that's I wouldn't want to live with 171 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: the w if. So that's just my personal opinion, Vanessa. 172 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: So I gotta think about that one, weigh it out. 173 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: But for sure, I think you guys will be fine. 174 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: You guys have been friends for ten years. Even if 175 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: you guys don't make a relationship out of it, I 176 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: think you guys can still be friends for another like 177 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: ten twenty plus years. 178 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 2: But I hope he does like you too. I hope 179 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 2: it works out. Okay, here we go. Next question. The 180 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 2: coffee is kicking in. 181 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm brah. Okay, here we go from Marianna, 182 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: this is a short, sweet one. Let's see, how do 183 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:01,439 Speaker 1: you deal with jealousy? From friends. Ooh, I don't think 184 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 1: I have any jealous friends. To be honest, how did 185 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 1: I deal with it when I was younger? Because I 186 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: think exists more when you're younger. If when you're a 187 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: mature especially women like you don't, there's. 188 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: No like you don't. I don't have jealous friends, you 189 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: know what I mean? 190 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: Say, we support each other, we celebrate each other, We 191 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 1: support each other. That's how it should be. If they're 192 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 1: jealous of you, I don't think they should be your friends. Personally, 193 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: I think that they should be happy for you. I 194 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,439 Speaker 1: don't know what they're jealous about, but I wouldn't deal 195 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: with it. I would just say, you know what, you're 196 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: messing up my vibe. 197 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,439 Speaker 2: You're screwing it up. Girl. 198 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: Peace love you, but I'm go aa love you from 199 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 1: far away. Because jealousy brings nothing but just nastiness. It 200 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 1: brings out the worst in people. So I personally wouldn't 201 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: deal with it at all. That's my personal opinion. And yeah, 202 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: thank goodness, I don't have any jealous friends. Thank god. 203 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's high school stuff. Don't know how 204 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: old you are, but no jealousy. 205 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 2: Girls. 206 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: We have to celebrate each other. We got to like 207 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: lift each other up empowerment. Okay, let's see, Samantha. 208 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: O cute. 209 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 1: What's the best present Emilio has given you? What's the 210 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 1: best present you've given him? This is a very cute question. 211 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: Oh my god, He's given me so many amazing presents, 212 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: you guys, like stuff that I would have never thought of. Obviously, 213 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: I could say, my ring, this is beautiful, and you know, 214 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: he asked me to marry him. But I think one 215 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: of the best gifts that I'll never forget. Oh there's two. Okay, Well, 216 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: last Christmas, Emilio gave me a frame that says Balama Blanca. 217 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: Palama Blanca is the is the song that I wrote 218 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: for my mom. And he named a star, bought a 219 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: star for me. I don't know how you do that, 220 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: but you buy a star and you name it. And 221 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: I have a star up there and the name is 222 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: Bama so and he framed it and it was just 223 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: so cute and like you. 224 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 2: Can figure out where it is. I haven't. 225 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I have a star. And I 226 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 1: thought that was so cute. It was so like out 227 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: of the box, something I wasn't expecting. I was just 228 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: like what the heck? This is crazy. So that was 229 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: I think one of or the one of or the 230 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,680 Speaker 1: best present he's given me a lot, thanks, bib Okay, 231 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 1: and the best present I've given him myself. True, I 232 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 1: give myself every day. I would say he made the 233 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 1: best decision of his life. And I'm just kidding. We're 234 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 1: gonna leave it at that because I can't really think 235 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 1: of like a good present I've given, but I've given 236 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 1: him a lot of gifts. So yeah, thank you for 237 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: your question. By the way, Samantha, Okay, that's cute. 238 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 2: That's cute. 239 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: Okay, And this question comes from Raoul Okay, Hi, Cheeky's 240 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: you mentioned before that you're a fan of vision boards 241 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: and that you even created one that had a podcast 242 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: in it, and now. 243 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 2: You have a podcast. Yes, I do, thank the Lord 244 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 2: and a great one. 245 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. What's going to be on your 246 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: vision board for twenty twenty four? 247 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 2: Mm? 248 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: Here's the thing with that. My vision board is so 249 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: sacred for me. I'm actually gonna get it done like 250 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: this month because of the Chinese calendar. You guys know, 251 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: I've talked about this before. I am huge I believe 252 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: in the Chinese calendar. Anyways, it's very sacred, so I 253 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,839 Speaker 1: don't like to say what I'm gonna put on it 254 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: per se until I have it up. But I will 255 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: tell you that I do want to have a very 256 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: successful God willing help me, pray you guys tour, my 257 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,679 Speaker 1: new tour. I can't share the name yet in Mexico, especially, 258 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 1: so I have that I want something that's coming and 259 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 1: it's big for me, and I want it to be 260 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: sold out. So I'm going to have that on there 261 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: and a lot of stuff that have to do with 262 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 1: music and maybe even like a pregnancy. 263 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: That's it. Okay, here we go. 264 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 1: Next one, Okay, next question, Rey Lena, Oh, this is 265 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: a pretty name. 266 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 2: Okay. 267 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 1: If you could give your younger self some words of advice, 268 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: what would that be? 269 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 2: And why? 270 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: Mmm? What would I tell little cheekies? I get this 271 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 1: question a lot, and I think what I would tell 272 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: little cheekys is. 273 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 2: Don't be afraid to speak up. 274 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: For a long time, I lived with fear of expressing myself, 275 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: of letting my mom know or people around me, adults 276 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: around me, what was going on in my little life, 277 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: you know? And it caused me a lot of pain 278 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: and turmoil and confusion. And I think if I would 279 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: have spoken up a lot faster, things would have been 280 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: a little better, you know. And also being able to 281 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: say no, like no, I don't feel comfortable with that. No. 282 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 2: I don't like that no. No. 283 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: You know, no, there's it's a very strong word, you know, 284 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 1: It's a very small but very strong word, and it's 285 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: like no. And I for sure would tell cheeky's little, Cheeky's, Hey, 286 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: that doesn't fly with me. I learned that a little 287 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: later in life. Even now, sometimes it's hard to say no, 288 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: but it's it's sometimes and I've told you guys this before. 289 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: Saying no to yourself and saying yes to someone else 290 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: is not good. That's a being a people pleaser. And 291 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: I was a people pleaser. I wanted people's approval. I 292 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: didn't want to disappoint anybody. That's why I would stay quiet. 293 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, if I don't feel peace, if 294 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable with something, I need to learn 295 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: to say yes to myself and be okay with saying 296 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: no to someone else. So even to this day, so 297 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: that's a bit of advice for everyone. And I hope 298 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: that resonates because it is something thing that will prevent 299 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: you from a lot of pain and a lot of. 300 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: Disappointment with yourself. Okay, thank you for your question. Relena. 301 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: I like your name Relena very pretty. Hopefully I'm pronouncing 302 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: it right. Okay, here we go. Jose, you performed with 303 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: your sisters recently at Premios Hu went thud. Are there 304 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: any plans for you all to do an album together? 305 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: Would you consider that? It's a very nice question. I 306 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: loved being on stage with my sisters. 307 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 2: For me, it was. 308 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: Such a beautiful moment because I'm their older sister, I'm 309 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: kind of like a mother figure to them, and it 310 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: was just a lot but I had to really just 311 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: contain my composure and just breathe and be strong, not 312 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: only for myself but for them. So it was there 313 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: were so many emotions. We were singing a song to 314 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: my mom for my mom on a huge stage like 315 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: prehmus Shubenthoud, and it was a beautiful moment. My sisters, 316 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 1: both of them are super talented, so proud of them. 317 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: So I would love to do some type of album 318 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: or at least a song with them. With both of them, 319 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: Jennica's amazing at harmonizing. She has a beautiful voice, she 320 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: plays a guitar. Jackie Bunny said, you guys, she has 321 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: a beautiful voice. 322 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 2: So I don't know. 323 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: That's a good question and something to definitely consider. Maybe 324 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: I should put that on my vision board, you guys 325 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: for twenty twenty four. 326 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: Maybe that's what I need to do a song with 327 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 2: my sisters. 328 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 1: That would be awesome. I know my mom would be 329 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: so proud. I know for sure she would. So thank 330 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: you for that, for that little spark that you gave 331 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: me of an idea. 332 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 2: Jose. 333 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so we have another question from Susanna. What's the 334 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: biggest misconception about you? Wow, the biggest, because there are 335 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: quite a few. The biggest misconception, I could say one, 336 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: but I'm like, eh, I would probably say I've heard 337 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: of this a lot, that people think that I'm conceded 338 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: that I'm a mammona and a mamona means that you 339 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 1: just think you're better than everyone else, that you're just 340 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: like whatever, super like snooty, like you know, I am 341 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 1: not like that at all, And I could say that 342 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: with confidence. I've gotten that a lot where people are like, 343 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 1: oh my god, I thought you were so this, you 344 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:11,360 Speaker 1: were that like you're actually really cool. 345 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, because. 346 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 1: You probably have let what other people have said or 347 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: even sometimes what media wants to paint like. That's another 348 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 1: advice that I can give you, guys, is don't judge 349 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 1: a book by its cover. Don't judge a person by 350 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: what you hear about them from someone else. Like you 351 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: have to be grown enough to give the person the 352 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: opportunity to get to know them for who they are. 353 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 1: And that's what I tell everyone. Once you sit down 354 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 1: with me and you vibe, you're gonna feel it. I'm 355 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: not a lot of those things that people think. I 356 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: don't know if it's because of how I act in 357 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: my video. Sometimes I'm like, I'm a baddie. I don't 358 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 1: know what it is. 359 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 2: But you, guys, I'm chill chickens and chill hello. 360 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that's the biggest misconception besides another 361 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: thing that I just don't want to talk about because 362 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 1: it's like, you know, we're in twenty twenty four. Okay, 363 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: here we go. Oh, I like this one. Let's see 364 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: cute little short one. Let's see from Brenda. If you 365 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: were to do the story of your life, what actress 366 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: would you like to play you? And why who would 367 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,919 Speaker 1: play Amelia? Oh my god, I was just asked this 368 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 1: question yesterday, Yes, yesterday, by my hairstylist. Honestly, I don't know, you, guys, 369 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:33,879 Speaker 1: I don't know who would play me. My makeup art 370 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 1: is Jessica, said Araceli, Arambula. She said that, you know, 371 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: she's like, I think she would play you know you 372 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: very well, but I don't. Honestly, that's a very good question, 373 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna owe you that one. And who would 374 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: play a Medio? I have no clue. This is I 375 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 1: usually have a lot to say and I don't even know. 376 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 1: I gotta think about it. I need someone that speaks 377 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: both Spanish and English. That's super important to me, like really, 378 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: for it to be as authentic as possible to who 379 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: I really am and for them, so yeah, resemble me, 380 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: of course in some way. 381 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 382 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: This is a good question. Oh my gosh. I'll get 383 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: back to you on this one. Okay, I'll get back 384 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: to you on this one. Thank you, Brenda. 385 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: Okay, so here we go. Another question, Carly. 386 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: Do you and your friends split the bill when you 387 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: go out to dinner or does everyone take turns picking 388 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: up the tab? This is constantly an issue between me 389 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 1: and my friends, and so I want to know how 390 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: you handle this. This is a very good question. I'm 391 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: gonna tell you. When I was younger, I was always 392 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: the one that picked up the bill. And again, I 393 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: was a people pleaser, remember that whole people pleaser. Didn't 394 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: want to disappoint. I want people's approval. It was kind 395 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: of like, let me buy your friendship. 396 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 2: In a way. 397 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,199 Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to do that, but I was doing that, 398 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: and I just wanted. 399 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: I'm a giver. 400 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: That's one of my love languages is like I give, 401 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 1: and I want to give. I just I love to give. 402 00:19:56,040 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 1: That's the way I show you my love. And I 403 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: realized that in a friendship everything should be very fair. 404 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 1: So now when I go to dinner, my friends, my 405 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: current friends, my real friends that I can count right 406 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: here in one hand, we split the bill, or sometimes 407 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: I'll pay, and then the next time they'll pay. It's 408 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: a very mature, very like reciprocated type of friendship, both 409 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,199 Speaker 1: or all of them, should I say. But before I 410 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 1: was the one that would pick up the bill, and 411 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 1: I just started realizing that those weren't the type of 412 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: friends that I wanted, and that I wasn't too sure 413 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: if they were in my life. For that reason, I 414 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: didn't like how I was feeling. So those friends are 415 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 1: no longer in my life, and I'm happy about that. 416 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: But now I'm good with saying, yes, we all split 417 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: the bill and it feels good. So that's how it 418 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: should be. And if you want to give someone a gift, 419 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 1: then you let them know, Hey, I'm taking you to dinner. 420 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 2: I'm buying. 421 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,640 Speaker 1: But if someone if you're going to dinner, you guys 422 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: should split it or treat each other. 423 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 2: But it should be. 424 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 1: Even balanced, you know. So, Carly, if you're feeling uncomfortable 425 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: for a reason, that means you don't have peace with that. 426 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: So you gotta watch that because your soul, your gut 427 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: is telling you something. Okay, So before we move on, 428 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: see how many questions we've answered so far? One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven, twelve. Okay, 429 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: let's do two more questions, twelve questions, and we're going 430 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 1: to do a total of fourteen. 431 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 2: Here we go. Not me trying to avoid the big 432 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: ones because I've always had that thing. 433 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:36,679 Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever told you guys on 434 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: Cheeks and Choll on the podcast that one time. I 435 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: was always very afraid to read in front of the classroom. 436 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 1: I was in fifth grade and I would always get 437 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: to rese. I'm like, oh my gosh, please, I hope 438 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 1: they don't. I hope the teacher just ignores me, and 439 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: I would just try to hide. And of course, Janey, 440 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: because that was my name before, Jane, not Janney. I'll 441 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: tell you, guys, it's a wholely story. Janney, come and read. 442 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 1: So I go up there and I'm reading, and I'll 443 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: never forget I said is land Island. I said is land, 444 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: you guys, and the whole freaking class laughed at me. 445 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 1: So since then, it's like I get really nervous to read. 446 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 1: I can talk all day, but to read, I get like, 447 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's weird. So any who, besides, you know, 448 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: I was a little school was hard for me the 449 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: first year. So anyways, that was just a little side question. 450 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 1: This is just a little side story. Okay, So this 451 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: is from Michelle. I'm eighteen years old and I'm struggling 452 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: with body confidence. I feel like I can't live up 453 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 1: to all the ig models. Oh my gosh, I want 454 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: to get healthy and change my mindset. Do you have 455 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:40,880 Speaker 1: any advice? First of all, baby, you're eighteen years old. 456 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 1: Your body is still changing, is still developing. Be patient, 457 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: be compassionate with yourself. Okay, we don't start developing until 458 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 1: we don't stop. 459 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 2: Should I say? 460 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 1: We don't stop developing until we're about twenty five as women? 461 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: So remember that. Okay. 462 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: The first thing you have to do is stop comparing yourself. Okay, 463 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: what you see on IG ninety five percent of the time, 464 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: I'm telling you ninety five percent, maybe ninety percent of 465 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 1: the time, it's not real. 466 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 2: It's all a facade. 467 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 1: There's a lot of editing, there's a lot of photoshop, 468 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 1: there's a lot of and that's fine, phase tune all 469 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 1: that stuff. A lot of it isn't real, especially what 470 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: you see on magazines like I Get You because I 471 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: felt the same way. I was like, I want to 472 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: look like the girls on TV. I want to look 473 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: like this. 474 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 2: The truth is you need. 475 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 1: To learn to love yourself for who you are. And 476 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 1: if you want to improve your physique, then work out. Okay, 477 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: then eat healthy, then make healthy your choices. Say I 478 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,959 Speaker 1: want to change my lifestyle. I want to feel good 479 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: and that's where you got to start, especially with your nutrition. 480 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: Like it's like you want to feel your body, you 481 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: want to feel good, you want to have energy. That 482 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,199 Speaker 1: means you need to eat better, you know, and working 483 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:45,439 Speaker 1: out helps so much mentally, emotionally of course physically. So 484 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: stop comparing yourself. That is the first thing that you 485 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: have to do. And in the society that we live in, 486 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,679 Speaker 1: you guys, I know it's hard because it's that you 487 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: see like what goes on Instagram and they're perfect lives 488 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: and this and this and that. Like we all have issues, 489 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: we all have things that working through. People only show 490 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,360 Speaker 1: you what they want to show you on Instagram. That's 491 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 1: the truth. You don't know what's really happening. So don't 492 00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 1: go based off of that, you know, just here. Always 493 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,360 Speaker 1: remember this is this is where true beauty comes from. 494 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 1: Your heart, your intentions, what you think, what you feel 495 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 1: for other people, what you want for the world. Focus 496 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: on that. You're so young, and I get it, but 497 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 1: you can't compare yourself. It's the worst thing that we 498 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: can do. Believe me, I'm telling you. So I'm sending 499 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 1: you a big hug. I'm sending you a big, big hug. 500 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 1: Michelle Okay, our last question, you guys, our last question. 501 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 1: I avoided the big one again. Okay, here we go, Georgina. 502 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: As you get closer to turning forty, what's on your list? 503 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to answer this one. Forty who's turning forty? Girl? 504 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 2: Just kidding? 505 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 1: Okay, fine, I'll answer it, Georgina. Okay, As you get 506 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 1: closer to turning forty, what's on your list of things 507 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 1: to do? Are there special places you want to travel to? 508 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: What are you looking forward to? Okay, So, first of all, 509 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm to turn forty. 510 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 2: I don't know when. 511 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: Richard is probably gonna be very upset that we out 512 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: of this because he doesn't want anyone to know my age. 513 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 1: But the truth is, I'm very proud of my age. 514 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,400 Speaker 1: I'm very proud of everything that I've accomplished. It took 515 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: me a long time because sometimes I say my age 516 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 1: out loud, and I'm like, what when? How did that happen? 517 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 1: Because I feel so young? But then again, I like 518 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: to stay young. I like to do things that make 519 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: me happy, Like I'm always doing anything and everything I 520 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: can to heal my inner child and to satisfy her 521 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: and make her happy and go to Disneyland and wear 522 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 1: little ears. And it's not because I don't want to 523 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 1: grow up. It's just that's how I feel. 524 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 2: You know. 525 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: I actually probably want to have my fortieth birthday at 526 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: Chuck e Cheese, to be honest, like, I've thought about that. 527 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 2: So that's one of my plans. Okay. 528 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: I also I need to possibly I don't know, God, 529 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:43,640 Speaker 1: maybe I'm gonna be a mother. 530 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 2: Maybe I'm not. I don't know. 531 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: I want to move to Hawaii. That's another thing that 532 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 1: I want to do. I want to open a Talco 533 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 1: shop in Hawaii. I won't tell you, guys what island, 534 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: because I might want to just get away. 535 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. 536 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: There's so much that I still want to accomplish, but 537 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm not afraid of it anymore now. I'm like, you 538 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,120 Speaker 1: know what, it's okay. It's a beautiful thing to age 539 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: gracefully to accept it, and I thank God that I 540 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 1: was able to and I have been able to accomplish 541 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:11,000 Speaker 1: so much. So this is a very good question. So 542 00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 1: I want to go to Hawaii. I want to go 543 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: to Paris. I've never been to Paris, you guys. I 544 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,160 Speaker 1: want to go to Jamaica. I want to travel the world, 545 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 1: that's for sure. I think I just want to be 546 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,439 Speaker 1: able to make enough money to say I'm leaving for 547 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: an entire year and I'm just going to go travel 548 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 1: and see the world. So I think that's one of 549 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 1: the things that I want to. 550 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 2: Do for sure. 551 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: So thank you for your question, Georgina, and you guys, 552 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,879 Speaker 1: thank you all for your questions. I wasn't able to 553 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: obviously get to all of them, but I am very 554 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: grateful that we're able to have Cheekis and Chill and 555 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: your Cheeky's and answer these questions. And thank you guys 556 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: for trusting me to answer the questions. I always give 557 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 1: you guys my best advice from the bottom of my heart. 558 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: I will give you guys advice like I'm telling one 559 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: of my sisters or one of my friends. 560 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 2: You know, I want the best for you, guys. 561 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,479 Speaker 1: So thank you so much for listening, for watching Cheekis 562 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: and Chill, and I will catch you on the next episode. 563 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:03,199 Speaker 2: Okay, and Salu Cheer's the February. 564 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: Do you need advice on love, relationships, health emails? 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