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<v Speaker 1>Pushkin. My research group has studied this phenomenon where at

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of sort of a new chapter in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>you are more motivated and likely to make a change.

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<v Speaker 1>That's doctor Katie Milden, author of the book had a

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<v Speaker 1>change moments when you know, leave college and you shift

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<v Speaker 1>identities and take on a new role, or when you

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<v Speaker 1>become a parent. Those moments they feel like new beginnings

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<v Speaker 1>and chapter breaks in our lives, and they free us

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<v Speaker 1>from the baggage that we had before. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people who do make big change are looking at moments

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<v Speaker 1>that feel like breaking points and doing it. Katie Milkman's

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<v Speaker 1>a professor of behavioral economics at the University of Pennsylvania.

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<v Speaker 1>She's also a friend and collaborator. We got to work

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<v Speaker 1>together on some projects when I was in the Obama

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<v Speaker 1>White House, and she happens to be an expert on change.

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<v Speaker 1>As you know, this show is all about how people

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<v Speaker 1>navigate the big changes in life. We're talking swing for

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<v Speaker 1>the fences, change your life type changes. What Katie's research

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<v Speaker 1>has taught me over the years is that small tweaks

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<v Speaker 1>to our mindset in daily behaviors can actually inspire big

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<v Speaker 1>change within ourselves. I've personally been using insights from Katie's

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<v Speaker 1>research in my own life for a while now. In

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<v Speaker 1>this special episode, Katie and I dive deep into the

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<v Speaker 1>science of change. I hope our conversation will leave you

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<v Speaker 1>with some valuable tips to help your approach change differently

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<v Speaker 1>in your own life. I'm Maya Shunker and this is

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<v Speaker 1>a slight change of plants. Well, Katie, I was curious

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<v Speaker 1>to know how you got into the topic of change. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in love with behavioral science, but it took

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<v Speaker 1>me a little while to figure out that I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to focus on change. And what happened is I went

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<v Speaker 1>to a seminar over at the med school and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of brilliant people over there thinking about behavioral

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<v Speaker 1>science and medicine. How can we help patients make better decisions?

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<v Speaker 1>How can we improve the decisions of doctors as well?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was in this seminar and a graph went up,

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<v Speaker 1>which normally doesn't change your life, but this graph changed

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<v Speaker 1>my life. The graph just showed a breakdown of how

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<v Speaker 1>many premature deaths are due to different causes from accidents,

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<v Speaker 1>to environment to daily decisions, and forty percent of premature

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<v Speaker 1>deaths turn out to be the result of decisions that

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<v Speaker 1>we can change on a daily basis about things like

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not we drink or smoke, what we eat,

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not we're physically active, we buckle our seat belts.

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<v Speaker 1>Those kinds of decisions accumulate more than I could have

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<v Speaker 1>ever imagined. I had just no idea of the magnitude.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I saw that and realized, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>tools of behavioral science could be applied to improve health

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<v Speaker 1>outcomes and health decisions, I could have this enormous impact.

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<v Speaker 1>And then then I sort of started thinking, like, Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if it matters that much with health, it's sort of

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<v Speaker 1>obvious that it would accumulate in areas like savings and

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<v Speaker 1>education similarly, even if I've never seen an exact breakdown

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<v Speaker 1>of that sort. So that really just got me excited

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<v Speaker 1>about the potential to use this thing that I found

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<v Speaker 1>so interesting, so exciting and fun to actually have an impact.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was it for me. I'm really curious about

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<v Speaker 1>how your journey changed, because you've had many career shifts,

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<v Speaker 1>but you certainly went from you know, a more laboratory

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<v Speaker 1>based focus too, you know, jumping into the White House

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<v Speaker 1>to tackle change head on from a policy perspective, how

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<v Speaker 1>did how did you shift? It's interesting because in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind my big shift in life was from the violin

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<v Speaker 1>to cognitive science. But I'm just remembering, like, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I also had this other really big shift. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think this is true across science too, But certainly when

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<v Speaker 1>we were working in the government, the stakes feel so

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<v Speaker 1>high you just can't screw up because these are real

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<v Speaker 1>people's lives and they can be affected by the work

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing. And yeah, it's so funny. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>actually worked together on some projects. Actually one of them

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<v Speaker 1>used an insight from your book, and it was the

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<v Speaker 1>fresh Start effect. And I'm curious if you can share

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<v Speaker 1>what the fresh start effect is. It was very exciting

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<v Speaker 1>at the time to have caught off the press's research

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<v Speaker 1>coming out of your lab actually applied to a problem

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<v Speaker 1>that we were trying to solve in the government. So

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<v Speaker 1>my research group has studied this phenomenon where at the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of sort of a new chapter in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>you are more motivated and likely to make a change.

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<v Speaker 1>And we've often studied small changes in this context, like

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<v Speaker 1>you go to the gym more, or you search on

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<v Speaker 1>Google for the term diet more frequently, or you're more

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<v Speaker 1>likely to set a goal on a goal setting website.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also think you know where the interest in

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<v Speaker 1>this topic came from was the realization that a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people who do make big change are looking at

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<v Speaker 1>moments that feel like breaking points and doing doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I tell stories about bigger changes in my book,

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<v Speaker 1>moments when you leave college and you shift identity is

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<v Speaker 1>and take on a new role, or when you become

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<v Speaker 1>a parent. Those moments they feel like new beginnings and

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<v Speaker 1>chapter breaks in our lives, and I think they're freeing

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<v Speaker 1>in a way. They free us from the baggage that

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<v Speaker 1>we had before. But they can also be freeing psychologically

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<v Speaker 1>because we feel like you're a new person. You can

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<v Speaker 1>take on a new identity, whatever wasn't working before, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>ambition you failed to have before you couldn't shed that,

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<v Speaker 1>and say okay, now I can do it. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I do think we could study big change, and I

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<v Speaker 1>actually think some of the research we've done around small

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<v Speaker 1>change is inspired by a recognition that these might also

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<v Speaker 1>be the triggers for big change. Was there a particular

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<v Speaker 1>moment in your life where you felt the fresh start

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<v Speaker 1>effect play out where it really felt like a new

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<v Speaker 1>beginning and there was a certain set of habits or

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<v Speaker 1>behavior changes that you witnessed. Oh my gosh. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I do mesearch, so totally, meaning like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of my research is motivated by like, oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird. I wonder if other people And then I

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<v Speaker 1>asked my friends, Oh yes, me too, and then I realized, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like this might be this might be something we're studding.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say one example that I love is that

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<v Speaker 1>I realized I wanted to write this book for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. Finally what happened that triggered it when I

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<v Speaker 1>actually began. My son was three years old. We decided

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<v Speaker 1>we were going to move out of our apartment into

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<v Speaker 1>a house. We bought the house, we signed the papers,

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<v Speaker 1>and that day I said, you know what, I'm ready,

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<v Speaker 1>We're moving to a new house. It's a fresh start.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the moment and the project started from there,

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<v Speaker 1>So that that was a big one for me. Interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the anecdotes around the fresh Start that I

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<v Speaker 1>love the most is Obama decided that he would stop

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<v Speaker 1>smoking for good when the Affordable Care Act passed, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wait, a next level the fresh start effects,

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<v Speaker 1>like he truly chose a once in a lifetime experienced

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<v Speaker 1>to anchor his commitment on. And it was like aligned on,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was aligned on like a health focus. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, of course Obama one ups all of us

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<v Speaker 1>and does the thing in the best way imaginable. Duh.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do love that, Like there's no other future,

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<v Speaker 1>one of those where he can be like old. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I can cave a little now because they'll be this

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<v Speaker 1>other right the other time I passed right the other

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<v Speaker 1>times healthcare as president. I love that, and I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I knew that. Actually, that's amazing. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>have you used the fresh start effect maya, or like

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<v Speaker 1>in hindsight? Have you ever noticed that a fresh start shifted?

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<v Speaker 1>I have some I swear, I swear to God every

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday I'm committing to eating healthily. It's just that there's

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<v Speaker 1>too many damn Sundays, and so I always feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten you fall on to give it a go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I mean, I think it's it's hard for

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<v Speaker 1>so many of us to keep our resolutions. And in

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<v Speaker 1>reading your book, it did make me think, okay, choose

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<v Speaker 1>really remarkable milestones for pivoting, like big moves like when

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<v Speaker 1>I moved from DC to California, getting married, big events

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<v Speaker 1>like that, Because I do think you feel like your

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<v Speaker 1>identity is changing a bit, and any behaviors at a

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<v Speaker 1>company identity shifts might be more sticky, or at least

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<v Speaker 1>they have than in my experience. I think that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>And you get the benefit not only of the sort

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<v Speaker 1>of psychological break and the fresh start and opening a chapter,

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<v Speaker 1>but you also have physical change, which is so important

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<v Speaker 1>to disrupting sort of bad habits or routines and giving

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<v Speaker 1>you that real blank slate to build upon and say like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to go to the burrito shop every

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<v Speaker 1>day for lunch, or you know, whatever your bad habit

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<v Speaker 1>is that you want to kick um exactly. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>think one of my favorite insights from the book, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's instead I've been using in my own life since

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<v Speaker 1>I read your research years ago, is around temptation fundling.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mind for sharing what that is? And then

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love to let you know how I've been using it. Yeah, yess,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to hear about your temptation bundeling um that

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be fun. So temptation. Bundling is a

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<v Speaker 1>solution I came up with because I had two problems.

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<v Speaker 1>Um taking you back to grad school again. I was

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<v Speaker 1>taking all these hard engineering classes, and I was stressed out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd come home after a long day of classes,

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<v Speaker 1>and all I wanted to do was just like indulge

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<v Speaker 1>in entertainment, right like turn on Netflix and binge watch TV,

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<v Speaker 1>read tempting novels. So I just wanted I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>dive into that in a scape my reality, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to do my problem sets. On the flip side,

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<v Speaker 1>I also knew I should really be getting exercise. I

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<v Speaker 1>was an athlete in college, but again when I came

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<v Speaker 1>home from a long day, I didn't want to put

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<v Speaker 1>on sweats and go to the gym. So these two problems,

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<v Speaker 1>like I couldn't get myself to do my homework because

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<v Speaker 1>I was procrastinating indulging in all this entertainment, and I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get myself to exercise, And all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>I realized, like, wait a minute, what if I solved

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<v Speaker 1>them all at once? What if I only let myself

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy this entertainment that I love so much while I'm exercising,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd start craving trips to the gym to find out

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<v Speaker 1>what happens next in my latest page turner. And I

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<v Speaker 1>would stop wasting time at home on this sort of

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<v Speaker 1>literary garbage that normally captures my attention, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>focus on my problem sets. And I started doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was just like magic. I worked out every day. Time

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<v Speaker 1>flew while I was at the gym because I was

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<v Speaker 1>engrossed in Harry Potter or Alex Cross. And when I

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<v Speaker 1>got home, I was ready to work because I'd already

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<v Speaker 1>had my indulgence and I wasn't as stressed out. And

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<v Speaker 1>I also realized like I could use them not only

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<v Speaker 1>to help me exercise, but in lots of places, like

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<v Speaker 1>if you just tie something tempting to a chore, you

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<v Speaker 1>can magically turn it into something you look forward to

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<v Speaker 1>and do less of that indulgent thing and feel less

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<v Speaker 1>guilty about it. Like you know, if only you get

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<v Speaker 1>a glass of wine while you're making a home cooked meal,

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<v Speaker 1>or listen to your favorite podcast while you're doing chores.

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<v Speaker 1>For all your listeners who are doing laundry right now,

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<v Speaker 1>Katie and I are carrying you on. Go for it. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>your temptation bundling. You didn't know there was a name

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<v Speaker 1>for it, Yes, exactly. Okay, So I one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite things in life is discovering a new pop song

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<v Speaker 1>that I love. And what makes me really sad is

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<v Speaker 1>that I very quickly like it loses the spark after

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<v Speaker 1>a certain number of listens, Like you just know you

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<v Speaker 1>only have fifteen amazing listens with a song and before

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<v Speaker 1>before it kind of becomes old hat, right, So as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as I discovered an amazing song, I will only

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<v Speaker 1>allow myself to listen to it while I'm working out

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<v Speaker 1>from that point on. And like, I'm a really non

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<v Speaker 1>fun wife because my husband sometimes and I will discover

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<v Speaker 1>the song together and we'll be cooking in the evening,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be having fun. He's like, hey, let's play that

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<v Speaker 1>new album by Casey Musgraves, who's one of my favorite artists.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, you don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>That's only like a treadmill elliptical song because I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I have to protect it and save it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it certainly makes the work out a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>tolerable and a little bit more exciting. So yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>love pop music too, and I feel like we should

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<v Speaker 1>trade some song recommendations later so we can each share.

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<v Speaker 1>It's now very seriously tied to my exercise between In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>the one thing that can happen is when you temptation bundle.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes what can happen is the intrinsic extrinsic motivation balance

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<v Speaker 1>gets thrown off kilter a bit. So it's like, initially

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just using all of my internal will to go exercise,

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<v Speaker 1>but now I've got this extrinsic motivator, which is a song.

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<v Speaker 1>So on the rare occasion where like my headphones are

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<v Speaker 1>out of battery or like my phone's Wi Fi is

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<v Speaker 1>not working, I'm like, oh, I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>can do this anymore. Just have to make sure your

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<v Speaker 1>headphone are always working in your your iPhone is always

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<v Speaker 1>charged or whatever. Yes, I'm wondering whether are for temptation bundling.

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<v Speaker 1>You see this plate on the wild in places that

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<v Speaker 1>were behavior change feels a little bit more serious. That's interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think if I have a great answer

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<v Speaker 1>for you. There's a study I love of teachers who

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<v Speaker 1>are trying to figure out how to motivate their students

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<v Speaker 1>to do more math. Problems, which kids apparently say they

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<v Speaker 1>like doing math about as much as they like eating broccoli.

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<v Speaker 1>So that tells you something about how delightful it is.

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<v Speaker 1>And math is so important to everything, as we both know.

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<v Speaker 1>So these two researchers suggested, basically a temptation bundle. What

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<v Speaker 1>if the kids could, you know, listen to music, have

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<v Speaker 1>snacks markers that they like using. And they did that

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<v Speaker 1>all on the day when they're doing their math worksheets,

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<v Speaker 1>but not at other times. And the teachers were sort

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<v Speaker 1>of skeptical. They were like, I think they'll focus less

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<v Speaker 1>could so I'll be distracted. And it turned out that

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<v Speaker 1>kids persisted longer on math when they were randomly assigned

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<v Speaker 1>to groups that had these i'll say temptations linked with them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not you know, it's not changing their lives in

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<v Speaker 1>that day. It is cumulative. But I think that that's

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<v Speaker 1>an example of like some of the big goals we

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<v Speaker 1>have in life, whether it's getting through your math assignments

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<v Speaker 1>or finishing a dissertation, if you can find a way

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<v Speaker 1>to make it more enjoyable, that really matters. I love

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<v Speaker 1>the math example, I think for two reasons. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the first is I just love any time research findings

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<v Speaker 1>violated our expectations, you know, when the teachers are like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really sure that this is a good idea,

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<v Speaker 1>But then you're able to generate empirical data that runs

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<v Speaker 1>counter to that hypothesis. That's wonderful because it's moving the

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<v Speaker 1>field forward. And I think the other reason I love

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<v Speaker 1>it is that, you know, success begets success, Passion begets passion.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of one of those things where if you

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<v Speaker 1>get a kid just through that initial period they're just

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<v Speaker 1>learning the basics, getting over those initial super hard humps,

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<v Speaker 1>then they might actually realize that they really like this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and that just becomes easier and easier and easier to

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<v Speaker 1>do every problem from that point forward. So I do

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it can have massive long term effects. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>with you, And if they have positive associations with math,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what more could we hope for. We'll be

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<v Speaker 1>right back with a slight change of plans. In this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Katie Melfin and I are talking about the science

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<v Speaker 1>of change and the different techniques we can use to

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<v Speaker 1>spur on that change. One technique is called a commitment device,

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<v Speaker 1>which locks you into a plan to reach your long

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<v Speaker 1>term goals. The key feature of a commitment device is

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<v Speaker 1>that if you don't follow through with your plan, there's

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of penalty in place. I remember, I'm curious

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<v Speaker 1>if you actually remember the experience of first learning about them,

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<v Speaker 1>because for me, it was like mind blowing how powerful

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<v Speaker 1>they were, and actually mind blowing how few people use

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<v Speaker 1>them given how powerful they are. But the study that

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<v Speaker 1>I love that really I think illustrates nicely how much

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<v Speaker 1>they can help us is a study where they partnered

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<v Speaker 1>with a bank in the Philippines that saw low savings

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<v Speaker 1>rates and wanted to figure out if there was a

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<v Speaker 1>way to help people save more so they'd have the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to have better health, have better life outcomes. Where

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<v Speaker 1>they came up with this idea that one of the

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<v Speaker 1>reasons people were having trouble accumulating savings balances is they

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<v Speaker 1>were constantly tempted to dip in. They were like, they

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<v Speaker 1>opened the bank account and then they put some money aside,

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<v Speaker 1>but then somebody's birthday or there's a holiday, and so

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<v Speaker 1>the money came right back out and it never accumulated.

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<v Speaker 1>And that people said, you know, actually, I'd kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like it if I couldn't get them money out I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wish I couldn't act on those impulses. So

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<v Speaker 1>they developed this new kind of account. It was a

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<v Speaker 1>commitment savings account. So you put money in and you

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<v Speaker 1>are not allowed to take it out until a predetermin

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<v Speaker 1>and date you choose or a savings goal you choose.

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<v Speaker 1>They offered this kind of account to, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>random subset of customers alongside the usual account with the

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<v Speaker 1>same interest rate, but free in and out access. They

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<v Speaker 1>saved eighty percent more year over year than the control

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<v Speaker 1>I mean eighty percent more savings. Right, you've studied savings

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<v Speaker 1>like that. That's life changing. So I love that story.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a hard commitment because when you put your money in,

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<v Speaker 1>there is another you know, there's a third party, the

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<v Speaker 1>bank that is saying like, you cannot have it. It

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<v Speaker 1>is not accessible to you. I'm preventing I'm preventing you

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<v Speaker 1>from So there's like a hard restriction on access to something.

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<v Speaker 1>And a commitment device is something you voluntarily opt into

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<v Speaker 1>that restricts you or penalizes you in some way if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't achieve your goals or pursue your goals in

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<v Speaker 1>the way you intend to. So that's a hard one

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<v Speaker 1>because there's no fudging it. There's soft commitments in the

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<v Speaker 1>world too, Like you know, you tell your partner or

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<v Speaker 1>your mom you're going to do something, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>ask them to give you a hard time if you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like a weak commitment device. You're gonna get a

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<v Speaker 1>little You're gonna get ribbed a little bit. You're accountable

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<v Speaker 1>to someone, but you can back out. Yeah. I also

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<v Speaker 1>remember learning about commitment devices for the first time. Gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>we sound like such nerds. Do you are? For you, Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember where you were Remember the day you

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<v Speaker 1>learned about commitment devices? I mean remember exactly where I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm like, yeah, I was in a classroom.

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<v Speaker 1>My head exploded. Where were you? I was in my

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen with my roommates, and I was reading this paper

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, this is so exciting. The

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<v Speaker 1>researchers ran a study in which they had people outline where, when,

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<v Speaker 1>and how they were planning to get vaccinated. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was my study. Oh my gosh, this is so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>The flu shot study I'm talking about is your study.

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<v Speaker 1>See that's awesome. Okay, well, the seminal work by doctor

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<v Speaker 1>milkman Um so in your study. You ask people where, when,

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<v Speaker 1>and how you're gonna go get vaccinated? Right, And I

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<v Speaker 1>think what was so studying to me is like you,

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<v Speaker 1>so you write down this forum. You know, I maya

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<v Speaker 1>nine am after or I drop off my husband at

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<v Speaker 1>work and I go pick up my groceries. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the CBS can get my flu vaccine.

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<v Speaker 1>And what was astonishing to me is that it significantly

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<v Speaker 1>increased the vaccination rate despite the fact that you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>accountable to anyone, right in this intervention. You were not

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<v Speaker 1>required to send the letter back to anyone, No one

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<v Speaker 1>was on your case. You were literally just planning it

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<v Speaker 1>out for yourself, and that was enough to significantly drive

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<v Speaker 1>the numbers up, which to me again was such an

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<v Speaker 1>extraordinary lightlift, low cost intervention that could potentially save people's lives.

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<v Speaker 1>And in your book you talk about the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>we all have a fairly maybe not everyone, but many

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<v Speaker 1>people have a very high view of themselves, so they

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<v Speaker 1>feel like they might not benefit that much from commitment devices.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, we can be very over optimistic about

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<v Speaker 1>our ability to use willpower to avoid temptation. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>wondering if you have any thoughts or advice for helping

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<v Speaker 1>people overcome this over confidence so that they can achieve

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<v Speaker 1>their goals. Yeah, it's funny. Optimism is a really good thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but in this particular case, it plays tricks on us

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<v Speaker 1>that are problematic because we don't in general persevere as

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<v Speaker 1>much as we think we will, and we do tend

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<v Speaker 1>to be present biased, right, so we dramatically overweight whatever

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<v Speaker 1>value will get from something instantaneously rather than the long

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<v Speaker 1>term value. So you know, I can buy a present

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<v Speaker 1>right now for myself, or I can put money in savings.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take the present even if that's not really good

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<v Speaker 1>for me in the long run. And if we don't

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate that, this disconnect keeps happening, and we think we'll

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<v Speaker 1>just barrel through and do what's in our long term

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<v Speaker 1>best interests, we don't choose to use commitment devices because

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<v Speaker 1>we don't recognize this challenge. So I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>really tough nut to crack. And for me, the big

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<v Speaker 1>thing was sort of seeing the data and seeing here's

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<v Speaker 1>the evidence if you see it with your own eyes

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<v Speaker 1>and you see how powerful these tools are, how often

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<v Speaker 1>we do stumble even though we think we'll be able

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<v Speaker 1>to push through. Maybe that evidence will be enough to

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<v Speaker 1>get people to recognize this can be a really potent approach.

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<v Speaker 1>You have lots of colorful anecdotes sprinkled throughout of real

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<v Speaker 1>people who are facing these challenges and using these behavioral

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<v Speaker 1>tricks of the trade. And I do feel like in

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<v Speaker 1>many ways you're wielding the power of social norms by saying, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>at least here's a collection of people who are willing

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<v Speaker 1>to acknowledge that they may be a bit overconfident about

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<v Speaker 1>their ability to use, for example, willpower to achieve their goals,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're open to using some of these strategies. So

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<v Speaker 1>maybe there could be a positive norm effect that comes

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<v Speaker 1>from people reading your book Fingers Crossed. I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that the modeling, and you know, anytime I

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<v Speaker 1>can use insights about social norms to make the world

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<v Speaker 1>a better place, I'm it's a win. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>see in the future of change research? In your ideal feature.

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<v Speaker 1>When I think about what I'm most intrigued by and

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we've only scratched the surface of in studying change,

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<v Speaker 1>there's two big things. One is durability. What are the

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of tools that really propel change? In an incredibly

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<v Speaker 1>durable way, you know. I think a key takeaway for

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<v Speaker 1>me has been, like, never stopped doing the thing that's

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<v Speaker 1>working right. Don't like assume you can temptation bundle for

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<v Speaker 1>a month, then you've built an exercise habit and magically, maya,

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<v Speaker 1>you will never need to listen to a pop song again,

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<v Speaker 1>and you'll always want to go to the gym. So

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<v Speaker 1>you got to keep doing that. So we know that.

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<v Speaker 1>But are there any magical things that where if you

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<v Speaker 1>sort of can put them on autopilot or do them

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<v Speaker 1>for a little while and they propel you for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder I would love to uncover some if they exist.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the other thing I'm really intrigued by is

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<v Speaker 1>setbacks and how to sort of how to prepare for

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<v Speaker 1>them and recover from them as effectively as possible. I

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<v Speaker 1>think some of the most interesting ideas I have encountered

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<v Speaker 1>around change work because they have they help us with

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<v Speaker 1>those setbacks. I think fresh starts sort of help us

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<v Speaker 1>with the setbacks. They're like, okay, wipe the slate clean,

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<v Speaker 1>You're I get to get up and go again. There's

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<v Speaker 1>wonderful work by my colleague Mersa Sharif on emergency reserves

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<v Speaker 1>where she's figured out these clever ways that you set

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<v Speaker 1>a tough goal, but give yourself a couple get out

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<v Speaker 1>of Gael free cards if you can't achieve it every

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<v Speaker 1>day of the week, and found that that's way better

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<v Speaker 1>than giving yourself sort of like a slightly easier goal

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<v Speaker 1>because you're going for the stretch, but you're giving yourself

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<v Speaker 1>a little leeway. I think that also is like about

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<v Speaker 1>getting back up. So I think there's some really fundamental,

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<v Speaker 1>interesting things to be explored around creating structures for success

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<v Speaker 1>after a setback, and I look forward to studying that too, Katie.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things that I feel most intimidated by

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<v Speaker 1>is this challenge of how it is we can change

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<v Speaker 1>people's minds. It feels like one of those really elicit things,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's no one size fits all approach, And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just wondering if you have any thoughts on the most

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<v Speaker 1>effective strategies you've seen, either in research or just in

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<v Speaker 1>your personal life around how to change people's minds. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's such an interesting question. It's obviously really hard, just

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<v Speaker 1>like behavior change is hard, changing opinions is really hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I think actually there are some common themes though, and

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<v Speaker 1>one common theme is exploration. So when we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>the fresh start effect and how these disruptions in our

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<v Speaker 1>lives can lead us to sort of be in a

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<v Speaker 1>new environment and you can therefore explore and you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have old bad habits necessarily already built to fall back on.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also an opportunity to do that in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>mindset shift. So I think when we have a set

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<v Speaker 1>of beliefs and expectations, were less likely to explore and

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<v Speaker 1>read and talk to people outside of our perspective. But

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<v Speaker 1>if we can, if there's a moment that career or

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<v Speaker 1>forces some experimentation an exploration, that can be incredibly powerful. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that too, because it's not so pointed, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like I need you to change your opinion

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<v Speaker 1>about this thing. It's let me just try to get

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<v Speaker 1>you to expose yourself to stuff. Period. I'm wondering if

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<v Speaker 1>you have any concrete ideas on how we can motivate

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<v Speaker 1>people to engage in that exploration, because exploration is very uncomfortable, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we all have deeply entrenched views within us. Purposely

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<v Speaker 1>going on a mission to challenge those views is not

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<v Speaker 1>exactly the most fun adventure. It's just it's filled with

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<v Speaker 1>cognitive dissonance. It just feels uncomfortable. And so how do

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<v Speaker 1>we incentivize people to go on those little missions? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to think that a big part of it

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<v Speaker 1>is probably through social norms, which is such a powerful tool.

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<v Speaker 1>For instance, if you end up with a roommate who's

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<v Speaker 1>a good student, your grades are likely to be a

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<v Speaker 1>bit higher. So you know, if we point out others

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<v Speaker 1>like you who have changed their mind, it gives you

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<v Speaker 1>license to say, like, oh, maybe, like it's reasonable for

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<v Speaker 1>someone like meeting to keep exploring and keep thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>different ideas. I think that might be a way that

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<v Speaker 1>we can introduce this exploration concept and not have it

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<v Speaker 1>be too threatening and have it be appealing. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly right. I mean, it's reminding me. There's this

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<v Speaker 1>one interview I did with a woman named Megan Phelps

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<v Speaker 1>Roper and she ends up leaving this hate group cult church,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was asking her, are you using your platform

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<v Speaker 1>today to convince other people? Because there's so much research

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<v Speaker 1>showing the power of a convert. So when you hold

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<v Speaker 1>the views that this person in front of you previously held,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you watch them walk you through their journey

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<v Speaker 1>of changing their minds. It can open your mind in

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<v Speaker 1>a really unique way because you feel attached to their

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<v Speaker 1>former value system, right. You know that you started in

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<v Speaker 1>the same place, but they ended up in a different place.

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<v Speaker 1>I know the Department of Homeland Security uses this inside

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<v Speaker 1>all the time by recruiting former extremists to try to

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<v Speaker 1>convert potential extremists away from that craft. It's so interesting too,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm thinking about like the original, like nineteen fifty

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<v Speaker 1>five Solomon ash experiments where he'd bring all these people

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<v Speaker 1>into a room and he'd show them two cards. One

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<v Speaker 1>had one line on it and one had three and

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<v Speaker 1>you had to figure out which of those three lines

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<v Speaker 1>was the same length as the one line. And it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like this really simple task and it was fairly straightforward.

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<v Speaker 1>People didn't get it wrong except when he introduced social pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>So he'd bring a group in and have seven of

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<v Speaker 1>them consistently give those same wrong answer before you give

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<v Speaker 1>your answer, and people started messing up and they're like

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<v Speaker 1>totally confused. But was really interesting, you know, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>famous finding. When everybody else says the wrong answer, you

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<v Speaker 1>go along with it a lot, and you actually believe

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<v Speaker 1>that you must be seeing things. One of my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>subfindings that I think gets less play is that if

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<v Speaker 1>there's just one truthful person in that set, so six

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<v Speaker 1>people out of the seven say the wrong answer, but

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<v Speaker 1>one says the right answer, you're much more likely to

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<v Speaker 1>follow your intuition and say what you really think is right.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, I think that that's interesting in relation to

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<v Speaker 1>the sort of power of the one person who broke free.

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<v Speaker 1>Just seeing one person who agrees with your shows you

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<v Speaker 1>a slightly different worldview, can make it possible for you

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<v Speaker 1>to feel comfortable going against the grain. Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I really want to get your thoughts on this.

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<v Speaker 1>We are living in a world right now where we're

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<v Speaker 1>almost in like this self help moment right where everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to optimize their lives, and I do wonder where

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<v Speaker 1>the limits are of that. And at one point you

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<v Speaker 1>have to say, you know what, like, I just can't

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<v Speaker 1>spend my whole life trying to optimize. I just need

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of be and live and exist. And the

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<v Speaker 1>reason I asked that is it it's alarming to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll hear certain people say, oh, yeah, no, it's super

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<v Speaker 1>important to be bored because actually boredom makes you more productive,

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<v Speaker 1>So even boredom is now an instrumental thing, were becoming

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<v Speaker 1>more productive, Like oh yeah, make sure you stare out

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<v Speaker 1>the window for at least five minutes a day, because

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<v Speaker 1>that'll help you be more productive. I feel like sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>we don't just do things because we've we just value

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<v Speaker 1>those things. We always do things because they have some

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<v Speaker 1>instrumental value in terms of achieving something else. And and

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<v Speaker 1>that's also super interesting, maya, because those are like little hacks, right, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stare out the window for five minutes. And

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<v Speaker 1>if we like fill our life with all those little hacks,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually don't make space for the big momentous change.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so interesting. Yeah, and you're saying that because it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just taking up all your brain airwaves that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not Yeah, you just don't have the time to think macro.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great point. I think I'll wrap by asking

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<v Speaker 1>what the biggest change you feel you've experienced in your

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<v Speaker 1>life is. Oh, my gosh, there's so many, which is

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<v Speaker 1>part of what makes life so fun. I think honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>one of the biggest most important changes for me went

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<v Speaker 1>from being focused on figuring out how to do my

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<v Speaker 1>own work or live my own life, to taking on

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<v Speaker 1>the role of coaching and helping other people. All of

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<v Speaker 1>those relationships sort of reinforce the same change, which is

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<v Speaker 1>how meaningful it is to be looking out for someone

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<v Speaker 1>else besides yourself, and how much you can learn about

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<v Speaker 1>everything when you are coaching and helping someone else. And

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<v Speaker 1>that helped me actually be better at everything. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would say that's the biggest shift I've had in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope everyone will get that opportunity to have

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of a shift. Wow, what a positive change,

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<v Speaker 1>What a positive feet to end on. I know how

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<v Speaker 1>busy you are, and I know how much you optimize

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<v Speaker 1>your life in order to make room for these kinds

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<v Speaker 1>of conversations. So thank you so much. It was really

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<v Speaker 1>fun to chat with you. This was so fun. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, hey, thanks for listening. See you next week.

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<v Speaker 1>When I talk with rock climber Tommy called Well, he

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<v Speaker 1>says a near death experience where he was taken hostage

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<v Speaker 1>propelled him to become one of the best rock climbers

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<v Speaker 1>in the world. I definitely always felt like adversity is

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<v Speaker 1>what brings us to life, but this turned up the

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<v Speaker 1>volume on that in a pretty incredible way. In some ways,

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<v Speaker 1>my climbing ever since then has been an effort to

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<v Speaker 1>almost get back there in a way and learn more.

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<v Speaker 1>A Slight Change of Plans is created an executive produce

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<v Speaker 1>by me Maya Shunker. Big thanks to everyone at Pushkin Industries,

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<v Speaker 1>including our producer Mola Board, associate producers David Jaw and

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<v Speaker 1>Julia Goodman, executive producers Mia Lavelle and Justine Lange, senior

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<v Speaker 1>editor Jan Guera, and sound design and mixed engineers Ben

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<v Speaker 1>Holliday and Jason Gambrel. Thanks also to Louise Gara who

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<v Speaker 1>wrote our theme song, and Ginger Smith who helped arrange

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<v Speaker 1>the vocals, incidental music from Epidemic Sound, and of course

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<v Speaker 1>a very special thanks to Jimmy Lee. You can follow

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<v Speaker 1>A Slight Change of Plans on Instagram at doctor Maya

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<v Speaker 1>Schunker anytime they violate our sorry for frog in my throat.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually like, even though I'm a vegetarian, I occasionally get

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<v Speaker 1>a frog. You're not chewing all, it's not chewing, getting

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<v Speaker 1>it right back out