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Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast show,

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Speaker 1: Everyone's screaming matter? Okay, what did Scary just do during

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Speaker 1: the intro of our show. I have these Mary's crackers,

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Speaker 1: which are really good for you. They're kind of expensive

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Speaker 1: and they're delicious, and I had them for my snack today,

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Speaker 1: and Scary is like, can I have some of your crackers?

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Speaker 1: And so I hand in the box. He shoves his

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Speaker 1: paw into the bag and hand jams just the tip.

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Speaker 1: I did not put my entire for the tip has

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Speaker 1: just crumbs on your elbow. You're you're scary. You know

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Speaker 1: you're supposed to shake the box until the crackers come out.

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Speaker 1: Not tell you, Bethany, I swear I just bought these

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Speaker 1: at home. I'm going in an open box. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to give you a box tomorrow of Mary's gun crackers.

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Speaker 1: I owe you a box, he said to me. Now though,

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Speaker 1: all right, well, you know, by the way, his promises

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Speaker 1: are empty, because remember the remember the time, remember the

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Speaker 1: time he stole my uh my, uh my toaster of

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Speaker 1: him he brought it back like four months later. I'm

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Speaker 1: waiting four years for a steak dinner, he promised me.

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Speaker 1: Just want to bring that up again. Wait, let's go

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Speaker 1: back to that Brody from one situation. Is this coming

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Speaker 1: from he owed you a steak dinner? Okay, if we

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Speaker 1: we We had this argument on the Brooklyn Boys podcast

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Speaker 1: last week. Scary now thinks he can buy me a lunch,

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Speaker 1: a steak lunch. He thinks that's the equivalent. I said,

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Speaker 1: promised to be at dinner. I'm not going off a

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Speaker 1: soup because it's lunchtime. But wait, why does he owe

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Speaker 1: you a dinner or a lunch? There was a time

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Speaker 1: when everyone on the show needed a leader to step up,

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Speaker 1: and being one of the executive producers, I stepped up

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Speaker 1: because everyone asked me to do it, and I did it,

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Speaker 1: and everyone was rewarded nicely for me doing that, and

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Speaker 1: I was rewarded unnicely eventually, and it was not a

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Speaker 1: good thing for me, and they promised me a steak didn't.

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Speaker 1: This is way too vague. I don't we want to

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Speaker 1: know what happened. It just resulted in Brody getting his

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Speaker 1: head cut off, but everyone else got a good situation.

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Speaker 1: He stuck his neck out in a monetary situation on

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Speaker 1: behalf of the show. For what involved involved management and bonuses.

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Speaker 1: That's all you say. And I don't know about this, Gosh,

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Speaker 1: I should know more. But everyone got what they had

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Speaker 1: coming to them, and I got shipped as the person

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Speaker 1: who stood up and said, hey, everybody wants this, because

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Speaker 1: it looked like it was me saying it. But everybody

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Speaker 1: asked me as the spokespersons to thank you. He and

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Speaker 1: Greg T said you up, brody, We're gonna buy you

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Speaker 1: a steak dinner. Okay, well then you know, okay, whatever

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Speaker 1: happened happened. But I really truly think you guys owing

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Speaker 1: more than a steak dinner. Well here's the thing, but

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Speaker 1: how much cash? We're talking about hundreds thousands? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is like a steak banquet. You brody, They owe

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Speaker 1: you a cow of grilled meat. I was trying to

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Speaker 1: and he never bought him anything, but to continue to

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Speaker 1: because I said, listen, I don't mind paying the same price,

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Speaker 1: but let's do it at lunchtime. The reason why the

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Speaker 1: at night. Let's go watch it at noon. I know,

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Speaker 1: but don't you think it's worth the effort after what

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Speaker 1: anniversary with Rob and his girlfriend, if they were like that,

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Speaker 1: he wouldn't go let's go to lunch. He would take

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Speaker 1: it to a nice dinner. But Michael, my question is,

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Speaker 1: I do believe it's more expensive at dinner. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: You better need you know. I'm looking it up right now.

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Speaker 1: But I and Sup at lunch. He knows a lot

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Speaker 1: more more of a celebratory meal than lunch. Period. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like lunch, you can just leave from here and go

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Speaker 1: to a quick lunch that time. We've gone to baseball

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Speaker 1: we take a vote all in favor of Scary taking

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Speaker 1: Brody to dinner over lunch, say I thank you? Opposed,

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Speaker 1: I so carried? What other problems do we have on

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Speaker 1: Vera could have had a podcast four years ago this

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Speaker 1: this How long did this happen? Because this happened before

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Speaker 1: yes you do. On that topic, it was not my idea.

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Speaker 1: That's all all right, So what's next? What other problem

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Speaker 1: But I was on the phone with a friend of

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Speaker 1: And then after like thirty seconds, he's, you know, now

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Speaker 1: You wanted a car for your daughter, right, I could

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Speaker 1: he didn't die in vain. Well, I will tell you

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Speaker 1: They go yeah, I mean there's even the most wonderful,

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Speaker 1: sure that I'm protected, and we need to like have

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Speaker 1: But if you see it coming, wait is sad. But

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Speaker 1: Now here's the thing, and this is why this is

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Speaker 1: such an uncomfortable conversation. Leaving a will, filing a will.

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Speaker 1: Even if you're twenty years old and you have something

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Speaker 1: anything that's worth anything, you should have a will. But

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Speaker 1: on a piece of paper saying that, oh, by the way,

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Speaker 1: you have a lot of coats? And half? Grandfather left

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Speaker 1: you know your house is haunted? That is the first

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Speaker 1: My friend at the funeral two days later went up

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Speaker 1: I'm getting the car. That's really good story. Okay, but

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Speaker 1: you and you in your husband? You ever your will's filed?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so you need to get it done now?

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to clean out of my house? When

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Speaker 1: I go, Mom, why don't you start cleaning it out now?

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