1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,279 Speaker 1: If you could give your younger self some words of advice, 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: what would that be and why being. 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 2: Able to say no? Like no, I don't feel comfortable 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 2: with that. No, I don't like that No. No. 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: You know, it's a very small but very strong word. 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: I was always very afraid to read in front of 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: the classroom. 8 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 2: I was in fifth grade. 9 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 1: So I go up there and I'm reading the paragraph, 10 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: and I'll never forget I said island. 11 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 2: Island. 12 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: I said is land, you guys, and the whole freaking 13 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: class laughed at me. So since then, it's like, get 14 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: really nervous. Hello everyone, and welcome to Cheeky's and Chill 15 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: and Happy first Monday of February, you guys, Oh my goodness. 16 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,840 Speaker 2: Starty February. AnyWho. 17 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: So today we're going to be answering questions from our listeners. 18 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: I was answering questions at our first live event with Miketura, 19 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 1: and some of you were there and some of you 20 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: were streaming, and a lot of people sent questions, so 21 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: we have them here and I wasn't able to get 22 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: to all of them that day. 23 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 2: So that's what we're gonna. 24 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: Do today on Chiki's and Chill. Okay, we're gonna be 25 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: answering questions. So let's just get started. I'm just gonna 26 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: pull one out right, Let's do this. 27 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: Here we go. 28 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: These are real questions, by the way, you guys, these 29 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: are real questions from listeners. You guys sent them in. 30 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: I haven't seen them, you guys know. I like to 31 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,679 Speaker 1: be very like I like weaning it. 32 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 2: So here we go. Here's the first one. 33 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: It's like a little siphem. It's coffee, you guys, not 34 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: anything else. Just FYI, all right, this is from Betty. 35 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: All right. 36 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three 37 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: years now. 38 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: I love him so much. He treats me. 39 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: Really well, and things are really good between us. The 40 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: only problem is I want to be a mom someday 41 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: and he says he doesn't want kids. Do you think 42 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: he'll ever change his mind? Or should I break my 43 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: own heart and move on? Oh my gosh, girl, ooh, 44 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: this is a one because I don't think that you 45 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: should want to change someone. If that person is for you, 46 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: you will find a way to make it work if 47 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: you If you feel at the that you can be 48 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,560 Speaker 1: okay with not having any kids, this is the person 49 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: that you want for the rest of your life then 50 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: and if he's worth. 51 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 2: It, you have to weigh it out. Then you stay 52 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 2: with him. 53 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: If you feel that I want kids it doesn't matter 54 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: who the father is, or I just want kids and 55 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: that's what you really want, then yes, you're gonna have 56 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: to let him go, let him be happy, and you 57 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 1: have to find your happiness. It is a deeper conversation. 58 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: I don't know if he'll ever change his mind. I 59 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: think that a man never knows if he wants to 60 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 1: be a dad until he actually has a child in 61 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: their hands. Like this is what I hear, or sometimes 62 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: like hey, there's guys that's like I want kids no 63 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: matter what. 64 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 2: So it's it's a tough one. 65 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: I wish I could give you better advice, but I 66 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: do think that it's a deeper conversation and you really 67 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: need to ask yourself, is he worth it? Is he 68 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: the person that I want and I see myself with 69 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 1: forever Things are going great, But if you really want children, 70 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: then you're gonna have to choose yourself. 71 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 2: And that's the best advice I can give you. Betty. 72 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, that sound's tough. Okay, guys, you guys, 73 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 1: pray for Betty. Okay, Okay, here we go. 74 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: Next question. 75 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: Alrighty see if it's a spicy one, it is from Madi. 76 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: You're a singer, songwriter, author, entrepreneur, and god knows what else. Thanks, 77 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 1: But you've also mentioned how much you love podcasting. 78 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: I do. 79 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: What makes podcasting different and what is it about it 80 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: that you love so much? 81 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 2: Okay? 82 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: I love podcasting because I feel that my mission in 83 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: life is to help others, and this is my way 84 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: of helping others, of bringing information to you guys, of 85 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: giving you guys advice. It's a form of therapy for myself. 86 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: It's not because I love to talk and to hear 87 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: myself talk. No, it's because it's healing for me. And 88 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,839 Speaker 1: it's healing for me because I'm letting it out. I'm 89 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: sharing my experiences with you guys, and I feel that 90 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: everything that I've gone through has made me a wiser person. 91 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,240 Speaker 1: And if I can help anyone else through my experiences 92 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: and having a platform like this to have guests or 93 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 1: to answer questions, I feel like I'm living my godly purpose. 94 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 1: I'm living my mission. It's part of who I am, 95 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: it's part of what I do. It's my testimony. So 96 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 1: That's why I love it. And because even now with 97 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: like the video part of things, like before, I was like, oh, 98 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: I just get to sit in my house and I'm 99 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: just talking to a microphone or no makeup, hair done 100 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: like now, but I am really enjoying putting on a 101 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: little bit of a makeup even when I don't have to. 102 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: But I have to now and maybe you guys will 103 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: see me off. 104 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 2: I don't got here too. 105 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: But really, really, what I just told you is the 106 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: reason why I love podcasting so much. 107 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 2: It's such a blessing. 108 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: And we're on our third season. I'm so excited. I'm 109 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 1: so grateful to all of you guys, so thank you 110 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: for that. So give me like another twenty seasons. Okay, guys, please, Okay, 111 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: here we go, next. 112 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 2: Question and here we go. 113 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: All right, albao, who are some dream guests that you 114 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: would love to have on your podcast? I love this 115 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: very like you know, podcasting questions. 116 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 2: I love that. 117 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So who would I like to have on the podcast? 118 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, honestly, I've had great guests. I can't 119 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 1: even complain. I would love to have Carol G. I 120 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: would like to have a very deep conversation with her 121 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: about just things, you know, all kinds of things, being 122 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: a woman in the industry, her music, just so many things. 123 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: Uh who else? Oh my gosh, Michelle Obama. Would love 124 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 1: to have Michelle Obama, you guys, pray I would have 125 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: loved that, love to have a conversation with her. Oprah, Hey, 126 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with dreaming. One day, we can make 127 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: it happen. Yg he's my neighbor and he's my homie. 128 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: But but he's a little selective, so I don't know 129 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: if he'd come, but I would love to have him 130 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: on here. I was just thinking about that this morning. 131 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: I was like, what would I ask him? So many people, 132 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: but those are the ones that come to mine now, 133 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: So thank you for the question. 134 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 2: Abot it. Okay, here we go. Ooh one felt Nemo. 135 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 2: I think this is the one I should answer. 136 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: Okay, this is from Vanessa. I think I'm in love 137 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,479 Speaker 1: with my best friend. Okay, We've been friends for almost 138 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: ten years and I've kept the secret to myself. Part 139 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: of me thinks that if he ever felt the same way, 140 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: he would have told me. By now, not sure what 141 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: I should do. Is there a way to find out 142 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: if he likes me? In the same way without exposing myself. Hmm, 143 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: it's a good question. Maybe you should write him a 144 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: little card and just say, hey, do you like me? 145 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: Yes or no? Circle one? And I'm kidding. 146 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: Oh, it's tough because I get you like you feel 147 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: like especially a man. Unless he's very shy, you're gonna 148 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 1: know him better than I do obviously, So I don't know. 149 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: If he's a shy person, that just he's one to 150 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: wait for the he's respectful, he's one to wait for 151 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: the woman to make the first move. 152 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: I don't know. 153 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: One thing I will say is if you think about 154 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: telling him like, hey, I like you, I have stronger 155 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: feelings for you, just be okay with him the relationship 156 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: and that the what should the dynamic of the relationship 157 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: changing a little bit. Hopefully you guys are I mean, 158 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: hopefully he does like you. That's the best outcome. But 159 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: if he doesn't feel the same way, I hope you're 160 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: okay with still feeling like okay, not feeling rejected. Remember, 161 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: rejection is God's protection. Okay, So if it doesn't, then 162 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: you know, you guys both have to be mature enough 163 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: to say, okay, hey, we're still gonna be friends. We're 164 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: not gonna let that get in the way. But you 165 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 1: have to really think about that before you say something. 166 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: If not, then you have to be okay with having 167 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 1: him as a friend. But if I were you, my 168 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: advice is, I wouldn't want to live with the what 169 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: if I would say, Hey, I have strong feelings for you, 170 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: I love you, I don't want to lose you as 171 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: a friend, but I like you in a different way, 172 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: and be ready with whatever answer that may be emotionally, 173 00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: you know, And that's I wouldn't want to live with 174 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: the w if. So that's just my personal opinion, Vanessa. 175 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: So I gotta think about that one, weigh it out. 176 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: But for sure, I think you guys will be fine. 177 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: You guys have been friends for ten years. Even if 178 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: you guys don't make a relationship out of it, I 179 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: think you guys can still be friends for another like 180 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 1: ten twenty plus years. But I hope he does like 181 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: you too. I hope it works out. Okay, here we go, 182 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: next question. The coffee is kicking in. I feel like 183 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: I'm brah. Okay, here we go from Marianna, this is 184 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: a short, sweet one. Let's see, how do you deal 185 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 1: with jealousy from friends. Ooh, I don't think I have 186 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: any jealous friends. To be honest, how did I deal 187 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: with it when I was younger? Because I think exists 188 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: more when you're younger. If when you're a mature especially 189 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: women like you don't, there's. 190 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 2: No like you don't. I don't have jealous friends, you 191 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 2: know what I mean? Say, we support each other, we 192 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 2: celebrate each other, we support each other. 193 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: That's how it should be. If they're jealous of you, 194 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: I don't think they should be your friends. Personally, I 195 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,360 Speaker 1: think that they should be happy for you. I don't 196 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,719 Speaker 1: know what they're jealous about, but I wouldn't deal with it. 197 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 2: I would just. 198 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: Say, you know what, you're messing up my vibe. You're 199 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: screwing it up. 200 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:38,439 Speaker 2: Girl. 201 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: Peace love you, but I'm a love you from far away. 202 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 1: Because jealousy brings nothing but just nastiness. It brings out 203 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: the worst in people. So I personally wouldn't deal with 204 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: it at all. That's my personal opinion. And yeah, thank goodness, 205 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: I don't have any jealous friends, thank god. Oh my gosh, 206 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: that's high school stuff. Don't know how old you are, 207 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: but no jealousy. 208 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 2: Girls. 209 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 1: We have to celebrate each other. We got to like 210 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: lift each other up. Empowerment. Okay, let's see, Samantha. 211 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: O cute. 212 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:20,679 Speaker 1: What's the best present Emilio has given you? What's the 213 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 1: best present you've given him? This is a very cute question. 214 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: Oh my god, He's given me so many amazing presents, 215 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: you guys, like stuff that I would have never thought of. Obviously, 216 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: I could say, my ring, this is beautiful, and you know, 217 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 1: he asked me to marry him. But I think one 218 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: of the best gifts that I'll never forget. Oh there's two. Okay, Well, 219 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: last Christmas, Emilio gave me a frame that says Balama Blanca. 220 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: Palama Blanca is the is the song that I wrote 221 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: for my mom. And he named a star, bought a 222 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: star for me. I don't know how you do that, 223 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 1: but you buy a star and you name it. And 224 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: I have a star up there and the name is 225 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: Bama so and he framed it and it was just 226 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: so cute and like you. 227 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 2: Can figure out where it is. I haven't. 228 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I have a star. And I 229 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 1: thought that was so cute. It was so like out 230 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: of the box, something I wasn't expecting. I was just like, 231 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: what the heck, this is crazy? So that was I 232 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: think one of or the one of or the best 233 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: present he's given me a lot, thanks bib Okay, and 234 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:29,719 Speaker 1: the best present I've given him myself. True, I give 235 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: myself every day. I would say he made the best 236 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: decision of his life. And I'm just kidding. We're gonna 237 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 1: leave it at that because I can't really think of 238 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 1: like a good present I've given, but I've given him 239 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: a lot of gifts. So yeah, thank you for your question. 240 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:45,679 Speaker 1: By the way, Samantha, Okay, that's cute. 241 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 2: That's cute. 242 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: Okay, And this question comes from Raoul Okay, Hi, Cheeky's 243 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: you mentioned before that you're a fan of vision boards 244 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: and that you even created one that had a podcast 245 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 1: in it, and now. 246 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,319 Speaker 2: You have a podcast. Yes, I do, thank the Lord 247 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 2: and a great one. 248 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. What's going to be on your 249 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: vision board for twenty twenty four? Mm, here's the thing 250 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: with that. My vision board is so sacred for me. 251 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: I'm actually gonna get it done like this month because 252 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 1: of the Chinese calendar. You guys know, I've talked about 253 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:18,680 Speaker 1: this before. 254 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 2: I am huge. I believe in the Chinese calendar. 255 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: Anyways, it's very sacred, so I don't like to say 256 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna put on it per se until I 257 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: have it up. But I will tell you that I 258 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 1: do want to have a very successful God willing help me, 259 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: pray you guys tour, my new tour. I can't share 260 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 1: the name yet in Mexico, especially, so I have that 261 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: I want something that's coming and it's big for me, 262 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: and I want it to be sold out. So I'm 263 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: going to have that on there and a lot of 264 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: stuff that have to do with music. 265 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 2: And maybe even like a pregnancy. 266 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: That's it, Okay, here we go. Next one, Okay, next question, 267 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: Rey Lena. Oh, this is a pretty name. 268 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 2: Okay. 269 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 1: If you could give your younger self some words of advice, 270 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: what would that be? 271 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 2: And why? Mmm? 272 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: What would I tell little cheekies? I get this question 273 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: a lot, and I think what I would tell little 274 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: cheekys is. 275 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 2: Don't be afraid to speak up. 276 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: For a long time, I lived with fear of expressing myself, 277 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: of letting my mom know or people around me, adults 278 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: around me, what was going on in my little life, 279 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: you know? And it caused me a lot of pain 280 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: and turmoil and confusion, and I think if I would 281 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: have spoken up a lot faster, things would have been 282 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 1: a little better, you know. And also being able to 283 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: say no, like no, I don't feel comfortable with that. No, 284 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: I don't like that no. 285 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 2: No. 286 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: You know, no, there's it's a very strong word, you know. 287 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 1: It's a very small but very strong word. And it's 288 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: like no, And I for sure would tell Cheeky's little, Cheeky's, Hey, 289 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: that doesn't fly with me. I learned that a little 290 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: later in life. Even now, sometimes it's hard to say no, 291 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: but it's it's sometimes and I've told you guys this before. 292 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: Saying no to yourself and saying yes to someone else 293 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: is not good. That's a being a people pleaser. And 294 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: I was a people pleaser. I wanted people's approval. I 295 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: didn't want to disappoint anybody. That's why I would stay quiet. 296 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, if I don't feel peace, if 297 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable with something, I need to learn 298 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: to say yes to myself and be okay with saying 299 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: no to someone else. So even to this day. So 300 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: that's a bit of advice for everyone. And I hope 301 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: that resonates because it is something thing that will prevent 302 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: you from a lot of pain and a lot of. 303 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: Disappointment with yourself. Okay, thank you for your question. Relena. 304 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: I like your name Relena very pretty Hopefully I'm pronouncing 305 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:19,560 Speaker 1: it right. Okay, here we go. Jose, you performed with 306 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: your sisters recently at Premios hu went Thud. Are there 307 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: any plans for you all to do an album together? 308 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: Would you consider that? It's a very nice question. I 309 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: loved being on stage with my sisters. 310 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 2: For me, it was. 311 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: Such a beautiful moment because I'm their older sister. I'm 312 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: kind of like a mother figure to them, and it 313 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: was just a lot but I had to really just 314 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: contain my composure and just breathe and be strong, not 315 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 1: only for myself but for them. 316 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 2: So it was there was so many emotions. 317 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: We were singing a song to my mom for my 318 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: mom on a huge stage like Brehmus Shubenthoud, and it 319 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 1: was a beautiful moment. My sisters, both of them are 320 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: super talented, so proud of them. So I would love 321 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 1: to do some type of album or at least a 322 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:08,239 Speaker 1: song with them. With both of them, Jennica's amazing at harmonizing. 323 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: She has a beautiful voice. She plays a guitar. Jackie 324 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: Bunny said, you guys, she has a beautiful voice. 325 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 2: So I don't know. 326 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 1: That's a good question and something to definitely consider. Maybe 327 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: I should put that on my vision board, you guys 328 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: for twenty twenty four. Maybe that's what I need to 329 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 1: do a song with my sisters. That would be awesome. 330 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: I know my mom would be so proud. I know 331 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 1: for sure she would. So thank you for that, for 332 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: that little spark that you gave me of an idea. 333 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 2: Jose. 334 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so we have another question from Susanna. What's the 335 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: biggest misconception about you? 336 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 2: Wow? 337 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 1: The biggest, because there are quite a few. The biggest misconception, 338 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 1: I could say one, but I'm like, eh, I would 339 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 1: probably say I've heard of this a lot, that people 340 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 1: think that I'm conceded that I'm a mammona and a 341 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 1: mamona means that you just think you're better than everyone else, 342 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 1: that you're just like whatever, super like snooty, like you know, 343 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: I am not like that at all, And I could 344 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 1: say that with confidence. I've gotten that a lot where 345 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:09,159 Speaker 1: people were like, oh my god, I thought you were 346 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:11,360 Speaker 1: so this, you were that like, you're actually really cool. 347 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, because. 348 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 1: You probably have let what other people have said or 349 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: even sometimes what media wants to paint like. That's another 350 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 1: advice that I can give you, guys, is don't judge 351 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 1: a book by its cover. Don't judge a person by 352 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: what you hear about them from someone else. Like you 353 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: have to be grown enough to give the person the 354 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 1: opportunity to get to know them for who they are. 355 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 1: And that's what I tell everyone. Once you sit down 356 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,359 Speaker 1: with me and you vibe, you're gonna feel it. I'm 357 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: not a lot of those things that people think. I 358 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: don't know if it's because of how I act in 359 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,200 Speaker 1: my video. Sometimes I'm like, I'm a baddie. I don't 360 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 1: know what it is, but you guys, I'm chill chickens 361 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 1: and chill hello. But yeah, I think that's the biggest 362 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,119 Speaker 1: misconception besides another thing that I just don't want to 363 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: talk about because it's like, you know, we're in twenty 364 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: twenty four. Okay, here we go. Oh, I like this one. 365 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:14,400 Speaker 1: Let's see cute little short one. Let's see from Brenda. 366 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: If you were to do the story of your life, 367 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 1: what actress would you like to play you? 368 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 2: And why? Who would play Amelia? Oh my god. 369 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:28,400 Speaker 1: I was just asked this question yesterday, Yes, yesterday, by 370 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: my hairstylist. Honestly, I don't know, you guys, I don't 371 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: know who would play me. My makeup art is Jessica, 372 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 1: said Araceli Arambula. She said that, you know, she's like, 373 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 1: I think she would play you know you very well, 374 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: but I don't. Honestly, that's a very good question, and 375 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna owe you that one. And who would play 376 00:18:46,920 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 1: a Medio? I have no clue this is I usually 377 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:50,919 Speaker 1: have a lot to say and I don't even know. 378 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 1: I gotta think about it. I need someone that speaks 379 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: both Spanish and English. That's super important to me, like really, 380 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: for it to be as authentic as possible to who 381 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:04,040 Speaker 1: I really am and for them, so yeah, resemble me 382 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: of course in some way. 383 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 384 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 1: This is a good question. Oh my gosh. I'll get 385 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: back to you on this one. Okay, I'll get back 386 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: to you on this one. Thank you, Brenda. 387 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: Okay, so here we go. Another question, Carly. 388 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: Do you and your friends split the bill when you 389 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: go out to dinner or does everyone take turns picking 390 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 1: up the tab. This is constantly an issue between me 391 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 1: and my friends, and so I want to know how 392 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 1: you handle this. This is a very good question. I'm 393 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 1: gonna tell you. When I was younger, I was always 394 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: the one that picked up the bill. And again, I 395 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: was a people pleaser, remember that whole people pleaser. Didn't 396 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: want to disappoint. I want people's approval. It was kind 397 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: of like, let me buy your friendship. 398 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 2: In a way. 399 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,199 Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to do that, but I was doing that, 400 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,119 Speaker 1: and I just wanted. 401 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: I'm a giver. 402 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: That's one of my love languages is like I give, 403 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 1: and I want to give. I just I love to give. 404 00:19:56,040 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 1: That's the way I show you my love. And I 405 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 1: realized that in a friendship everything should be very fair. 406 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,679 Speaker 1: So now when I go to dinner, my friends, my 407 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: current friends, my real friends, that I can count right 408 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: here in one hand, we split the bill, or sometimes 409 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 1: I'll pay, and then the next time they'll pay. It's 410 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: a very mature, very like reciprocated type of friendship, both 411 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,199 Speaker 1: or all of them, should I say. But before I 412 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 1: was the one that would pick up the bill, and 413 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 1: I just started realizing that those weren't the type of 414 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: friends that I wanted and that I wasn't too sure 415 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: if they were in my life. For that reason, I 416 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 1: didn't like how I was feeling. So those friends are 417 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 1: no longer in my life, and I'm happy about that. 418 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: But now I'm good with saying, yes, we all split 419 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: the bill and it feels good. So that's how it 420 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: should be. And if you want to give someone a gift, 421 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,200 Speaker 1: then you let them know, Hey, I'm taking you to dinner. 422 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 2: I'm buying. 423 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,640 Speaker 1: But if someone if you're going to dinner, you guys 424 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: should split it or treat each other. 425 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 2: But it should be. 426 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 1: Even balanced, you know. So, Carly, if you're feeling uncomfortable 427 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: for a reason, that means you don't have peace with that. 428 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: So you gotta watch that because your soul, your gut 429 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: is telling you something. Okay, So before we move on, 430 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 1: see how many questions we've answered so far? One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven, twelve. Okay, 431 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: let's do two more questions, twelve questions, and we're going 432 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 1: to do a total of fourteen. 433 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 2: Here we go. Not me trying to avoid the big 434 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: ones because I've always had that thing. 435 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:36,679 Speaker 1: I don't know if I've ever told you guys on 436 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: Cheeks and Chow on the podcast that one time. I 437 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: was always very afraid to read in front of the classroom. 438 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 1: I was in fifth grade and I would always get 439 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: to rese. I'm like, oh my gosh, please, I hope 440 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 1: they don't aw. I hope the teacher just ignores me, 441 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 1: and I would just try to hide. And of course, 442 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 1: Janey because that was my name before, Jane, not Janney. 443 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,720 Speaker 1: I'll tell you, guys, it's a wholely story. Janney, come 444 00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: and read. So I go up there and I'm reading, 445 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: and I'll never forget I said island Island. I said 446 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 1: is land, you guys, and the whole freaking class laughed 447 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: at me. So since then, it's like I get really 448 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: nervous to read. I can talk all day, but to read, 449 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 1: I get like, I don't know, it's weird. So any who, besides, 450 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: you know, I was a little school was hard for 451 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 1: me the first year. So anyways, that was just a 452 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 1: little side question. This is just a little side story. Okay, 453 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 1: So this is from Michelle. I'm eighteen years old and 454 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: I'm struggling with body confidence. I feel like I can't 455 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 1: live up to all the IG models. Oh my gosh, 456 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: I want to get healthy and change my mindset. Do 457 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 1: you have any advice? First of all, baby, you're eighteen 458 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 1: years old. Your body is still changing, is still developing. 459 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 1: Be patient, be compassionate with yourself. Okay, we don't start 460 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:47,600 Speaker 1: developing until we don't stop. 461 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 2: Should I say? 462 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,560 Speaker 1: We don't stop developing until we're about twenty five as women? 463 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: So remember that. Okay. 464 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: The first thing you have to do is stop comparing yourself. Okay, 465 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: what you see on IG ninety five percent of the time, 466 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: I'm telling you ninety five percent, maybe ninety percent of 467 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 1: the time, it's not real. 468 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 2: It's all a facade. 469 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 1: There's a lot of editing, there's a lot of photoshop, 470 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 1: there's a lot of and that's fine, phase tune all 471 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 1: that stuff. A lot of it isn't real, especially what 472 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: you see on magazines like I Get you because I 473 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: felt the same way. I was, like, I want to 474 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: look like the girls on TV. I want to look 475 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: like this. 476 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 2: The truth is you need. 477 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 1: To learn to love yourself for who you are. And 478 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 1: if you want to improve your physique, then work out. Okay, 479 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: then eat healthy, then make healthy your choices. Say I 480 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,959 Speaker 1: want to change my lifestyle. I want to feel good, 481 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: and that's where you got to start, especially with your nutrition. 482 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: Like it's like you want to feel your body, you 483 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: want to feel good, you want to have energy. That 484 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,199 Speaker 1: means you need to eat better, you know, and working 485 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:45,439 Speaker 1: out helps so much mentally, emotionally of course physically. So 486 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: stop comparing yourself. That is the first thing that you 487 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 1: have to do. And in the society that we live in, 488 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,679 Speaker 1: you guys, I know it's hard because it's that you 489 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: see like what goes on Instagram and they're perfect lives 490 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: and this and this and that, Like we all have issues, 491 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: we all have things that working through. People only show 492 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: you what they want to show you on Instagram. 493 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 2: That's the truth. 494 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 1: You don't know what's really happening, So don't go based 495 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 1: off of that, you know, just here, always remember this 496 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: is this is where true beauty comes from. Your heart, 497 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 1: your intentions, what you think, what you feel for other people, 498 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: what you want for the world. Focus on that. You're 499 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: so young, and I get it, but you can't compare yourself. 500 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 1: It's the worst thing that we can do. Believe me, 501 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: I'm telling you. So, I'm sending you a big hug. 502 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,040 Speaker 1: I'm sending you a big, big hug Michelle. Okay, our 503 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: last question, you guys, our last question. I avoided the 504 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 1: big one again. Okay, here we go, Georgina. As you 505 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 1: get closer to turning forty, what's on your list? I 506 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 1: don't want to answer this one. Forty who's turning forty? Girl? 507 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 2: Just kidding? Okay, fine, I'll answer it. Georgina. 508 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 1: Okay, As you get closer to turning forty, what's on 509 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 1: your list of things to do? Are there special places 510 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,720 Speaker 1: you want to travel to? What are you looking forward to? 511 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,159 Speaker 2: Okay? So, first of all, I can't believe I'm to 512 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 2: turn forty. I don't know when. 513 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: Richard is probably gonna be very upset that we out 514 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: of this because he doesn't want anyone to know my age. 515 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 1: But the truth is, I'm very proud of my age. 516 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,400 Speaker 1: I'm very proud of everything that I've accomplished. It took 517 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: me a long time because sometimes I say my age 518 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,200 Speaker 1: out loud, and I'm like, what when? How did that happen? 519 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 1: Because I feel so young. But then again, I like 520 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 1: to stay young. I like to do things that make 521 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: me happy, Like I'm always doing anything and everything I 522 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: can to heal my inner child and to satisfy her 523 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: and make her happy and go to Disneyland and wear 524 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 1: little ears. And it's not because I don't want to 525 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: grow up. It's just that's how I feel, you know. 526 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: I actually probably want to have my fortieth birthday at 527 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: Chuck e Cheese, to be honest, like, I've thought about that. 528 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 2: So that's one of my plans. Okay. 529 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: I also I need to possibly I don't know, God, 530 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: maybe I'm gonna be a mother. Maybe I'm not, I 531 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 1: don't know. I want to move to Hawaii. That's another 532 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,919 Speaker 1: thing that I want to do. I want to open 533 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: a talker shop in Hawaii. I won't tell you, guys 534 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 1: what island, because I might want to just get away. 535 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 2: I don't know. 536 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: There's so much that I still want to accomplish, but 537 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm not afraid of it anymore now. I'm like, you 538 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: know what, it's okay. It's a beautiful thing to age gracefully, 539 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: to accept it, and I thank God that I was 540 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 1: able to and I have been able to accomplish so much. 541 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 1: So this is a very good question. So I want 542 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 1: to go to Hawaii. I want to go to Paris. 543 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 1: I've never been to Paris, you guys. I want to 544 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,320 Speaker 1: go to Jamaica. I want to travel the world, that's 545 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 1: for sure. I think I just want to be able 546 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: to make enough money to say I'm leaving for an 547 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 1: entire year and I'm just going to go travel and 548 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: see the world. So I think that's one of the 549 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,159 Speaker 1: things that I want to. 550 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:26,640 Speaker 2: Do for sure. 551 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: So thank you for your question, Georgina, and you guys, 552 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,879 Speaker 1: thank you all for your questions. I wasn't able to 553 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,760 Speaker 1: obviously get to all of them, but I am very 554 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: grateful that we're able to have Cheekis and Chill and 555 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: your cheeky's and answer these questions. And thank you guys 556 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,679 Speaker 1: for trusting me to answer the questions. I always give you, 557 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 1: guys my best advice from the bottom of my heart. 558 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: I will give you guys advice like I'm telling one 559 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: of my sisters or one of my friends. You know, 560 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: I want the best for you, guys, So thank you 561 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 1: so much for listening, for watching Cheekis and Chill, and 562 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: I will catch you on the next episode. 563 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 2: Okay, and Salu Cheer's the. 564 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:08,920 Speaker 1: February do you need advice on love, relationships health emails? 565 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to share with you that my cheekys 566 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,159 Speaker 1: and Chill podcast will have an extra episode drop each week. 567 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,399 Speaker 1: I'll be answering all your questions. Just leave me a 568 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: voice message person Monday. 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