1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: Hey, it's Broke and Jeffrey and welcome to the Second 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:02,800 Speaker 1: eight podcast. 3 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 2: We haven't done one of these in a while. It's 4 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 2: been minutes. 5 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, not the second day, you're gonna say the next. 6 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 4: Thing every day. 7 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:10,159 Speaker 2: That's a good point, O. 8 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: My brain was moving faster than my life. The closure call, 9 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: we get a brand new one for you today. And 10 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: that's when someone just writes into our show and works 11 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: with our producer to come up with four questions, sometimes 12 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,440 Speaker 1: five questions, to ask somebody from their past who they 13 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: don't have any contact with anymore. Closure, Yeah, to finally 14 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: get that closure. So we got one coming up for 15 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: you in just a second. But first comments, Anthony Amato. 16 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 2: Said, yeay, my daily fix. 17 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 5: I don't drink or smoke, so y'all are the only 18 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 5: addiction I need. 19 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 2: I don't imagine. 20 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 4: We start the segment. 21 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 2: A couple of minutes later, he's like shaking in his car. 22 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: He's like, I've never done drugs, but man, I'm sure 23 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: this is what it feels like. 24 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, welcome to it. You got to closure call. 25 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: It's start right now. 26 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 4: If you had a chance to go back and say 27 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 4: something to the one got away, what would that be 28 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 4: because we're gonna do that right now. 29 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: We're calling all of our got away. 30 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 4: So Brooke, go ahead. You could tell me whatever it 31 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 4: is that you've been dying to tell me all these years. 32 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: It's not you, jeff Brook's too scared. 33 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 4: She's too scared to come out with. But one of 34 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 4: our listeners isn't She says, twelve years ago things suddenly 35 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 4: ended with the man of her dreams, and not a 36 00:01:30,160 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 4: day has gone by where she doesn't wonder what happened 37 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 4: to him? Wow, is there any chance that he's been 38 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 4: doing the same thing as she has? We're gonna find 39 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 4: out in a brand new closure call coming up right 40 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 4: after this. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and 41 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 4: we do this from time to time whenever we get 42 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 4: requests for it. It's a special segment we have called the 43 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 4: closure call. 44 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 2: Oh a minute since we've done one of these. 45 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, Normally, it's like an awkward situation happened between friends 46 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 4: or family members that left more questions than answers, right, 47 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 4: And we're willing to step in on your behalf to 48 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 4: try to track down that person from your past and 49 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 4: hopefully get you a little bit of closure that you 50 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 4: need in order to move on with your life and 51 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 4: just feel better about where you are. 52 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,399 Speaker 2: I love this segment. I think it's so fascinating. 53 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 4: It is very interesting. It doesn't always go well great, but. 54 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:26,679 Speaker 2: Well that's just kind of on par with the rest 55 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 2: of our show. 56 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's just how closure works. And today our listener 57 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 4: Ashley is on the line. Apparently her situation involves an 58 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 4: old boyfriend from her past who could possibly be married 59 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 4: to Brooke. Now hopefully that's not the case, but let's 60 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 4: find out from Ashley. Ashley, welcome to the show. Hey, 61 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 4: I don't have a lot of girlfriends. 62 00:02:49,200 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 2: Brooke, he had some girlfriends. Yeah, he's a cute guy. 63 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 1: I mean he better have had some girlfriends. I definitely 64 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 1: I do not want to have been as first that will. 65 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, thank goodness, Ashley. I apologize on behalf of 66 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 4: the rest of my host here. 67 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: But I was just gonna say, if she is my 68 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: husband's ex, I was going to thank her for the 69 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: hard work prior to me. 70 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're making it strange, Ashley. Thank you for being 71 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 4: on the show with us. 72 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 6: Here, You're welcome. So I was hoping you guys could 73 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 6: actually help me out because this situation has been bothering 74 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 6: me for a really really long time, Okay, And basically, 75 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 6: like I've been dating for probably like almost twenty years now. 76 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 6: You know, I wanted the whole marriage and a family, 77 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 6: you know, the white pick of sense, and for whatever reason, 78 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 6: I really don't know why, but it's just never happened 79 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 6: for me. 80 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, it's going to tell you why it 81 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 4: didn't happen for all because is his name, Michael. 82 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 6: Let's just go out the way, Daniel. His name is Danny. 83 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 6: But like, you know, I've been trying for so long, 84 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 6: but there was this one memorable relationship from about twelve 85 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 6: years ago and it's like still on my mind and 86 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 6: I just want to know what happened. 87 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: And like, okay, okay, slow down, you were talking so fast. 88 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: Do you feel like this Daniel, he's like the one 89 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: that got away? Is that what you're saying? 90 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 6: Kind of? But it was a really weird situation, like 91 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 6: we started dating and we became boyfriend and girlfriend, but 92 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 6: it was like a long distance relationship type of thing 93 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 6: where we don't get to see each other like once 94 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 6: a month. Unfortunately. 95 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's kind of every guy's dream and it's not 96 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 4: ideal for like a healthy loving relationship, but it does 97 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 4: work sometimes. 98 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 6: But it was pretty serious stuff, Like it wasn't like 99 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 6: I was just going to his apartment, Like he was 100 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 6: taking on some like the most amazing vacations like I've 101 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 6: ever been on, all around the world, like the Caribbean, Italy, French, Polynesia, 102 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 6: and like when we work together, he would tell me 103 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 6: gifts and like roses and noting how much he missed 104 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 6: me and blah blah blah. 105 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 4: Blah blah blah blah blah. 106 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: Get me the presence. I'm kidding. 107 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 4: Okay, So clearly this was a stronger connection than just 108 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,040 Speaker 4: like a long distance fling. He seems like he really 109 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 4: cared for you. 110 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, I thought so, because he was investing a lot 111 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 6: of time, after energy, you know, finances like everything. 112 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: Okay, at that point, were you thinking, like, man, I 113 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: could move and be with him? 114 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 6: I was like, Oh my god, is this my ever person? 115 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 6: Because up until this point I felt like I was 116 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 6: living in a fantasy land, Like why would you break up? 117 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 4: Sounds like an awesome relationship? 118 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 5: Well, I hate t hease the word love bombing, but 119 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 5: it sounds like a classic explosion. 120 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 6: Well, it definitely wasn't my choice, but like one day, 121 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 6: he reached out to me and he was like, listen, 122 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 6: I have a friend. She's a girl who's going to 123 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 6: be in town for the week. She needs a place 124 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 6: to stay, and I'm gonna let her crash at my place. 125 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 6: So I was like, what the hell? I was obviously 126 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 6: feeling insecure about that. 127 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well, especially if it's a friend you had 128 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 1: never heard of before, right, Like he was a true friend. 129 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 2: It would have been someone that you already knew. 130 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like Sarah, I've always told you about they 131 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 4: won college best Friend. Okay, but since you didn't know 132 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 4: this girl, you were feeling uneasy about some random woman 133 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 4: staying with your boyfriend for an entire week. I mean, 134 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 4: we ever could see that like a little bit, Alexis, 135 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 4: you wouldn't care like a boyfriend of yours did that though, Right, 136 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 4: that'd be fine for you. 137 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 5: Well, if I get a vacation out of it, I mean, 138 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 5: next week he takes me to feed you, you can 139 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 5: look it out. 140 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: I will say. 141 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: It's interesting a guy that can afford all these like 142 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 1: luxury vacations and he can't afford to get a hotel 143 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: room for his friends. 144 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 2: Yep, that's a good that's a red point right. 145 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 6: There and anyway, So one day I called him after 146 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 6: work and I was asking him what was going on, 147 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 6: and he said, well, she's going to be here for 148 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 6: longer than a week. She's kind of down on her look, 149 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 6: And of course I was super confused, like my emotions 150 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 6: are boiling over. I'm furious. It's triggering me like right now, 151 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 6: like I'm still not about it. 152 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: We can tell. 153 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 4: So I didn't even date you, and I'm already scared. 154 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, did this lead to a big fight? 155 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,359 Speaker 6: Ended up like hanging up the phone, And then I 156 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 6: sent him like a three page text like explaining my 157 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 6: feelings and he called him later and he's like, nothing's happening, 158 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 6: and I'm like, yeah, but this isn't making me feel good, 159 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:07,920 Speaker 6: Like what about my feeling? 160 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 4: Oh wow? 161 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 2: So all of it is because it is huge, right. 162 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 4: So what happened after your three page long text message? 163 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 6: Well, it obviously didn't go well and he ended up 164 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 6: blocking me. WHOA, yeah, So I don't know. I thought 165 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 6: like hoping he would come down, but I never saw 166 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 6: or I never heard from him like ever again ever again? 167 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 4: Do you have any idea like are you able to 168 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 4: follow his social media or anything like that, and like 169 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 4: figure out what happened. 170 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 6: I can't find him, Like, I think he's got me 171 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 6: blocked on everything that feels me. I looked and I've searched, 172 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 6: and I just there's nothing. 173 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 5: Did your three page texts get kind of nasty to 174 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 5: him to get blocked? 175 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 6: I mean, like I was mad, I was super hurt. 176 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 1: I mean he sounds kind of emotionally immature too, Like, 177 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: no matter how mad you are, you don't block your 178 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: significant other. 179 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 6: Yeah. 180 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 4: So, actually your email said that you wanted us to 181 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 4: try and track this guy Dan down and send him 182 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 4: a few questions so that you could figure out what's 183 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 4: happened in the last twelve years because you haven't been 184 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 4: able to talk to him at all. 185 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, and I want to know, like what happened back then, 186 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 6: like why did he stop talking to me? 187 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: Okay, but I also think we might need to prepare 188 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: for the possibility that he might not even remember this 189 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 1: at all. 190 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:20,679 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. 191 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 4: If he doesn't remember, that would hurt. At least that 192 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 4: would be closure, Brooke, I. 193 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 3: Will yeah, I would be like, who are you even 194 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: talking about now? 195 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 4: Well, you've already worked on the four questions with our 196 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 4: producer that you wanted to send to him, and Daniel 197 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 4: your ex did respond, so just not applicable, not applicable. Yeah, 198 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:43,120 Speaker 4: I remember he gave real answers to each and every 199 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 4: one of your questions. Are you ready to hear them? Ashley? 200 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 6: I am, oh right, Okay. 201 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 4: Well you're gonna have to wait because person need to 202 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 4: play a song and then we'll come back and we 203 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 4: will continue, hopefully give you the closure that you need 204 00:08:55,800 --> 00:09:01,079 Speaker 4: with your closure call coming up right after this. If 205 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 4: you just joining us, we're trying to answer a question 206 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 4: that's been bugging our listener, Ashley for the past decade plus. 207 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 4: She's wondering, like many of us have, whatever happened to 208 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,440 Speaker 4: my hunky, rich doctor ex boyfriend who used to take 209 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 4: me on vacations all over the world. 210 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was also long distance. I think that's really 211 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: important to know. 212 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 4: Yes, because they did have kind of a weird falling 213 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,839 Speaker 4: out where he had a female friend stay with him 214 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 4: at his place. Meanwhile, Ashley, who was long distance, felt 215 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:39,320 Speaker 4: insecure about a strange, beautiful woman sleeping over multiple nights. 216 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: She doesn't even know if the woman ever left became 217 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: locked her, she could be there right now. 218 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 4: According to him, they were just friends. Uh, we don't 219 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 4: know what what happened, but it starts. The insecurity came 220 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 4: out in a scathing, three page long text message that 221 00:09:55,440 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 4: Ashley sent, which went completely unanswered and has unanswered for 222 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 4: the past twelve years. Yea, and Ashley, I know this 223 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 4: is all sounding very fresh for you. Still just hearing 224 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 4: the emotion come out and your voice in the first part. 225 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,080 Speaker 4: I mean, clearly this guy meant a lot to you. 226 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 6: Yeah he did. I'm I was serious. I was so hurt. 227 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 6: I mean like I'm still hurt. Like, yeah, I really 228 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 6: want answers. 229 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. So that's a lot. But it has been twelve 230 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 4: years and people can change a huge amount in that time. 231 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 4: Just look at Brooke in her outfits out. 232 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 2: I guess twelve years ago I was wearing skinny jeans. 233 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 6: Oh y, but the. 234 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 4: Beanie and glasses have always stayed true. True somethings don't change. 235 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 4: But let's find out. Because you know how this works. 236 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 4: You worked with our producer to come up with four 237 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 4: questions that you wanted Daniel to answer. 238 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 2: Man signed Jeff. 239 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 4: Daniel has responded to each one of them. Let's hopefully 240 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,719 Speaker 4: get you some closure and start with the first question here. 241 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 4: So question one. You said, Hey, Daniel, I'm sorry I'm 242 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 4: going through the radio to do this, but you blocked 243 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 4: my number years ago and didn't responded to my text, 244 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 4: and I never knew why. Moved on by now and 245 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 4: are hopefully happy with your life. I just want to 246 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 4: let you know I still have fond memories of our 247 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 4: time together. 248 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 2: But how is this question? 249 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 4: Yes, I know it's long, but you know these are 250 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 4: the emotions to. 251 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 6: Make sure he was open. 252 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 5: You know what I mean your page text remember, yeah, 253 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 5: this is short for her style. 254 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 4: Okay, so she says, hopefully you did too. I'm just 255 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 4: sad how it ended. 256 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: So there is no question there yet. Interesting what did 257 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 2: he say? 258 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 4: So he responded to that with wow, I did not 259 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 4: expect this. That was so long ago, and absolutely it 260 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 4: was a great time in both of our lives. What 261 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 4: I think it's a good thing you're saying I had 262 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 4: fun too. 263 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 6: I mean, I'm surprised that he said that they were 264 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 6: great time with the how things ended in everything. Well, okay, 265 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 6: is there is there more? 266 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I haven't finished. I'll address that part. It says, honestly, 267 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 4: that text message, I don't remember what was in it, 268 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:01,079 Speaker 4: but it was really long. 269 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, free text when you were mad and. 270 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:06,959 Speaker 4: I just felt like I didn't know how to make 271 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 4: things right and it was easier to just not deal 272 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 4: with it. I assumed that you had moved on with 273 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 4: your life too and forgot all about me. I'd love 274 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 4: to get an update on you. 275 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 6: Yay, why no way? Oh my god? 276 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 2: Are you shocked to how casual his response is. 277 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, and I don't know if I'm happy. I'm you need 278 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 6: to look it in a smile on my face right now. 279 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 6: I think I need the rest of the answers though, 280 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 6: before I get too excited about this though. 281 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: Okay, but were the next three just praising him again 282 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 1: and how much we miss him? 283 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 4: Let's find out. Let's go to the second question, which 284 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:49,200 Speaker 4: was so okay. So currently, I'm thirty eight, in single, 285 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 4: no kids, no marriages, and when I look back on 286 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 4: my dating life, I think about that time that we had. 287 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 4: You were always one of the kindest, most generous people 288 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 4: I'd ever met, and I just wish that I had 289 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 4: the courage back then to fight harder for you. Oh 290 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 4: it's my biggest regret. Wow, you had no question, She's 291 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 4: just put out there. 292 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 6: Well, I felt like if this was you know my 293 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 6: only chance to get answers, I should like really be honest. 294 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 4: Okay, let's see what Daniel wrote back. He wrote, that 295 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 4: is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. 296 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 4: Please don't beat yourself up about this. Life just kind 297 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 4: of happens. I also wish I had the courage to 298 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 4: do something more back then, but I'm not very good 299 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 4: with confrontation. 300 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 2: Oh, obviously he keeps going. 301 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 4: Funny enough, I was married but it didn't last, and 302 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 4: now I'm actually single too. 303 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 6: No way, so wait, wait, wait was he married to 304 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 6: the girl that was there? 305 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 4: That is not made clear. He didn't make that a question. 306 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Alexis. 307 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 6: I thought that would sound like way too jealous to 308 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 6: go and say that. 309 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: Actually, your whole story was throwing up cheeter red flats 310 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: left and right. 311 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 2: I didn't want to say anything. 312 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 4: But now that we're in it, well, the bottom line 313 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 4: is he was married but it didn't work out, so 314 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 4: he's single now. Okay, that's the part that I think 315 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 4: we should be focusing on. 316 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 6: I mean, it makes me feel a little bit weird 317 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,719 Speaker 6: if like he did choose her over me, like that 318 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 6: was kind of like rude. 319 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 2: And not would like hurt me, but he dumped her too, 320 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 2: so she dumped him either way. 321 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: Dude, what's the third question, Jeffrey, give us something good here? Brook. 322 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 4: I like that you're assuming that it's a question which 323 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 4: we haven't gotten in the first two. But there's hope here. 324 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 4: Remember we send all of these prompts all at once, 325 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 4: so Ashley didn't hear any of these responses. First. 326 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: What we've learned so far is she got blocked because 327 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: he didn't want to deal with it. 328 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 5: Eddie's single if she wants him bad basically, So let's. 329 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 4: See how this goes. Question number three, I miss you 330 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 4: so again. I don't know if you're married, divorced, or 331 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 4: whatever the case is, but I'm being vulnerable here and 332 00:14:55,320 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 4: saying if you're not in a relationship, I'd be lying 333 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 4: if I didn't admit there's still a spark in my 334 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 4: heart for you. Woo. There's a question next. What she says, 335 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 4: would you even consider the idea of us meeting up 336 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 4: again some time? 337 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: Yay, let's go, Ashley. 338 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 4: You put it out there. 339 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 6: I'm embarrassed now, nosed. 340 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 2: That's what you're supposed to do. 341 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: Twelve years you've been thinking about this, twelve years you 342 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: knew exactly what you wanted to say. 343 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 4: You were brave enough to at least throw it out there. 344 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 4: So what a Daniel respond with? 345 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 2: He said, Oh, don't disappoint her, Jeff. 346 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 4: I would love to. He keeps going, although I do 347 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 4: have to wait a few months because I'm currently wearing 348 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 4: an ankle monitor and legally cannot leave my house. 349 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 2: Hey, girl, he got that money somehow. 350 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 4: He keeps going. I won't get into it now, but 351 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 4: if you Google search you might see it. 352 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 2: Oh. 353 00:15:56,920 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 4: Some publications are calling me Doctor Noddy for things I 354 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 4: shouldn't have done, but I want you to know most 355 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 4: of those instances are untrue. Why wait, and now that 356 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 4: my wife has left me, it would feel really good 357 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 4: to have someone in my corner. Could you come over, 358 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 4: preferably in the next two weeks before my house forecloses. 359 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I mean, hey, good news and bad news. 360 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 6: Oh, that's bad. That's bad. I don't want to date 361 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 6: a criminals. It sounds like she just wants me because 362 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 6: he's bored in. 363 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 4: An alleged alleged criminal. Whatever Doctor Noddy happens and still 364 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 4: single just. 365 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 6: Sounds really messy. I mean, I'm definitely gonna google and 366 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 6: look because I'm curious. 367 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 3: Now, Okay, I searching doctor Noddy would get a lot 368 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 3: of results. 369 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: Actually, I don't think you're gonna find tax evasion when you. 370 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 2: Get a nickname like that. 371 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta do the Google search yourself. 372 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:55,800 Speaker 6: Though. 373 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 4: We're running out of time, but we still have one 374 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 4: more question. You shared a fond memory with him, you said, 375 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 4: I just wanted to tell you I'll never forget that summer. 376 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 4: We went to the Caribbean and we stayed at the 377 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 4: Ritz Carlton. It was the most luxurious and romantic moment 378 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 4: of my life. I still look back at the photos sometimes. 379 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 4: And who knows dot dot dot You never know what 380 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 4: the future might hold. A license, Does he still have money? 381 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:25,359 Speaker 1: We don't know that. 382 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 4: I wouldn't leave the country, you guys. 383 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 6: He can't leave the house until he gets closed on, 384 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 6: so he's going to be. 385 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 2: Forced to leave. 386 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 4: He could be broken. Daniel clears things up. He says, well, 387 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 4: actually I do know I'm not allowed to travel outside 388 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:42,679 Speaker 4: of the US for the next decade decade pending litigation. 389 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:45,959 Speaker 4: And I remember how much I spent on that trip. 390 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 4: Depending on how you're doing, I would love to get 391 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 4: reimbursed for your half legal bills are astronomicals, and then 392 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 4: he did a wide eyes emoji. 393 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: Block him, block it away, No, no way on. 394 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 4: Half of the reimbursement. Maybe just a quarter would be 395 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 4: enough for him. 396 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 6: So I need to be completely honest, no way on him, 397 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 6: Like I mean, I'm really glad that he responded, because 398 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 6: now I can like move on with my life and 399 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 6: put this behind me. But like, no, what the hell 400 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 6: like hotness express, I don't want to deal with this. 401 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 4: No, but think on the bright side, you could make 402 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 4: a ton of money with a tell all book called 403 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 4: I Dated Doctor Noddy, The True Story of What Really happened. 404 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:32,639 Speaker 6: Oh my god, I'd buy it. 405 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 4: I'm customer number one. So you come out with that 406 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 4: and we'll be here for you. That was your closure call. 407 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 4: It's brooken Jeffrey in the morning. 408 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 6: It's brooken Jeffrey in the morning. 409 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:45,959 Speaker 4: Man, it felt like we were this close to a 410 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 4: true happily ever after love story with this. Think about it, 411 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 4: we do four questions. If we had just stopped after 412 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 4: question number two, they could have been together. 413 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 2: That would have been a good thing for her. 414 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 3: Jeff Oh, yeah, South after number two, I don't know, 415 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 3: it could have been just like the Notebook where Rachel 416 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 3: McAdams comes back and Ryan Gosling's working on the house 417 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 3: wearing his ankle monitor asking her to pay the rest 418 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:11,439 Speaker 3: of the money that he owes. 419 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 1: We were this close, and it's sad he's working on 420 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 1: the house since he's gonna lose it. 421 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's still sweet that the thought has gone into me, 422 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:19,680 Speaker 4: you know, making all the repairs. 423 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: I think it's a good lesson on how sometimes our 424 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: memories don't serve us right on who the people really 425 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: were that we were with. 426 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, or the people change a lot in a short 427 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 4: amount of time that's possible. 428 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 2: To decade was long time. 429 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, it raavaged that doctors, but totally. 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