WEBVTT - Episode 310: Summer's Over?

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't pissed, he wasn't happy, he was just in

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<v Speaker 1>four loud shrieks. A Calm Down with Aeron and Carissa

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<v Speaker 1>is a production of iHeartRadio. Hi everyone, welcome to the

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<v Speaker 1>Calm Down Podcast. Ye, Aaron and I are matchams that

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<v Speaker 1>were both wearing hooded sweatshirts. I have horses, and I

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<v Speaker 1>need to talk about your sweatshirt because your sweet husband

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<v Speaker 1>had this sweatshirt on on the flight home from the

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<v Speaker 1>super Bowl and we were all like, oh, I love

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<v Speaker 1>that sweatshirt and then cutie mccute did what he went

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<v Speaker 1>and got them and I love it. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>cute NFL collab with G four, really great great material.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it, love it. G four. Let's do a collab,

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<v Speaker 1>oh please, and we'll be on a G four or five. Interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really bad about buying merch from like those kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of events, But then in retrospect, I'm I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want something like that. It's like commemorative and nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Although I do have my Rebecca mincuff wear by Aaron

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<v Speaker 1>Andrews leather jacket. That's great. That's good, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great club. Okay, welcome. Also that shirt that

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<v Speaker 1>that Neon one that I ended up being a big hit.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that shirt and I love that shirt when

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<v Speaker 1>you wore that day to year rehearsal. That shirt was

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<v Speaker 1>ended up being real cute. So how does that work

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<v Speaker 1>if people wanted I mean after the fact, like for me,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm oh, we're going to do them next year

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<v Speaker 1>for next year Super Bowl, and I think we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it for the All Star Game because that

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<v Speaker 1>was a big hit. So giddy on up. But thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for the support this weekend. Yes, tell us everything. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, there was an amazing event happening. I'll let

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron speak to it. Because you partially hosted the event.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize you were doing so much with it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you were spending your time for a great cause.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell everyone about it. So the Los Angeles Kings and

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<v Speaker 1>the NHL, they really did a great event on Sunday

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<v Speaker 1>and they hosted kind of a celebrity game. They had

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<v Speaker 1>four different teams hosted by like Snoop Dogg, Will Ferrell,

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<v Speaker 1>Danny DeVito, Vince Vaughn, Michaels, Michael and I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>to see him. There were so you dinner there. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get to see I was working noo and thank

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<v Speaker 1>you to Fox for giving me permission and a thumbs up.

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<v Speaker 1>I was told I was doing the in house kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like interviews of some of the LA heroes, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it went, you know, to the different stations that

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<v Speaker 1>were covering it. So thank you so much to our

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<v Speaker 1>bosses for being so sweet. It was so much fun,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was so proud of the organization and the

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<v Speaker 1>league and my husband. My husband worked really really hard

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<v Speaker 1>on the event. He's he's so great and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you this, our friends in the NFL. I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of giving him a hard time about it.

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<v Speaker 1>He uh, he reached out to Travis, he reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to Tom, he reached out to I'm forgetting somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>with the NFL. He reached out to and he got

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<v Speaker 1>all these videos done from guys in the NFL. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, well, you got him done because

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<v Speaker 1>they're my friends. And he was like, babe, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>so sweet and so nice, and he did such a

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<v Speaker 1>great job getting all this stuff done. And yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>had a lot of the first responders, they had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people that lost their homes. They had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people that you know, are trying to help

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<v Speaker 1>people get back to life and get back to the

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<v Speaker 1>real world with all of it, and they are still

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<v Speaker 1>running this LA Strong event and there is still time

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<v Speaker 1>to donate, and I'm going to make our social media

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<v Speaker 1>people put up the code. But it was really really

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<v Speaker 1>fun and these guys came out and they were skating.

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<v Speaker 1>I posted a picture with Mackie Babes with Justin Bieber,

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<v Speaker 1>which was so cute. Mark Metchnew, who I wanted a picture,

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<v Speaker 1>was so bad. Yeah, it was a lot, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun and then great people like Andrew Whitwre showed up.

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<v Speaker 1>He coached a teenager. Edelman brought his daughter. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a big family skate before there's just in a really

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<v Speaker 1>neat moment. I wish I was there. I was out

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<v Speaker 1>of town, but I just love that. And here's the

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<v Speaker 1>thing about those kinds of events, to your point about

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<v Speaker 1>Jarrett and the effort, like they don't just happen. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of time and effort for people to organize that,

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<v Speaker 1>and also for crypto like using you know those venues

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<v Speaker 1>and everything that like goes into that, but for obviously

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<v Speaker 1>for an incredible cause, and that's the thing too about

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<v Speaker 1>these you know, devastating situations, whether it's a hurricane or

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's the fires. Like there's the immediate help, right

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<v Speaker 1>there's someone's like, oh, I want to help. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to help. But then it's like as unfortunately, like life

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<v Speaker 1>moves on for people, but it's like life doesn't move

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<v Speaker 1>on for the person that's still living sometimes out of

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<v Speaker 1>their car or at a relative's house or at a rental.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you're lucky enough you can get that's the

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<v Speaker 1>time where it's like you got to check in on

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<v Speaker 1>the people that are going through it because everyone helps

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<v Speaker 1>right at the beginning, and then you know, life moves

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<v Speaker 1>on and sadly like for these individuals. But it's really cool,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were interviewing some of the people that just

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<v Speaker 1>stepped in into you know, in the world that we

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<v Speaker 1>live in, and sometimes people are inherently selfish. When you

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<v Speaker 1>see people like that, like the guy that organized all

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<v Speaker 1>the meals and those kinds of things, it's just really

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<v Speaker 1>special that people step up. So kudos Jared Kings and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody who was a part of that. You Matthew Stafford

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<v Speaker 1>was the other video. I'm so sorry, but he got

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<v Speaker 1>all these guys and it was so neat. Guess who

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<v Speaker 1>got the biggest applause though when his face came up,

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<v Speaker 1>Can you guess Travis? It was crazy. It was so wild,

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<v Speaker 1>like we're like, who it's really special. Yeah, he's the best.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that we are in our our re entry

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<v Speaker 1>off season phase. Aaron just got back home. I'm coming

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<v Speaker 1>back home in a couple of days. Avoiding reality, but

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot that we want to discuss. Aaron

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<v Speaker 1>has stepped into the world of let them. We will

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<v Speaker 1>discuss that. We all so like many girlfriends do. There's

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<v Speaker 1>always that funny meme where it's like we communicate via

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<v Speaker 1>text via DMS back and forth and have multiple conversations

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<v Speaker 1>going with each other at the same time. Aaron sent

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<v Speaker 1>me a great DM that was from Kate Winslet that

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<v Speaker 1>resonated with both of us. We'll talk about that. We

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<v Speaker 1>got a re entry update. I was saying how last

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<v Speaker 1>week when we were talking, how I need to be

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<v Speaker 1>less bitchy about things and let stuff go. So I'll

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<v Speaker 1>fill you guys in on that, and then also just

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening in our world of off season. I know

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<v Speaker 1>it's not really an off season because this gal's already

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<v Speaker 1>booked and busy. She's got a lunch date, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>recording this podcast early so she can go. But all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's what you were up to over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>You also before we jumped on here, and you told

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<v Speaker 1>me that you started reading the Mel Robbins phenomenon. That is,

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<v Speaker 1>let them your thoughts. I know you're early on, but

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<v Speaker 1>why did you want to pick up this book? And

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<v Speaker 1>now there's dogs barking out there. I don't know much

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<v Speaker 1>about Mels. I just she ended up being on my algorithm,

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<v Speaker 1>which was refreshing, and I stopped and I listened and

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<v Speaker 1>watched her clips from her podcast, and I started sending

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<v Speaker 1>them to you, and I think Constance was sending them

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and I just was like, okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>this is a time where I'm not reading the daily

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<v Speaker 1>clips about whatever game I'm covering. Let's do something useful

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<v Speaker 1>besides watching Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, which I

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<v Speaker 1>am deep into right now. I need an update on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen anything since you told me to watch

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<v Speaker 1>the one that went to like got arrested and was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot happening. Okay, I don't know anything. I

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<v Speaker 1>need a recap there. It's so good, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do that during the season because I just feel guilty

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't really have time. So now I'm full

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<v Speaker 1>blown in this is like when I'm doing my skincare

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<v Speaker 1>routine or I'm like plucking or whatever, I've got it

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<v Speaker 1>on in the bathroom, like it's making me happy, or

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<v Speaker 1>I'm purging or I'm trying to put stuff away. It's on,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's on, I'm happy. But then to balance out

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<v Speaker 1>the trash and I'm not calling those women trash, but

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<v Speaker 1>let's you know, just like bing like yeah, reality tale,

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<v Speaker 1>it's reality television. Yeah. I was like, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>start reading this book. I need. I'm interested, and I

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<v Speaker 1>really love the vibe of let Them Now. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>there yet. I only got like ten pages in and

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<v Speaker 1>that was her introduction about the five second what is

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<v Speaker 1>it method that she does, which I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating because she for those of you that haven't joined

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<v Speaker 1>the phenomenon that is the let Them train, It's this

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<v Speaker 1>idea that she was getting. You know, she was unmotivated

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<v Speaker 1>and she was just like lying in bed and she

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<v Speaker 1>was had this theory that like a space shuttle, like

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<v Speaker 1>five four three two one, and just get yourself out

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<v Speaker 1>of bed, just propel yourself and so just something sit

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<v Speaker 1>as simple as that was sort of I think that

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<v Speaker 1>was her first book, right, that was her first book.

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<v Speaker 1>But then anyways, that idea of just you got to

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<v Speaker 1>start somewhere, and so that was something. But then the

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<v Speaker 1>let them theory is predicted on something that her son.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it touched about it. Anyways, I'll let you

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<v Speaker 1>guys read the book. You don't want me to tell

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<v Speaker 1>it because you're further than I am. Tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>you've gotten out of it so far and what's resonated

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<v Speaker 1>with you. What do you love? Yeah, I mean even

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<v Speaker 1>just that theory of not or the theory that don't

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<v Speaker 1>you can't control the things you can't control. So the

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<v Speaker 1>idea for her came about when her son was going

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<v Speaker 1>to homecoming and he didn't have a reservation for a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant and her daughter was like, who cares if he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a reservation, Like, let him deal with the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that he's going to get to the restaurant and

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<v Speaker 1>they're not going to be full. Or the cursage she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get a carssage or whatever is it called curso

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<v Speaker 1>for the his date, or that he didn't have the

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<v Speaker 1>tucks or all these things, and like the mother wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to she wanted to control this, like we have to

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<v Speaker 1>get a touch, you have to get a reservation. You

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<v Speaker 1>haven't done that, like, oh my god. And so the

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<v Speaker 1>daughter's like just let him, let him fail and all

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<v Speaker 1>of these things. But ultimately, like he had a great

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<v Speaker 1>time and it didn't matter that he didn't have the reservation.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't matter. So that theory applied to everyday life

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<v Speaker 1>is if you don't get invited to a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>your girlfriends at a brunch and you didn't because you

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram or whatever and you didn't get invited, instead

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<v Speaker 1>of being upset about it, you're like, well, just let

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<v Speaker 1>them like that was they wanted to go to brunch,

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't invited, Like, don't obsess about the things that

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<v Speaker 1>you can't control. Yeah, And so if somebody wants to

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<v Speaker 1>be in a bad mood, like if Steve, Steve doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>wake up at a bad But I'm just saying like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know somebody's upset about something, you know, like let them,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's their problem, it's not yours to take on.

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<v Speaker 1>So just that continuous ideas is sort of what and again,

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<v Speaker 1>what page am I know, I'm pretty pretty part I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on page No, I'm only on page forty one. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on that part of let them a tool to implement wisdom.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyways, so my sister and my niece are both

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<v Speaker 1>reading this book as well, and I just I like,

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<v Speaker 1>I like that it's become something that everyone, not everyone,

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<v Speaker 1>but a lot of people are adapting and adopting because

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<v Speaker 1>it's clear that we all tried to meddle in things

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<v Speaker 1>that or control aspects of our life. And so if

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<v Speaker 1>this book has resonated with so many people, that means

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<v Speaker 1>that everyone needs to just fucking chill out a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean, there's a reason that in this

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<v Speaker 1>book they talk about people have like are getting tattoos,

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<v Speaker 1>and what if my niece got a tattoo with this?

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<v Speaker 1>But just I don't know, I think hopefully, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>like this wave of people that are all operating with

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<v Speaker 1>a new intention of just being more chill, then maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it has a I don't know, maybe it has a

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<v Speaker 1>resounding effect somewhere. Maybe she's always something. I love how

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<v Speaker 1>she said. And again, I'm only ten pages in, but

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<v Speaker 1>she talked about how she was she was asked to

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<v Speaker 1>speak at something and she had a nineteen minute panic

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<v Speaker 1>attack throughout it, and then she blanked out and she

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<v Speaker 1>ended up talking about the five second method was something

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't even going to discuss, and little did you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that was the beginning of Ted Talk, and she blew

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck up. That's amazing. And so what you think

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<v Speaker 1>in your own mind might be like your worst moment

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<v Speaker 1>could end up helping. But I think there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of that too in vulnerability. You and I and know

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<v Speaker 1>even when the therapy that I've been through in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>it was it's all about for me in particular, it's

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<v Speaker 1>been about vulnerability that the more vulnerable I've been, the better.

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<v Speaker 1>The more success I've had in relationships, the more success

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<v Speaker 1>I've had in friendships, the more success that I've just had,

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<v Speaker 1>even in work relationships where I've said to my boss

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm really sorry, or I got that wrong. That

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<v Speaker 1>one's on me. You know, like in basketball when someone

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<v Speaker 1>commits a turnover and they run back down the court

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like chap tap their chest like my bad

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, you see Baker Mayfield did it. I

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<v Speaker 1>saw him do in the playoff game and he fumbled

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<v Speaker 1>or something, and he was like sitting on the bench

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<v Speaker 1>and he kept going to his team. He's like, my bad,

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<v Speaker 1>like taking responsibility for your mistakes or your actions. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that there's also so much to be said about that,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I'm excited. I'm glad that you're reading it too.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's maybe so we catch up and we can

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<v Speaker 1>do it together. Oh calm down. Book club, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>would love that, andbody else that wants to jump on

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<v Speaker 1>board if you haven't already, let's just do it together.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it would be really fun and then something

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<v Speaker 1>we can discuss to that. I've always wanted to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a book club. My friends had a dirty book club,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just it started, like, you know, then going

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<v Speaker 1>into football, and I was like, listen, these clubs are

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<v Speaker 1>as dirty as they can be. You know, I just can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never read a dirty novel, although I did just

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<v Speaker 1>open up to chapter thirteen, which is very apropos how

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<v Speaker 1>to create the best friendships of your life cut Yeah yeah, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying it was like that was a side

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<v Speaker 1>note on this thing, but yeah, jump on board. They

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<v Speaker 1>let them train I've never read a dirty novel? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you ever have to hide it? Like? Yeah, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about this, like I was trying to keep up with

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<v Speaker 1>the book club. By the way, right now, what I'm doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling the book club story, but I'm also trying

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<v Speaker 1>to see what other books does old Mel Robbins have

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<v Speaker 1>because it's exciting. I letting them very five second one. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>that was for sure? We go Yeah the half did

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<v Speaker 1>Mel Robin on the podcast here and I know she's busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Take Control of your life was in twenty nineteen. The

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<v Speaker 1>high five is a journal, work it out the high

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<v Speaker 1>five five second rule and let them This is great.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be a new mean watch out watch

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<v Speaker 1>Out world. Okay, so we're not going to get that

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<v Speaker 1>let them tattoos just because I already have too many

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<v Speaker 1>tattoos that I shouldn't have gotten. Not that this would

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<v Speaker 1>be bad, but anyways, but Aaron, you and I do

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<v Speaker 1>need to do a couple of things. We're going to

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<v Speaker 1>give ourselves an off season to do list a trip,

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<v Speaker 1>another earring. Also, we talked about it on the pregame.

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron and I are going to we don't know where yet,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know what we're going to do. But we

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<v Speaker 1>have to do a vacation together in the off season.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's crazy, though the off season is already over.

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<v Speaker 1>It's over. I mean we talk about I lost over.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, we have to sit down and do

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<v Speaker 1>a schedule because every time I turn around in an email,

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<v Speaker 1>something's popping up and I'm like, wait, why is this already?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the summer's gone. I don't like that feeling. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that feeling at all. So we have to

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<v Speaker 1>build in some stuff because if not, oh yeah, we're screwed.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited about like events and dates, but I hate

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<v Speaker 1>getting the email where it's like, hey, it's on this

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<v Speaker 1>date or it's something's on this date. No, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do any dates. Like our nanny the other

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<v Speaker 1>day just said to me, when are you going out

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<v Speaker 1>of town? Again? When are you doing this? And I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because I think it's like with football,

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<v Speaker 1>you are so it's such a routine. There's such a schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>I got on Thursday, I've got this feature Friday, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got the game on Sunday. I like acting like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what anything is. Now I know I've got

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<v Speaker 1>stuff coming up. We're going to Tampa together. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do on podcast at the Tampa Bay Buccaneers Women Summit.

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<v Speaker 1>Excited for that, yep, hearing rumors about who may stop buy,

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<v Speaker 1>which could be super fun and a time. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>But I like acting like I'm loosey goosey right now

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't have a schedule. But summer's over. Off

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<v Speaker 1>season is over. Yeah, it's already done, do you Because

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm here at the ranch, I am well, I

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<v Speaker 1>just billed half mine. I am very It's so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you're like this. I like doing things

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<v Speaker 1>here that I don't like doing at home, emptying the dishwasher,

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<v Speaker 1>doing laundry, like okay, I was wondering if you had

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<v Speaker 1>that same thing, Like I wake up here early, like

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<v Speaker 1>i'm here like, well, I guess the same kind of

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<v Speaker 1>time in LA between six thirty seven's like late, get up,

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<v Speaker 1>I feed the animals. I have my own little routine there.

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<v Speaker 1>I make my coffee, I go for a walk with

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<v Speaker 1>the dogs up to this one little area that I like.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I like doing the tasks that I hate

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<v Speaker 1>doing at home, like all the homemaker stuff. I make

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<v Speaker 1>cookies the other day, Like I don't make fucking cookies

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<v Speaker 1>at home, Like what I know. I'm such a like

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<v Speaker 1>homemaker here. And as I was folding tells this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought to myself, like, I could totally be a

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<v Speaker 1>stay at home mom. I don't have any kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>like I thought to myself, like I could do that.

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<v Speaker 1>I probably couldn't because I'd be bored after like five seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know. I just have this like maternal

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<v Speaker 1>thing is I don't know. I don't know. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>meet the bed because Jen was here, so I like

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<v Speaker 1>she She's like wanting to strip the bed. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, I'll do it. I made the bed all

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<v Speaker 1>not all these things. And I'm like, I hate doing

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't like doing any of that shit

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm home. I wonder why. I like, maybe because

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<v Speaker 1>we're not in our normal routine and so it just

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<v Speaker 1>feels like we have the time to do it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but I kind of liked it because you

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<v Speaker 1>don't look at the ranch as like a place where

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're at home, and it's like I got

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<v Speaker 1>this closet and I got to weed out. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>all my Fox, shit's in there, all my rein gear,

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<v Speaker 1>all the craft. It's like, that's still ranch is still

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<v Speaker 1>kind of your vaca, your vacation. Yeah, and maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way. I don't know, but I just thought to

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<v Speaker 1>myself and not like the stay at home but you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like where it was like I

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<v Speaker 1>liked being a little homemaker and I liked, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even like cooking. And I said Steve last night,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want me to make you dinner? And he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you okay? And I was like, well, what going

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<v Speaker 1>to make? Well? I only make three things. I can

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<v Speaker 1>only make three things taco, salads, spaghetti, and then like

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast for dinner. That's the extent of my cooking. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have any And always there's this girl, Aaron O'Brien

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<v Speaker 1>that I follow on Instagram. She is amazing. She does

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<v Speaker 1>all of these like quick recipes. I have never made

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<v Speaker 1>one of her recipes, but I go in a deep

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<v Speaker 1>day of watching them. You have Yeah, I forgot what

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I made one of her recipes one time.

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<v Speaker 1>You told me about her, so I tried. She makes

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<v Speaker 1>one to try so easy wine. Don't this is any

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<v Speaker 1>measuring cops. What the hell, No, they don't. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing where I'm like, I want to be that person,

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<v Speaker 1>and so maybe I'm I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Should I try other than reading? Reading? Other than reading?

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<v Speaker 1>What else we do? I think we should have a

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<v Speaker 1>checklist for our quote off season, even though we already

0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:07.840
<v Speaker 1>say it's over, but before football season starts again. I

0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:11.359
<v Speaker 1>think it's important and for anybody else out there, we'd

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<v Speaker 1>love some advice, like things that we should do, we

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<v Speaker 1>should finish. Obviously, that's embarrassing if we can't finish one book.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got to finish this book. Yeah, we'll finish

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<v Speaker 1>it like cook once a week. Like, let's think about

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<v Speaker 1>our list. Definitely the vacation, we need to clean out

0:19:27.840 --> 0:19:31.639
<v Speaker 1>our closets, our purses, all that stuff. Yeah, and then

0:19:31.680 --> 0:19:33.720
<v Speaker 1>we need to do something volunteer wise. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm coming up with a lot of ideas. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I think we'll feel very like accomplished by the time

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<v Speaker 1>the season rolls around again, and we won't be mad like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, the whole off season went by and

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't do anything that was a real mel Robins thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I sent that to you like, do a checklist,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you are starting on Sunday night to have

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety for the week ahead, like think of the things

0:19:53.440 --> 0:19:55.919
<v Speaker 1>you need to get done and write them down. But

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<v Speaker 1>I have list, so sister, but I am not. I

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<v Speaker 1>have so many lests. Another thing that you sent me

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<v Speaker 1>was Kate Winslet. Yeah, had spoke to me. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>do you explain what it was because I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>who did this. I don't know if you were able

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<v Speaker 1>to put that together the voices behind it. But there

0:20:19.600 --> 0:20:22.879
<v Speaker 1>was some interview that somebody did. It looked recently with

0:20:22.960 --> 0:20:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Kate Winslet and they went back and looked at I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it was like a fashion kind of

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<v Speaker 1>show of her. She was on a red carpet and

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<v Speaker 1>it must have been promoting Titanic, and they were speaking

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<v Speaker 1>about how they thought her dress size was a little

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<v Speaker 1>too small for her body and they played that in

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<v Speaker 1>front of her, and the interviewer was asking if she

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<v Speaker 1>ever confronted the people that said the nasty things about her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said she did, and the interviewer asked what

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<v Speaker 1>she said to them, and she said, I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>haunts you. And that just spoke to me mmm hmmm,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, the girl, look at this because

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<v Speaker 1>which by the way, let me tell you, working at Fox,

0:21:13.520 --> 0:21:17.560
<v Speaker 1>they have this archive, like you can see some of

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<v Speaker 1>the amazing costumes from different movies and shows and all

0:21:21.560 --> 0:21:26.320
<v Speaker 1>this kind of stuff. Kate Winslet's dressed the famed dress.

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<v Speaker 1>Where was the black with the maroon like underlay and

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<v Speaker 1>it had the beads. It was like the first one

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you see that she's in from like

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<v Speaker 1>the dinner the night that like Leo's there, this dress,

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<v Speaker 1>the waiste size on it is like this big. It

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<v Speaker 1>is so tiny. So the fact that she was fat

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<v Speaker 1>shamed at all is fucking insane, like and it's I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, so many conversations about unrealistic expectations for

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<v Speaker 1>women and their bodies and the whole thing. But as

0:21:56.920 --> 0:21:59.720
<v Speaker 1>it pertained to this, that quote of saying I hope

0:21:59.720 --> 0:22:03.000
<v Speaker 1>it haunts them, I think there's a little bit again

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<v Speaker 1>this reoccurring theme where let them if they want to

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<v Speaker 1>say something about you, if they want to fact shame you,

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<v Speaker 1>or if they want to say you're not this, or

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<v Speaker 1>they want to let them that's on them, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hope it haunts them. I hope they have to live

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<v Speaker 1>with that thing instead of letting it be a problem

0:22:20.840 --> 0:22:23.879
<v Speaker 1>for her or having her feel bad about it, like, no,

0:22:24.000 --> 0:22:27.919
<v Speaker 1>that's their shit, not mine. Like I like that projection

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<v Speaker 1>of not projection, but like pushing off of internalizing it,

0:22:31.520 --> 0:22:33.720
<v Speaker 1>like just no, get you get to live with the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that you're an asshole, like that's your problem, not mine,

0:22:37.520 --> 0:22:41.840
<v Speaker 1>because we know somewhere it's like instead of absorbing that

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<v Speaker 1>and letting it be something we lose sleep at at

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<v Speaker 1>night over people that have you know. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a saint, but I definitely know a few people.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it haunts them. Wait they act you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? So that's great. We love Kate Winslet

0:22:59.600 --> 0:23:04.439
<v Speaker 1>we love to summarize. But yeah, we're real girls girls,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah. But all that is good. We have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot to be thankful for. We have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of exciting things coming up. We're going to make a

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<v Speaker 1>list of all the stuff that we wanted to do. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, how's your re entry going? Can we get enough?

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<v Speaker 1>Because you were upset about somebody in their loud talking.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys doing? Where are you with re entry? Better?

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<v Speaker 1>Because even in taking my own advice of our is

0:23:43.480 --> 0:23:45.720
<v Speaker 1>we posted and when our clips came out, when I'm

0:23:45.720 --> 0:23:48.399
<v Speaker 1>like hearing myself, I don't want to be bitchy. I

0:23:48.400 --> 0:23:50.720
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be controlling. Steve is so wonderful to me,

0:23:50.840 --> 0:23:53.399
<v Speaker 1>especially during the off seats or during the season, and

0:23:53.480 --> 0:23:56.240
<v Speaker 1>just taking care of shit at home. So re entry

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<v Speaker 1>is going better because I'm putting it on myself to

0:24:00.760 --> 0:24:04.800
<v Speaker 1>be more mature about some stuff. Some stuff's good. English's

0:24:04.840 --> 0:24:08.240
<v Speaker 1>like English. I'm trying to be better with English stuff.

0:24:08.880 --> 0:24:15.199
<v Speaker 1>But also I think it's just being honest about like

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<v Speaker 1>I because we're together all the time, you guys are,

0:24:20.000 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 1>and it's fine because I like him, but like up here,

0:24:22.760 --> 0:24:24.439
<v Speaker 1>like we're in the middle of nowhere, so it's not

0:24:24.520 --> 0:24:27.960
<v Speaker 1>like we're even like going into town and like hanging

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:30.879
<v Speaker 1>out with you know, the people. Like it's just last night,

0:24:30.920 --> 0:24:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I was just like looking, He's sent me a text.

0:24:32.920 --> 0:24:34.480
<v Speaker 1>I was out doing somebody. He goes, hey, do you

0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 1>want to come back to the house, And we just

0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:37.480
<v Speaker 1>sit at each other, sit on the couch and stare

0:24:37.480 --> 0:24:40.600
<v Speaker 1>at each other. That's the text I got. I go, sure,

0:24:40.720 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>I'll be down in twenty minutes. We sat on the

0:24:43.280 --> 0:24:45.840
<v Speaker 1>couch and it was actually really nice. Steve doesn't like TV,

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:49.840
<v Speaker 1>doesn't not into watching TV. He doesn't share. I always

0:24:49.920 --> 0:24:53.520
<v Speaker 1>know that if this guy would have TV's taken out

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:56.439
<v Speaker 1>of his house, if it wasn't for sports. That's the

0:24:56.480 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 1>only thing he likes to watch. Every time he goes, oh,

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:01.159
<v Speaker 1>what are we going to watch? Another? D Dateline? Season

0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:04.560
<v Speaker 1>forty two, episode seven. I love Dateline? He goes, Oh, murder,

0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:06.440
<v Speaker 1>kill kill. All you want to watch is murder? He goes,

0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:08.600
<v Speaker 1>can we watch a comedy? But yeah, he is not

0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:12.359
<v Speaker 1>a TV person. I will catch him sitting in a

0:25:12.440 --> 0:25:16.920
<v Speaker 1>room listening to Art Pepper, this like jazz musician, and

0:25:17.119 --> 0:25:19.800
<v Speaker 1>just staring at the ceiling and I'm like, huh, I

0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:21.400
<v Speaker 1>go what does that do to you? And he goes

0:25:21.680 --> 0:25:24.240
<v Speaker 1>helps me relax? He goes TV I just like get

0:25:24.280 --> 0:25:27.119
<v Speaker 1>inundated and gives me anxiety about like killing and murder.

0:25:27.200 --> 0:25:29.480
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, really, because killing and murder makes

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:32.600
<v Speaker 1>me relax because now I don't have to think about

0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:34.000
<v Speaker 1>all the things I'm supposed to be doing. I just

0:25:34.040 --> 0:25:36.480
<v Speaker 1>think about how great my life is because it's not

0:25:36.640 --> 0:25:40.080
<v Speaker 1>that so I don't know it's going good. We just

0:25:40.160 --> 0:25:44.840
<v Speaker 1>have to like balance out. I just I miss you.

0:25:44.960 --> 0:25:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I think I need a little airon too. Well. Yeah,

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:51.199
<v Speaker 1>I can't get a hold of this chick. She's watching

0:25:51.280 --> 0:25:55.359
<v Speaker 1>Dayline and feeding the cows. Where are my friend? So busy?

0:25:55.840 --> 0:25:58.840
<v Speaker 1>So it's been two weeks actually, so yeah, I'm ready

0:25:58.840 --> 0:26:01.840
<v Speaker 1>to see my girlfriend. Hopefully we get together this weekend.

0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:04.240
<v Speaker 1>And I miss Mac. I haven't seen mag what's Mac

0:26:04.320 --> 0:26:07.280
<v Speaker 1>been up to? He's busy, fifteen years old. I see

0:26:07.280 --> 0:26:10.200
<v Speaker 1>the picture of him and Justin Bieber, which, by the way,

0:26:11.160 --> 0:26:15.000
<v Speaker 1>he looks like Justin Bieber. Yeah, and somebody actually said

0:26:15.040 --> 0:26:17.360
<v Speaker 1>that to me before I forgot who did. I think

0:26:17.400 --> 0:26:18.919
<v Speaker 1>it was somebody at the super Bowl. It was like,

0:26:18.920 --> 0:26:21.480
<v Speaker 1>your kid looks like Justin Bieber. I was like really,

0:26:22.000 --> 0:26:26.439
<v Speaker 1>And so he's he is cute. He was so good

0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:28.800
<v Speaker 1>at that La Strong event we brought him. They were

0:26:28.800 --> 0:26:30.920
<v Speaker 1>so loosey goosey about letting him in the locker room.

0:26:30.960 --> 0:26:34.360
<v Speaker 1>He was hanging out with dad. Dad was sending me skates.

0:26:34.840 --> 0:26:38.119
<v Speaker 1>I know those are the Copauitar's sons. Yakub skates is

0:26:38.200 --> 0:26:41.919
<v Speaker 1>so sweet and Jared was like skating with him on

0:26:41.960 --> 0:26:44.880
<v Speaker 1>the ice and he loves going fast. That was really fun.

0:26:45.800 --> 0:26:50.679
<v Speaker 1>He's good, he's busy, he all right, let's talk about it.

0:26:50.920 --> 0:26:53.239
<v Speaker 1>What do we get talk about it? I get it.

0:26:53.280 --> 0:26:56.680
<v Speaker 1>He's nineteen months. This is where I am in my life.

0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:01.240
<v Speaker 1>We had our babies late. With our baby late, I

0:27:01.400 --> 0:27:04.720
<v Speaker 1>was around a lot of people that were having babies

0:27:05.040 --> 0:27:09.000
<v Speaker 1>for many years, and I was sitting back and observing.

0:27:09.160 --> 0:27:11.679
<v Speaker 1>I went on a lot of family vacations with people

0:27:11.720 --> 0:27:14.240
<v Speaker 1>that had kids. I was all my friends from the

0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>La Kings at the time had babies. So I got

0:27:17.520 --> 0:27:19.919
<v Speaker 1>to observe a lot of stuff. I realized what I

0:27:20.000 --> 0:27:23.600
<v Speaker 1>really liked and what I didn't like. And what I

0:27:23.920 --> 0:27:27.199
<v Speaker 1>don't like are kids that have free rein and that

0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:30.679
<v Speaker 1>aren't well behaved. What I do like is somebody like

0:27:30.760 --> 0:27:33.879
<v Speaker 1>Greg Olsen who has children that walk in, look you

0:27:33.920 --> 0:27:36.640
<v Speaker 1>in the eye, shake your hand, and is very are

0:27:36.760 --> 0:27:39.760
<v Speaker 1>very respectable. Now I've gone to dinner with Greg and

0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:42.119
<v Speaker 1>I've sat next to both of his kids, and Greg

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:44.120
<v Speaker 1>is trying to talk to me and he has said, hey,

0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:48.639
<v Speaker 1>it's adult time. Now. I love it. Like listen, no

0:27:48.760 --> 0:27:50.639
<v Speaker 1>kid is a saint, No adult is a saint. But

0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I realize what I want out of a kid. I'm

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:57.440
<v Speaker 1>also having a big struggle of when you learn to

0:27:58.119 --> 0:28:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not say discipline, but rack oh yeah, okay. We

0:28:03.520 --> 0:28:06.879
<v Speaker 1>went to sushi the other night Jared had to work,

0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:10.679
<v Speaker 1>and I love our nanny and she's so great, and

0:28:10.720 --> 0:28:12.959
<v Speaker 1>I said, hey, can I take you to sushi tonight?

0:28:13.080 --> 0:28:16.320
<v Speaker 1>And twofold can Matt come too? And I think it's

0:28:16.320 --> 0:28:19.560
<v Speaker 1>so important to socialize him, and you know, I want

0:28:19.640 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 1>him to sit down and have a meal with me. Now.

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:24.399
<v Speaker 1>Are there times he needs an iPad? Sure, but I

0:28:24.440 --> 0:28:27.120
<v Speaker 1>also really get a kick of the fact she's great

0:28:27.160 --> 0:28:30.800
<v Speaker 1>to show him you don't need it, and we never

0:28:30.880 --> 0:28:33.040
<v Speaker 1>had that. We went to dinner with our parents and

0:28:33.080 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 1>I never had that. Yeah, here's a coloring book and

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:38.400
<v Speaker 1>color crans from the hostess exactly. The one thing I

0:28:38.440 --> 0:28:41.040
<v Speaker 1>love about our nanny, Barbara is she is really great

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:44.360
<v Speaker 1>in teaching me how to do things. She is like, Okay,

0:28:44.480 --> 0:28:46.360
<v Speaker 1>let's do it this way, let's try it this way,

0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:49.560
<v Speaker 1>And so I feel confident and comfortable because I also

0:28:49.600 --> 0:28:52.719
<v Speaker 1>have a huge insecurity that I haven't been around for

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:54.960
<v Speaker 1>six months and I want to do it how they've

0:28:54.960 --> 0:28:57.200
<v Speaker 1>done it, so I don't mess up the schedule any

0:28:57.240 --> 0:29:01.880
<v Speaker 1>whot nanny, my man is not talking yet, but we

0:29:01.960 --> 0:29:07.120
<v Speaker 1>are saying something dad, my momm okay, great. He is

0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 1>so smart. He is very attentive, but we have not

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:15.240
<v Speaker 1>figured out how to lower our voice yet, and we

0:29:15.480 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 1>have stayed while they are related out of nowhere. At Izakaya,

0:29:24.920 --> 0:29:27.720
<v Speaker 1>which is a very small sushi restaurant in our town,

0:29:27.920 --> 0:29:31.960
<v Speaker 1>one of our favorites. He wasn't pissed, he wasn't happy.

0:29:32.160 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>He was just in four loud shrieks where the entire

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:43.760
<v Speaker 1>restaurant turned and looked at me. His father is not there,

0:29:44.400 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 1>and I'm mortified. And I looked at Barbara and I go,

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:47.840
<v Speaker 1>what do we do? What do we do? What do

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:51.200
<v Speaker 1>we do? She goes, it's okay, you're okay, Matt. We

0:29:51.280 --> 0:29:56.239
<v Speaker 1>do not yell at the restaurant. We're good. It was

0:29:56.280 --> 0:29:58.360
<v Speaker 1>that at the end of the meal, he had had

0:29:58.440 --> 0:30:00.440
<v Speaker 1>such a great meal, we gave him ice. But then

0:30:00.480 --> 0:30:04.480
<v Speaker 1>in the back of my head, I'm like, am I rougar? Oh?

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 1>What am I doing? Because Barbara had said to me

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 1>he did that at the park. Everybody turned and looked,

0:30:11.080 --> 0:30:14.480
<v Speaker 1>and she said, We're not doing that. We're going to

0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:19.400
<v Speaker 1>behave I went home that night and I texted one

0:30:19.440 --> 0:30:21.480
<v Speaker 1>of my girlfriends who has kids, and I just said,

0:30:21.600 --> 0:30:23.719
<v Speaker 1>at what point. I don't even know if I can

0:30:23.760 --> 0:30:26.240
<v Speaker 1>look at him the same after that, because everybody looked

0:30:26.280 --> 0:30:28.920
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, what point of I'm like, no,

0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:31.760
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to grab him run out, and she's like,

0:30:31.960 --> 0:30:37.440
<v Speaker 1>he's nineteen months. He's understand. That's just where I am

0:30:37.560 --> 0:30:39.960
<v Speaker 1>right now. I know what I want out of a kid,

0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know when to start. She said, you know,

0:30:42.480 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 1>you have to say like, hey, let's not do this.

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 1>We're in a place, but he doesn't know what the

0:30:47.000 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 1>help but he does, but he doesn't. Yeah, okay, look

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 1>I will step in here only to say this. I

0:30:53.960 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 1>obviously I don't have children. I did grow up. My

0:30:56.680 --> 0:30:59.680
<v Speaker 1>mom did daycare for us when we were growing up

0:30:59.680 --> 0:31:02.160
<v Speaker 1>because you wanted to stay home with us, and it

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 1>was a way for her to make money. So I

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:05.840
<v Speaker 1>was always around kids. I was a nanny. I started

0:31:05.840 --> 0:31:07.880
<v Speaker 1>watching it an eleven nine month old when I was

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:09.920
<v Speaker 1>eleven years old, and then stayed with that family until

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:12.360
<v Speaker 1>I graduated high school. Shout out to the Luhamburgers, and

0:31:12.400 --> 0:31:14.120
<v Speaker 1>they had three kids, and I would go on vacation

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 1>with them and I was the one that would travel

0:31:16.120 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 1>and I was responsible for, you know, when they wanted

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:20.360
<v Speaker 1>to go out to dinner, I was with the kids

0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 1>and all that kind of stuff. The only thing I

0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:25.160
<v Speaker 1>will say about that is like distraction right where it's

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:27.640
<v Speaker 1>And again I'm not the professional nanny that you have,

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:30.040
<v Speaker 1>so I will only say from my own experience, is

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:33.880
<v Speaker 1>that same reason for kids on airplanes. I feel for them.

0:31:34.160 --> 0:31:36.720
<v Speaker 1>They don't know what they're doing, their ears are popping,

0:31:36.800 --> 0:31:39.760
<v Speaker 1>it feels weird. They're in a confined space, and it's

0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:41.800
<v Speaker 1>like they want to move. Especially he's at an age

0:31:41.800 --> 0:31:43.120
<v Speaker 1>where it's like he wants to move, he wants to

0:31:43.160 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 1>do things, and so it's like busy. I don't know

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:48.400
<v Speaker 1>about the yelling part, but like that's just more of like, okay,

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:50.960
<v Speaker 1>we don't do that. But like I always feel for

0:31:51.120 --> 0:31:53.080
<v Speaker 1>kids when they're like in a situation and they just

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 1>want constant distraction, Like take the credit cards out of

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:58.360
<v Speaker 1>your wallet to give them something to do. Here's a

0:31:58.400 --> 0:32:00.560
<v Speaker 1>color cran, here's a oh my god, do you see

0:32:00.560 --> 0:32:04.320
<v Speaker 1>a bird outside? Like just constantly like give them something

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.200
<v Speaker 1>else to do so that they're not like I'm trapped

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:10.400
<v Speaker 1>in this high chair or whatever. Again, I'm not speaking

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 1>to that situation that you have. I'm only thinking about

0:32:12.880 --> 0:32:15.840
<v Speaker 1>the things that I do with kids. And that's the

0:32:15.880 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 1>part too, where it's like you have went forty to

0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:24.600
<v Speaker 1>forty five years without having a child, and now your whole.

0:32:24.680 --> 0:32:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm so proud of you though, like no one prepares

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:31.120
<v Speaker 1>you for that. Your whole, like your whole and your

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:33.840
<v Speaker 1>whole work. But here I'm gonna say this, and I

0:32:33.880 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 1>don't have an interjection. You guys, Aaron may sit on

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 1>here and she's vulnerable about the things that she doesn't

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:42.880
<v Speaker 1>know and all that kind of stuff. She is the

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:45.760
<v Speaker 1>most amazing mom. You will show me pictures of him

0:32:45.800 --> 0:32:47.880
<v Speaker 1>sleeping in his crip, will look at the little monitor,

0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:50.720
<v Speaker 1>and you'll show me the pain. You are such a

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:53.200
<v Speaker 1>good mother, and I'm really proud of you, like no

0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:55.000
<v Speaker 1>one prepares you for how to do that. But I

0:32:55.080 --> 0:32:58.479
<v Speaker 1>know that this is like you imagine, you wanted this

0:32:58.560 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 1>for so long and now you have this perfect little boy.

0:33:02.320 --> 0:33:05.760
<v Speaker 1>And so if he screams at the restaurant, yeah whatever,

0:33:05.960 --> 0:33:08.160
<v Speaker 1>it's true. I was actually thinking of this the other

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:11.000
<v Speaker 1>day and I said this to Jarrett. And I'm very

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:13.440
<v Speaker 1>very also grateful for our help that we have and

0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:15.280
<v Speaker 1>we have such a good team in place, and we

0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:19.960
<v Speaker 1>are so thankful because whatever, but we are so grateful

0:33:20.040 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 1>for our group. But because it does take a village.

0:33:24.360 --> 0:33:27.080
<v Speaker 1>The other day when we got home from Montana, we're back,

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:29.680
<v Speaker 1>We're in our Routineer goes to the office. I was,

0:33:29.720 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, with him for a bit. Then I went

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:34.480
<v Speaker 1>to work out, and I was saying to Jarrett, my god,

0:33:35.240 --> 0:33:37.640
<v Speaker 1>this is how it's supposed to be. We have such

0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:41.640
<v Speaker 1>a lovely like team working with us. But this is

0:33:41.680 --> 0:33:43.960
<v Speaker 1>how it is when you don't aren't working and you're

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 1>not traveling to Green Bay, or you're not worried about

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:49.720
<v Speaker 1>getting on a conference call. Like I will say this

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and not to toot my own horn, it's fucking hard to

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:55.800
<v Speaker 1>do this for a full time job and traveling and

0:33:55.840 --> 0:33:57.840
<v Speaker 1>not even traveling like I think of all the football

0:33:57.880 --> 0:34:00.400
<v Speaker 1>stories we read where guys talk about their mom and

0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 1>how they had three to four jobs and they didn't

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:04.160
<v Speaker 1>see their mom during the day and then at night

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:05.760
<v Speaker 1>the mom went to work while they went to bed,

0:34:05.760 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 1>and my mom would go exactly like that is fucking hard.

0:34:10.920 --> 0:34:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Like And I'm not saying I didn't give myself enough credit,

0:34:13.320 --> 0:34:16.800
<v Speaker 1>but I sat there the last six months thinking about

0:34:16.840 --> 0:34:19.640
<v Speaker 1>what a failure I was because I was like God,

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm like half asking it with foxing, though I wasn't

0:34:22.200 --> 0:34:24.800
<v Speaker 1>half asking it with my kid. It is so hard

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<v Speaker 1>to do all that. I will sit and I try

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<v Speaker 1>to remind you of this. My mom worked three jobs,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad was working all the time, like all of

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff. And there's never a time, ever, ever, a

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<v Speaker 1>time where I look back at my childhood and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, I wasn't loved. All I think about

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<v Speaker 1>was I was loved, and my parents were working so

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<v Speaker 1>hard so I could have that extra They could make

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<v Speaker 1>a hundred oll My mom would make a hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant, working at a restaurant night so I

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<v Speaker 1>could go join the select basketball team where I could

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<v Speaker 1>get the new basketball shoes. Like you have to give

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<v Speaker 1>yourself the credit, like your kid sitting in that high

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<v Speaker 1>chair watching you do that postgame interview and pointing at

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<v Speaker 1>the screen and saying, Mama, like I like cried watching

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<v Speaker 1>that video. And it's not even my kid. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that like he he sees you working like

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<v Speaker 1>that is a beautiful thing. And by the way, if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't work, if you stay at home with your

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<v Speaker 1>kid all day, that's almost the joy. The hardest job.

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<v Speaker 1>I imagine that's the everest job is everybody always says

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<v Speaker 1>is the hardest job in the world because it's constant.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think all of this is about giving yourself

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<v Speaker 1>grace and knowing Like when you got Howie as a puppy,

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<v Speaker 1>he would dig, he would chew on things, whatever. How

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<v Speaker 1>he's grown up and he's a great dog like mas

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<v Speaker 1>a baby, he's like gonna try things until But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really really proud of you and I hope that you're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing like instead of instead of focusing on the like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh I'm not this or I'm not that, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>really hope you give yourself the like this is a

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<v Speaker 1>whole different set of you know, things in life that

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<v Speaker 1>no one prepares you for and even if you've been

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<v Speaker 1>very vocal, you're lucky enough to have help and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so really hard. Yeah, yeah, I I love you. Answers

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you know went in out. So this in

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<v Speaker 1>to summarize. Mel Robbins, we would love for you to

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<v Speaker 1>come on the Calm Down Podcast us like you're now

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<v Speaker 1>innumerable amount of fans appreciate that you have the vulnerability

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<v Speaker 1>to put this down writing so you can help all

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<v Speaker 1>of us be better people and just less stressed out

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<v Speaker 1>or less you know, upset about things that don't matter

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<v Speaker 1>and that we can't control. I'm going to go look

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<v Speaker 1>for a new recipe to cook and fold some more

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<v Speaker 1>laundry because this is the things I like to do now.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love you and I'm going to see you

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<v Speaker 1>this weekend. I can't wait to view. Yeah, let's figure

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<v Speaker 1>that out. How they tacked? Yep. Okay, you guys, thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for listening way in and buy the book if

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