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Speaker 2: When the last time you've seen a grasshopper.

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Speaker 3: Time, clearly in northern Michigan.

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Speaker 1: Clearly you have good pest control or something. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: because where all these bugs are?

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Speaker 3: Please go outside?

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Speaker 1: Thank Fred's show is on another otic side effect. Men

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Speaker 1: are saying that their penises are getting bigger.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, they could just see them for one.

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Speaker 1: Truely, I'm in an employment today with this say I say,

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Speaker 1: I run the few pennies together and you know, apologize.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to enjoy you. You think that's what it is?

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Speaker 1: You think? Do you think that it's not actually bigger,

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Speaker 1: You're just skinnier.

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Speaker 4: Yes, people do say that when you lose weight it

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Speaker 4: looks a little bigger.

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Speaker 1: But I would think you would lose weight everywhere, including there.

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Speaker 3: Well there's not is there there's a way to be

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Speaker 3: lost there? Yeah, it's muscle.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. You had a dream?

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Speaker 3: I did you had a dream Martin Luther King?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Well I think it was a different dream, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's similar. But yeah, did Martin Luther King had this

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Speaker 1: dream too? Because I'd like to hear about it. What

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Speaker 1: was it?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 2: I had a dream last night about Michael Jackson and

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Speaker 2: it was so crazy. We were somewhere and I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was like in a house and it was a

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Speaker 2: party going on at the house.

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Speaker 3: Was Bubbles there, No, Bubbles was not there.

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Speaker 2: But I had an opportunity to interview him, like somebody,

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Speaker 2: I think it was Echo, which is our marketing director.

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Speaker 2: She came up to me and she was like, Hey,

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Speaker 2: You're going to interview Michael Jackson.

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Speaker 1: And I'm wow, does that would be a big one,

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Speaker 1: especially right now here? That would yeah, that'd bet yes,

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Speaker 3: So I was just like, I was like, okay, cool,

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Speaker 3: And then I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't nervous or anything, and I went in there

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Speaker 2: and I bombed in the interview was a terrible interview.

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Speaker 2: I was not prepared and so after the interview, you know,

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Speaker 2: I left out and I could and if he hit

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Speaker 2: me like you were not prepared for Michael Jackson. So

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Speaker 2: the rest of the dream was me trying to get

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Speaker 2: back to Michael Jackson. And I could not get back

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Speaker 2: in the room with Michael Jackson. And I can imagine

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Speaker 2: that'd be hard to do twice. It was crazy, yes,

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Speaker 2: because you screwed the interview up.

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Speaker 1: So if you hadn't screwed the interview up, then he

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Speaker 1: probably would let you back in.

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Speaker 3: Probably. I woke up so mad, I was pissed.

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Speaker 1: I'm disappointed in you because we wouldn't try to get

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Speaker 1: that Michael Jackson interview for years and you finally got

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Speaker 1: it and you and then look what happened.

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Speaker 2: Echo set me up for greatness and I dropped the

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Speaker 2: ball Michael Jackson.

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Speaker 1: So what do you think it means?

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Speaker 3: I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: Do you have some sort of insecurity in your life

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Speaker 1: right now?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 1: Which one? For a now I'm trying to think, like

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Speaker 1: why you would have that dream. I keep having this

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Speaker 1: dream about a woman I dated who I don't like,

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's a good person. I kind of

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Speaker 1: But I don't think the person is a very quality

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Speaker 1: but I keep having dreams that I run into this

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Speaker 1: because I guess in some ways it would be bothersome

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Speaker 1: It perhaps validates me that this person continues to date

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Speaker 1: and not find anybody, because it's like, you didn't think

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Speaker 1: It's just it's sort of like if the next person

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Speaker 1: was right right, maybe I wasn't up to par. But

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Speaker 1: the fact that I keep getting on the dating apps

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Speaker 1: and seeing this person, that's like, yep, we're in this together.

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Speaker 1: I guess I wasn't so bad after all, was I?

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Speaker 1: But anyway, it's still it would still I think bother me,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not bother me, but I think it's I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know why I keep thinking about this

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Speaker 1: because I don't think it would ever work because I

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Speaker 1: don't think this person's very nice.

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Speaker 3: You miss her, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't I can objectively tell you I don't

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Speaker 1: think this person's very nice. What does this mean, Aaron love?

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Speaker 1: You called me toxic? You're toxic?

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Speaker 3: You're dreaming about your ex? Okay, that means you love her?

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Speaker 1: No? It does?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 1: It does it? Because people appear in dreams that I

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Speaker 1: don't love. I don't like. I can I can look.

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Speaker 1: I can objectively tell you I don't love this person.

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Speaker 1: I don't particularly like this person. I'm a little disgusted

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Speaker 1: by this person, but I but I still am, like, man,

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Speaker 1: it's too bad because she's pretty and we have similar

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Speaker 1: interest and I don't know I think we have would

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Speaker 1: like this is a similar vibe. But no, but no,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm fully comfortable with that. But I'm like,

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Speaker 1: then stop showing up in my dreams with like these losers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's rude of her, you know.

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Speaker 4: I think, like, I don't know Michael Jackson for some reason,

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Speaker 4: he's literally everywhere she's interviewed.

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Speaker 3: Stay out of my dream state.

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Speaker 1: She's with his interviewing him, and he gets an award

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Speaker 4: I don't know, Like, I don't know if you're the

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Speaker 4: same way, but I want everyone to like me despite

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Speaker 4: if they're like good for me, and or if I

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Speaker 4: like them back, like I just I think it's like

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Speaker 4: maybe she shows you a part of yourself that you

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Speaker 4: don't like that you need to heal, and it keeps

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Speaker 4: like re emerging until you do.

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Speaker 1: Maybe those are two.

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Speaker 3: Other options other than you're in love with her and

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Speaker 3: you miss her.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense you over here, You're just.

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Speaker 3: Saying you love somebody and not like them.

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Speaker 1: But I don't. But I don't love very many people,

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Speaker 1: so I know that's not true. I'm not in I'm

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Speaker 1: definitely not in love. In fact, I wonder if it

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Speaker 1: would if that would even be possible, which is why

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Speaker 1: with that person, which is why I know it's not

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Speaker 1: the thing. But if no one is, there is no fish.

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Speaker 1: I almost I almost said something. I almost I almost

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Speaker 1: was gonna be something. Jason's awake, now, Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: I don't know, have any of you though, like, just

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Speaker 1: is there any is there anyone from your past that's

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Speaker 1: like I know that that's not the person, but that's

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Speaker 1: a shame, you know kind of thing or like I

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Speaker 1: don't know, for whatever reason, they just sort of linger

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Speaker 1: in your thoughts even though you know they're not the person. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's been so long and you'd the

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Speaker 1: same person since you were fifteen. Sorely remember anyone else

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Speaker 3: I get that.

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Speaker 4: And there's also people that I thought I was maybe

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Speaker 4: going to be with forever or have a family with,

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Speaker 4: and so then when that doesn't happen, even though you

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Speaker 4: even if you made the call, it's still like, okay,

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Speaker 4: that's like really over. You know, if they get married

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Speaker 4: or if they have kids. I think that's normal.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, anyway, any other common dreams that you have though,

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Speaker 1: repetitive dreams.

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Speaker 3: I've gone through phases. I don't. I have had the

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Speaker 3: teeth falling out one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I forget what that one means. I have them

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Speaker 1: all pulled up.

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Speaker 4: Here like then, I've had the one like I used

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Speaker 4: to have the pregnancy ones a lot. But then I

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Speaker 4: looked it up and it said, like something is like growing.

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Speaker 4: It could be like career wise, Like it doesn't necessarily

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Speaker 4: have to mean like you're pregnant, because I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Your teeth falling out, you say, say the smile is

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Speaker 1: the wind of the heart to the heart in your dreams,

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Speaker 1: yours just took a detour. You look in the mirror

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Speaker 1: and your purly whites, you're falling out. Everything in the

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Speaker 1: mouth is related to expression and community. According to one expert,

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Speaker 1: this dream is often had by people who don't have

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Speaker 1: a filter. You're allowing things out of your mouth that

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Speaker 1: really need to remain in there permanently. Oh you loose lips, lady, Right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I do overshare, that's correct.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh. Oh.

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Speaker 2: You see this text When you dream about somebody, that

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Speaker 2: means they're going to sleep thinking about you.

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Speaker 1: Stop that. That's one of those stupid things you see

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Speaker 1: on TikTok. That's one of those dumb things you see

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Speaker 1: on TikTok where it's like, if you're seeing this message,

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Speaker 1: it means that someone's been, you know, from your past,

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Speaker 1: has been wanting to apologize to you. Well, this has

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Speaker 1: been for you, right, Well, they want to apologize and

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Speaker 1: maybe blocks them and they can. It is the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, thanks for having us on the radio, on

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Speaker 1: the iHeart app Live and anytime search for a fresh

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Speaker 1: show on demand. So I believe it was we're out

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Speaker 1: on the porch, which is a table outside of the

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Speaker 1: studio where the pre show, the pre show production meeting occurs. AKA,

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what the topic of verstation will

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Speaker 1: be when I walk in each morning, and today I

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Speaker 1: believe it was you, Paulina, who said that you didn't

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Speaker 1: know that men could pee sitting down.

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Speaker 3: I had no idea, Like, physicologically.

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Speaker 1: Physicologically, just tackle the mic again, Okay, let's just start over.

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Speaker 7: Physicological, logically, I need to be recharged myself, right.

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Speaker 1: So physiologically you didn't.

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Speaker 7: Realize I didn't realize that men could pee sitting down?

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Speaker 1: Well, how do you think that we go? Number two?

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Speaker 3: You don't pee?

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Speaker 7: Well, you guys could, but like you're not peeing, and

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Speaker 7: you give a mission, right, you have something to do,

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Speaker 7: you have a goal, and that's that's to go number two.

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Speaker 3: That's different, different things that happened.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to get into like potty stuff. I'm

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Speaker 1: really not. But when you do that, don't don't multiple

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Speaker 3: See you think.

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Speaker 3: But see, I believe you, though I truly believe you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think you like when you aim you

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Speaker 8: But there's my house far away, you're closer, it doesn't happen.

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Speaker 1: Someone's exteded boot camp. We would sit to pee, would

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Speaker 3: I don't swear word.

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Speaker 1: I didn't hear just cussed. Yeah you cussed.

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Speaker 3: Oh I didn't do that. I don't here out of

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Speaker 4: I mean, you'd have to call it out.

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Speaker 3: I don't mean it quietly. I've never known that.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I think you're trying to dump.

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Speaker 1: Something across the room. I am too now. I didn't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I was like looking at you all

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Speaker 1: So this is I want to know eight three five.

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Speaker 1: But like I actually I googled this to see, like

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Speaker 1: But I guess a lot of women didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Through this list of things that the surprised women about man,

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Speaker 2: Right, we have the room. I love what you called me.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I know something's on fire.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, well no, that's the thing. I don't pick

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Speaker 8: Yeah, sometimes it's too long, like what I had to

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Speaker 1: Oh yes? Oh okay. I was like, what what you

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Speaker 7: when I was by myself for a single I could

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Speaker 7: just eat whatever, like a little bit of crackers.

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Speaker 3: Put that on my plate.

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Speaker 7: Right, Make a little zucchini something just simple, easy, pop

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Speaker 1: Someone texted I used to date a guy that had

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Speaker 1: to be completely naked to go number two.

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Speaker 3: I've done that before.

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Speaker 1: Apparently he had to be comfortable and relaxed getting naked.

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Speaker 1: The only reason I would be completely naked doing that

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Speaker 1: is if I and I often do this shower immediately after.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I like to try and time that stuff out to

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Speaker 1: where a shower is at least on the game plan.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm very strategic about that.

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Speaker 3: Mike does the same thing. He has a shower after,

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Speaker 3: like if.

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Speaker 1: I go home and it's like okay, that that's gonna happen,

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Speaker 1: and then I look at my schedule and be like,

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Speaker 1: all right, well I don't have anything to do until

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Speaker 1: I go to the gym. Then I go to the gym,

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Speaker 1: and then I'm going to take a shower, so I'm

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Speaker 1: good until I won't see anybody until then, so we're

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Speaker 1: all set. But like, if I'm going to go out

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Speaker 1: after the set event, then there is a shower to follow.

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Speaker 1: And the worst possible scenario is if you don't think

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Speaker 1: you have to and then you take a shower, you

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Speaker 1: get out of the shower and you realize you have to,

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Speaker 1: and you're like, damn, it isn't like what if I'm

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Speaker 1: going on a date, you know, and I'll shower again,

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Speaker 1: because you know.

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Speaker 3: If it's not a ghost poop, I can't be caught

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Speaker 3: off guard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what. I can't be caught off guard.

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Speaker 1: Like I can't have a situation where I'm at the

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Speaker 1: dinner and then I didn't and then it's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: well you want to go back to mine and it's

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Speaker 1: like I wasn't ready for this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, for my friends, and I like we all have

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Speaker 4: this shared experience of our men using our expensive shampoo

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Speaker 4: and conditioner and stuff in the shower. Like one of

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Speaker 4: their husbands was like, yeah, it just smells really good.

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Speaker 4: So I started using it as body wash, like they

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Speaker 4: don't know how expensive is.

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Speaker 3: Like, my boyfriend is brown.

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Speaker 4: Here he was using my purple blonde shampoo and he

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Speaker 4: has his own shampoo.

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Speaker 1: He needs to learn how to read, because yesterday it

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Speaker 1: was he's taking suppositories in his mouth.

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Speaker 3: Well those weren't in the jar, so that one's but

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Speaker 3: I thought, how about.

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Speaker 1: We read before he puts it in her mouth. And

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Speaker 1: then like he's using purple hair, uh shampoo on his

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Speaker 1: he was using it like anything. I read this even

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Speaker 1: if I'm I'm not going to use purple hair shampoo.

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Speaker 1: If I don't have purple hair, I'm not gonna do.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to do anything to your I don't know that, so.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to do it. I'm gonna I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: read the bottle because what if I actually mix up

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Speaker 1: the nair bottle.

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Speaker 12: What if then.

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Speaker 1: Bottles just hanging around it before long chunks of hair

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Speaker 1: coming out. I don't know. I just I like to

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Speaker 1: look at what I'm putting on my body before I

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Speaker 1: do it if it doesn't apply, right, Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 1: know what the thing is. I'm not just popping it

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Speaker 1: in my mouth or putting it on my hair or

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Speaker 1: my body. I'm just not well.

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Speaker 3: Again, he thought it was magnesium. I'm not suppository. I

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Speaker 3: wouldn't take anything out of your jar period that right.

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Speaker 3: I can't get over it.

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Speaker 1: Exactly all day yesterday. I'm like, I'm not just taking

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Speaker 1: random stuff. I'm not using random stuff unless I know

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Speaker 1: what it is. Thought he knew what it was, but

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Speaker 1: he clearly didn't. But there's no way to be sure.

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Speaker 1: That's not in a bottle. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's a surprising thing, though, how freely men will use

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Speaker 2: women's product like what.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying I won't.

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Speaker 3: I never will use Timothy these products.

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Speaker 2: Like I never let me put on his deodorant, like

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Speaker 2: he will use my deodorant, yes, with my lotion.

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Speaker 3: He will pick it up. You guys need to Yeah,

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Speaker 3: all my friends men do the same thing.

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Speaker 4: And it's like that was over one hundred dollars shampoo

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Speaker 4: and you're just like putting it on your body.

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Speaker 3: Stop it.

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Speaker 8: That's wild, Like we have we are two men that

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Speaker 8: live together, and we have separate shampoo.

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Speaker 3: Body wash, your like different brands, different suns, like different locations.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, touring random substances in my hand and putting them

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Speaker 1: on my body unless I look to see what you're

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Speaker 1: a breed.

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Speaker 11: You don't pee everywhere, you know, I just kind of obvious.

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Speaker 3: I don't know it's your gender.

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Speaker 11: Man.

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Speaker 1: Men get shrinkage when they swim in the pool. That

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Speaker 1: was surprising to women. I guess it has to do

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Speaker 1: with the temperature again. Yeah, let me see here. My

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Speaker 1: mom used to tell me not to use this is

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Speaker 1: a dude, I'm nate. My mom used to tell me

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Speaker 1: not to use her shampoo and conditioner because it was

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Speaker 1: for girls and it would turn my hair green because

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Speaker 1: I'm a boy. She didn't want me to use her

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Speaker 1: fancy shamboo and conditioner.

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Speaker 3: Was smart.

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Speaker 1: I was embarrassingly old before I figured it out. See

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Speaker 1: there you go. That's that's very smart.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm going to do that.

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Speaker 2: Have your partners ever used your toothbrush? No?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I might have, some of you guys.

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Speaker 1: I had. I had a girl do that one time.

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Speaker 1: We were in a hotel and she wasn't expected to

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Speaker 1: be there, and she just I see her brushing her teeth,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, did you bring a toothbrush with you?

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Speaker 1: And she's like, no, I the one that was in

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Speaker 1: your thing. And I was like, I realized that we

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Speaker 1: were just very close to one another, but I wasn't

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Speaker 1: between your teeth.

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Speaker 3: Right, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Like the activities that took place were unspeakable moments ago.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, I mean that's different than my plaque.

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Speaker 1: It really can we just exam.

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Speaker 8: We have the same like power toothbrush and I have

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Speaker 8: them labeled like boy has an M, one has a J,

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Speaker 8: so there is no room for error.

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Speaker 2: He almost broke up in Mexico over this over too

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Speaker 2: international border.

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Speaker 1: You know, I threw that thing. I threw that toothbrushed away,

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Speaker 1: went and got another one. Yep.

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Speaker 2: But he had to go find me another tooth brush,

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Speaker 2: Like he had to go downstairs and by at the

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Speaker 2: little bar.

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Speaker 1: And I went to the bar.

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Speaker 3: Right, we were about to break up over that.

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Speaker 1: He went to the bar and got you another toothbrush.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but you guys do like other and that's what

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Speaker 3: he's saying.

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Speaker 1: He's like, come on, but there is a difference between

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Speaker 1: what is between my teeth and in my mouth almost.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm not going at all detailed, but I know

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Speaker 3: and I'm not a German phoe, but that even gross.

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Speaker 8: That is because it's literally like a device that removes

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Speaker 8: dirty out of Thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: It's not necessary.

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Speaker 3: I'm putting it in like and the.

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Speaker 1: Other activity is we're practicing to procreate in the world.

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Speaker 1: That's necess it has to be done. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to use my toothbrush. We have to practice procreation. We

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Speaker 1: have to and we have to get good at it.

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Speaker 1: It's imperative. Yes, you don't have to use my toothbrush. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the grounds for termination.

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Speaker 13: Man.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you very much. I wish you'd mess

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Speaker 1: in your future endeavors. That's what I said to this person.

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Speaker 1: I said, you can go now. I switched the hotel

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Speaker 1: key out and said She knocked on the door and said, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm blowing glass and that was the end of it.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. Thanks for having us on the radio, on

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Speaker 1: the iHeart app Live and anytime search for the Fresh

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Speaker 1: Show on demand. This is the thing on Reddit. It

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Speaker 1: was on the front page this morning. All the other

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Speaker 1: crap that's going on today. This is what I saw

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Speaker 1: and it jumped out of me, and I'm appalled. Did

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Speaker 1: people memorize numbers before mobile phones? So you've got people

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Speaker 1: that are alive now that are asking the question, what

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Speaker 1: did you do before you had a mobile phone that

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Speaker 1: had phone numbers in it? Of course you memorize numbers, yes,

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Speaker 1: And I feel ancient for saying that. But you know,

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Speaker 1: all of us in this room lived in a time

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Speaker 1: where you had to memorise numbers. I had to know

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Speaker 1: my obviously my home phone number. I had to know

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Speaker 1: all my parents' numbers, like their office or whatever mobile

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Speaker 1: phone if they had one. And I guess you could

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Speaker 1: save numbers, but it wasn't like it is now. You

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Speaker 1: probably knew all your best friend's numbers, right, yeah, But

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Speaker 1: this is what I want to know. And every now

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Speaker 1: and again we do this and I'm amazed. But what

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Speaker 1: comes to mind? Eight five, five, five, nine one three five,

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Speaker 1: you can call it text the same number. But kids

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Speaker 1: of the two thousands, like they were born in the

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Speaker 1: two thousands, they'll never understand a lot of things, like

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Speaker 1: they'll never truly appreciate Like yesterday, I was wearing my

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Speaker 1: Blockbuster shirt that you guys got me, and I was

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Speaker 1: in the elevator of the building, and a man I'd

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Speaker 1: never seen before said, my ex wife works at Blockbuster,

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Speaker 1: but I had to divorce her when she lost her

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Speaker 1: job because she wasn't contributing to the family. I don't

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Speaker 1: think he was serious, but I guess, I guess. I guess.

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Speaker 1: I guess his ex wife did work at Blockbuster at

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Speaker 1: one point, but no one but maybe it was a

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Speaker 1: random story.

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Speaker 3: That's very random.

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Speaker 1: Because he told me he was in Crystal Lake. I'm

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Speaker 1: assuming it was when she was a child. But my

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Speaker 1: point is, you know, no one will appreciate, no one

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Speaker 1: will understand the joy that is. You know, Friday afternoon,

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Speaker 1: Friday night, your parents drive you a Blockbuster video and

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Speaker 1: for those who don't even know what that is, you

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Speaker 1: pull up in front. You know, you go in there.

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Speaker 1: It's just a it's a magical, bright, beaming box. And

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Speaker 1: you walk in there and in the world is your oyster.

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Speaker 1: You can have anything. Anything was possible, right, Maybe it

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Speaker 1: would be a funny movie, maybe it would be a

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Speaker 1: serious movie. Maybe it was a new movie. If I

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Speaker 1: was able to get there fast enough, maybe, you know,

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Speaker 1: because it could have been sold out, and if it

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Speaker 1: was gone, then it was free. Remember, it was like

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Speaker 1: in stock or it's free. Wow, Oh yeah, why do

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Speaker 1: I know that? Because I worked there? You get a

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Speaker 1: video game? I mean it was a big deal. Can

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Speaker 1: you remember the joy that was pulling up in front

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Speaker 1: of Blockbuster? Now you'll never and the kids, he says,

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Speaker 1: we'll never know that because now it's on Netflix. And

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Speaker 1: even last night I'm going through the thing going, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, there's nothing to watch. I got six streaming services,

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Speaker 1: like there's a five millions that I could be watching,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, but you'll never understand the joy

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Speaker 1: of pulling up in front of Blockbuster. I mean, what

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Speaker 1: comes to mind though, when you think the kids these

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Speaker 1: days will never really be able to appreciate or understand.

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Speaker 2: They can't play Ding Dong Ditch and they never use

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Speaker 2: the payphone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the ring camera screwed everything up. Yeah, you can't

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Speaker 1: ding Dong ditch. You can't like tpe somebody's house anymore.

660
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: You can't pass gas on your way into somebody's house,

661
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 1: you know, like if you got one and you're like,

662
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,479
Speaker 1: I don't know, you can't be talking smack on your

663
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: way in either, Like if you're you know, I don't

664
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: know your your your spouse brings you to you know,

665
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: the coworker Molly's house on Friday, and you get the

666
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: bottle of wine. You're like, I don't want to be

667
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: here like in just an hour. Okay, you can't do

668
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: that anymore because now the ring cameras capturing all of this.

669
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, I know you're coming before you're even there, just

670
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 7: because of my phone, Like it'll ding ding when someone's

671
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 7: like literally approaching the door, So you can't ding dong

672
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 7: ditch me.

673
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: What about you guys though, Like like if you had

674
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: a kid today, they'd never understand appointment television.

675
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 3: I used to get so excited for like Disney Channel

676
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 3: Friday Night New Original movie whatever was.

677
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like no, Gig's got it right now on her

678
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 7: Netflix click Aprutment's right there, and they're running.

679
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 4: During the commercials like you had to go get your snacks,

680
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 4: you had a pee, you had.

681
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 3: To do it all before the commercial was over. You

682
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 3: can't pause it. You'll never know that. And I'm sad

683
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 3: for her, I really am.

684
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: Or I'll take it way back when you wanted to

685
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: know what time your show was going to be on

686
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 1: and you had to go to the TV Guide channel

687
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: you watch.

688
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 3: Yes right with that music.

689
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 1: That's really old timing. I have to admit I was

690
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: really young for that. But let me see here I'm

691
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: going through. There's a list of these things. CDs, Hey, Sydney, Hi, Sydney, Hey, Hey,

692
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: good morning. Kids these days they're never gonna understand it.

693
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:45,600
Speaker 11: But kids days do not understand the chaos of Black Fridays.

694
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: So I've honestly never done a Black Friday. Like I've

695
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: really never done the thing where I wait outside of

696
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 1: a target for a flatch Creek TV, you know, with

697
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: a tent or something like, I've never done that before.

698
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: I guess I'm privileged, I don't know, or I'm willing

699
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: to pay an extra fifty bucks and not get tackled

700
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: for a flat screen TV. Are they less crazy than

701
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: they used to be? Yeah?

702
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 14: Well, I mean like now the stores don't even open

703
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 14: and you know until like they're regular hours.

704
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 6: They don't even do like the midnight release, the one

705
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 6: am release, the two am.

706
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 14: Release online, so like yeah, or it's all online right

707
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 14: like Amazon Cyber Monday everything.

708
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 6: That's all you know that kids really know these days.

709
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 15: They don't know the chaos.

710
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 16: Of these releases happening.

711
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 11: Not these like crazy deals that you can only get

712
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 11: on Black Friday and their parents going out to get

713
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 11: their Christmas presents on Black Friday.

714
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 6: Or you know whatever it is. It's just so different now.

715
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: I feel like Target Legal had to say no more

716
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: of this midnight stuff because people are getting aimed for

717
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 1: a blender.

718
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 10: Right.

719
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so now we can't do this anymore. You gotta

720
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,480
Speaker 1: go to the website. Thank you, Sydney. Have a great day. Yeah,

721
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: of course, as you called, Hey, Mike, good morning, Mike,

722
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you, Mike? I don't think you

723
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: have to good Thanks for calling, by the way, for listening.

724
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: You don't have to be that old to appreciate the

725
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: kids these days will not to be able to what.

726
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 10: So only being thirty six. I remember going to the

727
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 10: movie theaters as a kid, and when your parents needed

728
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 10: to pick you up, you'd call them on the payphone.

729
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 10: And for those two seconds where I'd say the collect call,

730
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 10: what's your name, you would say I'm at movie theaters,

731
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 10: come pick me up, and then hang up phone.

732
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: Oh see, I bet there people who don't even want

733
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: to collect callers. There was a way. There were a

734
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: couple different ways you'd call the operator, or you could

735
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,239
Speaker 1: call like one one hundred. Collect was big when we

736
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: were young. And then you would then say I want

737
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: to call somebody. They'd call them for you, and the

738
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: person who picked up the phone could agree to accept

739
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: the charges if you didn't have like a quarter. But yeah,

740
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 1: you could use that little time where you're supposed to

741
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: say your name to be like come pick me up,

742
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 1: you know, and then yeah, because you didn't have any money, Yeah,

743
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: I see, it'll never happen. Find a payphone, nope.

744
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 10: Or when the pagers came out and you got to

745
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 10: bring your parents' pagers with you.

746
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, i'm pagers.

747
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 13: Yeah.

748
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: If you had a pager when I was going after you,

749
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: you were com big deal. Yeah, it was a movie.

750
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: Did you have the clear one?

751
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 5: Though?

752
00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: You had to have the clear one, you had to

753
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: have it there. Yeah, thank you, Mike, have a good day,

754
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: all right, thank you? You know, because yeah, if you

755
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: had a page, because this is before cell phones, like

756
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: we're readily available, if you had a pager, like what's

757
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: up you know?

758
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 13: Hey?

759
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: Yeah right hey zen, hey zen. See this this is

760
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: another one kids, He says, We'll never understand.

761
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 17: Having to get off the internet so that your mom

762
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 17: or your dad or someone can make a call that

763
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 17: ruined my childhood. I was talking to my cross on

764
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 17: AIM and had to get off the worst.

765
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because people don't realize. And by the way, I

766
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: think we did the story. A few months ago, AOL

767
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: just dropped that service, so there were people out there

768
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: still using it. But you could steal up until a

769
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: couple of months ago dial up to AOL. But yeah,

770
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 1: you had to use the phone to get on the internet.

771
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: And if you only had one line then whatever. On

772
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: the phone, nobody could call anybody.

773
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 4: I miss AIM like, you can be down to chat,

774
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 4: Like you can say, okay, I'm ready to talk to

775
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 4: my friends, or I'm having a way message, I don't

776
00:32:57,800 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 4: want to talk to my That was amazing.

777
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 1: That was so much which fun would like it. You'd

778
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: get back from high school or whatever and it would

779
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: be like there'd be like people who left you messages.

780
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 1: It was so exciting.

781
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, bring it back.

782
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you Zaed.

783
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 17: Yeah, love you guys, call.

784
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: Love you too. Hey, Brenda, Hey b Hi, Hey, good

785
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: morning Brenda. Kids. These days I'll never understand it, and

786
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 1: I don't understand it myself.

787
00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 9: How did I ever get in the car and go

788
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 9: anywhere without Google Map?

789
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: Oh can you remember that? So you didn't have GPS

790
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: in the car, so you had to like print it out. Yeah,

791
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 1: you had to type in the address before you left,

792
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: printed out, and then you had paper instructions that you

793
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: would follow. I mean, people are listening to this, not

794
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 1: going this is this is this is madness? What sort

795
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: of where was you going?

796
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 6: Oh?

797
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,360
Speaker 12: No, you had to look at a paper map, right.

798
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: Oh that was one step further. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, right,

799
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: you had to have an act. Listen, you're in a sexton.

800
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: Thank you, Brenda, have a good day. Glad you called roberta.

801
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 12: Yes, Hi.

802
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,760
Speaker 1: Kids these days won't understand, they.

803
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 14: Won't understand how easy it was to be sneaky because nowadays.

804
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 11: Everybody has like a ring ring, doorbells, there's cameras everywhere.

805
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 11: It's like, I remember back in my day, we used

806
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 11: to go a day time.

807
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am, right, well you get that, you get the

808
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,240
Speaker 1: family was a family three sixty life of these apps

809
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:30,840
Speaker 1: where you know, it's like where are you? What are

810
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 1: you doing? Find my friends? Yeah, all this stuff. Yeah,

811
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: you can't be messaging.

812
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 3: In someone's basement at like twelve pm. Come school, we're

813
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,439
Speaker 3: at nine o'class Glove were there first.

814
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 11: Then when you go to Simon, trust me.

815
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: Look at you. Thank you, Roberta. I have a good day. Yeah,

816
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: I mean it's it's much harder to lie now, it's

817
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: very hard, much harder to lie. Hey, Chazz, Oh my god,

818
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: I forgot about this, Chaz. Hi. Guys, NCCS will never understand.

819
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 6: On calling movie song and trying to get the times

820
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 6: when the movie starts, we're.

821
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 1: Having to call the movie theater itself. You know, say

822
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,959
Speaker 1: I want to go see you know, Batman or whatever.

823
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: It's like, okay, what time is it? I don't know.

824
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: You get a call and it's like there's like an

825
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: answering machine or what a hundred movie phone? Yeah.

826
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, Then when you actually missed the you know, your movie,

827
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 6: you have to wait until the entire thing goes all

828
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 6: over again. Yeah.

829
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 1: That was like that was like the TV guide thing.

830
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: It was like, no, I just wanted to see what

831
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: time c r L was, you know, or or the

832
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,200
Speaker 1: Grind was on. I just wanted to see Thank you, Jaz,

833
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you guys, love you Glad

834
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 1: you called more Fred.

835
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 8: Show next right here a.

836
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,919
Speaker 18: Beatleshirt on today? Do you know the members of oh

837
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 18: all right, yeah, who am I looking at there? Fred's

838
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 18: show is on. My kid is one year old?

839
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 7: Grad She's one year old, but I swear to god,

840
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 7: she understands four languages right now, including sign language. This

841
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 7: girl the sign language to me, Well, I don't even

842
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 7: know sign language.

843
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,879
Speaker 1: She knows like you that she knows.

844
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 3: Miss Rachel teaches us both like you.

845
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 7: Know, like they all done, and the morn all these

846
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 7: things and like I love you.

847
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, whoa girl?

848
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 7: And then I can tell her something in Spanish and

849
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 7: in Polish and the.

850
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 3: Girl just knows I don't even know that.

851
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 7: And then she every night now she takes out her

852
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 7: pacifier and I'm rocking her to sleep and she talks

853
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 7: to me.

854
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 3: The girl wants to talk.

855
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,919
Speaker 1: She got something? What is she saying? Though, there's a lot.

856
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 7: Of repetition, so we'll name everybody. I'm us it's Mama

857
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 7: dot d d BA yes. And then she just goes like,

858
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 7: well what, I'm like, didn't you tell me more? But

859
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 7: you have to talk to them so they understand words.

860
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: And she's a genius.

861
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 7: She is she okay, one year old wants to read

862
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,760
Speaker 7: a book instead of playing with toys, talk or dirt.

863
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 1: Maybe we're gonna do this about you. Maybe you're on

864
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 1: your baby, and maybe the fact that she's not playing

865
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: with dirt means that she's going to be at Stanford

866
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: by age ten.

867
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 3: She loved her books. That that's a sign you guys.

868
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: Frend Show is on. It's stay or go. All right,

869
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: talk to Chris, Hi, Chris, how you doing you under it? Chris?

870
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. You found a secret stash of

871
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:28,319
Speaker 1: money that your wife was hiding from you? Yeah? Why

872
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: what's the context here? I got to understand?

873
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 12: Okay, So, uh, I work.

874
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: She's she's a stay.

875
00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 12: At home mom. She hasn't had like, like a real

876
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 12: job in a year.

877
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: Careful, careful, Yeah, well, I mean you know what I mean,

878
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: like that she has not had an outside of the

879
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: home paid position. I mean, I mean, I'm trying to

880
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: keep you out of trouble here, man, I want to

881
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: make sure nothing happens to you. Okay, I can protecting

882
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 1: love where.

883
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 12: She runs the house. She's amazing, yes, but she.

884
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: Doesn't earn a salary from that, understood.

885
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 12: So I found out that she's kind of somehow been

886
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 12: setting money aside here and there. She's got this this

887
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 12: account and uh and and I asked her about it.

888
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,360
Speaker 12: We're very honest with each other. And she said that

889
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 12: it started during the pandemic, just because she was you know,

890
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 12: it was a crazy time back then. You never know.

891
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 12: And she said, she said, it's it's for both of us.

892
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: Okay, but you didn't know about it. And just to

893
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: be clear, you you so you make you bring home

894
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: the money, it goes into an account. She has access

895
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: to the account. She's taking care of the kids in

896
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: the house or whatever, and so and she's been sort

897
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 1: of siphoning a little bit of money off this thing,

898
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: not telling you and putting it in a separate account.

899
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: That's for both of you, except both of you didn't

900
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 1: know about it.

901
00:38:56,280 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 12: Just to be clear, No, that's that's exactly it. And

902
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 12: that's why I'm having a hard time believing this, because

903
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 12: it's like, Okay, sure, it's for both of us. The

904
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 12: pandemic was five years ago.

905
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: There's probably a lot of money in there now. She

906
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,959
Speaker 1: probably got a little little hall in there.

907
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 12: Yeah, And so I, you know, I told her im, like,

908
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 12: this feels like you're kind of.

909
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 19: It's, for lack of a better term, it feels like

910
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 19: you're kind of stealing from me because you know she

911
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:30,560
Speaker 19: does she doesn't have a job like that.

912
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 1: It just feels off. Okay, So she said that she's

913
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: setting this money aside just in case you never know,

914
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: is what she said. And and okay, but you didn't

915
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: know about it. And if you hadn't but if you

916
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 1: hadn't seen this this account, then you wouldn't have known

917
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: it even existed, Like this money would just be there.

918
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: You didn't you didn't see it going missing, you didn't

919
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 1: notice it. There would just be this account over here.

920
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 1: You would know nothing about exactly exactly right. Now, are

921
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 1: you a spender? Like do you do you have an issue?

922
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 1: Is there an issue in your relationship with with? Do

923
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: you spend more? Do you live outside of your means?

924
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: Do you think she's is she doing this as like

925
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: a protective mechanism, Like, hey, I'm a little bit more

926
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: financially responsible, So I'm setting setting money aside because I

927
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: don't trust that you'll do it? Is it? Or are

928
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 1: you pretty okay?

929
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 12: No? No, no, no, we I mean we do okay,

930
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 12: there's just like everybody, there's good months and bad months,

931
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,399
Speaker 12: but like, but by no means, are we you know,

932
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 12: heavy in debt? Or anything we do we do.

933
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, this is my mom. By the way, I

934
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: think you're married. This is my dad calling because my

935
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: mom does this. My mom has she she holds money.

936
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 1: I don't think my dad has any idea. My grandmother

937
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: did this too, and I think that was my mom

938
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: will tell you it was from the depression. But my

939
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 1: mom wasn't alive during the depression.

940
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 4: But my grandparents were about it, and I get that,

941
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 4: and my mom.

942
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,359
Speaker 1: And my grandmother was like this. My grandmother hid money

943
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: everywhere and her father didn't even have a beg. He

944
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 1: kept it all, you know, in a mattress, which is

945
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: a probably bad idea.

946
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 7: But.

947
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:01,439
Speaker 1: Nonetheless, this is generations in my family to hide money

948
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:06,319
Speaker 1: from their from spouses and and so I don't love

949
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: it because I don't know why she's not telling you.

950
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 1: And if you're telling, if you're being honest with us,

951
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: and you're saying that you're responsible and that there's not

952
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 1: an issue with spending or an issue with saving, then

953
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: I don't know why she would need to hide it

954
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 1: from you. I don't know why she couldn't just and

955
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: what it's for you never know. But what is you

956
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: never know, is that like it's for when I divorced you.

957
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 1: And I mean, I don't mean to take this to

958
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: the very you know, worst extreme, but you wouldn't have

959
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: had any idea this money was there when when things

960
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: were divided. She's been saving for five years. I mean,

961
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 1: what kind of how much is in there? Thousands?

962
00:41:39,080 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 12: Yep, it's a couple of thousand dollars.

963
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: Now another question is does she have any like Have

964
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: you guys decided, Hey, you're you're raising the kids and

965
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: taking care of the household. That is a very important job.

966
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: It's a it's a hard job. So you know you

967
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: can set aside X amount of dollars for you Because

968
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: I would think it would be weird if I'm let's

969
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: say that I'm a stay at home dad and I'm

970
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 1: doing all this work. I'm doing a great job. I'm

971
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,399
Speaker 1: taking care of the kids, I'm picking them up. You're

972
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: going to work and doing working hard too. But I

973
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: would have to come to you every time I wanted

974
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 1: to buy something, I would have to come to you

975
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 1: and say, hey, can I have some money or can

976
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: I spend on this? Can I spend on that? As

977
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,720
Speaker 1: where if I had my own job, I would probably

978
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: have to do less of that because I had my

979
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,280
Speaker 1: own revenue stream coming in. So have you guys discussed

980
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: maybe and this would be something she should talk to

981
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 1: you about. But if you discussed the idea that she's

982
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: just taking a little bit for herself so she didn't

983
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: have to ask you for basics, Well.

984
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 12: We do have an agreement in sense like that. So

985
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 12: let's say she goes out on a girls' night. You know,

986
00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 12: she'll let me know, Hey, I'm going out on a

987
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 12: girl's night, so I'm going to be you know, touching

988
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,520
Speaker 12: that account. Okay, not a problem.

989
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: Or she needs to buy something, or I'm gonna buy it,

990
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't love that. I wouldn't love to have

991
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 1: to go to my spouse every time and go, hey,

992
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: can I buy a new shirt? You know or whatever?

993
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, okay, So you know, maybe she's just

994
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: sort of allocating something for herself so she doesn't have

995
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: to do that because she shouldn't have to do that

996
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: because you guys agreed in this relationship on dividing the

997
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: roles this way. But I want to know eight five

998
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: five three five, how would you feel if you found

999
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: out that your your partner was essentially hiding money and

1000
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: you know, do you have I don't. I don't know

1001
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 1: if this has ever happened to you. Before I want

1002
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: to I want to hear from the people. Chris, I

1003
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 1: appreciate him. Man have the radio and I to see

1004
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 1: what people have to say. Good luck, all right, thank

1005
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 1: you a lot of texts about this. But you know,

1006
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:29,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, Kiki. You seem to think this is okay.

1007
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't you just say, Hey, I'm pulling five hundred

1008
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: bucks out a month and I'm putting it in an

1009
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: account and I'm that's what I'm that's for me, and

1010
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to do what I want to do with that.

1011
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 1: And that's where none of your business.

1012
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: I don't see a problem with this at all, and

1013
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 2: I don't. And she didn't take that. She's not taking

1014
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 2: it out to do whatever she wants to do with it.

1015
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 2: She's taking it out for them.

1016
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: But if it's for them, then why doesn't he know?

1017
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 3: He doesn't need to know.

1018
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 2: Of course she does if it's for them, But now

1019
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 2: he does know. So it's not like she's lying in

1020
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 2: and hiding, I mean lying and hiding. She told him

1021
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 2: when he.

1022
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: Found it, you know, when he found it.

1023
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 3: Yes, you have.

1024
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 2: When you especially when you are a stay at home parent,

1025
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: you need to have your affairs in order just in case,

1026
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,919
Speaker 2: you know, because the bills are depending on somebody else

1027
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 2: going to work. You know, the way this world is,

1028
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 2: he might lose his job to AI if.

1029
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 3: He come home and hey, y'all took his job. I got.

1030
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: I got a little fund on the side baby, for

1031
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 2: both of us. That's all she's doing.

1032
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: But you're assuming she was going to tell him about.

1033
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,960
Speaker 2: That, Well, yes, I would tell you as long as

1034
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: we together. Now if we break up, that's my money.

1035
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 2: You didn't need to know about it. I don't see

1036
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 2: anything wrong with this. I think he has a wonderful

1037
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 2: wife and he needs to stay.

1038
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: If she has, she has every right to want to

1039
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 1: have something for herself, and and I think that you

1040
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,720
Speaker 1: just say that to your partner, right Like my mom,

1041
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 1: she wants to have, she wants to have and my

1042
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,800
Speaker 1: mom works, by the way, they own a business together,

1043
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:52,400
Speaker 1: so she has every right to have a piece of that.

1044
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: But like my thing is, I think my mom wants

1045
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: to know that she's got something to hers because in

1046
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: the past, you know, divorced and things like that, she

1047
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: did a lot of things taken from her. So I

1048
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: think for her it's that that's how she sleeps at night.

1049
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: She's a big saver. I don't think my dad is.

1050
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,799
Speaker 1: So there's just a lot of elements to this. But

1051
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't know why you don't just disclose that. I

1052
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 1: don't know why you don't just say I need something

1053
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: that's mine. It's you still have access to it, but

1054
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: I need something that's mine because I don't have the

1055
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 1: luxury in this case of going out and selling something

1056
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: or doing something or making something and making my own

1057
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: money because we've decided to buy the rules this way.

1058
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: Because I don't need to say it.

1059
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 2: I don't need you to think about my money on

1060
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 2: the side, you know, like and for me, when I

1061
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:33,439
Speaker 2: know I have a little coin coming or an extra

1062
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,399
Speaker 2: little pocket of money, I'm thinking about it all day,

1063
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,120
Speaker 2: thinking about how I can spend it, thinking about what

1064
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 2: I can do and invest in all this.

1065
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,760
Speaker 1: I don't need to invest. You should invest in paying

1066
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 1: the tollway.

1067
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 3: I don't need you to see. I don't need you

1068
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 3: to think about that.

1069
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: You should invest in paying the irs, like.

1070
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 2: You know that extra thousand dollars you got you should pay. No,

1071
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 2: I don't need you to send me what I should do.

1072
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 2: I just need you to not even know that I

1073
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 2: have it. It's called the Lord Have Mercy fun. I

1074
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:57,479
Speaker 2: learned about it as a five year old from my aunt.

1075
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,400
Speaker 2: She said, I always have some money on the side.

1076
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: But then say that I don't know. Hey does it?

1077
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: Sin keys? How you say you name?

1078
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 13: Yep?

1079
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 12: Hey?

1080
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: How you doing so? This dude he's found a little

1081
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 1: side account that his wife has with a bunch of

1082
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 1: money in it that she's been sort of siphoning off

1083
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: the top, not telling him about it. But it's for them,

1084
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 1: but he didn't know about it. What do you think?

1085
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 15: I think that's perfectly acceptable. Women have been doing this

1086
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 15: since the dawn of time, especially if they've had to

1087
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 15: be the stay at home mom. In every single culture,

1088
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 15: you will find that women have been hoarding some sort

1089
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 15: of financial wealth because they, as a society were just

1090
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 15: told that they're not important and they needed an easy

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00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 15: way out. Indians. Indian women have their goal. I was

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00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:40,919
Speaker 15: gifted so much goals when I got married twenty years ago,

1093
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 15: and I have it. Yes, my husband knows about it. However,

1094
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 15: it's not a big deal. Did I used to be

1095
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 15: a stay at home mom? Absolutely, And no, you should

1096
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 15: never have to ask your significant other if you can

1097
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 15: send any money, especially if you're putting the same or

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00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 15: more amount of work into that relationship, into making that

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00:46:58,800 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 15: family happy.

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00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: Thing.

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00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 15: What happened to this Burro is that it's the situation where,

1102
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 15: oh my god, it doesn't matter until it finally happens

1103
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 15: to me, and now I'm going to make a big

1104
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 15: deal about it. It's like, no, no, it's a fantastical job.

1105
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 12: Yep.

1106
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: I agree with everything you're saying. Everything you said is true,

1107
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: But why not just say that? Why not just establish

1108
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 1: that in the relationship. This is what I deserve, this

1109
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: is what I need, and so this is what I'm

1110
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 1: going to do. And then and then he knows. But

1111
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 1: it's the hiding part that makes me wonder why, because she.

1112
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 15: Most likely does not feel confident and comfortable enough to

1113
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 15: actually tell her spouse. And that's something that's a little

1114
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:36,360
Speaker 15: bit deeper that they need to dive into.

1115
00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 10: And it's not.

1116
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 15: Because I have no idea what their relationship is, like

1117
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 15: none of us too, right, We're just going off of

1118
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 15: this quote unquote sixty second video that he decided to

1119
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 15: put out there. And so I think you just need

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00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 15: to figure it out on a deeper level. But the

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Speaker 15: majority of women, the reason why they don't tell their

1122
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 15: spouse is is because there has been something that has

1123
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 15: happened in the relationship and or they've been conditioned by

1124
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 15: the women before them because that's what they know.

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00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, you make a lot of good points.

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00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: That's just for me. The transparency would be in my

1127
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 1: it relationship with me. I would just want to know.

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00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: But that's all good. Thank you, have a good day.

1129
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: You're glad you called you, because this is what happens

1130
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: when you don't know and you find it. It's like,

1131
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 1: what are you saving up for? Like an escape? You know,

1132
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: like when you break out Alcatraz? Like what are we

1133
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:27,920
Speaker 1: doing here, Jessica, Hi, Hey, you saying leave the guy? Okay,

1134
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: we're jumping right to that.

1135
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 16: You should leave him, Because at first I was saying,

1136
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 16: this must be at least one hundred thousand. She's been,

1137
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 16: you know, skimming off the top.

1138
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: But how we get to one hundred thousand? How we

1139
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: get are these people.

1140
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 16: The way he was calling in about his wife. I

1141
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 16: was like, Oh, it's huge, So what do you saying?

1142
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 16: Two thousand dollars? I'm like, did he even just call

1143
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 16: in about two thousand dollars?

1144
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 13: Because this is.

1145
00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 16: The thing that because I'm a numbers girl, so that

1146
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 16: kind of prey much calmed down to four hundred bucks

1147
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 16: a year thirty three dollars a month, which just nothing.

1148
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 16: And she might feel some kind of way about not

1149
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 16: earning money on her own. It just might want to

1150
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 16: have something like they say, oh, school, you have a

1151
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 16: little money, set a.

1152
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,399
Speaker 3: Sou for a rainy day. And there's nothing wrong with all.

1153
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough, fair enough, thank you, Jessica. You're welcome,

1154
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: have a good day. No, I mean, hey, look, I

1155
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: got no issue any of this except for the lack

1156
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: of transparency. Hey Megan, Hi, Hey, what's on? Hey, good morning, welcome,

1157
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: thanks for listening. What do you think.

1158
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:33,480
Speaker 16: So she's planning on leaving you?

1159
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: No? No, no, uh, leaving me? That's what I don't know

1160
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: what to do it is.

1161
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 3: That's true.

1162
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:41,799
Speaker 12: That's true.

1163
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: No, it could be a ton.

1164
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 14: Of different things. Well, like I was saying, my husband,

1165
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 14: he's the one that works so but he also has

1166
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:54,800
Speaker 14: a separate account for me, and then this hidden account

1167
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 14: that I didn't know about until I knew about it.

1168
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 20: But I think.

1169
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Speaker 14: Maybe if it were for me, I would probably be

1170
00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 14: using it to like you said, not ask him for

1171
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:07,479
Speaker 14: so much.

1172
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 13: But this would be the account that I.

1173
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:13,240
Speaker 14: Pull from, like for the house, like sundryes, toilet trees,

1174
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 14: things where it's it's petty, but it's important.

1175
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 11: So I'm not going to keep coming and asking you.

1176
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, if I want to buy a new shirt or

1177
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Speaker 3: if i want to buy some.

1178
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 14: Jewelry, yeah, I'm definitely going to put that bug in

1179
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 14: your ear so you can take it out of the account.

1180
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, yeah, no, I appreciate you. Have

1181
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: a good day.

1182
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 5: You too.

1183
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: Oh we got a secret bank account? Hey, visit verg vergege.

1184
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 1: You got a secret bank account? How much in there?

1185
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: How long have you been doing it?

1186
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 5: Since I was eleven?

1187
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: Okay?

1188
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, my grandfather started a bank account for me his

1189
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 5: credit union, and he would put money in there on

1190
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 5: my birthday all the giants and I have, I basically

1191
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 5: take like one hundred to three hundred dollars off the

1192
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 5: top of my check and pop it in there every time.

1193
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: Okay. And you're married and you or your partner whomever

1194
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: doesn't know about this, correct? Is it your money? Those

1195
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: like I say, yours it's kind of both of you.

1196
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:26,960
Speaker 1: Is it coming out of your paycheck or is it

1197
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: coming out of his? And he doesn't know.

1198
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 5: Well, so I was working for five years. Prior to that,

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00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 5: I was a stay at home mom for ten. Right

1200
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 5: now I'm on medical leave, and so it's about the

1201
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:52,280
Speaker 5: side hustle, and I don't feel that my side hustle

1202
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 5: has anything to do with him.

1203
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: Now. But what's your hesitation to tell him? Nothing? You said?

1204
00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:03,120
Speaker 1: Is I just wonder what is your hesitation to let

1205
00:52:03,200 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: him know that you're doing this? Sure?

1206
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 12: Sure?

1207
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 5: He So he's got some trauma and he had no

1208
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:17,359
Speaker 5: control over his childhood, so he had OCD and used

1209
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:21,760
Speaker 5: to try and get his hands on everything. And there's

1210
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 5: just certain things that he has no business being involved with,

1211
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 5: including what.

1212
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 12: I spend money on.

1213
00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:33,720
Speaker 5: And I used to have to ask him for money

1214
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 5: for things I needed and when he told me no,

1215
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,880
Speaker 5: I was like, Okay, well we need a different course

1216
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:42,640
Speaker 5: of action here.

1217
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 1: Marriage sounds rad like I just can't wait, aren't you excited?

1218
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:46,959
Speaker 13: Yeah?

1219
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: God, I'm starting forever and just yeah, amazing, because.

1220
00:52:57,239 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, marriage is the hardest thing I've ever done.

1221
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: Really, Yeah, Hey sounds great? Yeah, yeah, hide your money apparently,

1222
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: hide your kids, hide your wife.

1223
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:09,400
Speaker 3: Run, hide your money.

1224
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 5: I got a little college fund for the kids.

1225
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: Go in.

1226
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 5: You know, I got my friends.

1227
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 11: So if I need to do whatever, I have a.

1228
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: Go bag ready. Apparently say you can get out in

1229
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 1: the middle of the night.

1230
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 3: I'm also have I go Oh Jesus.

1231
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:30,240
Speaker 1: Hey link twice if you need help, Okay, call us anytime.

1232
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: Have a good day. Hey you do Yeah, way to

1233
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: sell it, guys, way to sell it. Yeah. Oh my god.

1234
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: Marriage is awesome. You should do it. You know how

1235
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 1: many times I hear that every Ooh, you should get married.

1236
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,879
Speaker 1: You'll find someone someday. Were you married. Well, I'm divorced now.

1237
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 1: Oh you good said, I'm hiding money from my spouse,

1238
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 1: but you should get married. It is the Friend Show.

1239
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 1: Good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio, on

1240
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,080
Speaker 1: the iHeart app Live and anytime search for the freend

1241
00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: Show on demand. We're supposed to be doing something and

1242
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 1: I don't think we can do it, but I guess

1243
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,839
Speaker 1: this is the new trends in the office, and I

1244
00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 1: just want to do inform you of what it is

1245
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:01,799
Speaker 1: or what it's I think this has been happening, but

1246
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if there was a name. I witnessed

1247
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 1: someone do it yesterday. I'm not going to say who,

1248
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: of course I would never I watched someone told me

1249
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: they were doing it basically yesterday. It's called coffee badging.

1250
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 1: Have you heard it? You've heard of the thing, but

1251
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: maybe you haven't heard of the phrase coffee badging. So

1252
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: remote based workers are being told they have to return

1253
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: to work now many and some of them are using

1254
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:29,400
Speaker 1: quote unquote coffee badging to dodge the new marching orders.

1255
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:32,319
Speaker 1: So coffee badging involves swiping their ID badges at the

1256
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:36,439
Speaker 1: office to record their arrival, staying for thirty minutes long

1257
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,359
Speaker 1: enough to get a cup of coffee and everybody can

1258
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: see them that they were there, and then go back home.

1259
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: For workers who don't have to swipe a badge, simply

1260
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: establishing their presence by saying hi to people, dropping by

1261
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:52,799
Speaker 1: someone's cubicle, or just talking loudly in the hallway, and

1262
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:57,319
Speaker 1: then irish exiting work for the day. Oh yeah, but

1263
00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding. Of course I would never reveal who

1264
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 1: it was. But I got in the elevator with someone

1265
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 1: yesterday at like ten fifteen, because you know, we get

1266
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: here at for something, so ten to fifteen, time to

1267
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: go home, and this dude had probably been here for

1268
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes, and he got in the elevator with me

1269
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: because I got to get the hell out of here

1270
00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:16,320
Speaker 1: and just left, leaving for the day's leaving for the day.

1271
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,319
Speaker 3: Dude, like you have.

1272
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 1: To sell something. He's like, I got to get the

1273
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 1: hell out of here. And he was done. He'd had

1274
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:24,880
Speaker 1: enough for today, so or yesterday, I guess it was

1275
00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 1: so I yeah, I don't know how I'd feel about it,

1276
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:29,879
Speaker 1: because we never stopped coming in.

1277
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 8: Well, that's the thing is, like they tell you have

1278
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:33,719
Speaker 8: to come in three four days a week, whatever it

1279
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 8: is where you work, but they never say how long

1280
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 8: you have to stay, right, so if you stick if

1281
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 8: you were to stick around here, you would see that

1282
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 8: like as the day goes on, there's less and less

1283
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 8: less people by the time at the end of the

1284
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 8: day should be here, like five five thirty, ain't nobody here.

1285
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm sure they're off on sales calls. Jason, Oh, you're

1286
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: all so many things. Yeah, absolutely z And then all

1287
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: the stuff I've seen on TikTok and heard from my

1288
00:55:56,239 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 1: friends about like how they track you. Sales Force apparently

1289
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 1: is like the enemy of the state.

1290
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 8: Keep moving, You're a little bubble on teams. Yeah, because

1291
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 8: if it goes yellow, you're not working.

1292
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, what I mean. So apparently they have like

1293
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: apps and they have little devices you can buy that

1294
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: will move your mouse and circles for you, so you

1295
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:15,759
Speaker 1: don't you know, you can go off and do your

1296
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:16,600
Speaker 1: laundry or whatever.

1297
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 3: I need that.

1298
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: But I don't understand this because I get like the

1299
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:26,359
Speaker 1: collaborative thing. I get that everybody, well, I think some

1300
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 1: companies want you to come back so they can watch

1301
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 1: you work and and so that you can't be more

1302
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 1: efficient with your day. I guess. I mean because if

1303
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: your work is getting done, then you and you still

1304
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: have a job because you're doing a good job. Then

1305
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 1: I guess I don't really know why it necessarily matters

1306
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: if you're there or not. I get that there's a

1307
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: collaborative thing where it's like, well, you know, we're all

1308
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 1: together like on this show, like it would be weird

1309
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:45,920
Speaker 1: if we were all in separate places. We tried that

1310
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 1: the first day of COVID. It did not work, and

1311
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: so we said, forget it. We're all just gonna We're

1312
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 1: gonna have the biggest super spreader radio show of all time.

1313
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: And then we just came to work on day two

1314
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 1: and never stopped coming in. And the company was like,

1315
00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:58,839
Speaker 1: you can't do that, but they never turned our key

1316
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 1: card off because they didn't mind and we were working.

1317
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 3: They just had to put it in writing like you

1318
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 3: shouldn't do that.

1319
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 1: Hey, if don't you do that, Fred, And then we

1320
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 1: did it for two years. Where was I going with this?

1321
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:13,840
Speaker 1: But no. But it's just amazing to me that because

1322
00:57:13,880 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: people I know who work from home or were working

1323
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: from home primarily, they would tell you that they were

1324
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:22,760
Speaker 1: working harder, yes, than they were because it was like, well,

1325
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 1: I got nothing else to do, Like I'm sitting here,

1326
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: I have nowhere to go, my laptop's open, I've already

1327
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: cleaned my house and done my laundry five times, you know,

1328
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: so I guess I'll just do more work. So for

1329
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: the people who are like you got to come in

1330
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 1: because you're we think you'll work harder, I don't think

1331
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 1: that's true. I think I think people were working harder

1332
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: when they were at home, and who cares if you're efficient.

1333
00:57:42,800 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 1: You know. My theory about this, In the average eight

1334
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 1: hour workday, I contend the average person does about two

1335
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 1: hours of work, oh maybe three. Think about it. There's lunch,

1336
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: we got to stroll around a little bit, we got

1337
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: to have a meeting or two that didn't need to

1338
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 1: be a meeting, but I got to be here for

1339
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: eight hours. So this is when you work completely odd

1340
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:05,120
Speaker 1: different hours than everybody else, like we do, you begin

1341
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: to notice the patterns. It's like, sure, let's schedule a

1342
00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 1: bunch of meetings all day because you got to be

1343
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:11,439
Speaker 1: because you're expected to be here from nine to five

1344
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: or whatever. So I got to fill the day and

1345
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: look busy. Sure, let's have a meeting around one. That's

1346
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: two o'clock in the morning. For me. We're not We're

1347
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:23,919
Speaker 1: not I'm unavailable or I'm taking a meeting from bed.

1348
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you. I notice, right,

1349
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know how to fix it, you know,

1350
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: because it's like, okay, so let's say it takes me

1351
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: half the day to get my eight hours of work done. Well,

1352
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 1: then in theory, I should be able to go home after.

1353
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: If I'm that efficient, I can get it all done

1354
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: and you don't have any issue with my work, and

1355
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: I got I'm doing what I'm supposed to be doing,

1356
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: and you're happy and it takes me three or four hours,

1357
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: then I should be able to be done, right. Yeah,

1358
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 1: But then if people figured out that you were only

1359
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 1: really doing four hours of work a day, nobody wants nobody.

1360
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: You wouldn't want your boss to know that you can

1361
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 1: do eight hours worth of work in four hours. So

1362
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: then if you if they did, then they would probably

1363
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:04,840
Speaker 1: just give you more work to fill the time, right, yeah,

1364
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: more assignments. You gotta pretend like it takes you all day.

1365
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 1: Otherwise it'd be like, oh, great, you're super efficient. I'm

1366
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: going to penalize you by giving you even more work.

1367
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:16,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I could see that. Well, you got a

1368
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,040
Speaker 3: factor in breaks, don't we legally have to have those

1369
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 3: through fifteen thirty smoke break?

1370
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: That's required? Yeah, a day, it's long.

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00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 3: It's still long, I think.

1372
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: So if you.

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Speaker 3: Work over when it's like six hours something like that,

1374
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 3: I think it's six and a half.

1375
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 1: Well, no wonder because we don't so no breaks around here. No,

1376
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:36,960
Speaker 1: I guess when the commercials are playing anyway, coffee badging,

1377
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:38,800
Speaker 1: that's the people are doing that, or at least there's a

1378
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: term for it. Showing up for work and then making

1379
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: it seem as though I do that at parties. I

1380
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 1: do that social functions, well, I coffee badge the social function,

1381
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 1: like if it's something I have to go to you,

1382
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 1: but I just am not feeling it, I will show

1383
00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: up and I'll be hey, everybody up here. If you

1384
00:59:58,000 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: see that level of energy and that level of like

1385
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: me needing attention on me, then you know exactly what

1386
01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm doing. I'm making sure everybody knows that I'm there here,

1387
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: I am sorry, I came, I'm sor if I'm acting

1388
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 1: like that, then you know right away what my plan is.

1389
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes later in the uber on the other direction, yes, yeah,

1390
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: nurses don't get lunches or breaks. What I've noticed that before,

1391
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: like when I volunte here to the hospital or whatever,

1392
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:29,120
Speaker 1: and that wasn't supposed to be a humble bragg like

1393
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: that's the only reason I would know that.

1394
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Speaker 3: They take lunches. My friend who's a nurse calls me

1395
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 3: in her lunch all the time.

1396
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 1: Well, maybe she gets one and these people don't.

1397
01:00:35,040 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 3: I don't think that's legal, right, Well, I.

1398
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 1: Think like maybe they're eating, but I don't think that.

1399
01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 1: I don't know if they're maybe they're not supposed to.

1400
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 1: Like maybe they're eating their lunch, but they're also looking

1401
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: at the monitors and you know, I mean, so I

1402
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: would think you're kind of always like there may be

1403
01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 1: stretches where you're not doing anything, but God forbid, there's

1404
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: something that happens, and then you've got to be on

1405
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,800
Speaker 1: it right away, Like I would guess if you're an

1406
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: overnight nurse. I mean, people are sleeping, of course, but

1407
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: you s not like you can sleep because it's god

1408
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 1: for somebody code or something. Then it's like, you know,

1409
01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: and I got churo hanging out of my mouth. You know,

1410
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: it's like I'm on break though, guys, right, I can't

1411
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: handle this right now, I'm on break.

1412
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 7: Or like the firefighters right, like my husband Hobby, like

1413
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 7: they I mean they're at the fire house and then

1414
01:01:14,360 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 7: they're cooking or like they're eating whatever, but there's a fire.

1415
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 3: They can't be like we're still you know, the meat

1416
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 3: loaf is still and they gotta go.

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01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. See, now that would be hard for me. Like

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01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: I can't imagine not doing anything all day. You know,

1419
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 1: for let's say you don't get I don't know how

1420
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 1: when they get a call, but let's say they don't

1421
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 1: get a call for hours, and you're sitting there and

1422
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 1: you're there, you know, when you're hanging out, you're like

1423
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: watching TV or sleep hanging or whatever, and then all

1424
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 1: of a sudden it's like boom, Now I gotta be

1425
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 1: on right and I got to go and do this thing.

1426
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 1: But I don't know when it's gonna happen. Like I

1427
01:01:42,360 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: need a minute, you know, like when I get up,

1428
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:46,000
Speaker 1: I need a minute, right, And the fire is not

1429
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:48,120
Speaker 1: gonna wait for me. No, you know, I can't be like,

1430
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 1: hold on, guy, I need like fifteen give me like

1431
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: fifteen twenty, you know, then I'll slide down that pole

1432
01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: and help you out, you know what I mean. But

1433
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 1: like I'm not if I'm dead ass a sleep and

1434
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 1: you wake me up with an alarm and then say

1435
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: go save someone's life, I don't think that's likely to Well.

1436
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 3: That's not for me.

1437
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 7: So shout out to you guys, because I can't do that.

1438
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 7: And yes, all the you know, first responders.

1439
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: Shout out to hoave hair. Your husband was a firefighter.

1440
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 4: Well, go in the city, po a game for your

1441
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 4: You go to work and you're doing recess with your friends,

1442
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 4: but there is so much that goes into that.

1443
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,600
Speaker 3: Or what people think about this right where?

1444
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,520
Speaker 1: But we are Fred's show is so have you every

1445
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 1: time you left your home in your life? Can Did

1446
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 1: you have a mobile phone?

1447
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,920
Speaker 3: No? But I definitely like I missed the payphones.

1448
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 4: But I think there was like times that the movies

1449
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 4: maybe where like we would pick a time when it

1450
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 4: was over and my mom would pick me up.

1451
01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 3: But I don't think I ever used to pay phone,

1452
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 3: but sounds lit.

1453
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 1: I think it was college before it was like here's

1454
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: a mobile phone.

1455
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 12: Yeah.

1456
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: No, I didn't like and here you go like take

1457
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:48,640
Speaker 1: this with you and it was big. It wasn't like

1458
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 1: brick big, but it was still like not going in

1459
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 1: your podcast? Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's

1460
01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Angela, good morning, Welcome to the program.

1461
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: How are you morning.

1462
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 13: I'm doing okay, but I'm feeling really confused right now.

1463
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 1: Yes, of course, and that's why we're here waiting by

1464
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: the phone. We are public servants and we're going to

1465
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 1: try and figure out if you've been ghosted. What's going on?

1466
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:14,760
Speaker 1: You met a guy, his name is Luke. Why don't

1467
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: you tell us how you met? About any dates you've

1468
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 1: been on and then what's happening now?

1469
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:21,480
Speaker 13: And while you're confused, Yeah, well, we met on hins

1470
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 13: and once we matched, we were talking so much, just

1471
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:29,160
Speaker 13: like a ton, and our messages were really flirtatious. So

1472
01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 13: we planned a date. And so this is where things

1473
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 13: got really weird. When I got to the date, I

1474
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 13: walked up to the table and said hi to him,

1475
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:40,120
Speaker 13: and I sat down, and then he just looked like

1476
01:03:40,200 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 13: he saw a ghost, and I was like, uh, that's weird.

1477
01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 13: But then out of nowhere, it got even weirder because

1478
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 13: he started speaking Italian and then claiming that he doesn't

1479
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 13: even speak English, which doesn't make any sense because we

1480
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 13: were talking and texting so much, all.

1481
01:03:57,800 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 16: In English, and yeah, okay, I just had.

1482
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 13: No idea what was going on. It was the weirdest

1483
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 13: thing ever.

1484
01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:06,040
Speaker 1: Well, I'm trying to figure this out. So this guy,

1485
01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 1: this guy had no issue communicating with you via text, right,

1486
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 1: so he knows English? Yeah, exactly, okay, but then you

1487
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 1: go on his date and then all of a sudden,

1488
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 1: it's broken English to only Italian and you're sitting there going, wait, mane,

1489
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: well how did you talk to me before then?

1490
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 12: Exactly?

1491
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:21,240
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1492
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 1: Any sense? Yeah, okay, why don't you get on like

1493
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: Google Translator or something and then start texting him in Italian.

1494
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 1: Maybe that's the problem. Maybe that's why you haven't heard

1495
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: from him, because now that maybe he had amnesia and

1496
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: he just forgot how to speak English.

1497
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:37,400
Speaker 13: I mean, I don't know. It was just like you know,

1498
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 13: I would never even normally go on waiting by the phone,

1499
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 13: but this was just way too weird for me to

1500
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:44,919
Speaker 13: not share. To try to figure out what was going

1501
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 13: on with this.

1502
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 1: That's where we come in. We're gonna call this guy.

1503
01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get out of my Italian translation machine here

1504
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:52,520
Speaker 1: and see if I can figure out how to communicate

1505
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:56,600
Speaker 1: with him. Luke the Italian. Okay, we're gonna call him

1506
01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: in just a second and see if we can figure

1507
01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 1: out what's going on. You'll be on the phone the

1508
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 1: whole time, and is always is that we can straighten

1509
01:05:01,680 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 1: this out and set you up on another date that

1510
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 1: we pay for. Sound good?

1511
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, thank you?

1512
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: That sounds good. Hey, Angela, let's call this guy Luke.

1513
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 1: You guys, you met on on Hinge, one of the apps,

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01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 1: and you were chatting and it was flirtatious and it

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01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,400
Speaker 1: was all good, and you planned a date together. You

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01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: go on the date, you sit down, and the guy's

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01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 1: facial expression changes, and then all he'll do is speak

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01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 1: to you in Italian. It's almost like you forgot how

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01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 1: to speak English.

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Speaker 13: Yep, that's exactly what happened. And so because I don't

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01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 13: know any Italian and it was just super awkward, I

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01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 13: got up and left. And you know, I haven't seen

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01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 13: or heard from him ever since that happened.

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01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,440
Speaker 1: He never like he spoke Italian and then he never wavered,

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01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 1: like he'd never no other words of English came out.

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01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 13: Nope, not at all.

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01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 1: But he knew English when he was texting you. He

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01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:52,479
Speaker 1: used to speak clear, right, Okay, yeah, all right, let's

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01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 1: call this guy right now a good luck?

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01:05:54,160 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 13: Okay, thank you.

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01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:07,160
Speaker 1: Well that's interesting. Hey, Chow, Luke Chow. My name is Fred.

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01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that you are on

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01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can which aff for just

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01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:20,360
Speaker 1: a second in English? I'm sure? Yeah? See, Seth seemed

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01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: to him like it was a weird question. You know

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01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: that we why would we speak in English? But these

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01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 1: you you are Luke. Right, you are Luke and you're

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01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 1: on the dating app Hinge right, Yes, I'm Luke. Okay,

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01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 1: Well it's funny because we met a woman named Angela

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01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 1: and she reached out to us, said that she met

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01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: you on Hinge and you seem to have forgotten how

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01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: to speak English. Do you remember that? Oh yeah, Angela schools.

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01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 12: Sky No no, no, no, you.

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01:06:55,840 --> 01:07:07,640
Speaker 1: Us No. You know you understand Cape, you understand Valley

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01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 1: even Barlow, England. And look, I know you speak English

1548
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 1: because you spoke it to me, you know, for a

1549
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: good minute before we did this. Can we can we

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01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 1: just go back to English? It's just you and you

1551
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:21,440
Speaker 1: and me.

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01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 20: No English, no, no, no, So we're not angels, so

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01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,080
Speaker 20: you we're not going to speak in English.

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01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 1: I just want to be clear, because you spoke English

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01:07:33,920 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 1: until I said her name, and then you train then

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01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 1: you became no no I st.

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01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 21: Louis par la englide ill no no, no, no, your barista.

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01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 3: Tourism. I got it.

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01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 1: Hey, Angela, this is this dude obviously speaks English, and

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01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:02,439
Speaker 1: this is obviously I would love to get I would

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01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 1: love to get the story out of him. But I

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01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 1: don't know why he's doing this. What I mean, is

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01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 1: there any is there any way we could get you

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01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 1: to speak English again?

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01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:16,560
Speaker 3: Anyway?

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01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 1: Google? I mean that one.

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01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, just give her the real reason you're

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01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:26,759
Speaker 3: being weird.

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01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 1: Obviously there was something that he didn't like, and it's

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01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:33,200
Speaker 1: easier for him to pretend. I guess this is his

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01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 1: way out of something. Can you think of anything, Angela?

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01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 13: Like?

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01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:37,320
Speaker 1: Are your pictures old?

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Speaker 13: Or?

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01:08:37,760 --> 01:08:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you're not attractive, I'm just saying, like,

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01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 1: is there any did you change your hair? I'm trying

1577
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 1: to think of all the things we've heard over there.

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01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 1: Did you put your you know, bare feet up on

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01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 1: the table, like? Did you do anything weird?

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01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 13: No? I can't think of anything weird that I did,

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01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 13: and my pictures are recent. I think they're pretty recent.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to give you one more chance. Luke, is

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01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 1: there do you want to tell us why you haven't

1584
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 1: called Angela in English? Okay?

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01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 21: Fine, there is there's Luke.

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01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 3: You got you got me?

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01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:12,439
Speaker 1: Okay?

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01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 3: Look, I pan we did.

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01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,360
Speaker 1: You panicked? Why did you had it?

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01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 21: I showed up and I swear she looked completely different

1591
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 21: from her photos, and I didn't know what to do,

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01:09:24,680 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 21: so my brain just shut down and somehow I don't

1593
01:09:28,280 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 21: know to speak I thought preparing not to speak English

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01:09:32,960 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 21: felt like the least mean option.

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01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:34,960
Speaker 7: I don't know.

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01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 1: Well, you obviously speak English because you planned the date

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01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: in English, So I mean I could understand if you'd

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01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 1: never met before that you could try this one. But

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01:09:43,280 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: like you answered the phone in English, you texted her

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01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 1: in English. Like I said, my brain turned off and

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01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:53,320
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. Okay, Well, I wish

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01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 1: I could ask you in Italian, but I can't. Uh,

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01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with her again? We'll

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01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:58,920
Speaker 1: pay for it. I think I know the answer. You

1605
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:00,680
Speaker 1: can go to a nice Italian rest an order and

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01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 1: tell you him. She'll be very impressed. Would you like

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01:10:02,320 --> 01:10:03,080
Speaker 1: to go out with her again?

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01:10:04,439 --> 01:10:06,439
Speaker 3: I just I don't know.

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01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't think that.

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01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 21: I'm just not attracted to her, and I didn't want

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01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 21: to hurt her feelings, and I did hurt her feelings,

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01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:16,720
Speaker 21: and so I don't feel like.

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Speaker 1: It's for the best. Well, I mean a better question

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01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 1: when be Angela, after hearing all of this, would you

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01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: even want to go out with him again?

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01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:22,559
Speaker 11: No?

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01:10:22,920 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 13: I wouldn't because it's just ridiculous what he did, and

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01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 13: he really didn't have to do all that. He could

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01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,519
Speaker 13: have just told me, or we could have just you know,

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01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:34,240
Speaker 13: like had our day and it didn't have to go

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01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:36,439
Speaker 13: on for long. It could have been like, you know,

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01:10:36,560 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 13: he could have said that he had to leave or

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01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 13: something after we were there for like I don't know,

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01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 13: thirty minutes or something like you could give someone thirty

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01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 13: minutes of your time, right and then like it could

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01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 13: have been over. He really didn't have to pretend to

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01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 13: not know any English and just teak Italian and then

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01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:56,679
Speaker 13: you know, now my feelings really are hurt.

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01:10:57,000 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 1: So well, I think it's kind of a fair standard.

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01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to go out with you know, you

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01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: agree to go on a date with somebody for drinks.

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01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:06,120
Speaker 1: Typically it's two drinks. Typically that's just kind of you know,

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01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:08,200
Speaker 1: everyone's going to make time and get ready and go

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01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: out and do all that. It's usually kind of like

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01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:12,679
Speaker 1: universally accepted, We're going to sit there for two drinks

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01:11:12,720 --> 01:11:14,599
Speaker 1: and if it doesn't work out then that's fine whatever.

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01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:17,280
Speaker 1: But or you could just start speaking another language and

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01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 1: pretend like you don't speak English anymore, that you just

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01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:20,000
Speaker 1: have amnesia and forgot.

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01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 3: But anyway, look, no, we'll try anything, won't you we

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01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:24,640
Speaker 3: I mean, this is.

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01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 1: A new one. We've never heard this one before. But Luke,

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01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:31,439
Speaker 1: adios and Angela good luck to you, choo is hello

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01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:34,639
Speaker 1: and goodbye right so chiao again and Guy's bestive luck

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01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 1: to both of you.

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01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 13: Thank you.

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01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: It used the freend Show, good morning, thanks for having

1648
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 1: us on the radio, on the iHeart app Live and anytime.

1649
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: Search for The freend Show on demand. So a married

1650
01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 1: man recently sparks debate after turning to Reddit with a dilemma.

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01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 1: He says, always been upfront with his wife. He doesn't

1652
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 1: buy into this bro code thing suggests that men should

1653
01:11:56,360 --> 01:11:59,040
Speaker 1: keep secrets from each other. So one day, his longtime

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01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: friend of twenty five years approached him with a private

1655
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:04,679
Speaker 1: confession in mind. But the man immediately made his stance clear.

1656
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:08,560
Speaker 1: If it shared with him, it's also shared with his wife.

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01:12:08,680 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 1: That honestly didn't sit well with his friend or their

1658
01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: mutual circle. The friend felt betrayed, rallied others, and now

1659
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: most of their shared friends are siding against the guy.

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01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:24,360
Speaker 1: Now it doesn't it doesn't say here what the secret was.

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01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 1: And again this is this is someone who paraphrased that

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01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 1: the Reddit post or if he told him that ahead

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01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:34,400
Speaker 1: of time or after the fact, like, hey, thanks for

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01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 1: telling me that you're cheating on your wife. I'm going

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01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 1: to tell my wife just so you know. I'd like

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01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 1: to believe that. If if that's your deal, then it's like, hey, man,

1667
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 1: I got to tell you something that you'd be like, hey,

1668
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:47,800
Speaker 1: just so you know, Like my wife is considered part

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01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:49,559
Speaker 1: of me now, and so if you tell me, I'm

1670
01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:51,759
Speaker 1: going to tell her, So just be aware of that before.

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01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: Let's just assume that's what it was that he did

1672
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:58,080
Speaker 1: give his friend the heads up? Is that fair? And

1673
01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 1: in your relationship? Is that what you assume? I want

1674
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:02,240
Speaker 1: to know from you guys. Of course you can call

1675
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 1: it text eight five five five one three five. If

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01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 1: I tell you guys something, and we're friends and I

1677
01:13:08,080 --> 01:13:10,160
Speaker 1: know all of your partners, but except for Big Tim,

1678
01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:12,280
Speaker 1: I've never Metica, but I know all of your partners.

1679
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 1: So if I tell you guys something, should I just

1680
01:13:14,840 --> 01:13:17,160
Speaker 1: assume that it's going to your partner? Is that fair

1681
01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: to assume? Or do I have to tell you I

1682
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 1: don't want you to tell that person. Like are my

1683
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:24,639
Speaker 1: friends telling their wives everything I tell them?

1684
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:26,160
Speaker 3: It depends on what you tell me.

1685
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 4: If it's like something health related or something you're going

1686
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:31,360
Speaker 4: through like mental health, physical health.

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01:13:31,400 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 3: And I'm not repeating that that's not for me to share.

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01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 1: Okay, but if I'm cheating on someone, you're gonna run

1689
01:13:38,120 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 1: home until Shane.

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01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:39,719
Speaker 3: That's hot tea.

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01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:43,920
Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, I mean probably yeah, I mean because you're

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01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,479
Speaker 4: messing up already, So why do I have to keep

1693
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 4: that secret?

1694
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 1: Right?

1695
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:49,240
Speaker 3: I probably don't want you to cheat?

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01:13:49,520 --> 01:13:52,080
Speaker 1: See, but this comes back to like for me, when

1697
01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:53,479
Speaker 1: you get in a fight with your partner and then

1698
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:56,479
Speaker 1: you go tell your friend. You know, most people are

1699
01:13:56,520 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 1: telling their side of the story. Most people are not

1700
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:02,439
Speaker 1: telling an objectivetive. Most people want their friend to side

1701
01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:05,000
Speaker 1: with them. Most of your friends will side with you

1702
01:14:05,320 --> 01:14:08,400
Speaker 1: sometimes maybe if you tell them the actual story, they

1703
01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:10,599
Speaker 1: might point out something that you could have done differently.

1704
01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:12,760
Speaker 1: But then the problem is you you know, an hour

1705
01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:14,519
Speaker 1: or two or a day or a week later, you

1706
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:16,880
Speaker 1: make up with that person or it's over, and then

1707
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:19,200
Speaker 1: your friend holds onto the memory of the last story

1708
01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:21,599
Speaker 1: you told them, and that could potentially affect the way

1709
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 1: they look at your partner. And so I feel the

1710
01:14:23,760 --> 01:14:26,120
Speaker 1: same way about you know, like I've had a friend

1711
01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:27,760
Speaker 1: who's going through kind of a tough thing, and he's

1712
01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:31,479
Speaker 1: a family friend, and we know all parties involved, and

1713
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: so I'm not sharing with like my mom and dad

1714
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:39,280
Speaker 1: the full extent of what I know, because what happens

1715
01:14:39,280 --> 01:14:42,479
Speaker 1: if everything is resolved and then it's like they don't

1716
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 1: they're not getting constant updates, they're not fully immersed in

1717
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:47,640
Speaker 1: this situation. And then let's just say, are they just

1718
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 1: supposed to forget because they they probably favor one side

1719
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 1: more than the other. And if they're only getting information

1720
01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: from one side, and this is a family friend who's

1721
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 1: going to come around and blah blah blah, then you

1722
01:14:56,920 --> 01:15:00,439
Speaker 1: know it's unfair because to the other person because they're

1723
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 1: only getting one side of the story. So like, I

1724
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 1: don't want my family to think differently about anybody because

1725
01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:07,920
Speaker 1: they are only getting some information, right, So I don't

1726
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:11,479
Speaker 1: really share anywhere near as much as I know because

1727
01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 1: I don't want this person to be in that situation.

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01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:16,080
Speaker 1: And I feel like that's what happens when you share

1729
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:19,600
Speaker 1: a story secondhand with someone else in your life, you

1730
01:15:19,640 --> 01:15:21,599
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It's like what you're saying, you're

1731
01:15:21,640 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 1: giving them the information and then you're trusting them to

1732
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 1: forget and move on. But they may hold on to

1733
01:15:27,320 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 1: that and then have bad feelings about someone forever. Like

1734
01:15:31,240 --> 01:15:33,840
Speaker 1: let's say, okay, let's say my I'm in a relationship,

1735
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:36,720
Speaker 1: which that in itself would be hysterical, right, that would

1736
01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:42,799
Speaker 1: be why and Jason's cheating on Mike, which would never happen,

1737
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:46,040
Speaker 1: And I tell her that, and then then but there's

1738
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:48,040
Speaker 1: more of the story, or there's a whole lot more context,

1739
01:15:48,120 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 1: or I've known you for fifteen years so I know

1740
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:51,760
Speaker 1: that the relationship can be up and down, or I'm

1741
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:54,320
Speaker 1: just making all this up and then you guys resolve it.

1742
01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:57,680
Speaker 1: But my friend over here doesn't have my girlfriend hypothetical,

1743
01:15:57,760 --> 01:15:59,960
Speaker 1: doesn't have all that context, doesn't know the ins and out,

1744
01:16:00,160 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 1: doesn't see you every day, so all she knows is

1745
01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:04,360
Speaker 1: you cheated and now you're back in the relationship again.

1746
01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:06,720
Speaker 1: Like that might affect the way she thinks about you.

1747
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 1: And that's not fair to you. No, no it's not.

1748
01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 8: And that's why I'm very selective of what I tell Mike,

1749
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:14,800
Speaker 8: because I can't hold a grudge, like to save my life,

1750
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:16,599
Speaker 8: like anyone can do whatever to me. I get mad,

1751
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:18,400
Speaker 8: I get over it whatever, I get mad at you

1752
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 8: for that, Like Jason hold a grudge. He is the

1753
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:25,240
Speaker 8: complete opposite. Like if I tell him anything negative or

1754
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 8: someone did something especially to me or to someone that

1755
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:31,400
Speaker 8: he cares about, he will hold on to that and

1756
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:32,599
Speaker 8: remember that for forever.

1757
01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 3: And I'm like, okay, like we're good. I have to

1758
01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 3: be very selective share.

1759
01:16:37,520 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 1: Hey Sam, good morning, Hi Sam. So you tell your

1760
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:42,680
Speaker 1: husband everything, no matter what.

1761
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 9: Yes?

1762
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:45,920
Speaker 1: Is that fair?

1763
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:47,680
Speaker 13: You know?

1764
01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 6: To me?

1765
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:52,519
Speaker 9: Like, my partner is my partner through thick and thin,

1766
01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 9: and I tell him everything, and even if he doesn't

1767
01:16:56,360 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 9: agree with me, like that's why he's there, so he

1768
01:16:59,200 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 9: can kind of be sound words off of each other,

1769
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:03,839
Speaker 9: and so you know, it kind of keeps me balanced.

1770
01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:05,640
Speaker 9: But at the same time, like I.

1771
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:09,720
Speaker 14: Like sometimes I want advice or sometimes I you.

1772
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 11: Know, we just want to talk about stuff.

1773
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,519
Speaker 9: So it's one hundred percent like I trust him, he

1774
01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 9: trusts me. And if we say don't tell anybody else

1775
01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 9: and we don't, and then that's it.

1776
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:21,600
Speaker 1: I get that, like when you're in a relationship that

1777
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:23,680
Speaker 1: you're kind of supposed to be one unit, and so

1778
01:17:23,720 --> 01:17:26,360
Speaker 1: you should be able to bounce anything off of that person.

1779
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:29,439
Speaker 1: I guess, Emily detected, you're losing me. I guess all

1780
01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:32,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying is if there's one person and one person

1781
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 1: and you're sharing this information with other people and they're

1782
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:37,920
Speaker 1: not seeing all perspectives that I don't think it's fair

1783
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,920
Speaker 1: for you to be sharing information because they're only going

1784
01:17:40,960 --> 01:17:43,439
Speaker 1: to sort of side with the side that you're telling them.

1785
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like, unless I have all

1786
01:17:46,200 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 1: the information that I don't think I should be sharing

1787
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:51,200
Speaker 1: because I don't want you to hold on to long

1788
01:17:51,320 --> 01:17:53,400
Speaker 1: term you know things because I only told you a

1789
01:17:53,400 --> 01:17:56,519
Speaker 1: little bit. You know what I'm saying? Absolutely, Yeah, you're

1790
01:17:56,960 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 1: changing that you're tainting that you're paying in the water.

1791
01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 1: Are you peeing in the pool?

1792
01:18:02,280 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 11: Everybody peas in the pool?

1793
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:05,719
Speaker 9: Fred, Come on, whether you say it or not, everybody

1794
01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:06,439
Speaker 9: peas in the pool?

1795
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 4: All right, Sell, he's gonna say you three sides to

1796
01:18:09,479 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 4: the story.

1797
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:12,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, A large body of water maybe, but not a pool.

1798
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:15,559
Speaker 1: Thank you, Sam, Have a good day, have a good one.

1799
01:18:15,640 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 9: Love you guys.

1800
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:18,000
Speaker 1: And I'm thoughtful enough to go downstream when I do

1801
01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:22,720
Speaker 1: it too, for the record, Yeah, very thoughtful. M Kelsey, Hi, Kelsey.

1802
01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:24,240
Speaker 13: Hi, Hi, Hi, how are you hey?

1803
01:18:24,280 --> 01:18:26,400
Speaker 1: So what do you think this? Do you think that

1804
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 1: you should tell your partner absolutely everything that you learn

1805
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 1: about other people.

1806
01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 11: I'm not sure whether you should or not. I mean,

1807
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 11: I think that's something personal.

1808
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:37,320
Speaker 3: The only real thing that.

1809
01:18:37,320 --> 01:18:41,799
Speaker 11: I had to say. Feel like, if you hear something

1810
01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 11: about someone and it's not something that someone told you directly,

1811
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:50,559
Speaker 11: then that can cause major issues. I think that anything

1812
01:18:50,640 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 11: that you hear that you want to share with just

1813
01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:57,960
Speaker 11: about anybody, you should probably validate before you start sharing it,

1814
01:18:58,080 --> 01:19:00,400
Speaker 11: because a lot of people get into arguments with people

1815
01:19:00,720 --> 01:19:03,920
Speaker 11: or something like that and then they start making up

1816
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 11: stuff and then once your partner hears that, it's like,

1817
01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:09,240
Speaker 11: oh what, Yeah, you know. I just think it's really

1818
01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 11: especially as far as cheating and stuff go, they think

1819
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:14,519
Speaker 11: that it's really important to you know, verify the information

1820
01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 11: before you start telling anyone.

1821
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:18,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. I also think you have to keep your your

1822
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:22,000
Speaker 1: your circle really small when it comes to relationship arguments

1823
01:19:22,040 --> 01:19:26,120
Speaker 1: and stuff because again, like you're you're likely to be

1824
01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:28,599
Speaker 1: telling your side of the story, and the person's likely

1825
01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:30,720
Speaker 1: to react in favor of the story you just told them,

1826
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:32,439
Speaker 1: not only because they love you, they're going to try

1827
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 1: and see the good in you, but they're gonna listen

1828
01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:36,559
Speaker 1: to the story you just told that probably is devoid

1829
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:38,519
Speaker 1: of all the details about it, and so then you're

1830
01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:41,040
Speaker 1: getting that now you're being enabled by this advice, But

1831
01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 1: then the real story is maybe somewhere more towards the middle.

1832
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:46,679
Speaker 1: So then you then you find resolution, you get back

1833
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:48,960
Speaker 1: with that person, and now your friend is over here

1834
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:52,479
Speaker 1: going I can't believe you took that jacka back, but

1835
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:53,439
Speaker 1: they didn't know the whole thing.

1836
01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 11: Yeah, I can fully agree. I've always said that there's

1837
01:19:58,360 --> 01:20:01,400
Speaker 11: your story, and then there's the person's story, and then

1838
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 11: somewhere in between is the truth. And I don't think

1839
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:08,600
Speaker 11: that you ever because emotions are involved in regardless of

1840
01:20:08,640 --> 01:20:11,720
Speaker 11: what you're telling someone basically all the time. So there's

1841
01:20:11,760 --> 01:20:13,760
Speaker 11: always and you know what, I don't hang out at

1842
01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:16,800
Speaker 11: somebody else's house. You know, I don't know their relationship,

1843
01:20:16,840 --> 01:20:19,519
Speaker 11: and as I shouldn't, so, especially like you're saying, with

1844
01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 11: relationships as things like that, it's really important to understand

1845
01:20:25,000 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 11: that exactly what you said, there are there's actually three

1846
01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 11: sides of the story. There's one person's side, the other

1847
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:34,559
Speaker 11: person's side, and then there's the truth. And sometimes, you know,

1848
01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:36,519
Speaker 11: I think most of the time you don't need to

1849
01:20:36,520 --> 01:20:38,360
Speaker 11: know the truth. I don't need to be that intimate

1850
01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:42,400
Speaker 11: with people in their personal relationships because I'm kind of

1851
01:20:42,400 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 11: in the situation with my daughter because HERR get along.

1852
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:47,160
Speaker 12: I get along with.

1853
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 11: Both of them, obviously obviously her. But you know, the

1854
01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:52,920
Speaker 11: thing about it is is I don't really think that

1855
01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:58,479
Speaker 11: maybe their relationship is super great for her. However, you know,

1856
01:20:58,760 --> 01:21:00,320
Speaker 11: I'm not in their house after.

1857
01:21:01,000 --> 01:21:03,160
Speaker 1: Gus has the problem. Right, So like your daughter comes

1858
01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:05,320
Speaker 1: and tells you, Hey, you know, so and so did

1859
01:21:05,320 --> 01:21:07,519
Speaker 1: this to me, and you're like, wow, that sucks. And

1860
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:09,679
Speaker 1: then they go get married and you're like, wait a minute,

1861
01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 1: but I thought he did this to you, you know.

1862
01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:13,839
Speaker 1: But again, like how did that start? What are the details?

1863
01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:16,080
Speaker 1: I need to know all the infra? And you you

1864
01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,559
Speaker 1: hold onto this as her mother, right, even though you

1865
01:21:18,560 --> 01:21:21,880
Speaker 1: should be a trusted source. But but now you have

1866
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:23,600
Speaker 1: to hang on to that as they move forward and

1867
01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:25,400
Speaker 1: they get over it, and you may not. Hey, Kelsey,

1868
01:21:25,439 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 1: I got to go. Have a good day.

1869
01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:27,720
Speaker 3: Okay, have a good day.

1870
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:32,280
Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. Hey, Rachel. Right, you tell your

1871
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:33,519
Speaker 1: husband everything, no matter what.

1872
01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:35,920
Speaker 5: Always he tells me everything.

1873
01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 6: I tell him everything most of the time. It's like

1874
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:41,280
Speaker 6: they said, before you get you know an opinion of Hey,

1875
01:21:41,439 --> 01:21:43,360
Speaker 6: am I handling this writer, Hey, what do you think

1876
01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 6: about this? I had a friend tell him that the

1877
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:48,519
Speaker 6: best thing he did for his marriage was too cheat

1878
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:51,479
Speaker 6: on his wife. So of course he of course he

1879
01:21:51,560 --> 01:21:54,759
Speaker 6: told me that. And you know, did they be friends

1880
01:21:54,800 --> 01:21:55,240
Speaker 6: after that?

1881
01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:55,759
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1882
01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 6: But was there you know, certain things we might not

1883
01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:00,840
Speaker 6: do with him or stuff like that.

1884
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:04,560
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I mean. So, okay, So your husband's

1885
01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:07,640
Speaker 1: friend cheats on his wife, right and tells you this,

1886
01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 1: You're like, wow, okay, why don't I like cheating? And

1887
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:12,320
Speaker 1: that makes me think differently in him? But okay, fine,

1888
01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:15,000
Speaker 1: whatever he did it. And then your husband's like, hey,

1889
01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:17,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go out with so and so tonight. Is

1890
01:22:17,120 --> 01:22:19,720
Speaker 1: there no part of you that's like, I realize you

1891
01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 1: trust your husband, but like this guy, this guy, this

1892
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 1: dude has you know, loose, loose, loose definition of what

1893
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:30,599
Speaker 1: a marriage is. And I don't know. But and while

1894
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:33,360
Speaker 1: my husband is trustworthy and a good person, like I

1895
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't necessarily want to hang it out

1896
01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 1: with that person. That being said, if you trust your

1897
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:38,800
Speaker 1: husband and you know that he wouldn't cheat on you,

1898
01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:41,439
Speaker 1: and he never gives you this information, then you have

1899
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:45,760
Speaker 1: no reason to suspect anything. So everyone's fine, so.

1900
01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:48,600
Speaker 6: The way my husband is, though he also, you know,

1901
01:22:48,760 --> 01:22:51,479
Speaker 6: didn't appreciate the comment. So if we hung out, it

1902
01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 6: was mostly I was like couples instead of just one

1903
01:22:55,439 --> 01:22:58,120
Speaker 6: on one. It was okay, let's go. They you know,

1904
01:22:58,160 --> 01:23:00,800
Speaker 6: they stay together, so let's go, you mean, and we'll

1905
01:23:00,840 --> 01:23:01,400
Speaker 6: go to dinner.

1906
01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:04,400
Speaker 1: That she's so comfortable. Now now you're at the dinner.

1907
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:07,240
Speaker 1: Now you're sitting there eating your soup, and you know

1908
01:23:07,439 --> 01:23:09,679
Speaker 1: all the details that you didn't need to know because

1909
01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 1: they've moved forward. And if he hadn't told you, then

1910
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have to suffer through that meal knowing that

1911
01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:17,600
Speaker 1: this dude was out here with fluosy, you know, And

1912
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:19,559
Speaker 1: that's I don't know, Rachel, I'm not sure about this.

1913
01:23:19,600 --> 01:23:22,360
Speaker 1: Thank you have a good day. I don't know. I

1914
01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 1: don't know that you need to know everything you tell

1915
01:23:24,920 --> 01:23:26,080
Speaker 1: Big Tim everything.

1916
01:23:26,560 --> 01:23:29,040
Speaker 3: Big Tim a listening to me. I gotta talk to

1917
01:23:29,080 --> 01:23:29,360
Speaker 3: you all.

1918
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:32,519
Speaker 2: But I always think that people tell you tell your

1919
01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:34,760
Speaker 2: friends something, they're telling two people that they trust. So

1920
01:23:34,800 --> 01:23:36,800
Speaker 2: when I tell you something, I expect you to tell

1921
01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:39,760
Speaker 2: Mama Fred and your therapist.

1922
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:41,960
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I just know what's going

1923
01:23:42,000 --> 01:23:42,800
Speaker 3: to them too, you know what.

1924
01:23:44,360 --> 01:23:46,360
Speaker 1: You think I'm over here an executive coach and talking

1925
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:49,320
Speaker 1: about you. Yes, I go to my executive coach each week.

1926
01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:50,639
Speaker 1: You think I'm sure talking about you.

1927
01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:53,560
Speaker 2: Jason's gonna tell Caitlin and probably know you know what,

1928
01:23:53,560 --> 01:23:55,280
Speaker 2: I'm like that to happen.

1929
01:23:57,240 --> 01:24:01,280
Speaker 1: It's maybe, I mean, it's probably fair to assume.

1930
01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:06,360
Speaker 3: But there's always a Kiki segment in his Executive we.

1931
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,600
Speaker 1: Sit down in an executive Coach show. She didn't we

1932
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:10,960
Speaker 1: sit down at the first like, what what did she do?

1933
01:24:10,760 --> 01:24:13,200
Speaker 1: What she tell you? The first fifteen minutes we have

1934
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:15,920
Speaker 1: to dissect what you did. The Fread Show is on

1935
01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:29,639
Speaker 1: Fread's Fun Fact, Fred's Fun Learn so much, guys? Did

1936
01:24:29,680 --> 01:24:33,639
Speaker 1: you know that your eyeballs do not grow or change

1937
01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:39,120
Speaker 1: in size as you age? Generally, only the vertical measure changes,

1938
01:24:39,160 --> 01:24:41,080
Speaker 1: but only by a small amount. By the time we

1939
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:43,160
Speaker 1: reach twenty or twenty one years old, our eyes will

1940
01:24:43,160 --> 01:24:48,080
Speaker 1: be at their permanent state. Wow, your eyeballs do not

1941
01:24:48,280 --> 01:24:51,240
Speaker 1: grow or change their size as you age. I give

1942
01:24:51,280 --> 01:24:53,200
Speaker 1: you a fun and a fun fact, a bonus fun

1943
01:24:53,240 --> 01:24:55,280
Speaker 1: fact because that was the fun fact. I'm not going

1944
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:57,880
Speaker 1: to give you a fun fight just did. But blue

1945
01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:01,840
Speaker 1: eyed people have higher alcohol tolerance. Research found that those

1946
01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:04,919
Speaker 1: with lighter eye colors are less likely to abuse alcohol.

1947
01:25:06,240 --> 01:25:11,280
Speaker 1: I have blue eyes, and my tolerance is resulted to nothing.

1948
01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:14,240
Speaker 1: It's like I've never drank, but I don't drink that

1949
01:25:14,320 --> 01:25:16,000
Speaker 1: much anymore. When I do, it's like I get hammered,

1950
01:25:17,000 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 1: like I'm that guy. Yeah, I'm the life of the party.

1951
01:25:22,920 --> 01:25:26,439
Speaker 1: Kidding you know, it's not me. No more press show

1952
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Speaker 1: next