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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome back to bet Your Happy Hour. I'm

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Speaker 1: Joe and we are back with Jared Free Part two.

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Speaker 1: We're just gonna pick it up where we left off.

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Speaker 2: Hometown recap. We missed it.

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Speaker 3: We did the first two in part one to go listen,

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Speaker 3: and now we're diving into Jordan's.

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Speaker 1: Jordan Jordan Chicago. Watching Jordan like and now knowing that

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Speaker 1: I know him, just the way he acts and the

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Speaker 1: way he handled everything makes complete sense to me.

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Speaker 4: I will say, I think Jordan and Joe, Joe, it

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Speaker 4: felt like Jordan did the.

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Speaker 5: Hometown date you would have done? Yes, Yeah, like it

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Speaker 5: is like I wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't go to Luml Noddies. I would have went

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Speaker 1: to Pea Quoads.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, it was it was a little on the nose.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh. Also, yeah, I would have to ask him

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Speaker 1: about that cake because I don't know about that far.

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Speaker 5: Did you know what it was?

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Speaker 1: I think it's from I think it's from like the

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Speaker 1: Green Goddess or the Green Grocery, one of those one

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Speaker 1: of those us in the groceres. But that rainbow cake,

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Speaker 1: you fucking kidding? I mean like I could think of

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Speaker 1: ten better cakes than a Rainbow.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I was expecting it to look a

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Speaker 5: little dry.

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Speaker 4: I was expecting exactly what we got, which was, you know,

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Speaker 4: him basically being Cubby Bear, you know, the mascot of

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Speaker 4: Chicago and giving us the full Chicago experience.

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Speaker 2: But it was.

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Speaker 3: Funny having Pascal and him go back to back and

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Speaker 3: comparing their Chicago hometown dates.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well he's totally different. Yeah, Like he's very much

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Speaker 1: like lives. Jordan's like a what looks to be like

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Speaker 1: lives in like Lincoln Park, like lives in Chicago, and

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Speaker 1: Pascal's lives in Lincoln Park. I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 1: where he it's like park and Park, Wicker Park. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but that's yeah, that's what that's what he's giving. But

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Speaker 1: just the way even like we see at the end

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Speaker 1: of the at the end of the episode, Jordan gets cut,

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Speaker 1: but just like how we handled it was very much

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Speaker 1: like all right, yeah, this was this was fun. See

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Speaker 1: you later.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I don't think he was that into

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Speaker 3: Joan or he was at least moving way slower than

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Speaker 3: everyone else was to the point where I think he knew,

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Speaker 3: Like he even said he's like if I'm supposed to

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Speaker 3: fall in love and engaged in two weeks.

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Speaker 2: That's not gonna happen. It's like, well, that's what is happening.

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Speaker 5: I never saw it with him and Joan.

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Speaker 4: It was very and they even say, like they even

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Speaker 4: referenced when they had their like one on one, Like

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Speaker 4: the one line in the song they reference is like

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Speaker 4: became friends and then became more like.

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Speaker 5: It was friends. Vibe.

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Speaker 4: I don't even you know, like Jordan, I you know,

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Speaker 4: jew I keep calling him Jewish Jordan because I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I know what what his deal like? It felt like

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Speaker 4: him and like if if Jordan went to Florida and

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Speaker 4: Joan went to Florida, they'd be on two different coasts.

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Speaker 4: Joan would be in Naples and Jordan would be in Boca,

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Speaker 4: and you can just feel that they'd wave to each other,

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Speaker 4: but it wouldn't be a love match.

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Speaker 1: Jordan and Pascal are going to go to Cubs games.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna duck out at about the seventh inning, and

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Speaker 1: we're going to see them hanging out at like most

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Speaker 1: canteena together having the best time.

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Speaker 5: That hope so well.

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Speaker 4: They even said, like, you know, the stuff with his

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Speaker 4: family was very telling, just like that he's like it

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Speaker 4: seems as though it's funny, like we've gotten all the

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Speaker 4: versions of male trauma. Wife passed, wife left me late

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Speaker 4: at late in life, wife, you know, slept around on me,

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Speaker 4: you know, and like it doesn't seem like he's really

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Speaker 4: let anyone into his dating world.

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Speaker 3: Well, his kids basically said like, yeah, he hasn't dated

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Speaker 3: anyone seriously in over a decade. Yeah, since his ex wife,

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Speaker 3: which I don't know if this is this is probably

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Speaker 3: a good experience for him on like a personal healing level,

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Speaker 3: but like I, it would be very hard to all

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Speaker 3: of a sudden like jump in and get engaged like

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Speaker 3: the first girl you've seriously dated in eleven years.

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Speaker 5: Well, I also feel like guys.

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Speaker 1: I feel like guys get to a certain age where

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Speaker 1: they're kind of where they make peace with like I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna be a single guy.

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Speaker 5: Like I.

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Speaker 1: I I kind of got to that point when I

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Speaker 1: this is this might be my life. Yeah, and then

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Speaker 1: I went on The Bachelor and all change. But if

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Speaker 1: I didn't, I was like, yeah, this is kind of

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Speaker 1: how but I would have lived very similar to like

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Speaker 1: how Jordan's living.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I like to think I still have hope

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Speaker 4: as a same but I you know.

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Speaker 2: Joe's like, not you thirt He's like twenty nine, like

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Speaker 2: giving up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what dude, what are you talking so dark?

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Speaker 4: You know year old woman.

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Speaker 5: I guess I'm aunt Stacy.

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Speaker 4: From now on, I guess guess I'm uncle Joey.

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Speaker 3: Weren't really trying to find anyone.

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Speaker 5: You were slippers on the beach and.

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Speaker 1: Those because I like to think I still live.

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Speaker 4: I mean, grocery, Joe chill Man, you really went to

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Speaker 4: zero to sixty.

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Speaker 3: But actually, if you talked to Ben Higgens, Ben Higgens

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Speaker 3: when he went on the match was like twenty five,

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Speaker 3: and he said, He's like, I'd made peace with the

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Speaker 3: fact that I was going to be single forever, and

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Speaker 3: he was looking back, Yeah, so what are.

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Speaker 4: You my grandmother after my grandfather passed, said he.

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Speaker 3: Was up in an area where everyone was getting married

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Speaker 3: and having kids young, and it was just like all

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Speaker 3: he knew and he was like, yeah, I'd made peace

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Speaker 3: with the fact it was going to be you know,

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Speaker 3: single for the rest of my life and like alone forever.

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Speaker 3: But he's like, looking back, that's crazy because I was

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Speaker 3: twenty five years old.

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Speaker 1: So like the furniture was gone, like after the breakup,

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Speaker 1: Like the furniture was gone, and he was kind of

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Speaker 1: just sitting in his living room with like a like

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, like.

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Speaker 5: This is it.

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Speaker 4: I guess I just float away on this ice flow

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Speaker 4: and die.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: I mean I go on first dates, Joe, you know,

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Speaker 4: like I'm living a life. Yeah, I like I do

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Speaker 4: have relationships. I can still have kids, you know.

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Speaker 1: You know, no, I'm not saying I wasn't saying it

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Speaker 4: Me, well, dating, I'll let me save you. Dating is

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Speaker 4: not a priority for men. It's just not like the

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Speaker 4: idea of the social thing of like oh no, what

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Speaker 4: will people think if I'm not with someone, or my

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Speaker 4: clock ticking? All those things just aren't Like listen, I

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Speaker 4: have a dating podcast.

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Speaker 5: I give dating advice. On the podcast.

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Speaker 4: Very few men listen because men don't think they have

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Speaker 4: a problem to deal with.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: The reason women listen to dating podcast is like they're like,

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Speaker 4: I have an issue. I'm doing well everywhere else, but

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Speaker 4: why can't I fix this issue? I need to see

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Speaker 4: if Like, like, we get questions from women all the

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Speaker 4: time that are like, is it.

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Speaker 5: Okay for me to be annoyed that this guy did

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Speaker 4: The idea of like a guy asking if it's okay

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Speaker 4: for him to like be turned off by something, It's crazy.

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Speaker 5: It just would never be asked.

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Speaker 4: And like women are like, am I a bad person

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Speaker 4: for being mad that he made me pay for the dates?

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Speaker 4: And then he you know, hit me in the tits

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Speaker 4: afterwards You're like, yeah, you can be mad, Like what

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Speaker 5: Am I being too picky?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 5: No, you're You're.

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Speaker 1: Right, dating's wild.

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Speaker 3: You Also, your first relationship was at thirty, so I

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Speaker 3: don't know why you'd give it up.

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Speaker 1: Those my first relationship, but it was my first like longer,

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Speaker 5: Your first longer relationship was what was.

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Speaker 2: When he went on The Bachelor? No before me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Before?

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Speaker 4: But okay, go back to this hold on. What did

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Speaker 4: you think of Jordan's brothers? Jordan's brothers? I could not Well,

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Speaker 2: Jordan's brothers.

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Speaker 1: That's how I put That's how I was able to

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Speaker 1: put it together. His brother that didn't speak was the

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Speaker 1: one that I really love.

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Speaker 3: Quickly the story again in case anyone missed part one

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Speaker 3: and doesn't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, real quick, I used to in high school.

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Speaker 1: I started working for my cousins at the Chicago Mercantylics Change.

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Speaker 1: They were traders on the floor, my cousin Louis and Joey.

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Speaker 1: My cousin Louis worked in the euro dollar pit, and

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Speaker 1: that's where Jordan worked, and that's why I always looked

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Speaker 1: when I saw his brother at the Hometowns. He actually

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Speaker 2: There, for like, would they recognize you?

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Speaker 1: I bet you Jordan knows who I am.

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Speaker 5: Yes, they got it after you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would think I would think you know, because.

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Speaker 5: But I was, come on, it's grocery Joe. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: He may not, but I'm sure he definitely Like he definitely,

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Speaker 1: I definitely had a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of family members.

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Speaker 1: He definitely knows my cousin Louis, Like he's yeah, my

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Speaker 2: But they looked alike, the brother and him.

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Speaker 5: The brothers related.

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Speaker 4: No, they were like a mad They were like a

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Speaker 4: magic eye. I couldn't look away from them. They were

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Speaker 4: all different shapes and heights. Nothing made sense they had. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it was like they were really a wild looking bunch.

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Speaker 4: I you know, remember when like they all did look

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Speaker 4: like family ish, Like remember when Colin O'Brien used to

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Speaker 4: like rumored couples and then they'd take their faces and

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Speaker 4: were just like taped together. That's what they looked like.

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Speaker 4: I was like, why is one of them eight feet tall?

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Speaker 5: Couldn't look like.

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Speaker 2: So like not pale, but he's white. His brothers were

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they all look very different.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and different and like a hint of the same.

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Speaker 4: Like it was like it was enough the same that

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Speaker 3: Like right talking about you, You've opened the door now

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Speaker 3: Let's get some Masters conference after Joan. Cool, but like

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Speaker 4: He's not marrying you know, Gwendolen from you know, Wicked

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Speaker 5: It ain't happening.

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Speaker 3: I think they liked her and thought she was lovely,

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Speaker 1: He's a nice guy to Jordan.

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Speaker 5: I remember him.

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Speaker 4: He's been messaging me since the beginning of the whole thing.

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Speaker 4: He's been very nice, like very sweet. I'm going to

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Speaker 4: When is that game? November ninth. My brother's a coach

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Speaker 4: Well from Boston, So we're gonna go, Like, I got

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Speaker 5: But.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I get that. I get that all right.

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Speaker 5: Moving out, we have what's her face? How she's doing,

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Speaker 5: To, Hey, guys, want to come to my mom's funeral? Like,

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Speaker 5: Really want to see me? I want to see me

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Speaker 4: Was itziest hometown date I have ever witnessed?

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Speaker 3: This is like I'm surprised that the family and like

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Speaker 4: Well it was a second one, Like I feel like

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Speaker 5: Also mom's dead.

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Speaker 7: And it's a very it was it's a very intimate

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Speaker 1: Away like back this, yeah he's got Yeah he's gone

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Speaker 3: Like it's also just like visually like there it's sunny

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Speaker 2: It's like it feels like a It.

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Speaker 1: Reminded me of it, like the the family from Succession

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Speaker 2: I didn't really get that, but I mean.

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Speaker 4: It was chalk Is just like so into her and

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Speaker 1: It make it lines up with him being a successful

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Speaker 2: Well, he's a very deal.

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Speaker 4: It's very assume clothes, it's very so all we need

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he does.

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Speaker 4: He has already assumed this deal is done, and he

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Speaker 2: What I feeling.

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Speaker 5: Saw that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we saw that with Teresa too, when

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Speaker 3: I feel like she also had that very like I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and like she was pretty forward about that.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like the Golden contestant, at least, especially

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Speaker 4: Well, I think Chalk was like the only one doing

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Speaker 5: Like she's just like cool. I guess, like.

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Speaker 2: I think they're like in love with each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the way she was like cuddled up under his

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Speaker 5: What do you think Peyton Manning thinks of chalk?

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Speaker 4: Like the fact that they have the same exact voice,

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Speaker 5: You haven't talked about this again? This is what we have.

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Speaker 5: We have shut your eyes. That is paid Manning.

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Speaker 4: Just I need chalk to say o maha, and I

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Speaker 1: Why not Chuck?

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Speaker 5: Right? What is chock short for? What does chuck mean?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Is it because the Kansas Jayhawks rock Chalk? Kansas Jayhawks.

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Speaker 4: I And for Joe not to ask that, you kind

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, she may have.

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Speaker 1: She may have asked that. Though she may have, we

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Speaker 4: I mean, come on, I I Also here's the other

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Speaker 4: I loved his look. He looked like someone in Kansas.

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Speaker 4: They just like approached on the road with his stick

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Speaker 5: That just showed up to the reunion.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I think I think, like, so overall, who

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Speaker 4: It's chock. It's chock. I hate to be it has

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Speaker 1: If you were to seed all the way, all right,

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Speaker 1: But runner up anyone, anyone close?

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Speaker 5: I I think the runner up. I don't think it's close.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a toss up between Guy or Pascal.

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Speaker 3: Like I think it could them, because I.

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Speaker 1: Really you don't think that. You can't see a world

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Speaker 5: You know who the winners are? Uh, Susan, who's gotten

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Speaker 1: Well, Susan. Susan and Kathy are getting like crazy.

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Speaker 4: I just saw these I saw Susan are real good

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Speaker 5: That's all all said.

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Speaker 3: So we were with them right before and they were

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Speaker 2: Was going to be swollen.

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Speaker 4: I have I have to say it is very good

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Speaker 5: You don't have to do that, Like, no, I love it.

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Speaker 4: This is what it is like because my mom just

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Speaker 5: Was like that's kind of talked about, so.

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Speaker 4: You have to like you know, like I think, like

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Speaker 5: It's nice to see that they have.

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Speaker 4: A following of people that can see, oh, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that too because we have a lot

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Speaker 3: a lot of them do. Definitely, and that like is

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Speaker 1: So do your thing, live your life.

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Speaker 4: The winners are Chock and Susan's surgeon, who got the

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Speaker 1: Who who do you think will be the next Bachelor

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Speaker 1: and who would you want to be there?

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, so this is a good question.

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Speaker 4: I don't want Mark. I'm sorry we did it. It

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Speaker 4: was fun. He's a nice guy. I feel for him.

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Speaker 4: He's not ready. I can't hear him. He whispers a lot.

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Speaker 5: It's just no.

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Speaker 4: I Jordan would be fun because in the same way

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Speaker 5: She's blonde, she's got the look.

449
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,240
Speaker 4: I think Jordan looking young helps, you know, get people

450
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,560
Speaker 4: to like apply and not feel like you're going on

451
00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:27,400
Speaker 4: the old person's show. Yeah, Pascal to me is too

452
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 4: cartoonish to be the Golden Bachelor to take it seriously,

453
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 4: you know, like I I want I like Pascal, but

454
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 4: I want him on his own show with the salon.

455
00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 1: Yeah he needs af.

456
00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:44,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, full spin off. I Who do you guys think?

457
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 1: I I yeah, I I after watching this whole season,

458
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 1: I want Jordan. That's what I would want.

459
00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 3: I think I agree. If not Jordan, I think Guy

460
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 3: has a has an argument too.

461
00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 4: Guy.

462
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 5: I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, Guy, guys.

463
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,640
Speaker 1: I like Guy. He seems nice. He's a handsome guy.

464
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: I just handsome Guy, Guy. I'm just missing something.

465
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 3: I just think it's hard with Jordan. Like, I really

466
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 3: like Jordan. He's been one of my favorites all season,

467
00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 3: but with the way his journey ended, it really felt

468
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,400
Speaker 3: like he either a wasn't ready or be the process

469
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 3: was just too fast for him as someone who doesn't

470
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 3: really feel comfortable being vulnerable, and to then go be

471
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 3: the lead and have to be the one that's like

472
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 3: guiding the relationships, I feel like is the challenging.

473
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Speaker 6: Well.

474
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Speaker 1: But I just don't think he was that. I just

475
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 1: don't think he was that into Jill.

476
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 2: I think that's part of it too.

477
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 3: I think if it was someone he was really into,

478
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 3: it might have made a difference.

479
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,119
Speaker 5: And I think if you Stacy Dane or whatever her

480
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 5: name was.

481
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: I forgot about that, And I think if you give Jordan, yeah,

482
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: like if it's thirty women and a few of them

483
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: end up being like like in their late forties.

484
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 2: Okay, well you know that's a different show.

485
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 5: What about Keith? I think Keith would be good. I

486
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 5: like his voice.

487
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I like Keith too, great personality. I

488
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: think I think Keith.

489
00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: Is like a star for Paradise.

490
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think the issue with Paradise.

491
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:19,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, they do Golden Paradise. I think they would at

492
00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 3: some point was gonna date Maria Keith's Golden Paradise.

493
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 4: Oh, they're definitely Bachelor and Boca they're gonna do exactly.

494
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't see a world where they don't

495
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 1: do that's if both if both of these shows keep

496
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 1: running Golden Bachelor, Golden Bachelorette, I don't see a world

497
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: where they don't do that.

498
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 4: Consider this my petition to be the bartender for Bachelor

499
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 4: and Boca. Okay, I you do anything. I would love it.

500
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 4: I would do games, I get all the gossip. I

501
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 4: would ask them uncomfortable questions. I am there for it.

502
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 4: I already go to Boca, my parents live there. I

503
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 4: already know the vibe I'm in okay.

504
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: I would love to see that. At the very least,

505
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 2: you have to do a date, like at the bare minimum,

506
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 2: like you.

507
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:03,360
Speaker 5: Have to do anything.

508
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: Any is already like being like, well, you're not going

509
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 1: to be the bartender.

510
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 4: I'll go to meet market and hang out at the

511
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 4: bar with them in Boca.

512
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 5: There you go.

513
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,919
Speaker 1: Overall, overall, what are your thoughts on Joan is the

514
00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 1: Bachelorette and the whole season.

515
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:34,720
Speaker 4: I really think she was fine and it was nice.

516
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 4: I thought it was a good seaton. I love the premise.

517
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 4: I here's the other thing I like. And I know

518
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 4: this isn't really like hour and a half is the

519
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 4: right amount of time for this show.

520
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 5: Hour and a half.

521
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 4: And I think that's why you guys probably liked Hometowns more,

522
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 4: is like we got in and out of these hometowns,

523
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 4: we got what we needed, the pay fun.

524
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 2: Perfect at that timeline.

525
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, for a great show. Hour and a half is

526
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 5: the show. And I don't And and here's the other thing.

527
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 4: I just don't understand why the franchise keeps going younger

528
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 4: when you're seeing how much this works as a show.

529
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 4: Why maybe they agree with Joe that life is over

530
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 4: at thirty.

531
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,959
Speaker 5: But I don't.

532
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 4: I think the fact that they don't have a thirty

533
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 4: five and above bachelor Bachelorette is a crime.

534
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 5: This show should get a woman who is.

535
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 4: Thirty five a lawyer, and you go both ways, you

536
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,359
Speaker 4: go thirty and forty and you got and you have

537
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 4: a great show that lives in reality.

538
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 5: So what would pitch? Okay?

539
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: But are you saying change the current or add another?

540
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 5: I guess what would you? I mean?

541
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 4: Joe would probably if we add another, he would call

542
00:25:56,520 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 4: it like loser. Bachelor life is a is over back?

543
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: Well, I will say I will say when I a yeah,

544
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 1: my hair my first season, I would say the show

545
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: was geared towards more like that age group, like before me.

546
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,640
Speaker 1: Ari was the bachelor who was like thirty five. Yeah,

547
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: Nick Viael was like thirty five or thirty six as

548
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 1: the bachelor.

549
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: Claire was what thirty six?

550
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 5: Claire was well yeah, but that wasn't really but Claire.

551
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 4: They made it into such a big thing about her

552
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,199
Speaker 4: age that it became an insult. But even still, like

553
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 4: Claire was a normal person. I didn't see Claire on

554
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 4: TV and go whoa.

555
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 2: They made thought that like it didn't need to be

556
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 2: a thing at all, like.

557
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 4: And it was made into it was made into such

558
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 4: a thing that it became like really like it actually

559
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 4: made her, It made her experience with the audience tougher.

560
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 5: I think than it had to.

561
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 2: Be well because her promo was like a.

562
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: It was Missus Robinson. Yes, missus was the graduate.

563
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, and we're all sitting at home like, oh yeah,

564
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 4: I would have gone to high school with her? How

565
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 4: should I feel about this? Like, it's just like, I

566
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 4: don't know. Jen was very nice. I think what we

567
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 4: saw with Jen and Devin and the way that that ended,

568
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 4: that was young people problems. That was a guy who

569
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 4: wrote a check he couldn't cash, who wasn't ready with

570
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 4: an established life, who told someone he loved her and

571
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 4: needed her and she was the one. And then he

572
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 4: got back to Houston and he remembered he had debts,

573
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 4: and he was in a one bedroom apartment that he

574
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 4: was renting, and then he realized, I'm not ready to

575
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 4: be married.

576
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 5: To Jen who does shots on Tuesday nights.

577
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was. I actually do think I do

578
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,880
Speaker 1: think Yeah, I think they need the key. I think

579
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: they need to go back to casting a little older,

580
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:52,720
Speaker 1: Like I.

581
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 5: Think you could see.

582
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: Look at you. You you got married to me?

583
00:27:58,600 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I was.

584
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 3: I was, well, I was very young when I went

585
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 3: on the show.

586
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 5: But you guys got together. How old were you when

587
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 5: you got together?

588
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 2: Twenty three?

589
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 5: You were twenty three.

590
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: I was twenty two on the Bachelor, I was like

591
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 2: the second.

592
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 5: You were on twenty three?

593
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: You were twenty four on Paradise right, twenty three?

594
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 5: Soho you dog?

595
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 1: I was she was twenty three.

596
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 5: I was thirty.

597
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: She was twenty three. I was thirty four. But here's

598
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: the thing. If I was the Bachelor at if I

599
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: was the Bachelor at age thirty four, and Serena's on

600
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 1: my season, and a couple of the girls in their

601
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: in their mid twenties, and then you cast a bunch

602
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: of girls that are thirty something and there we go.

603
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: So you know we'll be ending the episode soon. But overall,

604
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: this this has been your I think, are your fourth

605
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: hometown episode with us? Have we grown as I.

606
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 4: Like that we're going to look back as we go on.

607
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 5: Will remam Oh, I hate that sucks so much.

608
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: All the famly this was like my eighth grade made fun.

609
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, have I convinced you that the hometowns is a

610
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 4: good episode.

611
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: Yet I am I'm on board after this, after after

612
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: this Hometown I truly I enjoy it. I enjoy it.

613
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: I actually think it's the best because you are getting

614
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: people that are just not ready for TV and you're

615
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,959
Speaker 1: getting them and it's great.

616
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 3: You This makes me enjoy Hometowns more because at least

617
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 3: I'm watching it knowing that we're going to recap it

618
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 3: all together and I'm gonna get to hear your opinions,

619
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 3: and you always make me laugh at the things you

620
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 3: have to say. I do think I really like Golden

621
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 3: Hometowns better than regular season hometowns significantly, so I think

622
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 3: it they're.

623
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 2: More positive, they're lighter.

624
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 3: You don't get any like anxiety from the parents any

625
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: like over like it's more of a negative experience when

626
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 3: it's the child than when it's the parent.

627
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 5: Yes, I totally agree.

628
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 4: And also like the children are the children, you know

629
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 4: what I mean, Like and sometimes on The Bachelor Hometowns,

630
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 4: it's like these children are acting like adults. It's almost

631
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 4: like they put on their dad mom's clothing to like

632
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 4: do this like very you know, like you know, structured

633
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 4: meet the parents thing, and it's like on this it's

634
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 4: like the kids are sow themselves, the parents are so themselves.

635
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 4: These randoms they bring in are just there hanging who

636
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 4: they actually have like relationships with. Like it's like, yeah,

637
00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 4: I agree, this is better. I do love hometowns just

638
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,719
Speaker 4: because of the awkwardness of it all. But I agree,

639
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 4: like the the the Golden hometowns are the king and

640
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 4: Queen of hometowns.

641
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so. It's like a perfect change in pace.

642
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 5: Yeah right, there's a lived in experience.

643
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 4: It's like you know some even some of the Bachelor

644
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 4: hometowns they go to like a staged house like it

645
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, we're in, like you know, Wichita feels

646
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 4: like it's chocks. Like when you go to like a

647
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 4: bachelor's hometown, it's like, yeah, they're gonna be here. They're

648
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 4: moving to Nashville in a week, Like they don't want

649
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 4: to live here.

650
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: Well exactly, Like I was truly excited when we're like, oh,

651
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: I was actually really excited to be like, oh, where

652
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: does Pascal like where? I want to actually see their

653
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: homes where when you get there.

654
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: Because they're like settled, they've lived there for like thirty years.

655
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like truly their hometown but like, I.

656
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: Don't care how Daisy's parents are living, and she lives

657
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 1: in their holiday.

658
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 4: He's on a Christmas tree farm out of a Hallmark

659
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 4: movie and they're like, yeah, cool, Yeah, she'll be in

660
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 4: San Diego next week.

661
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 3: You learn less about them when it's like we're going

662
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 3: to my parents' house in the city that I grew

663
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 3: up and I don't live in anymore, whereas you learn

664
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 3: so much more about like Pascal when we're literally going

665
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 3: to his salon that he owns and like works at every.

666
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 4: Single day, and he's like, hey, ladies, and you just

667
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 4: like see the dynamic right, Like, hey, great, it was fantastic.

668
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: I love that.

669
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 5: It was perfect all right.

670
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,479
Speaker 1: Jared, thank you, Thank you so much for hopping on

671
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 1: and doing this with us. We really appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: Always a pleasure to see you both. Thank you for

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Speaker 5: having me.

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Speaker 4: If anyone's listening wants to watch me, yell at the

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Speaker 4: show every episode Live with the Show, I scream at

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Speaker 4: it on my Instagram stories at Jared Freed and I'm

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Speaker 4: taping a special in Tarrytown December seventh, and then I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna be in Raleigh, North Carolina, as well as Saint Louis,

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Speaker 4: Missouri and Dania Beach, Florida, and Portland, Oregon, and Rochester,

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Speaker 4: New York. Jaredfree dot com for tickets.

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Speaker 1: Nice, I love that. And to all our listeners, thank

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Speaker 1: you so much for tuning in the better Happy Hour.

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Speaker 1: We really appreciate you guys. Make sure you download and

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Speaker 1: subscribe if you get the chance, and we.

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Speaker 3: Are heading into Mental all fantasy suites the finale.

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Speaker 2: We have lots coming up, so be sure to tune in.

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Speaker 2: Bye bye mm hm