WEBVTT - Closure Call: The One Who Got Away 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.080 Hey, it's Broke and Jeffrey and welcome to the Second 0:00:02.120 --> 0:00:02.800 eight podcast. 0:00:02.840 --> 0:00:05.200 We haven't done one of these in a while. It's 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:05.920 been minutes. 0:00:06.080 --> 0:00:08.240 Yeah, not the second day, you're gonna say the next. 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:09.360 Thing every day. 0:00:09.480 --> 0:00:10.159 That's a good point, O. 0:00:11.000 --> 0:00:14.640 My brain was moving faster than my life. The closure call, 0:00:14.680 --> 0:00:16.600 we get a brand new one for you today. And 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:19.640 that's when someone just writes into our show and works 0:00:19.680 --> 0:00:23.160 with our producer to come up with four questions, sometimes 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:26.440 five questions, to ask somebody from their past who they 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:29.800 don't have any contact with anymore. Closure, Yeah, to finally 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:31.920 get that closure. So we got one coming up for 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:35.040 you in just a second. But first comments, Anthony Amato. 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:36.640 Said, yeay, my daily fix. 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:38.559 I don't drink or smoke, so y'all are the only 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:39.560 addiction I need. 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:42.159 I don't imagine. 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:43.160 We start the segment. 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:45.080 A couple of minutes later, he's like shaking in his car. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:48.800 He's like, I've never done drugs, but man, I'm sure 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:49.720 this is what it feels like. 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:53.000 Yeah, well, welcome to it. You got to closure call. 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:53.960 It's start right now. 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:58.320 If you had a chance to go back and say 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:04.360 something to the one got away, what would that be 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:06.520 because we're gonna do that right now. 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:08.520 We're calling all of our got away. 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:10.880 So Brooke, go ahead. You could tell me whatever it 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:15.440 is that you've been dying to tell me all these years. 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:19.160 It's not you, jeff Brook's too scared. 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:22.160 She's too scared to come out with. But one of 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:27.160 our listeners isn't She says, twelve years ago things suddenly 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:30.000 ended with the man of her dreams, and not a 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:33.800 day has gone by where she doesn't wonder what happened 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:37.360 to him? Wow, is there any chance that he's been 0:01:37.400 --> 0:01:40.520 doing the same thing as she has? We're gonna find 0:01:40.560 --> 0:01:43.720 out in a brand new closure call coming up right 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:47.240 after this. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and 0:01:47.400 --> 0:01:49.920 we do this from time to time whenever we get 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:53.440 requests for it. It's a special segment we have called the 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:54.400 closure call. 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:57.840 Oh a minute since we've done one of these. 0:01:57.920 --> 0:02:01.480 Yeah, Normally, it's like an awkward situation happened between friends 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:06.000 or family members that left more questions than answers, right, 0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:08.880 And we're willing to step in on your behalf to 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:11.840 try to track down that person from your past and 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:15.320 hopefully get you a little bit of closure that you 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:17.480 need in order to move on with your life and 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.000 just feel better about where you are. 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:21.399 I love this segment. I think it's so fascinating. 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.840 It is very interesting. It doesn't always go well great, but. 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:26.679 Well that's just kind of on par with the rest 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:27.160 of our show. 0:02:27.240 --> 0:02:29.960 Yeah, that's just how closure works. And today our listener 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:34.040 Ashley is on the line. Apparently her situation involves an 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:38.440 old boyfriend from her past who could possibly be married 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:42.880 to Brooke. Now hopefully that's not the case, but let's 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:47.000 find out from Ashley. Ashley, welcome to the show. Hey, 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:49.200 I don't have a lot of girlfriends. 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:52.280 Brooke, he had some girlfriends. Yeah, he's a cute guy. 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:54.640 I mean he better have had some girlfriends. I definitely 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:57.239 I do not want to have been as first that will. 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:03.240 Oh yeah, thank goodness, Ashley. I apologize on behalf of 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:04.720 the rest of my host here. 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:06.080 But I was just gonna say, if she is my 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:07.840 husband's ex, I was going to thank her for the 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:09.720 hard work prior to me. 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.919 Yeah, you're making it strange, Ashley. Thank you for being 0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:14.959 on the show with us. 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.480 Here, You're welcome. So I was hoping you guys could 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:20.200 actually help me out because this situation has been bothering 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:23.080 me for a really really long time, Okay, And basically, 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:27.280 like I've been dating for probably like almost twenty years now. 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.760 You know, I wanted the whole marriage and a family, 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:32.800 you know, the white pick of sense, and for whatever reason, 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.280 I really don't know why, but it's just never happened 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:35.520 for me. 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:38.840 Yeah, I mean, it's going to tell you why it 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:49.600 didn't happen for all because is his name, Michael. 0:03:50.880 --> 0:03:53.720 Let's just go out the way, Daniel. His name is Danny. 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:55.800 But like, you know, I've been trying for so long, 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:59.000 but there was this one memorable relationship from about twelve 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:02.320 years ago and it's like still on my mind and 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:03.480 I just want to know what happened. 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:06.800 And like, okay, okay, slow down, you were talking so fast. 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:09.360 Do you feel like this Daniel, he's like the one 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:11.360 that got away? Is that what you're saying? 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.240 Kind of? But it was a really weird situation, like 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:17.279 we started dating and we became boyfriend and girlfriend, but 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:21.240 it was like a long distance relationship type of thing 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:23.719 where we don't get to see each other like once 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:24.919 a month. Unfortunately. 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:32.200 Yeah, that's kind of every guy's dream and it's not 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:35.240 ideal for like a healthy loving relationship, but it does 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:36.040 work sometimes. 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:38.880 But it was pretty serious stuff, Like it wasn't like 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.599 I was just going to his apartment, Like he was 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:43.680 taking on some like the most amazing vacations like I've 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:48.640 ever been on, all around the world, like the Caribbean, Italy, French, Polynesia, 0:04:48.720 --> 0:04:50.880 and like when we work together, he would tell me 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:53.400 gifts and like roses and noting how much he missed 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:55.719 me and blah blah blah. 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:58.360 Blah blah blah blah blah. 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:00.000 Get me the presence. I'm kidding. 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:03.919 Okay, So clearly this was a stronger connection than just 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:06.040 like a long distance fling. He seems like he really 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:06.600 cared for you. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.320 Yeah, I thought so, because he was investing a lot 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:12.159 of time, after energy, you know, finances like everything. 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:16.560 Okay, at that point, were you thinking, like, man, I 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:17.840 could move and be with him? 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:20.120 I was like, Oh my god, is this my ever person? 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:22.240 Because up until this point I felt like I was 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:25.080 living in a fantasy land, Like why would you break up? 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.080 Sounds like an awesome relationship? 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:28.680 Well, I hate t hease the word love bombing, but 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:30.640 it sounds like a classic explosion. 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.719 Well, it definitely wasn't my choice, but like one day, 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:37.480 he reached out to me and he was like, listen, 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.600 I have a friend. She's a girl who's going to 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:41.960 be in town for the week. She needs a place 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:44.240 to stay, and I'm gonna let her crash at my place. 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:47.760 So I was like, what the hell? I was obviously 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:48.800 feeling insecure about that. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:51.240 Yeah, yeah, well, especially if it's a friend you had 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.280 never heard of before, right, Like he was a true friend. 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:56.159 It would have been someone that you already knew. 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:58.720 Yeah, it's like Sarah, I've always told you about they 0:05:58.800 --> 0:06:01.400 won college best Friend. Okay, but since you didn't know 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:04.599 this girl, you were feeling uneasy about some random woman 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:07.800 staying with your boyfriend for an entire week. I mean, 0:06:07.839 --> 0:06:11.120 we ever could see that like a little bit, Alexis, 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:13.680 you wouldn't care like a boyfriend of yours did that though, Right, 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:14.680 that'd be fine for you. 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:16.720 Well, if I get a vacation out of it, I mean, 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:20.279 next week he takes me to feed you, you can 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:20.800 look it out. 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:21.400 I will say. 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:23.640 It's interesting a guy that can afford all these like 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.159 luxury vacations and he can't afford to get a hotel 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:27.000 room for his friends. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:29.040 Yep, that's a good that's a red point right. 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.720 There and anyway, So one day I called him after 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:33.440 work and I was asking him what was going on, 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:36.200 and he said, well, she's going to be here for 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.840 longer than a week. She's kind of down on her look, 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:42.880 And of course I was super confused, like my emotions 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:46.159 are boiling over. I'm furious. It's triggering me like right now, 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:47.440 like I'm still not about it. 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:48.400 We can tell. 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:53.000 So I didn't even date you, and I'm already scared. 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:55.320 Yeah, I mean, did this lead to a big fight? 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:57.359 Ended up like hanging up the phone, And then I 0:06:57.360 --> 0:07:00.640 sent him like a three page text like explaining my 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:04.080 feelings and he called him later and he's like, nothing's happening, 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:06.800 and I'm like, yeah, but this isn't making me feel good, 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:07.920 Like what about my feeling? 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:08.760 Oh wow? 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:10.960 So all of it is because it is huge, right. 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:14.600 So what happened after your three page long text message? 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:18.240 Well, it obviously didn't go well and he ended up 0:07:18.280 --> 0:07:22.080 blocking me. WHOA, yeah, So I don't know. I thought 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:25.200 like hoping he would come down, but I never saw 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:29.000 or I never heard from him like ever again ever again? 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:31.840 Do you have any idea like are you able to 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.480 follow his social media or anything like that, and like 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:35.560 figure out what happened. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:37.840 I can't find him, Like, I think he's got me 0:07:37.880 --> 0:07:40.200 blocked on everything that feels me. I looked and I've searched, 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:41.240 and I just there's nothing. 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:43.880 Did your three page texts get kind of nasty to 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:45.280 him to get blocked? 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:48.000 I mean, like I was mad, I was super hurt. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.800 I mean he sounds kind of emotionally immature too, Like, 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:53.360 no matter how mad you are, you don't block your 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:54.320 significant other. 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:54.880 Yeah. 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:58.000 So, actually your email said that you wanted us to 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:02.040 try and track this guy Dan down and send him 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:04.960 a few questions so that you could figure out what's 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:06.880 happened in the last twelve years because you haven't been 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:08.080 able to talk to him at all. 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:11.000 Yeah, and I want to know, like what happened back then, 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:13.040 like why did he stop talking to me? 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:16.080 Okay, but I also think we might need to prepare 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.200 for the possibility that he might not even remember this 0:08:19.440 --> 0:08:19.840 at all. 0:08:20.000 --> 0:08:20.679 Oh my gosh. 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:23.120 If he doesn't remember, that would hurt. At least that 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:24.640 would be closure, Brooke, I. 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:27.000 Will yeah, I would be like, who are you even 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:27.800 talking about now? 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:31.560 Well, you've already worked on the four questions with our 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:34.920 producer that you wanted to send to him, and Daniel 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:40.360 your ex did respond, so just not applicable, not applicable. Yeah, 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.120 I remember he gave real answers to each and every 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:45.520 one of your questions. Are you ready to hear them? Ashley? 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:48.920 I am, oh right, Okay. 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:50.400 Well you're gonna have to wait because person need to 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:52.560 play a song and then we'll come back and we 0:08:52.600 --> 0:08:55.760 will continue, hopefully give you the closure that you need 0:08:55.800 --> 0:09:01.079 with your closure call coming up right after this. If 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.800 you just joining us, we're trying to answer a question 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:09.760 that's been bugging our listener, Ashley for the past decade plus. 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:14.080 She's wondering, like many of us have, whatever happened to 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:17.440 my hunky, rich doctor ex boyfriend who used to take 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:19.840 me on vacations all over the world. 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:23.600 Yeah, he was also long distance. I think that's really 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:24.400 important to know. 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.960 Yes, because they did have kind of a weird falling 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:29.839 out where he had a female friend stay with him 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:34.520 at his place. Meanwhile, Ashley, who was long distance, felt 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:39.320 insecure about a strange, beautiful woman sleeping over multiple nights. 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:42.280 She doesn't even know if the woman ever left became 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:45.160 locked her, she could be there right now. 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:48.280 According to him, they were just friends. Uh, we don't 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:51.760 know what what happened, but it starts. The insecurity came 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:55.320 out in a scathing, three page long text message that 0:09:55.440 --> 0:10:01.000 Ashley sent, which went completely unanswered and has unanswered for 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:04.120 the past twelve years. Yea, and Ashley, I know this 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:06.880 is all sounding very fresh for you. Still just hearing 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:09.520 the emotion come out and your voice in the first part. 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.080 I mean, clearly this guy meant a lot to you. 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:16.200 Yeah he did. I'm I was serious. I was so hurt. 0:10:16.360 --> 0:10:19.240 I mean like I'm still hurt. Like, yeah, I really 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:20.079 want answers. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:22.720 Yeah. So that's a lot. But it has been twelve 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:26.400 years and people can change a huge amount in that time. 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:28.680 Just look at Brooke in her outfits out. 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:31.480 I guess twelve years ago I was wearing skinny jeans. 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:33.000 Oh y, but the. 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:36.560 Beanie and glasses have always stayed true. True somethings don't change. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:39.080 But let's find out. Because you know how this works. 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.040 You worked with our producer to come up with four 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:43.840 questions that you wanted Daniel to answer. 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:45.240 Man signed Jeff. 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:48.280 Daniel has responded to each one of them. Let's hopefully 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.719 get you some closure and start with the first question here. 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:55.760 So question one. You said, Hey, Daniel, I'm sorry I'm 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:58.360 going through the radio to do this, but you blocked 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:00.959 my number years ago and didn't responded to my text, 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.960 and I never knew why. Moved on by now and 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:06.800 are hopefully happy with your life. I just want to 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:08.880 let you know I still have fond memories of our 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:09.439 time together. 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:10.880 But how is this question? 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:13.439 Yes, I know it's long, but you know these are 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:14.200 the emotions to. 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:15.360 Make sure he was open. 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:19.120 You know what I mean your page text remember, yeah, 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:22.120 this is short for her style. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.720 Okay, so she says, hopefully you did too. I'm just 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:25.920 sad how it ended. 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:28.920 So there is no question there yet. Interesting what did 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:29.280 he say? 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:32.920 So he responded to that with wow, I did not 0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:37.760 expect this. That was so long ago, and absolutely it 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:41.240 was a great time in both of our lives. What 0:11:43.280 --> 0:11:45.280 I think it's a good thing you're saying I had 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:45.720 fun too. 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:48.920 I mean, I'm surprised that he said that they were 0:11:48.960 --> 0:11:51.840 great time with the how things ended in everything. Well, okay, 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:52.840 is there is there more? 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:55.920 Yeah, I haven't finished. I'll address that part. It says, honestly, 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:59.280 that text message, I don't remember what was in it, 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:01.079 but it was really long. 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.760 Yeah, yeah, free text when you were mad and. 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:06.959 I just felt like I didn't know how to make 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:10.520 things right and it was easier to just not deal 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:13.840 with it. I assumed that you had moved on with 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:16.760 your life too and forgot all about me. I'd love 0:12:16.800 --> 0:12:18.040 to get an update on you. 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:24.400 Yay, why no way? Oh my god? 0:12:24.679 --> 0:12:27.280 Are you shocked to how casual his response is. 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:29.839 Yeah, and I don't know if I'm happy. I'm you need 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:31.480 to look it in a smile on my face right now. 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:34.120 I think I need the rest of the answers though, 0:12:34.160 --> 0:12:35.880 before I get too excited about this though. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:39.320 Okay, but were the next three just praising him again 0:12:39.520 --> 0:12:40.600 and how much we miss him? 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:44.120 Let's find out. Let's go to the second question, which 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:49.200 was so okay. So currently, I'm thirty eight, in single, 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:52.440 no kids, no marriages, and when I look back on 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.319 my dating life, I think about that time that we had. 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:58.280 You were always one of the kindest, most generous people 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:00.520 I'd ever met, and I just wish that I had 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.600 the courage back then to fight harder for you. Oh 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:07.880 it's my biggest regret. Wow, you had no question, She's 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:08.840 just put out there. 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:10.520 Well, I felt like if this was you know my 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:14.160 only chance to get answers, I should like really be honest. 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:18.160 Okay, let's see what Daniel wrote back. He wrote, that 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:20.880 is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:25.120 Please don't beat yourself up about this. Life just kind 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:28.320 of happens. I also wish I had the courage to 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:31.280 do something more back then, but I'm not very good 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:32.120 with confrontation. 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.160 Oh, obviously he keeps going. 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:38.120 Funny enough, I was married but it didn't last, and 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:40.440 now I'm actually single too. 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:45.600 No way, so wait, wait, wait was he married to 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:46.880 the girl that was there? 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:49.560 That is not made clear. He didn't make that a question. 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:52.600 Yeah, thank you, Alexis. 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.080 I thought that would sound like way too jealous to 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:56.480 go and say that. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:01.120 Actually, your whole story was throwing up cheeter red flats 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:02.000 left and right. 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:03.400 I didn't want to say anything. 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:05.800 But now that we're in it, well, the bottom line 0:14:05.840 --> 0:14:07.960 is he was married but it didn't work out, so 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.280 he's single now. Okay, that's the part that I think 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:11.400 we should be focusing on. 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.480 I mean, it makes me feel a little bit weird 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:15.719 if like he did choose her over me, like that 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:16.959 was kind of like rude. 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:18.960 And not would like hurt me, but he dumped her too, 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:21.240 so she dumped him either way. 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:25.000 Dude, what's the third question, Jeffrey, give us something good here? Brook. 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:27.080 I like that you're assuming that it's a question which 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:30.800 we haven't gotten in the first two. But there's hope here. 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:33.600 Remember we send all of these prompts all at once, 0:14:33.680 --> 0:14:36.320 so Ashley didn't hear any of these responses. First. 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.920 What we've learned so far is she got blocked because 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:40.040 he didn't want to deal with it. 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:45.760 Eddie's single if she wants him bad basically, So let's. 0:14:45.480 --> 0:14:49.080 See how this goes. Question number three, I miss you 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:51.960 so again. I don't know if you're married, divorced, or 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:55.240 whatever the case is, but I'm being vulnerable here and 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:59.120 saying if you're not in a relationship, I'd be lying 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:01.400 if I didn't admit there's still a spark in my 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:06.640 heart for you. Woo. There's a question next. What she says, 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:11.000 would you even consider the idea of us meeting up 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:12.080 again some time? 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.760 Yay, let's go, Ashley. 0:15:14.800 --> 0:15:15.640 You put it out there. 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:19.040 I'm embarrassed now, nosed. 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:20.680 That's what you're supposed to do. 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:23.120 Twelve years you've been thinking about this, twelve years you 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:24.920 knew exactly what you wanted to say. 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:27.000 You were brave enough to at least throw it out there. 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:28.560 So what a Daniel respond with? 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:31.360 He said, Oh, don't disappoint her, Jeff. 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:39.760 I would love to. He keeps going, although I do 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:42.760 have to wait a few months because I'm currently wearing 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:46.200 an ankle monitor and legally cannot leave my house. 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:50.320 Hey, girl, he got that money somehow. 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:54.000 He keeps going. I won't get into it now, but 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:56.080 if you Google search you might see it. 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:56.760 Oh. 0:15:56.920 --> 0:16:00.320 Some publications are calling me Doctor Noddy for things I 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.680 shouldn't have done, but I want you to know most 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:11.360 of those instances are untrue. Why wait, and now that 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:14.120 my wife has left me, it would feel really good 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:17.240 to have someone in my corner. Could you come over, 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:22.040 preferably in the next two weeks before my house forecloses. 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.800 Oh my god, I mean, hey, good news and bad news. 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.600 Oh, that's bad. That's bad. I don't want to date 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:30.840 a criminals. It sounds like she just wants me because 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:31.560 he's bored in. 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:38.480 An alleged alleged criminal. Whatever Doctor Noddy happens and still 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:39.800 single just. 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:43.400 Sounds really messy. I mean, I'm definitely gonna google and 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:45.320 look because I'm curious. 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:48.560 Now, Okay, I searching doctor Noddy would get a lot 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:49.040 of results. 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:51.720 Actually, I don't think you're gonna find tax evasion when you. 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:52.840 Get a nickname like that. 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:55.560 Yeah, you gotta do the Google search yourself. 0:16:55.640 --> 0:16:55.800 Though. 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:57.840 We're running out of time, but we still have one 0:16:57.880 --> 0:17:01.680 more question. You shared a fond memory with him, you said, 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:04.760 I just wanted to tell you I'll never forget that summer. 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:06.639 We went to the Caribbean and we stayed at the 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:10.520 Ritz Carlton. It was the most luxurious and romantic moment 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:14.040 of my life. I still look back at the photos sometimes. 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.760 And who knows dot dot dot You never know what 0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:24.720 the future might hold. A license, Does he still have money? 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:25.359 We don't know that. 0:17:25.560 --> 0:17:28.480 I wouldn't leave the country, you guys. 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.960 He can't leave the house until he gets closed on, 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:32.400 so he's going to be. 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:33.080 Forced to leave. 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:36.000 He could be broken. Daniel clears things up. He says, well, 0:17:36.000 --> 0:17:38.840 actually I do know I'm not allowed to travel outside 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:42.679 of the US for the next decade decade pending litigation. 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:45.959 And I remember how much I spent on that trip. 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:49.000 Depending on how you're doing, I would love to get 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:54.879 reimbursed for your half legal bills are astronomicals, and then 0:17:54.920 --> 0:17:57.000 he did a wide eyes emoji. 0:17:56.720 --> 0:18:01.720 Block him, block it away, No, no way on. 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:04.280 Half of the reimbursement. Maybe just a quarter would be 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:04.920 enough for him. 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:07.520 So I need to be completely honest, no way on him, 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:10.639 Like I mean, I'm really glad that he responded, because 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:12.320 now I can like move on with my life and 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:15.320 put this behind me. But like, no, what the hell 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:18.439 like hotness express, I don't want to deal with this. 0:18:18.600 --> 0:18:20.920