WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Flea Market Find 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:00.240 Here. 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:03.280 It is just another brand new second Date podcast. Yep, yeah, 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:07.080 just that came you found it. 0:00:07.080 --> 0:00:09.879 It's Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning and today. I 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:13.480 guess it's all about like maybe stipulations. I'd say, agreements 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:17.120 before you even go out on a date, like always 0:00:17.200 --> 0:00:17.720 good y. 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:19.040 Yeah. 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:20.680 I don't know if I would have said yes to this, 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.239 but he was game. So yes, you're gonna hear her 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:26.120 in a second. But first, commenters, what do we got Alexai? 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:29.200 Yeah, Kel said, I literally will disrupt my coworkers to 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:31.440 let them know what happens on each episode. 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:35.600 They know the podcast by association, only they're hearing it 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:36.400 second hand. 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:37.040 Yeah. 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:37.680 I love that. 0:00:37.800 --> 0:00:40.560 Yeah, she's kind of like the cliff notes of our show. 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:44.360 Basically. I appreciate that about her, I really do. I 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:47.320 bet that makes their workday better. Yes, exactly, And thanks 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:47.880 for being here. 0:00:48.040 --> 0:00:50.239 Share with all your friends and family, of course, and 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:51.400 please subscribe. 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:53.480 And here's a brand new podcast. 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:58.120 Second Date Up Date. If anyone's been out on a 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:03.279 date recently, you know how expensive it can be, not 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:06.240 just for the food and drinks, but the blindfolds and 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:07.200 the rubber bands. 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:11.280 I thought you're gonna say parking Oh yeah, you. 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:13.280 Do need a place to park when before you set 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.360 up all the rubber bands. I see and I cannot 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:18.039 find one strong enough to hold my wrists down anymore. 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:19.760 Wow, I don't know that. 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:24.000 It's the tariffs. God, the tariffs on maximum strength rubber 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:27.480 bands from Indonesia. They are through the roof right now. 0:01:27.560 --> 0:01:29.760 You try the rubber bands they put on a sparagus. 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:30.640 Those are the fat boys. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:36.280 Still not strong enough, expensive, not stronger, Jeff. But that 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:38.840 was the only place that make them stronger, and they 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:41.560 cost so much money. I'm just I'm happy that our 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:44.160 listener Leo figured out how to save a buck or 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:47.200 two on his date recently, and I'm very curious how 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:49.120 he did it. So Leo, welcome to the show. 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:54.559 It's like what we get, Hello, Leo, Are the rubber 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:56.240 band tariffs hitting you hard to or. 0:01:56.240 --> 0:01:57.480 Did you rubber band yourself? 0:01:57.640 --> 0:01:59.640 Oh no, I'm still here. 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.080 I'm doing all right. 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:05.920 Okay, where you get your extra strength rubber bands from? 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:10.080 I don't typically need to get a lot of them, 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:13.359 Just save them from random mail. 0:02:13.720 --> 0:02:14.880 That's actually kind of smart. 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:16.600 Yeah, I got I got a drawer that I got 0:02:16.600 --> 0:02:17.600 too many of them. 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:22.880 Actually share well. At some point but hey, I know 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:25.240 you went on a date with somebody recently. What's her name? 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:26.640 And Marissa? 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:28.600 Okay, where'd you meet her? 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:33.680 We matched on Bumbo and we connected over love of dogs. 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:37.600 You know, we have two dogs, and it's just we 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:39.160 we can't get enough of them. I mean, if we 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:41.639 lived in bigger places, then we probably have more than 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:44.160 just two, you know what I mean, like. 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:49.960 One hundred and one Dalmatians that Movieah okay, but you 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:51.880 said in your email you were able to save some 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:53.840 money on your date. How did you do that? 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:54.839 Oh? 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:59.079 Yeah, So when we matched at first, she was very 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:01.200 clear that she wanted to be friends. She didn't want 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.720 to jump into anything like relationship. Here we go, she's 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:05.520 really yeah. 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:05.919 Yeah. 0:03:05.960 --> 0:03:09.240 So I suggested after we matched, just grabbing a coffee, 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.880 but she countered with, how about we go to a 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:12.680 flea market. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:19.400 Oh okay, that's how you saved me. I was gonna say, 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:21.280 that's how you saved money on your day with the 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:22.520 flea market discounts. 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.079 Yeah, I was willing to spend it. It was her idea. 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:26.720 Yeah, that's awesome. 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.320 I think it's impressive that you are good with being 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:31.040 friends first. 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:32.080 Yeah. 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:35.360 Yeah, I wouldn't do that, but that's great that I'm 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:36.920 sort of the kind of guy that doesn't really want 0:03:36.960 --> 0:03:40.920 to jump into anything too fast myself. So I do 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:44.720 have friends that are women, so like, if we decide 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:47.320 that it doesn't work out, it's like, okay, well if 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:49.440 we're at that friendship level first, and we can stay 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:52.360 that way, and then you know, it's a positive. 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:56.080 I love that when you're like naturally friends fertally. But 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.400 what Brooke was saying too, to be like, I'm setting 0:03:58.440 --> 0:04:00.760 the tone friend zone right away. It's good that you 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:01.320 worked with that. 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:03.680 Yeah, it's refreshing. I guess it's the SA. 0:04:04.000 --> 0:04:06.400 So take us to the flea market though. How did 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:06.680 that go? 0:04:08.160 --> 0:04:11.680 It went okay, which is better than okay, which is 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:15.280 kind of weird to me. Why I haven't heard from 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:17.840 her since then. But before I get into that, yeah, 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.680 we met up there and she looked like her pictures. 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:23.360 Thank god, she was really really cute. 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:25.400 I didn't want a friend that looks like somebody else. 0:04:27.360 --> 0:04:29.920 A friend thing does make it different, now, yeah, yeah, 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:31.880 that's right. You can't really judge that. 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.040 Okay, So she was excited to be there too, and 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:37.680 bargain hunt and all that, and we walked around that 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:42.080 flea market for a good hour and a half to see. 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:43.800 Yeah, what did you get into? Like a crate of 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:47.400 old used VHS tapes or rubber bands? 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:50.919 Favorite y Yeah, no rubber bands, but we did see vhs. 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:53.000 There was a station that had a lot of those. 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:56.120 Oh yeah, man, shocking, they're not selling so quickly. 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:01.120 Has the machines to play them. Okay, So how was 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:02.680 your connection with Marissa? 0:05:03.160 --> 0:05:05.880 It was good, And I know that sometimes for these things, 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:09.000 you guys ask what we talked about. We actually talked 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:11.760 about taxidermy, what. 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:17.159 Friends don't to find a couple of girls? 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:20.440 Or yeah we saw a boot for that actually third 0:05:20.480 --> 0:05:22.919 text to Durmy and uh. In fact, there was actually 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:28.119 a fox there with a monocle on. So Marissa thought 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:31.920 that it looks like elegance and I thought it looked 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:34.640 straight up haunted. I was like, I would never let. 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:35.680 That into my home. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.560 Stuff fox, Well, that sounds like a funny point of 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:41.479 conversation one moments. 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:42.000 Yeah, it was. 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.559 It was did you guys buy anything take anything home? 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:45.440 Yeah? 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:48.200 We each got one thing. I got a Fleetwood Mac 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:51.400 record and she got one of those novelty aprons where 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:56.000 it looks like there's a shirtless firefighter on the front. 0:05:55.800 --> 0:06:01.599 I like her cool. So is that is that it? 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.080 Well, yeah, that's it. We each got the one thing 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:06.720 and then I walked her back to her place, and 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:09.520 on the way back it was starting to get kind 0:06:09.520 --> 0:06:12.320 of chilly, so I gave her my jacket and when 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:13.960 we got to her place, I was like, oh, yeah, 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:15.440 you could just you can just hang on to it 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:19.080 because I was so confident that we would meet up again, 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:23.239 because that's how well the first date went. And now 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:25.960 she's not answering any of my text or calls, and 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:28.680 it's like, Hey, as much as I would like to 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:32.680 see Marissa, I would also like my jacket back. 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:33.240 Yeah. 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:36.479 You know, if you think about it, this cheap date 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:38.440 actually costs you a lot of money if you lose 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:39.040 that jacket. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:39.560 Room. 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:41.480 Yeah, taxidermy is not cheap. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:42.480 Chap I could. 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:48.159 Yeah that didn't happen, Thank god, not his house. 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.719 Yeah right, how long has it been since the Flea 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:51.320 market date? 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:53.520 It's been about two weeks. 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.160 Oh, you've gone with the jacket for two weeks. 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.320 That's jacket. 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:02.039 I don't know favor if you wore it, I know, 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:04.160 and the one he feels like he looks good. 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.760 Yeah, yeah, it is my favorite jacket. I've got like 0:07:06.800 --> 0:07:08.880 one or two others, but they're not they're on my favorite. 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:09.080 Ye know. 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:12.400 Oh man, this is dire Jeffrey, I know. 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:14.840 This is code red. We're going to reach out and 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:17.960 call Marissa, try and get you one your jacket back, 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.720 and then two possibly another meet up with her when 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:23.640 we do your second date update coming up right after 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:29.640 this second date update. Friends ghost each other, right. 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:33.480 Yeah, I mean, I mean politely, Yeah, eventually you get 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:34.040 back together. 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:37.200 Alexis if a friend wore the same outfit as you, 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:39.880 they're getting blackballed for Like I mean. 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:41.520 I'm usually one of the copies my friend's OUTFA. 0:07:43.320 --> 0:07:47.880 Probably shouldn't talk to you. Yeah, yeah, just like. It 0:07:47.920 --> 0:07:50.360 just seems like if you agree to go out as 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:54.680 friends first, then there'd be less pressure on the like hangout, 0:07:54.720 --> 0:07:57.600 you wouldn't get ditched if you're just focused on friends, 0:07:57.600 --> 0:07:58.960 You're just focused on having a good day. 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:01.239 Maybe she's able friend. 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:05.360 It is weird because our listener Leo has not heard 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:09.280 from Marissa for the last two weeks after they hung out, 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:12.240 and the worst case scenario I'm thinking of is if 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.480 Leo goes back to that flea market and his jacket 0:08:15.520 --> 0:08:16.080 is up for. 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:19.800 Sake, warned by the fox with the monocle. 0:08:19.920 --> 0:08:23.200 Oh even worse, that would not be good, Leo. Have 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:25.880 you checked the flea market or possibly eBay for your. 0:08:25.880 --> 0:08:29.440 Jacket to be fair, No, I have not. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.760 Okay, great jacket caper. 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:35.920 That's what she does to other jackets and then resell 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:37.240 them on second hand storm. 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:39.640 See. Anything is possible, especially since she is the one 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:42.360 that recommended the flea market in the first place. But 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:45.160 you never thought about that, Leo, No, I didn't think 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.439 about that, abody. 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:49.079 You probably won't put a lot more thought into it. Yes, 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:50.880 it's probably the case. 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:55.040 Why you come to the show. We're creative, creative investigators. 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:58.640 Here's the thing, like, do we bring up the jacket. 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:01.480 And maybe after you know to Leo, she'll bring it 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:03.280 if she says yes to a date. Is it more 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:05.320 important that you get the jacket back or that you 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.440 have another hangout and stay friends with Marissa. 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.120 I gotta be honest, It's more important to me that 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:12.720 I get the jacket back because I really like that jacket. 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:14.880 Okay, and you've only met this girl one time and 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:18.040 she just wants to be friends with me. It's gonna 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.320 really hurt her feelings when I tell her that. But 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:24.720 you know what, that's what he wants. Let me know what, 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:25.760 I'll hold off, hold off. 0:09:25.800 --> 0:09:27.400 I mean she might want the jacket more than him too. 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:28.560 We don't know if possible. 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:30.480 Let's find out. I'm going to dial her number right now. 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:41.520 Let's see if she picks up. But here we go. Hello, 0:09:42.320 --> 0:09:43.319 Hey is this Marissa? 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:48.400 Yes, Maria, Hey, this. 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:51.000 Is probably the weirdest phone call you're going to get 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:53.480 all day, unless he's like, already talk to your ex 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:55.480 or something. But you're on the radio right now with 0:09:55.520 --> 0:09:57.079 a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:03.559 Wait, I'm wait this is the radio Yeah, but yes. 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:05.440 Yes, we're a show. We try to help out our 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:08.480 listeners who've hung out with somebody recently and they're not 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:11.000 getting a call back to hang out a second time. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:12.200 That's weird. 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:15.719 It's actually not weird. It's our bread and butter. Every day. 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.280 A lot of people don't get calls. But it's weird 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:20.880 for you. We get understand why that would be strange. 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:21.880 A strange call. 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:25.400 I've never heard this, so it's just totally so. 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:27.760 We're trying to help out our listener that you hung 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:29.120 out with recently named Leo. 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:33.640 Oh yeah you remember Leo. 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:37.880 Yeah? Sorry, I'm like catching up right now. Okay, so 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:38.480 he called you. 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:42.160 Yeah, we we spoke to him before and he told 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:44.280 us about your hangout at the flea market. 0:10:44.559 --> 0:10:48.080 Okay, so he probably wants his jacket, I assume, so 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.880 I can just like leave it outside my place. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:54.640 That's all your focus on is the jacket. You're not 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:55.559 focused on him at all. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:58.040 I'm I'm just not really into him. 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:01.040 Okay, but I thought that you just wanted to be friends. 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:03.080 That's what you said, Like you're not into him even 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:03.760 as a friend. 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:07.160 Yeah. I think when people start dating, the idea should 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:09.640 be that you start as friends and then if it 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:12.320 progresses from there, great, But I just don't really see 0:11:12.320 --> 0:11:14.400 any hope for that in this situation. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:18.679 After one Well, that's fair, like you're allowed to feel 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:19.800 that way. I don't know. 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:21.360 I just feel like if you're going to start it 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:23.640 as friends, you've got to be more open. You've got 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.880 to give it a little bit more time, because sometimes 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.280 friendship in general just takes time. 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:29.800 Like it's so bad that you know. 0:11:30.120 --> 0:11:32.560 Yeah, I mean, what can I ask? Was there something 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:35.559 like one particular thing that made you feel that way 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:36.920 when you were hanging out with him. 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:42.600 Overall, I can tell you this. The date itself was 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:43.200 pretty good. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.359 Okay, it was nice. 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:49.000 He's cute, I liked him. We did have a nice time. 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.080 That is not the response I thought you were going 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:52.280 to say. I thought you were going to say like 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:54.320 there was no sexual chemistry. 0:11:54.200 --> 0:11:57.240 Or Brooke does have a lot of sexual chemistry with 0:11:57.280 --> 0:12:00.240 all of her friends. I can understand a lot of 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:03.200 family members too, So it kind of blurs the lines. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.840 But I mean, no, I know exactly what you mean. 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:09.560 So for you, what was it exactly? 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:12.480 Okay, So the date was good. It's just when I 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:15.480 got home, he let me borrow his jacket because it 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:17.880 got kind of chilly. And when I hung up with 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:22.640 the jacket, this little okay, this little piece of paper 0:12:22.960 --> 0:12:26.000 fell out and I picked it up and he had 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:30.040 made a list titled things not to say on the 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:31.040 date with Marissa. 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:34.360 Oh wow, wow. 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:36.880 I know, but sometimes I do better in my head 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:37.960 if I write things down. 0:12:38.120 --> 0:12:40.920 Yeah, it depends on what things he was telling himself 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:43.360 not to say to her. Yeah, can we know what 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:44.240 some of the things were. 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:48.280 There was one that said, don't talk about the X 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:49.880 like you did with the last girl. 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:55.240 Well, that's an important reminder that which should be number one. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:12:58.440 Right it' it's weird that it's been an issue, Like 0:12:58.440 --> 0:12:59.959 it's something you have to remind yourself not to do. 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:02.320 I mean, that's like a red flag for me. 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:03.960 Okay, what's another one. 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:07.080 There was something that said a girl who don't like 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:13.400 crypto chat again, like it's just another weird thing, like 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:14.720 is he super into crypto? 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:18.120 The like, clearly, why is that already being to crypto? 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:20.760 This means he's potentially rich. 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:26.199 Yeah, he's a no not no, she is right. 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:28.640 Every crypto bro will tell you they're rich, but not 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:29.280 all of them are. 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:33.000 I mean, but you don't see these things as just 0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:35.880 I don't know, thoughtful preparation before a date. 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:38.840 I just think it's better to plan nice things than 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:40.760 to write out things you should not do that you 0:13:40.960 --> 0:13:43.040 usually do that turns people off. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.640 Oh that, don't. 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:48.080 You know. 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:50.720 It's like it's a good thing to say, don't exactly 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:52.840 because one of the things that I wrote down was 0:13:52.960 --> 0:13:56.240 don't tell Marissa that Leo was on the other line 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:59.440 listening and wants to talk to it. Forgot, Oh was 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:05.800 I not supposed to my god Marissa? Wa Yeah, Leo's 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:08.079 on the other line listening to this conversation. 0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:10.080 You're kidding, You're kidding right now. 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:14.720 I told myself not to say that to you. I'm sorry, Leo. 0:14:14.800 --> 0:14:15.319 Are you there? 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:17.960 Yeah, I'm here. 0:14:18.120 --> 0:14:20.240 This is this is pretty awkward. 0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:23.080 Okay, Yeah, I. 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:24.560 Know, I'm sorry, and I know I wasn't supposed to 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:25.800 say it. So the awkwardness. 0:14:25.840 --> 0:14:27.720 I can't believe you did that. I can't believe tell 0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:28.320 me that effort. 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:31.760 Wait, do you, Madame Jeffrey though right not Leo. 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:35.760 I'm I don't even I'm upset. I don't know what. 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:38.040 It was my fault. It was my fault. I'll take 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.560 the blame. Leo. Talk to Marissa about what you just heard. 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:45.160 Well, I mean, the good thing now is that you 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:48.560 know all my weaknesses, you know all the bad things 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:51.200 that I try to not do on our date. 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:55.760 That's a positive, right, Okay. Well, you also wrote on 0:14:55.800 --> 0:15:02.760 your little list remember to tip this time you. This 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:04.800 is all they're all red flags. The things that you're 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.480 saying that you usually do and don't do this don't 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:09.600 let her see who you are, is what this list 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:10.120 feels like. 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:13.160 Marissa. I don't think you were reading the note right 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:16.240 The note actually said don't forget to tip big. 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:21.400 No, no it didn't, and now you're just lying. 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:24.520 Listen, listen. 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:27.400 I mean, you've got a person here who really likes you, 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.080 who's trying to be a better person. 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:31.120 I mean, what more can you want from someone who 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:32.480 a guy who can admit their flaws is. 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:36.320 Nice you zeriously and actually take action to change them. 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:38.920 I get someone who doesn't have so many red flags 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.040 and issues talking about his X all the time and 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:43.920 doesn't tip, and it is into crypto and this is 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:44.840 so messed up. 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:46.880 I think it's your perspective, though. I think if you 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:48.720 looked at it the other way, they're all green flags. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.720 And I haven't heard him mention his ex girlfriend once 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.640 during this entire phone from and it doesn't have his 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:56.480 little paper in front of him who remind him not 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:56.960 to do that. 0:15:57.000 --> 0:15:58.120 We didn't even know he had one. 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:00.960 Yeah, I actually I actually wrote that on the paper 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:05.760 before I call the radio station. Actually, but I'm doing well. 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:07.680 Oh you do have a paper right now as well. 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:10.040 Okay, I feel like I'm being set up and I 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:10.960 kind of want to go now. 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:13.360 Well, Mersa, don't you feel like maybe you're being a 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:17.160 little bit harsh and judging him a lot for like 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:18.800 a piece of paper that you found. 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:23.600 No, not really like this is not even like someone 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:26.280 I want to I just don't even don't care enough. 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:29.000 No, but you will hold onto his jacket for two 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:31.000 weeks on the jacket? What are you doing there? 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:33.080 She said that she'd leave it on her doorstep. 0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:36.960 I'll put it out today. No, wait, don't put it outside. 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:39.360 Someone's gonna steal it. It's a really nice jacket. 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:41.880 Yeah, and then they're gonna have all the tips about 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:44.840 what not to do on the first stea. So Marissa, 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:46.480 would you at least meet up with him to hand 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:47.760 him his jacket in person. 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:51.560 I'll put your jacket out at seven, come and get 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:52.120 it at seven. 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:54.000 Okay, well there's a deadline. 0:16:54.200 --> 0:16:56.880 Wow, Marissa, I'm just gonna say that you're not as 0:16:56.960 --> 0:16:59.160 nice as you were on our first date. And then 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:01.480 it's not gonna help you make more friends if you're 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:02.760 not this nice, you know what I mean. 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:05.520 That's that's some friendly advice. 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:08.439 For the tip. I think I'll be fine. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:13.080 Oh and he tips. See look what he does. He 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:19.640 really comes through those bullet Really is Jeffrey in the morning, man, 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:22.320 I'm just reading the textboard after that second date, and 0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:27.200 someone actually scored each of our performances. Oh, they said, 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:32.080 Jeff succinct, humorous, off the cuff, handsome, nine out of. 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:35.639 Ten, no one text Alexis. 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:42.080 Jose and Brooke combined nine out of ten. Combine though, yikes, 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:45.280 I like it. I'm disappointed in all of you that 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:49.480 you guys didn't try harder for that poor poor man. Alexis, 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:51.240 do you promise to do better next time than we 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:55.720 have a listener time? You're not even sure, Jose you 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:57.760 in on doing better? I don't know what's going on. 0:17:58.960 --> 0:18:02.240 Three Brook, Please, will you actually try for our listeners? 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:02.800 Yes? 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:06.679 Always, no wonder you guys were all rated threes. But 0:18:06.960 --> 0:18:09.440 if you want to find email us now that you've 0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:13.040