1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: He wasn't pissed, he wasn't happy, he was just in 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: four loud shrieks. A Calm Down with Aeron and Carissa 3 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: is a production of iHeartRadio. Hi everyone, welcome to the 4 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: Calm Down Podcast. Ye, Aaron and I are matchams that 5 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: were both wearing hooded sweatshirts. I have horses, and I 6 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: need to talk about your sweatshirt because your sweet husband 7 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: had this sweatshirt on on the flight home from the 8 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: super Bowl and we were all like, oh, I love 9 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 1: that sweatshirt and then cutie mccute did what he went 10 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: and got them and I love it. It was a 11 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: cute NFL collab with G four, really great great material. 12 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,959 Speaker 1: I love it, love it. G four. Let's do a collab, 13 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: oh please, and we'll be on a G four or five. Interesting. 14 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: I'm really bad about buying merch from like those kinds 15 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: of events, But then in retrospect, I'm I was like, oh, 16 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: I want something like that. It's like commemorative and nice. 17 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,559 Speaker 1: Although I do have my Rebecca mincuff wear by Aaron 18 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: Andrews leather jacket. That's great. That's good, you know what. 19 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: That's a great club. Okay, welcome. Also that shirt that 20 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: that Neon one that I ended up being a big hit. 21 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: I love that shirt and I love that shirt when 22 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 1: you wore that day to year rehearsal. That shirt was 23 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: ended up being real cute. So how does that work 24 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: if people wanted I mean after the fact, like for me, 25 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: if I'm oh, we're going to do them next year 26 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: for next year Super Bowl, and I think we're going 27 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: to do it for the All Star Game because that 28 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: was a big hit. So giddy on up. But thanks 29 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: for the support this weekend. Yes, tell us everything. Okay, 30 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: you guys, there was an amazing event happening. I'll let 31 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: Aaron speak to it. Because you partially hosted the event. 32 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: I didn't realize you were doing so much with it, 33 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: but you were spending your time for a great cause. 34 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: Tell everyone about it. So the Los Angeles Kings and 35 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: the NHL, they really did a great event on Sunday 36 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: and they hosted kind of a celebrity game. They had 37 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: four different teams hosted by like Snoop Dogg, Will Ferrell, 38 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: Danny DeVito, Vince Vaughn, Michaels, Michael and I didn't get 39 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: to see him. There were so you dinner there. I 40 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: didn't get to see I was working noo and thank 41 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: you to Fox for giving me permission and a thumbs up. 42 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: I was told I was doing the in house kind 43 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: of like interviews of some of the LA heroes, and 44 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 1: then it went, you know, to the different stations that 45 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: were covering it. So thank you so much to our 46 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: bosses for being so sweet. It was so much fun, 47 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 1: and I was so proud of the organization and the 48 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: league and my husband. My husband worked really really hard 49 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 1: on the event. He's he's so great and I have 50 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: to tell you this, our friends in the NFL. I 51 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: was kind of giving him a hard time about it. 52 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: He uh, he reached out to Travis, he reached out 53 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:02,680 Speaker 1: to Tom, he reached out to I'm forgetting somebody else 54 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: with the NFL. He reached out to and he got 55 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: all these videos done from guys in the NFL. And 56 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, well, you got him done because 57 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: they're my friends. And he was like, babe, and he's 58 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: so sweet and so nice, and he did such a 59 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: great job getting all this stuff done. And yeah, they 60 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 1: had a lot of the first responders, they had a 61 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 1: lot of people that lost their homes. They had a 62 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: lot of people that you know, are trying to help 63 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 1: people get back to life and get back to the 64 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: real world with all of it, and they are still 65 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: running this LA Strong event and there is still time 66 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: to donate, and I'm going to make our social media 67 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: people put up the code. But it was really really 68 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: fun and these guys came out and they were skating. 69 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: I posted a picture with Mackie Babes with Justin Bieber, 70 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: which was so cute. Mark Metchnew, who I wanted a picture, 71 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: was so bad. Yeah, it was a lot, a lot 72 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: of fun and then great people like Andrew Whitwre showed up. 73 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 1: He coached a teenager. Edelman brought his daughter. We had 74 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: a big family skate before there's just in a really 75 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: neat moment. I wish I was there. I was out 76 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: of town, but I just love that. And here's the 77 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: thing about those kinds of events, to your point about 78 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 1: Jarrett and the effort, like they don't just happen. That's 79 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: a lot of time and effort for people to organize that, 80 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: and also for crypto like using you know those venues 81 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: and everything that like goes into that, but for obviously 82 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: for an incredible cause, and that's the thing too about 83 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: these you know, devastating situations, whether it's a hurricane or 84 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: whether it's the fires. Like there's the immediate help, right 85 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: there's someone's like, oh, I want to help. I want 86 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 1: to help. But then it's like as unfortunately, like life 87 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 1: moves on for people, but it's like life doesn't move 88 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 1: on for the person that's still living sometimes out of 89 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: their car or at a relative's house or at a rental. 90 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: Like if you're lucky enough you can get that's the 91 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 1: time where it's like you got to check in on 92 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: the people that are going through it because everyone helps 93 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: right at the beginning, and then you know, life moves 94 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: on and sadly like for these individuals. But it's really cool, 95 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: and you were interviewing some of the people that just 96 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: stepped in into you know, in the world that we 97 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: live in, and sometimes people are inherently selfish. When you 98 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: see people like that, like the guy that organized all 99 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: the meals and those kinds of things, it's just really 100 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: special that people step up. So kudos Jared Kings and 101 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 1: everybody who was a part of that. You Matthew Stafford 102 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 1: was the other video. I'm so sorry, but he got 103 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 1: all these guys and it was so neat. Guess who 104 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 1: got the biggest applause though when his face came up, 105 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:32,679 Speaker 1: Can you guess Travis? It was crazy. It was so wild, 106 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: like we're like, who it's really special. Yeah, he's the best. 107 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:43,559 Speaker 1: I love that we are in our our re entry 108 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: off season phase. Aaron just got back home. I'm coming 109 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: back home in a couple of days. Avoiding reality, but 110 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: we have a lot that we want to discuss. Aaron 111 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: has stepped into the world of let them. We will 112 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: discuss that. We all so like many girlfriends do. There's 113 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: always that funny meme where it's like we communicate via 114 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: text via DMS back and forth and have multiple conversations 115 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: going with each other at the same time. Aaron sent 116 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: me a great DM that was from Kate Winslet that 117 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 1: resonated with both of us. We'll talk about that. We 118 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: got a re entry update. I was saying how last 119 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: week when we were talking, how I need to be 120 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: less bitchy about things and let stuff go. So I'll 121 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: fill you guys in on that, and then also just 122 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: what's happening in our world of off season. I know 123 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 1: it's not really an off season because this gal's already 124 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: booked and busy. She's got a lunch date, so we're 125 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: recording this podcast early so she can go. But all right, 126 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: so that's what you were up to over the weekend. 127 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: You also before we jumped on here, and you told 128 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: me that you started reading the Mel Robbins phenomenon. That is, 129 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: let them your thoughts. I know you're early on, but 130 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,679 Speaker 1: why did you want to pick up this book? And 131 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: now there's dogs barking out there. I don't know much 132 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 1: about Mels. I just she ended up being on my algorithm, 133 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: which was refreshing, and I stopped and I listened and 134 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: watched her clips from her podcast, and I started sending 135 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: them to you, and I think Constance was sending them 136 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: to me, and I just was like, okay, I don't 137 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: this is a time where I'm not reading the daily 138 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: clips about whatever game I'm covering. Let's do something useful 139 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: besides watching Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, which I 140 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: am deep into right now. I need an update on that. 141 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: I haven't seen anything since you told me to watch 142 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: the one that went to like got arrested and was like, yeah, 143 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: there's a lot happening. Okay, I don't know anything. I 144 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: need a recap there. It's so good, Like I don't 145 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: do that during the season because I just feel guilty 146 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: and I don't really have time. So now I'm full 147 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: blown in this is like when I'm doing my skincare 148 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: routine or I'm like plucking or whatever, I've got it 149 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: on in the bathroom, like it's making me happy, or 150 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: I'm purging or I'm trying to put stuff away. It's on, 151 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: Like it's on, I'm happy. But then to balance out 152 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: the trash and I'm not calling those women trash, but 153 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: let's you know, just like bing like yeah, reality tale, 154 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: it's reality television. Yeah. I was like, I want to 155 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: start reading this book. I need. I'm interested, and I 156 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: really love the vibe of let Them Now. I'm not 157 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 1: there yet. I only got like ten pages in and 158 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: that was her introduction about the five second what is 159 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: it method that she does, which I thought that was 160 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: fascinating because she for those of you that haven't joined 161 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: the phenomenon that is the let Them train, It's this 162 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 1: idea that she was getting. You know, she was unmotivated 163 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: and she was just like lying in bed and she 164 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: was had this theory that like a space shuttle, like 165 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: five four three two one, and just get yourself out 166 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: of bed, just propel yourself and so just something sit 167 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: as simple as that was sort of I think that 168 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: was her first book, right, that was her first book. 169 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: But then anyways, that idea of just you got to 170 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: start somewhere, and so that was something. But then the 171 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: let them theory is predicted on something that her son. 172 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: I think it touched about it. Anyways, I'll let you 173 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: guys read the book. You don't want me to tell 174 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: it because you're further than I am. Tell me what 175 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 1: you've gotten out of it so far and what's resonated 176 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 1: with you. What do you love? Yeah, I mean even 177 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: just that theory of not or the theory that don't 178 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: you can't control the things you can't control. So the 179 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: idea for her came about when her son was going 180 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: to homecoming and he didn't have a reservation for a 181 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: restaurant and her daughter was like, who cares if he 182 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: doesn't have a reservation, Like, let him deal with the 183 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: fact that he's going to get to the restaurant and 184 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 1: they're not going to be full. Or the cursage she 185 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: didn't get a carssage or whatever is it called curso 186 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 1: for the his date, or that he didn't have the 187 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 1: tucks or all these things, and like the mother wanted 188 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: to she wanted to control this, like we have to 189 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 1: get a touch, you have to get a reservation. You 190 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: haven't done that, like, oh my god. And so the 191 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 1: daughter's like just let him, let him fail and all 192 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 1: of these things. But ultimately, like he had a great 193 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 1: time and it didn't matter that he didn't have the reservation. 194 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:57,679 Speaker 1: It didn't matter. So that theory applied to everyday life 195 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: is if you don't get invited to a bunch of 196 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: your girlfriends at a brunch and you didn't because you 197 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: on Instagram or whatever and you didn't get invited, instead 198 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: of being upset about it, you're like, well, just let 199 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: them like that was they wanted to go to brunch, 200 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: you weren't invited, Like, don't obsess about the things that 201 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: you can't control. Yeah, And so if somebody wants to 202 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: be in a bad mood, like if Steve, Steve doesn't 203 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: wake up at a bad But I'm just saying like, if 204 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: you know somebody's upset about something, you know, like let them, 205 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 1: Like that's their problem, it's not yours to take on. 206 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 1: So just that continuous ideas is sort of what and again, 207 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: what page am I know, I'm pretty pretty part I'm 208 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: on page No, I'm only on page forty one. I'm 209 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: on that part of let them a tool to implement wisdom. 210 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: But anyways, so my sister and my niece are both 211 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 1: reading this book as well, and I just I like, 212 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: I like that it's become something that everyone, not everyone, 213 00:10:56,800 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: but a lot of people are adapting and adopting because 214 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: it's clear that we all tried to meddle in things 215 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,719 Speaker 1: that or control aspects of our life. And so if 216 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: this book has resonated with so many people, that means 217 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: that everyone needs to just fucking chill out a little bit, 218 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,560 Speaker 1: you know. I mean, there's a reason that in this 219 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 1: book they talk about people have like are getting tattoos, 220 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: and what if my niece got a tattoo with this? 221 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: But just I don't know, I think hopefully, if there's 222 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: like this wave of people that are all operating with 223 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: a new intention of just being more chill, then maybe 224 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:31,679 Speaker 1: it has a I don't know, maybe it has a 225 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: resounding effect somewhere. Maybe she's always something. I love how 226 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: she said. And again, I'm only ten pages in, but 227 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: she talked about how she was she was asked to 228 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: speak at something and she had a nineteen minute panic 229 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: attack throughout it, and then she blanked out and she 230 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: ended up talking about the five second method was something 231 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: she wasn't even going to discuss, and little did you know, 232 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: that was the beginning of Ted Talk, and she blew 233 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 1: the fuck up. That's amazing. And so what you think 234 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: in your own mind might be like your worst moment 235 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 1: could end up helping. But I think there's a lot 236 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: of that too in vulnerability. You and I and know 237 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: even when the therapy that I've been through in my life, 238 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: it was it's all about for me in particular, it's 239 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:15,559 Speaker 1: been about vulnerability that the more vulnerable I've been, the better. 240 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 1: The more success I've had in relationships, the more success 241 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: I've had in friendships, the more success that I've just had, 242 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: even in work relationships where I've said to my boss 243 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: like I'm really sorry, or I got that wrong. That 244 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: one's on me. You know, like in basketball when someone 245 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: commits a turnover and they run back down the court 246 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,079 Speaker 1: and they're like chap tap their chest like my bad 247 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: or you know, you see Baker Mayfield did it. I 248 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: saw him do in the playoff game and he fumbled 249 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: or something, and he was like sitting on the bench 250 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: and he kept going to his team. He's like, my bad, 251 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: like taking responsibility for your mistakes or your actions. I 252 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: think that there's also so much to be said about that, 253 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm excited. I'm glad that you're reading it too. 254 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 1: So let's maybe so we catch up and we can 255 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 1: do it together. Oh calm down. Book club, Yeah, I 256 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: would love that, andbody else that wants to jump on 257 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,680 Speaker 1: board if you haven't already, let's just do it together. 258 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,440 Speaker 1: I think it would be really fun and then something 259 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: we can discuss to that. I've always wanted to be 260 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: in a book club. My friends had a dirty book club, 261 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 1: but I just it started, like, you know, then going 262 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: into football, and I was like, listen, these clubs are 263 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: as dirty as they can be. You know, I just can't. 264 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: I've never read a dirty novel, although I did just 265 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: open up to chapter thirteen, which is very apropos how 266 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: to create the best friendships of your life cut Yeah yeah, no, no, no, 267 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it was like that was a side 268 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: note on this thing, but yeah, jump on board. They 269 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: let them train I've never read a dirty novel? Did 270 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:43,559 Speaker 1: you ever have to hide it? Like? Yeah, we talked 271 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: about this, like I was trying to keep up with 272 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: the book club. By the way, right now, what I'm doing, 273 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: I'm telling the book club story, but I'm also trying 274 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 1: to see what other books does old Mel Robbins have 275 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:57,199 Speaker 1: because it's exciting. I letting them very five second one. Right, 276 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: that was for sure? We go Yeah the half did 277 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: Mel Robin on the podcast here and I know she's busy. 278 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: Take Control of your life was in twenty nineteen. The 279 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 1: high five is a journal, work it out the high 280 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 1: five five second rule and let them This is great. 281 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to be a new mean watch out watch 282 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: Out world. Okay, so we're not going to get that 283 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 1: let them tattoos just because I already have too many 284 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: tattoos that I shouldn't have gotten. Not that this would 285 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: be bad, but anyways, but Aaron, you and I do 286 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: need to do a couple of things. We're going to 287 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: give ourselves an off season to do list a trip, 288 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 1: another earring. Also, we talked about it on the pregame. 289 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: Aaron and I are going to we don't know where yet, 290 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 1: we don't know what we're going to do. But we 291 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: have to do a vacation together in the off season. 292 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: You know what's crazy, though the off season is already over. 293 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 1: It's over. I mean we talk about I lost over. 294 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: I was like, we have to sit down and do 295 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 1: a schedule because every time I turn around in an email, 296 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: something's popping up and I'm like, wait, why is this already? 297 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: I'm the summer's gone. I don't like that feeling. I 298 00:15:10,160 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: don't like that feeling at all. So we have to 299 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: build in some stuff because if not, oh yeah, we're screwed. 300 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm excited about like events and dates, but I hate 301 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: getting the email where it's like, hey, it's on this 302 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: date or it's something's on this date. No, I don't 303 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 1: want to do any dates. Like our nanny the other 304 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: day just said to me, when are you going out 305 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: of town? Again? When are you doing this? And I said, 306 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, because I think it's like with football, 307 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: you are so it's such a routine. There's such a schedule. 308 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 1: I got on Thursday, I've got this feature Friday, I've 309 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: got the game on Sunday. I like acting like I 310 00:15:44,480 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 1: don't know what anything is. Now I know I've got 311 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 1: stuff coming up. We're going to Tampa together. We're going 312 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 1: to do on podcast at the Tampa Bay Buccaneers Women Summit. 313 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: Excited for that, yep, hearing rumors about who may stop buy, 314 00:15:56,240 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: which could be super fun and a time. By the way, 315 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: But I like acting like I'm loosey goosey right now 316 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 1: and I don't have a schedule. But summer's over. Off 317 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: season is over. Yeah, it's already done, do you Because 318 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: when I'm here at the ranch, I am well, I 319 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: just billed half mine. I am very It's so I 320 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: don't know if you're like this. I like doing things 321 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: here that I don't like doing at home, emptying the dishwasher, 322 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: doing laundry, like okay, I was wondering if you had 323 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: that same thing, Like I wake up here early, like 324 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: i'm here like, well, I guess the same kind of 325 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: time in LA between six thirty seven's like late, get up, 326 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: I feed the animals. I have my own little routine there. 327 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: I make my coffee, I go for a walk with 328 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 1: the dogs up to this one little area that I like. 329 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: And then I like doing the tasks that I hate 330 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: doing at home, like all the homemaker stuff. I make 331 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: cookies the other day, Like I don't make fucking cookies 332 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: at home, Like what I know. I'm such a like 333 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 1: homemaker here. And as I was folding tells this morning, 334 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: I thought to myself, like, I could totally be a 335 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 1: stay at home mom. I don't have any kids, but 336 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 1: like I thought to myself, like I could do that. 337 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: I probably couldn't because I'd be bored after like five seconds. 338 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 1: But I don't know. I just have this like maternal 339 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 1: thing is I don't know. I don't know. Like I 340 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 1: meet the bed because Jen was here, so I like 341 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: she She's like wanting to strip the bed. I was like, 342 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: oh no, I'll do it. I made the bed all 343 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 1: not all these things. And I'm like, I hate doing 344 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't like doing any of that shit 345 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: when I'm home. I wonder why. I like, maybe because 346 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 1: we're not in our normal routine and so it just 347 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: feels like we have the time to do it. I 348 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: don't know, but I kind of liked it because you 349 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: don't look at the ranch as like a place where 350 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 1: you know, we're at home, and it's like I got 351 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: this closet and I got to weed out. It's like 352 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 1: all my Fox, shit's in there, all my rein gear, 353 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: all the craft. It's like, that's still ranch is still 354 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:57,159 Speaker 1: kind of your vaca, your vacation. Yeah, and maybe that's 355 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: the way. I don't know, but I just thought to 356 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 1: myself and not like the stay at home but you 357 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like where it was like I 358 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 1: liked being a little homemaker and I liked, like, I 359 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 1: don't even like cooking. And I said Steve last night, 360 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,479 Speaker 1: do you want me to make you dinner? And he was like, 361 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:12,679 Speaker 1: are you okay? And I was like, well, what going 362 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 1: to make? Well? I only make three things. I can 363 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 1: only make three things taco, salads, spaghetti, and then like 364 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: breakfast for dinner. That's the extent of my cooking. I 365 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 1: don't have any And always there's this girl, Aaron O'Brien 366 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: that I follow on Instagram. She is amazing. She does 367 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 1: all of these like quick recipes. I have never made 368 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:31,880 Speaker 1: one of her recipes, but I go in a deep 369 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: day of watching them. You have Yeah, I forgot what 370 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: it was. I made one of her recipes one time. 371 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: You told me about her, so I tried. She makes 372 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 1: one to try so easy wine. Don't this is any 373 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: measuring cops. What the hell, No, they don't. And that's 374 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: the thing where I'm like, I want to be that person, 375 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: and so maybe I'm I don't know, I don't know. 376 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: Should I try other than reading? Reading? Other than reading? 377 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: What else we do? I think we should have a 378 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 1: checklist for our quote off season, even though we already 379 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: say it's over, but before football season starts again. I 380 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 1: think it's important and for anybody else out there, we'd 381 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 1: love some advice, like things that we should do, we 382 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 1: should finish. Obviously, that's embarrassing if we can't finish one book. 383 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 1: So we got to finish this book. Yeah, we'll finish 384 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:24,240 Speaker 1: it like cook once a week. Like, let's think about 385 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: our list. Definitely the vacation, we need to clean out 386 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:31,639 Speaker 1: our closets, our purses, all that stuff. Yeah, and then 387 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: we need to do something volunteer wise. I don't know. 388 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: I'm coming up with a lot of ideas. But then 389 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 1: I think we'll feel very like accomplished by the time 390 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: the season rolls around again, and we won't be mad like, 391 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: oh my god, the whole off season went by and 392 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: we didn't do anything that was a real mel Robins thing. 393 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: I think I sent that to you like, do a checklist, 394 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,959 Speaker 1: like if you are starting on Sunday night to have 395 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,399 Speaker 1: anxiety for the week ahead, like think of the things 396 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,919 Speaker 1: you need to get done and write them down. But 397 00:19:56,040 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 1: I have list, so sister, but I am not. I 398 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: have so many lests. Another thing that you sent me 399 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:10,199 Speaker 1: was Kate Winslet. Yeah, had spoke to me. Okay, so 400 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: do you explain what it was because I don't know 401 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 1: who did this. I don't know if you were able 402 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: to put that together the voices behind it. But there 403 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 1: was some interview that somebody did. It looked recently with 404 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: Kate Winslet and they went back and looked at I 405 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: don't know if it was like a fashion kind of 406 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: show of her. She was on a red carpet and 407 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 1: it must have been promoting Titanic, and they were speaking 408 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: about how they thought her dress size was a little 409 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: too small for her body and they played that in 410 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 1: front of her, and the interviewer was asking if she 411 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 1: ever confronted the people that said the nasty things about her, 412 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: and she said she did, and the interviewer asked what 413 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: she said to them, and she said, I hope that 414 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: haunts you. And that just spoke to me mmm hmmm, 415 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: And I was like, the girl, look at this because 416 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 1: which by the way, let me tell you, working at Fox, 417 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: they have this archive, like you can see some of 418 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: the amazing costumes from different movies and shows and all 419 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: this kind of stuff. Kate Winslet's dressed the famed dress. 420 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: Where was the black with the maroon like underlay and 421 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: it had the beads. It was like the first one 422 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: I think that you see that she's in from like 423 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: the dinner the night that like Leo's there, this dress, 424 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 1: the waiste size on it is like this big. It 425 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 1: is so tiny. So the fact that she was fat 426 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: shamed at all is fucking insane, like and it's I know, 427 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: it's you know, so many conversations about unrealistic expectations for 428 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,880 Speaker 1: women and their bodies and the whole thing. But as 429 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 1: it pertained to this, that quote of saying I hope 430 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: it haunts them, I think there's a little bit again 431 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 1: this reoccurring theme where let them if they want to 432 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: say something about you, if they want to fact shame you, 433 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 1: or if they want to say you're not this, or 434 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: they want to let them that's on them, and I 435 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: hope it haunts them. I hope they have to live 436 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 1: with that thing instead of letting it be a problem 437 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 1: for her or having her feel bad about it, like, no, 438 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,919 Speaker 1: that's their shit, not mine. Like I like that projection 439 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 1: of not projection, but like pushing off of internalizing it, 440 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: like just no, get you get to live with the 441 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: fact that you're an asshole, like that's your problem, not mine, 442 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: because we know somewhere it's like instead of absorbing that 443 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 1: and letting it be something we lose sleep at at 444 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:48,520 Speaker 1: night over people that have you know. And by the way, 445 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm not a saint, but I definitely know a few people. 446 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: I hope it haunts them. Wait they act you know 447 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: what I mean? So that's great. We love Kate Winslet 448 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:04,439 Speaker 1: we love to summarize. But yeah, we're real girls girls, 449 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. But all that is good. We have 450 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 1: a lot to be thankful for. We have a lot 451 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 1: of exciting things coming up. We're going to make a 452 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: list of all the stuff that we wanted to do. Well, 453 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: hold on, how's your re entry going? Can we get enough? 454 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: Because you were upset about somebody in their loud talking. 455 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: How are you guys doing? Where are you with re entry? Better? 456 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:43,199 Speaker 1: Because even in taking my own advice of our is 457 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: we posted and when our clips came out, when I'm 458 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: like hearing myself, I don't want to be bitchy. I 459 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,720 Speaker 1: don't want to be controlling. Steve is so wonderful to me, 460 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,399 Speaker 1: especially during the off seats or during the season, and 461 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: just taking care of shit at home. So re entry 462 00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,679 Speaker 1: is going better because I'm putting it on myself to 463 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: be more mature about some stuff. Some stuff's good. English's 464 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 1: like English. I'm trying to be better with English stuff. 465 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:15,199 Speaker 1: But also I think it's just being honest about like 466 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:19,120 Speaker 1: I because we're together all the time, you guys are, 467 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: and it's fine because I like him, but like up here, 468 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,439 Speaker 1: like we're in the middle of nowhere, so it's not 469 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: like we're even like going into town and like hanging 470 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: out with you know, the people. Like it's just last night, 471 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,920 Speaker 1: I was just like looking, He's sent me a text. 472 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 1: I was out doing somebody. He goes, hey, do you 473 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: want to come back to the house, And we just 474 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: sit at each other, sit on the couch and stare 475 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,600 Speaker 1: at each other. That's the text I got. I go, sure, 476 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: I'll be down in twenty minutes. We sat on the 477 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 1: couch and it was actually really nice. Steve doesn't like TV, 478 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: doesn't not into watching TV. He doesn't share. I always 479 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: know that if this guy would have TV's taken out 480 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: of his house, if it wasn't for sports. That's the 481 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: only thing he likes to watch. Every time he goes, oh, 482 00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,159 Speaker 1: what are we going to watch? Another? D Dateline? Season 483 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: forty two, episode seven. I love Dateline? He goes, Oh, murder, 484 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 1: kill kill. All you want to watch is murder? He goes, 485 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: can we watch a comedy? But yeah, he is not 486 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 1: a TV person. I will catch him sitting in a 487 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 1: room listening to Art Pepper, this like jazz musician, and 488 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: just staring at the ceiling and I'm like, huh, I 489 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,400 Speaker 1: go what does that do to you? And he goes 490 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 1: helps me relax? He goes TV I just like get 491 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,119 Speaker 1: inundated and gives me anxiety about like killing and murder. 492 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: And I was like, really, because killing and murder makes 493 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 1: me relax because now I don't have to think about 494 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: all the things I'm supposed to be doing. I just 495 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 1: think about how great my life is because it's not 496 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: that so I don't know it's going good. We just 497 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: have to like balance out. I just I miss you. 498 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: I think I need a little airon too. Well. Yeah, 499 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:51,199 Speaker 1: I can't get a hold of this chick. She's watching 500 00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 1: Dayline and feeding the cows. Where are my friend? So busy? 501 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: So it's been two weeks actually, so yeah, I'm ready 502 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 1: to see my girlfriend. Hopefully we get together this weekend. 503 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: And I miss Mac. I haven't seen mag what's Mac 504 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: been up to? He's busy, fifteen years old. I see 505 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: the picture of him and Justin Bieber, which, by the way, 506 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: he looks like Justin Bieber. Yeah, and somebody actually said 507 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,360 Speaker 1: that to me before I forgot who did. I think 508 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:18,919 Speaker 1: it was somebody at the super Bowl. It was like, 509 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: your kid looks like Justin Bieber. I was like really, 510 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 1: And so he's he is cute. He was so good 511 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,800 Speaker 1: at that La Strong event we brought him. They were 512 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 1: so loosey goosey about letting him in the locker room. 513 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:34,360 Speaker 1: He was hanging out with dad. Dad was sending me skates. 514 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 1: I know those are the Copauitar's sons. Yakub skates is 515 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,919 Speaker 1: so sweet and Jared was like skating with him on 516 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 1: the ice and he loves going fast. That was really fun. 517 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 1: He's good, he's busy, he all right, let's talk about it. 518 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,239 Speaker 1: What do we get talk about it? I get it. 519 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 1: He's nineteen months. This is where I am in my life. 520 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 1: We had our babies late. With our baby late, I 521 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,720 Speaker 1: was around a lot of people that were having babies 522 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 1: for many years, and I was sitting back and observing. 523 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,679 Speaker 1: I went on a lot of family vacations with people 524 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 1: that had kids. I was all my friends from the 525 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: La Kings at the time had babies. So I got 526 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 1: to observe a lot of stuff. I realized what I 527 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: really liked and what I didn't like. And what I 528 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 1: don't like are kids that have free rein and that 529 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: aren't well behaved. What I do like is somebody like 530 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 1: Greg Olsen who has children that walk in, look you 531 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,640 Speaker 1: in the eye, shake your hand, and is very are 532 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: very respectable. Now I've gone to dinner with Greg and 533 00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,119 Speaker 1: I've sat next to both of his kids, and Greg 534 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,120 Speaker 1: is trying to talk to me and he has said, hey, 535 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,639 Speaker 1: it's adult time. Now. I love it. Like listen, no 536 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,639 Speaker 1: kid is a saint, No adult is a saint. But 537 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: I realize what I want out of a kid. I'm 538 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 1: also having a big struggle of when you learn to 539 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm not say discipline, but rack oh yeah, okay. We 540 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,879 Speaker 1: went to sushi the other night Jared had to work, 541 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,679 Speaker 1: and I love our nanny and she's so great, and 542 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,959 Speaker 1: I said, hey, can I take you to sushi tonight? 543 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: And twofold can Matt come too? And I think it's 544 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 1: so important to socialize him, and you know, I want 545 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: him to sit down and have a meal with me. Now. 546 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 1: Are there times he needs an iPad? Sure, but I 547 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,120 Speaker 1: also really get a kick of the fact she's great 548 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 1: to show him you don't need it, and we never 549 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 1: had that. We went to dinner with our parents and 550 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: I never had that. Yeah, here's a coloring book and 551 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,400 Speaker 1: color crans from the hostess exactly. The one thing I 552 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 1: love about our nanny, Barbara is she is really great 553 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: in teaching me how to do things. She is like, Okay, 554 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: let's do it this way, let's try it this way, 555 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 1: And so I feel confident and comfortable because I also 556 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 1: have a huge insecurity that I haven't been around for 557 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,960 Speaker 1: six months and I want to do it how they've 558 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: done it, so I don't mess up the schedule any 559 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: whot nanny, my man is not talking yet, but we 560 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: are saying something dad, my momm okay, great. He is 561 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:12,200 Speaker 1: so smart. He is very attentive, but we have not 562 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 1: figured out how to lower our voice yet, and we 563 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: have stayed while they are related out of nowhere. At Izakaya, 564 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 1: which is a very small sushi restaurant in our town, 565 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:31,960 Speaker 1: one of our favorites. He wasn't pissed, he wasn't happy. 566 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: He was just in four loud shrieks where the entire 567 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: restaurant turned and looked at me. His father is not there, 568 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 1: and I'm mortified. And I looked at Barbara and I go, 569 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: what do we do? What do we do? What do 570 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: we do? She goes, it's okay, you're okay, Matt. We 571 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:56,239 Speaker 1: do not yell at the restaurant. We're good. It was 572 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 1: that at the end of the meal, he had had 573 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: such a great meal, we gave him ice. But then 574 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: in the back of my head, I'm like, am I rougar? Oh? 575 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: What am I doing? Because Barbara had said to me 576 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: he did that at the park. Everybody turned and looked, 577 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 1: and she said, We're not doing that. We're going to 578 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 1: behave I went home that night and I texted one 579 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 1: of my girlfriends who has kids, and I just said, 580 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,719 Speaker 1: at what point. I don't even know if I can 581 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: look at him the same after that, because everybody looked 582 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, what point of I'm like, no, 583 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: I wanted to grab him run out, and she's like, 584 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 1: he's nineteen months. He's understand. That's just where I am 585 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: right now. I know what I want out of a kid, 586 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,400 Speaker 1: and I don't know when to start. She said, you know, 587 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: you have to say like, hey, let's not do this. 588 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 1: We're in a place, but he doesn't know what the 589 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 1: help but he does, but he doesn't. Yeah, okay, look 590 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 1: I will step in here only to say this. I 591 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: obviously I don't have children. I did grow up. My 592 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 1: mom did daycare for us when we were growing up 593 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,160 Speaker 1: because you wanted to stay home with us, and it 594 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 1: was a way for her to make money. So I 595 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: was always around kids. I was a nanny. I started 596 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: watching it an eleven nine month old when I was 597 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: eleven years old, and then stayed with that family until 598 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 1: I graduated high school. Shout out to the Luhamburgers, and 599 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,120 Speaker 1: they had three kids, and I would go on vacation 600 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: with them and I was the one that would travel 601 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: and I was responsible for, you know, when they wanted 602 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: to go out to dinner, I was with the kids 603 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: and all that kind of stuff. The only thing I 604 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 1: will say about that is like distraction right where it's 605 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 1: And again I'm not the professional nanny that you have, 606 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 1: so I will only say from my own experience, is 607 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: that same reason for kids on airplanes. I feel for them. 608 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 1: They don't know what they're doing, their ears are popping, 609 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: it feels weird. They're in a confined space, and it's 610 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 1: like they want to move. Especially he's at an age 611 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 1: where it's like he wants to move, he wants to 612 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: do things, and so it's like busy. I don't know 613 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: about the yelling part, but like that's just more of like, okay, 614 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 1: we don't do that. But like I always feel for 615 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 1: kids when they're like in a situation and they just 616 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 1: want constant distraction, Like take the credit cards out of 617 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 1: your wallet to give them something to do. Here's a 618 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 1: color cran, here's a oh my god, do you see 619 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 1: a bird outside? Like just constantly like give them something 620 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 1: else to do so that they're not like I'm trapped 621 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 1: in this high chair or whatever. Again, I'm not speaking 622 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: to that situation that you have. I'm only thinking about 623 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: the things that I do with kids. And that's the 624 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: part too, where it's like you have went forty to 625 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 1: forty five years without having a child, and now your whole. 626 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: I'm so proud of you though, like no one prepares 627 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: you for that. Your whole, like your whole and your 628 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: whole work. But here I'm gonna say this, and I 629 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 1: don't have an interjection. You guys, Aaron may sit on 630 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: here and she's vulnerable about the things that she doesn't 631 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 1: know and all that kind of stuff. She is the 632 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 1: most amazing mom. You will show me pictures of him 633 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 1: sleeping in his crip, will look at the little monitor, 634 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,720 Speaker 1: and you'll show me the pain. You are such a 635 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 1: good mother, and I'm really proud of you, like no 636 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,000 Speaker 1: one prepares you for how to do that. But I 637 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,479 Speaker 1: know that this is like you imagine, you wanted this 638 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 1: for so long and now you have this perfect little boy. 639 00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: And so if he screams at the restaurant, yeah whatever, 640 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: it's true. I was actually thinking of this the other 641 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 1: day and I said this to Jarrett. And I'm very 642 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 1: very also grateful for our help that we have and 643 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: we have such a good team in place, and we 644 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,960 Speaker 1: are so thankful because whatever, but we are so grateful 645 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 1: for our group. But because it does take a village. 646 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: The other day when we got home from Montana, we're back, 647 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: We're in our Routineer goes to the office. I was, 648 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: you know, with him for a bit. Then I went 649 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 1: to work out, and I was saying to Jarrett, my god, 650 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:37,640 Speaker 1: this is how it's supposed to be. We have such 651 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 1: a lovely like team working with us. But this is 652 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: how it is when you don't aren't working and you're 653 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 1: not traveling to Green Bay, or you're not worried about 654 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,720 Speaker 1: getting on a conference call. Like I will say this 655 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: and not to toot my own horn, it's fucking hard to 656 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: do this for a full time job and traveling and 657 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 1: not even traveling like I think of all the football 658 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 1: stories we read where guys talk about their mom and 659 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 1: how they had three to four jobs and they didn't 660 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,160 Speaker 1: see their mom during the day and then at night 661 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 1: the mom went to work while they went to bed, 662 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 1: and my mom would go exactly like that is fucking hard. 663 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,240 Speaker 1: Like And I'm not saying I didn't give myself enough credit, 664 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,800 Speaker 1: but I sat there the last six months thinking about 665 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 1: what a failure I was because I was like God, 666 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: I'm like half asking it with foxing, though I wasn't 667 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,800 Speaker 1: half asking it with my kid. It is so hard 668 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 1: to do all that. I will sit and I try 669 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: to remind you of this. My mom worked three jobs, 670 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: my dad was working all the time, like all of 671 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: this stuff. And there's never a time, ever, ever, a 672 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: time where I look back at my childhood and I 673 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: was like, oh, I wasn't loved. All I think about 674 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 1: was I was loved, and my parents were working so 675 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 1: hard so I could have that extra They could make 676 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,000 Speaker 1: a hundred oll My mom would make a hundred dollars 677 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 1: at the restaurant, working at a restaurant night so I 678 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,399 Speaker 1: could go join the select basketball team where I could 679 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,479 Speaker 1: get the new basketball shoes. Like you have to give 680 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 1: yourself the credit, like your kid sitting in that high 681 00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 1: chair watching you do that postgame interview and pointing at 682 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 1: the screen and saying, Mama, like I like cried watching 683 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 1: that video. And it's not even my kid. It's just 684 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 1: the fact that like he he sees you working like 685 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 1: that is a beautiful thing. And by the way, if 686 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 1: you don't work, if you stay at home with your 687 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 1: kid all day, that's almost the joy. The hardest job. 688 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 1: I imagine that's the everest job is everybody always says 689 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 1: is the hardest job in the world because it's constant. 690 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: So I think all of this is about giving yourself 691 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 1: grace and knowing Like when you got Howie as a puppy, 692 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 1: he would dig, he would chew on things, whatever. How 693 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 1: he's grown up and he's a great dog like mas 694 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,359 Speaker 1: a baby, he's like gonna try things until But I'm 695 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 1: really really proud of you and I hope that you're 696 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: seeing like instead of instead of focusing on the like, 697 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 1: oh I'm not this or I'm not that, like, I 698 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 1: really hope you give yourself the like this is a 699 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,319 Speaker 1: whole different set of you know, things in life that 700 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 1: no one prepares you for and even if you've been 701 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 1: very vocal, you're lucky enough to have help and it's 702 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: so really hard. Yeah, yeah, I I love you. Answers 703 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 1: you know, you know went in out. So this in 704 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 1: to summarize. Mel Robbins, we would love for you to 705 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 1: come on the Calm Down Podcast us like you're now 706 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: innumerable amount of fans appreciate that you have the vulnerability 707 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,040 Speaker 1: to put this down writing so you can help all 708 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,959 Speaker 1: of us be better people and just less stressed out 709 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,359 Speaker 1: or less you know, upset about things that don't matter 710 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 1: and that we can't control. I'm going to go look 711 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,359 Speaker 1: for a new recipe to cook and fold some more 712 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,839 Speaker 1: laundry because this is the things I like to do now. 713 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 1: And I love you and I'm going to see you 714 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,040 Speaker 1: this weekend. I can't wait to view. Yeah, let's figure 715 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,399 Speaker 1: that out. How they tacked? Yep. Okay, you guys, thank 716 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 1: you for listening way in and buy the book if 717 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 1: you haven't already, because we're going to continue to talk 718 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 1: about it. Play along you. Calm Down with Aaron and 719 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:57,239 Speaker 1: Carissa is a production of iHeart Radio. 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