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Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, this is from Karen and Kennerkrienn says,

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Speaker 1: my husband picked me up for lunch, and when I

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Speaker 1: got back to work, I couldn't find my phone. I

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Speaker 1: asked my male coworker to call my phone to see

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Speaker 1: if it was somewhere in my office. No luck, my

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Speaker 1: husband said my phone wasn't in his car. As I

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Speaker 1: was leaving work, coworker rushed over to me to tell

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Speaker 1: me that my husband called him back and asked how

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Speaker 1: he knows me, and he asked if we were having

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Speaker 1: an affair. I'm so irritated that my husband kept my

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Speaker 1: phone and called my coworker. I wish my co worker

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Speaker 1: had told him the truth that we are having an affair.

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Speaker 1: Should I tell my husband the truth? Or does he

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Speaker 1: even deserve that? Wow? Lady?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Lady lady, I took him off to where this thing

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Speaker 2: came from, out of know where like this. But let

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Speaker 2: me give you some real advice. Your husband took your

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Speaker 2: phone because he suspects something. You stupid for having him

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Speaker 2: call your phone because how would he know your damn number?

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Speaker 2: So now your husband that call this man back and said,

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Speaker 2: are you having an affair with my wife? He did

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Speaker 2: the smart thing and said, no, your mad ass talking

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Speaker 2: about he should have told him the truth and said

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Speaker 2: we are should I tell him we lady, for what

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Speaker 2: what do you want? Why don't y'all just get the divorce?

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Speaker 2: Why don't y'all just get the divorce? He don't trust you,

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Speaker 2: You can't be trusted, and you've done some untrustworthy activity.

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Speaker 2: Now that's the cat's out the bag. But go on

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Speaker 2: and get a divorce. But you walking in, When you

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Speaker 2: walk in and tell that man, that's that's what happened,

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Speaker 2: that's gonna be that's gonna be a trickle down effect.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you understand. I don't think you understand.

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Speaker 2: There's gonna be some problems for you and that dude

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Speaker 2: that are called that he called your husband back on

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Speaker 2: that phone. Be very careful, Yeah, be very careful.

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Speaker 1: Yep, great advice. All Right, we have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Tiffany and Saint Louis. Tiffany said, I

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Speaker 1: told my ex husband he could stay with us a

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Speaker 1: couple of days around Christmas to spend time with our

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Speaker 1: two children. It's what my children requested, so I want

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Speaker 1: to make them happy. But I made those plans before

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Speaker 1: I started dating this new guy two months ago. My

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Speaker 1: new guy said it would be a deal breaker and

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Speaker 1: he won't commit to me if I like playing house

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Speaker 1: with my ex. Why is this such a big deal to.

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Speaker 2: Him because he don't want no woman that's still playing

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Speaker 2: house with her excuse, it's gonna be a problem that

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Speaker 2: he gonna have to deal with that he don't have

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Speaker 2: in his life right now. Why would you invite a

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Speaker 2: problem in that's a problem. That's a problem. If you've

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Speaker 2: told your ex husband that he can spend the night

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Speaker 2: at y'all's house for Christmas because that's what the keys want,

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Speaker 2: then't going to have that relationship the new guy. He

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Speaker 2: ain't buying into that because that ain't nothing but a problem.

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Speaker 2: That is a deal breaker, because if y'all still spending

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Speaker 2: the night together, y'all still playing family, y'all need just

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Speaker 2: gonna be a family. Yeah, ain't nobody signing up for

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Speaker 2: that mess. Man, That ain't nothing but the ass whipping

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Speaker 2: in the in the in the waiting. That's all that is.

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Speaker 2: Now your man, he can't come over there during the

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Speaker 2: holidays and see his girl because you're sitting up in

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Speaker 2: the house with your ex husband. So now his holiday

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Speaker 2: plans is gone. So now where him and his girl

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Speaker 2: at for the holidays? Can't go over to the house.

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Speaker 2: Now you got to go pick up stay in the car.

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Speaker 2: She come out like like her daddy in the house? Man,

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Speaker 2: anybody doing that with you?

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Speaker 1: So is he gonna be in the house acting like

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Speaker 1: he's king of the castle and all that?

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Speaker 2: Hell? Yeah, because that's what the kids want.

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Speaker 1: In his draw knocking boots, walking around like.

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Speaker 2: To change nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So what should she do tell the ex husband

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Speaker 1: that he can't come now?

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Speaker 2: No, she ain't finna do that because she didne already

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Speaker 2: promise the kids. She ain't gonna hurt the kids. She

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Speaker 2: didn't promise the kids. But you're not finna be able

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Speaker 2: to move on. You can't drive your car looking in

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Speaker 2: the rear view mirror. You keep doing what you've been doing.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna keep getting what you've been getting while all

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Speaker 2: these sayings apply all over and over and over and

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Speaker 2: over and over. You ain't going nowhere. You ain't finna

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Speaker 2: get nobody new because you still stuck on who you

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Speaker 2: had that was old. And you can letting this food

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Speaker 2: keep wearing his way in your life and he happy

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Speaker 2: now because you sitting up at the house.

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Speaker 1: You need him all right, Thank you. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this