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Speaker 1: The second date of dating. Dating is a lot like

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Speaker 2: Why is your dad there?

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Speaker 1: Well, mom's holding the camera shouting positive things, don't close

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Speaker 2: You have a really close family.

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Speaker 1: But then eventually dad let's go. And suddenly look at

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Speaker 2: Why is mom still there with the video camera?

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Speaker 1: Asked her to be there? But I bring you back

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Speaker 1: afar up because one of our listeners, Dennis, emailed the show,

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Speaker 1: and Dennis It says, this was your first date that

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Speaker 1: you've gone on in quite a while. Like, were you

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I was in a long term relationship for a

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Speaker 3: little while, okay, and I've been single for two years now, What.

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Speaker 2: You've been single for two years but you just haven't dated.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I kind of gave up one dating for a while.

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Speaker 3: I mean I was just down on myself, you know,

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Speaker 4: So I love that you did you, Dennis, and it

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Speaker 4: looks like it turned out pretty good because you're back

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Speaker 2: We all do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got into a gym, got back in the racquetball,

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Speaker 2: We don't need a second date update with him. We're

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Speaker 2: going to do self help with Dennis. I mean this

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Speaker 1: Who needs women just playing racketball until you die? You

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Speaker 1: got mountains to climb. Well, I mean that's great that

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, you'll real smart and a great sense of humor.

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Speaker 3: We hooked up after work.

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Speaker 2: Oh you sound confident, but I didn't really.

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Speaker 3: When I say hooked up, I just mean we got together.

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Speaker 3: I told you guys, I haven't been dating for a while.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what all the lingo is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hooking up. Just so you know, Dennis tends to

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Speaker 5: Yes, women, I want to like you, you haven't done

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling?

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Speaker 2: What's going through your head when you're going to meet her?

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Speaker 3: Very excited, excited, at a little a little anxious.

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Speaker 1: So what did you and Stephanie end up doing for

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Speaker 3: We ended up doing what I like to do and

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Speaker 3: I wanted to share with her, which is a passion

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Speaker 2: That's a sexy date. I like it. I like it.

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Speaker 4: Had she ever climbed before? Was it brand new to her?

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Speaker 3: No, she'd never done it before, but she was really

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Speaker 1: You hooked up with her with the cables, with the cable.

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Speaker 3: Showing the ropes. Baby, Yeah, okay, Cara.

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Speaker 1: Did she seem like she was having fun?

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Speaker 3: She was. She was totally in dude. I was totally

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I think it's such a smart thing too, Like it's

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Speaker 4: A lot of adrenaline is going on when you're climbing

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Speaker 5: Tequila soda.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I like popular and dating right now.

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Speaker 1: You can say that, yes, all right.

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Speaker 3: I just love to have a good time with her.

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Speaker 3: It was really great enjoying her company. She's a great conversationalist, captivating,

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's not calling you back, so there must

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Speaker 1: Okay, And did you hook up in the modern.

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Speaker 3: or anything like that. No, we did that.

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Speaker 2: Nobody on this show would say the wrong.

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Speaker 3: Show a nice little goodbye, just a hug, a little

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Speaker 1: We'll call her and try and get a second date. Update.

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Speaker 3: All right, sounds great?

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Speaker 1: All right, hold on it, Dennis. I know you've been

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Speaker 3: There's no way she could though.

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Speaker 1: Actually, I would like you to prove right now that

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Speaker 1: pickup line to get her interested. Go ahead, Dennis, Hey, Brooke, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Doing? Radio? My job right now? Dennis? What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Why don't you come on over here and sit on

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Speaker 1: You're proving me right, Dennis.

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Speaker 2: Line so quickly I thought if you was a different person.

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Speaker 1: That you went out with Stephanie two months ago, and

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure if she's even gonna remember going out.

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Speaker 2: Maybe the rock climbing party she'll remember.

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Speaker 1: Have you tried calling or texting in that period in between?

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Speaker 2: Okay, and you have no idea, why.

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Speaker 3: No, no idea whatsoever?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, we're gonna try and get you some

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Speaker 4: All right, sit down, daddy, She's gonna tell you where

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Speaker 4: to I'm gonna dial with Stephanie's number and let's see

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Speaker 3: All right, all right, good, here we go. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is a Stephanie. Yeah, Hey Stephanie. My name is

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Speaker 1: jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing today?

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Speaker 3: Really? Yeah, I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Hi Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the whole show's here. Brooke Jose alexis Hi.

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Speaker 1: Cool.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like that's awesome.

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Speaker 4: Well, you can always catch up on our podcast, available

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Speaker 1: Periodically, you listen to whatever you want to listen to, Stephanie.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 1: It's a guy that you went out with a little

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Speaker 4: That's the reaction, remember, Yeah, that's the reaction we had

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's been it's been a while, so I I

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Speaker 1: Well, it's a good sign that he's reaching out to you.

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Speaker 1: I know it's a little bit late, but yeah, he

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Speaker 1: Oh have you been seeing those?

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Speaker 6: You know, he was a really nice guy. I just

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I just have different expectations at this

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Speaker 6: No, No, that's not the vibe I got. He said

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Speaker 2: Friends friends with benefits, that's what he said.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh no, I can't really just say that.

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Speaker 4: That means like, as in, you are his friend with

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Speaker 6: Yeah, right, Like I had been assigned the title.

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Speaker 2: Of this what and that's not how that works. Like

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Speaker 4: Know, and then you're like, Okay, maybe on the side

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think that's why he was insinuating. He wanted

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Speaker 2: He didn't call him back. At least he was honest

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Speaker 1: There's some sort of miscommunication here. Either Dennis isn't telling

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Speaker 1: Dennis on the phone right now, because Stephanie, I need

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Speaker 1: to tell you he's been there the entire time listening.

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Speaker 3: Stephanie.

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, okay, are you say, Oh.

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Speaker 3: My goodness, I have such an apology to make to you.

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Speaker 3: Is good. You heard what I said, but that's not

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Speaker 3: at all what I meant. Oh, I said to you

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Speaker 3: a great job and you have medical benefits.

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Speaker 2: Shut really shut up.

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Speaker 3: The last girl I was with, part of the reason

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Speaker 1: That you're telling me that you didn't know what friends

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about benefits a movie. I don't know nothing

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you understanding what it means?

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Speaker 3: Like now now I understand why she felt the way

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Speaker 2: Also told that you just wanted to hook up.

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Speaker 4: What you said, hook up buddy or something like that, Right, Stephanie,

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Speaker 4: isn't that what he said?

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Speaker 6: He said he wanted friends with benefits, and I guess

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Speaker 1: That's what it is. Yeah, right, buddy was dental? Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like you guys just didn't understand

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Speaker 1: us that he hooked up with you when you guys

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been saying the wrong thing the whole time,

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Speaker 3: But you guys can tell I don't know what I'm

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean, Dennis, are you like a arp like broo?

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Speaker 3: I No, I've just I've just been out of the loop.

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Speaker 3: I don't have a lot of young people around me,

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Speaker 3: And what do you want me to do? Watch him TV?

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Speaker 1: And then nobody watch.

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Speaker 4: People watching TV watching what I know, get a TikTok account.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean.

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Speaker 3: What I gotta watch, Stephanie, I mean I gotta watch.

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Speaker 1: You can hear Dennis. He sounds like a pretty nice,

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Speaker 1: genuine guy. He needs a little bit of updating in

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Speaker 1: him some of those things and we'll pay for the date.

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Speaker 2: No, it sounds like fun.

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Speaker 3: Stephany will you Stepanie? Will you go with me?

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Speaker 6: It's a misunderstanding. Will go out? It'll be great.

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 3: So see now I have a true friend with benefits.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm just make sure you go to the Urban

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Speaker 1: up Mexican.

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Speaker 2: No freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: I feel kind of happy for Dennis. You know, he's

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Speaker 1: a he's a likable guy. Sure kind of stuck in

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Speaker 4: In thirty years, participated in society.

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Speaker 1: Even because he doesn't know anything.

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Speaker 2: Even would know what friends with benefits met.

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Speaker 1: But isn't that kind of a good thing, Like you

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Speaker 1: get the chance to be with a guy who's basically a.

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Speaker 2: Baby That sounds terrible.

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Speaker 1: He's pure, he's untouched, unworn to dating. Now, I'm just

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Speaker 1: saying like he's not scarred and it is not jaded

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Speaker 2: Accidentally, I guess exactly.

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Speaker 4: Or he's just gonna claim dumb every time he gets

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Speaker 1: It's hard to argue against jaded. Yeah, you're one of

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Speaker 2: You don't want a baby man. I want a man man,

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Speaker 2: not a baby man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you want one that's been with thousands and thousands.

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Speaker 5: He's got paperwork that checks out things are still good.

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Speaker 1: But texting to seven eight, five nine to tell us

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Speaker 1: if you think these two are gonna make it, that's

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Speaker 1: a good sound coming from yah. I remember if you

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Speaker 1: ever want to get a second date up that you

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Speaker 1: can always email our show. We can call the person

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Speaker 1: who wasn't calling you back.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,