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Speaker 1: All right, it's your awkward Tuesday folk call. It's brand new.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us here at the podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and uh it's a

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Speaker 1: good one. I hope you enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: But first let's go to the comment sections.

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Speaker 3: Joso said, It's Joseph from Croatia. I love listening to

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Speaker 3: your podcast while I'm touring around the country with my

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Speaker 3: folk band. I started listening to your podcast a little

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Speaker 3: while ago and I got hooked sense.

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Speaker 2: Love you guys. Take care if you're ever in a band,

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Speaker 2: shout out my hand on the.

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Speaker 1: Comment section because I always love to go search and

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Speaker 1: hear what Yes.

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Speaker 4: Also shout us out on stage like the next song,

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Speaker 4: This is dedicated to Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: And then and then you haven't been to a folk

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Speaker 2: show in a while?

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Speaker 4: Sorry, This next one is dedicated to Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: And then on the jug.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, ma, get a lot of booze from the crowd,

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Speaker 3: bobe apologize, Yes, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Want to be in whatever one has harmonica.

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Speaker 3: Tag or like retag Wait what am I trying to

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Speaker 3: comment again?

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Speaker 2: And put the name of your folk band?

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Speaker 5: Yes, very good?

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Speaker 2: All right, brand new Awkward Tuesday. It's starting right now.

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Speaker 4: It's almost time for your awkward call. It's Brook and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning, and today a woman is reaching

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Speaker 4: out to us with deep regret. Oh no, for complimenting

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Speaker 4: a man.

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Speaker 2: I hear you, girl, preciate the ladies understand. I mean, like,

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Speaker 2: why would you?

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Speaker 4: Why would you ever do that? She made one simple

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Speaker 4: compliment to this dude she was seeing, and he took

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Speaker 4: it the wrong way, so wrong that they're not even

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Speaker 4: hanging out anymore. Yes, it was the worst type of backfire.

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Speaker 4: And now jose and Brook are going to have to

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Speaker 4: dig deep for the best advice possible to help this

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Speaker 4: woman change a man's mind before he goes through with

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Speaker 4: his big plans for tonight. I'm not very deep, but

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Speaker 4: I'll dig as far as I can get in there. Okay,

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Speaker 4: wade into that pool.

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Speaker 2: Let me get you a tea spoon.

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Speaker 4: It's coming up in a brand new awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 4: Next it's awkward Day. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. You know,

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Speaker 4: dating experts say sometimes attraction isn't about looks, or personality

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Speaker 4: or even chemistry. What is left, Jeff, I mean, those

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Speaker 4: things do seem to count for something, but in reality,

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Speaker 4: all it takes is proximity.

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Speaker 2: You just got to be close to someone.

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Speaker 4: If you're around someone for long enough, they can slowly

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Speaker 4: become your George Clooney.

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Speaker 2: Oh we did just talk about that.

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Speaker 4: Didn't you say that about one of our engineers the

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Speaker 4: other day?

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 4: Was it about Dale Dale?

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Speaker 6: Look?

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Speaker 2: Sorry?

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, a woman who works in a dentist's office had

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Speaker 4: a patient in close proximity to her, and the rest

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Speaker 4: is an awkward Tuesday phone call. So let's see if

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Speaker 4: we can help her out with it. Her name is Kate. Kate,

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Speaker 4: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Oh, thank you, I appreciate it. I really need some Wait, Kate,

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Speaker 5: are you.

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Speaker 2: The Jeffrey said you work at a dental office.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I work at the front desk.

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Speaker 4: Oh you're the face of the dentist.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, the gatekeeper of the appointments.

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Speaker 6: Yes.

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Speaker 4: Okay. So there was some sort of, according to your email,

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, it didn't start off that way. This guy,

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Speaker 5: just a patient came in.

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Speaker 1: You're like, I have all your dental charts.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then we just like hit it off. I

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Speaker 5: but I really like, I found myself smiling when I

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Speaker 5: found out that he asked my boss for my number mutual,

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Speaker 5: So like my boss was like, oh my god, do

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Speaker 5: I was like no, and he's like, oh yeah, like

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Speaker 5: he's this huge in tech and so you know, of

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Speaker 2: Was like, oh my god, I see years.

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Speaker 5: He actually had beautiful piece.

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Speaker 4: But they go out after you saw how much he

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Speaker 2: She was gonna jeff him.

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Speaker 5: I already liked him. Yeah, it was The conversation was

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Speaker 5: so fun.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I mean you weren't too nervous going in.

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Speaker 5: I was a little nervous, but like a presence about him.

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Speaker 5: He's like energetic but also kind of like easy going

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Speaker 5: in a way, like you just I felt like calm

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Speaker 2: That is such a good sign.

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Speaker 4: Like rich guys are normally all over the place. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but it's like how Brook feels around me and jose

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Speaker 4: that just calming, like you love being in their presence.

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Speaker 6: All the time.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly the men that popped into my head. I

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Speaker 4: That's really sweet of you just say, okay, sorry, did

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Speaker 4: we get his name?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: His name a Jim Jim Jim.

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Speaker 2: All right, this isn't a second date, so yeah, we happened.

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Speaker 2: Do we get into the date or not?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What does the awkwardness come into this?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 5: Okay, So it turns out that he was married for

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Speaker 5: quite a long time and he's been divorced about a

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Speaker 5: So I think, you know, he was very not insecure

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Speaker 5: isn't quite the word, but not not coms a little bit.

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Speaker 1: On the date, he wasn't super comfortable. He was just

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Speaker 5: Exactly? And so just to put him at ease and

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Speaker 5: encourage him, I was like, oh my gosh, I started

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Speaker 5: joking with him because that's what I love about him.

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Speaker 5: joking and I said, you would do so great on

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't. And I was like, you totally would, that

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Speaker 2: That's a joke that could backfire. My friend.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, boosted him up.

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Speaker 1: Not only did you boost him up, but you also

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, you're not interested in me romantically.

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Speaker 2: You want me to date other people?

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Speaker 5: No, I know, but like we actually had gone out

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Speaker 5: four or five times by that point. Yeah, sorry, I

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Speaker 5: I just felt comfortable living him because I think we're cool.

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Speaker 5: But I think I made a mistake by saying that.

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Speaker 4: Why real, Why.

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Speaker 5: Because then he texted me about a week after that

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Speaker 5: and he's like, oh my god, you were totally right.

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Speaker 5: You're the best. And he's like, I have twenty matches,

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Speaker 5: and out of the twenty matches, he has like fifteen

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Speaker 5: dates lined off already. Whoa, yeah, the first one tonight.

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Speaker 5: You guys, Oh.

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Speaker 4: You don't think that's just part of his hilarious sense

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Speaker 5: Is going down, because that would be the worst sense

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Speaker 1: Well, and he followed it up by telling you, like,

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Speaker 1: so he told you I'm going out tonight with someone.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he thinks you friends.

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Speaker 5: No, I get it. It's totally my fault because I

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Speaker 5: he does think like I'm his wingman or buddy or something.

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Speaker 5: And he even said more, he's like excited. He's like

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Speaker 4: He has you to think for them.

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Speaker 4: So you's you do sound definitely regretful about what's happened,

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Speaker 4: But yes, why have you reached out for help with

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Speaker 5: Because I think maybe it would be a good time

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Speaker 5: to call him and have a really awkward conversation about

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Speaker 5: how I want another shot. I mean, I know it's

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Speaker 5: a long shot, but I feel like if I don't

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he's waiting for this, Yeah, yes, and he just

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I'm sure every guy wants to say, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to look past the fifteen beautiful women I

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Speaker 2: Hey, those days are going to bail anyways. Yeah, we're

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Maybe the world he doesn't realize.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, maybe this is part of the advice that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hopefully that's what happens well with your awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 4: phone call. Next, it's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 4: phone call. If you're just joining us, we're about to

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Speaker 4: make an urgent call here trying to stop a guy

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Speaker 4: from going on a date tonight, Yes, yeah, and instead

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Speaker 4: asking him to reconsider our listener Kate, who accidentally friend

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Speaker 4: zoned herself by telling him he'd be a huge catch

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Speaker 4: on the dating huh and he is. Why would she

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Speaker 4: say that to him? Yeh, Because when they were hanging out,

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Speaker 4: she learned that he got out of a long marriage recently,

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Speaker 4: and he seemed kind of nervous and unsure of himself.

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Speaker 1: Did there were four to five dates in that's like

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Speaker 1: almost the start of like a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like that's where you start to decide, like

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Speaker 2: are we doing this?

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Speaker 5: You were dating?

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Speaker 4: But his nerves were getting the best of him being

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Speaker 4: back in the dating scene, so she tried to lift

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Speaker 4: him up and be positive. Yeah, and her encouraging words

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Speaker 4: were a little too encouraging. Yeah, because now he's lined

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Speaker 4: up fifteen new dates for himself, one of which happens tonight,

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Speaker 4: and Kate wants to try to change his mind. So

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Speaker 4: she needs our help on how to do that. Brooke,

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Speaker 4: what's your advice?

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Speaker 2: This is hard? You don't want to come off desperate?

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Speaker 2: I think, what I with you?

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Speaker 1: No, you don't, you don't if you don't, you want

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Speaker 1: to be a catch, right, Yeah, especially for a guy

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Speaker 2: That's why you fight fire with fire, Kate.

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Speaker 1: You tell him you have a date tonight with someone

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Speaker 1: super hot.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I was expecting more of mature advice for.

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Speaker 2: Thinking about it.

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Speaker 1: I thought about like, be honest with your feelings, but

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Speaker 4: It's one tool in your tool bag that you could use. Jose,

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, thing is next?

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Speaker 4: Are you regretting calling into this show for advice? It

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Speaker 2: Maybe you haven't kissed after four to five dates?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, we'll see. It's up to you how

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Speaker 6: Oh oh oh, I'm I'm sorry. Uh why did you

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Speaker 5: Huh oh? Just because just because I'm trying to be asperious. Okay,

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Speaker 5: I'm just kidding. I don't really have a date tonight.

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Speaker 6: I'm asking what's going on? Because you're calling me from

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Speaker 5: Yeah? No, I'm fine. I'm fine. I mean, like physically

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Speaker 6: Remember I was there?

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Speaker 5: Well, can I just be honest with you? You treated

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Speaker 6: Hold on, hold on, Okay, I think that there's some

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Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, that's not a thing I would.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to pump the brake a little bit.

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Speaker 6: Wait, what what is happening, Jim? Jim?

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Speaker 4: What's happening is you're on a radio show right now.

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Speaker 4: It's called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Like the radio. I'm on the radio.

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Speaker 2: Sure you can call it that.

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Speaker 4: If you want to v podcasts, that's right. And this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she accidentally friend zoned you. She obviously didn't want to.

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Speaker 5: Oh uh, Jim, it's true and I'm so sorry. I

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Speaker 5: You do, okay, And you know what I never said.

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Speaker 5: I can't date a rich guy, or I don't like

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Speaker 5: That's what I said.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean that's nice to hear. I mean a

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Speaker 2: Okay, they don't. Did you put your net worse on

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Speaker 5: Map, Jim?

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Speaker 6: Are you not supposed to? No, Jim, Well no, it's

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Speaker 2: No, let's take that off.

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Speaker 4: Now, I know how you got twenty matches.

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Speaker 5: Yeah it makes sense.

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Speaker 6: Now, yeah, okay, you want to go out?

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Speaker 1: Wait, Jim, you like Kate. You were sad when she

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't say that. That's like a false narrative.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, misinterpreted. Kate was screaming that she loves money just

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Speaker 2: I know what she's trying to say is money doesn't

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Speaker 6: Yeah? You're Freedomney.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, don't forget the kissing.

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Speaker 5: Dude, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: You know, I really like that he gave her such

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