1 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: Heyba fam, we did it. We're here. We are almost 2 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:23,159 Speaker 1: done with twenty twenty. But before we say goodbye to 3 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: the Year of the Dumpster Fire, we first wanted to 4 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: take a look back at some of our favorite conversations 5 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: we had with guests this year on Brown Ambition. First up, 6 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,840 Speaker 1: we've got our conversation with Aman and Christina of our 7 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: Rich Journey. First of all, if you guys do not 8 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: subscribe to their YouTube channel and you are interested in 9 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: getting your start in investing, you have got to go 10 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: to YouTube right now and subscribe. Honestly, there's a series 11 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: of videos about wealth building and investing and saving for retirement. 12 00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: We're a game changer for the way that I personally 13 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: approached my own retirement before the age of forty. Christina 14 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: and Aman managed to not only retire, but move their 15 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 1: entire family to Portugal, of all places, and start fresh. 16 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: They are truly living their best damn lives, and in 17 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: this episode, they were here to spill the tea on 18 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: how much they save to retire early, how they're making 19 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: ends meet out there in Portugal right now, and what 20 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: are their expenses really like. We hope you enjoy looking 21 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 1: back on this episode of Brown ambition. So, without further ado, 22 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 1: here's our conversation with a Moan and Christina of Our 23 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: Rich Journey. We are joined today by the fabulous Our 24 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: Rich Journey, the brains behind Our Rich Journey, Christina and 25 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: Amman Browning. Welcome to the show. 26 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for having us. 27 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. 28 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 4: We have been looking forward to this. We were so 29 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 4: excited about this call. So we are so glad to 30 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 4: be speaking with you guys. 31 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 5: Now we're geeked. I'm like, ugh, I just know our 32 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 5: audience is going to love you. Oh money too. 33 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: Let me brag on y'all for a little bit because 34 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: your story is so inspirational and I know that our 35 00:01:57,360 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: audience will love you. But as we mentioned, the come 36 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: from the San Francisco Bay Area. You guys both worked 37 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: for the federal government until your late thirties. You decided, 38 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 1: let's just quit our jobs. Let's just retire. Now, how 39 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: about that? With what a ten and a twelve year 40 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: old at the time. 41 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:16,079 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, well so they're eleven and thirteen now, so yeah, 42 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 4: they were about ten and twelve at the time. 43 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 2: What better not only quit your job? 44 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? Very casually? Well, no, I mean, I'm kind of 45 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: making it seem easier than it was. You guys plan 46 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: for this. You joined the Fire movement before you even 47 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: knew there was a Fire movement? Is that right? 48 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 3: Oh, that is totally right. I love how you said 49 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 3: that too. 50 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 4: It's like we didn't even really know what we were 51 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 4: doing as we were doing it in terms of classifying 52 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 4: it as a Fire movement, because when we started, it wasn't. 53 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: Like this huge thing. It's not a huge thing now, I. 54 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,399 Speaker 4: Would say, but it's much bigger than when we started. 55 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 4: So Fire is really financial independence retiring early. And the 56 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 4: concept is really that you save as much money as 57 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 4: you can, you make as much money as you can, 58 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 4: and then you invest that money, and then that money 59 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 4: will grow enough to a point where you have enough 60 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 4: money that you can reach financial independence and retire and 61 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 4: never have. 62 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:09,359 Speaker 3: To work again. 63 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 4: So that whole sort of introduction to Fire was we 64 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 4: were sort of working on it and doing all these 65 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 4: things towards Fire, but there wasn't really we didn't know 66 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 4: the name of it at the time when we started. 67 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: We'll talk about I mean, so take us back to 68 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: eight years ago. Was it eight or nine years ago 69 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 1: when y'all decided as a couple, Was it was it 70 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 1: one big conversation where y'all where you were both like, hey, 71 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 1: we should retire early? How soon? Eight years? How's eight years? 72 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: And then you put it like, how did that? How 73 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,119 Speaker 1: does it work as a couple? How do you decide 74 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: we are going to both strive for this goal? Get 75 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: on the same page and talk about the steps that 76 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: y'all took in your early thirties to be able to 77 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: retire before forty. 78 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 2: Well, you know, it was a AHA moment for me 79 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 2: at work. I was at work working for the federal government, 80 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 2: and I was I was going through the motions every 81 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 2: day in the race. And I was at work one 82 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,280 Speaker 2: day and I received an award for my length of 83 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 2: service with the federal government for ten years. And at 84 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: this awards assembly, there was another federal employee that had 85 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 2: gotten an award for thirty years of service. And I 86 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 2: just remember, at this assembly, my ten years was just insignificant. 87 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 2: They hurried me off the stage. It was nothing. And 88 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 2: at that moment, I realized that I didn't want to 89 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: be here thirty years just to get another piece of paper. 90 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 2: And so I went home. I had this conversation with Christina, 91 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 2: and you know, there were so many things that we 92 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: wanted to do besides just spend the rest of our 93 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 2: lives in our cubicle. And so we had this conversation 94 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: and we didn't really know how we were going to 95 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: do it, you know, we had it was just a goal. 96 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 2: A goal was to be able to develop enough passive income, 97 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 2: either with real estate or with the stock market, to 98 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 2: be able to quit our jobs and live off of that. 99 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 2: And so when I went home and me and Christina 100 00:04:57,040 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 2: had this conversation, what Christina did is what she always does. 101 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 2: She was like all in for it. She said, let's 102 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: do it. Let's figure out a way to get it done. 103 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: Well, it's your heart. I mean, my husband and I 104 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 1: can't even ngram what to order on door Dash. I 105 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: mean that's like a two hour conversation. Well, I think 106 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,799 Speaker 1: y'all's relationship, I mean it has to be so strong, 107 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: such a foundation of trust, and I just and it 108 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: comes across for me and your YouTube channel and your videos. 109 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: You can really tell that y'all are all in with 110 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: each other, and that's that's beautiful to see. Tiff, What 111 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: do you want to ask now? 112 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 6: I just want to know, like what in your note 113 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 6: so you have that initial excitement, But what were there 114 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 6: things that made you nervous about about this journey that 115 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 6: you were like, how were we going to handle these things? 116 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 6: Because I'm sure there are certain people who are listening 117 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 6: and they're like, I'd love to retire early, but I'm 118 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 6: nervous about dot. 119 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 5: Dot dot, And how did you handle those things? 120 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 2: There was a list. I think I think the biggest 121 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 2: thing on our list was the amount of money that 122 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 2: it would take to retire to do it, you know, 123 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: we we have this thing called a fire number, and 124 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: it's a number that you calculate and it's based off 125 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 2: of the amount of money that you would need in 126 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 2: an investment portfolio in order to call yourself financially independent. 127 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 2: And just calculating that number and seeing that number on paper, 128 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 2: that was very intimidating. So that was one thing for sure. 129 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think you know it's for us. 130 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 4: It's really like when we have maybe these challenges, are 131 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 4: we thinking, Okay, how much is it going to take 132 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 4: in order to retire? Because I think one of the 133 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 4: things that man forgot to say is when he came 134 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 4: home and we were talking about it, he said, I 135 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 4: want to retire before I'm forty and so for us, 136 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 4: it was like, wow, that's not a huge amount of time, 137 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 4: So what are the things that we need to do 138 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 4: in order to make that happen. So I think the 139 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 4: challenge for us too was at the time, like I said, 140 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,840 Speaker 4: there wasn't a lot of information out there. There wasn't 141 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 4: a lot of information in general in terms of how 142 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 4: to pursue fire. And Aman and I also both came 143 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 4: from backgrounds where we didn't learn about investing or even 144 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 4: saving money, really making money extra money, how do you 145 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 4: go about doing that? So we didn't have that type 146 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 4: of background in terms of learning how to really deal 147 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 4: with our finances, So that was definitely a struggle. I mean, 148 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 4: I think part of it is really becoming comfortable in 149 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 4: how do you make these real estate transactions, how do 150 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 4: you make these stock market investments, and really becoming financially 151 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 4: literate and understanding how to try and grow our money. 152 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 4: So I think a lot of people when they're on 153 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 4: the fire journey, that can be a struggle because it 154 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 4: can seem sort of overwhelming. You have to make all 155 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 4: this money, and then you have to figure out how 156 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 4: do you grow your money because you can't just allow 157 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 4: it to sit in a savings account. It's not going 158 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 4: to happen. You're not going to get that type of 159 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 4: money to retire early. So those were some of the 160 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 4: challenges that I guess the biggest challenges that we had 161 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 4: when we were pursuing fire. 162 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 1: And you had so you're in your early thirties. You 163 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: have two girls at the time. 164 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 4: They're young, right, yes, so they were I think around 165 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 4: three and five. 166 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 3: I've probably Christine. 167 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: Why didn't you just completed law school? 168 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was. I actually started law school. 169 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 4: I went to law school at UCLA, and the girls 170 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 4: were down in LA with me, and Aman was actually 171 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 4: working at the time, but he was working in San Francisco, 172 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 4: and so he was coming back and forth every weekend. 173 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 4: I mean, I cannot even imagine, you know, I was 174 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 4: there with the girls at law school, but every single 175 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 4: weekend a mon was driving down or flying down from 176 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 4: San Francisco to LA to be with us and support us. 177 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 4: It's like he didn't even skip a beat. And so 178 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 4: for us, yeah, that was part of the journey, was 179 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 4: really trying to manage to get in like two separate households, 180 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 4: managing little kids on this journey of fire, and really 181 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 4: trying to make everything work because at the same time 182 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 4: we're supposed to be saving money and making money. 183 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, that was another challenge. 184 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: Your thirties are like that decade, and I'm right where 185 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: you guys were eight years ago. So I am listening 186 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: with these big old yes, tell me what to do, 187 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: because this is the time in your life where year 188 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: of responsibilities get bigger. You have the baby, you get 189 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 1: the house, maybe you get a dog, you get a 190 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: you know, you move to the burbs or whatnot, and 191 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: you start to I feel the pressure of it all, 192 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: you know, the pressure of providing for my child, creating stability. 193 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: And what I love about you guys is that you said, yeah, 194 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,959 Speaker 1: we have it. I'm sure you guys had a decent life, 195 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: I mean comfortable life. You both had great careers. Christina, 196 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: you went to law school. You also work for the 197 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 1: federal government, but you chose to like even aim higher 198 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: at the time you when you started to think about 199 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 1: retiring before forty, where were you at financially? Were you 200 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 1: just basic four when k investors? Had you guys already 201 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: bought your properties, Had you had experience in the real 202 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: estate or did y'all start from Okay, let's start getting 203 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: into real estate, because I know that was a cornerstone 204 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 1: of your investing strategy, right, Yeah, So you. 205 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: Know we were doing what most people well I don't 206 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 2: want to see most people. 207 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 3: We were. 208 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 2: We had the fundamentals in place, so we had an 209 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: emergency fund and we were putting away about ten to 210 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,600 Speaker 2: fifteen percent of our our income into our retirement accounts. 211 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 2: But a lot of the pressures that you talked about, 212 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 2: if we were to I guess get deeper into some 213 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 2: of those pressures, we would have failed victim to lifestyle creep. 214 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 2: And so what started to happen to us in our 215 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 2: thirties was that we had to make a serious shift. 216 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 2: And it was good that we had this shift, and 217 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 2: I had this moment at work when I did, because 218 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 2: we were at that point where we were going to 219 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 2: be starting to make more money. A lot of these 220 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 2: pressures we're going to start to pop up with the 221 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 2: kids and our with our friends, and you can really 222 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 2: fall victim to those things like getting a bigger house, 223 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:43,439 Speaker 2: like driving a nicer car. And so for us at 224 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 2: that moment, breaking loose of this of this consumer culture 225 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: and deciding to live in a smaller house, to drive 226 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:53,560 Speaker 2: an older car, and then take whatever extra money that 227 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 2: we started to make and instead prioritize that money into 228 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 2: our investments. It was definitely a crossroad for us, and 229 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 2: we can definitely attribute our success to making that shift. 230 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I love how you say, Mandy, that you 231 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 4: know you're sort of at the stage that we were 232 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:12,679 Speaker 4: eight years ago, right, Because when you're in your thirties, 233 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 4: you start to notice that you're. 234 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 3: Maybe potentially making more money. 235 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: Right. 236 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 4: You may have more responsibilities at your job, you may 237 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 4: be starting a family, you may be buying a house. 238 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 4: All of these things are sort of coming to fruition. 239 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 4: Things that you may have wanted in your twenties, you're 240 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 4: starting to get more and more of them in your thirties. 241 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 4: And so that is one of the big things I 242 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 4: think for people pursuing fire is really not getting attached 243 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 4: to or not falling down that whole of lifestyle creep. 244 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 4: As you start to get more money. It's not this 245 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 4: concept that, oh, you have more money so that you 246 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 4: can spend more money. It's this idea that when you're 247 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 4: making this more money, you were able to live off 248 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 4: of less money before. When you make more money, it 249 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 4: doesn't mean that you have to spend more money. The 250 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 4: idea idea is that you can save that money and 251 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,040 Speaker 4: then invest that money, and then that is starting to 252 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 4: grow during your fire journey. And you don't even have 253 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 4: to have the goal of retiring early. It could just 254 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 4: be that you want to be financially independent so that 255 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 4: when you get older, money is not going to be 256 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 4: an issue for you. You can do whatever type of 257 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,560 Speaker 4: job makes you happy, and you don't have to think, 258 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:21,319 Speaker 4: I can't have this job because I'm not going to 259 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 4: make enough money to. 260 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 3: You know, pay all the bills for my family and 261 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 3: things like that. So if you have this idea when 262 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 3: you're in the thirties. 263 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 4: Of not falling down that path of lifestyle creep, then 264 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 4: you're way ahead of the game in terms of where 265 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 4: other people are. 266 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 267 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: I just got to get my husband on board with that. 268 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 6: So there's an African proverb that my dad would say 269 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 6: that you cut your coat according to your size. You know, 270 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 6: that's so many people they're like, oh, I'm bigger, now 271 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 6: I need a bigger coat, or. 272 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 5: Like I'm or they you know what I mean. 273 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 6: You keep increasing and so it just you're keeping the 274 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,439 Speaker 6: pace of the increase, not realizing like do I really 275 00:12:56,480 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 6: need to continue to increase. I mean, I'm a cheapo, 276 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 6: so I was like living my cheapest life when I 277 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 6: was thirty. 278 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 5: So also I lost my job then. 279 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 6: But one thing I really want to know, because this 280 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 6: is something that I struggled with when I was in 281 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 6: my early thirties and I was starting my business, is like, 282 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 6: what do you do for insurance? Because honestly, back then 283 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 6: my insurance was yoga, water and prayer. 284 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 5: So what do you do for insurance? What do you 285 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 5: do for insurance? 286 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 3: Was it in that order? Tiffany? First, I think you 287 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 3: know that is one of the big things too. 288 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 4: You know, when you are accumulating more things, you have 289 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 4: to understand that you need insurance in place to protect 290 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 4: those things. 291 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 3: You know that you do not want. 292 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 4: To be in a worst case scenario where something happens 293 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 4: and you're not insurance. It could be your house, it 294 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 4: could be health insurance. It could be car insurance, it 295 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 4: could be any of these. You know, for you, Tiffany, 296 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 4: if you're starting a business having business insurance when you 297 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 4: were in your thirties. 298 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 3: But the idea is that insurance is. 299 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 4: Supposed to prevent you from losing all of your assets, 300 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 4: because how terrible would it be while you're gaining more money, 301 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 4: you have more assets, and something happens and you're not 302 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 4: properly insured and then you can lose everything. Like right 303 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 4: before we fired a Mond, we were in the States 304 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 4: and a mon got just this horrible, horrible food poisoning. 305 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 4: And I'm not just saying like he was throwing up, 306 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 4: he didn't feel well. He was hospitalized for a week. 307 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 2: It was it was awful. 308 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 3: It was really bad. 309 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't even want to go to how 310 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 4: bad it was. But it was worst case scenario. And 311 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 4: thank god we were insured because the hospital bill was insane. 312 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 4: It was an insane amount of money, and then we 313 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 4: still had to pay our portion of it. But if 314 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 4: we had not been insured, and this was right before 315 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,440 Speaker 4: we were firing too, if we would not have been insured, 316 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 4: there would have been a huge impact on our wealth. 317 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 4: And so I think, you know, a lot of people 318 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 4: when they're younger, they want to hope for the best. 319 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 4: They think they're healthy. You know, they don't need to 320 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 4: be insured because nothing's going to happen. But even here, 321 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 4: COVID is a great example of things that can happen 322 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 4: that are unpredictable, and so you have to make sure 323 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 4: you're properly insured. 324 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 5: We have. 325 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 1: We mentioned the fact that y'all live in Portugal, yet 326 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: can we just reiterate that a y'all didn't just quit 327 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: your jobs and you know, kick back in the US. 328 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: You were like, no, let's take on a whole new country, Portugal. 329 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 1: Talk to me about especially when it comes to healthcare. 330 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: I've watched this video already on your YouTube channel. I've 331 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: watched them all, so I'm just trying to pretend like 332 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: I haven't been stocking y'all for the past three weeks. 333 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: But anyway, talk about the cost of health care in 334 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 1: Portugal and do you think that you could like, was 335 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: Portugal the key element of why you were able to 336 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: retire early because of the lower cost of living? I 337 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: don't even know if there is a lower cost of living, 338 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: But do you think you would have been able to 339 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: retire early in the US or do you decide to 340 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: go out of the country for those financial reasons? And yeah, 341 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: to Tiffany's question about health care costs, how are you 342 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 1: covering your healthcare while in Lisbon? 343 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'll go back to kind of when we 344 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 2: were first calculating our financial independence number, we based it 345 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 2: off of the location that we planned on retiring in. 346 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 2: And when we did that calculation, we had identified a 347 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 2: couple of different numbers based off of different areas in 348 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: the world that we were interested in, but we had 349 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 2: one big number that was based off of retiring in 350 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 2: the San Francisco Bay Area because that's our hometown and 351 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 2: we know that our children may eventually want to go 352 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 2: back to the US, and so we wanted to base 353 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 2: our number off of the highest number, and as a 354 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 2: part of that number definitely included healthcare. And I remember 355 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 2: looking at healthcare plans, and that's one of the things 356 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 2: that I think holds people back from leaving their jobs, 357 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 2: especially government employees, is the good healthcare. And so for us, 358 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 2: we had to break from those golden handcuffs by including 359 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 2: the cost of healthcare in the US and our fire number. 360 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 2: And so we you know, we did that. But while 361 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 2: we were on our journey, we stayed the course, even 362 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 2: though we could have left a lot earlier and moved 363 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 2: to a lower cost of living area. We met our 364 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 2: San Francisco Bay Area number, but in the end, we 365 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 2: chose we chose Lisbon, and it has been a pleasant 366 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 2: surprise as far as the cost of healthcare because for 367 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 2: our family of four, our health care is less than 368 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 2: two thousand dollars a year. 369 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 3: A year, yes, isn't that crazy? 370 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 2: In California it would have been a month, right, like a. 371 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: You know families. 372 00:17:36,119 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, let me tell you this though. It's like 373 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 4: we have been to the hospitals here already too. It's 374 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 4: like we've gone for the girls have asthma, so they've 375 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 4: had the minor asthma things that we have to go 376 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 4: get treated at the hospital. We've even had dental work. 377 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 4: Actually a mon was at the dentist earlier. Today Sanoa 378 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 4: has braces. 379 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 2: But I might get me some braces just because. 380 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,160 Speaker 4: But you know, we have had such an incredible experience 381 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 4: with the healthcare here. 382 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 3: I mean there's nothing. We don't have any language barriers. 383 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 4: When we go to speak to the doctors, to the nurses, 384 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 4: to the staff, everything is so smooth and we just 385 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 4: show them our card and sometimes we have a very 386 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 4: small copay and other times it's like, oh, we don't 387 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 4: have anything at all. Just you walk in and you 388 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 4: walk out. It is so simple. 389 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 6: Yes, wow, Like my husband works for the Mandy your 390 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,640 Speaker 6: husband works for the city, right, and so does mine 391 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 6: and that. 392 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: Insurance for the federal government. Yeah. 393 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 6: So, and my husband works for the state. Well, he 394 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 6: works for the city, but his pension and everything is 395 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 6: through his state. And that's been the thing that's been 396 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:47,360 Speaker 6: like holding like a pension necessarily us because yes, well 397 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 6: it's not the pension honestly, because I could get like, 398 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 6: you know, we make more than enough that I'm not 399 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 6: worried about that the pension payout. It's more so his 400 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 6: insurance is so amazing, especially in the United States, especially 401 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 6: in the East Coast, because I live in Jersey and 402 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 6: it's like, eh, he would love to leave any day now, 403 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 6: but he's got about five more years. And it's like 404 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 6: the cost of health insurance the United States, it's so 405 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 6: much so that it's like, bruh, when. 406 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:13,399 Speaker 5: Need to take that with us? Because you could take 407 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 5: it with you. So I totally get it. 408 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 6: And yeah, but you know, I don't I wouldn't mind 409 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,440 Speaker 6: moving to Portugal, but I know he wouldn't want to 410 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 6: do that. 411 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 4: But yeah, I know so many people have seen our 412 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 4: channel and we have videos on Portugal now and everyone's like, 413 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 4: I never. 414 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 3: Even thought about Portugal. 415 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 4: Now Portugal is at the top of my list and 416 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,639 Speaker 4: we're like man, Portugal is amazing. It's like this hidden 417 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 4: secret and it's not so hidden anymore. I think more 418 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,879 Speaker 4: and more people are finding out about it. But just 419 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 4: I mean the healthcare alone is something to think about 420 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 4: because just moving here and having the lifestyle or the 421 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 4: pace that they have here in Portugal, it's just amazing. 422 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 1: Well, talk to me about the key for me is 423 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: I mean healthcare. And it's fascinating to hear what you 424 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 1: guys are spending on healthcare and Portugal versus the US. 425 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 1: But let's go back again to the early days. What 426 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,199 Speaker 1: were some of the and so when you described how 427 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,360 Speaker 1: y'all were saving back then, I think that really resonates 428 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,880 Speaker 1: with me because that's what I had been doing since 429 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: in my early twenties, saving that ten to fifteen percent 430 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 1: and my four oh one K and feeling very smart 431 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 1: about it. But what was the first step y'all took 432 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 1: to ratchet up your investments? How did you start investing? 433 00:20:22,119 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: Did you just max out your four one ks? When 434 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 1: you max them out? Where did you go from there? 435 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 1: Can you walk us through like laddering up your investments 436 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: and build and really what it took to build and 437 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: grow your wealth in your thirties. 438 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 2: Oh certainly. So you know, it started with having our 439 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: fire number in place, and then so with that number, 440 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 2: we were able to kind of figure out what we 441 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 2: needed to get to as far as a savings rate 442 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 2: in order to retire in ten years based off of 443 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,679 Speaker 2: the returns in the market or our returns in real estate. 444 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,479 Speaker 2: So with that number in mind, we just tried to 445 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,400 Speaker 2: get our safe rate up, and I'll say that our 446 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 2: savings rate by the end was as high as seventy percent. 447 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 2: So we went from saving ten to fifteen all the 448 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 2: way up to seventy percent. But we didn't do it overnight. 449 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 2: We just got one percent better as much as we 450 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 2: could and as soon as we could. So, you know, 451 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 2: if we just were able to lower our bills and 452 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 2: increase our salary, and then that gap grew our savings rate. 453 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 2: And so with that additional money that we were saving 454 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 2: and making, we were prioritizing our investments. And we have 455 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 2: something called a pay yourself first budget, but it's really 456 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 2: heavy on paying yourself into your investment accounts. And so 457 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 2: we started with our tax advantage accounts first and putting 458 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,199 Speaker 2: as much money into those accounts because those are the 459 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 2: real accounts that you can really see wealth growth in 460 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 2: because of all the tax incentives and tax advantages, and 461 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 2: so that was a big priority was maxing out our 462 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 2: tax advantage counts. 463 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,639 Speaker 1: Now you're talking about your four oh one KR. I 464 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 1: know you guys use an HSA, what have tax advantaged accounts? 465 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 2: So we talk about the basically the four accounts that 466 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 2: we call the four pillars of fire. For us was 467 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 2: the four oh one K, the HSA, and the roth IRA. 468 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 2: So maxing those out at a minimum was really big 469 00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: for us. And then after that we moved to basically 470 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 2: a regular brokerage account, so just investing in Vanguard and 471 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 2: investing in low cost ETFs and index funds at the 472 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,360 Speaker 2: same time that we were also investing in the stock market. 473 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 2: We had read all of these books on real estate 474 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 2: investing and really type people to read something and then 475 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:48,919 Speaker 2: to take action with it. So we had gotten all 476 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,239 Speaker 2: the real estate concepts down as much as we were 477 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 2: going to get them down, and then we went to work. 478 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 2: So we took an FHA loan and we bought our 479 00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 2: first house in the San Fransco b area with three 480 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 2: percent down and it was it was it was a 481 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,159 Speaker 2: fixer upper, and we did something called a live and 482 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 2: flip where we lived in the house, fixed it up, 483 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 2: got equity in that home, and then use that equity 484 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:12,400 Speaker 2: to buy other properties and with an FHA loan. That's 485 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 2: the that's the best way for someone to get started 486 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 2: in real estate is doing something like a live and 487 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 2: flip because after you've lived in that home for three years, 488 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 2: you can sell that home and keep one hundred percent 489 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,159 Speaker 2: of your profits up to a certain amount depending on 490 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 2: if you're married or single. And so that was that 491 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 2: was a big game changer for us as well. 492 00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 4: So I think, really, you know, there's there's different ways 493 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 4: that you can reach financial independence or financial independence and 494 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 4: retire early. 495 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 3: So you could do it through investing in the stock market. 496 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 4: So in the stock market, you know, if that is 497 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 4: someone's plan, then they absolutely want to make sure that 498 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 4: they're maxing out their tax advantage accounts first, because then 499 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 4: you're protecting more of your money from it being taken 500 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,199 Speaker 4: away by taxes, and by protecting it more, then you 501 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,640 Speaker 4: can allow it to grow more. So the idea though 502 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 4: is that you have to max out that account, but 503 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 4: you have to go beyond that. So once you max 504 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 4: out your tax advantage accounts, then the idea is that 505 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 4: you open up a traditional brokerage account and you start 506 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 4: throwing money that there as well. So there's one way 507 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 4: to reach financial independence. But then the other way is 508 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 4: also through real estate. If you want to start investing 509 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 4: in real estate and putting money into different real estate 510 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 4: real estate properties and creating rentals and creating rental income, 511 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 4: that is another way. Or you can just invest in 512 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 4: real estate and do like what a mon said is 513 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 4: basically flipping the properties and then eventually selling them and 514 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 4: taking the profit from that. Or you can do a 515 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 4: combination of real estate and investing in the stock market. 516 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 4: But it all comes down really to these fundamental pieces. 517 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 4: When you're pursuing fire, is that the idea is that 518 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 4: somehow you have to find ways to try and make 519 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,880 Speaker 4: more money. And it can be through getting a more 520 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 4: money through your salary, or it can be doing different 521 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 4: side hustles, but then it's saving more money and then 522 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 4: it's focusing on that investment piece as well. 523 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: Y'all side hustles. Literally, I get so many giggles out 524 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 1: of hearing about how you guys found creative ways to 525 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:10,920 Speaker 1: build wealth. First of all, I'm like, where do you 526 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 1: get the energy with two bait like two little girls, 527 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,840 Speaker 1: and y'all are like what building furniture out of wine 528 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: crates and digging through ikeias reduced like returns bins and 529 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 1: like selling flipping furniture online. Talk about how y'all brought 530 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 1: in extra money and like what was the most meaningful 531 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 1: source of extra income y'all created? 532 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 2: You know, we always talk about this because looking back 533 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,639 Speaker 2: on it, we laugh about some of the things that 534 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,680 Speaker 2: we did. But for us, it's weird. When you're on 535 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 2: this journey, it's like your mind like produces income out 536 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 2: out of nowhere. There's literally money in the streets and 537 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: you just have to go pick it up. So, actually, 538 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 2: someone sent us a message today because one of our 539 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 2: side hustles was we had Christina was writing tooth fairy 540 00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,280 Speaker 2: letters on Etsy did an Etsy store. 541 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: And it was my favorite. 542 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 2: It was like it was it was so funny and 543 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 2: when she when she came up with this idea, I 544 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,640 Speaker 2: was like, people really people really buying letters like that, 545 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 2: they're families that do that. 546 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 547 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 4: But but someone actually reached out to reached out to 548 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 4: us today, which is so funny, asking us about, you know, 549 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 4: the details of it, how do you do it? How 550 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,120 Speaker 4: are you sending it out? Are you sending it out 551 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,199 Speaker 4: already pre packaged? Do you send it out to the 552 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 4: parent or to the child? So it was so interesting 553 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 4: because you know, people are interested in finding these new 554 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 4: ways to make money, and so I just thought, you know, 555 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,120 Speaker 4: this is a creative thing. But like you said, we 556 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 4: we uh, we're not too shy to go dumpster diving. 557 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,720 Speaker 4: We did that at one point, and I'll tell you 558 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 4: the specific specifics of that. We were driving around in Oakland, 559 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,679 Speaker 4: which is in the San Francisco Bay area, and we 560 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 4: drove past this huge dumpster and it had all of 561 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 4: these I don't guess, not brand new wine crates, but 562 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 4: it had all of these wine crates in them, and 563 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:56,240 Speaker 4: they were so beautiful. 564 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 3: It's like these wine boxes. 565 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 4: Yes, And there was a liquor store that had dumped 566 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 4: them all out into this garb, into this dumpster getting 567 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 4: rid of them. And we went into the to the 568 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 4: liquor store and we said, are you dumping these? Are 569 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:10,120 Speaker 4: you you don't want these? 570 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 3: Can we have them? And so they said yes. 571 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 4: So we filled up our car with so many wine 572 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 4: boxes and then we took them home. In our garage 573 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 4: was just piled full of wine boxes and we ended 574 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 4: up selling those. We got them for free, and we 575 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,679 Speaker 4: ended up selling them on like Facebook and Craigslist, and 576 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 4: people were just it was so easy to sell because 577 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 4: people thought they were really beautiful wine boxes and they 578 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 4: couldn't find them anywhere, and people were willing to pay 579 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 4: us for that. 580 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 5: Yeah. 581 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,160 Speaker 1: I was like a bougie, broke hipster ten years ago 582 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 1: living in Queens with my boyfriend at the time, my husband. Now, 583 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: we were the dumb dumbs. Not the dumb dumbs. We 584 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: were the ones buying wine, trying to find wine crates 585 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,399 Speaker 1: on Craigslist and begging liquor stores to give them to us. 586 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 1: Y'all stumbled upon a little jackpot right there. I was like, oh, 587 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:54,199 Speaker 1: I would love that. 588 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, we did that. 589 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:57,959 Speaker 4: I mean we also, like Aman said, we had flipped 590 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,520 Speaker 4: our properties. So one of the things we found at Ikea, 591 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 4: which is I feel like Ikea is everywhere. I mean 592 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,160 Speaker 4: there's even an Ikea. There's like five Ikeas in Portugal here, 593 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 4: but in Ikea they have this as is section. So 594 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 4: that was another one of our side hustles. We discovered this. 595 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 4: I'm not saying like we're the only ones who've discovered it. 596 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 4: But we discovered that you can buy these items in 597 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,360 Speaker 4: the as is section and they're anywhere. 598 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 3: I mean, you can get things for ninety percent off, yes, 599 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 3: up to ninety percent off, or. 600 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 4: If they're you know, if they're no longer having a 601 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 4: certain product, like an entire fridge or entire kitchen display, 602 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 4: you can get for up to ninety percent off. So 603 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 4: we started buying these really nice items in Ikea and 604 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:42,479 Speaker 4: reselling those all set. 605 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 2: Yes, but we had a niche. How our niche was kitchen. 606 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 2: It was basically like kitchen construction material, so the cabinets, 607 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 2: the countertops, refrigerators, hoods, all of these different things. When 608 00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 2: Ikea changes out its kitchens in the showroom, they would 609 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 2: put their entire kitchen down into the as is section 610 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 2: and we'd be waiting for it, pick it right up. 611 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 2: It was ninety percent off and you can resell this 612 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 2: stuff and make a lot of money. Were my kids 613 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 2: hate Ikea now because I was taking them in there 614 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 2: all the time. And this is a side thing, but 615 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,120 Speaker 2: every Wednesday, kids eat free at Ikea, so we were 616 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 2: there every Wednesday. 617 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: They're probably sick of those meatballs, but I know I 618 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: lived up that furnished my whole first apartment was the 619 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:27,960 Speaker 1: Ikea as a section. 620 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 6: I was like, oh no, we will have cute things, 621 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 6: but cute things on a budget. 622 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,320 Speaker 1: So I feel, you I never thought about this. I 623 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: am a victim of lifestyle creep. I'll fess up to it. 624 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 1: We bought our house and it was West Elm all 625 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: the way y'all, And I feel foolish, but it's true. 626 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: We did West Elm and like Creighton Barrel, you want 627 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 1: to have nice stuff. And I always considered myself to 628 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 1: be you know, I mean, I've been doing personal finance 629 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 1: for over a decade and you know, I know better. 630 00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 1: But the allure of just being comfortable and having nice things, 631 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,440 Speaker 1: especially for Pea people who you know, for me personally, 632 00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 1: coming from family, we weren't like super poor, but we 633 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: didn't have like really nice stuff. And you know, you 634 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 1: want to, you want to like enjoy the fruits of 635 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 1: your your hard work, and that felt like a way 636 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:17,680 Speaker 1: of acknowledging the hard work and about you know, investing 637 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 1: in our own comfort. But I'm a little surprised, you know, 638 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: two years out from that renovation, where I'm thinking, you know, 639 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,560 Speaker 1: was that the best way to celebrate our you know, 640 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: our success, like giving another company all this money, you know, 641 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: like there's probably other ways. So I'm I'm thinking so 642 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,320 Speaker 1: much about some of the choices I've made and how 643 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: emotions play into that, you know, especially as you're starting 644 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: to build and build a family and earn more in 645 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 1: your thirties. 646 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 4: Like y'all said, yeah, I know, I think definitely there's 647 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 4: this idea that and Aman and I talk about it 648 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 4: a lot. Actually, it's like you can make short term 649 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 4: sacrifices for long term gains. 650 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 3: And that's really how we thought about it. 651 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 4: When we're thinking about or even if you're thinking about 652 00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:02,560 Speaker 4: how much it. 653 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 3: Costs to do X, Y or z. 654 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 4: Converting that into hours of work, right, it's like, would 655 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 4: you put that many hours of work so that you 656 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 4: could have this or so that you could do something 657 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 4: or do that. And so that's an interesting way to 658 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 4: start to think about it. But also realizing, you know, 659 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,200 Speaker 4: what is in your future, what do you look for, 660 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,520 Speaker 4: what do you look forward to the most in the future, 661 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 4: and really thinking about it at that way, thinking that 662 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,760 Speaker 4: you know, if I if I maybe don't spend my 663 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 4: money in this area, or if I cut back in 664 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 4: this area, it may be a little hard initially, but 665 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 4: if you're looking at the long term results, what you 666 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 4: can get in return for maybe not buying the big 667 00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 4: TV or the new car or something like that, then 668 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 4: you can start really pursuing fire in a meaningful way 669 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 4: where you're really focused on cutting out expenses, not buying 670 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 4: big expenses, and really trying to make more in funnel 671 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 4: it towards your investments. 672 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 1: Y'all didn't just focus on cutting cutting cutting it expenses. 673 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 1: Y'all still took time and you invested in experiences that 674 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: meant a lot to y'all. Could you talk about how 675 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 1: you balanced experiences and things that you would continue to 676 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 1: splurge on and then balance that with your mission to 677 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: save as much as you could. 678 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say one of our biggest expenses in 679 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 4: terms of what we cut that we really wanted to 680 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 4: do that we're able to figure it out was traveling. 681 00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 4: Like we lived in Spain, we lived in Japan, we 682 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 4: now live in Portugal. 683 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 3: We traveled to Hawaii a lot. Among's brother lives in Hawaii, so. 684 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 4: We were definitely a huge travel family and that was 685 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 4: very important to us and we really didn't want to 686 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,520 Speaker 4: give that up. But it can be expensive for a 687 00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:45,719 Speaker 4: family of four traveling abroad all the time or Hawaii. 688 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 3: And making these trips. 689 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 4: And so we figured out travel hacking where we would 690 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 4: take out credit cards and we would use the bonus 691 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 4: points for the credit cards by taking them out, and 692 00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 4: we would use them for hotel stays and for airfare, 693 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 4: and we were able to start traveling for free. Now 694 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 4: I would say though that this this travel hacking concept 695 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 4: is absolutely not for everyone. I mean, you have to 696 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 4: understand how credit works. You have to start off with 697 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,880 Speaker 4: good credit and maintain good credit, and don't go in 698 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 4: this rabbit hole where you're just trying to spend money 699 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,959 Speaker 4: on your credit card so that you can get the points. 700 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 4: It doesn't work like that. There's a it's a bit 701 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 4: more nuanced than that. So it's not for everyone, but 702 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 4: for us. For Aman and I, we had excellent credit. 703 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 4: We never had any debt on our credit cards. We 704 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,960 Speaker 4: always paid our credit card off in full every single month, 705 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 4: and so by figuring out travel hacking, we were able 706 00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 4: to continue to travel the world and still enjoy all 707 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 4: of the different things we could by traveling, but we 708 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 4: got to do it for free. 709 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, tip and I love to talk about what 710 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 1: how to not you know, fall into that, to that 711 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 1: black hole of credit card spending just to get some points. 712 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 5: Yeah. 713 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:59,280 Speaker 6: Absolutely, So the struggle that I have is not it's 714 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,959 Speaker 6: not the living for got that you know. And so 715 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 6: but did you ever feel like are we over sacrificing 716 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 6: because that is something that I struggle with that I 717 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:14,799 Speaker 6: sometimes struggle with the enjoying on the other side. And 718 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 6: so do you ever feel like, you know, you were 719 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:20,359 Speaker 6: over sacrificing And if so, how did you manage that 720 00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 6: or if not, how did you avoid that? 721 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 5: Yeah? 722 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 4: I think that for us, we didn't feel like we 723 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 4: were over sacrificing because we built in things on our 724 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 4: journey so that we could enjoy things. So, like I said, 725 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,880 Speaker 4: we did traveling. We traveled quite a lot, and we 726 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 4: also this is something that we didn't save any money on, 727 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 4: but we still did it. We're from the We're from Oakland, 728 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 4: like I said, and we went to a lot of 729 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,839 Speaker 4: warrior games and we didn't get the nosebleed seats. We 730 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 4: were sitting you know, I wouldn't say on the floor, 731 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,359 Speaker 4: but maybe five rows back off of the floor. So 732 00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:52,840 Speaker 4: that was one of the expenses that we splurged on 733 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,800 Speaker 4: when we were in Oakland. But I like to tell 734 00:34:55,840 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 4: people a lot that you should you should enjoy the journey. 735 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:05,279 Speaker 4: You should enjoy your journey towards fire, because sometimes it's 736 00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 4: not all just about that destination of being able to retire. 737 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,240 Speaker 4: Right If you're miserable on your journey, you're not spending 738 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:17,319 Speaker 4: a single time doing anything. You are are you know, 739 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 4: not going out with your friends, or you're not doing 740 00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 4: anything with anyone your family members. It's a miserable journey 741 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,480 Speaker 4: and it's not sustainable. So you have to you have 742 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 4: to figure out what the right balance is for you. 743 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 3: So we're not I wouldn't. 744 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 4: Encourage everyone to just you know, count every single penny 745 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:39,120 Speaker 4: and live in a way where they're just not able 746 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,320 Speaker 4: to enjoy anything. 747 00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think this is a this is a 748 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,840 Speaker 2: misconception about the Fire movement, is that the people that 749 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,840 Speaker 2: are on this journey are eating beans and sacrifice and 750 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 2: they don't have cable or Netflix, you know, they don't 751 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,839 Speaker 2: go anywhere. That's that's absolutely not true. To do this, 752 00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 2: you have to just find creative ways to enjoy joy 753 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 2: yourself and you have to figure out a way to 754 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 2: make more money. That's the other side of the equation. 755 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 1: Preach on it. 756 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:10,160 Speaker 2: Say it again that I wish the Fire movement talk 757 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 2: more about is you have to get out there and 758 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 2: if you're in your thirties, twenties, if you're forties, fifties, 759 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 2: you have to get on the grind like pop would. 760 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,839 Speaker 2: People would say to us, how do you how are 761 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 2: you able to do this with kids? You're in law school. 762 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,359 Speaker 2: It's like, we don't know anything else but this. So 763 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 2: we didn't set a low bar. We set a high 764 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 2: bar and that's all we knew. So for us, we 765 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:37,839 Speaker 2: don't define, you know, our journey in any particular way. 766 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 2: It's just it is what it is. That's why we 767 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:44,520 Speaker 2: called our YouTube channel our Rich Journey, because this is 768 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,879 Speaker 2: this is how we live our life. When people find 769 00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: out what our budget is here in Portugal, we live 770 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:52,400 Speaker 2: pretty luxuriously. 771 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 6: You know. 772 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 2: We spend four thousand dollars a month here in Portugal. 773 00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,399 Speaker 2: And you know, for some people they say, oh my god, 774 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 2: that's too much, or some people say, oh that's not enough. 775 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 2: But it's relative and I think anyone that's on this 776 00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,920 Speaker 2: journey they have to figure out a way to do 777 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:13,080 Speaker 2: it relatively well so that they enjoy themselves. Someone reached 778 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,600 Speaker 2: out to me today and they said, you know, we're 779 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 2: on this journey and we're wondering whether or not we 780 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 2: should start to cut some of the activities for our children. 781 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:27,280 Speaker 2: And I immediately thought, no, why would you. No, don't 782 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 2: do that. Don't sacrifice your child's childhood. You know, for 783 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 2: this journey, figure out different ways to approach the problem, 784 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:38,800 Speaker 2: you know. So that's what we did on our journey. 785 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 2: We would encounter a problem like childcare, like travel, like 786 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 2: owning a home, and we would just figure out a 787 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,400 Speaker 2: way to get through the challenge or over or around it. 788 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 2: But we never we never let it stop us. 789 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, your girls were in basketball, you said 790 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 1: they'd do swimming, like you've never You've always encouraged those hobbies. 791 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,280 Speaker 1: I mean, now they're YouTube stars, so can they're too happy. 792 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 1: But before we let y'all go, we have I really 793 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,719 Speaker 1: want to talk to y'all about your investing philosophy and 794 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 1: how you are weathering because your investments are mostly still 795 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: in the US, right, yes, so talk to us about 796 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 1: because I know people listening right now. I mean, let's 797 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,759 Speaker 1: not let's let's not mince words here, like we are 798 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,840 Speaker 1: we're the US is being crippled by this current pandemic 799 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 1: and economic crisis. I mean, we have what tens of 800 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 1: millions of Americans out of work. My own father was 801 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 1: has is still laid off. Congress can't get their act 802 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,840 Speaker 1: together with these stimulus checks and federal uh you know, 803 00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:36,640 Speaker 1: unemployment benefits are are in limbo right now. So there's 804 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 1: people out there who are truly, truly hurting, and even 805 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,400 Speaker 1: infant people who have been doing it quote unquote the 806 00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,360 Speaker 1: right way and investing in their four one k have 807 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,799 Speaker 1: seen their four one ks you know, take dips this year. 808 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,120 Speaker 1: So y'all y'all have retired. What what do you say 809 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 1: to people who are feeling like, oh shit, like is 810 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: this the right time to be putting money in the market, 811 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 1: and how like, how can we trust that things will 812 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,200 Speaker 1: work out? Talk to us about your approach to investing 813 00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,840 Speaker 1: right now in this moment, you know, how you're weathering 814 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,359 Speaker 1: what's happening in the US, even though you're in Portugal now. 815 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,920 Speaker 1: And what do you say to people who are feeling 816 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 1: a little gunshy about getting into the market now? 817 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you know, that's a great question. And I 818 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 2: always tell people this, don't invest money that you that 819 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,320 Speaker 2: you need to live off of. Every day. So before 820 00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,839 Speaker 2: you even buy your first investment, you should have the 821 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 2: fundamentals in place. You should have your credit paid down 822 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 2: and emergency fund in place, and then you can start 823 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 2: investing in the stock market. Because when you invest in 824 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 2: the stock market, you shouldn't need that money in the 825 00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 2: next five to ten years. This is this is long 826 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 2: term money. You shouldn't want this money for decades. So 827 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:51,080 Speaker 2: what's happening right now? It is. It is completely awful, 828 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,320 Speaker 2: you know, but if you have a plan in place, 829 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 2: this should not distract you. If it's not taking away 830 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,360 Speaker 2: from your income, if you still have your come and 831 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,840 Speaker 2: you still have the ability to invest, you should be 832 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,399 Speaker 2: investing that money. Don't get don't get consumed by what's 833 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 2: going on in the world. Yes you should should. You 834 00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 2: should definitely be involved in it socially and politically. But 835 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:18,320 Speaker 2: if you have your investments on cruise control, then money 836 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 2: should be the least of your worries right now. You 837 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 2: should just let that money ride. So I always say that, 838 00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:25,439 Speaker 2: you know, once you have those fundamental things in place 839 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 2: and you have your investments on cruise control, then you 840 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 2: can focus on everyday life. 841 00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I would also say, you know, when when 842 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 4: you think about the stock market, it seems so backwards 843 00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,680 Speaker 4: because when the stock market plummets, a lot of people 844 00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:46,000 Speaker 4: are pulling their investments out because they're afraid that they're 845 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,840 Speaker 4: going to lose all of their money. 846 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 3: So it's like, let me get let me get my 847 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:50,560 Speaker 3: investments out. 848 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,640 Speaker 4: I'm going to take the loss, but it's better than 849 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:54,759 Speaker 4: not having any money at all. 850 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 3: And then then the. 851 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 4: Stock market ultimately goes back up, and then if they 852 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 4: would have just if their money in, they would have 853 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,400 Speaker 4: been better off in the long run. It's almost like 854 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 4: you sort of have to go against the herd mentality 855 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,759 Speaker 4: when it comes to the stock market, because once you 856 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,800 Speaker 4: learn more about the stock market and understand the history 857 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:17,839 Speaker 4: of the stock market, and this is not to stay 858 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:20,319 Speaker 4: that the history of the stock market will predict the 859 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 4: future of the stock market, but historically, since forever, the 860 00:41:24,719 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 4: stock market has always ultimately gone up. 861 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 3: And so when people are. 862 00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,359 Speaker 4: Thinking, I don't know if I should invest right now 863 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 4: because the stock market just dropped something like that, or 864 00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,280 Speaker 4: maybe I should pull my money out because I'm losing 865 00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 4: money and I don't want to lose it all, the 866 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 4: idea should really be if the stock market has historically 867 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:47,399 Speaker 4: always gone up. Then when the stock market goes down 868 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 4: is an excellent time to invest. Is an excellent time 869 00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,920 Speaker 4: if you have any money, to throw your money into 870 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 4: the stock market when it's down, because when it ultimately 871 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 4: goes up, then you are Then you're making money and 872 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:03,440 Speaker 4: you're getting a return on that. 873 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:04,120 Speaker 3: And the same thing. 874 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 4: If your money is in there and you keep it 875 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,520 Speaker 4: in there rather than sell it and it ultimately goes up, 876 00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:10,959 Speaker 4: then your stock market, your portfolio is worth more. 877 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,359 Speaker 2: But I think, Mandy, you want to know what we're 878 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:17,800 Speaker 2: doing right. You want to know how we're weathering this storm, 879 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 2: and I think I think a lot of people have 880 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 2: that question. But when we first started our plan, we 881 00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:33,759 Speaker 2: devised a plan that involved front loading our investments into 882 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,920 Speaker 2: very aggressive index funds, so technology and total stock market 883 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,400 Speaker 2: index funds. And then as we got towards the latter 884 00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,279 Speaker 2: half of our journey, we started to build up what's 885 00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,319 Speaker 2: called the stock market Emergency Fund for dips like this 886 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:52,359 Speaker 2: that was over two years worth of living expenses in 887 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 2: case the stock market were to drop and we would 888 00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,880 Speaker 2: have to make that switch from not pulling from the 889 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,960 Speaker 2: stock market, because you don't want to pull from the 890 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 2: stock market when to drop and instead pull from our 891 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 2: stock market emergency fund. And so when March hit and 892 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 2: the stock market crashed, we thought, okay, are we going 893 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 2: to have to make that switch? But two three months later, 894 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 2: the stock market has fully recovered. So this is this 895 00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 2: is the the I mean, this is the thing about investing. 896 00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:25,400 Speaker 2: When you have a plan in place, you already know 897 00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 2: what to do before it happens. But what we've found 898 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 2: is that we haven't had to even rely on some 899 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 2: of those contingencies because the stock market has always recovered. 900 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:42,319 Speaker 2: And I always say this on our YouTube channel. You know, 901 00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 2: the stock market's going to go up and down, but 902 00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,320 Speaker 2: in the end, it's going to go up. It always has. 903 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,160 Speaker 4: And I will say also, you know, just to piggyback 904 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,399 Speaker 4: off of what Aman said. With that crash in March 905 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,840 Speaker 4: twenty March twenty twenty, there were a lot of people 906 00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,080 Speaker 4: at that time they were selling out their portfolios because 907 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:00,600 Speaker 4: they didn't want to take any. 908 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:01,320 Speaker 3: More of a loss. 909 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:05,359 Speaker 4: And on our channel, we actually created a new portfolio, 910 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 4: just sort of a very many portfolio to show people listen, 911 00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:13,200 Speaker 4: if you invest now, it's a good it's a good thing. 912 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 4: You can start growing your money by investing now. It 913 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:18,880 Speaker 4: doesn't matter that there was a huge crash. You can 914 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:22,359 Speaker 4: start investing now. And so many people were like, why 915 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:24,439 Speaker 4: would you invest now, it's a crash, it's the worst 916 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 4: time to invest, and we're like, no, that's the very 917 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,840 Speaker 4: opposite of how you should be thinking. You know, you 918 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 4: should continuously be investing whether it's a good whether the 919 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:34,800 Speaker 4: market's doing well or whether it's doing bad. You should 920 00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,560 Speaker 4: just be dollar cost averaging into the market. But when 921 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:41,000 Speaker 4: the market is doing bad, it is an excellent opportunity 922 00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:43,479 Speaker 4: to grow your wealth. And so that's what we're really 923 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 4: demonstrating with this portfolio to our followers is like, listen, 924 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 4: when people are running and trying to cash out their 925 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 4: portfolios when there's a big crash, don't do that. Do 926 00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 4: the opposite. Do the opposite and start building your wealth. 927 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,759 Speaker 1: I think y'all really illustrate beautifully the power the mindset 928 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,560 Speaker 1: when it comes to building wealth. Like you've got to 929 00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,360 Speaker 1: really you've got to look at your emotions, as my 930 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 1: lovely therapist always says, look at the thought or the 931 00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 1: feeling and just acknowledge that it exists and then just 932 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:15,879 Speaker 1: attack it with reason and logic. And I love that, y'all. 933 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 1: I've been following that series at y'all where you share 934 00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,360 Speaker 1: your portfolio and how you invest at the bomb of 935 00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,239 Speaker 1: the market or at least you know, you never know 936 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 1: when it's the bottom, but how you guys invested in 937 00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,360 Speaker 1: the spring and I and I love that lesson. I 938 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 1: just think people have to be ready for it and 939 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:30,400 Speaker 1: really want to. I want to home in on the 940 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 1: point that y'all made too about that emergency fund. And 941 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 1: just to be clear, when you say it's a stock 942 00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 1: market emergency fund, you don't have the money in the 943 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,680 Speaker 1: stock market. It's your emergency fund, so that you don't 944 00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:43,399 Speaker 1: touch your money, yes, just cash right regular ole. Yeah, 945 00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 1: So that's key because you know, people think that like 946 00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:48,759 Speaker 1: if you're if you're worried about losing everything when a 947 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 1: market goes down, that you're probably not investing money that 948 00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: you're willing to put away for the long term, like 949 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 1: your money that you want to hold with your money 950 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,440 Speaker 1: that you want to be able to access if an 951 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,360 Speaker 1: emergency happens. That should be really, it should be liquid, 952 00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:03,839 Speaker 1: It should be available to you. It should be enough 953 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,839 Speaker 1: for the you know, for whatever a period of time 954 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,520 Speaker 1: you feel comfortable with you guys, two years seems reasonable 955 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:14,839 Speaker 1: because y'all are you know, you're entirely without you know, well, 956 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,040 Speaker 1: you have your passive income, but you've left, you've left 957 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,719 Speaker 1: your jobs, and you're living your fire lifestyle. But for 958 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:23,360 Speaker 1: other people maybe at six months or year's worth of expenses. 959 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,160 Speaker 1: And I love that y'all have that cushion because it 960 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 1: helps you kind of like stamp down those emotional fears 961 00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,040 Speaker 1: around when the market dips, like oh no, I've got 962 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,840 Speaker 1: to take my money out because I don't want to 963 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:36,680 Speaker 1: lose it, because we need to have food on the table. 964 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 1: With that emergency fund, y'all, you provide a cushion for yourself, 965 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 1: and you provide the security that you can continue with 966 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:46,279 Speaker 1: your investing strategy, continue building your wealth, and you don't 967 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,560 Speaker 1: need to sacrifice that when your emotions start to take over. 968 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 1: I think that's a really important point for people, and 969 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 1: that's why we're always like, before y'all start asking about investing, 970 00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,360 Speaker 1: I'm talking to my dad and my uncle Mark. People 971 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,239 Speaker 1: call me all the time, what about hurts? Would we 972 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:00,759 Speaker 1: invest in her. 973 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 5: Bankrupt? 974 00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, sure, jumping, Oh my god, I'm like, listen, 975 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:07,480 Speaker 1: if my uncle Mark is talking about it, do not 976 00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,879 Speaker 1: just don't go to hurts, but my dad he still 977 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 1: saves money in his coat closet. I'm like, you're trying 978 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 1: to talk about investing in hurts. Can I get you 979 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 1: to like put the money in the bank first? Like, 980 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:19,400 Speaker 1: what is this so backwards? 981 00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:22,759 Speaker 6: Go ahead, No, and no shade to the people who listen. 982 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,359 Speaker 6: But if you're willing to do the blessing loom, that's 983 00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 6: not a blessing. I think you can try this. That's 984 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 6: a little shady because so many of my dream catchers 985 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:32,399 Speaker 6: are like, girl, I want to do a blessing loom. 986 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 6: It's not a blessing loom. 987 00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 1: No, I've not heard enough before. 988 00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:37,359 Speaker 5: You never heard of the blessing loom? 989 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:38,680 Speaker 1: Quits quick sidebar? 990 00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,440 Speaker 5: What is done? No, we talked about it on the podcast. 991 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:45,040 Speaker 6: Remember I said it's it's basically the pyramid scheme, but 992 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,680 Speaker 6: they keep renaming it blessing loom. Pyramid scheme when you 993 00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,880 Speaker 6: bring more people in and they bring money, and then 994 00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 6: you move to the center or to the top and 995 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,720 Speaker 6: they see yeah, but they just keep calling in new things. 996 00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:56,719 Speaker 6: But I did want to ask, like what because I 997 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:58,800 Speaker 6: want to get just a little nitty gritty, like what. 998 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:00,600 Speaker 5: Percentage are you living off of? 999 00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,720 Speaker 6: Are you doing it where you're anticipating like on average 1000 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 6: is seven to eight percent return and you're living off 1001 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:10,000 Speaker 6: four percent of your of what your investments yield or 1002 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:13,560 Speaker 6: is it more so you're living off you if you 1003 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 6: have rental properties or is it? And then two, like 1004 00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:19,840 Speaker 6: what was your fire number? Because I know, like my 1005 00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 6: financial advisor, my financial planner, you know, I mean, I 1006 00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:25,120 Speaker 6: guess technically I don't have. 1007 00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 5: To work now, I guess. 1008 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,480 Speaker 6: I mean, I just like I like doing budget Nista, 1009 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 6: but I my husband and I help out a lot 1010 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,600 Speaker 6: of people. So what we spend a month is like 1011 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:38,440 Speaker 6: half of what we spend actually goes to us and 1012 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:40,400 Speaker 6: just the rest goes to helping family and friends. 1013 00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 5: But so like, what's that? What was that number for you? 1014 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 6: Like, if we set aside this amount plus with the 1015 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,480 Speaker 6: real estate coming in, we should be good. 1016 00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:48,600 Speaker 5: I'm curious about that. 1017 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:52,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, so we don't have the real estate anymore. Okay, 1018 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 4: we sold our real estate and then we put that 1019 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:57,680 Speaker 4: in the stock market. But our fire number was based 1020 00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,239 Speaker 4: off of living in the San Francisco Bay are So 1021 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 4: I'll caveat with that caveat that that our number was 1022 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 4: over two million, close to two and a half million. 1023 00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,719 Speaker 4: But again this is because we live in the sand Or. 1024 00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 4: Our fire number was based off of living in the 1025 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:16,120 Speaker 4: San Francisco Bay area. So some people will probably think 1026 00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:18,840 Speaker 4: that that can be very high, or some people actually 1027 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,200 Speaker 4: think like, maybe that's low. 1028 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,880 Speaker 3: So it's really relative to where. 1029 00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:25,480 Speaker 4: You plan on retiring, where you live, what your family 1030 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,480 Speaker 4: size is, and what type of stuff you plan on 1031 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:31,360 Speaker 4: doing in retirement, and how much is that stuff going 1032 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:33,560 Speaker 4: to cost. So ours was close to two and a 1033 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:37,280 Speaker 4: half million dollars, but I will say because we moved 1034 00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:42,440 Speaker 4: to Portugal, we are living off of obviously not close 1035 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,320 Speaker 4: to that. Because when you calculate your fire number, you 1036 00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,880 Speaker 4: the ideas that you can live off of four percent 1037 00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 4: of your portfolio in order to cover your monthly expenses 1038 00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 4: and then in turn your annual expenses. So the idea 1039 00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,160 Speaker 4: is that you can pull four percent from your portfolio, 1040 00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:02,640 Speaker 4: and then your portfolio continue to grow so that you're 1041 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,839 Speaker 4: only pulling from the gains in your portfolio, You're not 1042 00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:09,200 Speaker 4: actually pulling from the principal balance, so it continues to 1043 00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:11,880 Speaker 4: grow and you're able to continuously pull out four percent. 1044 00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 4: And that's based off of There's a study called the 1045 00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,560 Speaker 4: Trinity Study that really explains this concept of the four 1046 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:21,440 Speaker 4: percent rule, how you can live off of your portfolio 1047 00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,400 Speaker 4: and the portfolio allocation that you have, whether it's stocks 1048 00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 4: and bonds or one hundred percent stocks one hundred percent bonds. 1049 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,160 Speaker 4: But the concept is, once you get your fire number, 1050 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,359 Speaker 4: you're supposed to be able to live off of four 1051 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,640 Speaker 4: percent of that and pull money from your portfolio, and 1052 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,440 Speaker 4: that pays for all of your expenses. But we are 1053 00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,319 Speaker 4: here in Portugal, and our expenses are much much lower, 1054 00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:43,960 Speaker 4: like we said, I mean, we gave you the example 1055 00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 4: of the healthcare how much cheaper it is, or i'd 1056 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,280 Speaker 4: say how much more affordable it is here in Portugal. 1057 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,320 Speaker 4: So for us, we don't have to pull a full 1058 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,880 Speaker 4: four percent. We pull under four percent. And if you 1059 00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,239 Speaker 4: ever are in a situation where you're pulling less than 1060 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:02,960 Speaker 4: four percent, then it's even better because then your portfolio 1061 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,400 Speaker 4: can continue to grow even more. So the idea is 1062 00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,719 Speaker 4: if you're able to pull less than four percent, it 1063 00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:09,880 Speaker 4: can grow even more. 1064 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:11,360 Speaker 3: And so that's a perfect situation. 1065 00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:16,359 Speaker 4: But I would say for people that have different locations 1066 00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,960 Speaker 4: in mind, like for example, like we said, we were 1067 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,279 Speaker 4: thinking about the San Francisco Bay area and we were 1068 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,880 Speaker 4: thinking about Portugal, for us, it was really important to 1069 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:28,440 Speaker 4: not retire until we hit the mark for the higher 1070 00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:30,560 Speaker 4: cost of living, which is the San Francisco Bay Area. 1071 00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:34,440 Speaker 4: And again that's because if we come here to Portugal 1072 00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 4: and we decide, you know, four or five years down 1073 00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 4: the road, we want to return to the Bay Area, 1074 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:41,960 Speaker 4: or you know, our girls will be going away to 1075 00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:45,440 Speaker 4: school soon, not soon soon to me, but you know 1076 00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 4: in another four and six years if they returned to 1077 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,319 Speaker 4: the States, maybe at that time we'll think, oh, we 1078 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,359 Speaker 4: should return with them, or maybe we want to live 1079 00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:53,160 Speaker 4: back in the States. 1080 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,120 Speaker 3: If we would have picked a fire. 1081 00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:59,320 Speaker 4: Number associated with living in Portugal, then we would be stuck. 1082 00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,200 Speaker 4: We would be limit in terms of where we can 1083 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 4: go after that. So for people that have multiple areas 1084 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 4: in mind, I would I would recommend picking the higher 1085 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,919 Speaker 4: cost of living area and then when you go live 1086 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,440 Speaker 4: in a lower cost of area, you're pulling less than 1087 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,600 Speaker 4: that four percent and your portfolio is able to grow 1088 00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:16,759 Speaker 4: even more because of it. 1089 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,839 Speaker 1: And when you're in retire. Did that answer your question? Tif? 1090 00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:20,799 Speaker 5: No, it did. 1091 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:24,319 Speaker 1: I just said that was awesome here, Okay, So I 1092 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:26,759 Speaker 1: just have so many questions now. I wanted to know 1093 00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:28,799 Speaker 1: because you guys have your YouTube channel. I know you 1094 00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 1: have a course now in stock investing. When y'all were planning, 1095 00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:35,320 Speaker 1: you know, sources of income or planning your portfolio and 1096 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:39,040 Speaker 1: hitting your fire number, did y'all think, Okay, we'll also 1097 00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,600 Speaker 1: bring in income from our YouTube and maybe we can 1098 00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,440 Speaker 1: teach people and have a course. Was that part of 1099 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:47,399 Speaker 1: your plan or was this just like a happenstance, Because 1100 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,200 Speaker 1: it doesn't strike me that you guys set out, because 1101 00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,560 Speaker 1: that's honestly one of the things that kind of annoys 1102 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 1: me about some fire. I'll just be totally frank, as 1103 00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,640 Speaker 1: Christina knows I can be, but like, yeah, I mean 1104 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 1: I kind of roll my eyes sometimes because people are like, oh, yeah, 1105 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to retire early and I'm going to teach 1106 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 1: people how to do it, and that's how I'm gonna 1107 00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,759 Speaker 1: retire early by making money off of the courses. But 1108 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 1: y'all strike me as totally different, whereas it's kind of 1109 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,560 Speaker 1: a you know, you did your fire thing and then 1110 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:11,480 Speaker 1: people were asking you to start a channel, and you 1111 00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:14,200 Speaker 1: did it, and now you just happened to be YouTube stars. 1112 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1113 00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,759 Speaker 4: I love that you asked that, because you know, right 1114 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,760 Speaker 4: now we have we have almost three hundred thousand subscribers 1115 00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:25,640 Speaker 4: on our channel, but when we started, we started a 1116 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:29,400 Speaker 4: little over two years ago and it was the lowest 1117 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:33,279 Speaker 4: start ever and when when we actually retired, I don't 1118 00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:37,640 Speaker 4: think we had even hit fifty thousand subscribers at that point. 1119 00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,799 Speaker 4: And so for us, when we started the channel, it 1120 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 4: was more like a friend had mentioned it to us 1121 00:53:42,920 --> 00:53:45,960 Speaker 4: because we were talking. We were always talking to family 1122 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,600 Speaker 4: members and friends about listen, you guys should be doing this, 1123 00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 4: you should save this money. I mean, we were sort 1124 00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 4: of getting a little extra into people's business saying hey, 1125 00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:54,400 Speaker 4: why don't you invest in this? 1126 00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:55,560 Speaker 3: You should save what are you doing? 1127 00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:59,440 Speaker 4: But it just became something that we talked about so 1128 00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:01,200 Speaker 4: much that one of our friends said, hey, you should 1129 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,440 Speaker 4: start this channel, and we thought, well, that is pretty 1130 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:06,680 Speaker 4: cool because then we could tell people about fire, like 1131 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:09,040 Speaker 4: like when we didn't know what fire was when we started. 1132 00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 4: If someone was sort of guiding us and telling us 1133 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 4: about all these concepts, that would be really cool. So 1134 00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 4: we started the channel, and we we absolutely did not 1135 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:19,359 Speaker 4: think that our channel. 1136 00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:20,360 Speaker 3: Would grow like it was. 1137 00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,120 Speaker 4: So it was definitely not something where we're like, oh, yeah, 1138 00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:24,800 Speaker 4: we can we can rely on. 1139 00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:29,480 Speaker 3: YouTube and just retire early and live off of YouTube 1140 00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,480 Speaker 3: or something like that. That was definitely not the case. 1141 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,719 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and it became it became kind of like 1142 00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:39,000 Speaker 2: a gift that we couldn't give up. And when I 1143 00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,719 Speaker 2: say a gift is we have this ability to be 1144 00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:46,360 Speaker 2: able to really share and inspire people with our YouTube channel. 1145 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,000 Speaker 2: So when we start our YouTube channel, we were doing 1146 00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:50,799 Speaker 2: it like two or three times a week, but since 1147 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,960 Speaker 2: we retired, really do it once a week. But it's 1148 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:56,319 Speaker 2: something that we want to keep doing because so many 1149 00:54:56,360 --> 00:55:00,040 Speaker 2: people are getting getting value out of it. But what 1150 00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,640 Speaker 2: happened was because we made so many videos, people were 1151 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:07,560 Speaker 2: asking us like questions that were there were very linear 1152 00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,120 Speaker 2: questions like how to get to a to z And 1153 00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:11,640 Speaker 2: we would say, oh, you got to go back to 1154 00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:15,799 Speaker 2: video one hundred or video fifty five, and so we 1155 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,440 Speaker 2: were like, okay, we need to do like a course 1156 00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:21,400 Speaker 2: they walk someone from A to Z And so that's 1157 00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,280 Speaker 2: when we came up with the idea for the course. 1158 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,480 Speaker 2: But it was, you know, all of this was just 1159 00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:30,400 Speaker 2: it just it just kind of started to happen because 1160 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,520 Speaker 2: we were being asked to do these things. 1161 00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I will also say that you know, people 1162 00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 4: have been asking us for a while to do the course, 1163 00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 4: and we're like, yeah, you know, maybe maybe we'll get 1164 00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 4: around to it. But what really prompted us to do 1165 00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 4: the course was COVID. Yes, because we were stuck in 1166 00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:48,640 Speaker 4: the house for over, over and over a month. 1167 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,880 Speaker 2: Oh yes, if you see that course, my hair was 1168 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:52,879 Speaker 2: looking raggedy the whole course. 1169 00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:57,920 Speaker 4: I know it's not as bad compared to people some 1170 00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:01,000 Speaker 4: people in the States, right, but yeah, we were getting fidgety, like, 1171 00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,760 Speaker 4: oh my gosh, we cannot just sit in this house 1172 00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:06,160 Speaker 4: and do nothing. And we were we were telling people, 1173 00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 4: you know, go out and exercise, go out and read 1174 00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:11,120 Speaker 4: or exercise in your home, read, write, do what you 1175 00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 4: can to stay productive. Don't try and be busy, because 1176 00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:16,399 Speaker 4: busy is just sort of taking up time. 1177 00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 3: What can you do to be productive? 1178 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:19,880 Speaker 4: And then we thought, you know what, why don't we 1179 00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:22,720 Speaker 4: just sit down and really focus on creating this course? 1180 00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 4: And I think, you know, because we had that extra time, 1181 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,680 Speaker 4: it was it was really a fun project to be 1182 00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:30,319 Speaker 4: able to do. 1183 00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:35,280 Speaker 1: I mean, y'all are so young, you're clearly incredibly intelligent. 1184 00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:41,120 Speaker 1: You guys have so much, so much energy, Like, so, 1185 00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,080 Speaker 1: what does retirement look like for y'all? Can you kind 1186 00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:46,000 Speaker 1: of paint the picture. You know, do you see yourselves 1187 00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:49,319 Speaker 1: kicking back on beaches? Like, what does your retirement look like? 1188 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 1: Do you think you'll be satisfied? You know with kicking obviously, 1189 00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:57,200 Speaker 1: you you know, sitting back in the house is not 1190 00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,680 Speaker 1: what you're excited about. I think those of us in 1191 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:01,839 Speaker 1: corn or all just like, get us out of here. 1192 00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:04,600 Speaker 1: But talk about how do y'all plan on spending your 1193 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:07,359 Speaker 1: retirement with the next fifty years ahead of you. 1194 00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:09,919 Speaker 2: Oh, we spend a lot of time at the beach, 1195 00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:14,440 Speaker 2: don't don't. Don't knock that. That's really nice. So uh, 1196 00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:16,800 Speaker 2: and that's one of the nice things about living here 1197 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 2: in Portugal is that we're near the water. The outdoors 1198 00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:22,720 Speaker 2: are really amazing, so we do spend a lot of 1199 00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:26,560 Speaker 2: time in the outdoors. We wanted to retire early. A 1200 00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:29,040 Speaker 2: big reason was so that we could spend more time 1201 00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,640 Speaker 2: with our girls. You know, after your children leave your house, 1202 00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 2: you have already spent ninety percent of the time you're 1203 00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:38,440 Speaker 2: going to spend with them while they're in your house. 1204 00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,960 Speaker 2: After that, they're gone and they're you know, they're going 1205 00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,520 Speaker 2: to live their lives. So that's a gift that we 1206 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,240 Speaker 2: also have, is that we get to spend more time 1207 00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,880 Speaker 2: with our kids. We get to coach our daughters in sports. 1208 00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:51,920 Speaker 2: Christina swims with Malia, I play basketball with Sona. We 1209 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:58,480 Speaker 2: volunteer a lot. Recently, we've been doing calls with underserved 1210 00:57:58,560 --> 00:58:02,120 Speaker 2: kids talking about financial independence, talking about talking about money 1211 00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:05,920 Speaker 2: and financial literacy. And so what's really great is that 1212 00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 2: we get to do whatever we want to do whenever 1213 00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:11,440 Speaker 2: we want to on Sunday nights. We don't have that 1214 00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:15,000 Speaker 2: anxiety that Monday morning is rolling around. So it's just 1215 00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,480 Speaker 2: it's really an unexplainable feeling to be able to have 1216 00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 2: this freedom. And it goes back to what we talked 1217 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:24,520 Speaker 2: about earlier, making that short term sacrifice for the long 1218 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:27,840 Speaker 2: term gain. And yes, we're we're young and we have 1219 00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 2: you know, we have a lot of things that we're 1220 00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:32,800 Speaker 2: that we're working on, but they're all things that we're 1221 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 2: passionate about and that's what we didn't have the ability 1222 00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,240 Speaker 2: to do before when we were working forty hours a week. 1223 00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:40,400 Speaker 2: You know, now we have those forty hours back to 1224 00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,120 Speaker 2: do whatever we want to do with them. 1225 00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,000 Speaker 4: And I really love that you asked that question too, Mandy, 1226 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:50,040 Speaker 4: because I think when people are thinking about financial independence 1227 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 4: and retiring early. 1228 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:51,640 Speaker 3: You know, there's this split. 1229 00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:53,960 Speaker 4: You could just do financial independence and you continue to 1230 00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:57,160 Speaker 4: do the job that you love, or you can. 1231 00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:58,160 Speaker 3: Actually retire early. 1232 00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:01,320 Speaker 4: And so I think when people are on that retire 1233 00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:04,320 Speaker 4: early path, if they ultimately want to retire early, they 1234 00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:08,280 Speaker 4: really need to envision what they think their life is 1235 00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:11,920 Speaker 4: going to be like when they retire, because I'll. 1236 00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:13,480 Speaker 3: Tell you, if you're just sort of. 1237 00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:16,440 Speaker 4: Running from something, if you're running from your job because 1238 00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:19,040 Speaker 4: you don't like your job, and so that's the reason 1239 00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:22,919 Speaker 4: you want to retire, your retirement may not feel very 1240 00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:25,640 Speaker 4: fulfilling because then you're in retirement and it's sort of like, well, 1241 00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:26,560 Speaker 4: what do I do now? 1242 00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 3: But if you really envision what your life can be 1243 00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 3: like in retirement. 1244 00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,400 Speaker 4: If you love to travel, if you love to cook, 1245 00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:35,600 Speaker 4: if you love to spend time with your kids and 1246 00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:38,040 Speaker 4: your family, if you love to work out, if you 1247 00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,040 Speaker 4: like to build things, those are all things that people 1248 00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 4: can run towards versus running away from something. So they 1249 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 4: really have to think about if they want to pursue fire, 1250 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:48,720 Speaker 4: what's the purpose behind that. 1251 00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:55,400 Speaker 1: I love that you guys have inspired me to expand 1252 00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:59,400 Speaker 1: my own possibilities for what the next decade and beyond 1253 00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,400 Speaker 1: can look like. And I love that you guys have 1254 01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:06,320 Speaker 1: You've proven to I think so many people like don't 1255 01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:08,240 Speaker 1: even know how to imagine a world where they don't 1256 01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:11,640 Speaker 1: work for someone else, you know, like or and if 1257 01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:13,520 Speaker 1: they don't work for someone then it's like owning their 1258 01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:17,040 Speaker 1: own business or whatever. But what about a world where 1259 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:21,440 Speaker 1: you're just free to, you know, work on what you 1260 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 1: find fulfilling, be with your family, like it's really it's 1261 01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,240 Speaker 1: it's a little sad to me that this is such 1262 01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:32,360 Speaker 1: like an extraordinary mindset to have. But you guys truly 1263 01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:35,840 Speaker 1: are extraordinary because you have You've seen it, and you 1264 01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:38,200 Speaker 1: said this should be the normal, Like this should be 1265 01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:40,480 Speaker 1: the norm, This will be our normal. We are going 1266 01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,680 Speaker 1: to create the life that we want. And I it 1267 01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:46,560 Speaker 1: really resonates with me, if you can't tell, because I 1268 01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:52,000 Speaker 1: feel like I am on this path toward this a 1269 01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:55,600 Speaker 1: good life, but a good life according to the you know, 1270 01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:59,680 Speaker 1: what's what's considered the norm in America and what's considered 1271 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 1: a good life according to I don't know what the 1272 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:06,960 Speaker 1: mainstream idea of a good life is. And I'm starting 1273 01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:10,160 Speaker 1: to even challenge my own expectations and challenge some of 1274 01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:12,560 Speaker 1: the own some of my own ways of thinking about 1275 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:15,400 Speaker 1: the next couple of decades in my life. And I mean, 1276 01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:17,560 Speaker 1: even just being stuck in quarantine with my baby. You 1277 01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:19,280 Speaker 1: can probably hear me in the background. He's a very 1278 01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 1: vocal eater. He gets really mad, he very angry. He's 1279 01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:27,240 Speaker 1: my child. But even just being in quarantine, I'm like, oh, 1280 01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,200 Speaker 1: so I could just work at home and be with 1281 01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:33,040 Speaker 1: the baby all the time. This isn't that bad anyway. 1282 01:01:32,440 --> 01:01:35,680 Speaker 1: I just want to thank y'all because I'm so glad 1283 01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:40,320 Speaker 1: that you are sharing your story and I know that 1284 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,040 Speaker 1: forget about you know you can, we can forget about 1285 01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,439 Speaker 1: race for a second. I mean, the show is called 1286 01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:48,520 Speaker 1: Brown Ambition, so it's always there. We acknowledge we are 1287 01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:51,240 Speaker 1: two black women speaking to an audience, and first and 1288 01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:53,760 Speaker 1: foremost we want to talk to other black women and 1289 01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:56,160 Speaker 1: how to build wealth because we understand that, you know, 1290 01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:58,080 Speaker 1: there's not a lot of people like us talking to them. 1291 01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 1: And I am you guys are like unicorns, you know, 1292 01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:05,240 Speaker 1: in the Fire Movement, a black couple with two daughters 1293 01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 1: and your girls seeing them. And I even said this 1294 01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:10,320 Speaker 1: to Christina in the email. I really meant it. If 1295 01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:13,560 Speaker 1: only I had seen your two girls talking about financial 1296 01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:18,440 Speaker 1: financial Uh uh what am I thinking? Like, what are 1297 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:21,200 Speaker 1: we talking about investing investing in all building at a 1298 01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:23,360 Speaker 1: young age when I was, you know, twelve or thirteen. 1299 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:27,480 Speaker 1: Y'all are so important and your stories are so important. 1300 01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:31,200 Speaker 1: And I and thank y'all for using your time when 1301 01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:35,080 Speaker 1: you could be doing anything else to educate and pour 1302 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,160 Speaker 1: back into communities who may not be getting this kind 1303 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:41,240 Speaker 1: of knowledge. I it just it's out shut up now. 1304 01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:43,120 Speaker 1: But it's just y'all are the best. 1305 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:44,320 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 1306 01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:48,160 Speaker 3: It's so nice. It's it's so nice. So you know, 1307 01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,000 Speaker 3: we wanted to talk to you guys anyway. So it 1308 01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:53,480 Speaker 3: was just like, oh, it's your baby that this is 1309 01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:53,919 Speaker 3: it right? 1310 01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:57,640 Speaker 5: Like e pitome of brown ambition. 1311 01:02:57,760 --> 01:02:59,440 Speaker 6: And I think that it's just good for people to 1312 01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 6: see that life can be lived differently, you. 1313 01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:07,800 Speaker 1: Know, and one hundred million less words than what I used. 1314 01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:14,560 Speaker 6: No, So just just because Amandy and I are, the 1315 01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:15,760 Speaker 6: way we live. 1316 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:17,560 Speaker 5: Is so different, so they get to see different sides 1317 01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:18,080 Speaker 5: of like. 1318 01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,920 Speaker 6: From both of us being bosses in our own right, 1319 01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:24,440 Speaker 6: but via the corporate side or owning your own business. 1320 01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:26,920 Speaker 5: So this is just a nice we're pre from. 1321 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,919 Speaker 6: This is another way to live and people can find 1322 01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:32,320 Speaker 6: themselves in your journey, so we do really thank you, 1323 01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:33,240 Speaker 6: thank you. 1324 01:03:33,320 --> 01:03:36,120 Speaker 3: Thank you guys. Yeah, I'm so glad we able to 1325 01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:36,680 Speaker 3: talk to you. 1326 01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:40,680 Speaker 1: Well. Thank y'all, and and go live your fabulous life. 1327 01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:45,800 Speaker 1: You now on folks where they can find you. Your 1328 01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:50,760 Speaker 1: your our Rich Journey on YouTube, on Instagram, anything else 1329 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:52,720 Speaker 1: y'all want to anything you'll want to promote. 1330 01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:55,840 Speaker 4: Oh no, you know you mentioned our daughters too. They 1331 01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:58,840 Speaker 4: have their channel out so it's called Our Rich Journey Junior. 1332 01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 2: So the kids some love. 1333 01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, check the girls out also. 1334 01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:05,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's really where you can find us is 1335 01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:10,000 Speaker 2: on YouTube or Instagram at Rich Journey and send us 1336 01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:13,880 Speaker 2: a message. We eventually get to all of the questions. 1337 01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:15,760 Speaker 2: I mean, we are retired, we have nothing else to do. 1338 01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 5: I love it. 1339 01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:24,320 Speaker 1: Join the journey. That's how you always end your YouTube videos. 1340 01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:28,960 Speaker 1: Go join the journey. Thank y'all for sharing your story 1341 01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:30,520 Speaker 1: with us. I would love to have y'all on the 1342 01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:35,320 Speaker 1: show again sometime in the future. But be well, stay healthy. Yes, 1343 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 1: I mean honestly, y'all should be wishing us luck. I 1344 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,600 Speaker 1: feel like we're the one I feel like y'all are 1345 01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,040 Speaker 1: on the right track in Portugal. But yeah, be well, 1346 01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:44,439 Speaker 1: stay healthy and thank y'all again for coming on the show. 1347 01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 5: Yes, thanks so much guys. 1348 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:50,520 Speaker 1: WHOA Okay, so did I embarrass myself? Was that too 1349 01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:53,520 Speaker 1: much of a fan girl? No, they were for Christina. 1350 01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:57,200 Speaker 6: And mon Honestly, they were amazing and they I mean 1351 01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:59,439 Speaker 6: as much as I think that we're pretty fru gol, 1352 01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:01,080 Speaker 6: I mean, yes, I know, you know explorers, but you 1353 01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:03,120 Speaker 6: know you and I are pretty like to go with 1354 01:05:03,120 --> 01:05:06,160 Speaker 6: our finances and savvy with our finances. It just made 1355 01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:09,840 Speaker 6: me look at some of the choices that I'm you know, 1356 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:11,840 Speaker 6: that I'm choosing for myself and my family a little 1357 01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:15,320 Speaker 6: bit differently. So it was so amazing. I'm totally going 1358 01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:17,160 Speaker 6: to stalk them on YouTube so just so they. 1359 01:05:17,080 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 1: Know their channel is good. I know that, and it's 1360 01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,160 Speaker 1: worth a time too. I think I just turned on 1361 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:23,840 Speaker 1: their channel and I just had it on for an 1362 01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:28,080 Speaker 1: entire weekend. They're They're truly really knowledgeable and if you 1363 01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:31,040 Speaker 1: hear things banging in the background, it's just the babies here. 1364 01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:35,400 Speaker 1: Hey see, hey everybody. Yeah, I think it's great to 1365 01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,439 Speaker 1: hear different perspectives. And they call it our rich journey 1366 01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:40,440 Speaker 1: because it's their journey, doesn't mean that it's the right 1367 01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:42,400 Speaker 1: journey or the one that you need to take. But 1368 01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,720 Speaker 1: I think in so many ways, you need to see 1369 01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:48,959 Speaker 1: someone else living life by example so that you start 1370 01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:52,400 Speaker 1: to think about what's possible for yourself. And I think 1371 01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:55,080 Speaker 1: for you know, I've been pretty cynical about the whole 1372 01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:58,800 Speaker 1: Fire movement, and they have totally changed the way I 1373 01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:01,560 Speaker 1: think about it. And they have shown me that there's 1374 01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:03,640 Speaker 1: like if I was going to do fire, this is 1375 01:06:03,640 --> 01:06:07,160 Speaker 1: the way to do yes. And it's it's about freedom. 1376 01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:10,720 Speaker 1: It's about freedom. It's the freedom that people have who 1377 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,120 Speaker 1: are lucky enough to come from wealthy family or you know, 1378 01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,640 Speaker 1: to have inheritances or you know, things like that. It's 1379 01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:19,120 Speaker 1: creating a space for yourself where you can do whatever 1380 01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:20,880 Speaker 1: the f you want and you're not trapped in this 1381 01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:24,520 Speaker 1: cycle of you know, someone else's version of success just 1382 01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:25,360 Speaker 1: so you can get by. 1383 01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:26,200 Speaker 5: No. I love that. 1384 01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:27,800 Speaker 6: I just yeah, like I said, I'm going to totally 1385 01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:30,960 Speaker 6: stalk their page, rethink some of the things choices that 1386 01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:31,480 Speaker 6: we're making. 1387 01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:36,640 Speaker 1: And do you think Supergirl will check out their junior 1388 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:37,800 Speaker 1: the junior edition? 1389 01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:42,400 Speaker 6: Maybe she certainly she's working now and she's making some money, 1390 01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:46,360 Speaker 6: and so entrepreneurship is something that she has been really 1391 01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,480 Speaker 6: interested in, and she's been doing that, Like you know, 1392 01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:51,480 Speaker 6: she has her own lip gloss line that's on Etsy, 1393 01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:55,200 Speaker 6: and what I know, she don't know, So I don't 1394 01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:56,920 Speaker 6: know if remember that she was, you know, like I 1395 01:06:56,960 --> 01:06:58,640 Speaker 6: told you, like a little while ago, she was hawking 1396 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:00,600 Speaker 6: these rubber band bracelets that she made from a kit 1397 01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,560 Speaker 6: someone gave her for Christmas because she remember I told you, 1398 01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,840 Speaker 6: she wanted my Superman and I to invest in her business. 1399 01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:08,520 Speaker 6: And she's like for the low rate of four hundred 1400 01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:09,400 Speaker 6: and fifty dollars. 1401 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:10,280 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, you. 1402 01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,680 Speaker 1: Tried it, so we wait a second, we have not 1403 01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:14,240 Speaker 1: talked about So. 1404 01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:16,680 Speaker 6: That's what she wanted because she wanted to start the 1405 01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 6: lip gloss business. So she did this whole presentation where 1406 01:07:20,240 --> 01:07:22,080 Speaker 6: she was like, this is how much it's going to 1407 01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:24,800 Speaker 6: cost me to get all the materials and things I 1408 01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:27,800 Speaker 6: need And we were like, yeah, no, the most. 1409 01:07:27,680 --> 01:07:28,560 Speaker 5: You're getting is fifty. 1410 01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:30,680 Speaker 6: And even if you get fifty, that's because you have 1411 01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:32,960 Speaker 6: to earn fifty. That's the most you're squeezing out of us. 1412 01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:36,840 Speaker 6: So need let's just say she wasn't happy. But what 1413 01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:40,040 Speaker 6: she did do is somebody gave her this rubber band 1414 01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,000 Speaker 6: kit where you can make bracelet and rings out of 1415 01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:45,000 Speaker 6: these like cool, like brightly colored rubber bands. So she 1416 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:47,160 Speaker 6: started making them, and she started selling them, and she 1417 01:07:47,200 --> 01:07:48,600 Speaker 6: made a few hundred bucks on her own. 1418 01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:51,800 Speaker 5: She didn't even need our fifty, thank you very much. 1419 01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:55,400 Speaker 6: And then graduation money kicked in and she was able 1420 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,280 Speaker 6: to fund her own business. With graduation money and her 1421 01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 6: rubber band business, it was like business to fund the business. 1422 01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,800 Speaker 6: And so now, I mean, she literally spends hours a 1423 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 6: day making her lip gloss kits and like putting them together. 1424 01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:09,280 Speaker 6: And I'm honestly really proud of her because I'm. 1425 01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:10,800 Speaker 5: Like, look a supergirl, you know who. 1426 01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:12,240 Speaker 6: She's trying to be like right as much as she 1427 01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:14,040 Speaker 6: tries to act like she don't want to be like me, 1428 01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:18,000 Speaker 6: but that's. 1429 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:20,160 Speaker 1: How it goes though, Like she can't let you know 1430 01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,080 Speaker 1: that you inspire her and that she loves you and 1431 01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:23,600 Speaker 1: wants to be just like you when she grows up. 1432 01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:26,439 Speaker 6: But she's watching I know, so like no, but honestly 1433 01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:28,240 Speaker 6: it's really dope to like watch her navigate. 1434 01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:31,680 Speaker 5: Yeah no, and I will say, like will this is 1435 01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:32,439 Speaker 5: like a little aside. 1436 01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:35,920 Speaker 6: So I signed her up for Black Girls Lead, like 1437 01:08:35,960 --> 01:08:38,479 Speaker 6: the Summer the digital kind of like summer Camp, I 1438 01:08:38,479 --> 01:08:41,760 Speaker 6: guess for girls. That's hosted by Black Girls Rock and 1439 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:45,400 Speaker 6: Michelle Obama did the opening speech, and then came Missy 1440 01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:47,679 Speaker 6: Copeland and then somebody else. So I think I was fourth, 1441 01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:50,519 Speaker 6: Like right after Michelle Obama geeked and the next day 1442 01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:53,479 Speaker 6: she was like, Tiffy, do you know that your session 1443 01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,000 Speaker 6: was top rated for yesterday? I'm like, what do you mean? 1444 01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:58,439 Speaker 6: She was like, we had to vote who our favorite was, 1445 01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:00,639 Speaker 6: and you got twenty eight percent of the votes. I 1446 01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 6: was like, not over, miss Michelle. 1447 01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:04,479 Speaker 5: Yes, I was like these kids. 1448 01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:06,439 Speaker 1: I mean not that I'm surprised, of course, I know 1449 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:08,479 Speaker 1: that you're fabulous, but I was. 1450 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:10,439 Speaker 6: Like, but honestly, I'm like, these kids don't know no better, 1451 01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:11,080 Speaker 6: because don't. 1452 01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:11,719 Speaker 5: Nobody beat Michelle. 1453 01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:12,519 Speaker 3: But I take it. 1454 01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,880 Speaker 6: She was like super Yeah, she was super excited because 1455 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:18,320 Speaker 6: she was like because in it, I had pre recorded mine, 1456 01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:20,519 Speaker 6: I talked about her and used her as an example 1457 01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:22,320 Speaker 6: of how you can make money on your own. So 1458 01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:24,439 Speaker 6: for the girls to listen and watch, I could tell 1459 01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 6: she felt really special, like it's me, she's talking about me, 1460 01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:28,720 Speaker 6: so we're friends again for now? 1461 01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:33,479 Speaker 1: Right now? Amen to that listen Oh, that's amazing. I 1462 01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:36,920 Speaker 1: can't wait to see how Rio grows up. I'm I'm 1463 01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:39,040 Speaker 1: kind of obsessed with thinking about what he'll be. And 1464 01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:43,800 Speaker 1: I'm just I think as a parent, I'm afraid because 1465 01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:45,639 Speaker 1: you know how like your kids will do the opposite 1466 01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,280 Speaker 1: of what you want sometimes, like I don't want to, 1467 01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:50,800 Speaker 1: I don't like how much is too much? And should 1468 01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,120 Speaker 1: I go like all in on teaching him stuff? She 1469 01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:54,720 Speaker 1: let him find it on his own. I don't know. 1470 01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,880 Speaker 1: That's why I'm so fascinated by Christina and i'm on 1471 01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,599 Speaker 1: because their girls seem to have such a healthy not 1472 01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:03,280 Speaker 1: just not only do they understand the different financial topics 1473 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:06,080 Speaker 1: that their parents talk about, but they're all so curious 1474 01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:08,360 Speaker 1: and excited to do it themselves, Like how did they 1475 01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:10,880 Speaker 1: do that? I know I'm going to be studying them 1476 01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:14,960 Speaker 1: for I know everybody in a really creepy way just 1477 01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,120 Speaker 1: sending I'm just going to slide into their dms all 1478 01:10:17,160 --> 01:10:20,080 Speaker 1: the time. Well, I loved having them on the show. 1479 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,840 Speaker 1: And if y'all like, who else are we missing? Who 1480 01:10:22,840 --> 01:10:25,160 Speaker 1: else are y'all like? Who's on YouTube? Who's out there 1481 01:10:25,240 --> 01:10:27,680 Speaker 1: that who have fabulous stories that are inspiring y'all that 1482 01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:29,840 Speaker 1: y'all want to hear more from We'd love to get 1483 01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:31,800 Speaker 1: in touch with them and have more folks on the show. 1484 01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:34,599 Speaker 5: We certainly would, We certainly would. 1485 01:10:35,720 --> 01:10:38,920 Speaker 1: All Right, Well, thank y'all for another beautiful week of 1486 01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:39,599 Speaker 1: Brown Ambition. 1487 01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:46,919 Speaker 4: We'll see y'all next week, next week,