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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for demanding my fiance take

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think the dead mother's wishes should

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Speaker 1: She could be haunted bro or maybe just we just

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, if you disregard the dead mother,

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Speaker 2: she will come to haunt you. I think that's unless

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Speaker 2: you do a seance at a graveyard and give the

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Speaker 2: necessary offerings. I think, do you know what they are?

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Speaker 2: What's necessary offerings? The second toe of your mother in law,

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Speaker 2: three bales of mistletoe, right, and the incense from a

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Speaker 2: foreign land. No murr, no freaking sense. Maybe a little

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Speaker 2: like extra spices, spice it up. Baby.

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Speaker 1: So my twenty eight female fiance thirty eight male proposed

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Speaker 1: to me last week.

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Speaker 2: Hurrah, congrats, you are now going to forever love each

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Speaker 2: other forever. It's it's never going to end. Nothing nothing bad, ever,

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Speaker 2: having bad will ever happen. Nothing bad ever happens on Reddit.

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Speaker 2: That's that's what I've we've learned. I've learned that you know, actually,

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Speaker 2: like there's a ton of like death on Reddit.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, that's a show that does make a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: On the front page.

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Speaker 2: Oh, on the front page, on the front page, like

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Speaker 2: they like there's people dying, Oh Jesus, like like like

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's I stopped clicking them because they're

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Speaker 1: bad for that's all. Yeah, the algorithm is probably given

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Speaker 1: to your Oh my god, wow, did not know that

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Speaker 1: we've been dating for two years? He has a fifteen

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Speaker 2: What a drag? Yeah, just kidding. Potentially, you know, you

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Speaker 2: never know. Nah, fifty or fifteen year olds are like

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Speaker 2: out Actually, no, they can be. They can be. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: fifteen year old girl, dude, that could be. Uh, that

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Speaker 2: But I.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, juge here and her mother passed away about

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Speaker 2: And I also have a six year old son. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so at least they're on equal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, each is bringing a kitchen the table. That's that's

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Speaker 1: kind of nice, right, you both kind of know.

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Speaker 2: Like the Aztec offerings. No, yeah, we're like sacrifice, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: sacrifice the children for the good of the tribe. Each

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Speaker 2: each person brings a sacrifice. Absolutely not saying that you

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Speaker 2: What was the joke? The modest proposal, the Mond proposal.

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Speaker 2: Modest proposal is like it's like an eighteen Like this

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Speaker 2: That was like the global warming of the day. Not

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Speaker 2: and so his solution, which he called a modest proposal,

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Speaker 1: Wow, dude, that that was the tire but was cut

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Speaker 2: It's like, uh, I read it like in like economics

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Speaker 1: Scott come on the show and set the record straight.

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Speaker 1: Did you write the modest proposal. We currently we don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and currently I think you want everyone to eat babies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so please come on the show. Uh, maybe we

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Speaker 1: could do it in a pool outside.

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Speaker 2: Did you go? He went on podcast? But out so?

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, he's a pool boys.

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Speaker 1: He's a fan of good podcasts, particularly ones that happen outside.

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Speaker 1: Except we have a pool, which is better, which is

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Speaker 1: When my fiance and I started to date, I noticed

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Speaker 1: Interesting all right, but either way, I didn't say anything

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Speaker 1: But now that we're engaged, I said I wanted to

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Speaker 1: High school are going to have a silver party every

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Speaker 2: Dude, that's having a whole house at fifteen.

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Speaker 1: Imagine having a whole house that like you own and

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Speaker 1: Yes, and he's bringing his new wife into the house.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is he asking like, hey, like dot, can we

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Speaker 2: get them per room? And I want you to buy

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Speaker 2: all the alcohol for my slumber parties. I'm telling you

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Speaker 2: that card right. Yeah, dude, dude, I'm kicking you out

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Speaker 2: if you don't buy me this. Uh what do fifteen

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, cosmetic, Alta Alta for sure, Alta hydro flasks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as you can tell, John and I compere into

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Speaker 1: You know where we were going. So we're reversing from that.

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Speaker 1: of touch. We're empathetic. So he has enough money for

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Speaker 2: It is hers, Yo, this is nuts.

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Speaker 1: I was shocked and said that I was shocked and

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Speaker 1: he said, no, it is his daughter's. I mean, but

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Speaker 2: Yeah, imagine a seven year old just like this is

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Speaker 1: I'm the legal owner, like yours passing. Literally, could you

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Speaker 1: it's not like we'll be homeless or anything. We still

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Speaker 2: This is such a weird dynamic, like, oh, I got

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Speaker 1: not like we'll be homeless or anything. We still have

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Speaker 2: I mean that's a good amount of time. At least

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Speaker 2: he's kind of loaded. It will be chilling. But now

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Speaker 1: Just like yeah, just like, oh, I assume I'm just

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Speaker 1: moving in maybe absorbing the existing mortgage, right, that's that's

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Speaker 1: maybe a more fair thing. But it's like we have

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Speaker 1: to buy the house outright together and wow, or move

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Speaker 1: somewhere else or move somewhere else, but it's his daughters.

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Speaker 2: Though, like he's like he's kind of that's kind of

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Speaker 1: It seems like he's like just unwilling to even talk

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Like, like, what what do

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's like, oh, people do rent to own, so

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Speaker 2: So you think that they should they should rent the

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Speaker 1: I mean, like he should just sit down and say, hey,

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Speaker 2: But it's like, but you also have to respect the

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Speaker 1: I mean in that scenario, she would get paid, the

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Speaker 1: that's why he's been saving. I asked what else belonged

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Speaker 2: Even the car. He doesn't even have his own vehicle. Bro,

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Speaker 2: she really got everything. Did the wife not leave him anything?

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Speaker 1: Bro? A, maybe the wife left him nothing. Also the

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Speaker 2: All into his daughter, all to the Maybe they got that.

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Speaker 2: So again, maybe they got divorced, and so it's his

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Speaker 2: that's a bit. That's so weird.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of a red flag, you know, right, like

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Speaker 2: Didn't get anything in you know, the will?

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Speaker 1: Like that's kind of because like she clearly wrote the

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Speaker 2: We also OP could be. I feel like OP, I'm

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Speaker 1: It's just a shock to the system, Like you're about

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Speaker 2: Have to buy this house and you're like, like I

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Speaker 1: You weren't expecting You weren't expecting that because it's like

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Speaker 1: never expect like, oh, you're living in your fifteen year

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Speaker 1: that's so funny. I called him a jerk again and

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Speaker 2: I don't know if he's a jerk though.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he's a jerk, but she he

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Speaker 1: should have informed her, like before they got engaged.

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Speaker 2: For sure, Yeah, for sure. But he said he did

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Speaker 2: say so, he said this is my daughter's house. But

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Speaker 2: I think he said it initially when she asked. I

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that happened after they were so she

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Speaker 2: No, no, no. At the beginning, at the top of the story,

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Speaker 2: she asked him about the house, right, because she asked

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Speaker 2: time she ever asked him about it. About it? He

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Speaker 2: told her the truth, you're right, but she didn't believe it.

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Speaker 1: Well, she didn't get a reason. That was the thing

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Speaker 1: no explanation. So he told her, hmm, that's yeah, he

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Speaker 2: This is I feel like like I'm more on the

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Speaker 1: I think you're more on no peace side. But I

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Speaker 2: I want to know.

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Speaker 1: So when I told my family, my brother laughed because

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Speaker 2: Like a gold digger, and he called me an a hole.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: I felt a trade and lied to Am I really

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Speaker 1: the a hole? I think I am justified. But Sam,

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Speaker 1: there is an update. Well, I hope, like you know,

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Speaker 1: everything got resolved and yeah, if they weren't like fairy

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Speaker 1: tale ending, right, Yeah, so happens I read right, Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: So the update is he saw the post and asked

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Speaker 2: Oh no, the marriage is over.

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Speaker 1: We're done. It's officially a rap. It's officially a rap,

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Speaker 1: so op says. I guess this isn't a problem anymore.

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Speaker 1: No need to keep commenting. He'll come tomorrow to get

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Speaker 1: his ring and his car. Things are over? You mean

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Speaker 2: Is it his daughter? To wow?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Wow wow wow.

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Speaker 1: I think there is definitely no matter whose side you're

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Speaker 1: you're on, there's definitely overreactions on both sides.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like the to taking the I mean

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Speaker 2: like it it is a weird like all right, regardless

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Speaker 2: of like the gold diggerish vibes. It is a weird

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Speaker 2: like too to see that post and like and just

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Speaker 1: Scene way that that was a I mean, op calling

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Speaker 1: the fiance don't like calling off the wedding. That is

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean I guess like he could see

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Speaker 2: it says like, you know, I can't believe you would

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Speaker 2: ask my daughter to like give the house or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe he's I.

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Speaker 1: Think I think I think calling like it wasn't like okay,

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Speaker 1: it's like sit down and talk.

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Speaker 2: It was like I want the ring back. I want

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Speaker 2: the ring back, Like no happy endings here, my friends,

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Speaker 2: and no happy endings here, be sad