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Speaker 2: It is just another brand new second Date podcast. Yep, yeah,

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Speaker 2: just that came you found it.

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Speaker 3: It's Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning and today. I

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Speaker 3: guess it's all about like maybe stipulations. I'd say, agreements

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Speaker 3: before you even go out on a date, like always

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Speaker 3: good y.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I would have said yes to this,

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Speaker 2: but he was game. So yes, you're gonna hear her

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Speaker 2: in a second. But first, commenters, what do we got Alexai?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Kel said, I literally will disrupt my coworkers to

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Speaker 4: let them know what happens on each episode.

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Speaker 2: They know the podcast by association, only they're hearing it

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Speaker 2: second hand.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's kind of like the cliff notes of our show.

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Speaker 2: Basically. I appreciate that about her, I really do. I

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Speaker 2: bet that makes their workday better. Yes, exactly, And thanks

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Speaker 2: for being here.

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Speaker 3: Share with all your friends and family, of course, and

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Speaker 3: please subscribe.

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Speaker 2: And here's a brand new podcast.

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Speaker 5: Second Date Up Date. If anyone's been out on a

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Speaker 5: date recently, you know how expensive it can be, not

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Speaker 5: just for the food and drinks, but the blindfolds and

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Speaker 5: the rubber bands.

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Speaker 2: I thought you're gonna say parking Oh yeah, you.

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Speaker 5: Do need a place to park when before you set

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Speaker 5: up all the rubber bands. I see and I cannot

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Speaker 5: find one strong enough to hold my wrists down anymore.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know that.

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Speaker 5: It's the tariffs. God, the tariffs on maximum strength rubber

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Speaker 5: bands from Indonesia. They are through the roof right now.

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Speaker 2: You try the rubber bands they put on a sparagus.

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Speaker 2: Those are the fat boys.

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Speaker 5: Still not strong enough, expensive, not stronger, Jeff. But that

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Speaker 5: was the only place that make them stronger, and they

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Speaker 5: cost so much money. I'm just I'm happy that our

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Speaker 5: listener Leo figured out how to save a buck or

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Speaker 5: two on his date recently, and I'm very curious how

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Speaker 5: he did it. So Leo, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: It's like what we get, Hello, Leo, Are the rubber

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Speaker 3: band tariffs hitting you hard to or.

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Speaker 5: Did you rubber band yourself?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm still here.

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Speaker 4: I'm doing all right.

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Speaker 5: Okay, where you get your extra strength rubber bands from?

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Speaker 1: I don't typically need to get a lot of them,

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Speaker 1: Just save them from random mail.

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Speaker 5: That's actually kind of smart.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got I got a drawer that I got

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Speaker 1: too many of them.

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Speaker 5: Actually share well. At some point but hey, I know

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Speaker 5: you went on a date with somebody recently. What's her name?

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Speaker 1: And Marissa?

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Speaker 5: Okay, where'd you meet her?

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Speaker 1: We matched on Bumbo and we connected over love of dogs.

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Speaker 1: You know, we have two dogs, and it's just we

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Speaker 1: we can't get enough of them. I mean, if we

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Speaker 5: One hundred and one Dalmatians that Movieah okay, but you

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Speaker 5: said in your email you were able to save some

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So when we matched at first, she was very

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Speaker 1: So I suggested after we matched, just grabbing a coffee,

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Speaker 1: but she countered with, how about we go to a

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, that's how you saved me. I was gonna say,

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Speaker 5: that's how you saved money on your day with the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was willing to spend it. It was her idea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome.

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Speaker 3: I think it's impressive that you are good with being

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't do that, but that's great that I'm

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Speaker 5: I love that when you're like naturally friends fertally. But

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Speaker 5: what Brooke was saying too, to be like, I'm setting

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Speaker 5: So take us to the flea market though. How did

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Speaker 1: It went okay, which is better than okay, which is

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Speaker 1: we met up there and she looked like her pictures.

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Speaker 1: Thank god, she was really really cute.

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Speaker 2: I didn't want a friend that looks like somebody else.

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Speaker 5: A friend thing does make it different, now, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: that's right. You can't really judge that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So she was excited to be there too, and

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what did you get into? Like a crate of

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Speaker 5: old used VHS tapes or rubber bands?

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Speaker 1: Favorite y Yeah, no rubber bands, but we did see vhs.

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Speaker 1: There was a station that had a lot of those.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man, shocking, they're not selling so quickly.

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Speaker 5: Has the machines to play them. Okay, So how was

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Speaker 1: It was good, And I know that sometimes for these things,

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Speaker 1: you guys ask what we talked about. We actually talked

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Speaker 3: Friends don't to find a couple of girls?

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Speaker 1: Or yeah we saw a boot for that actually third

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Speaker 1: text to Durmy and uh. In fact, there was actually

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Speaker 1: a fox there with a monocle on. So Marissa thought

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Speaker 1: straight up haunted. I was like, I would never let.

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Speaker 5: That into my home.

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Speaker 3: Stuff fox, Well, that sounds like a funny point of

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Speaker 5: It was did you guys buy anything take anything home?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We each got one thing. I got a Fleetwood Mac

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Speaker 5: I like her cool. So is that is that it?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that's it. We each got the one thing

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Speaker 1: she's not answering any of my text or calls, and

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Speaker 1: it's like, Hey, as much as I would like to

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Speaker 1: see Marissa, I would also like my jacket back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: You know, if you think about it, this cheap date

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Speaker 2: Yeah, taxidermy is not cheap.

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Speaker 5: Chap I could.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that didn't happen, Thank god, not his house.

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Speaker 5: Yeah right, how long has it been since the Flea

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Speaker 1: It's been about two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you've gone with the jacket for two weeks.

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Speaker 5: That's jacket.

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Speaker 3: I don't know favor if you wore it, I know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it is my favorite jacket. I've got like

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Speaker 4: Ye know.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, this is dire Jeffrey, I know.

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Speaker 5: This is code red. We're going to reach out and

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Speaker 5: call Marissa, try and get you one your jacket back,

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Speaker 5: this second date update. Friends ghost each other, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean politely, Yeah, eventually you get

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Speaker 5: Alexis if a friend wore the same outfit as you,

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Speaker 5: they're getting blackballed for Like I mean.

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Speaker 2: I'm usually one of the copies my friend's OUTFA.

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Speaker 5: Probably shouldn't talk to you. Yeah, yeah, just like. It

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Speaker 5: just seems like if you agree to go out as

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's able friend.

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Speaker 5: It is weird because our listener Leo has not heard

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Speaker 5: and the worst case scenario I'm thinking of is if

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Speaker 5: Leo goes back to that flea market and his jacket

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Speaker 3: Sake, warned by the fox with the monocle.

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Speaker 5: Oh even worse, that would not be good, Leo. Have

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Speaker 5: you checked the flea market or possibly eBay for your.

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Speaker 1: Jacket to be fair, No, I have not.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great jacket caper.

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Speaker 3: That's what she does to other jackets and then resell

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Speaker 5: See. Anything is possible, especially since she is the one

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Speaker 5: that recommended the flea market in the first place. But

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Speaker 5: you never thought about that, Leo, No, I didn't think

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Speaker 5: about that, abody.

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Speaker 2: You probably won't put a lot more thought into it. Yes,

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Speaker 2: it's probably the case.

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Speaker 5: Why you come to the show. We're creative, creative investigators.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, like, do we bring up the jacket.

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Speaker 5: And maybe after you know to Leo, she'll bring it

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Speaker 5: if she says yes to a date. Is it more

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Speaker 5: important that you get the jacket back or that you

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Speaker 5: have another hangout and stay friends with Marissa.

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Speaker 1: I gotta be honest, It's more important to me that

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Speaker 1: I get the jacket back because I really like that jacket.

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Speaker 5: Okay, and you've only met this girl one time and

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Speaker 5: she just wants to be friends with me. It's gonna

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Speaker 5: really hurt her feelings when I tell her that. But

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Speaker 5: you know what, that's what he wants. Let me know what,

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Speaker 5: I'll hold off, hold off.

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Speaker 2: I mean she might want the jacket more than him too.

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Speaker 2: We don't know if possible.

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Speaker 5: Let's find out. I'm going to dial her number right now.

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Speaker 5: Let's see if she picks up. But here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 5: Hey is this Marissa?

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Speaker 4: Yes, Maria, Hey, this.

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Speaker 5: Is probably the weirdest phone call you're going to get

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Speaker 5: all day, unless he's like, already talk to your ex

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Speaker 5: or something. But you're on the radio right now with

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Speaker 5: a show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Wait, I'm wait this is the radio Yeah, but yes.

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Speaker 5: Yes, we're a show. We try to help out our

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Speaker 4: Okay, so he probably wants his jacket, I assume, so

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Speaker 5: After one Well, that's fair, like you're allowed to feel

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Speaker 2: Like it's so bad that you know.

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Speaker 5: But I mean, no, I know exactly what you mean.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So the date was good. It's just when I

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, wow.

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Speaker 4: There was one that said, don't talk about the X

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Speaker 2: Well, that's an important reminder that which should be number one.

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Speaker 3: I mean, but you don't see these things as just

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Speaker 4: I just think it's better to plan nice things than

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Speaker 5: Oh that, don't.

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Speaker 5: It's like it's a good thing to say, don't exactly

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Speaker 5: I not supposed to my god Marissa? Wa Yeah, Leo's

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Speaker 4: You're kidding, You're kidding right now.

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Speaker 5: I told myself not to say that to you. I'm sorry, Leo.

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Speaker 5: Are you there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: I can't believe you did that. I can't believe tell

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Speaker 2: Wait, do you, Madame Jeffrey though right not Leo.

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Speaker 5: It was my fault. It was my fault. I'll take

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, the good thing now is that you

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Speaker 4: That's a positive, right, Okay. Well, you also wrote on

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Speaker 1: Marissa. I don't think you were reading the note right

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Speaker 4: No, no it didn't, and now you're just lying.

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Speaker 2: Listen, listen.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you've got a person here who really likes you,

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Speaker 4: I get someone who doesn't have so many red flags

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Speaker 5: And I haven't heard him mention his ex girlfriend once

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Speaker 5: Well, Mersa, don't you feel like maybe you're being a

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Speaker 4: No, not really like this is not even like someone

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Speaker 5: No, but you will hold onto his jacket for two

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Speaker 4: I'll put it out today. No, wait, don't put it outside.

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Speaker 1: Someone's gonna steal it. It's a really nice jacket.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then they're gonna have all the tips about

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Speaker 4: I'll put your jacket out at seven, come and get

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Speaker 5: That's that's some friendly advice.

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Speaker 4: For the tip. I think I'll be fine.

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Speaker 5: Oh and he tips. See look what he does. He

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Speaker 5: I'm just reading the textboard after that second date, and

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Speaker 5: Jeff succinct, humorous, off the cuff, handsome, nine out of.

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Speaker 5: do you promise to do better next time than we

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Speaker 5: have a listener time? You're not even sure, Jose you

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Speaker 5: Three Brook, Please, will you actually try for our listeners?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Always, no wonder you guys were all rated threes. But

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Speaker 5: if you want to find email us now that you've

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Speaker 5: heard our enthusiasms exactly. If you can't email us if

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Speaker 5: you want us to help you with your dating life,

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Speaker 5: but go check out all of our second dates wherever

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Speaker 5: you get your podcasts, they're up online at Brooke and

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