1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:10,880 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARBFM dot 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 2: We could be reading your letter live. 6 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: On the air, just like we're going to read this 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: one right here, right now, and you never know, it 8 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: could be yours. 9 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buck love on hold on time. 10 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 3: We got it for you here it is Strawberry. 11 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: Let them all right if you thank you subject Being 12 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: healthy doesn't work for everybody. 13 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: Stephen Shirley. 14 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 1: Late last year, my husband and I decided to get 15 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 1: in better physical and spiritual shape. He got baptized and 16 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: I fully supported him. We became Pescatarians and it helped 17 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: him lose fourteen pounds so far. Pescatarians you eat only fish. 18 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: You eat vegetables and all that other stuff, but yeah, 19 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: your meat is fish. I am petite and I have 20 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: never had a problem with my weight, but I do 21 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: love making healthier food choices. I think my husband takes 22 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: everything too far. Though he has removed things from his 23 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: life that he needs, like the skincare he used last year. 24 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: It's a must for him because he has hair bumps. 25 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: Now he uses a homemade salve that doesn't work at 26 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 1: all to exfoliate his skin. He's also been using an 27 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: all natural deodorant and that doesn't work on his body. 28 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: He needs all of the aluminum and other sad stuff 29 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,320 Speaker 1: that was in his old deodorant. 30 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: Before because it worked. 31 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: We work out together, so it's hard riding back home 32 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: in the car with him. Since he switched his deodorants. 33 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: He does most of the cooking, and he switched to 34 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: salt free seasonings and he uses a lot of garlic 35 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: for everything. If I offered a cook he stands over 36 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 1: me and tells me how to season the food. Our 37 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: intimacy has changed too. He doesn't want me on birth 38 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: control because it's not natural. The method he's chosen to 39 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: use is not full proof, and I'm always paranoid that 40 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,680 Speaker 1: I'll get pregnant. We've made it clear that we don't 41 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: want kids, so he's playing a dangerous game. After six 42 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: years of marriage, I'm still not comfortable telling him that 43 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: he smells bad and that his cooking is bland. I 44 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: need him to get his skin together as well. Don't 45 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: get me wrong. Being healthy is ideal, But he needs 46 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: to tweak some things. How do I tell him that, yes, 47 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: you are right, being healthy is ideal, that's what we 48 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: all strive for, being in our best health. But yeah, 49 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: you need to tweak a lot of things. And you 50 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,679 Speaker 1: just got to tell him. I mean, there's no way 51 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: around this. You have to tell him that he smells bad. 52 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: You have to don't crush him with it, though. I mean, 53 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: you just got to find a kind way, if there 54 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: is one to tell him. I mean, is there a 55 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:51,399 Speaker 1: nice way to tell someone that they stink? Do your research, 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: find some other deodorants for him. I mean, look into 57 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: some more skin products. You got to do this for him. 58 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: You got to buy them. You got to ask him 59 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: to try the new ones, and then get some taste 60 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 1: of your seasonings. Gets you know, you got to put 61 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: some salt on your food. That's what brings the flavor out. 62 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: And what do you mean he stands over you while 63 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 1: you're cooking. Just ask him to have a seat and 64 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: tell him you got this. And why after six years 65 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: are you uncomfortable still to tell your husband things? You 66 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: you know, you you got up the courage to write us, 67 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: and it's gonna take that same boldness to let him 68 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 1: know how you feel. I just say, don't crush and 69 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: be nice about it. Start and end with some sort 70 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: of compliment like honey, you look good. I'm proud of you, 71 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: you know. Then hit them with the I found these products. 72 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: They may work better for you because the ones you're 73 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: using aren't doing the job. They are not working. And 74 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: then I like the other skin products you use because 75 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: the skin is soft. Your skin is soft and smooth 76 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: with no hair bumps. But you gotta, you know, mix 77 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: it in. You know, you got to tell them nicely, 78 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: all right, don't just blast him out. 79 00:03:58,440 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 2: The key is how you say it. 80 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 1: Now, what you say, and I think you can do 81 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: this this, But why are you scared to talk to 82 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: your husband after six years? You say he's playing a 83 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: dangerous game with the with the birth control situation. No, 84 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 1: you're playing a dangerous game. It's your body. And if 85 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: you guys have decided not to have kids, you guys 86 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 1: got to work on this. Tommy. 87 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 3: In the words of a gentleman in my grandmother's neighborhood 88 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 3: when I was growing up, Books and Bibles was his name, 89 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 3: and Books and Bibles used to roll up and say, man. 90 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: It's a low down and fulky deal. 91 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 3: Never knew what that meant, but we called him books 92 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 3: and bibles, and as soon as he come up on you, 93 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 3: he be man. It's a lowdown and fulky deal. This 94 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 3: is a low down and fulky deal because you got 95 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,640 Speaker 3: a situation. Now your man stink. I tell all I 96 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 3: can die. I'm smelling this. Do the letter to let 97 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 3: us think that y'all don't smell all this. All this 98 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 3: stink the and I'm probably while y'all cooking in the kitchen. 99 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: He's stank. When y'all in the bedroom, he's stank. When 100 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 3: y'all at the gym, he's stank. And if y'all bring 101 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 3: a baby in as well, the baby gonna stank everything. 102 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 3: This just this, ah, this stanks. This just thanks right here, 103 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 3: we got to figure out how to get some deodorant 104 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: up under his arm. And I listen while he's sleep, 105 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 3: I'm just saying this while he's sleep. I think you 106 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 3: should get that old white jaw with that red top 107 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 3: that touts the deodorant and put that just paste it 108 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 3: up under his arm so he can start smelling a 109 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 3: little bit better. This right here is bad. You gotta 110 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 3: have that conversation. It's time to have a conversation when 111 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 3: you're with but this show. This is not your this 112 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 3: is not your boyfriend, it's not somebody you dating. This 113 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 3: is your husband. This is the person you laying next 114 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 3: to every night. This is your man. So you got 115 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 3: to be able to y'all got to be close enough 116 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 3: the baby and say, baby, we got to sit down 117 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:00,040 Speaker 3: and have this top. Baby. You stank. You stank in 118 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 3: the fact when he started coming in the house, start 119 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 3: playing stuff like when the funk hit the fan and 120 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 3: the people want to come on play that make my 121 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 3: funk the p funk. I wants to get funked up. 122 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 3: You got to start playing stuff he can relate to 123 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 3: and understand. Brother, you funky. It's a lowdown and funky deal, 124 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 3: and that's where you are. Man. It's just it's a dimi. 125 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 3: It's a load down and bunker deal. We got to 126 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 3: get your husband some deodorant. We got to get I 127 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 3: don't know what we got to do with this, he 128 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 3: breaking out. I don't know what we're gonna do about 129 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 3: this ex man. We gotta figure that part out too. 130 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,479 Speaker 3: But that's what he got. Sure, that's what it is. 131 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 3: That's what that is, I know it when I hear 132 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 3: that's ell. 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Actual rings will vary based 146 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 3: on several factors. 147 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: All right, we're going to recap today's Strawberry letter. The 148 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: subject that is being healthy doesn't work for everybody. A 149 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: woman wrote in. She and her husband have been married 150 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: for six years. She says late last year she and 151 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: her husband decided to get in better physical and spiritual shape. 152 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: He joined church. She supported him one hundred percent. Then 153 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: they changed their diet. They became pescatarians. So far, he's 154 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 1: lost fourteen pounds. She's fatigue. She's never had a problem 155 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: with her weight, but she does like make healthier food choices. 156 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: She says she thinks her husband takes everything too far, 157 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: though you know, it's just to the extreme. 158 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: He stopped wearing his same deodorant. Now he smells badly. 159 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 1: He stopped, he made some homemade sab for his beard, 160 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 1: and now he has hair bumps. He doesn't cook with 161 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: salt anymore. And all of this, she says, it's just 162 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: too much and too far. He uses garlic for everything. 163 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,679 Speaker 1: If she offers to cook, he stands over the stove 164 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: and checks and watches everything she does. And you know, 165 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 1: and then he doesn't want her to use birth control 166 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: because they've tried to. They don't want to have children. 167 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: They both said they don't want children. So if she's 168 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: she stopped, and she says he's playing a dangerous game. 169 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 1: But again, they've been married for six years and she's 170 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: still uncomfortable telling him about how he smells and other 171 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: bads and other things. So she's saying, don't get her wrong, 172 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: being healthy is ideal, but she wants to know how 173 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: should she tell him that he's sticking Junior. 174 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 2: You know what Charley call it this Tommy. 175 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 5: These the people that get on my nerves, These people 176 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 5: who been a Christian eight hours. 177 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 6: And try to tell everybody how to live. 178 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 5: Because ever since you got baptized, now we all fish. 179 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 5: Ever since you on baptized, now we can't wear at 180 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:31,920 Speaker 5: the yodery I ever said you that got baptized. I 181 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 5: mean everything. I gotta be on birth joy, never looking 182 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 5: at your old false nothing just everything wrong with me. See, 183 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 5: I can't stand there with this has to stop. You 184 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 5: have to go get unbaptized. You was fine, he was fine. 185 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 5: Just go unbaptized him. We asked you to follow Jesus, 186 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 5: not smell like Jesus. We ain't ask you to do 187 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 5: all that. What we asked you to follow Jesus, not 188 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 5: try to smell like Jesus. 189 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 6: We asked you to do all that follow him. 190 00:09:58,160 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 2: That's different. 191 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, because Lord did half old spies back then, we do. 192 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 5: You ain't never heard nobody say, you know we took 193 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 5: him out, old spice that killed him right there, that 194 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 5: old spies got him. 195 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 6: You know, we ain't never heard. 196 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 5: We ain't never heard season because now you're cooking all 197 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 5: that's playing. Ain't nobody ever said, Ain't nobody ever said 198 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,679 Speaker 5: lowrys and onions, onion powder got him, That's what that 199 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 5: way it went wrong. 200 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 6: I ain't never heard nobody say it was that last 201 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 6: t ball service. 202 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 5: Next said he got here. This is too much you ain't. 203 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,719 Speaker 5: I've seen these people all the time. They want to 204 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 5: tell you everything that's wrong with you. Now you stand 205 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 5: over your wife's shoulder as she cooked. 206 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 6: The way she wants to cook. Well, see, you think 207 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 6: everybody love missus Dash. 208 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 5: Don't nobody really want missus Dash? That season ain't got 209 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 5: nothing in it, nothing sodium, but it does nothing for fish. 210 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 6: Yes, anybody was just eat. 211 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 2: Fish, just cook it. 212 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 5: Just take a catfish and throw it out the oven. 213 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 3: Just eat. 214 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 5: You'll be able to tell everything about that catfish. Spend 215 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 5: ten years down on the delta, you did, She. 216 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 6: Had one hundred and twenty five catfishy birth. Yeah, you 217 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 6: can found everything. 218 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:27,080 Speaker 5: Plus where I was high because you tasted everything wrong 219 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 5: with this fit. You ain't seizing nothing. This don't make 220 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 5: no sense. I can't stand these people. You want to 221 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 5: tell me how to live and don't work. Don't nobody 222 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 5: care nothing about this man? What she should do is 223 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,599 Speaker 5: take that that deal that he wear and then just 224 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 5: get a bottle of old spice to take the top 225 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 5: off of that and put on the one that some 226 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 5: way you'll know. 227 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 6: Ain't nobody said they're illuminum in old spice killed me. 228 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 5: Ain't nobody ever died from being fresh. I've not heard one, 229 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 5: certain I've not heard one cause of death because somebody bathed. 230 00:11:58,600 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 5: I've never heard that. 231 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 6: Why did he die? 232 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 5: Taking Nick said he bathed himself to death. I've never 233 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:13,359 Speaker 5: heard that. He can't leaning he had hot water and 234 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 5: a bubble bath and he took him out. He just 235 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 5: don't make no sense to live like this. 236 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 2: No, it doesn't, no whatsoever. 237 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, but why is she still uncomfortable after six years? 238 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 2: Talking to your husband is a problem? Why why is 239 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:32,199 Speaker 2: that a problem? 240 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,839 Speaker 5: He just self because he's been a Christian eight our 241 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 5: he's doing brand new. 242 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, he's brand new. We got the same thing on 243 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 6: a bishop a war. You were in the same army. 244 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 5: You ain't you ain't you sitting out here with us, 245 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 5: but you was like you were long up there. You 246 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 5: can't you've been a Christian eight out. 247 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 6: This don't make no sense. Now you ain't got the 248 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:59,559 Speaker 6: homemade piece of meeting from he no pork type of 249 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 6: front of him losing. 250 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: What about the homemade stab he made instead of using 251 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 1: his skincare regiment? 252 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 2: What about that? Once again, once. 253 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 6: Again I'm not heard of. 254 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 5: Somebody die and not one I have not heard that 255 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:16,680 Speaker 5: I love. 256 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 257 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 6: He was rubbing his face and he fell to the flow. 258 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 6: Was next handy? That has not that has not happened you. 259 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 2: No, you're coming from today. 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