WEBVTT - 2020 Rewind: Our Rich Journey

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<v Speaker 1>Heyba fam, we did it. We're here. We are almost

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<v Speaker 1>done with twenty twenty. But before we say goodbye to

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<v Speaker 1>the Year of the Dumpster Fire, we first wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>take a look back at some of our favorite conversations

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<v Speaker 1>we had with guests this year on Brown Ambition. First up,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got our conversation with Aman and Christina of our

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<v Speaker 1>Rich Journey. First of all, if you guys do not

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<v Speaker 1>subscribe to their YouTube channel and you are interested in

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<v Speaker 1>getting your start in investing, you have got to go

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<v Speaker 1>to YouTube right now and subscribe. Honestly, there's a series

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<v Speaker 1>of videos about wealth building and investing and saving for retirement.

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<v Speaker 1>We're a game changer for the way that I personally

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<v Speaker 1>approached my own retirement before the age of forty. Christina

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<v Speaker 1>and Aman managed to not only retire, but move their

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<v Speaker 1>entire family to Portugal, of all places, and start fresh.

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<v Speaker 1>They are truly living their best damn lives, and in

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<v Speaker 1>this episode, they were here to spill the tea on

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<v Speaker 1>how much they save to retire early, how they're making

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<v Speaker 1>ends meet out there in Portugal right now, and what

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<v Speaker 1>are their expenses really like. We hope you enjoy looking

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<v Speaker 1>back on this episode of Brown ambition. So, without further ado,

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<v Speaker 1>here's our conversation with a Moan and Christina of Our

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<v Speaker 1>Rich Journey. We are joined today by the fabulous Our

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<v Speaker 1>Rich Journey, the brains behind Our Rich Journey, Christina and

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<v Speaker 1>Amman Browning. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, thanks for having us.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>We have been looking forward to this. We were so

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<v Speaker 4>excited about this call. So we are so glad to

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<v Speaker 4>be speaking with you guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Now we're geeked. I'm like, ugh, I just know our

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<v Speaker 5>audience is going to love you. Oh money too.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me brag on y'all for a little bit because

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<v Speaker 1>your story is so inspirational and I know that our

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<v Speaker 1>audience will love you. But as we mentioned, the come

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<v Speaker 1>from the San Francisco Bay Area. You guys both worked

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<v Speaker 1>for the federal government until your late thirties. You decided,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just quit our jobs. Let's just retire. Now, how

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<v Speaker 1>about that? With what a ten and a twelve year

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<v Speaker 1>old at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, well so they're eleven and thirteen now, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>they were about ten and twelve at the time.

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<v Speaker 2>What better not only quit your job?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Very casually? Well, no, I mean, I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>making it seem easier than it was. You guys plan

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<v Speaker 1>for this. You joined the Fire movement before you even

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<v Speaker 1>knew there was a Fire movement? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that is totally right. I love how you said

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<v Speaker 3>that too.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like we didn't even really know what we were

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<v Speaker 4>doing as we were doing it in terms of classifying

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<v Speaker 4>it as a Fire movement, because when we started, it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Like this huge thing. It's not a huge thing now, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Would say, but it's much bigger than when we started.

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<v Speaker 4>So Fire is really financial independence retiring early. And the

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<v Speaker 4>concept is really that you save as much money as

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<v Speaker 4>you can, you make as much money as you can,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you invest that money, and then that money

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<v Speaker 4>will grow enough to a point where you have enough

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<v Speaker 4>money that you can reach financial independence and retire and

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<v Speaker 4>never have.

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<v Speaker 3>To work again.

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<v Speaker 4>So that whole sort of introduction to Fire was we

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<v Speaker 4>were sort of working on it and doing all these

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<v Speaker 4>things towards Fire, but there wasn't really we didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>the name of it at the time when we started.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll talk about I mean, so take us back to

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<v Speaker 1>eight years ago. Was it eight or nine years ago

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<v Speaker 1>when y'all decided as a couple, Was it was it

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<v Speaker 1>one big conversation where y'all where you were both like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we should retire early? How soon? Eight years? How's eight years?

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<v Speaker 1>And then you put it like, how did that? How

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<v Speaker 1>does it work as a couple? How do you decide

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<v Speaker 1>we are going to both strive for this goal? Get

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<v Speaker 1>on the same page and talk about the steps that

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<v Speaker 1>y'all took in your early thirties to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>retire before forty.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, it was a AHA moment for me

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<v Speaker 2>at work. I was at work working for the federal government,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was I was going through the motions every

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<v Speaker 2>day in the race. And I was at work one

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<v Speaker 2>day and I received an award for my length of

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<v Speaker 2>service with the federal government for ten years. And at

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<v Speaker 2>this awards assembly, there was another federal employee that had

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<v Speaker 2>gotten an award for thirty years of service. And I

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<v Speaker 2>just remember, at this assembly, my ten years was just insignificant.

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<v Speaker 2>They hurried me off the stage. It was nothing. And

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<v Speaker 2>at that moment, I realized that I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>be here thirty years just to get another piece of paper.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I went home. I had this conversation with Christina,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, there were so many things that we

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to do besides just spend the rest of our

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<v Speaker 2>lives in our cubicle. And so we had this conversation

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<v Speaker 2>and we didn't really know how we were going to

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<v Speaker 2>do it, you know, we had it was just a goal.

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<v Speaker 2>A goal was to be able to develop enough passive income,

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<v Speaker 2>either with real estate or with the stock market, to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to quit our jobs and live off of that.

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<v Speaker 2>And so when I went home and me and Christina

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<v Speaker 2>had this conversation, what Christina did is what she always does.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like all in for it. She said, let's

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<v Speaker 2>do it. Let's figure out a way to get it done.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's your heart. I mean, my husband and I

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<v Speaker 1>can't even ngram what to order on door Dash. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that's like a two hour conversation. Well, I think

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<v Speaker 1>y'all's relationship, I mean it has to be so strong,

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<v Speaker 1>such a foundation of trust, and I just and it

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<v Speaker 1>comes across for me and your YouTube channel and your videos.

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<v Speaker 1>You can really tell that y'all are all in with

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<v Speaker 1>each other, and that's that's beautiful to see. Tiff, What

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to ask now?

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<v Speaker 6>I just want to know, like what in your note

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<v Speaker 6>so you have that initial excitement, But what were there

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<v Speaker 6>things that made you nervous about about this journey that

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<v Speaker 6>you were like, how were we going to handle these things?

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<v Speaker 6>Because I'm sure there are certain people who are listening

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<v Speaker 6>and they're like, I'd love to retire early, but I'm

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<v Speaker 6>nervous about dot.

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<v Speaker 5>Dot dot, And how did you handle those things?

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<v Speaker 2>There was a list. I think I think the biggest

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<v Speaker 2>thing on our list was the amount of money that

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<v Speaker 2>it would take to retire to do it, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we we have this thing called a fire number, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's a number that you calculate and it's based off

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<v Speaker 2>of the amount of money that you would need in

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<v Speaker 2>an investment portfolio in order to call yourself financially independent.

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<v Speaker 2>And just calculating that number and seeing that number on paper,

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<v Speaker 2>that was very intimidating. So that was one thing for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I think you know it's for us.

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<v Speaker 4>It's really like when we have maybe these challenges, are

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<v Speaker 4>we thinking, Okay, how much is it going to take

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<v Speaker 4>in order to retire? Because I think one of the

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<v Speaker 4>things that man forgot to say is when he came

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<v Speaker 4>home and we were talking about it, he said, I

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<v Speaker 4>want to retire before I'm forty and so for us,

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<v Speaker 4>it was like, wow, that's not a huge amount of time,

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<v Speaker 4>So what are the things that we need to do

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<v Speaker 4>in order to make that happen. So I think the

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<v Speaker 4>challenge for us too was at the time, like I said,

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<v Speaker 4>there wasn't a lot of information out there. There wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of information in general in terms of how

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<v Speaker 4>to pursue fire. And Aman and I also both came

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<v Speaker 4>from backgrounds where we didn't learn about investing or even

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<v Speaker 4>saving money, really making money extra money, how do you

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<v Speaker 4>go about doing that? So we didn't have that type

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<v Speaker 4>of background in terms of learning how to really deal

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<v Speaker 4>with our finances, So that was definitely a struggle. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I think part of it is really becoming comfortable in

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<v Speaker 4>how do you make these real estate transactions, how do

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<v Speaker 4>you make these stock market investments, and really becoming financially

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<v Speaker 4>literate and understanding how to try and grow our money.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think a lot of people when they're on

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<v Speaker 4>the fire journey, that can be a struggle because it

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<v Speaker 4>can seem sort of overwhelming. You have to make all

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<v Speaker 4>this money, and then you have to figure out how

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<v Speaker 4>do you grow your money because you can't just allow

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<v Speaker 4>it to sit in a savings account. It's not going

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<v Speaker 4>to happen. You're not going to get that type of

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<v Speaker 4>money to retire early. So those were some of the

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<v Speaker 4>challenges that I guess the biggest challenges that we had

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<v Speaker 4>when we were pursuing fire.

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<v Speaker 1>And you had so you're in your early thirties. You

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<v Speaker 1>have two girls at the time.

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<v Speaker 4>They're young, right, yes, so they were I think around

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<v Speaker 4>three and five.

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<v Speaker 3>I've probably Christine.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't you just completed law school?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was. I actually started law school.

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<v Speaker 4>I went to law school at UCLA, and the girls

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<v Speaker 4>were down in LA with me, and Aman was actually

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<v Speaker 4>working at the time, but he was working in San Francisco,

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<v Speaker 4>and so he was coming back and forth every weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I cannot even imagine, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 4>there with the girls at law school, but every single

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<v Speaker 4>weekend a mon was driving down or flying down from

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<v Speaker 4>San Francisco to LA to be with us and support us.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like he didn't even skip a beat. And so

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<v Speaker 4>for us, yeah, that was part of the journey, was

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<v Speaker 4>really trying to manage to get in like two separate households,

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<v Speaker 4>managing little kids on this journey of fire, and really

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<v Speaker 4>trying to make everything work because at the same time

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<v Speaker 4>we're supposed to be saving money and making money.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, that was another challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>Your thirties are like that decade, and I'm right where

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were eight years ago. So I am listening

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<v Speaker 1>with these big old yes, tell me what to do,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is the time in your life where year

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<v Speaker 1>of responsibilities get bigger. You have the baby, you get

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<v Speaker 1>the house, maybe you get a dog, you get a

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you move to the burbs or whatnot, and

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<v Speaker 1>you start to I feel the pressure of it all,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the pressure of providing for my child, creating stability.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I love about you guys is that you said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we have it. I'm sure you guys had a decent life,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean comfortable life. You both had great careers. Christina,

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<v Speaker 1>you went to law school. You also work for the

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<v Speaker 1>federal government, but you chose to like even aim higher

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<v Speaker 1>at the time you when you started to think about

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<v Speaker 1>retiring before forty, where were you at financially? Were you

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<v Speaker 1>just basic four when k investors? Had you guys already

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<v Speaker 1>bought your properties, Had you had experience in the real

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<v Speaker 1>estate or did y'all start from Okay, let's start getting

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<v Speaker 1>into real estate, because I know that was a cornerstone

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<v Speaker 1>of your investing strategy, right, Yeah, So you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know we were doing what most people well I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to see most people.

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<v Speaker 3>We were.

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<v Speaker 2>We had the fundamentals in place, so we had an

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<v Speaker 2>emergency fund and we were putting away about ten to

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen percent of our our income into our retirement accounts.

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<v Speaker 2>But a lot of the pressures that you talked about,

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<v Speaker 2>if we were to I guess get deeper into some

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<v Speaker 2>of those pressures, we would have failed victim to lifestyle creep.

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<v Speaker 2>And so what started to happen to us in our

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<v Speaker 2>thirties was that we had to make a serious shift.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was good that we had this shift, and

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<v Speaker 2>I had this moment at work when I did, because

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<v Speaker 2>we were at that point where we were going to

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<v Speaker 2>be starting to make more money. A lot of these

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<v Speaker 2>pressures we're going to start to pop up with the

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<v Speaker 2>kids and our with our friends, and you can really

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<v Speaker 2>fall victim to those things like getting a bigger house,

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<v Speaker 2>like driving a nicer car. And so for us at

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<v Speaker 2>that moment, breaking loose of this of this consumer culture

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<v Speaker 2>and deciding to live in a smaller house, to drive

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<v Speaker 2>an older car, and then take whatever extra money that

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<v Speaker 2>we started to make and instead prioritize that money into

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<v Speaker 2>our investments. It was definitely a crossroad for us, and

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<v Speaker 2>we can definitely attribute our success to making that shift.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I love how you say, Mandy, that you

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<v Speaker 4>know you're sort of at the stage that we were

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<v Speaker 4>eight years ago, right, Because when you're in your thirties,

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<v Speaker 4>you start to notice that you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe potentially making more money.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>You may have more responsibilities at your job, you may

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<v Speaker 4>be starting a family, you may be buying a house.

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<v Speaker 4>All of these things are sort of coming to fruition.

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<v Speaker 4>Things that you may have wanted in your twenties, you're

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<v Speaker 4>starting to get more and more of them in your thirties.

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<v Speaker 4>And so that is one of the big things I

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<v Speaker 4>think for people pursuing fire is really not getting attached

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<v Speaker 4>to or not falling down that whole of lifestyle creep.

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<v Speaker 4>As you start to get more money. It's not this

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<v Speaker 4>concept that, oh, you have more money so that you

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<v Speaker 4>can spend more money. It's this idea that when you're

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<v Speaker 4>making this more money, you were able to live off

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<v Speaker 4>of less money before. When you make more money, it

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't mean that you have to spend more money. The

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<v Speaker 4>idea idea is that you can save that money and

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<v Speaker 4>then invest that money, and then that is starting to

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<v Speaker 4>grow during your fire journey. And you don't even have

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<v Speaker 4>to have the goal of retiring early. It could just

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<v Speaker 4>be that you want to be financially independent so that

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<v Speaker 4>when you get older, money is not going to be

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<v Speaker 4>an issue for you. You can do whatever type of

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<v Speaker 4>job makes you happy, and you don't have to think,

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<v Speaker 4>I can't have this job because I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 4>make enough money to.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, pay all the bills for my family and

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<v Speaker 3>things like that. So if you have this idea when

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<v Speaker 3>you're in the thirties.

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<v Speaker 4>Of not falling down that path of lifestyle creep, then

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<v Speaker 4>you're way ahead of the game in terms of where

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<v Speaker 4>other people are.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got to get my husband on board with that.

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<v Speaker 6>So there's an African proverb that my dad would say

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<v Speaker 6>that you cut your coat according to your size. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>that's so many people they're like, oh, I'm bigger, now

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<v Speaker 6>I need a bigger coat, or.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm or they you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>You keep increasing and so it just you're keeping the

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<v Speaker 6>pace of the increase, not realizing like do I really

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<v Speaker 6>need to continue to increase. I mean, I'm a cheapo,

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<v Speaker 6>so I was like living my cheapest life when I

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<v Speaker 6>was thirty.

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<v Speaker 5>So also I lost my job then.

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<v Speaker 6>But one thing I really want to know, because this

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<v Speaker 6>is something that I struggled with when I was in

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<v Speaker 6>my early thirties and I was starting my business, is like,

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<v Speaker 6>what do you do for insurance? Because honestly, back then

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<v Speaker 6>my insurance was yoga, water and prayer.

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<v Speaker 5>So what do you do for insurance? What do you

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<v Speaker 5>do for insurance?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it in that order? Tiffany? First, I think you

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<v Speaker 3>know that is one of the big things too.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, when you are accumulating more things, you have

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<v Speaker 4>to understand that you need insurance in place to protect

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<v Speaker 4>those things.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that you do not want.

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<v Speaker 4>To be in a worst case scenario where something happens

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<v Speaker 4>and you're not insurance. It could be your house, it

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<v Speaker 4>could be health insurance. It could be car insurance, it

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<v Speaker 4>could be any of these. You know, for you, Tiffany,

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<v Speaker 4>if you're starting a business having business insurance when you

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<v Speaker 4>were in your thirties.

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<v Speaker 3>But the idea is that insurance is.

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<v Speaker 4>Supposed to prevent you from losing all of your assets,

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<v Speaker 4>because how terrible would it be while you're gaining more money,

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<v Speaker 4>you have more assets, and something happens and you're not

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<v Speaker 4>properly insured and then you can lose everything. Like right

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<v Speaker 4>before we fired a Mond, we were in the States

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<v Speaker 4>and a mon got just this horrible, horrible food poisoning.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm not just saying like he was throwing up,

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<v Speaker 4>he didn't feel well. He was hospitalized for a week.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was awful.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't even want to go to how

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<v Speaker 4>bad it was. But it was worst case scenario. And

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<v Speaker 4>thank god we were insured because the hospital bill was insane.

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<v Speaker 4>It was an insane amount of money, and then we

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<v Speaker 4>still had to pay our portion of it. But if

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<v Speaker 4>we had not been insured, and this was right before

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<v Speaker 4>we were firing too, if we would not have been insured,

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<v Speaker 4>there would have been a huge impact on our wealth.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I think, you know, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 4>when they're younger, they want to hope for the best.

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<v Speaker 4>They think they're healthy. You know, they don't need to

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<v Speaker 4>be insured because nothing's going to happen. But even here,

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<v Speaker 4>COVID is a great example of things that can happen

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<v Speaker 4>that are unpredictable, and so you have to make sure

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<v Speaker 4>you're properly insured.

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<v Speaker 5>We have.

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<v Speaker 1>We mentioned the fact that y'all live in Portugal, yet

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<v Speaker 1>can we just reiterate that a y'all didn't just quit

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<v Speaker 1>your jobs and you know, kick back in the US.

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<v Speaker 1>You were like, no, let's take on a whole new country, Portugal.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to me about especially when it comes to healthcare.

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<v Speaker 1>I've watched this video already on your YouTube channel. I've

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<v Speaker 1>watched them all, so I'm just trying to pretend like

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't been stocking y'all for the past three weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, talk about the cost of health care in

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<v Speaker 1>Portugal and do you think that you could like, was

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<v Speaker 1>Portugal the key element of why you were able to

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<v Speaker 1>retire early because of the lower cost of living? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know if there is a lower cost of living,

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<v Speaker 1>But do you think you would have been able to

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<v Speaker 1>retire early in the US or do you decide to

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<v Speaker 1>go out of the country for those financial reasons? And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>to Tiffany's question about health care costs, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>covering your healthcare while in Lisbon?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I'll go back to kind of when we

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<v Speaker 2>were first calculating our financial independence number, we based it

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<v Speaker 2>off of the location that we planned on retiring in.

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<v Speaker 2>And when we did that calculation, we had identified a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of different numbers based off of different areas in

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<v Speaker 2>the world that we were interested in, but we had

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<v Speaker 2>one big number that was based off of retiring in

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<v Speaker 2>the San Francisco Bay Area because that's our hometown and

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<v Speaker 2>we know that our children may eventually want to go

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<v Speaker 2>back to the US, and so we wanted to base

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<v Speaker 2>our number off of the highest number, and as a

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<v Speaker 2>part of that number definitely included healthcare. And I remember

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<v Speaker 2>looking at healthcare plans, and that's one of the things

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<v Speaker 2>that I think holds people back from leaving their jobs,

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<v Speaker 2>especially government employees, is the good healthcare. And so for us,

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<v Speaker 2>we had to break from those golden handcuffs by including

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<v Speaker 2>the cost of healthcare in the US and our fire number.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we you know, we did that. But while

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<v Speaker 2>we were on our journey, we stayed the course, even

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<v Speaker 2>though we could have left a lot earlier and moved

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<v Speaker 2>to a lower cost of living area. We met our

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<v Speaker 2>San Francisco Bay Area number, but in the end, we

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<v Speaker 2>chose we chose Lisbon, and it has been a pleasant

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<v Speaker 2>surprise as far as the cost of healthcare because for

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<v Speaker 2>our family of four, our health care is less than

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand dollars a year.

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<v Speaker 3>A year, yes, isn't that crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>In California it would have been a month, right, like a.

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<v Speaker 1>You know families.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, hey, let me tell you this though. It's like

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<v Speaker 4>we have been to the hospitals here already too. It's

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<v Speaker 4>like we've gone for the girls have asthma, so they've

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<v Speaker 4>had the minor asthma things that we have to go

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<v Speaker 4>get treated at the hospital. We've even had dental work.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually a mon was at the dentist earlier. Today Sanoa

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<v Speaker 4>has braces.

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<v Speaker 2>But I might get me some braces just because.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, we have had such an incredible experience

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<v Speaker 4>with the healthcare here.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean there's nothing. We don't have any language barriers.

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<v Speaker 4>When we go to speak to the doctors, to the nurses,

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<v Speaker 4>to the staff, everything is so smooth and we just

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<v Speaker 4>show them our card and sometimes we have a very

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<v Speaker 4>small copay and other times it's like, oh, we don't

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<v Speaker 4>have anything at all. Just you walk in and you

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<v Speaker 4>walk out. It is so simple.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, wow, Like my husband works for the Mandy your

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<v Speaker 6>husband works for the city, right, and so does mine

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<v Speaker 6>and that.

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<v Speaker 1>Insurance for the federal government. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>So, and my husband works for the state. Well, he

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<v Speaker 6>works for the city, but his pension and everything is

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<v Speaker 6>through his state. And that's been the thing that's been

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<v Speaker 6>like holding like a pension necessarily us because yes, well

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<v Speaker 6>it's not the pension honestly, because I could get like,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, we make more than enough that I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>worried about that the pension payout. It's more so his

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<v Speaker 6>insurance is so amazing, especially in the United States, especially

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<v Speaker 6>in the East Coast, because I live in Jersey and

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<v Speaker 6>it's like, eh, he would love to leave any day now,

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<v Speaker 6>but he's got about five more years. And it's like

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<v Speaker 6>the cost of health insurance the United States, it's so

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<v Speaker 6>much so that it's like, bruh, when.

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<v Speaker 5>Need to take that with us? Because you could take

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<v Speaker 5>it with you. So I totally get it.

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<v Speaker 6>And yeah, but you know, I don't I wouldn't mind

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<v Speaker 6>moving to Portugal, but I know he wouldn't want to

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<v Speaker 6>do that.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I know so many people have seen our

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<v Speaker 4>channel and we have videos on Portugal now and everyone's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I never.

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<v Speaker 3>Even thought about Portugal.

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<v Speaker 4>Now Portugal is at the top of my list and

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<v Speaker 4>we're like man, Portugal is amazing. It's like this hidden

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<v Speaker 4>secret and it's not so hidden anymore. I think more

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<v Speaker 4>and more people are finding out about it. But just

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the healthcare alone is something to think about

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<v Speaker 4>because just moving here and having the lifestyle or the

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<v Speaker 4>pace that they have here in Portugal, it's just amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, talk to me about the key for me is

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<v Speaker 1>I mean healthcare. And it's fascinating to hear what you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are spending on healthcare and Portugal versus the US.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's go back again to the early days. What

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<v Speaker 1>were some of the and so when you described how

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<v Speaker 1>y'all were saving back then, I think that really resonates

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<v Speaker 1>with me because that's what I had been doing since

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<v Speaker 1>in my early twenties, saving that ten to fifteen percent

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<v Speaker 1>and my four oh one K and feeling very smart

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<v Speaker 1>about it. But what was the first step y'all took

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<v Speaker 1>to ratchet up your investments? How did you start investing?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you just max out your four one ks? When

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<v Speaker 1>you max them out? Where did you go from there?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you walk us through like laddering up your investments

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<v Speaker 1>and build and really what it took to build and

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<v Speaker 1>grow your wealth in your thirties.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh certainly. So you know, it started with having our

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<v Speaker 2>fire number in place, and then so with that number,

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<v Speaker 2>we were able to kind of figure out what we

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<v Speaker 2>needed to get to as far as a savings rate

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<v Speaker 2>in order to retire in ten years based off of

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<v Speaker 2>the returns in the market or our returns in real estate.

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<v Speaker 2>So with that number in mind, we just tried to

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<v Speaker 2>get our safe rate up, and I'll say that our

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<v Speaker 2>savings rate by the end was as high as seventy percent.

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<v Speaker 2>So we went from saving ten to fifteen all the

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<v Speaker 2>way up to seventy percent. But we didn't do it overnight.

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<v Speaker 2>We just got one percent better as much as we

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<v Speaker 2>could and as soon as we could. So, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>if we just were able to lower our bills and

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<v Speaker 2>increase our salary, and then that gap grew our savings rate.

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<v Speaker 2>And so with that additional money that we were saving

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<v Speaker 2>and making, we were prioritizing our investments. And we have

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<v Speaker 2>something called a pay yourself first budget, but it's really

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<v Speaker 2>heavy on paying yourself into your investment accounts. And so

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<v Speaker 2>we started with our tax advantage accounts first and putting

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<v Speaker 2>as much money into those accounts because those are the

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<v Speaker 2>real accounts that you can really see wealth growth in

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<v Speaker 2>because of all the tax incentives and tax advantages, and

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<v Speaker 2>so that was a big priority was maxing out our

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<v Speaker 2>tax advantage counts.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're talking about your four oh one KR. I

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<v Speaker 1>know you guys use an HSA, what have tax advantaged accounts?

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<v Speaker 2>So we talk about the basically the four accounts that

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<v Speaker 2>we call the four pillars of fire. For us was

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<v Speaker 2>the four oh one K, the HSA, and the roth IRA.

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<v Speaker 2>So maxing those out at a minimum was really big

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<v Speaker 2>for us. And then after that we moved to basically

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<v Speaker 2>a regular brokerage account, so just investing in Vanguard and

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<v Speaker 2>investing in low cost ETFs and index funds at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time that we were also investing in the stock market.

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<v Speaker 2>We had read all of these books on real estate

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<v Speaker 2>investing and really type people to read something and then

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<v Speaker 2>to take action with it. So we had gotten all

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<v Speaker 2>the real estate concepts down as much as we were

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<v Speaker 2>going to get them down, and then we went to work.

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<v Speaker 2>So we took an FHA loan and we bought our

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<v Speaker 2>first house in the San Fransco b area with three

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<v Speaker 2>percent down and it was it was it was a

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<v Speaker 2>fixer upper, and we did something called a live and

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<v Speaker 2>flip where we lived in the house, fixed it up,

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<v Speaker 2>got equity in that home, and then use that equity

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<v Speaker 2>to buy other properties and with an FHA loan. That's

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<v Speaker 2>the that's the best way for someone to get started

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<v Speaker 2>in real estate is doing something like a live and

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<v Speaker 2>flip because after you've lived in that home for three years,

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<v Speaker 2>you can sell that home and keep one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 2>of your profits up to a certain amount depending on

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<v Speaker 2>if you're married or single. And so that was that

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<v Speaker 2>was a big game changer for us as well.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think, really, you know, there's there's different ways

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<v Speaker 4>that you can reach financial independence or financial independence and

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<v Speaker 4>retire early.

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<v Speaker 3>So you could do it through investing in the stock market.

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<v Speaker 4>So in the stock market, you know, if that is

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<v Speaker 4>someone's plan, then they absolutely want to make sure that

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<v Speaker 4>they're maxing out their tax advantage accounts first, because then

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<v Speaker 4>you're protecting more of your money from it being taken

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<v Speaker 4>away by taxes, and by protecting it more, then you

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<v Speaker 4>can allow it to grow more. So the idea though

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<v Speaker 4>is that you have to max out that account, but

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<v Speaker 4>you have to go beyond that. So once you max

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<v Speaker 4>out your tax advantage accounts, then the idea is that

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<v Speaker 4>you open up a traditional brokerage account and you start

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<v Speaker 4>throwing money that there as well. So there's one way

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<v Speaker 4>to reach financial independence. But then the other way is

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<v Speaker 4>also through real estate. If you want to start investing

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<v Speaker 4>in real estate and putting money into different real estate

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<v Speaker 4>real estate properties and creating rentals and creating rental income,

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<v Speaker 4>that is another way. Or you can just invest in

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<v Speaker 4>real estate and do like what a mon said is

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<v Speaker 4>basically flipping the properties and then eventually selling them and

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<v Speaker 4>taking the profit from that. Or you can do a

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<v Speaker 4>combination of real estate and investing in the stock market.

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<v Speaker 4>But it all comes down really to these fundamental pieces.

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<v Speaker 4>When you're pursuing fire, is that the idea is that

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<v Speaker 4>somehow you have to find ways to try and make

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<v Speaker 4>more money. And it can be through getting a more

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<v Speaker 4>money through your salary, or it can be doing different

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<v Speaker 4>side hustles, but then it's saving more money and then

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<v Speaker 4>it's focusing on that investment piece as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all side hustles. Literally, I get so many giggles out

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<v Speaker 1>of hearing about how you guys found creative ways to

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<v Speaker 1>build wealth. First of all, I'm like, where do you

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<v Speaker 1>get the energy with two bait like two little girls,

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<v Speaker 1>and y'all are like what building furniture out of wine

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<v Speaker 1>crates and digging through ikeias reduced like returns bins and

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<v Speaker 1>like selling flipping furniture online. Talk about how y'all brought

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<v Speaker 1>in extra money and like what was the most meaningful

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<v Speaker 1>source of extra income y'all created?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we always talk about this because looking back

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<v Speaker 2>on it, we laugh about some of the things that

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<v Speaker 2>we did. But for us, it's weird. When you're on

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<v Speaker 2>this journey, it's like your mind like produces income out

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<v Speaker 2>out of nowhere. There's literally money in the streets and

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<v Speaker 2>you just have to go pick it up. So, actually,

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<v Speaker 2>someone sent us a message today because one of our

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<v Speaker 2>side hustles was we had Christina was writing tooth fairy

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<v Speaker 2>letters on Etsy did an Etsy store.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was my favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like it was it was so funny and

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<v Speaker 2>when she when she came up with this idea, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, people really people really buying letters like that,

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<v Speaker 2>they're families that do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>But but someone actually reached out to reached out to

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<v Speaker 4>us today, which is so funny, asking us about, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the details of it, how do you do it? How

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<v Speaker 4>are you sending it out? Are you sending it out

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<v Speaker 4>already pre packaged? Do you send it out to the

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<v Speaker 4>parent or to the child? So it was so interesting

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<v Speaker 4>because you know, people are interested in finding these new

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<v Speaker 4>ways to make money, and so I just thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>this is a creative thing. But like you said, we

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<v Speaker 4>we uh, we're not too shy to go dumpster diving.

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<v Speaker 4>We did that at one point, and I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 4>the specific specifics of that. We were driving around in Oakland,

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<v Speaker 4>which is in the San Francisco Bay area, and we

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<v Speaker 4>drove past this huge dumpster and it had all of

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<v Speaker 4>these I don't guess, not brand new wine crates, but

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<v Speaker 4>it had all of these wine crates in them, and

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<v Speaker 4>they were so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like these wine boxes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, And there was a liquor store that had dumped

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<v Speaker 4>them all out into this garb, into this dumpster getting

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<v Speaker 4>rid of them. And we went into the to the

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<v Speaker 4>liquor store and we said, are you dumping these? Are

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<v Speaker 4>you you don't want these?

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<v Speaker 3>Can we have them? And so they said yes.

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<v Speaker 4>So we filled up our car with so many wine

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<v Speaker 4>boxes and then we took them home. In our garage

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<v Speaker 4>was just piled full of wine boxes and we ended

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<v Speaker 4>up selling those. We got them for free, and we

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<v Speaker 4>ended up selling them on like Facebook and Craigslist, and

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<v Speaker 4>people were just it was so easy to sell because

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<v Speaker 4>people thought they were really beautiful wine boxes and they

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<v Speaker 4>couldn't find them anywhere, and people were willing to pay

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<v Speaker 4>us for that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like a bougie, broke hipster ten years ago

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<v Speaker 1>living in Queens with my boyfriend at the time, my husband. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>we were the dumb dumbs. Not the dumb dumbs. We

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<v Speaker 1>were the ones buying wine, trying to find wine crates

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<v Speaker 1>on Craigslist and begging liquor stores to give them to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all stumbled upon a little jackpot right there. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I would love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we did that.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean we also, like Aman said, we had flipped

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<v Speaker 4>our properties. So one of the things we found at Ikea,

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<v Speaker 4>which is I feel like Ikea is everywhere. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>there's even an Ikea. There's like five Ikeas in Portugal here,

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<v Speaker 4>but in Ikea they have this as is section. So

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<v Speaker 4>that was another one of our side hustles. We discovered this.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying like we're the only ones who've discovered it.

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<v Speaker 4>But we discovered that you can buy these items in

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<v Speaker 4>the as is section and they're anywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you can get things for ninety percent off, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>up to ninety percent off, or.

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<v Speaker 4>If they're you know, if they're no longer having a

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<v Speaker 4>certain product, like an entire fridge or entire kitchen display,

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<v Speaker 4>you can get for up to ninety percent off. So

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<v Speaker 4>we started buying these really nice items in Ikea and

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<v Speaker 4>reselling those all set.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but we had a niche. How our niche was kitchen.

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<v Speaker 2>It was basically like kitchen construction material, so the cabinets,

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<v Speaker 2>the countertops, refrigerators, hoods, all of these different things. When

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<v Speaker 2>Ikea changes out its kitchens in the showroom, they would

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<v Speaker 2>put their entire kitchen down into the as is section

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<v Speaker 2>and we'd be waiting for it, pick it right up.

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<v Speaker 2>It was ninety percent off and you can resell this

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<v Speaker 2>stuff and make a lot of money. Were my kids

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<v Speaker 2>hate Ikea now because I was taking them in there

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. And this is a side thing, but

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<v Speaker 2>every Wednesday, kids eat free at Ikea, so we were

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<v Speaker 2>there every Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 1>They're probably sick of those meatballs, but I know I

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<v Speaker 1>lived up that furnished my whole first apartment was the

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<v Speaker 1>Ikea as a section.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, oh no, we will have cute things,

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<v Speaker 6>but cute things on a budget.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel, you I never thought about this. I

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<v Speaker 1>am a victim of lifestyle creep. I'll fess up to it.

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<v Speaker 1>We bought our house and it was West Elm all

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<v Speaker 1>the way y'all, And I feel foolish, but it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>We did West Elm and like Creighton Barrel, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to have nice stuff. And I always considered myself to

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<v Speaker 1>be you know, I mean, I've been doing personal finance

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<v Speaker 1>for over a decade and you know, I know better.

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<v Speaker 1>But the allure of just being comfortable and having nice things,

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<v Speaker 1>especially for Pea people who you know, for me personally,

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<v Speaker 1>coming from family, we weren't like super poor, but we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have like really nice stuff. And you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to, you want to like enjoy the fruits of

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<v Speaker 1>your your hard work, and that felt like a way

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<v Speaker 1>of acknowledging the hard work and about you know, investing

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<v Speaker 1>in our own comfort. But I'm a little surprised, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>two years out from that renovation, where I'm thinking, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>was that the best way to celebrate our you know,

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<v Speaker 1>our success, like giving another company all this money, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like there's probably other ways. So I'm I'm thinking so

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<v Speaker 1>much about some of the choices I've made and how

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<v Speaker 1>emotions play into that, you know, especially as you're starting

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<v Speaker 1>to build and build a family and earn more in

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<v Speaker 1>your thirties.

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<v Speaker 4>Like y'all said, yeah, I know, I think definitely there's

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<v Speaker 4>this idea that and Aman and I talk about it

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<v Speaker 4>a lot. Actually, it's like you can make short term

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<v Speaker 4>sacrifices for long term gains.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's really how we thought about it.

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<v Speaker 4>When we're thinking about or even if you're thinking about

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<v Speaker 4>how much it.

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<v Speaker 3>Costs to do X, Y or z.

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<v Speaker 4>Converting that into hours of work, right, it's like, would

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 4>you put that many hours of work so that you

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<v Speaker 4>could have this or so that you could do something

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<v Speaker 4>or do that. And so that's an interesting way to

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<v Speaker 4>start to think about it. But also realizing, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>what is in your future, what do you look for,

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<v Speaker 4>what do you look forward to the most in the future,

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<v Speaker 4>and really thinking about it at that way, thinking that

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<v Speaker 4>you know, if I if I maybe don't spend my

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<v Speaker 4>money in this area, or if I cut back in

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<v Speaker 4>this area, it may be a little hard initially, but

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<v Speaker 4>if you're looking at the long term results, what you

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<v Speaker 4>can get in return for maybe not buying the big

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<v Speaker 4>TV or the new car or something like that, then

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<v Speaker 4>you can start really pursuing fire in a meaningful way

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<v Speaker 4>where you're really focused on cutting out expenses, not buying

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<v Speaker 4>big expenses, and really trying to make more in funnel

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<v Speaker 4>it towards your investments.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all didn't just focus on cutting cutting cutting it expenses.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all still took time and you invested in experiences that

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<v Speaker 1>meant a lot to y'all. Could you talk about how

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<v Speaker 1>you balanced experiences and things that you would continue to

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<v Speaker 1>splurge on and then balance that with your mission to

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<v Speaker 1>save as much as you could.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I would say one of our biggest expenses in

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<v Speaker 4>terms of what we cut that we really wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>do that we're able to figure it out was traveling.

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<v Speaker 4>Like we lived in Spain, we lived in Japan, we

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<v Speaker 4>now live in Portugal.

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<v Speaker 3>We traveled to Hawaii a lot. Among's brother lives in Hawaii, so.

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<v Speaker 4>We were definitely a huge travel family and that was

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<v Speaker 4>very important to us and we really didn't want to

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<v Speaker 4>give that up. But it can be expensive for a

0:32:41.520 --> 0:32:45.719
<v Speaker 4>family of four traveling abroad all the time or Hawaii.

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<v Speaker 3>And making these trips.

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<v Speaker 4>And so we figured out travel hacking where we would

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<v Speaker 4>take out credit cards and we would use the bonus

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<v Speaker 4>points for the credit cards by taking them out, and

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<v Speaker 4>we would use them for hotel stays and for airfare,

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<v Speaker 4>and we were able to start traveling for free. Now

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<v Speaker 4>I would say though that this this travel hacking concept

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:10.840
<v Speaker 4>is absolutely not for everyone. I mean, you have to

0:33:10.920 --> 0:33:13.440
<v Speaker 4>understand how credit works. You have to start off with

0:33:13.520 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 4>good credit and maintain good credit, and don't go in

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:18.520
<v Speaker 4>this rabbit hole where you're just trying to spend money

0:33:18.520 --> 0:33:20.959
<v Speaker 4>on your credit card so that you can get the points.

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.360
<v Speaker 4>It doesn't work like that. There's a it's a bit

0:33:23.400 --> 0:33:26.440
<v Speaker 4>more nuanced than that. So it's not for everyone, but

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:29.560
<v Speaker 4>for us. For Aman and I, we had excellent credit.

0:33:30.040 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 4>We never had any debt on our credit cards. We

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:35.960
<v Speaker 4>always paid our credit card off in full every single month,

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:39.320
<v Speaker 4>and so by figuring out travel hacking, we were able

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 4>to continue to travel the world and still enjoy all

0:33:43.160 --> 0:33:44.960
<v Speaker 4>of the different things we could by traveling, but we

0:33:45.000 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 4>got to do it for free.

0:33:46.360 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, tip and I love to talk about what

0:33:49.360 --> 0:33:51.880
<v Speaker 1>how to not you know, fall into that, to that

0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 1>black hole of credit card spending just to get some points.

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:59.280
<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, So the struggle that I have is not it's

0:33:59.320 --> 0:34:02.959
<v Speaker 6>not the living for got that you know. And so

0:34:03.120 --> 0:34:06.960
<v Speaker 6>but did you ever feel like are we over sacrificing

0:34:07.040 --> 0:34:10.600
<v Speaker 6>because that is something that I struggle with that I

0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:14.799
<v Speaker 6>sometimes struggle with the enjoying on the other side. And

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:16.520
<v Speaker 6>so do you ever feel like, you know, you were

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:20.359
<v Speaker 6>over sacrificing And if so, how did you manage that

0:34:20.760 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 6>or if not, how did you avoid that?

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:34:23.680 --> 0:34:25.719
<v Speaker 4>I think that for us, we didn't feel like we

0:34:25.719 --> 0:34:29.319
<v Speaker 4>were over sacrificing because we built in things on our

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:31.480
<v Speaker 4>journey so that we could enjoy things. So, like I said,

0:34:31.480 --> 0:34:33.880
<v Speaker 4>we did traveling. We traveled quite a lot, and we

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:36.319
<v Speaker 4>also this is something that we didn't save any money on,

0:34:36.480 --> 0:34:39.440
<v Speaker 4>but we still did it. We're from the We're from Oakland,

0:34:39.440 --> 0:34:42.000
<v Speaker 4>like I said, and we went to a lot of

0:34:42.040 --> 0:34:44.839
<v Speaker 4>warrior games and we didn't get the nosebleed seats. We

0:34:44.840 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 4>were sitting you know, I wouldn't say on the floor,

0:34:47.120 --> 0:34:50.359
<v Speaker 4>but maybe five rows back off of the floor. So

0:34:50.680 --> 0:34:52.840
<v Speaker 4>that was one of the expenses that we splurged on

0:34:52.920 --> 0:34:55.800
<v Speaker 4>when we were in Oakland. But I like to tell

0:34:55.840 --> 0:35:00.480
<v Speaker 4>people a lot that you should you should enjoy the journey.

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:05.279
<v Speaker 4>You should enjoy your journey towards fire, because sometimes it's

0:35:05.360 --> 0:35:08.680
<v Speaker 4>not all just about that destination of being able to retire.

0:35:08.760 --> 0:35:12.240
<v Speaker 4>Right If you're miserable on your journey, you're not spending

0:35:12.239 --> 0:35:17.319
<v Speaker 4>a single time doing anything. You are are you know,

0:35:17.440 --> 0:35:19.680
<v Speaker 4>not going out with your friends, or you're not doing

0:35:19.719 --> 0:35:23.080
<v Speaker 4>anything with anyone your family members. It's a miserable journey

0:35:23.080 --> 0:35:26.480
<v Speaker 4>and it's not sustainable. So you have to you have

0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:29.000
<v Speaker 4>to figure out what the right balance is for you.

0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:31.000
<v Speaker 3>So we're not I wouldn't.

0:35:30.640 --> 0:35:34.560
<v Speaker 4>Encourage everyone to just you know, count every single penny

0:35:34.719 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 4>and live in a way where they're just not able

0:35:39.160 --> 0:35:40.320
<v Speaker 4>to enjoy anything.

0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:42.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think this is a this is a

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:45.840
<v Speaker 2>misconception about the Fire movement, is that the people that

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:49.840
<v Speaker 2>are on this journey are eating beans and sacrifice and

0:35:49.880 --> 0:35:52.239
<v Speaker 2>they don't have cable or Netflix, you know, they don't

0:35:52.239 --> 0:35:56.839
<v Speaker 2>go anywhere. That's that's absolutely not true. To do this,

0:35:57.200 --> 0:36:00.239
<v Speaker 2>you have to just find creative ways to enjoy joy

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 2>yourself and you have to figure out a way to

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:06.080
<v Speaker 2>make more money. That's the other side of the equation.

0:36:06.360 --> 0:36:07.120
<v Speaker 1>Preach on it.

0:36:07.160 --> 0:36:10.160
<v Speaker 2>Say it again that I wish the Fire movement talk

0:36:10.239 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 2>more about is you have to get out there and

0:36:12.560 --> 0:36:14.920
<v Speaker 2>if you're in your thirties, twenties, if you're forties, fifties,

0:36:15.040 --> 0:36:18.319
<v Speaker 2>you have to get on the grind like pop would.

0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:20.839
<v Speaker 2>People would say to us, how do you how are

0:36:20.880 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 2>you able to do this with kids? You're in law school.

0:36:23.760 --> 0:36:26.359
<v Speaker 2>It's like, we don't know anything else but this. So

0:36:26.680 --> 0:36:28.799
<v Speaker 2>we didn't set a low bar. We set a high

0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:33.560
<v Speaker 2>bar and that's all we knew. So for us, we

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:37.839
<v Speaker 2>don't define, you know, our journey in any particular way.

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:40.120
<v Speaker 2>It's just it is what it is. That's why we

0:36:40.400 --> 0:36:44.520
<v Speaker 2>called our YouTube channel our Rich Journey, because this is

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.879
<v Speaker 2>this is how we live our life. When people find

0:36:47.920 --> 0:36:50.759
<v Speaker 2>out what our budget is here in Portugal, we live

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:52.400
<v Speaker 2>pretty luxuriously.

0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:52.880
<v Speaker 6>You know.

0:36:52.920 --> 0:36:56.120
<v Speaker 2>We spend four thousand dollars a month here in Portugal.

0:36:56.719 --> 0:36:59.399
<v Speaker 2>And you know, for some people they say, oh my god,

0:36:59.400 --> 0:37:02.200
<v Speaker 2>that's too much, or some people say, oh that's not enough.

0:37:02.440 --> 0:37:05.520
<v Speaker 2>But it's relative and I think anyone that's on this

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:07.920
<v Speaker 2>journey they have to figure out a way to do

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 2>it relatively well so that they enjoy themselves. Someone reached

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.600
<v Speaker 2>out to me today and they said, you know, we're

0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 2>on this journey and we're wondering whether or not we

0:37:18.200 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 2>should start to cut some of the activities for our children.

0:37:23.080 --> 0:37:27.280
<v Speaker 2>And I immediately thought, no, why would you. No, don't

0:37:27.280 --> 0:37:30.920
<v Speaker 2>do that. Don't sacrifice your child's childhood. You know, for

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:34.960
<v Speaker 2>this journey, figure out different ways to approach the problem,

0:37:35.320 --> 0:37:38.800
<v Speaker 2>you know. So that's what we did on our journey.

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:43.799
<v Speaker 2>We would encounter a problem like childcare, like travel, like

0:37:44.000 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 2>owning a home, and we would just figure out a

0:37:46.160 --> 0:37:49.400
<v Speaker 2>way to get through the challenge or over or around it.

0:37:49.440 --> 0:37:51.600
<v Speaker 2>But we never we never let it stop us.

0:37:52.040 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, your girls were in basketball, you said

0:37:54.000 --> 0:37:57.560
<v Speaker 1>they'd do swimming, like you've never You've always encouraged those hobbies.

0:37:57.600 --> 0:38:01.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, now they're YouTube stars, so can they're too happy.

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:04.160
<v Speaker 1>But before we let y'all go, we have I really

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:06.719
<v Speaker 1>want to talk to y'all about your investing philosophy and

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:09.680
<v Speaker 1>how you are weathering because your investments are mostly still

0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:12.640
<v Speaker 1>in the US, right, yes, so talk to us about

0:38:12.640 --> 0:38:14.520
<v Speaker 1>because I know people listening right now. I mean, let's

0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:17.759
<v Speaker 1>not let's let's not mince words here, like we are

0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:20.840
<v Speaker 1>we're the US is being crippled by this current pandemic

0:38:20.840 --> 0:38:23.960
<v Speaker 1>and economic crisis. I mean, we have what tens of

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:26.600
<v Speaker 1>millions of Americans out of work. My own father was

0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:29.719
<v Speaker 1>has is still laid off. Congress can't get their act

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:33.840
<v Speaker 1>together with these stimulus checks and federal uh you know,

0:38:33.920 --> 0:38:36.640
<v Speaker 1>unemployment benefits are are in limbo right now. So there's

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:39.880
<v Speaker 1>people out there who are truly, truly hurting, and even

0:38:40.280 --> 0:38:42.400
<v Speaker 1>infant people who have been doing it quote unquote the

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:44.360
<v Speaker 1>right way and investing in their four one k have

0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:47.799
<v Speaker 1>seen their four one ks you know, take dips this year.

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:51.120
<v Speaker 1>So y'all y'all have retired. What what do you say

0:38:51.200 --> 0:38:53.600
<v Speaker 1>to people who are feeling like, oh shit, like is

0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 1>this the right time to be putting money in the market,

0:38:55.600 --> 0:38:58.759
<v Speaker 1>and how like, how can we trust that things will

0:38:58.760 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 1>work out? Talk to us about your approach to investing

0:39:02.360 --> 0:39:04.840
<v Speaker 1>right now in this moment, you know, how you're weathering

0:39:04.880 --> 0:39:07.359
<v Speaker 1>what's happening in the US, even though you're in Portugal now.

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:09.920
<v Speaker 1>And what do you say to people who are feeling

0:39:10.440 --> 0:39:13.600
<v Speaker 1>a little gunshy about getting into the market now?

0:39:14.280 --> 0:39:16.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, you know, that's a great question. And I

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 2>always tell people this, don't invest money that you that

0:39:21.680 --> 0:39:24.320
<v Speaker 2>you need to live off of. Every day. So before

0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:27.839
<v Speaker 2>you even buy your first investment, you should have the

0:39:27.880 --> 0:39:30.680
<v Speaker 2>fundamentals in place. You should have your credit paid down

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:33.960
<v Speaker 2>and emergency fund in place, and then you can start

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:37.799
<v Speaker 2>investing in the stock market. Because when you invest in

0:39:37.800 --> 0:39:40.680
<v Speaker 2>the stock market, you shouldn't need that money in the

0:39:40.719 --> 0:39:43.200
<v Speaker 2>next five to ten years. This is this is long

0:39:43.320 --> 0:39:47.200
<v Speaker 2>term money. You shouldn't want this money for decades. So

0:39:47.800 --> 0:39:51.080
<v Speaker 2>what's happening right now? It is. It is completely awful,

0:39:51.560 --> 0:39:54.320
<v Speaker 2>you know, but if you have a plan in place,

0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:58.080
<v Speaker 2>this should not distract you. If it's not taking away

0:39:58.080 --> 0:40:00.360
<v Speaker 2>from your income, if you still have your come and

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:02.840
<v Speaker 2>you still have the ability to invest, you should be

0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:06.399
<v Speaker 2>investing that money. Don't get don't get consumed by what's

0:40:06.400 --> 0:40:10.120
<v Speaker 2>going on in the world. Yes you should should. You

0:40:10.160 --> 0:40:14.640
<v Speaker 2>should definitely be involved in it socially and politically. But

0:40:14.719 --> 0:40:18.320
<v Speaker 2>if you have your investments on cruise control, then money

0:40:18.440 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 2>should be the least of your worries right now. You

0:40:20.040 --> 0:40:23.239
<v Speaker 2>should just let that money ride. So I always say that,

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:25.439
<v Speaker 2>you know, once you have those fundamental things in place

0:40:25.480 --> 0:40:28.719
<v Speaker 2>and you have your investments on cruise control, then you

0:40:28.760 --> 0:40:30.480
<v Speaker 2>can focus on everyday life.

0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:34.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And I would also say, you know, when when

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:37.640
<v Speaker 4>you think about the stock market, it seems so backwards

0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:41.680
<v Speaker 4>because when the stock market plummets, a lot of people

0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:46.000
<v Speaker 4>are pulling their investments out because they're afraid that they're

0:40:46.040 --> 0:40:47.840
<v Speaker 4>going to lose all of their money.

0:40:47.840 --> 0:40:49.759
<v Speaker 3>So it's like, let me get let me get my

0:40:49.840 --> 0:40:50.560
<v Speaker 3>investments out.

0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:52.640
<v Speaker 4>I'm going to take the loss, but it's better than

0:40:53.360 --> 0:40:54.759
<v Speaker 4>not having any money at all.

0:40:55.239 --> 0:40:56.920
<v Speaker 3>And then then the.

0:40:56.880 --> 0:40:59.440
<v Speaker 4>Stock market ultimately goes back up, and then if they

0:40:59.480 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 4>would have just if their money in, they would have

0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:04.400
<v Speaker 4>been better off in the long run. It's almost like

0:41:04.440 --> 0:41:07.480
<v Speaker 4>you sort of have to go against the herd mentality

0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:11.759
<v Speaker 4>when it comes to the stock market, because once you

0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:15.800
<v Speaker 4>learn more about the stock market and understand the history

0:41:15.840 --> 0:41:17.839
<v Speaker 4>of the stock market, and this is not to stay

0:41:17.920 --> 0:41:20.319
<v Speaker 4>that the history of the stock market will predict the

0:41:20.360 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 4>future of the stock market, but historically, since forever, the

0:41:24.719 --> 0:41:27.520
<v Speaker 4>stock market has always ultimately gone up.

0:41:27.840 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 3>And so when people are.

0:41:28.840 --> 0:41:31.359
<v Speaker 4>Thinking, I don't know if I should invest right now

0:41:31.440 --> 0:41:34.239
<v Speaker 4>because the stock market just dropped something like that, or

0:41:34.239 --> 0:41:36.280
<v Speaker 4>maybe I should pull my money out because I'm losing

0:41:36.320 --> 0:41:38.200
<v Speaker 4>money and I don't want to lose it all, the

0:41:38.280 --> 0:41:42.880
<v Speaker 4>idea should really be if the stock market has historically

0:41:43.080 --> 0:41:47.399
<v Speaker 4>always gone up. Then when the stock market goes down

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:51.520
<v Speaker 4>is an excellent time to invest. Is an excellent time

0:41:51.560 --> 0:41:54.920
<v Speaker 4>if you have any money, to throw your money into

0:41:55.080 --> 0:41:57.840
<v Speaker 4>the stock market when it's down, because when it ultimately

0:41:57.880 --> 0:42:02.279
<v Speaker 4>goes up, then you are Then you're making money and

0:42:02.320 --> 0:42:03.440
<v Speaker 4>you're getting a return on that.

0:42:03.520 --> 0:42:04.120
<v Speaker 3>And the same thing.

0:42:04.160 --> 0:42:05.719
<v Speaker 4>If your money is in there and you keep it

0:42:05.760 --> 0:42:08.520
<v Speaker 4>in there rather than sell it and it ultimately goes up,

0:42:08.560 --> 0:42:10.959
<v Speaker 4>then your stock market, your portfolio is worth more.

0:42:11.680 --> 0:42:14.359
<v Speaker 2>But I think, Mandy, you want to know what we're

0:42:14.360 --> 0:42:17.800
<v Speaker 2>doing right. You want to know how we're weathering this storm,

0:42:18.360 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 2>and I think I think a lot of people have

0:42:22.239 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 2>that question. But when we first started our plan, we

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:33.759
<v Speaker 2>devised a plan that involved front loading our investments into

0:42:34.719 --> 0:42:38.920
<v Speaker 2>very aggressive index funds, so technology and total stock market

0:42:39.200 --> 0:42:41.400
<v Speaker 2>index funds. And then as we got towards the latter

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:44.279
<v Speaker 2>half of our journey, we started to build up what's

0:42:44.280 --> 0:42:47.319
<v Speaker 2>called the stock market Emergency Fund for dips like this

0:42:47.920 --> 0:42:52.359
<v Speaker 2>that was over two years worth of living expenses in

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:54.520
<v Speaker 2>case the stock market were to drop and we would

0:42:54.520 --> 0:42:56.880
<v Speaker 2>have to make that switch from not pulling from the

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:58.960
<v Speaker 2>stock market, because you don't want to pull from the

0:42:59.000 --> 0:43:01.960
<v Speaker 2>stock market when to drop and instead pull from our

0:43:02.360 --> 0:43:06.120
<v Speaker 2>stock market emergency fund. And so when March hit and

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:10.480
<v Speaker 2>the stock market crashed, we thought, okay, are we going

0:43:10.560 --> 0:43:14.160
<v Speaker 2>to have to make that switch? But two three months later,

0:43:14.560 --> 0:43:18.440
<v Speaker 2>the stock market has fully recovered. So this is this

0:43:18.719 --> 0:43:23.200
<v Speaker 2>is the the I mean, this is the thing about investing.

0:43:23.600 --> 0:43:25.400
<v Speaker 2>When you have a plan in place, you already know

0:43:25.440 --> 0:43:29.920
<v Speaker 2>what to do before it happens. But what we've found

0:43:30.000 --> 0:43:32.920
<v Speaker 2>is that we haven't had to even rely on some

0:43:32.960 --> 0:43:38.000
<v Speaker 2>of those contingencies because the stock market has always recovered.

0:43:38.320 --> 0:43:42.319
<v Speaker 2>And I always say this on our YouTube channel. You know,

0:43:42.680 --> 0:43:44.520
<v Speaker 2>the stock market's going to go up and down, but

0:43:44.600 --> 0:43:47.320
<v Speaker 2>in the end, it's going to go up. It always has.

0:43:47.920 --> 0:43:50.160
<v Speaker 4>And I will say also, you know, just to piggyback

0:43:50.160 --> 0:43:52.399
<v Speaker 4>off of what Aman said. With that crash in March

0:43:52.440 --> 0:43:55.840
<v Speaker 4>twenty March twenty twenty, there were a lot of people

0:43:55.960 --> 0:43:59.080
<v Speaker 4>at that time they were selling out their portfolios because

0:43:59.080 --> 0:44:00.600
<v Speaker 4>they didn't want to take any.

0:44:00.440 --> 0:44:01.320
<v Speaker 3>More of a loss.

0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:05.359
<v Speaker 4>And on our channel, we actually created a new portfolio,

0:44:05.800 --> 0:44:09.520
<v Speaker 4>just sort of a very many portfolio to show people listen,

0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:13.200
<v Speaker 4>if you invest now, it's a good it's a good thing.

0:44:13.320 --> 0:44:16.120
<v Speaker 4>You can start growing your money by investing now. It

0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:18.880
<v Speaker 4>doesn't matter that there was a huge crash. You can

0:44:18.920 --> 0:44:22.359
<v Speaker 4>start investing now. And so many people were like, why

0:44:22.360 --> 0:44:24.439
<v Speaker 4>would you invest now, it's a crash, it's the worst

0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:26.560
<v Speaker 4>time to invest, and we're like, no, that's the very

0:44:26.600 --> 0:44:28.840
<v Speaker 4>opposite of how you should be thinking. You know, you

0:44:28.840 --> 0:44:32.279
<v Speaker 4>should continuously be investing whether it's a good whether the

0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:34.800
<v Speaker 4>market's doing well or whether it's doing bad. You should

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:37.560
<v Speaker 4>just be dollar cost averaging into the market. But when

0:44:37.600 --> 0:44:41.000
<v Speaker 4>the market is doing bad, it is an excellent opportunity

0:44:41.160 --> 0:44:43.479
<v Speaker 4>to grow your wealth. And so that's what we're really

0:44:43.520 --> 0:44:47.080
<v Speaker 4>demonstrating with this portfolio to our followers is like, listen,

0:44:47.120 --> 0:44:49.960
<v Speaker 4>when people are running and trying to cash out their

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<v Speaker 4>portfolios when there's a big crash, don't do that. Do

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<v Speaker 4>the opposite. Do the opposite and start building your wealth.

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<v Speaker 1>I think y'all really illustrate beautifully the power the mindset

0:45:00.880 --> 0:45:03.560
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to building wealth. Like you've got to

0:45:03.640 --> 0:45:06.360
<v Speaker 1>really you've got to look at your emotions, as my

0:45:06.400 --> 0:45:09.080
<v Speaker 1>lovely therapist always says, look at the thought or the

0:45:09.160 --> 0:45:11.960
<v Speaker 1>feeling and just acknowledge that it exists and then just

0:45:12.080 --> 0:45:15.879
<v Speaker 1>attack it with reason and logic. And I love that, y'all.

0:45:15.920 --> 0:45:18.319
<v Speaker 1>I've been following that series at y'all where you share

0:45:18.320 --> 0:45:20.360
<v Speaker 1>your portfolio and how you invest at the bomb of

0:45:20.360 --> 0:45:22.239
<v Speaker 1>the market or at least you know, you never know

0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:24.160
<v Speaker 1>when it's the bottom, but how you guys invested in

0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:26.360
<v Speaker 1>the spring and I and I love that lesson. I

0:45:26.440 --> 0:45:28.520
<v Speaker 1>just think people have to be ready for it and

0:45:29.000 --> 0:45:30.400
<v Speaker 1>really want to. I want to home in on the

0:45:30.400 --> 0:45:32.560
<v Speaker 1>point that y'all made too about that emergency fund. And

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<v Speaker 1>just to be clear, when you say it's a stock

0:45:34.600 --> 0:45:36.920
<v Speaker 1>market emergency fund, you don't have the money in the

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:39.680
<v Speaker 1>stock market. It's your emergency fund, so that you don't

0:45:39.719 --> 0:45:43.399
<v Speaker 1>touch your money, yes, just cash right regular ole. Yeah,

0:45:43.440 --> 0:45:46.520
<v Speaker 1>So that's key because you know, people think that like

0:45:46.600 --> 0:45:48.759
<v Speaker 1>if you're if you're worried about losing everything when a

0:45:48.800 --> 0:45:51.480
<v Speaker 1>market goes down, that you're probably not investing money that

0:45:51.480 --> 0:45:54.279
<v Speaker 1>you're willing to put away for the long term, like

0:45:54.320 --> 0:45:56.680
<v Speaker 1>your money that you want to hold with your money

0:45:56.680 --> 0:45:58.440
<v Speaker 1>that you want to be able to access if an

0:45:58.440 --> 0:46:01.360
<v Speaker 1>emergency happens. That should be really, it should be liquid,

0:46:01.400 --> 0:46:03.839
<v Speaker 1>It should be available to you. It should be enough

0:46:04.480 --> 0:46:06.839
<v Speaker 1>for the you know, for whatever a period of time

0:46:06.880 --> 0:46:09.520
<v Speaker 1>you feel comfortable with you guys, two years seems reasonable

0:46:09.520 --> 0:46:14.839
<v Speaker 1>because y'all are you know, you're entirely without you know, well,

0:46:14.880 --> 0:46:18.040
<v Speaker 1>you have your passive income, but you've left, you've left

0:46:18.040 --> 0:46:20.719
<v Speaker 1>your jobs, and you're living your fire lifestyle. But for

0:46:20.760 --> 0:46:23.360
<v Speaker 1>other people maybe at six months or year's worth of expenses.

0:46:23.719 --> 0:46:26.160
<v Speaker 1>And I love that y'all have that cushion because it

0:46:26.280 --> 0:46:29.920
<v Speaker 1>helps you kind of like stamp down those emotional fears

0:46:29.960 --> 0:46:32.040
<v Speaker 1>around when the market dips, like oh no, I've got

0:46:32.080 --> 0:46:34.840
<v Speaker 1>to take my money out because I don't want to

0:46:34.880 --> 0:46:36.680
<v Speaker 1>lose it, because we need to have food on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>With that emergency fund, y'all, you provide a cushion for yourself,

0:46:41.040 --> 0:46:43.680
<v Speaker 1>and you provide the security that you can continue with

0:46:43.760 --> 0:46:46.279
<v Speaker 1>your investing strategy, continue building your wealth, and you don't

0:46:46.320 --> 0:46:49.560
<v Speaker 1>need to sacrifice that when your emotions start to take over.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a really important point for people, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we're always like, before y'all start asking about investing,

0:46:55.880 --> 0:46:58.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking to my dad and my uncle Mark. People

0:46:58.400 --> 0:47:00.239
<v Speaker 1>call me all the time, what about hurts? Would we

0:47:00.239 --> 0:47:00.759
<v Speaker 1>invest in her.

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<v Speaker 5>Bankrupt?

0:47:03.400 --> 0:47:05.800
<v Speaker 1>Oh? Yeah, sure, jumping, Oh my god, I'm like, listen,

0:47:05.840 --> 0:47:07.480
<v Speaker 1>if my uncle Mark is talking about it, do not

0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:11.879
<v Speaker 1>just don't go to hurts, but my dad he still

0:47:11.920 --> 0:47:14.200
<v Speaker 1>saves money in his coat closet. I'm like, you're trying

0:47:14.200 --> 0:47:16.040
<v Speaker 1>to talk about investing in hurts. Can I get you

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:17.840
<v Speaker 1>to like put the money in the bank first? Like,

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:19.400
<v Speaker 1>what is this so backwards?

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<v Speaker 6>Go ahead, No, and no shade to the people who listen.

0:47:22.840 --> 0:47:25.359
<v Speaker 6>But if you're willing to do the blessing loom, that's

0:47:25.400 --> 0:47:29.120
<v Speaker 6>not a blessing. I think you can try this. That's

0:47:29.120 --> 0:47:30.960
<v Speaker 6>a little shady because so many of my dream catchers

0:47:31.000 --> 0:47:32.399
<v Speaker 6>are like, girl, I want to do a blessing loom.

0:47:32.400 --> 0:47:34.000
<v Speaker 6>It's not a blessing loom.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I've not heard enough before.

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<v Speaker 5>You never heard of the blessing loom?

0:47:37.600 --> 0:47:38.680
<v Speaker 1>Quits quick sidebar?

0:47:38.719 --> 0:47:41.440
<v Speaker 5>What is done? No, we talked about it on the podcast.

0:47:41.480 --> 0:47:45.040
<v Speaker 6>Remember I said it's it's basically the pyramid scheme, but

0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:47.680
<v Speaker 6>they keep renaming it blessing loom. Pyramid scheme when you

0:47:47.760 --> 0:47:49.880
<v Speaker 6>bring more people in and they bring money, and then

0:47:49.880 --> 0:47:52.160
<v Speaker 6>you move to the center or to the top and

0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:54.720
<v Speaker 6>they see yeah, but they just keep calling in new things.

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<v Speaker 6>But I did want to ask, like what because I

0:47:56.760 --> 0:47:58.800
<v Speaker 6>want to get just a little nitty gritty, like what.

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<v Speaker 5>Percentage are you living off of?

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<v Speaker 6>Are you doing it where you're anticipating like on average

0:48:03.760 --> 0:48:05.640
<v Speaker 6>is seven to eight percent return and you're living off

0:48:05.840 --> 0:48:10.000
<v Speaker 6>four percent of your of what your investments yield or

0:48:10.160 --> 0:48:13.560
<v Speaker 6>is it more so you're living off you if you

0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:17.560
<v Speaker 6>have rental properties or is it? And then two, like

0:48:17.640 --> 0:48:19.840
<v Speaker 6>what was your fire number? Because I know, like my

0:48:19.920 --> 0:48:23.040
<v Speaker 6>financial advisor, my financial planner, you know, I mean, I

0:48:23.080 --> 0:48:25.120
<v Speaker 6>guess technically I don't have.

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<v Speaker 5>To work now, I guess.

0:48:26.160 --> 0:48:28.480
<v Speaker 6>I mean, I just like I like doing budget Nista,

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<v Speaker 6>but I my husband and I help out a lot

0:48:31.560 --> 0:48:35.600
<v Speaker 6>of people. So what we spend a month is like

0:48:36.080 --> 0:48:38.440
<v Speaker 6>half of what we spend actually goes to us and

0:48:38.480 --> 0:48:40.400
<v Speaker 6>just the rest goes to helping family and friends.

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<v Speaker 5>But so like, what's that? What was that number for you?

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<v Speaker 6>Like, if we set aside this amount plus with the

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<v Speaker 6>real estate coming in, we should be good.

0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:48.600
<v Speaker 5>I'm curious about that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so we don't have the real estate anymore. Okay,

0:48:52.440 --> 0:48:53.920
<v Speaker 4>we sold our real estate and then we put that

0:48:53.960 --> 0:48:57.680
<v Speaker 4>in the stock market. But our fire number was based

0:48:57.719 --> 0:49:00.239
<v Speaker 4>off of living in the San Francisco Bay are So

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<v Speaker 4>I'll caveat with that caveat that that our number was

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<v Speaker 4>over two million, close to two and a half million.

0:49:06.840 --> 0:49:09.719
<v Speaker 4>But again this is because we live in the sand Or.

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<v Speaker 4>Our fire number was based off of living in the

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<v Speaker 4>San Francisco Bay area. So some people will probably think

0:49:16.320 --> 0:49:18.840
<v Speaker 4>that that can be very high, or some people actually

0:49:18.840 --> 0:49:20.200
<v Speaker 4>think like, maybe that's low.

0:49:20.480 --> 0:49:22.880
<v Speaker 3>So it's really relative to where.

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<v Speaker 4>You plan on retiring, where you live, what your family

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<v Speaker 4>size is, and what type of stuff you plan on

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<v Speaker 4>doing in retirement, and how much is that stuff going

0:49:31.440 --> 0:49:33.560
<v Speaker 4>to cost. So ours was close to two and a

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<v Speaker 4>half million dollars, but I will say because we moved

0:49:37.360 --> 0:49:42.440
<v Speaker 4>to Portugal, we are living off of obviously not close

0:49:42.480 --> 0:49:45.320
<v Speaker 4>to that. Because when you calculate your fire number, you

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<v Speaker 4>the ideas that you can live off of four percent

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<v Speaker 4>of your portfolio in order to cover your monthly expenses

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<v Speaker 4>and then in turn your annual expenses. So the idea

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<v Speaker 4>is that you can pull four percent from your portfolio,

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<v Speaker 4>and then your portfolio continue to grow so that you're

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:05.839
<v Speaker 4>only pulling from the gains in your portfolio, You're not

0:50:05.880 --> 0:50:09.200
<v Speaker 4>actually pulling from the principal balance, so it continues to

0:50:09.239 --> 0:50:11.880
<v Speaker 4>grow and you're able to continuously pull out four percent.

0:50:12.239 --> 0:50:14.960
<v Speaker 4>And that's based off of There's a study called the

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<v Speaker 4>Trinity Study that really explains this concept of the four

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<v Speaker 4>percent rule, how you can live off of your portfolio

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<v Speaker 4>and the portfolio allocation that you have, whether it's stocks

0:50:25.400 --> 0:50:28.200
<v Speaker 4>and bonds or one hundred percent stocks one hundred percent bonds.

0:50:28.360 --> 0:50:31.160
<v Speaker 4>But the concept is, once you get your fire number,

0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:33.359
<v Speaker 4>you're supposed to be able to live off of four

0:50:33.400 --> 0:50:36.640
<v Speaker 4>percent of that and pull money from your portfolio, and

0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:39.440
<v Speaker 4>that pays for all of your expenses. But we are

0:50:39.480 --> 0:50:42.319
<v Speaker 4>here in Portugal, and our expenses are much much lower,

0:50:42.440 --> 0:50:43.960
<v Speaker 4>like we said, I mean, we gave you the example

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<v Speaker 4>of the healthcare how much cheaper it is, or i'd

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<v Speaker 4>say how much more affordable it is here in Portugal.

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<v Speaker 4>So for us, we don't have to pull a full

0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:56.880
<v Speaker 4>four percent. We pull under four percent. And if you

0:50:56.960 --> 0:50:59.239
<v Speaker 4>ever are in a situation where you're pulling less than

0:50:59.280 --> 0:51:02.960
<v Speaker 4>four percent, then it's even better because then your portfolio

0:51:03.080 --> 0:51:06.400
<v Speaker 4>can continue to grow even more. So the idea is

0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:08.719
<v Speaker 4>if you're able to pull less than four percent, it

0:51:08.760 --> 0:51:09.880
<v Speaker 4>can grow even more.

0:51:09.920 --> 0:51:11.360
<v Speaker 3>And so that's a perfect situation.

0:51:11.920 --> 0:51:16.359
<v Speaker 4>But I would say for people that have different locations

0:51:16.400 --> 0:51:18.960
<v Speaker 4>in mind, like for example, like we said, we were

0:51:18.960 --> 0:51:21.279
<v Speaker 4>thinking about the San Francisco Bay area and we were

0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:24.880
<v Speaker 4>thinking about Portugal, for us, it was really important to

0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:28.440
<v Speaker 4>not retire until we hit the mark for the higher

0:51:28.480 --> 0:51:30.560
<v Speaker 4>cost of living, which is the San Francisco Bay Area.

0:51:30.640 --> 0:51:34.440
<v Speaker 4>And again that's because if we come here to Portugal

0:51:34.640 --> 0:51:37.080
<v Speaker 4>and we decide, you know, four or five years down

0:51:37.080 --> 0:51:40.080
<v Speaker 4>the road, we want to return to the Bay Area,

0:51:40.280 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 4>or you know, our girls will be going away to

0:51:42.000 --> 0:51:45.440
<v Speaker 4>school soon, not soon soon to me, but you know

0:51:45.680 --> 0:51:48.319
<v Speaker 4>in another four and six years if they returned to

0:51:48.360 --> 0:51:50.319
<v Speaker 4>the States, maybe at that time we'll think, oh, we

0:51:50.320 --> 0:51:52.359
<v Speaker 4>should return with them, or maybe we want to live

0:51:52.400 --> 0:51:53.160
<v Speaker 4>back in the States.

0:51:53.360 --> 0:51:55.120
<v Speaker 3>If we would have picked a fire.

0:51:54.920 --> 0:51:59.320
<v Speaker 4>Number associated with living in Portugal, then we would be stuck.

0:51:59.360 --> 0:52:01.200
<v Speaker 4>We would be limit in terms of where we can

0:52:01.239 --> 0:52:04.880
<v Speaker 4>go after that. So for people that have multiple areas

0:52:04.920 --> 0:52:08.040
<v Speaker 4>in mind, I would I would recommend picking the higher

0:52:08.080 --> 0:52:10.919
<v Speaker 4>cost of living area and then when you go live

0:52:11.000 --> 0:52:13.440
<v Speaker 4>in a lower cost of area, you're pulling less than

0:52:13.440 --> 0:52:15.600
<v Speaker 4>that four percent and your portfolio is able to grow

0:52:15.680 --> 0:52:16.759
<v Speaker 4>even more because of it.

0:52:17.280 --> 0:52:19.839
<v Speaker 1>And when you're in retire. Did that answer your question? Tif?

0:52:20.400 --> 0:52:20.799
<v Speaker 5>No, it did.

0:52:20.840 --> 0:52:24.319
<v Speaker 1>I just said that was awesome here, Okay, So I

0:52:24.400 --> 0:52:26.759
<v Speaker 1>just have so many questions now. I wanted to know

0:52:26.800 --> 0:52:28.799
<v Speaker 1>because you guys have your YouTube channel. I know you

0:52:28.880 --> 0:52:31.640
<v Speaker 1>have a course now in stock investing. When y'all were planning,

0:52:32.080 --> 0:52:35.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, sources of income or planning your portfolio and

0:52:35.840 --> 0:52:39.040
<v Speaker 1>hitting your fire number, did y'all think, Okay, we'll also

0:52:39.120 --> 0:52:41.600
<v Speaker 1>bring in income from our YouTube and maybe we can

0:52:41.640 --> 0:52:43.440
<v Speaker 1>teach people and have a course. Was that part of

0:52:43.480 --> 0:52:47.399
<v Speaker 1>your plan or was this just like a happenstance, Because

0:52:47.400 --> 0:52:49.200
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't strike me that you guys set out, because

0:52:49.239 --> 0:52:51.560
<v Speaker 1>that's honestly one of the things that kind of annoys

0:52:51.560 --> 0:52:53.520
<v Speaker 1>me about some fire. I'll just be totally frank, as

0:52:53.560 --> 0:52:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Christina knows I can be, but like, yeah, I mean

0:52:56.680 --> 0:52:59.040
<v Speaker 1>I kind of roll my eyes sometimes because people are like, oh, yeah,

0:52:59.040 --> 0:53:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to retire early and I'm going to teach

0:53:00.600 --> 0:53:02.040
<v Speaker 1>people how to do it, and that's how I'm gonna

0:53:02.040 --> 0:53:04.759
<v Speaker 1>retire early by making money off of the courses. But

0:53:04.840 --> 0:53:07.480
<v Speaker 1>y'all strike me as totally different, whereas it's kind of

0:53:07.520 --> 0:53:09.560
<v Speaker 1>a you know, you did your fire thing and then

0:53:09.600 --> 0:53:11.480
<v Speaker 1>people were asking you to start a channel, and you

0:53:11.520 --> 0:53:14.200
<v Speaker 1>did it, and now you just happened to be YouTube stars.

0:53:14.840 --> 0:53:15.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

0:53:15.120 --> 0:53:17.759
<v Speaker 4>I love that you asked that, because you know, right

0:53:17.800 --> 0:53:21.760
<v Speaker 4>now we have we have almost three hundred thousand subscribers

0:53:21.800 --> 0:53:25.640
<v Speaker 4>on our channel, but when we started, we started a

0:53:25.640 --> 0:53:29.400
<v Speaker 4>little over two years ago and it was the lowest

0:53:29.440 --> 0:53:33.279
<v Speaker 4>start ever and when when we actually retired, I don't

0:53:33.320 --> 0:53:37.640
<v Speaker 4>think we had even hit fifty thousand subscribers at that point.

0:53:38.120 --> 0:53:40.799
<v Speaker 4>And so for us, when we started the channel, it

0:53:40.840 --> 0:53:42.920
<v Speaker 4>was more like a friend had mentioned it to us

0:53:42.920 --> 0:53:45.960
<v Speaker 4>because we were talking. We were always talking to family

0:53:46.000 --> 0:53:48.600
<v Speaker 4>members and friends about listen, you guys should be doing this,

0:53:48.719 --> 0:53:50.520
<v Speaker 4>you should save this money. I mean, we were sort

0:53:50.520 --> 0:53:53.200
<v Speaker 4>of getting a little extra into people's business saying hey,

0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:54.400
<v Speaker 4>why don't you invest in this?

0:53:54.440 --> 0:53:55.560
<v Speaker 3>You should save what are you doing?

0:53:56.840 --> 0:53:59.440
<v Speaker 4>But it just became something that we talked about so

0:53:59.560 --> 0:54:01.200
<v Speaker 4>much that one of our friends said, hey, you should

0:54:01.200 --> 0:54:03.440
<v Speaker 4>start this channel, and we thought, well, that is pretty

0:54:03.480 --> 0:54:06.680
<v Speaker 4>cool because then we could tell people about fire, like

0:54:06.680 --> 0:54:09.040
<v Speaker 4>like when we didn't know what fire was when we started.

0:54:09.040 --> 0:54:10.960
<v Speaker 4>If someone was sort of guiding us and telling us

0:54:11.080 --> 0:54:14.200
<v Speaker 4>about all these concepts, that would be really cool. So

0:54:14.239 --> 0:54:17.960
<v Speaker 4>we started the channel, and we we absolutely did not

0:54:18.120 --> 0:54:19.359
<v Speaker 4>think that our channel.

0:54:19.040 --> 0:54:20.360
<v Speaker 3>Would grow like it was.

0:54:20.440 --> 0:54:23.120
<v Speaker 4>So it was definitely not something where we're like, oh, yeah,

0:54:23.160 --> 0:54:24.800
<v Speaker 4>we can we can rely on.

0:54:24.719 --> 0:54:29.480
<v Speaker 3>YouTube and just retire early and live off of YouTube

0:54:29.560 --> 0:54:32.480
<v Speaker 3>or something like that. That was definitely not the case.

0:54:32.960 --> 0:54:35.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, and it became it became kind of like

0:54:36.360 --> 0:54:39.000
<v Speaker 2>a gift that we couldn't give up. And when I

0:54:39.040 --> 0:54:41.719
<v Speaker 2>say a gift is we have this ability to be

0:54:41.760 --> 0:54:46.360
<v Speaker 2>able to really share and inspire people with our YouTube channel.

0:54:46.600 --> 0:54:49.000
<v Speaker 2>So when we start our YouTube channel, we were doing

0:54:49.000 --> 0:54:50.799
<v Speaker 2>it like two or three times a week, but since

0:54:50.800 --> 0:54:53.960
<v Speaker 2>we retired, really do it once a week. But it's

0:54:54.000 --> 0:54:56.319
<v Speaker 2>something that we want to keep doing because so many

0:54:56.360 --> 0:55:00.040
<v Speaker 2>people are getting getting value out of it. But what

0:55:00.080 --> 0:55:03.640
<v Speaker 2>happened was because we made so many videos, people were

0:55:03.680 --> 0:55:07.560
<v Speaker 2>asking us like questions that were there were very linear

0:55:07.640 --> 0:55:10.120
<v Speaker 2>questions like how to get to a to z And

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<v Speaker 2>we would say, oh, you got to go back to

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<v Speaker 2>video one hundred or video fifty five, and so we

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<v Speaker 2>were like, okay, we need to do like a course

0:55:18.520 --> 0:55:21.400
<v Speaker 2>they walk someone from A to Z And so that's

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<v Speaker 2>when we came up with the idea for the course.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was, you know, all of this was just

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<v Speaker 2>it just it just kind of started to happen because

0:55:30.440 --> 0:55:32.520
<v Speaker 2>we were being asked to do these things.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I will also say that you know, people

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<v Speaker 4>have been asking us for a while to do the course,

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<v Speaker 4>and we're like, yeah, you know, maybe maybe we'll get

0:55:39.040 --> 0:55:41.640
<v Speaker 4>around to it. But what really prompted us to do

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<v Speaker 4>the course was COVID. Yes, because we were stuck in

0:55:45.239 --> 0:55:48.640
<v Speaker 4>the house for over, over and over a month.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, if you see that course, my hair was

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<v Speaker 2>looking raggedy the whole course.

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<v Speaker 4>I know it's not as bad compared to people some

0:55:57.920 --> 0:56:01.000
<v Speaker 4>people in the States, right, but yeah, we were getting fidgety, like,

0:56:01.040 --> 0:56:03.760
<v Speaker 4>oh my gosh, we cannot just sit in this house

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<v Speaker 4>and do nothing. And we were we were telling people,

0:56:06.200 --> 0:56:08.520
<v Speaker 4>you know, go out and exercise, go out and read

0:56:08.640 --> 0:56:11.120
<v Speaker 4>or exercise in your home, read, write, do what you

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<v Speaker 4>can to stay productive. Don't try and be busy, because

0:56:14.600 --> 0:56:16.399
<v Speaker 4>busy is just sort of taking up time.

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<v Speaker 3>What can you do to be productive?

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<v Speaker 4>And then we thought, you know what, why don't we

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<v Speaker 4>just sit down and really focus on creating this course?

0:56:23.040 --> 0:56:27.279
<v Speaker 4>And I think, you know, because we had that extra time,

0:56:27.360 --> 0:56:29.680
<v Speaker 4>it was it was really a fun project to be

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<v Speaker 4>able to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, y'all are so young, you're clearly incredibly intelligent.

0:56:36.560 --> 0:56:41.120
<v Speaker 1>You guys have so much, so much energy, Like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>what does retirement look like for y'all? Can you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of paint the picture. You know, do you see yourselves

0:56:46.440 --> 0:56:49.319
<v Speaker 1>kicking back on beaches? Like, what does your retirement look like?

0:56:49.360 --> 0:56:54.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you think you'll be satisfied? You know with kicking obviously,

0:56:55.080 --> 0:56:57.200
<v Speaker 1>you you know, sitting back in the house is not

0:56:57.239 --> 0:56:59.680
<v Speaker 1>what you're excited about. I think those of us in

0:56:59.719 --> 0:57:01.839
<v Speaker 1>corn or all just like, get us out of here.

0:57:02.239 --> 0:57:04.600
<v Speaker 1>But talk about how do y'all plan on spending your

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<v Speaker 1>retirement with the next fifty years ahead of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, we spend a lot of time at the beach,

0:57:10.040 --> 0:57:14.440
<v Speaker 2>don't don't. Don't knock that. That's really nice. So uh,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's one of the nice things about living here

0:57:16.840 --> 0:57:19.360
<v Speaker 2>in Portugal is that we're near the water. The outdoors

0:57:19.360 --> 0:57:22.720
<v Speaker 2>are really amazing, so we do spend a lot of

0:57:22.720 --> 0:57:26.560
<v Speaker 2>time in the outdoors. We wanted to retire early. A

0:57:26.600 --> 0:57:29.040
<v Speaker 2>big reason was so that we could spend more time

0:57:29.200 --> 0:57:32.640
<v Speaker 2>with our girls. You know, after your children leave your house,

0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:36.520
<v Speaker 2>you have already spent ninety percent of the time you're

0:57:36.520 --> 0:57:38.440
<v Speaker 2>going to spend with them while they're in your house.

0:57:38.640 --> 0:57:40.960
<v Speaker 2>After that, they're gone and they're you know, they're going

0:57:41.040 --> 0:57:43.520
<v Speaker 2>to live their lives. So that's a gift that we

0:57:43.560 --> 0:57:45.240
<v Speaker 2>also have, is that we get to spend more time

0:57:45.240 --> 0:57:47.880
<v Speaker 2>with our kids. We get to coach our daughters in sports.

0:57:47.960 --> 0:57:51.920
<v Speaker 2>Christina swims with Malia, I play basketball with Sona. We

0:57:52.080 --> 0:57:58.480
<v Speaker 2>volunteer a lot. Recently, we've been doing calls with underserved

0:57:58.560 --> 0:58:02.120
<v Speaker 2>kids talking about financial independence, talking about talking about money

0:58:02.120 --> 0:58:05.920
<v Speaker 2>and financial literacy. And so what's really great is that

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:08.160
<v Speaker 2>we get to do whatever we want to do whenever

0:58:08.160 --> 0:58:11.440
<v Speaker 2>we want to on Sunday nights. We don't have that

0:58:11.560 --> 0:58:15.000
<v Speaker 2>anxiety that Monday morning is rolling around. So it's just

0:58:15.840 --> 0:58:18.480
<v Speaker 2>it's really an unexplainable feeling to be able to have

0:58:18.560 --> 0:58:20.800
<v Speaker 2>this freedom. And it goes back to what we talked

0:58:20.800 --> 0:58:24.520
<v Speaker 2>about earlier, making that short term sacrifice for the long

0:58:24.640 --> 0:58:27.840
<v Speaker 2>term gain. And yes, we're we're young and we have

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we have a lot of things that we're

0:58:30.440 --> 0:58:32.800
<v Speaker 2>that we're working on, but they're all things that we're

0:58:32.840 --> 0:58:35.320
<v Speaker 2>passionate about and that's what we didn't have the ability

0:58:35.360 --> 0:58:38.240
<v Speaker 2>to do before when we were working forty hours a week.

0:58:38.520 --> 0:58:40.400
<v Speaker 2>You know, now we have those forty hours back to

0:58:40.480 --> 0:58:42.120
<v Speaker 2>do whatever we want to do with them.

0:58:42.600 --> 0:58:45.000
<v Speaker 4>And I really love that you asked that question too, Mandy,

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<v Speaker 4>because I think when people are thinking about financial independence

0:58:50.040 --> 0:58:50.840
<v Speaker 4>and retiring early.

0:58:50.880 --> 0:58:51.640
<v Speaker 3>You know, there's this split.

0:58:51.640 --> 0:58:53.960
<v Speaker 4>You could just do financial independence and you continue to

0:58:54.000 --> 0:58:57.160
<v Speaker 4>do the job that you love, or you can.

0:58:57.040 --> 0:58:58.160
<v Speaker 3>Actually retire early.

0:58:58.280 --> 0:59:01.320
<v Speaker 4>And so I think when people are on that retire

0:59:01.400 --> 0:59:04.320
<v Speaker 4>early path, if they ultimately want to retire early, they

0:59:04.400 --> 0:59:08.280
<v Speaker 4>really need to envision what they think their life is

0:59:08.360 --> 0:59:11.920
<v Speaker 4>going to be like when they retire, because I'll.

0:59:11.840 --> 0:59:13.480
<v Speaker 3>Tell you, if you're just sort of.

0:59:13.480 --> 0:59:16.440
<v Speaker 4>Running from something, if you're running from your job because

0:59:16.440 --> 0:59:19.040
<v Speaker 4>you don't like your job, and so that's the reason

0:59:19.080 --> 0:59:22.919
<v Speaker 4>you want to retire, your retirement may not feel very

0:59:22.960 --> 0:59:25.640
<v Speaker 4>fulfilling because then you're in retirement and it's sort of like, well,

0:59:25.640 --> 0:59:26.560
<v Speaker 4>what do I do now?

0:59:26.880 --> 0:59:29.880
<v Speaker 3>But if you really envision what your life can be

0:59:30.040 --> 0:59:31.000
<v Speaker 3>like in retirement.

0:59:31.120 --> 0:59:33.400
<v Speaker 4>If you love to travel, if you love to cook,

0:59:33.440 --> 0:59:35.600
<v Speaker 4>if you love to spend time with your kids and

0:59:35.640 --> 0:59:38.040
<v Speaker 4>your family, if you love to work out, if you

0:59:38.160 --> 0:59:41.040
<v Speaker 4>like to build things, those are all things that people

0:59:41.120 --> 0:59:44.680
<v Speaker 4>can run towards versus running away from something. So they

0:59:44.720 --> 0:59:47.120
<v Speaker 4>really have to think about if they want to pursue fire,

0:59:47.200 --> 0:59:48.720
<v Speaker 4>what's the purpose behind that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you guys have inspired me to expand

0:59:55.640 --> 0:59:59.400
<v Speaker 1>my own possibilities for what the next decade and beyond

0:59:59.440 --> 1:00:02.400
<v Speaker 1>can look like. And I love that you guys have

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<v Speaker 1>You've proven to I think so many people like don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know how to imagine a world where they don't

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<v Speaker 1>work for someone else, you know, like or and if

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<v Speaker 1>they don't work for someone then it's like owning their

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<v Speaker 1>own business or whatever. But what about a world where

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<v Speaker 1>you're just free to, you know, work on what you

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<v Speaker 1>find fulfilling, be with your family, like it's really it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little sad to me that this is such

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<v Speaker 1>like an extraordinary mindset to have. But you guys truly

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<v Speaker 1>are extraordinary because you have You've seen it, and you

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<v Speaker 1>said this should be the normal, Like this should be

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<v Speaker 1>the norm, This will be our normal. We are going

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<v Speaker 1>to create the life that we want. And I it

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<v Speaker 1>really resonates with me, if you can't tell, because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I am on this path toward this a

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<v Speaker 1>good life, but a good life according to the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what's what's considered the norm in America and what's considered

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<v Speaker 1>a good life according to I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>mainstream idea of a good life is. And I'm starting

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<v Speaker 1>to even challenge my own expectations and challenge some of

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<v Speaker 1>the own some of my own ways of thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>the next couple of decades in my life. And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>even just being stuck in quarantine with my baby. You

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<v Speaker 1>can probably hear me in the background. He's a very

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<v Speaker 1>vocal eater. He gets really mad, he very angry. He's

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<v Speaker 1>my child. But even just being in quarantine, I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so I could just work at home and be with

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<v Speaker 1>the baby all the time. This isn't that bad anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to thank y'all because I'm so glad

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<v Speaker 1>that you are sharing your story and I know that

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<v Speaker 1>forget about you know you can, we can forget about

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<v Speaker 1>race for a second. I mean, the show is called

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<v Speaker 1>Brown Ambition, so it's always there. We acknowledge we are

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<v Speaker 1>two black women speaking to an audience, and first and

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<v Speaker 1>foremost we want to talk to other black women and

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<v Speaker 1>how to build wealth because we understand that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's not a lot of people like us talking to them.

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<v Speaker 1>And I am you guys are like unicorns, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in the Fire Movement, a black couple with two daughters

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<v Speaker 1>and your girls seeing them. And I even said this

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<v Speaker 1>to Christina in the email. I really meant it. If

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<v Speaker 1>only I had seen your two girls talking about financial

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<v Speaker 1>financial Uh uh what am I thinking? Like, what are

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about investing investing in all building at a

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<v Speaker 1>young age when I was, you know, twelve or thirteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all are so important and your stories are so important.

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<v Speaker 1>And I and thank y'all for using your time when

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<v Speaker 1>you could be doing anything else to educate and pour

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<v Speaker 1>back into communities who may not be getting this kind

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<v Speaker 1>of knowledge. I it just it's out shut up now.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just y'all are the best.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so nice. It's it's so nice. So you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we wanted to talk to you guys anyway. So it

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<v Speaker 3>was just like, oh, it's your baby that this is

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<v Speaker 3>it right?

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<v Speaker 5>Like e pitome of brown ambition.

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<v Speaker 6>And I think that it's just good for people to

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<v Speaker 6>see that life can be lived differently, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, and one hundred million less words than what I used.

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<v Speaker 6>No, So just just because Amandy and I are, the

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<v Speaker 6>way we live.

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<v Speaker 5>Is so different, so they get to see different sides

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<v Speaker 5>of like.

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<v Speaker 6>From both of us being bosses in our own right,

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<v Speaker 6>but via the corporate side or owning your own business.

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<v Speaker 5>So this is just a nice we're pre from.

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<v Speaker 6>This is another way to live and people can find

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<v Speaker 6>themselves in your journey, so we do really thank you,

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<v Speaker 6>thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you guys. Yeah, I'm so glad we able to

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<v Speaker 3>talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. Thank y'all, and and go live your fabulous life.

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<v Speaker 1>You now on folks where they can find you. Your

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<v Speaker 1>your our Rich Journey on YouTube, on Instagram, anything else

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<v Speaker 1>y'all want to anything you'll want to promote.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, you know you mentioned our daughters too. They

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<v Speaker 4>have their channel out so it's called Our Rich Journey Junior.

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<v Speaker 2>So the kids some love.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, check the girls out also.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but that's really where you can find us is

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<v Speaker 2>on YouTube or Instagram at Rich Journey and send us

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<v Speaker 2>a message. We eventually get to all of the questions.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we are retired, we have nothing else to do.

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<v Speaker 5>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Join the journey. That's how you always end your YouTube videos.

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<v Speaker 1>Go join the journey. Thank y'all for sharing your story

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<v Speaker 1>with us. I would love to have y'all on the

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<v Speaker 1>show again sometime in the future. But be well, stay healthy. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean honestly, y'all should be wishing us luck. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we're the one I feel like y'all are

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<v Speaker 1>on the right track in Portugal. But yeah, be well,

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<v Speaker 1>stay healthy and thank y'all again for coming on the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, thanks so much guys.

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA Okay, so did I embarrass myself? Was that too

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<v Speaker 1>much of a fan girl? No, they were for Christina.

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<v Speaker 6>And mon Honestly, they were amazing and they I mean

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<v Speaker 6>as much as I think that we're pretty fru gol,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, yes, I know, you know explorers, but you

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<v Speaker 6>know you and I are pretty like to go with

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<v Speaker 6>our finances and savvy with our finances. It just made

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<v Speaker 6>me look at some of the choices that I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 6>that I'm choosing for myself and my family a little

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<v Speaker 6>bit differently. So it was so amazing. I'm totally going

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<v Speaker 6>to stalk them on YouTube so just so they.

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<v Speaker 1>Know their channel is good. I know that, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>worth a time too. I think I just turned on

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<v Speaker 1>their channel and I just had it on for an

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<v Speaker 1>entire weekend. They're They're truly really knowledgeable and if you

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<v Speaker 1>hear things banging in the background, it's just the babies here.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey see, hey everybody. Yeah, I think it's great to

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<v Speaker 1>hear different perspectives. And they call it our rich journey

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<v Speaker 1>because it's their journey, doesn't mean that it's the right

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<v Speaker 1>journey or the one that you need to take. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think in so many ways, you need to see

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<v Speaker 1>someone else living life by example so that you start

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<v Speaker 1>to think about what's possible for yourself. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>for you know, I've been pretty cynical about the whole

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<v Speaker 1>Fire movement, and they have totally changed the way I

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<v Speaker 1>think about it. And they have shown me that there's

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<v Speaker 1>like if I was going to do fire, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the way to do yes. And it's it's about freedom.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about freedom. It's the freedom that people have who

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<v Speaker 1>are lucky enough to come from wealthy family or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to have inheritances or you know, things like that. It's

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<v Speaker 1>creating a space for yourself where you can do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the f you want and you're not trapped in this

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<v Speaker 1>cycle of you know, someone else's version of success just

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<v Speaker 1>so you can get by.

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<v Speaker 5>No. I love that.

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<v Speaker 6>I just yeah, like I said, I'm going to totally

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<v Speaker 6>stalk their page, rethink some of the things choices that

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<v Speaker 6>we're making.

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<v Speaker 1>And do you think Supergirl will check out their junior

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<v Speaker 1>the junior edition?

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe she certainly she's working now and she's making some money,

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<v Speaker 6>and so entrepreneurship is something that she has been really

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<v Speaker 6>interested in, and she's been doing that, Like you know,

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<v Speaker 6>she has her own lip gloss line that's on Etsy,

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<v Speaker 6>and what I know, she don't know, So I don't

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<v Speaker 6>know if remember that she was, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 6>told you, like a little while ago, she was hawking

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<v Speaker 6>these rubber band bracelets that she made from a kit

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<v Speaker 6>someone gave her for Christmas because she remember I told you,

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<v Speaker 6>she wanted my Superman and I to invest in her business.

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<v Speaker 6>And she's like for the low rate of four hundred

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<v Speaker 6>and fifty dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Tried it, so we wait a second, we have not

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<v Speaker 1>talked about So.

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<v Speaker 6>That's what she wanted because she wanted to start the

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<v Speaker 6>lip gloss business. So she did this whole presentation where

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<v Speaker 6>she was like, this is how much it's going to

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<v Speaker 6>cost me to get all the materials and things I

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<v Speaker 6>need And we were like, yeah, no, the most.

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<v Speaker 5>You're getting is fifty.

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<v Speaker 6>And even if you get fifty, that's because you have

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<v Speaker 6>to earn fifty. That's the most you're squeezing out of us.

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<v Speaker 6>So need let's just say she wasn't happy. But what

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<v Speaker 6>she did do is somebody gave her this rubber band

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<v Speaker 6>kit where you can make bracelet and rings out of

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<v Speaker 6>these like cool, like brightly colored rubber bands. So she

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<v Speaker 6>started making them, and she started selling them, and she

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<v Speaker 6>made a few hundred bucks on her own.

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<v Speaker 5>She didn't even need our fifty, thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 6>And then graduation money kicked in and she was able

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<v Speaker 6>to fund her own business. With graduation money and her

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<v Speaker 6>rubber band business, it was like business to fund the business.

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<v Speaker 6>And so now, I mean, she literally spends hours a

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<v Speaker 6>day making her lip gloss kits and like putting them together.

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<v Speaker 6>And I'm honestly really proud of her because I'm.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, look a supergirl, you know who.

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<v Speaker 6>She's trying to be like right as much as she

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<v Speaker 6>tries to act like she don't want to be like me,

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<v Speaker 6>but that's.

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<v Speaker 1>How it goes though, Like she can't let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that you inspire her and that she loves you and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be just like you when she grows up.

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<v Speaker 6>But she's watching I know, so like no, but honestly

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<v Speaker 6>it's really dope to like watch her navigate.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah no, and I will say, like will this is

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<v Speaker 5>like a little aside.

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<v Speaker 6>So I signed her up for Black Girls Lead, like

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<v Speaker 6>the Summer the digital kind of like summer Camp, I

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<v Speaker 6>guess for girls. That's hosted by Black Girls Rock and

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<v Speaker 6>Michelle Obama did the opening speech, and then came Missy

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<v Speaker 6>Copeland and then somebody else. So I think I was fourth,

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<v Speaker 6>Like right after Michelle Obama geeked and the next day

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<v Speaker 6>she was like, Tiffy, do you know that your session

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<v Speaker 6>was top rated for yesterday? I'm like, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 6>She was like, we had to vote who our favorite was,

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<v Speaker 6>and you got twenty eight percent of the votes. I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, not over, miss Michelle.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, I was like these kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean not that I'm surprised, of course, I know

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<v Speaker 1>that you're fabulous, but I was.

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<v Speaker 6>Like, but honestly, I'm like, these kids don't know no better,

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<v Speaker 6>because don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Nobody beat Michelle.

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<v Speaker 3>But I take it.

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<v Speaker 6>She was like super Yeah, she was super excited because

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<v Speaker 6>she was like because in it, I had pre recorded mine,

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<v Speaker 6>I talked about her and used her as an example

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<v Speaker 6>of how you can make money on your own. So

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<v Speaker 6>for the girls to listen and watch, I could tell

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<v Speaker 6>she felt really special, like it's me, she's talking about me,

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<v Speaker 6>so we're friends again for now?

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<v Speaker 1>Right now? Amen to that listen Oh, that's amazing. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to see how Rio grows up. I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of obsessed with thinking about what he'll be. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I think as a parent, I'm afraid because

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<v Speaker 1>you know how like your kids will do the opposite

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<v Speaker 1>of what you want sometimes, like I don't want to,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like how much is too much? And should

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<v Speaker 1>I go like all in on teaching him stuff? She

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<v Speaker 1>let him find it on his own. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm so fascinated by Christina and i'm on

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<v Speaker 1>because their girls seem to have such a healthy not

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<v Speaker 1>just not only do they understand the different financial topics

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<v Speaker 1>that their parents talk about, but they're all so curious

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<v Speaker 1>and excited to do it themselves, Like how did they

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<v Speaker 1>do that? I know I'm going to be studying them

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<v Speaker 1>for I know everybody in a really creepy way just

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<v Speaker 1>sending I'm just going to slide into their dms all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Well, I loved having them on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>And if y'all like, who else are we missing? Who

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<v Speaker 1>else are y'all like? Who's on YouTube? Who's out there

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<v Speaker 1>that who have fabulous stories that are inspiring y'all that

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<v Speaker 1>y'all want to hear more from We'd love to get

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with them and have more folks on the show.

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<v Speaker 5>We certainly would, We certainly would.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, Well, thank y'all for another beautiful week of

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<v Speaker 1>Brown Ambition.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll see y'all next week, next week,