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Speaker 3: Kind of the rule was that I couldnot say the

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Speaker 3: or they're telling a story on me. Not they're lying

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Speaker 3: For some reason, I was not allowed to use the

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Speaker 3: my whole family, all the kids, we were just not allowed. Helena, Helena,

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Speaker 2: My aunt lied to you.

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Speaker 1: Because some things you're a lie.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just a nicer way of calling someone a liar.

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Speaker 3: Yes, And then you could never say the word hate either,

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Speaker 1: Much, with all the effort I can put into my voice,

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Speaker 1: there are other words I say for special occasions. I'm

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Speaker 1: I say the extremely special occasions like we really got

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Speaker 1: We had to take naps. Now that I'm older, I

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Speaker 1: Someone says it's a black thing.

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Speaker 2: I think it is. I really think it is.

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Speaker 4: She greets me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. There's get it, it's PG profanity.

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Speaker 1: And you can't over use it in my opinions, again,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't really hate I don't really hate that one.

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Speaker 6: there's like a more articulate or better way to say that,

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Speaker 12: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wonder why I could never say lie, Like

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Speaker 4: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: Well, right, she's such a wonderful person that no one

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Speaker 1: Why couldn't you say fart?

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Speaker 10: I know, I know.

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Speaker 14: And we also couldn't say poms where white is white

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Speaker 1: You know, peeky's call them. I've never heard of one.

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Speaker 1: I'd be honored. Okay, all right, well, thank you, Brenda,

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Speaker 1: Hi Kathy, good morning. So tell me the rule that

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Speaker 15: And I just don't like the word stupid.

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Speaker 7: You can't say that, will yeah, okay, curing it coming.

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Speaker 13: Out of the kids or even like my sister or whatever.

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Speaker 11: So they all know that's the S word in my house.

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Speaker 1: You have, But Kathy, Kathy, I gotta say something. Some people,

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Speaker 13: Oh you know what, but I see that every day

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Speaker 11: But it's like, oh, they just ain't right.

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Speaker 1: I think it goes back. It goes back to the

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Speaker 1: thing between lie and stories. You just got to, Kathy,

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Speaker 1: you gotta teach your kids the difference between the people

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Speaker 1: who are you know, I don't know, having a moment

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Speaker 1: You're probably good to ban that word. I'm like that,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let them use the sea word freely.

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Speaker 1: Now, here's what I can stand by. My dad would

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Speaker 1: Never understand either. It's like, and I think it's mostly

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Speaker 4: I'm like Bella, it's one more status.

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Speaker 1: Right exactly. We're not asking for much.

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Speaker 4: You go to college, put it on, man, get that far.

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Speaker 5: A roller toilet paper. He wouldn't even know where I

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Speaker 1: But here's one. I was told that my friends could

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Speaker 1: It's surging, it's surging. I'll drive you home, they celest. Yes,

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Speaker 4: British people to use it a lot. Yes, yeah, and

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Speaker 14: So common And you know, it's like everything is the

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, if I would say nine times out

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Speaker 1: great day. You're true. Thank you for telling Caylen were

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Speaker 1: to go go to Ireland, you'll fit right in. I

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Speaker 1: one question reveals whether or not you're truly a good person.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready for this? I guess let's find out

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Speaker 17: That's test of morality. You and your significant other have

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Speaker 1: it's recording. No, if things are not going well in

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Speaker 4: Let's go see that cliff I've been talking.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Yes, yeah, we should totally go

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Speaker 17: Significant other confessors to you that they have slept with

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Speaker 17: Do you give your blood to your sibling, causing you

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Speaker 4: Oh god, I never told me my sibling was there.

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Speaker 19: I thought I was just showed up on the cliff

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Speaker 19: and you'll be it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean quite the hike. Oh I didn't mean

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Speaker 1: And by the way, what a terrible time to have

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Speaker 4: But you know what I mean, with someone close to you,

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Speaker 3: Save yourself, your siblings, slept with your spouse or your

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Speaker 1: Okay, so basically they both betrayed you. Yeah, okay, so

445
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Speaker 1: then they're equalized. It's like the negative two negatives make

446
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 1: it positive. Okay, So now now they're equal as far

447
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Speaker 1: as betrayal is concerned, So okay, eight five, five, five,

448
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Speaker 1: nine one three five. I'm trying to see if there's

449
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Speaker 1: a right this person is alleging there's a right answer,

450
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,880
Speaker 1: But what is the answer. I want to know. Let's

451
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Speaker 1: take the test right now, because you're you're saying it's

452
00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 1: a morality test. But I'm trying to see here. I

453
00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,000
Speaker 1: don't think this. I mean, I think it's all in

454
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Speaker 1: the comments, but I don't think this person necessarily tells

455
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Speaker 1: you what they think the right or the wrong answer is.

456
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Speaker 1: I don't have the TikTok in front of me. But

457
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Speaker 1: what do you I mean, I guess, I guess I

458
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Speaker 1: saved my sibling. I guess I save I save Amanda

459
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:08,719
Speaker 1: every time. Yeah, absolutely not not a guess. That's what

460
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Speaker 1: you do. I save family every time. And I hate

461
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Speaker 1: to say it.

462
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Speaker 3: You will get another significant other, see this, that's the problem.

463
00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 3: She didn't even say your husband or your wife significant other,

464
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Speaker 3: so that means you are technically what single?

465
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Speaker 4: So I'm bringing Balla back so I can beat her ass.

466
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Speaker 2: Okay, and then you'll get another one.

467
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Speaker 6: I'll find another dude, But I am I'm gonna save

468
00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:35,959
Speaker 6: her and then put her right back in the hospitel.

469
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Speaker 1: It is boy, that's tough. That is, don't I don't

470
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Speaker 1: know that there's both.

471
00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm saving myself in this one.

472
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Speaker 4: You both betrayed me.

473
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Speaker 2: That's awful.

474
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Speaker 20: Like you're my best friend, my sister, my soulmate, the

475
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Speaker 20: person I grew up with, right, and then you're my

476
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 20: certificant other, your hobby, you're my husband. But you both

477
00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 20: are wrong and you both deserve to die.

478
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Speaker 11: You're just.

479
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 4: Looking out and never looking back.

480
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Speaker 1: I've got a side note. And this is not this

481
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with any of this. But I

482
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 1: actually went on a date recently with a woman and

483
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Speaker 1: this is different. But she is from another country and

484
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Speaker 1: she immigrated here alone and I asked her about family

485
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,879
Speaker 1: and going to visit family and she's like, yeah, I'm

486
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Speaker 1: not really close with my mom anymore. And I said

487
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Speaker 1: why and she said, well, I dated a guy for

488
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Speaker 1: a number of years. I moved away and he dated her. Wow,

489
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Speaker 1: or the way she said she dated him. And this

490
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Speaker 1: is a different This is different, but like no one

491
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Speaker 1: really did anything. There was no infidelity here, but like,

492
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Speaker 1: that's weird to be intimate with the same I guess

493
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Speaker 1: the mom, don't you. There's a line to be drawn, right,

494
00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 1: don't you say, like, Okay, I don't need to be

495
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Speaker 1: where my daughter's been or vice versa. I don't need

496
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Speaker 1: I don't need to date the man that my I

497
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Speaker 1: just think there's something weird about I don't know, and

498
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Speaker 1: it's different. This is a different scenario, but it really

499
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Speaker 1: that one got me thinking too, because I'm like, is

500
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Speaker 1: it worse if she dated the guy that mom used

501
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Speaker 1: to date. I feel like parents, when it comes to parents,

502
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,720
Speaker 1: like the expectation the bar is higher. You got to

503
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Speaker 1: be better for your kids than your kids are to you,

504
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 1: like because you made the person right, So like, don't

505
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Speaker 1: do something that that that would make your kid feel uncomfortable.

506
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: That's avoidable in my opinion, And I think a lot

507
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Speaker 1: of parents don't get that. A lot of parents think

508
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Speaker 1: at some point that it becomes this is a personal

509
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Speaker 1: topic for me, but at some point it's like parents

510
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Speaker 1: believe that you're fifty to fifty with your kids, and

511
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Speaker 1: I don't believe that. If I have a kid, then

512
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Speaker 1: I'm I need to be better than my kid my

513
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Speaker 1: whole life. In my opinion, I need to. I need to.

514
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Speaker 1: I take the l every time. Yea, yeah, even even

515
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Speaker 1: if you're right, because who's gonna do it if you don't,

516
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 1: you know, So in that case, I think the mom

517
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Speaker 1: had an obligation just not to make it messy.

518
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Speaker 6: They're supposed to protect you, and that's like one of

519
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Speaker 6: the most what I mean, ever.

520
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Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Okay, what are you going to do? Jason?

521
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Speaker 5: So I'm like critical thinking too much? So Mike and

522
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 5: your dad got.

523
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Speaker 9: It on.

524
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Speaker 1: Because you know you don't have a sibling. You don't

525
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Speaker 1: have a sibling. So James le Roy Brown got it on.

526
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: And I love you James Leroy Brown. So I know

527
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: this is hypothetical. You're you're married to Linda and she's

528
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Speaker 1: a lovely woman, but you don't have a sibling. So

529
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Speaker 1: this is where we.

530
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Speaker 5: Have to go with this boy, not my dad. I

531
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Speaker 5: have to think for a minute, because like Mike supports

532
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Speaker 5: my whole life. However, I would go with James Leroy

533
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Speaker 5: if you saved his life. Yeah, so you'd have to

534
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Speaker 5: go with James Leroy. I have to my parent.

535
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Speaker 1: I think you have to go family first. Hang any

536
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. What are you going to do

537
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Speaker 1: in this in this hypothetical morality test, which is there's

538
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Speaker 1: really none of these are good options. But if if

539
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Speaker 1: your significant other cheated with your sibling and somehow now

540
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Speaker 1: they're both hanging hanging on for dear life, and you

541
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Speaker 1: can save one or the other and only one of

542
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Speaker 1: the other. Which one do you say? They both betrayed you?

543
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Speaker 9: So I'm gonna have my boyfriend who needs blood. My

544
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 9: sister can give her give him a blob, and then

545
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 9: she needs a kidney or whichever way, we'll see what.

546
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Speaker 13: You're give her the kidney.

547
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Speaker 1: With all due respect to Amy, Now you're adding to

548
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Speaker 1: the scenario because yeah, of course, if there's other people

549
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: that can help, well, then everybody lives. But that's not

550
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 1: the best. That's not nobody else. Nobody else can help. Amy,

551
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: you can always say one person to be the hero.

552
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Speaker 9: Well they here, Yeah, I mean I know it's I

553
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 9: was trying to find a loophole.

554
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Speaker 1: I appreciate that, Amy, that was a creative response, But

555
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 1: but you can only save one. I gotta go have

556
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: a great day.

557
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Speaker 4: Thank you, Amy, Thank you guys.

558
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Speaker 1: I'm glad you called see Amy over here going well. Actually,

559
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Speaker 1: you know, hey, Kelly, yes, Kelly, what are you going

560
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:56,680
Speaker 1: to do in this scenario?

561
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Speaker 13: Save neither?

562
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: So you're just walking away from both of them.

563
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Speaker 13: Then well, no, think about this. For a woman, you

564
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,479
Speaker 13: can get blood anywhere, so you don't have to donate

565
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 13: your blood. For two, you can live without a kidney,

566
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Speaker 13: So why do I have to give up a kidney

567
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Speaker 13: to you?

568
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 4: Pretend you can't though.

569
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Speaker 1: Everybody over here is trying to get out of it

570
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Speaker 1: kidney currently, Yeah, I mean, and there's no blood at

571
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Speaker 1: Then I appreciate that you guys are all willing to

572
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Speaker 1: change the scenario, but you can't because this is by

573
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Speaker 1: the way, this is fake.

574
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Speaker 10: Okay, so fine, so fine.

575
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Speaker 13: If I have to say one, oh, man, I guess

576
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Speaker 13: it depends on his life. Insurance was paid up, so

577
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 13: I have to go into my sister. Smart, I go

578
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 13: with my sister and make her life miserable.

579
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Speaker 10: The rest of it.

580
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Speaker 1: I think you got to save family.

581
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll get my link back and then we'll be

582
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 6: eating there.

583
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,879
Speaker 1: No, Kelly, thank you, have a great day. Every guy,

584
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: somebody texted say where did go? Similar situation happened to me?

585
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: Threw them both. Oh my god, Hannah, Hi, Hannah, good morning,

586
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Fred Show.

587
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 21: How are you good, Mark, I'm great, I'm literally I.

588
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 12: Listen to you guys every morning on my way to work.

589
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

590
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 13: It's amazing. I'm like shaking right now, you guys so much.

591
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: Wow. People don't usually shake in our presence, but this

592
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: is incredible. This is what it feels like to be famous.

593
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 1: Just briefly, What are you gonna do, Hannah?

594
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Speaker 12: Yeah, I this is a very weird situation. But I

595
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 12: would say, my sibling, you know, they are someone that

596
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 12: you you're with, you know, your whole life. You can

597
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 12: find another another spouse, especially if you cheated.

598
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Speaker 13: That is not no, that is not for me.

599
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Speaker 12: If you teat, you know what you're You're done, You're

600
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Speaker 12: cut off.

601
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Speaker 13: But I like she said, you.

602
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Speaker 12: Know, my sister might end up in the hospital again,

603
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Speaker 12: but not with life threatening injuries. And I could, you know,

604
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Speaker 12: forgive her at some point in life.

605
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Speaker 3: Maybe I'll need.

606
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Speaker 12: A kidney one day and she'll give it to me.

607
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Speaker 1: Mm okay, Hannah, thank you, I'll hold that over her. Yeah,

608
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Speaker 1: you sound like a moral person.

609
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Speaker 2: I don't.

610
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Speaker 1: I don't. Again, I don't know what the right answer is.

611
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: I don't think there is one, But yeah, I don't.

612
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 13: I don't think so.

613
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: But thank you, Hannah. I have a good day.

614
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 10: You too.

615
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,280
Speaker 1: Thank you. Okay, now I hate Latisi over now that

616
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: Tisia has to get messy. Go ahead, Litisa, get messy

617
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: with it. Get messy with it. Well, my dad rated

618
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: my well to do semantics. Well, I wouldn't. I don't

619
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: know the guy really anymore, so I don't know I

620
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 1: would be I don't know. I guess in that case,

621
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: I save the person who is closest to me at

622
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Speaker 1: the time, which is which would be my significant other

623
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Speaker 1: in this case, I guess I I appreciate it. Thank you, Latisia.

624
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 1: I have a good day. I mean, look, I'm not

625
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to like it's nothing personal. But if

626
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: it's a family member who haven't talked to you in

627
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: twenty five years versus the person I'm married to, well

628
00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: then I save the married person. But all things equal,

629
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Speaker 1: I think you have to save family.

630
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm bringing Bella back and I'm banging every guy

631
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 6: she dates from for the rest of for life.

632
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh my god, just to get her.

633
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: This is terrible too. Someone texted, would you save your

634
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,159
Speaker 1: sister or Pollie? See that's awful. I'll tell you right

635
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: now if it. First of all, let's assume that nobody

636
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 1: would trade me. But I don't even like to put

637
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: that out there. But my sister, being her, would tell

638
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: me to say Polly every time, every mom, every single time.

639
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: I would hope. So I don't know, I would hope

640
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: that is the answer. But Connor, Hi, Connor, good morning.

641
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in. This is a hypothetical scenario

642
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: on TikTok where there's a lot of setup for this. Somehow,

643
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 1: somehow we got two people on the edge of a

644
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 1: cliff and kidneys are gone and blood's everywhere, and I

645
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: don't know what happened. But basically, it's it's a sibling

646
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: cheated with a significant other and you get to pick

647
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: which one you're going to save both betrayed you. Who

648
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: do you pick and why?

649
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 4: For me, that would be crazy because it would depend

650
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 4: on the sibling because I have a twin brother.

651
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 13: But like, what if it was my sister or so

652
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 13: one of my wife's actually lesbian.

653
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 11: But I think I'd have to go with.

654
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 4: Minute twist.

655
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Speaker 1: If the sister cheated with your wife, then that would

656
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 1: that adds a whole different twist to it. It's like,

657
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: wait a minute, she didn't even like what don't have anyway, bye, hypothetic.

658
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: I was like, we got to focus on this, Yes, Connor,

659
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, continue all good.

660
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Speaker 15: I mean there's like the whole brother bond thing, you know,

661
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Speaker 15: like that's my girl. You don't do that, but you

662
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 15: know you don't really have that bond with your God.

663
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: So you would kill your brother.

664
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Speaker 3: I mean you would kill your sister because you don't

665
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 3: like her as much as you like your brother.

666
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 9: I mean pretty much.

667
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 1: A right, Connor, if you're the family reunion this WEEKND,

668
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 1: I love you man had a good day, that's awful.

669
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: I'd probably take a good look at everybody's finances first

670
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: and just see who's you know what decision Like that's

671
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: if my wife dies, I don't have to pay alimment. Okay, huh,

672
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: all right, well bye bye Fred Show, More Fresh show

673
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,080
Speaker 1: next right here. I've been meaning to get to this

674
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 1: for a couple of weeks. We have a little bit

675
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 1: of time, Kiln. Yes, you had said something in passing

676
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: and I just like, don't tell me anymore because I

677
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: want to hear about this about a gentleman that you

678
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: barely know, that one that is trying to get you

679
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: to travel.

680
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 4: With him, travel to him.

681
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, what are the terms? Can you set this up? Please?

682
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: I need to understand that.

683
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 5: The terms.

684
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: I need to understand, like how this happened? Yeah, I

685
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 1: mean I need, I need everything.

686
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 4: Okay, so this is.

687
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: Oh, let me get Chris Hansen in here.

688
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 4: It refresh the page to Oh I.

689
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 1: Had to Well I didn't, I didn't refresh the page. Oh,

690
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 1: there's a lot of soundboards here. There's all kinds of

691
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: fun stuff here. Hold on, I'm Tris Hansen. Yeah, there

692
00:30:47,360 --> 00:30:49,719
Speaker 1: you go. Okay, so Chris Hansen's here. Does he say

693
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: anything else? Man? That's all he says. Hold on a second?

694
00:30:53,960 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: Control that's terribly sexy. I can tell you ever watched Dateline?

695
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:05,720
Speaker 1: That's what I really wanted to get to before you

696
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,840
Speaker 1: tell me this story. Have you ever watched Dateline? Because

697
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,959
Speaker 1: this sounds like a Dateline episode waiting to happen. But

698
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: please take it away.

699
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 4: I know I need your guys' advice, advice. Is this

700
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 4: a bad idea?

701
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 5: Now?

702
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say yes, I haven't heard the story,

703
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 1: but go.

704
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 6: Ahead, but content, think of the content. So a friend

705
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 6: of a friend was in town. He does not live here,

706
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 6: and we went out as a group and we were

707
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 6: kind of heading it off like flirting a little bit,

708
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 6: And since then we've been talking like a decent amount

709
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 6: and flirting a decent amount. And one day he invited

710
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Speaker 6: me to come where he.

711
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 4: Lives and stay with him.

712
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 19: And it's a nice place, so I kind of was

713
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Speaker 19: considering it. But also, would you travel and stay with

714
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 19: someone that you've spent just one time face.

715
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:54,479
Speaker 4: To face with?

716
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: What are the terms? And people aren't gonna like this,

717
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: but I got to understand, like they mean, I like

718
00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:01,719
Speaker 1: my assessment of this, but I'm going to keep it

719
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: one hundred. As the kids say, is he paying for

720
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: this trip?

721
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't assume, so yeah you would assume. So

722
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 4: well we haven't. I haven't said yes because I needed

723
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 4: your rays his advice.

724
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: But if he says yes, then you're your expectation and

725
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm just just you know, there's no judgment here. Wh

726
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: your expectation would be the ticket comes from him, all

727
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: travel related expenses come from him, and you stay with him.

728
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, it would be to stay with him.

729
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 6: I don't know that I would expect that, but I

730
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 6: think like the way that he asked it, that's like.

731
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 4: What would happen?

732
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Speaker 1: Would you still go if he's like, cool, just let

733
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: me know when you're showing up, like as if he

734
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: didn't expect to.

735
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 6: Pay if I'm gonna get crap for this, But if

736
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 6: you're inviting me to travel.

737
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 4: To stay with you, I expect a plane ticket. I'm sorry.

738
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 1: And you've met the guy once and did anything physical

739
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: happen that one time?

740
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 4: Nope?

741
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: And so but you wouldn't have any problem having only

742
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: met him once and then going to stay in his home.

743
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 4: That's like, I've never done that before. So that's like,

744
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 4: I guess more of the.

745
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 6: Discussion for me is like I don't know, you know,

746
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:58,440
Speaker 6: am I gonna.

747
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 4: Brush my teeth? And like you're there like I I

748
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 4: have never done that.

749
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, because this his house, I would assume he is

750
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: his taking. I certainly hope. I don't think he's leaving.

751
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: I don't think he's going to go stay in a

752
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 1: hotel if he does.

753
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 4: That situation there, Okay, this changes everything.

754
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: And by the way, absolutely zero judgment because I've been

755
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: on all sides of this. I've flown for it. I've

756
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: I've had people fly to me for it. I've you know,

757
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: I've been single over twenty something years. Absolutely zero judgment

758
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: for this, But I gotta say, is there not an

759
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: eight five, five, five nine one one on three five

760
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: call and you know whatever? Tell me if I'm run

761
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: Judge Hill, I don't see. I don't think it's necessarily

762
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: dangerous to do this, especially because you've got credibility from

763
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,479
Speaker 1: your friends. Yeah, you know, because it's not like this

764
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,880
Speaker 1: guy's on the Internet or something. You know, somebody you

765
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: know knows him and so you know that's all checked out.

766
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: But is there not something in the back of your

767
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: mind that's like you don't ever have to do anything

768
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: for anybody. But isn't that sort of what this is

769
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: about in some way? In additionally getting to know you? Ye,

770
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: you're not stay in here's bad? Yeah, and he's in bed.

771
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 6: Oh he's going to be there, Okay, Yeah, No, I

772
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 6: mean I think, well, okay, So first of all, I'm

773
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,359
Speaker 6: i feel like I'm in like a living life phase,

774
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,759
Speaker 6: Like I'm doing stuff that like I've never done. I'm out,

775
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:13,879
Speaker 6: I never have really been like single. So like I'm

776
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 6: loving it, and I can understand where you're coming from.

777
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,799
Speaker 6: But like I'm attracted to him, and I feel like

778
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 6: even if he were to live here and just take

779
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,319
Speaker 6: me out on a date, like things are going that way.

780
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,520
Speaker 6: We just probably haven't made out yet because he doesn't

781
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 6: live here, you know what I mean, Like I'm attracted

782
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 6: to him, We flirt, things are flirty. I obviously things

783
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 6: would need to be like vibing in the right way

784
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 6: for me to decide that, and obviously the woman is

785
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 6: in control of that. But I feel comfortable that I

786
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 6: probably would want to make out a little bit.

787
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: You don't. I want to be very very clear because

788
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: people will not hear this the first time. As a

789
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 1: woman or a man or whatever, you have no obligation

790
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: to anyone to do anything, regardless of what they've done

791
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: for you. I want to be very very clear about this.

792
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 1: But my advice, my thought on this, yeah is because

793
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: I've been on the other side of this, tell him

794
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: I would like to see you again. Come back here,

795
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 1: and if you're willing for him to stay somewhere, say

796
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: you can stay with me. We'll do a weekend where

797
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: you and I just hang out on my turf because

798
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: that way, because there's a lot you don't know, Like

799
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: you think it's gonna go great. But let's say in

800
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,759
Speaker 1: the first hour the guy says something outrageous and you're like,

801
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 1: I am stuck here for three days, you know what

802
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: I mean, Like there's no getting out of this. I

803
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: feel like at least if he's on your or at

804
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: least they come stay here and stay in a hotel

805
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: and I'll stay with you in the hotel and we'll

806
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: hang out. I'll have a great weekend. We'll do like

807
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 1: a I don't know, like a staycation kind of thing.

808
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: At least that way you got an out. Because not

809
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 1: that you can't just go to the airport and buy

810
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: a ticket, but that's not you don't want to have

811
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:46,120
Speaker 1: to do that. You're probably gonna feel obligated to stay. Yeah,

812
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: and then you have no you have no way, you

813
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: have no leverage, you have no way out.

814
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I hear you.

815
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 6: I just feel like we've talked enough that I feel

816
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,359
Speaker 6: like there wouldn't be like a ton of shocking things.

817
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 6: I guess said you never really know, but I mean

818
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 6: we talk on the phone, we text, but you think.

819
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: Once you're in person, it's and again like I don't know,

820
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 1: what do you have to take a big poop? You

821
00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:06,479
Speaker 1: have to take a big poop? What if he takes

822
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 1: the most massive poop ever? And it's like you're so disgusted.

823
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: What if you see his living environment and you're like,

824
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: because in.

825
00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 6: His living environment, yeah, I want to be I don't.

826
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 1: Know, you don't really know this guy's rich. I don't.

827
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say rich.

828
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 6: I mean he lives in a nice place that I

829
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 6: would like to travel to, and he's well off and okay,

830
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:29,240
Speaker 6: you know, I mean.

831
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well here comes Rusty. I don't, Rusty, what are

832
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 1: you gonna say? Go ahead? What's what's your vote, Rusty? Dusty?

833
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 11: This might be a controversial opinion, but I would say,

834
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 11: if you do go, or if you want to go,

835
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,080
Speaker 11: buy your own plane ticket. If they were saying buy

836
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 11: your own everything, don't even give him the option to

837
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:48,480
Speaker 11: hold that over your head.

838
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 15: I'm kind of on the edge. I mean, I know

839
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 15: this is gonna be a controversial opinion, but you know,

840
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,319
Speaker 15: if someone's spending or dropping that much money for you,

841
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 15: you know, for this trip, and they're going to be

842
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 15: expecting something, I'm not saying you owe them anything. You

843
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 15: can obviously say no.

844
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,880
Speaker 11: However, like Fred just says, first day, you know, you

845
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 11: deny it. You know things are going and then things

846
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 11: might start going south, and then you know the whole

847
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 11: crist is kind of sour. I'm not saying it's just

848
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 11: right or not saying you don't owe me. I'm just

849
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 11: saying it's definitely a recipe for it.

850
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: There's an expectation. I think, whether whether you hear or

851
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 1: anyone wants to acknowledge it or not, there's an expectation.

852
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,320
Speaker 1: And it's not that you aren't willing to. But let's

853
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: just say you do or you don't. I don't know.

854
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: There's just a lot of parameters. There's a lot we

855
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: don't know, okay, And I like I like you to

856
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: have all the power. I don't like anyone else to

857
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: have all the power. And I would say the same

858
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: thing to somebody that I feel more comfortable if someone

859
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 1: has some skin in the game on their end too

860
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: when I hang out with them, because that way there's

861
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: no weird feeling, there's no well I felt like I

862
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: had to stay because you paid for something or I

863
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: did you know. I don't know that. It's just if

864
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: you if you want your space and you want to

865
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 1: get out and go, then you have the option if

866
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 1: you don't, and then once you have that that initial

867
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 1: meeting is over, thenyway, I think there's a lot more

868
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 1: to work with you. You can have a lot, there's a

869
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: lot more you know, uh to you don't want to

870
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: hold anything over, right, But it also.

871
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 5: Works both ways.

872
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 4: If he if she's like, you got to come to me,

873
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 4: he'll be like, well, I flew all the way out here,

874
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. We also we have hung

875
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 4: out in person. Well said that? Okay, Yeah, yeah, I

876
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 4: got you.

877
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 11: You can hang out just as friend. I can go

878
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,280
Speaker 11: fly to Denver to hang out with my lady friend

879
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 11: just as a plutonic friend.

880
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't have to expect anything. Yeah, Rusty, man,

881
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 1: he said he's friends. Yeah, he said, but thirty five thousand.

882
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,919
Speaker 1: Maybe he's on his way to Denver right now. Yeah,

883
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: that's exactly. He's got an executive status airport. Hey man,

884
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: my man, thank you, Rusty. Have fun in Denver. See

885
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,319
Speaker 1: you dude, you're the man.

886
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 4: I love that name.

887
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 1: I don't know.

888
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 4: Okay, So your vote is have them come to me?

889
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 4: What is everyone else's vote?

890
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: Girl?

891
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 16: Living life, girl, girl, I don't want have fun funny

892
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 16: next to go?

893
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, leave something behind when you leave.

894
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, always always, I want you to have all the control.

895
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: Hey, Valerie. Yeah, well I don't mind. I never mind that.

896
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 1: Either leave it. And all the men listening now are like, Fred,

897
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 1: what do you What kind of advice is this?

898
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 12: It?

899
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,359
Speaker 1: Leave it wanting more. I don't have a problem with that. Either,

900
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: make it work for it a little bit. Well, look,

901
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: here's I want to get to Valerie quickly. But I

902
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: don't believe in the whole thing where it's like, if

903
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: I meet a woman that she needs to make me

904
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: take her on three dates before we do anything because

905
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 1: I have to earn it because I want. I don't.

906
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: I don't agree with the rule that a man will

907
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 1: inherently not respect a woman who gives it up. Whatever.

908
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think there's one size fits all. Yeah,

909
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: I think there are situations where it's where I don't.

910
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: I think there are situations where I do. I mean,

911
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: I've dated people for six months. We slept together on

912
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: the first night. I've dated people for six months, we

913
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,760
Speaker 1: slept together after a month. So this whole thing where

914
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 1: like I'm definitely not doing this or definitely not doing that.

915
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 1: I don't buy all of that. But I don't have

916
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: a problem with a little bit of sexual tension. And

917
00:40:06,160 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: also to see is this dude really interested in you

918
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: or is he just interested in a quick bang bang

919
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 1: because you're hot.

920
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 6: We have been talking for months, like it's been like

921
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 6: three to four months, so like there has there was

922
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 6: time in between him like trying to see me again.

923
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: Big difference in phone and texting and actually hanging out

924
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: one on one in person. In my opinion, it takes

925
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 1: a lot. It takes a lot more effort. You can

926
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:26,280
Speaker 1: juggle a lot of things when you're talking to somebody

927
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 1: on phone texting. I can be doing two, three, four

928
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 1: at a time. People, Oh yeah, for sure.

929
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 6: But I'm saying like, don't people don't like especially dude,

930
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 6: wouldn't you lose interest in talking to someone that doesn't

931
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 6: live in the same city, Like.

932
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 4: Do you have?

933
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 2: No?

934
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: It's exciting, it's exciting. It's exciting because the meeting happens.

935
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 1: But then what happens is you build it up and

936
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,759
Speaker 1: it's either great or it's not, and then it all

937
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: ends right there. Sometimes Hey Valerie, Yes.

938
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 10: Good morning, Love you guys, Valerie.

939
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: Love you too. You get the final say what do

940
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: you think?

941
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 12: Uh?

942
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 10: You you need to go because you'll always wonder if

943
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 10: you didn't. You need to go. My parents met. My

944
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 10: pasts lived in New York and they met. He flew

945
00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 10: here to Illinois, and she was terrified and she did

946
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 10: it anyway. But her friends knew where she was.

947
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 7: She was safe.

948
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 10: I think you should do it. I think you'll regret

949
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 10: it if you don't.

950
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 4: Okay, I share my location with you. Valerie.

951
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 10: Yeah you watch me?

952
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I will, she says, go. You say you're

953
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 1: looking for hope. All right, thank you, Valerie. I have

954
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: a good day. He just called in. Actually this is him.

955
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 1: It will be nice. I think you will love it.

956
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: Sounds convincing. Do it more?

957
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 11: Fread show next order a fresh show.

958
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: It's Kiki's Court. I mean, if people want me to

959
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: stop responding to some of the haters, that's fine. But

960
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: some of them are funny. It's just funny to me. Like,

961
00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna, honestly, I'm gonna find out who one of

962
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: these haters is. I'm gonna show up to their job

963
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,919
Speaker 1: wherever it is, and I'm gonna sit next to them.

964
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 1: I'll be nice to them.

965
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 7: I'll suh you up.

966
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: I'll bring them coffee, I'll bring them live I'll be nice,

967
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: you know whatever. I'm not a mean spirited guy, and

968
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit next to them and then I'm just

969
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 1: gonna tell them everything they're doing wrong. Oh, you were

970
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:20,399
Speaker 1: typing is a typo. That's a typo. You better fix

971
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: that typo. You suck it typing just a whole day

972
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: answer the phone. Hello, I wasn't friendly enough that Hello.

973
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: You suck an answering the phone. You know you're a clown.

974
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna sit there all day and then whatever

975
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 1: they do, I'm gonna support it too, Like I'll buy

976
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: whatever they're selling, and then I'll come back each day

977
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: and do the exact same to support the you know,

978
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: go to subway they work at Subway up. Maybe I'm

979
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 1: making this up. They working pop belly. I bet that's

980
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: not how you make the kubano. Nope, not not as

981
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: supposed to be. Pickles on there. That's not the right

982
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: Kuban's at the right temperature. Make it again. You suck

983
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: at making kuba Like these cookies aren't that good and

984
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 1: that's soft en. I've make them again. That's someone do

985
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 1: all day. That goes anyway. That's Kiki's court for you. Uh, Kiki,

986
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: take it away. Please honor in the court. Guys, honor

987
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 1: in the court.

988
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 2: Honor in the court.

989
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, judge, honor in the court.

990
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 1: There's no honor in this room, Kiki here, there is

991
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: no honor in anything that we do.

992
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 3: Anyway, Okay, this week's case, chah it says, girl, please

993
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 3: take this to the court room. So over spring break,

994
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 3: me and my bestie Drew planned a trip to Wisconsin

995
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 3: to attend our friend's twenty first birthday What happened.

996
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 5: To the music?

997
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,479
Speaker 2: I was there? I just to make.

998
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:43,799
Speaker 1: What happened to.

999
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 15: Drew?

1000
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:47,799
Speaker 16: All right?

1001
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 3: Order?

1002
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: All right?

1003
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 2: Honor, honor, all right, all right, I gotta be a judge,

1004
00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 2: all right.

1005
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 3: So over spring break, me and my bestie Drew planned

1006
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,240
Speaker 3: a road trip to Wisconsin to attend our friend's twenty

1007
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 3: first birthday party. Drew drove his mom's car and we

1008
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 3: agreed to split the gas costs, and at first everything

1009
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 3: was going smoothly until we got on the road. About

1010
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 3: an hour into the trip, we get pulled over and

1011
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,400
Speaker 3: come to find out Drew's license are suspended and his

1012
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 3: mom's registration on the car is expired. So Drew ends

1013
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 3: up going to jail and his mom's car gets impounded,

1014
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 3: leaving me stranded in a random town.

1015
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,320
Speaker 2: So obviously the trip was ruined.

1016
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: Whatever.

1017
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 3: But the real issue is that now two weeks after,

1018
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 3: Drew texts me asking me to split the costs to

1019
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 3: get his mom's car out of the pound.

1020
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 2: No, girl, please weigh in on this.

1021
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 9: No.

1022
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 3: Yes, it's an absolute no for me, like the audacity,

1023
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 3: the nerve, Like that's a you and yo mama problem,

1024
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 3: because why are your license suspended and you're driving me?

1025
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,439
Speaker 2: And why is her a car expired and she's letting

1026
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:57,399
Speaker 2: us take it on the road.

1027
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: Absolutely not if I'm driving the car. If I'm driving

1028
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,399
Speaker 1: a car, I provide the car on a road trip,

1029
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 1: then I'm responsible for whatever state that car is in,

1030
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:12,360
Speaker 1: whether it's registered not registered, whether I have a driver's

1031
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: relacens don't have a driver that's that's that's me. If

1032
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: you if Kinggy said I will come pick you up

1033
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 1: in the range and we're driving it, you know, Wisconsin, Dell's,

1034
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: I would say no, thank you.

1035
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 4: But yeah, but let's say I don't even picture this.

1036
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: Let's I said thank you. Let's said swing by, pull through.

1037
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: I'll pull up on it. It's fine, and you pull up,

1038
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: we get pulled over and it turns out, your cars

1039
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,400
Speaker 1: messed up and your license messed up. It's not that

1040
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 1: I'm not your friend. I might come bail you out.

1041
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: You got to pay me back for that, though, because

1042
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: none of this is my bad.

1043
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

1044
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:44,839
Speaker 1: None of this is my bad.

1045
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 2: Yes, like I'm the passenger.

1046
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 3: How is it ever my fault that your mother's car

1047
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 3: is like her expert, I mean, her registration is expired.

1048
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: How is it ever my fault that your driver's license

1049
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 2: are suspended?

1050
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 3: I would never ask somebody to split the car, Like

1051
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 3: I know, I'm out here running from the tollway, so

1052
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,919
Speaker 3: why would I ask spread to help split the costs

1053
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: of my cargets and founded?

1054
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: That's correct, All I'm responsible for is half of whatever

1055
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: my expense related to this trip would be, right, so gas,

1056
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: you know, parking, maybe tolls. That's all I'm responsible for you.

1057
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 1: But if you volunteer to drive, I think it's fair

1058
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,320
Speaker 1: and safe for me to assume that your car is

1059
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: in good working order, and so is your relationship with

1060
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 1: the government.

1061
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that is what I one would assume. But

1062
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 3: it's just like the audacity to ask me to pay

1063
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:33,359
Speaker 3: for half, Like I feel bad for you. I feel

1064
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,160
Speaker 3: bad for your mom that this is the case, but like,

1065
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 3: you're irresponsible. I should probably sue you for wasting my weekend.

1066
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, what about me getting my ass home from this

1067
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 1: random town somewhere between here and wherever we win?

1068
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 3: Exactly, like I'm on the side of the road looking dumb.

1069
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 3: My entire weekend is now in the trash. They probably

1070
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 3: had an airbnb somewhere or a hotel and that's completely lost.

1071
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 2: So actually she should sue him.

1072
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: She just suit your eight three five. Is there any

1073
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: other way to look at this? I mean, yeah, you

1074
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:07,359
Speaker 1: could say, well, if you were a good friend, you'd

1075
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 1: help get your friend out of a bund. Well, maybe

1076
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: I would, but that's not my obligation to you, and

1077
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: you got to pay me back.

1078
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 3: Exactly, Like it's nice of your mom to let us

1079
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 3: use the car. I get that point, but like you,

1080
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 3: you guys were just riding dirty and somebody should have

1081
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 3: been more responsible, not me.

1082
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, I will say, like, if I was on a

1083
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 6: road trip and like the car got towed because of

1084
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 6: like a parking thing, then I would probably feel more

1085
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 6: responsible than something that you.

1086
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 4: Know, she slacked on prior.

1087
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, I would help my friend out, though, regardless of

1088
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 6: if it was my fault or not.

1089
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 2: You wouldn't be offended that they had the audacity to

1090
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 2: ask you.

1091
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:46,720
Speaker 4: I would just do it without having to be asked.

1092
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 22: Oh.

1093
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 6: I think like if Jason and I were on a

1094
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 6: road trip and like his mom's car, you know, there

1095
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 6: was an issue, I would definitely help him.

1096
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 5: Was it the driver's idea to take the road trip

1097
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 5: or was it the passenger's idea? Because if it was

1098
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 5: the passengers idea, then they're a little bit more vested

1099
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 5: in this.

1100
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Well, yeah, but shouldn't shouldn't

1101
00:48:06,000 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: you then, as the in planning all of this, shouldn't

1102
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 1: you be like, wait a minute, Uh, I actually don't

1103
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: have a valid driver's license or valid registration on my car,

1104
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 1: so you should probably drive.

1105
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that was sure problem.

1106
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: For sure.

1107
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:20,439
Speaker 6: I'd be like, let's for on secund talk about why

1108
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 6: you are effing life up, so baddy right now and

1109
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 6: then we'll figure it out.

1110
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,520
Speaker 5: You don't know when your license expires, sometimes you don't,

1111
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 5: you know.

1112
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 20: Yes, as somebody who is very late to putting on

1113
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:36,439
Speaker 20: city stickers and or platestickers aka this weekend, it does

1114
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 20: happen like for example, like Jason, a friend and I

1115
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 20: and we were on a road trip one time, and

1116
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 20: I know Jason's the driver, but.

1117
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 2: I was gonna offer a drive. But see, I caught

1118
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 2: it in time.

1119
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 4: I knew my city sticker and my playstickers were not

1120
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 4: on to date, so I never offer it.

1121
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 20: So when that happens, like you need to like not

1122
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 20: even like put yourself in that situation because it's not

1123
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 20: going to end.

1124
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 1: Well, no, yeah I did.

1125
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know if I could do six hours.

1126
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 4: And you're a different car at that time.

1127
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: If I get in your car and you got like

1128
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 1: contraband in there or god knows what else, and I

1129
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,279
Speaker 1: get caught up in that, like that's also your fall,

1130
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: like you're paying it for everything. Get me out of

1131
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:16,160
Speaker 1: this because I didn't have anything to do with it.

1132
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: If you get in my car and I got stuff

1133
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 1: in it I'm not supposed to have, which I often.

1134
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:25,400
Speaker 1: You know me, I'm constantly transporting across state lines, you

1135
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 1: know me, you know, and let's say we get pulled

1136
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: over and like somehow you get tied up in it.

1137
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 1: This is all on me. If you're in my car,

1138
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: I got to be responsible for the state of my car,

1139
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:39,800
Speaker 1: the maintenance condition, the registration, my driver's license status. This

1140
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 1: is on me.

1141
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 6: Hey Fred, you know the hood rules though, whoever is

1142
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 6: more famous, the other person.

1143
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 4: Has to take the fall.

1144
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 6: So like if it was you and I driving, but

1145
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 6: it was your drugs, I have to take the fall

1146
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 6: because we you know, you're more famous.

1147
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,959
Speaker 4: You're the bigger wrapper the frend shows, and I would

1148
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 4: have to.

1149
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 6: Take the fall, you know, even if it was you,

1150
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 6: you know, just to support the bigger thing going on.

1151
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I don't consider myself famous, but in

1152
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: this analogy, you and I in a car, I'm way

1153
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: more famous.

1154
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 4: It's true.

1155
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 12: For the tea.

1156
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 4: You do it for the team. Come on, now everybody

1157
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 4: knows that.

1158
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, thank you. I'll keep that in mind. In fact,

1159
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: now you're going with me everywhere I go, just in

1160
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: case i'd like. Not famous, You're not famous.

1161
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 4: Remember the creator?

1162
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: Hey Gwyn, Yeah, hi Gwen, So you have a question

1163
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,439
Speaker 1: about Kiki's court. Please ask the judge. She's here waiting.

1164
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 22: No.

1165
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 8: I just wanted to say I totally agree, but I'm

1166
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 8: really confused because it's the mom's car that registrations inspired.

1167
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 8: Why is he or if it was a sheet why

1168
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 8: is why are they responsible for it? Shouldn't the mom

1169
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 8: be the one thing for the registration in her car?

1170
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 3: Absolutely, that's the problem here, and he had the nerve

1171
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 3: to ask his friend to help her help him get

1172
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:59,080
Speaker 3: the car out of the impound, like, that's that's your

1173
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 3: mama's problem, that's not your friend's problem.

1174
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: And who's taking me up and taking me on my vacations?

1175
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: But I want to know or home for that matter,

1176
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 1: right right, right, No.

1177
00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:11,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, I just wanted to say I absolutely love you guys,

1178
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 8: and I totally agree.

1179
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: Well, thank you, Gwen, You're a brilliant human being. Have

1180
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 1: a great day. I'm glad you called. I really am. Mikayla. Hi, Hi, MICHAELA.

1181
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: What are we doing here in Keiky's court? I mean,

1182
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 1: I feel like this is pretty much universally agreed upon

1183
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: here in the jury pool. But what do you think?

1184
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 7: I definitely, I definitely think it's a universal decision. I

1185
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 7: don't think that it's the passenger's problem at all, And

1186
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 7: I think it's very rude and like just inconsiderate for

1187
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 7: them to even think that as the driver, that it

1188
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 7: would be the passenger's problem. If anyone should be in

1189
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 7: the corner somewhere. It should be the mom, because why

1190
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 7: would you even put your child and their friend in

1191
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:51,959
Speaker 7: a position to be in a car that has expanded place?

1192
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Yeah, I like it. You're right. Thank you, MICHAELA.

1193
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: Have a great day, no problem you as well.

1194
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 5: Thank you.

1195
00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening. We appreciate you. Adriana.

1196
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 10: Hi, Hey guys, how's it going?

1197
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 9: Hi?

1198
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: Good morning. This is an open and shutcase as far

1199
00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: as working. I think, KIK, this open and shut. But

1200
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: what did you want to say? Yeah, I'm listening, listen completely.

1201
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,279
Speaker 10: First of all, I could see if it was like

1202
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 10: the passenger's fault that they got pulled over. But if

1203
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 10: you have expired place, all the cop has to do

1204
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 10: pull up behind you, run your place, and they could

1205
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 10: see or even like the little sticker that's on there,

1206
00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,320
Speaker 10: they can tell it's not current. So regardless of his

1207
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 10: license was expired or not, he was gonna get the car,

1208
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 10: was gonna get taken anyway, because the car is uh,

1209
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 10: it's not registered. It's not even a legal car.

1210
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 9: It shouldn't be on the road.

1211
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:35,240
Speaker 10: So that's first and foremost.

1212
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 21: And then too, did he inform her that his his

1213
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 21: license was suspended. You know, I have so many questions

1214
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 21: like did you let her know that the car's license

1215
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,360
Speaker 21: plate wasn't registered?

1216
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 10: And did you let her know that you don't have

1217
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 10: a license. I could see if he agreed and was like, okay,

1218
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 10: I'm cool with the risk and I'll help out.

1219
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 21: Twist you didn't know, Yeah you didn't know, then that's

1220
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 21: not her fought at all.

1221
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,320
Speaker 1: I'm with you on that. Now if you tell me

1222
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,200
Speaker 1: all this stuff, if you tell me, yeah, we're going.

1223
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,399
Speaker 1: But I got all these issues going on, so hey,

1224
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: just heads up. I don't know if I'm responsible for

1225
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 1: the fees or whatever, but I am responsible at that

1226
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 1: point for my own We don't get a transportation like

1227
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: I'm taking a risk. I know there's a chance this

1228
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,279
Speaker 1: car gets impounded and a person goes to jail. So

1229
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:20,879
Speaker 1: I can't then say, well, how are you gonna get

1230
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: me home? But if I don't know any of this

1231
00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: and I find out all of this, and then I'm like, yo,

1232
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: you know you gotta what are we.

1233
00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 9: Going to do?

1234
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,439
Speaker 10: Like there has to be a countersuit in this situation. Yes,

1235
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 10: because this girl get home, Like who does she caught that? Questions?

1236
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, my hair done? For the weekend. My nails done.

1237
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, made one of those waxing TikTok videos and everything, man,

1238
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: and then we're ready. Yeah, Adriana, thank you. If you

1239
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,919
Speaker 1: didn't listen Friday, I heard radio app But apparently that's

1240
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 1: the thing that Kiki was telling us about, is that

1241
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: estheticians are making video of all kinds of treatments that

1242
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 1: they do. And I didn't believe it. But thanks to

1243
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: you guys all weekend, that's all I got was videos

1244
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 1: of women being lost, which I really didn't know I

1245
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: never needed to see. Ebony, Hi, Hi, Ebony, good morning.

1246
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 1: Just to recap your Kiki's court, some friends went on

1247
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 1: a road trip. Turns out one of them riding dirty

1248
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:21,759
Speaker 1: in every way, cars not ride, registration is not right,

1249
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 1: licenses in right. And now this person, the driver, the criminal,

1250
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: the miscreant, this person wants this person wants money from

1251
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 1: the passenger, which I don't think that neither want to

1252
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: know one in here would think they're entitled to exactly me.

1253
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 22: I think I'm the petty friend. So for me, I

1254
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 22: think I'd be adding up everything.

1255
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 2: How much was my uber see to get picked up?

1256
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 22: How much was my hotel or how much was my

1257
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 22: plane ticket if I needed, say how much was everything?

1258
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 22: And then after I add all that up, whatever is left.

1259
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 22: Maybe I'll be willing to help you with that that

1260
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 22: odd end. But if I pay more than I think

1261
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 22: I need a little something that I think we need

1262
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 22: to help me out. So I'm a petty.

1263
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 10: Friend, So I don't know.

1264
00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 2: I think a countersuit is in place. I think, yes,

1265
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:12,799
Speaker 2: I think we need to suit them.

1266
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, honor in the court. Dammit, honor in the court.

1267
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: I tell you I don't know any Remind me never

1268
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: to give you right anywhere. I have a good day.

1269
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:24,839
Speaker 2: Yes, please don't.

1270
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 1: Oh bye, This lady will be like, add everything up,

1271
00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 1: set me an itemized bill.