WEBVTT - Episode 152: It Hurts so Much it's Beautiful (Feat. Venus Cuffs) 0:00:03.640 --> 0:00:06.560 What's up. It's lip service. I'm Inteli, I'm g G Maguire, 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:10.160 I'm Leah, and we're having a very educational lip service today. 0:00:10.800 --> 0:00:15.000 We have Venus Cup here with us. Hello. Hell, Venus 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:18.320 is a dominatrix and um, we've been learning a lot 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:21.239 about this. We did our research and you actually own 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:23.799 a dungeon. So explain to us what goes on in 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:26.759 the dungeon, because look, everybody thinks the fifty shades are great, 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:28.880 and I feel like that's been tane compared to the 0:00:28.880 --> 0:00:31.440 type of thing that can really go down. So talk 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:33.199 to us about what it means for you to be 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:37.479 at dom dominatrix and uh, what type of people are 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:43.000 requesting your services? Um, fifty shades is nothing like what 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:47.200 things are really like. They did not capture in essence, 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:50.320 what we're all about as a community, because there actually 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:52.839 is a community of of us that that kind of 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:54.880 do this on a regular basis. This is our lifestyle. 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:57.440 This is like, you know, I have forty two submissives 0:00:57.880 --> 0:00:59.680 and I can call them any time of the day 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.720 I need drive here. They one of them gave me 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:06.400 a ride. I call him my cab um taking to 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:08.679 her appointments taking me to get my nails done. Um, 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:11.920 sometimes they pay rents, sometimes they don't. Sometimes they give 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:14.760 me a massage when I need. It's more of a lifestyle, 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:17.720 it's more of an everyday thing is kind of unrealistic. 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:20.680 And um, the way they kind of met each other 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:23.880 at work and he's like a gazillionaire and she's like poor, 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:26.640 and then they kind of there's like a red room 0:01:26.640 --> 0:01:28.959 in the back of his house somewhere. The whole thing 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:30.759 is just like bizarre as fucked Like we were all 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.840 like looking at the like, what the fund is this? 0:01:35.240 --> 0:01:39.360 It's bullshit? It's right, So all right, so explain to 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:42.319 me how can somebody like get involved in this life? 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:45.880 How did you get started as a as a dom? Yikes? 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:49.440 So it's called dan's and subs. Right, how does the 0:01:50.440 --> 0:01:52.800 slaves what do you call them? Um? It depends on 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:55.600 what your role is and what you feel more comfortable in. Okay, 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.800 there's actually a difference between the submissive and a slave. 0:01:58.160 --> 0:01:59.960 A lot of people don't even know that. What's the difference. 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:04.520 So a slave gives up all their rights. Everything in 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:08.120 d s M is power exchanges, right, Um, I give 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:11.440 you my power, uh to have over me? And to 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:14.760 tell me what to do and to request certain things. Um, 0:02:14.880 --> 0:02:17.040 how did the safest way to do is that we 0:02:17.080 --> 0:02:19.000 would have like for example, mooves me and you we 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:22.680 would have a conversation. Um, and do it do it 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:27.079 first right now? Um, I'm gonna pretend to be you're 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:31.519 submissive ha ha um. So hi, I'm interested in you 0:02:31.960 --> 0:02:35.280 being my dumb sometimes that are happened like that? Um, 0:02:35.320 --> 0:02:37.840 and then what do you think? And then what do 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:46.480 your qualifications have been? Experience? Yeah? Yeah, that is a 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:48.640 question you ask how long have you been doing this? 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:51.520 Have you served anyone before? You do have experience? What 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:53.720 services can you offer me? Because if you have nothing 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:55.800 to bring to the table, how are you serving me? 0:02:56.080 --> 0:02:59.160 If you can't drive me places, if you can't clean 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:01.080 for me, if you can't cook for me, if you 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:06.440 can't do my laundry, if we have a hope, if 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:08.120 you can't take me to dinners and you can't. You 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:09.560 can't do all these things, and you're not to fight 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:11.119 one for me. But these are all questions you gotta 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:13.480 ask from the jump. You can't ask halfway through. It's 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:15.480 like a relationship. I want to know if you're married. 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:16.799 I want to know if you have kids. I want 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:18.600 to know if you have a stable income. You know, 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:20.440 these are things you talk about. Well, David, I don't 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:31.519 want to know, so you okay, So you would talk 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:34.240 about these things first, that's the first thing. And they're 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:38.320 called negotiations. And when you do negotiations contract, yes, and 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.360 then you get to the contract after negotiation, Wait, do 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:44.200 you go to dinner to have this negotiations? And side 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:47.200 could be I recommend all of that. I mean I 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:53.360 don't know about the side walk like, okay, let's not 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:56.240 get out your past about what you can offer me. Okay, 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:58.520 So that's just submissive. But wait, so how can they 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.520 find you? So wait, what about a slave? Because you 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:04.920 said there's a difference. Yea, So during these negotiations you 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:08.280 would talk about power exchanges and in what way are 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.000 these exchanges going to be had? So it can either 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:14.400 be they are a sub A submissive is someone that 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:19.080 is like a housewife, like they will They still have 0:04:19.120 --> 0:04:21.680 their own opinions, they still have saying certain things, but 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:24.599 the ultimate decision lands on the dom. But they still 0:04:24.640 --> 0:04:26.360 have a voice. You can take their voice with a 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:29.719 slave is complete opposite of that. They have no voice. 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:32.440 They can say things that they want to do because legally, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:35.080 you know, by law, they have to say, like I 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:38.279 consent to doing this, or I consent to being funcked in. 0:04:38.279 --> 0:04:44.000 He asked for fourteen hours or something like that. Listen, 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.560 you domin you right now, But you guys know it's 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:53.080 like a no pleasure. Man. Isn't the first day I 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:59.760 don't think that you've done? I mean venice, you've done 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:07.040 four teens. So yeah, the fifth. It wasn't nobody from 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:11.520 Black Ink, was it? Oh? The fifth? Whoa I play 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:15.839 the fifth? Damn it. It wasn't fourteen hours. It wasn't 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:19.479 fourteen hours with with that person, but um yeah, I 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:23.279 dominated that person times. Actually, are you taking that somebody 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.600 from Black Ink because you wear I'm blacking. Yeah, but 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:30.640 confidentiality agreement or not at all. They just never They've 0:05:30.680 --> 0:05:32.880 never done anything to me, and I've never done anything 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.320 to them. And as a dumb that's just part of 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:38.960 like colde. I wouldn't like out somebody. What you mean 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.719 by outing is like, you know, exposed them to the 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:44.359 world just because I don't get along with the shop anymore. 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.200 Like that's not I don't I don't do things like that, 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:49.479 like unless you unless I feel that I need to 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:51.760 do certain things to get things done. I'm not gonna 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:53.680 just like be trashing you out on the streets just 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:55.400 for like a come up or something like that. That's 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:58.200 that's why to me. All right, we'll tell me about 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:00.120 black ink and what happened. Oh wait, no, let's get 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:03.880 to do this. Get We were asking, how do you like, 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.680 how does the initial meet up or how do you 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:09.880 guys like so how do we as dot com? Like 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:15.520 so many questions? Can you put yourself out there as 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.719 a mistress? How do your SUBMISSI find you to say? Hey, 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:20.800 I want to I want you to dom me. There's 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:24.599 several ways. Okay, so there are actual communities for this. 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:27.680 There are things called munches where people actually meet up 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:31.320 and like, yeah, munches just like lunches, but like lunching. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:39.280 Yeah sounds funny, black um correct um. And we met 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.919 at like diners like restaurants and like you have like 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.600 people thirty people all meet together kind of it's like 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:46.640 a mixer in a way, but like everyone's talking getting 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:55.719 to know each other. You can yourself munch mondays, yeah, 0:06:56.680 --> 0:07:00.480 and I've met several of my subs through munches. Um. 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:04.839 Sometimes they um like before I started going like a 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:07.760 little more mainstream with uh, you know, the New York 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:12.200 Post interview, Uh, doing some consulting for like other media 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:15.280 outlets that I cannot mention because I actually do I 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.400 have an agreement with them, um for some of the 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.600 shows that they're working on right now. Before I started 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:23.800 doing things like that, I actually, um for a while, 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:27.559 used to meet subs through like places like Craigslist before 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:33.080 I got shut though, um no, because what are you 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:39.240 gonna do to me if they try to kidnap you 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:41.360 with something. That's why it's best to meet in public. 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:44.040 You meet somewhere publicly. You don't go anywhere like in 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:46.720 the car or like you know, to their apartments. That's 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:49.320 like a recipe for disasters either way. You know, now 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:53.880 there for black Dominatrix is right? Most of your clients 0:07:53.880 --> 0:07:57.960 are white men. Oh yeah, successful white men because they 0:07:57.960 --> 0:07:59.520 have to have, like you said, have to have money 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:03.200 in order to be able to afford this type of luxury. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:08.200 Several of them you have all heard of before, very wealthy, 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:12.280 very well known Donald Trump. Uh No, but I wouldn't 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.840 doubt he definitely seemed like delight that would be hiring 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:19.200 a hint hint. I wouldn't doubt it. That's what I'm saying. 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.480 M He's word has been out on the street for 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.640 a minute amongst us, like in our community, pictures have 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.360 been like going around. That's all I'm gonna say, because 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:30.040 it really has nothing to do with me. I've never 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.480 seen this man, I've never met him before. We don't 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:34.599 want you to get staffed at the airport. I sure do, 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:37.960 and I'm not storming that. I know somebody. I'll smack everybody. 0:08:40.160 --> 0:08:42.000 So why do you explain why do you think a 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:44.000 man would be into this? Because I know some guys 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:47.000 are listening and like this sounds like a terrible idea, 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:51.360 but they're a little bit intrigued. Uh. If any man 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:55.520 sister says that they've never thought about a woman being 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:57.760 on top, which is a form of domination in my opinion, 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:00.640 If you have a woman on top, controlling strokes, controlling 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:03.520 when you come, she's dominating you because she has control 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:07.679 over that sexual situation. We gotta live dominant, yeah, because 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:13.640 we all give head all Right, unless you're doing it 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:15.560 because he told you too, then that still makes him 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:17.760 in the person in control. That makes any sense, right, 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.480 if you're doing it because like no, like right out, 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:25.480 I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna I'm gonna put this 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.200 on you right now. Like that's that's you dominating him, right, 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:35.760 You're the dominant situation yours. It's true too, who s 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.680 series a dog? She's letting it be known. You know, 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:49.800 I never heard accidentally summons me. I've never heard the 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:54.560 boy that sorry a lot of power in this working out. 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:59.360 Sorry work apple. Um, back to how you got started, right? 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.760 What was your first? Um? Who was in l A 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:05.000 was in Los Angeles? Um. When I was in Los Angeles, 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:11.679 I started like meeting different guys. UM. I met one 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:14.160 guy at a coffee shop. He was a lot older 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:16.680 than me. And the first thing I thought, you know, 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:18.360 I'm gonna be honest, it wasn't like, oh, this seems 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:20.880 like a nice person to do whatever. It's like he 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:22.800 probably has a lot of money. Like, let's see where 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.760 this is going, Like it's gonna be I was nineteen 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:27.320 at the time. If you're gonna be that old talking 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:31.880 to me and you don't have any money. So he's like, 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:33.560 I would love to take you out on a day. 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:35.000 I can take you here and I can tell you there. 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:36.960 I'm like Okay, well where will we go? I want 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:38.160 to know where you're gonna take me. I want to 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:40.880 know what your pockets are, looking at what car you're 0:10:40.960 --> 0:10:44.280 driving out the lot of everything. And so he's like, uh, 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.000 you know, he mentioned like a five star restaurant, you know, 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:48.960 and like he's talked about meeting at a five star 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:52.120 hotel and like, you know, ordering the best of the best, 0:10:52.120 --> 0:10:54.920 giving me gifts and things like that. And I was like, okay, 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:56.760 well this seems cool. And then I was like, you 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:58.679 know what, like I don't understand, like why I'm still 0:10:58.720 --> 0:11:00.400 around this guy if he can't do more for me, 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:02.640 Like dinners are nice and everything cool, But like what 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:09.400 if he would have said Chick fil a? All right, 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:12.320 so you continue, sorry, that would have been a rob 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:14.480 But if he took you in his lambo though, and 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:17.080 then took your shopping after, y'all was just going to 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.880 Chick fil a because he liked Mercedes one day to 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:24.120 Purce the next. So I was like okay with him, 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:28.480 okay um, And he actually I found out later on 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:32.200 he actually owns a talent company in Los Angeles. Um 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:35.640 so um. He told me that he had been in 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:38.319 the lifestyle for years that at that time of the 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:40.920 nineteen I have no idea what the lifestyle means or 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.480 any of these terms. He said, he's been a lifestyle 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:46.040 for over like twenty years. He's an older white man. 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:49.599 I wouldn't that man gay? Like if a guy he 0:11:49.640 --> 0:11:51.839 said to me, I wanted to be I've been in 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.760 the lifestyle for a while, the first thing, for some reason, 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:57.600 I would have been like, Okay, so you've been gay. 0:11:58.080 --> 0:11:59.600 That's what I would have that. I guess that's why 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:03.400 I body doth. No. I don't know what the hell. 0:12:03.480 --> 0:12:15.760 But if you say lifestyle, they like being uh with doms? 0:12:15.800 --> 0:12:18.840 They like being stuck. I mean, I wouldn't be surprised. 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:20.720 There are a lot of rappers are like being with doms. 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:23.679 I'll just put that out there. You've pad some celebrity kind, 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:25.560 but you're not allowed to out them. I am not 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:28.760 allowed to out them because I want to continue to 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.880 work with them. Yeah, and like, you don't even do it. 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:33.640 That's not why you do. Like you don't do things 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:35.600 like this if it's a business, You're not doing it 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:38.839 to put the next person's business out. And the reason 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:40.719 why they trust you is because they know that you're 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:43.200 not going to put out there, So why break that trust? 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.240 Like the same after something you know what I told 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:49.160 you did this ship every day because in the strip 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:51.480 club community, it's the same thing, you know, like when 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:53.280 these guys are coming and spending all this money on 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:56.160 you doing whatever they're doing for you, especially those that 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:58.800 are famous or rappers, are married or whatever, they don't 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:01.080 want their business out there. They're trusting it. You're gonna 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:05.360 keep the business and believe it or not no matter 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:08.560 how unless they did something outrageous like assaulted you or 0:13:08.600 --> 0:13:11.360 something like that and you need to come forward. I 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.880 don't really believe, just like that's what you said. But 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:17.080 I also personally, like morally don't believe it just dragging 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.600 people for no reason. Like there are a lot of girls, 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:21.480 like I noticed, like a lot of like trans women, 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.040 like they sometimes they do that, like they get mad 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.480 at a celebrity for sleeping with them or not, whatever 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:28.320 the issue is, and then they go all over social 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:30.040 media outing them. Like do you think you're gonna get 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:32.160 any more clients after that? Nobody's gonna trust you. But 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:34.439 I feel like people do because like even like superher 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:36.560 about her book, right, people still it was messing with 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:39.240 her after that you know. See, I don't want how 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.240 to get jammed out, but I'm nosy and I just 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:44.240 want to know who. Yeah, it's a lot, it's a 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.839 lot of people. Okay, So back to your first assignment. 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:52.400 So my first first this older So this older guy. 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:54.680 I'm just gonna call him Jim for for all because 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:57.080 I can't. It's like older guy can't keep saying like 0:13:57.120 --> 0:14:03.840 older guys a little bit. So German Jimmy So German Jim. Basically, 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:06.199 I was, you know, He's like, I want to tell 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:07.559 you something. I don't want you to judge me. I 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:08.960 thought he was gonna tell me had like an STD 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:12.280 or something in careable because he made it seem so serious. 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:15.760 And I'm like, holy sh it, like what is right now? 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:20.760 What's going on? Um? Which I don't judge people for 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:22.800 by the way, UM. And I was like, yo, he's 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:24.600 about to prut my bag? What's going on? And then 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:27.240 he's like, oh, you know, like he started showing me 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:29.280 like videos and I'm like, why are we watching this? 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:31.440 And I'm and he's like, because you know this is 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:33.120 stuff that I like, this is like the lifestyle I've 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:36.800 been in for twenty years. And um, he introduced me 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:38.560 to the scene that way, So we went to the 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.920 first fetish party. Um. Up until that point though, I've 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:44.240 been telling him what to do anyway, because I just 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.720 it was just like he has no he had no backbones. 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:49.360 To this day, he still does and I still know him. 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:53.560 We still um, he has no backbones. So I just 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:55.760 figured he's one of those dudes that's just older and 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:59.840 just maybe lonely or desperate. He's none of those things. 0:14:59.880 --> 0:15:04.160 I in the office, he's he's they said, those are 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:07.120 the people that really liked to higher because they're still 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.440 used to being in charge. They want to be dominated 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:11.960 at times. So what was the first thing you did 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:16.400 to him? Um? Like your first initially like, okay, this 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:22.320 is look at the face him. I don't know what's happening. So, um, 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.400 he really likes nipple play, he likes anal play, and 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:30.760 he really really enjoys CBT. CBT is calling Bolt twicture. Um. 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:35.560 So I we went to such shop, really well known 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:38.320 such shop. UM in l A shout out to Pleasure Chest, 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:40.920 which we had that in New York too. They also 0:15:40.960 --> 0:15:43.320 sponsored my party, so I love them. Shout out to 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.800 you guys West Village. You know, I love you guys. 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:48.520 I've been in Pleasure Chess a few times around where 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:51.960 is it. It's just Seventh Avenue in the West Village. 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:54.080 They're awesome, And so we went to the one in 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:55.840 l A at this time when I was still over there, 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:58.320 and we were like picking out different things, and like, 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:00.720 you know, I felt a little weird and also being 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:02.400 out in public with him for the first time, because 0:16:02.400 --> 0:16:05.560 that's actually because people like what's going on here? And 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:09.040 I was I looked young. I looked really young, nineteen 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.680 and you know, a lot of skinn You're also you know, 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:15.440 a young black girl with an older white man. People 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:18.200 already have their like give me looks, like we know 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:23.400 what you're doing kind of thing. The cops on him, Um, 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:25.960 so he were like in the like the section with 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:27.880 all the didos on the wall, he goes and picks 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:29.880 off the biggest one, and I'm like, a black guy. 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:34.400 It was it was, how do you know that big 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:38.960 black like this one like this big he's been around 0:16:38.960 --> 0:16:42.720 for twenty years, twenty years, you know all of that, right, 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:45.600 So um, He's like, I want to I want to 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:49.160 use this one. And I'm like at first, and I 0:16:49.200 --> 0:16:51.040 don't want to look too stupid either because I hadn't 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:52.680 I didn't know how to do a lot of this stuff. 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:57.760 I take it till you make it. So my maid 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:00.840 picked out like different so toys and I was like, 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:02.520 oh what about that one. He's like, oh, man, I 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:04.040 have that already of my house. We can just use 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:06.560 that one. And I like, how much time do you 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:12.560 have in your house? And he's like, you'll see what. Um. 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:14.199 So we get back to his house. He had like 0:17:14.240 --> 0:17:18.280 a whole two playrooms for uh, he has playrooms in 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:21.760 his house. It was a really big house, actually very beautiful. Um. 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:27.160 And he has two playrooms for one playroom is um design. 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:30.320 If his mistress at the time wants to bring other 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:32.960 people into the house to play with, then she can 0:17:33.000 --> 0:17:35.359 pick a room. Okay. So that I thought that was 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:41.119 really cool of him. Um, very sweet of him, very sweet. UM. 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:43.359 And I've sucked the shot out of him. So was 0:17:43.520 --> 0:17:45.359 his asset. It was wide opening ready because he's been 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:47.560 used to this because he had a big black dick 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:50.960 in him. Um. It actually is not as easy to 0:17:51.000 --> 0:17:52.639 get in no matter how long you do it, Like 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:54.959 the muscles will still go back to try to go 0:17:55.040 --> 0:17:59.000 back to the way. It's supposed to be. Um, your 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:02.119 first time pegging. Oh, that's not pegging. Pegging. That was 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:08.480 that was a funk between pegging and for me, pegging 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:11.200 is like something Oh we haven't rually here. How convenient. 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:15.000 So I'm like, you brought it here? Of course, what's 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:17.960 the sex like we have here? It's like those little 0:18:18.000 --> 0:18:20.560 things you would hurt in the butt just to get right, 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:23.400 just to get used to the dido like a plug, right, 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:26.280 you know, like things like that. That's pegging to me, 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:30.639 that's a little peg is like you know, the whole 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:33.160 decken like a whole film. Wasn't like manual or did 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:36.040 you strip one? Um? At first, I didn't manual because 0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:38.359 I didn't want to do strate. You know the terms 0:18:38.359 --> 0:18:40.960 and every time like manual, look at it. You cannot 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:46.040 tell me you ain't did know? I watched laporn? Now yeah, 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:50.399 you watch it with the value. Oh no, none of that. 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:54.840 I've never heard manual before. And now we're about to 0:18:54.840 --> 0:19:03.400 go take it off automatic put it on. You can't 0:19:03.400 --> 0:19:06.200 switch it around to both like I put on gloves 0:19:06.280 --> 0:19:09.000 and like he had to like there's a whole process, right, 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:11.520 so it takes like two hours if you're gonna be 0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:13.760 thorough about it. To be prepared to do like an 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:17.080 fucking for something that big, you gotta get the little ready. 0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:19.720 You gotta like get an enimal. I was gonna ask 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:22.040 you gotta clean so you gave him an enimunt or 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:26.600 he did it himself. I'm not doing that. I'm not 0:19:26.640 --> 0:19:28.439 playing around with ship or anything like that. If I 0:19:28.480 --> 0:19:30.639 even see it, I'm probably smacking. So nobody asked you 0:19:30.680 --> 0:19:32.679 the ship on them, asked me to shoot on them. 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:38.159 People have asked, but I'm not into the smell. You 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:41.840 fucking some mindy with a big black deil dog. To 0:19:41.880 --> 0:19:44.680 get prepared. Even now, I would still think like that's 0:19:44.720 --> 0:19:49.320 a big dick. Have accidents happen, Yeah, that's what happened once, 0:19:49.400 --> 0:19:51.600 and I beat the ship out of him and he 0:19:51.680 --> 0:19:56.919 loved it. He loved it. He's been calling ever the 0:19:56.920 --> 0:19:58.639 way you tell us what happened, I gotta hear this. 0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:01.439 Oh my gosh, it was horrible. So we met at 0:20:01.440 --> 0:20:03.600 a hotel. This is somebody that I've actually known for 0:20:03.640 --> 0:20:06.240 a long time, like they were coming to my parties 0:20:06.280 --> 0:20:08.280 for a while. I thought this person was so cool 0:20:08.280 --> 0:20:10.600 and they were so experienced. They seem knowledgeable about you know, 0:20:10.640 --> 0:20:13.000 all these things. I said, be ready by the time 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:15.000 I get there, because I don't plan on being there 0:20:15.000 --> 0:20:18.320 for three four hours while you get ready, ready, getting 0:20:18.359 --> 0:20:21.720 in and the right get it exactly. Get everything together. 0:20:22.480 --> 0:20:24.119 So when we get there, we can play and I 0:20:24.160 --> 0:20:25.600 can leave because I want to go home, but I 0:20:25.680 --> 0:20:27.000 do want to play with you, and I want to take, 0:20:27.040 --> 0:20:29.280 you know, time to spend time with you. Blah blah blah. 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:32.639 I get there and he's like, I got everything ready. 0:20:32.800 --> 0:20:36.520 I did everything. I'm like, okay, cool. We start playing 0:20:36.600 --> 0:20:44.000 and I should you not? Oh my god, hi should 0:20:44.000 --> 0:20:47.920 you know? Maybe five minutes into it, like I started 0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:50.840 like smelling stuff because I was I had my okay, 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:52.960 I had my hand on his head, I was pulling 0:20:53.000 --> 0:20:55.560 his hair. I was like grabbing him on the side. 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:57.920 I have like these these claws that you can put 0:20:57.960 --> 0:21:01.159 on your fingers, so I had him like with my 0:21:01.240 --> 0:21:03.480 other hand and craw pulling his hair and him at 0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:05.800 the same time. So then I'm like talking to him. 0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:07.960 I'm telling him you like this stupid little bit whatever. 0:21:08.000 --> 0:21:09.359 And then I'm like getting the smell and I'm like, 0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:12.920 hold on a second, I just I stopped and I 0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:15.000 let all his hair and then I like pulled out 0:21:15.080 --> 0:21:18.720