1 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: What's up. It's lip service. I'm Inteli, I'm g G Maguire, 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: I'm Leah, and we're having a very educational lip service today. 3 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: We have Venus Cup here with us. Hello. Hell, Venus 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: is a dominatrix and um, we've been learning a lot 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: about this. We did our research and you actually own 6 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: a dungeon. So explain to us what goes on in 7 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: the dungeon, because look, everybody thinks the fifty shades are great, 8 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: and I feel like that's been tane compared to the 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: type of thing that can really go down. So talk 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 1: to us about what it means for you to be 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: at dom dominatrix and uh, what type of people are 12 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: requesting your services? Um, fifty shades is nothing like what 13 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 1: things are really like. They did not capture in essence, 14 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: what we're all about as a community, because there actually 15 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: is a community of of us that that kind of 16 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: do this on a regular basis. This is our lifestyle. 17 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: This is like, you know, I have forty two submissives 18 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: and I can call them any time of the day 19 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: I need drive here. They one of them gave me 20 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:06,400 Speaker 1: a ride. I call him my cab um taking to 21 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 1: her appointments taking me to get my nails done. Um, 22 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: sometimes they pay rents, sometimes they don't. Sometimes they give 23 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: me a massage when I need. It's more of a lifestyle, 24 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: it's more of an everyday thing is kind of unrealistic. 25 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: And um, the way they kind of met each other 26 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: at work and he's like a gazillionaire and she's like poor, 27 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: and then they kind of there's like a red room 28 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: in the back of his house somewhere. The whole thing 29 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: is just like bizarre as fucked Like we were all 30 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: like looking at the like, what the fund is this? 31 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: It's bullshit? It's right, So all right, so explain to 32 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: me how can somebody like get involved in this life? 33 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: How did you get started as a as a dom? Yikes? 34 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: So it's called dan's and subs. Right, how does the 35 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: slaves what do you call them? Um? It depends on 36 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: what your role is and what you feel more comfortable in. Okay, 37 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: there's actually a difference between the submissive and a slave. 38 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: A lot of people don't even know that. What's the difference. 39 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: So a slave gives up all their rights. Everything in 40 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: d s M is power exchanges, right, Um, I give 41 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: you my power, uh to have over me? And to 42 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: tell me what to do and to request certain things. Um, 43 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: how did the safest way to do is that we 44 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: would have like for example, mooves me and you we 45 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: would have a conversation. Um, and do it do it 46 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:27,079 Speaker 1: first right now? Um, I'm gonna pretend to be you're 47 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:31,519 Speaker 1: submissive ha ha um. So hi, I'm interested in you 48 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: being my dumb sometimes that are happened like that? Um, 49 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: and then what do you think? And then what do 50 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: your qualifications have been? Experience? Yeah? Yeah, that is a 51 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: question you ask how long have you been doing this? 52 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: Have you served anyone before? You do have experience? What 53 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: services can you offer me? Because if you have nothing 54 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: to bring to the table, how are you serving me? 55 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: If you can't drive me places, if you can't clean 56 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: for me, if you can't cook for me, if you 57 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: can't do my laundry, if we have a hope, if 58 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: you can't take me to dinners and you can't. You 59 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: can't do all these things, and you're not to fight 60 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 1: one for me. But these are all questions you gotta 61 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: ask from the jump. You can't ask halfway through. It's 62 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: like a relationship. I want to know if you're married. 63 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: I want to know if you have kids. I want 64 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: to know if you have a stable income. You know, 65 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: these are things you talk about. Well, David, I don't 66 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:31,519 Speaker 1: want to know, so you okay, So you would talk 67 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: about these things first, that's the first thing. And they're 68 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: called negotiations. And when you do negotiations contract, yes, and 69 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 1: then you get to the contract after negotiation, Wait, do 70 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: you go to dinner to have this negotiations? And side 71 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: could be I recommend all of that. I mean I 72 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: don't know about the side walk like, okay, let's not 73 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: get out your past about what you can offer me. Okay, 74 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: So that's just submissive. But wait, so how can they 75 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: find you? So wait, what about a slave? Because you 76 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: said there's a difference. Yea, So during these negotiations you 77 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: would talk about power exchanges and in what way are 78 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: these exchanges going to be had? So it can either 79 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: be they are a sub A submissive is someone that 80 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: is like a housewife, like they will They still have 81 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: their own opinions, they still have saying certain things, but 82 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: the ultimate decision lands on the dom. But they still 83 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: have a voice. You can take their voice with a 84 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: slave is complete opposite of that. They have no voice. 85 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: They can say things that they want to do because legally, 86 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: you know, by law, they have to say, like I 87 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: consent to doing this, or I consent to being funcked in. 88 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 1: He asked for fourteen hours or something like that. Listen, 89 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: you domin you right now, But you guys know it's 90 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: like a no pleasure. Man. Isn't the first day I 91 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: don't think that you've done? I mean venice, you've done 92 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: four teens. So yeah, the fifth. It wasn't nobody from 93 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: Black Ink, was it? Oh? The fifth? Whoa I play 94 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: the fifth? Damn it. It wasn't fourteen hours. It wasn't 95 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: fourteen hours with with that person, but um yeah, I 96 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 1: dominated that person times. Actually, are you taking that somebody 97 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: from Black Ink because you wear I'm blacking. Yeah, but 98 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: confidentiality agreement or not at all. They just never They've 99 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: never done anything to me, and I've never done anything 100 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: to them. And as a dumb that's just part of 101 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: like colde. I wouldn't like out somebody. What you mean 102 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 1: by outing is like, you know, exposed them to the 103 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 1: world just because I don't get along with the shop anymore. 104 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: Like that's not I don't I don't do things like that, 105 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 1: like unless you unless I feel that I need to 106 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: do certain things to get things done. I'm not gonna 107 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: just like be trashing you out on the streets just 108 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: for like a come up or something like that. That's 109 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: that's why to me. All right, we'll tell me about 110 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,120 Speaker 1: black ink and what happened. Oh wait, no, let's get 111 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: to do this. Get We were asking, how do you like, 112 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: how does the initial meet up or how do you 113 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: guys like so how do we as dot com? Like 114 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: so many questions? Can you put yourself out there as 115 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: a mistress? How do your SUBMISSI find you to say? Hey, 116 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 1: I want to I want you to dom me. There's 117 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: several ways. Okay, so there are actual communities for this. 118 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: There are things called munches where people actually meet up 119 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: and like, yeah, munches just like lunches, but like lunching. 120 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: Yeah sounds funny, black um correct um. And we met 121 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 1: at like diners like restaurants and like you have like 122 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: people thirty people all meet together kind of it's like 123 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: a mixer in a way, but like everyone's talking getting 124 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:55,719 Speaker 1: to know each other. You can yourself munch mondays, yeah, 125 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: and I've met several of my subs through munches. Um. 126 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 1: Sometimes they um like before I started going like a 127 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: little more mainstream with uh, you know, the New York 128 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: Post interview, Uh, doing some consulting for like other media 129 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: outlets that I cannot mention because I actually do I 130 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: have an agreement with them, um for some of the 131 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: shows that they're working on right now. Before I started 132 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: doing things like that, I actually, um for a while, 133 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:27,559 Speaker 1: used to meet subs through like places like Craigslist before 134 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: I got shut though, um no, because what are you 135 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: gonna do to me if they try to kidnap you 136 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: with something. That's why it's best to meet in public. 137 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: You meet somewhere publicly. You don't go anywhere like in 138 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: the car or like you know, to their apartments. That's 139 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: like a recipe for disasters either way. You know, now 140 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: there for black Dominatrix is right? Most of your clients 141 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: are white men. Oh yeah, successful white men because they 142 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: have to have, like you said, have to have money 143 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: in order to be able to afford this type of luxury. 144 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: Several of them you have all heard of before, very wealthy, 145 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: very well known Donald Trump. Uh No, but I wouldn't 146 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: doubt he definitely seemed like delight that would be hiring 147 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: a hint hint. I wouldn't doubt it. That's what I'm saying. 148 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: M He's word has been out on the street for 149 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: a minute amongst us, like in our community, pictures have 150 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: been like going around. That's all I'm gonna say, because 151 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: it really has nothing to do with me. I've never 152 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 1: seen this man, I've never met him before. We don't 153 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,599 Speaker 1: want you to get staffed at the airport. I sure do, 154 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: and I'm not storming that. I know somebody. I'll smack everybody. 155 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: So why do you explain why do you think a 156 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 1: man would be into this? Because I know some guys 157 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: are listening and like this sounds like a terrible idea, 158 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: but they're a little bit intrigued. Uh. If any man 159 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: sister says that they've never thought about a woman being 160 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: on top, which is a form of domination in my opinion, 161 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: If you have a woman on top, controlling strokes, controlling 162 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: when you come, she's dominating you because she has control 163 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 1: over that sexual situation. We gotta live dominant, yeah, because 164 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: we all give head all Right, unless you're doing it 165 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 1: because he told you too, then that still makes him 166 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: in the person in control. That makes any sense, right, 167 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: if you're doing it because like no, like right out, 168 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna I'm gonna put this 169 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: on you right now. Like that's that's you dominating him, right, 170 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: You're the dominant situation yours. It's true too, who s 171 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 1: series a dog? She's letting it be known. You know, 172 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: I never heard accidentally summons me. I've never heard the 173 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: boy that sorry a lot of power in this working out. 174 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: Sorry work apple. Um, back to how you got started, right? 175 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: What was your first? Um? Who was in l A 176 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: was in Los Angeles? Um. When I was in Los Angeles, 177 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 1: I started like meeting different guys. UM. I met one 178 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: guy at a coffee shop. He was a lot older 179 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: than me. And the first thing I thought, you know, 180 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, it wasn't like, oh, this seems 181 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: like a nice person to do whatever. It's like he 182 00:10:20,920 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: probably has a lot of money. Like, let's see where 183 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: this is going, Like it's gonna be I was nineteen 184 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: at the time. If you're gonna be that old talking 185 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: to me and you don't have any money. So he's like, 186 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 1: I would love to take you out on a day. 187 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: I can take you here and I can tell you there. 188 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm like Okay, well where will we go? I want 189 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: to know where you're gonna take me. I want to 190 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: know what your pockets are, looking at what car you're 191 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: driving out the lot of everything. And so he's like, uh, 192 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: you know, he mentioned like a five star restaurant, you know, 193 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: and like he's talked about meeting at a five star 194 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: hotel and like, you know, ordering the best of the best, 195 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: giving me gifts and things like that. And I was like, okay, 196 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: well this seems cool. And then I was like, you 197 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: know what, like I don't understand, like why I'm still 198 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: around this guy if he can't do more for me, 199 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: Like dinners are nice and everything cool, But like what 200 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: if he would have said Chick fil a? All right, 201 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 1: so you continue, sorry, that would have been a rob 202 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: But if he took you in his lambo though, and 203 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: then took your shopping after, y'all was just going to 204 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: Chick fil a because he liked Mercedes one day to 205 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: Purce the next. So I was like okay with him, 206 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 1: okay um, And he actually I found out later on 207 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: he actually owns a talent company in Los Angeles. Um 208 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 1: so um. He told me that he had been in 209 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,319 Speaker 1: the lifestyle for years that at that time of the 210 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: nineteen I have no idea what the lifestyle means or 211 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: any of these terms. He said, he's been a lifestyle 212 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 1: for over like twenty years. He's an older white man. 213 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,599 Speaker 1: I wouldn't that man gay? Like if a guy he 214 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:51,839 Speaker 1: said to me, I wanted to be I've been in 215 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: the lifestyle for a while, the first thing, for some reason, 216 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: I would have been like, Okay, so you've been gay. 217 00:11:58,080 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: That's what I would have that. I guess that's why 218 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: I body doth. No. I don't know what the hell. 219 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: But if you say lifestyle, they like being uh with doms? 220 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 1: They like being stuck. I mean, I wouldn't be surprised. 221 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: There are a lot of rappers are like being with doms. 222 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: I'll just put that out there. You've pad some celebrity kind, 223 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 1: but you're not allowed to out them. I am not 224 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 1: allowed to out them because I want to continue to 225 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 1: work with them. Yeah, and like, you don't even do it. 226 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: That's not why you do. Like you don't do things 227 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: like this if it's a business, You're not doing it 228 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,839 Speaker 1: to put the next person's business out. And the reason 229 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 1: why they trust you is because they know that you're 230 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 1: not going to put out there, So why break that trust? 231 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: Like the same after something you know what I told 232 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: you did this ship every day because in the strip 233 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: club community, it's the same thing, you know, like when 234 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: these guys are coming and spending all this money on 235 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: you doing whatever they're doing for you, especially those that 236 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: are famous or rappers, are married or whatever, they don't 237 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: want their business out there. They're trusting it. You're gonna 238 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:05,360 Speaker 1: keep the business and believe it or not no matter 239 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: how unless they did something outrageous like assaulted you or 240 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 1: something like that and you need to come forward. I 241 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: don't really believe, just like that's what you said. But 242 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: I also personally, like morally don't believe it just dragging 243 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: people for no reason. Like there are a lot of girls, 244 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 1: like I noticed, like a lot of like trans women, 245 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: like they sometimes they do that, like they get mad 246 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: at a celebrity for sleeping with them or not, whatever 247 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:28,320 Speaker 1: the issue is, and then they go all over social 248 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 1: media outing them. Like do you think you're gonna get 249 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: any more clients after that? Nobody's gonna trust you. But 250 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 1: I feel like people do because like even like superher 251 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: about her book, right, people still it was messing with 252 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 1: her after that you know. See, I don't want how 253 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: to get jammed out, but I'm nosy and I just 254 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: want to know who. Yeah, it's a lot, it's a 255 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: lot of people. Okay, So back to your first assignment. 256 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: So my first first this older So this older guy. 257 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna call him Jim for for all because 258 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 1: I can't. It's like older guy can't keep saying like 259 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: older guys a little bit. So German Jimmy So German Jim. Basically, 260 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,199 Speaker 1: I was, you know, He's like, I want to tell 261 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:07,559 Speaker 1: you something. I don't want you to judge me. I 262 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 1: thought he was gonna tell me had like an STD 263 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: or something in careable because he made it seem so serious. 264 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 1: And I'm like, holy sh it, like what is right now? 265 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: What's going on? Um? Which I don't judge people for 266 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: by the way, UM. And I was like, yo, he's 267 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: about to prut my bag? What's going on? And then 268 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: he's like, oh, you know, like he started showing me 269 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:29,280 Speaker 1: like videos and I'm like, why are we watching this? 270 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: And I'm and he's like, because you know this is 271 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 1: stuff that I like, this is like the lifestyle I've 272 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 1: been in for twenty years. And um, he introduced me 273 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: to the scene that way, So we went to the 274 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: first fetish party. Um. Up until that point though, I've 275 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: been telling him what to do anyway, because I just 276 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: it was just like he has no he had no backbones. 277 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: To this day, he still does and I still know him. 278 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: We still um, he has no backbones. So I just 279 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: figured he's one of those dudes that's just older and 280 00:14:55,880 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: just maybe lonely or desperate. He's none of those things. 281 00:14:59,880 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 1: I in the office, he's he's they said, those are 282 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: the people that really liked to higher because they're still 283 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: used to being in charge. They want to be dominated 284 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: at times. So what was the first thing you did 285 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: to him? Um? Like your first initially like, okay, this 286 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: is look at the face him. I don't know what's happening. So, um, 287 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 1: he really likes nipple play, he likes anal play, and 288 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: he really really enjoys CBT. CBT is calling Bolt twicture. Um. 289 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: So I we went to such shop, really well known 290 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: such shop. UM in l A shout out to Pleasure Chest, 291 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: which we had that in New York too. They also 292 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: sponsored my party, so I love them. Shout out to 293 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: you guys West Village. You know, I love you guys. 294 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 1: I've been in Pleasure Chess a few times around where 295 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 1: is it. It's just Seventh Avenue in the West Village. 296 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: They're awesome, And so we went to the one in 297 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 1: l A at this time when I was still over there, 298 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: and we were like picking out different things, and like, 299 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: you know, I felt a little weird and also being 300 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: out in public with him for the first time, because 301 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 1: that's actually because people like what's going on here? And 302 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: I was I looked young. I looked really young, nineteen 303 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: and you know, a lot of skinn You're also you know, 304 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: a young black girl with an older white man. People 305 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: already have their like give me looks, like we know 306 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: what you're doing kind of thing. The cops on him, Um, 307 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 1: so he were like in the like the section with 308 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 1: all the didos on the wall, he goes and picks 309 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: off the biggest one, and I'm like, a black guy. 310 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 1: It was it was, how do you know that big 311 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 1: black like this one like this big he's been around 312 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: for twenty years, twenty years, you know all of that, right, 313 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: So um, He's like, I want to I want to 314 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: use this one. And I'm like at first, and I 315 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: don't want to look too stupid either because I hadn't 316 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: I didn't know how to do a lot of this stuff. 317 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: I take it till you make it. So my maid 318 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: picked out like different so toys and I was like, 319 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: oh what about that one. He's like, oh, man, I 320 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: have that already of my house. We can just use 321 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 1: that one. And I like, how much time do you 322 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: have in your house? And he's like, you'll see what. Um. 323 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 1: So we get back to his house. He had like 324 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 1: a whole two playrooms for uh, he has playrooms in 325 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: his house. It was a really big house, actually very beautiful. Um. 326 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:27,160 Speaker 1: And he has two playrooms for one playroom is um design. 327 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 1: If his mistress at the time wants to bring other 328 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 1: people into the house to play with, then she can 329 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,359 Speaker 1: pick a room. Okay. So that I thought that was 330 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: really cool of him. Um, very sweet of him, very sweet. UM. 331 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 1: And I've sucked the shot out of him. So was 332 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 1: his asset. It was wide opening ready because he's been 333 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 1: used to this because he had a big black dick 334 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: in him. Um. It actually is not as easy to 335 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: get in no matter how long you do it, Like 336 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:54,959 Speaker 1: the muscles will still go back to try to go 337 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: back to the way. It's supposed to be. Um, your 338 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 1: first time pegging. Oh, that's not pegging. Pegging. That was 339 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: that was a funk between pegging and for me, pegging 340 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: is like something Oh we haven't rually here. How convenient. 341 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 1: So I'm like, you brought it here? Of course, what's 342 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 1: the sex like we have here? It's like those little 343 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: things you would hurt in the butt just to get right, 344 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 1: just to get used to the dido like a plug, right, 345 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 1: you know, like things like that. That's pegging to me, 346 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 1: that's a little peg is like you know, the whole 347 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: decken like a whole film. Wasn't like manual or did 348 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: you strip one? Um? At first, I didn't manual because 349 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 1: I didn't want to do strate. You know the terms 350 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: and every time like manual, look at it. You cannot 351 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: tell me you ain't did know? I watched laporn? Now yeah, 352 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: you watch it with the value. Oh no, none of that. 353 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: I've never heard manual before. And now we're about to 354 00:18:54,840 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 1: go take it off automatic put it on. You can't 355 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: switch it around to both like I put on gloves 356 00:19:06,280 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 1: and like he had to like there's a whole process, right, 357 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: so it takes like two hours if you're gonna be 358 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:13,760 Speaker 1: thorough about it. To be prepared to do like an 359 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: fucking for something that big, you gotta get the little ready. 360 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: You gotta like get an enimal. I was gonna ask 361 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: you gotta clean so you gave him an enimunt or 362 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: he did it himself. I'm not doing that. I'm not 363 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,439 Speaker 1: playing around with ship or anything like that. If I 364 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 1: even see it, I'm probably smacking. So nobody asked you 365 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 1: the ship on them, asked me to shoot on them. 366 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:38,159 Speaker 1: People have asked, but I'm not into the smell. You 367 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 1: fucking some mindy with a big black deil dog. To 368 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,680 Speaker 1: get prepared. Even now, I would still think like that's 369 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: a big dick. Have accidents happen, Yeah, that's what happened once, 370 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: and I beat the ship out of him and he 371 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 1: loved it. He loved it. He's been calling ever the 372 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 1: way you tell us what happened, I gotta hear this. 373 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,439 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it was horrible. So we met at 374 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 1: a hotel. This is somebody that I've actually known for 375 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: a long time, like they were coming to my parties 376 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: for a while. I thought this person was so cool 377 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: and they were so experienced. They seem knowledgeable about you know, 378 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: all these things. I said, be ready by the time 379 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 1: I get there, because I don't plan on being there 380 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 1: for three four hours while you get ready, ready, getting 381 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 1: in and the right get it exactly. Get everything together. 382 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 1: So when we get there, we can play and I 383 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: can leave because I want to go home, but I 384 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: do want to play with you, and I want to take, 385 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: you know, time to spend time with you. Blah blah blah. 386 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,639 Speaker 1: I get there and he's like, I got everything ready. 387 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 1: I did everything. I'm like, okay, cool. We start playing 388 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: and I should you not? Oh my god, hi should 389 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: you know? Maybe five minutes into it, like I started 390 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 1: like smelling stuff because I was I had my okay, 391 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 1: I had my hand on his head, I was pulling 392 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: his hair. I was like grabbing him on the side. 393 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: I have like these these claws that you can put 394 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 1: on your fingers, so I had him like with my 395 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,480 Speaker 1: other hand and craw pulling his hair and him at 396 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 1: the same time. So then I'm like talking to him. 397 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: I'm telling him you like this stupid little bit whatever. 398 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,359 Speaker 1: And then I'm like getting the smell and I'm like, 399 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:12,920 Speaker 1: hold on a second, I just I stopped and I 400 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: let all his hair and then I like pulled out 401 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: and then he just shipped over. I was like, get guy, 402 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: so did you bean in a while he was shitty 403 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 1: or did you clean? He clean? So this? Did you 404 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:29,719 Speaker 1: be her shitty as? Yes? Yes I do. Okay, So 405 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 1: I took this unbuckle the straps on the side. Did 406 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: you make him eat? I'm not into none of that 407 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 1: would have like eat this. I'm kidding. Don't get racist. Okay, 408 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: do you know I'm talking about two girls? One cup 409 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 1: was the two girls and I thought those were they 410 00:21:56,080 --> 00:22:08,399 Speaker 1: were a wait that shade the weekend ship and he 411 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 1: loved you whatever? No, no, no, it wasn't like it 412 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 1: wasn't I should probably shouldn't even be saying, to be honest. 413 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: It wasn't even like like just how dare you? You're 414 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: such a That was like, yo, you really fucking ship 415 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:25,440 Speaker 1: it on me, like the ship on right? That's not cool. 416 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 1: I was so fucking man going here. And he called 417 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,439 Speaker 1: me afterwards. He sent me tribute, tribute, just like when 418 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: they send money to like, you know, just make you happy, rightute, 419 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 1: I need a tribute? Okay, I know. We never says 420 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: I need tribute. Literally, yeah, I hear that, literally tribute. 421 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:51,520 Speaker 1: I see these shoes, they look nice. Tribute. I got 422 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:53,880 Speaker 1: to start doing that. Sometimes I don't even say the word. 423 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: It's like I kind of like, kind of like the 424 00:22:56,080 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: word tribute. He sent me to two thousand dollars. He 425 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,119 Speaker 1: was sorry. Um, I told him that I had to do. 426 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 1: I threw the entire outfit away. I was so freaking mad, 427 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 1: Like he was trying to say sorry, he was like 428 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 1: trying whatever. Never played with him again, but I'm still 429 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 1: cool with him. We still friends. Whatever we're talking. You 430 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: would never seen him again. Hell no, But it's an accident. Though. 431 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: I told him to get ready before that. He text 432 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:27,879 Speaker 1: me he's you know, he was ready. He planned that ship. 433 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:32,639 Speaker 1: He literally, yes, he was ready. I want to that. 434 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: I hope to currently. I want to say forty two 435 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 1: to forty five. A couple of them all about to 436 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: get jobs soon because they're not making me happy? Of them? 437 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: Do you like fucking ass um It depends. Some of 438 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: them are married and their wife knows. Some of them 439 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 1: are married, but they say their wife knows. But I 440 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,880 Speaker 1: think they're lying about that clearly, Like how many women 441 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 1: are you know? I'm gonna be like, oh, that's okay. 442 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 1: If you see another woman for stuff I can't give you. Um, 443 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: you like billions, No, I don't. I don't watch much TV. 444 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: I lost I lost faith after certain So let's just 445 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: say that we wanted to have like some of your 446 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: steps come like intern and run and run and do 447 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,439 Speaker 1: some stuff first for the service they could you can 448 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:22,959 Speaker 1: send them over here and be like, yeah, I need 449 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 1: you to go by Angela g and um lurias and 450 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: bags and stuff we need they need simply leminated. She's like, no, 451 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: that's for men. They would also be like kind of 452 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,199 Speaker 1: like intimidated by all three of you because of like 453 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: industry people, and these are industry people, make any sense, 454 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,679 Speaker 1: so they like I have some submissives that are just 455 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 1: like Joe Schmo's they like have regular nine to five 456 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 1: jobs or whatever, but some of them are not. And 457 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: those are the people that have the coin to provide. 458 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 1: Can gem and Jim come like is very nice? Also 459 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: very we are he's very paranoid, right, Okay, I got 460 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: it all right, So um now let's get some training 461 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:14,200 Speaker 1: here because let's just says like the closest I think 462 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,439 Speaker 1: to being a dumb it might be your partner. I 463 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 1: think you're working together. I think you are to be. 464 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: I really do you have the natural demeanor personality. But 465 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 1: I think like in terms of like training somebody that 466 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 1: has untapped potential to be one of the best. I 467 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 1: think you have that Mrs Angela talking about I would 468 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 1: make him eat the ship. Nobody heard that I would 469 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 1: make it. All right, but let's let's let's do some 470 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,880 Speaker 1: some training. Let's just say, right, for some women out 471 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: there that are listening, they want to get into the lifestyle. Okay, 472 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: what what should we start with? Um? Classes learning how 473 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 1: to use toys, because if you don't know how to 474 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: use them and you use them on people, you can 475 00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,920 Speaker 1: injure somebody really bad. Like, we don't want to interest 476 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,159 Speaker 1: someone with some CBT, right, so you need to know 477 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,880 Speaker 1: where to hit. We're not to hit to talk about 478 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: CBT since all right, let's train us in that first. Okay, 479 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 1: so what are some things we need to know about 480 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: cock and book twitterure. I should have probably about building 481 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:25,200 Speaker 1: for this, but um, there's like a whole Dan has one, 482 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 1: there's about So let's say this is leiness. Use are 483 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: the balls? Right? Okay? Oh? This is actually a hood 484 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 1: that fresh you. Oh no, pressure, the pressure? Oh my god. 485 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 1: We have some Okay, yeah, he wants to be part 486 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: of this. Okay, Okay, we're clack and ball. Here we go. Um, 487 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: so this is the dick, these are the balls, right, 488 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: So if you're trying to do like any type of 489 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: domination or something, you can simply tie the rope all 490 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,159 Speaker 1: around the dick and the balls and make it as 491 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,120 Speaker 1: tight as possible until it turns purple. I've seen that, 492 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 1: and when it's nice, I really I personally enjoy this 493 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 1: because when it's nice and like turning different colors. Um, 494 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: that's when you can get something like this and starts 495 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: smacking the ship out of it. It It hurts so much. 496 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 1: It's beauty and so much. It's the most beautiful thing 497 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: I've ever seen in my life. Or you kids, Harry Snacker, Anya, see, 498 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 1: I knew it. She does this competition in female domination, 499 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: there's no woman against woman bullshit. There's none of them. 500 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: We like you know how men there's really no conversation 501 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: with men as certain industries like we can all win 502 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 1: together type of ship and with female domination there really 503 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 1: it's female supremacy. There really shouldn't be any competition. It's 504 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: like you're my sister and we're going to dominate him, him, him, 505 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 1: and him to get it. So this is really great 506 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:08,040 Speaker 1: for female empowerment, double dominatrix, double dom sessions and this. 507 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,200 Speaker 1: So I've read articles if I had this can really 508 00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:12,919 Speaker 1: help women in the workplace as far as it's serting 509 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,120 Speaker 1: themselves and not taking no ship from anybody at work. 510 00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: I've had to use that tactic a couple of times 511 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,439 Speaker 1: at different places that I've worked or um, you know, 512 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 1: running a business or kind of like doing my own thing, 513 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:31,439 Speaker 1: like uh yeah, holding myself accountable for my own my 514 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: own winnings and failings and life. Um, if you're gonna 515 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: dominate somebody else, you have to dominate your own life first. 516 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: You have to kind of take control of your surroundings 517 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: who you're friends with, and say this person is not 518 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: good for me, this person is good for me, this 519 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 1: person is negative and they're bringing me down. Or you know, 520 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: I can eliminate the negative, embrace the positive, speak positive 521 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: affirmations to myself every day, Um, make myself better, and 522 00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,240 Speaker 1: then I have the right to dominate somebody else because 523 00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: they believe me. Now, that's a heart that as a 524 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 1: daminated genes supposed to sleep with your selves. Is that true, 525 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,080 Speaker 1: it's not. It's not a good idea to sleep. It's 526 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 1: not because a lot of women I believe in my 527 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: personal opinion, right, and I know a lot of feminists. 528 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: You know, they probably like to come for people that 529 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 1: say things like this, But your vagina holds a lot 530 00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 1: of power in this world as much as people like 531 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 1: to say. And this is no disrespect to any trans 532 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: woman out there that doesn't have a vagina. It does not. 533 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 1: What I'm saying does not take away from you being 534 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: a woman at all. Okay, what I'm saying is like 535 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: for sis gendered women, having a vagina is powerful for us, 536 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: and in this world, they take that away from us. 537 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: They say that doesn't make you proberful, makes you weak. Oh, 538 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: don't be a pussy. Uh, don't you know you're acting 539 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: like a little girl. They always everything that with us 540 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 1: is always run by like weak um submission and yeah, 541 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: it's always like something very like you know, they talk 542 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 1: about like meat us emasculated member. They emasculate us all 543 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: the time. They put us down all the time. You know. 544 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: The girls been like secon night dick. Yeah, to have 545 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 1: me to feel like they have more power, that's like, 546 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:13,000 Speaker 1: that's right, there, you know, and so like, I feel 547 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: like when you sleep with a man and you just 548 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 1: give him that power, you kind of lose some of it. 549 00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 1: I feel like, if you're going to sleep with someone, 550 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 1: let it be because they have proved to you that 551 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 1: they are worthy of it, If that makes any sense. 552 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm not saying like on some Christian ship like only 553 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: don't sleep with a man because it makes you dirty. 554 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:33,680 Speaker 1: Has nothing to do with that. I don't believe women 555 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 1: that sleep around or dirty at all. I know, um, 556 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: I believe um. But you know, if you you know, 557 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: whatever you want to do with your body is your decision, 558 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: is your choice. If you want to a hundred guys 559 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 1: in one night, be safe about it. Yeah, But does 560 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,880 Speaker 1: that make her a dirty or slut? I don't think so. 561 00:30:52,000 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 1: Not my opinion, I'm not I'm not gonna judge. I 562 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: don't know. But she has a lot. It's like getting 563 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 1: his book a world record, and she's probably really good 564 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 1: at what she does because they all come to her 565 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: for if she's such a whole, why they why they 566 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: sleep with her? Right? If she's so dirty? Yes, what 567 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 1: do you? What do you? So? The thing is like, 568 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't judge her for like being a whore or slurt. 569 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: I would judge her because she's not holding herself to 570 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: a higher standard. She's not looking at herself and be like, 571 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm worth more than this to just pass myself around 572 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: to everybody. I've realized that, Like, and you know, I 573 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: don't know any dumb that would say, you know, I 574 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,240 Speaker 1: never slept with this submissive. That's not true. I know 575 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: plenty of times to sleep with selbs. They just stick 576 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 1: around long after that because you gave him everything. I've 577 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: been with German Gym since I was nineteen and never 578 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: fucked him. We've never fucked and he's still around and 579 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 1: he's never gonna have sex with me. He knows that 580 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 1: he will be on his deathbed begging for vagina from 581 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 1: me and we'll never get it. He smile at him 582 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: and close his eye lids for him at least on 583 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: the well that's two inch, no two inches. And that's 584 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 1: another thing right there, serves up when you talk about 585 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: how little there dick is and like you rate them yea, 586 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: and the humiliation a little button. Do you do have 587 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 1: the humiliation? I do that if we like, if we negotiate, 588 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 1: like I just said, let me if we do that 589 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: like um. If we do that, like you know, like um, 590 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:37,080 Speaker 1: like we agree on that, then that's totally fun. If 591 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 1: we agree that public umulation is that thing, that's really fine. 592 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: Like for example, German Gen he's a CEO of a company. 593 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 1: He don't want that of a well known talent agency. 594 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 1: He's not gonna want to do public umulation because at 595 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 1: his job and to his peers, he is the man. 596 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 1: When people see me with him, they just think, oh, 597 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,240 Speaker 1: she's a long term sugar baby slash girlfriend, slash whatever 598 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: she is. But in public he always has to appear 599 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 1: like he has control. But behind closed doors we all 600 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 1: know it's a different story. Right. See we over here 601 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: giving away public humulation for free. When we argue what 602 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 1: I mean, we could be getting paid for We could 603 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 1: be getting paid for that saying very quiet, I don't 604 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 1: argue with people. So do you have to work or 605 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: is this just yet full time? This is work? Yeah? 606 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 1: That yeah dungeon? Okay, so how do people like find 607 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: your dungeon? Like, how do they know that you have 608 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 1: this place where they can how can they contact you? Um? 609 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 1: So there's my aunties are very limited when it comes 610 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 1: to things like this because I know people are trying 611 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:35,959 Speaker 1: to figure out how can we find Venus Cup, how 612 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 1: can we get involved? I mean I have an Instagram. 613 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: I teach classes all around the city. I host events 614 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,959 Speaker 1: all around the city. We should go to the class. 615 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that that's a good idea. UM. I have 616 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: like a lot of industry. I have. I teach a 617 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 1: lot of like you know, older white women on the 618 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: Upper West Side as well, Like I go to their 619 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 1: house and I give them like class on how to 620 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: spice up their sex life using like household items, using 621 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: like belts, cooking spoons and all of that play with 622 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:08,680 Speaker 1: that's why you can't eat people. I wouldn't recommend that. 623 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go ahead and base this. Chicken and 624 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,360 Speaker 1: is another one that people underestimate, not just for blow jobs, 625 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: but like for for domination purposes. Running ice along somebody's skin. 626 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:27,040 Speaker 1: The sensation of that feels really good. Um, using the 627 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,919 Speaker 1: tip of your nails to lightly run over someone's skin, 628 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,600 Speaker 1: it feels really good. Like things like that are really cool. Now, 629 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,319 Speaker 1: let's talking about finances, right because I know it can vary, 630 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: like as much as how much do you charge per hours? 631 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:42,400 Speaker 1: So just give us a range, you know, like if 632 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 1: people were getting started, how much would you recommend? Okay, 633 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 1: let's just say you're new at this, how much? So 634 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: you don't undersell yourself. So what I am going to 635 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 1: say is that I used to be there's like a 636 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:55,319 Speaker 1: difference between lifestyle dom and professional dom. Professional JOm is 637 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: like the people you see the dungeons charging per hour. 638 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: Lifestyle didn't cuss money. The dungeon cos money. Um. Lifestyle 639 00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,440 Speaker 1: people that just do it because that's who they are. 640 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:12,240 Speaker 1: I'm both more was both. I'll say that um and um. 641 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:21,239 Speaker 1: So what's up? I rs so? But the advice I 642 00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 1: would give someone because I used to be a dominatrix is, uh, 643 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 1: don't undersell yourself. So if like someone, a client comes 644 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 1: to you and says, I want to have a session 645 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 1: with you for eighty dollars an hour or a hundred 646 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: dollars an hour, you know, even though you feel like 647 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 1: you're not gonna get any other sessions after that, or 648 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 1: you loan money to turn that shut down, turn that down. 649 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 1: So what should be the minimum? I mean when I 650 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,360 Speaker 1: first started, I started out in a dungeon in l 651 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: a UM and I'm not gonna mention it because I 652 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:50,800 Speaker 1: don't have the permission to mention it. I don't. I 653 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 1: don't know if you're gonna feel weird, but it was 654 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,920 Speaker 1: to fifty an hour, So that's like the that's I 655 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 1: think that's like more the standard, right. And as you 656 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 1: get more um into the lifestyle and you have more 657 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,359 Speaker 1: clients and you become more exclusive and you can charge more. 658 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:07,399 Speaker 1: But I wouldn't recommend like just jump in a six 659 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,280 Speaker 1: hundred an hour and you just started like, that's that's crazy. 660 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,479 Speaker 1: What's the most popular service that people ask for? Antal play? 661 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,520 Speaker 1: Antal play? You know, pleasure, mind banking, venus cup and 662 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:23,240 Speaker 1: manipple play, bare hand uh, spankings and face slapping, face slapping? 663 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:29,959 Speaker 1: What's two fifty? Excuse me, Tom's fourteen? You think about 664 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 1: somebody for fourteen and what I'm gonna end up with 665 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 1: as session? You would never charge to fifty for an 666 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: anal session. I don't listen hypothetically trying to pay out 667 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 1: hypothetically speaking, I would charge four. Okay, so four I 668 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: would never charge that's almost six. Thus, when al was 669 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:57,479 Speaker 1: like the base of everything, that's almost six thousand. Fifth, 670 00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,600 Speaker 1: get you in the door, to get you in the door, 671 00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 1: that's time you can you can kiss my feet. You 672 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 1: can crawl on the floor. I'm gonna scream with you. 673 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 1: I'll call your names, right, I'll flog you, you know 674 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,360 Speaker 1: all the all the stars. Is this a flog? That 675 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,319 Speaker 1: is a flogger? Okay, I've never heard of that. Tell 676 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,760 Speaker 1: me was this flog flog? I'm my nub. I would 677 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 1: probably need to demonstrate this. Come on, when are you guys? 678 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,319 Speaker 1: Lother flogs don't have to put the camera now like 679 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 1: you've been on camera the cameration I doesn't have doing 680 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:27,880 Speaker 1: his job because he needs to be displayed because he 681 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 1: wasn't bad boy. Come on, let's get a life flogging everyone. 682 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 1: You agree to a life flogging earlier? Hard you're come on, 683 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:45,919 Speaker 1: I have to say something. I'm sorry. I'm so sorry. 684 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:52,879 Speaker 1: I'm the prime clients, uh I was. If you're gonna 685 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 1: session with anybody or play with anyone, consent is the key. 686 00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 1: That is what differences me between everyone else in the 687 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 1: b d S. I'm scene because a lot of them 688 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 1: are consent virulators. They don't get people's consent before they 689 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: do stuff, which is totally fine. I'm not one of 690 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,920 Speaker 1: those bitches. I don't believe in that ship. To me, 691 00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,399 Speaker 1: that's rape. On on some kind of level. You don't 692 00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 1: must consent. I don't want to just sorry, I'll get 693 00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: over here and get fla. It's okay to rape yea? 694 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: Does you ever say okay? Okay? Flagging g is right now? No, 695 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 1: she's more of a dom to me, you're more redmant 696 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: me with you. I can't tell you d like whatever 697 00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: that is. I don't want to put you on the 698 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 1: spot in the bedroom. Does the man take controller? Do 699 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 1: you me in the bedroom? Yeah? It depends. I'll let 700 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,919 Speaker 1: him if I felt like letting him. But when I'm 701 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 1: ready to do it, I'll do it. Okay, that then 702 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:54,279 Speaker 1: you're what we call a switch dom. A switch and 703 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 1: a switch can go that. I'm definitely see both. I'm 704 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,200 Speaker 1: telling you this both, Larry. I'll have cried during sex. 705 00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 1: I've never done that. Like you guys are like like 706 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,760 Speaker 1: a tear just that's a sub. That's sub ship crying, 707 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 1: not crying like it's like it's like it just feels 708 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:18,200 Speaker 1: so bawling, but crying over what the dick is? It 709 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: feels good. I told you she's a sub. Amazing, it 710 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,080 Speaker 1: feels good the dick like not every day, No, it's 711 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:29,160 Speaker 1: not every every day this was a hell of a dick. 712 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I've had amazing sexual experiences with with penis involved, 713 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: and I've never felt that strongly. But I was like 714 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 1: like Michael John and emotional when I cried, and another 715 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,759 Speaker 1: time it was break up, make up sex. Don't you 716 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:47,840 Speaker 1: feel like? We keep writing? So, who wants to get flogged? 717 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:55,399 Speaker 1: He's standing? Yes, these are the subding they cried during 718 00:39:55,400 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 1: where c come on? She said, children, Yeah, go ahead 719 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,719 Speaker 1: do it. No, No, we should be long. It should 720 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:14,280 Speaker 1: have somebody should have got flogged direct, I really do. Okay, 721 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,759 Speaker 1: I think one of the guys should be flogged. I 722 00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:20,280 Speaker 1: told you that's what it's supposed to be, life flogged 723 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,399 Speaker 1: in a life flog. Hold on, Hold on a second. 724 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 1: So you mean to tell me that none of you 725 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:31,239 Speaker 1: have ever thought about a woman dominating? You never wanted 726 00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 1: a woman on top? Which Buddha, which cheer man? Okay, 727 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm deaf out the next because a woman being on 728 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 1: top as a part of I gotta see him what 729 00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 1: a flog is. But he's just a minute that he 730 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,439 Speaker 1: would that he has. All right, So let's talk about 731 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,640 Speaker 1: other things that that's on the menu. Right, So if 732 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:50,759 Speaker 1: people want to how are your dominatrix. What are some 733 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 1: other popular things that you do? What about fisting? Come 734 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:59,359 Speaker 1: get flog, Buddha, come in here a light time. It's 735 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 1: a light flog. No, no, don't tell him what it's for. 736 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 1: Just tell him to come in. It's not funny. I'm 737 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 1: there serious, I want you to put too much? All right, 738 00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,640 Speaker 1: so let's continue while we wait for him to I'm 739 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: not doing the funny ship. No, it's not. It's nothing 740 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 1: funny about this. I do a lot of like face 741 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,760 Speaker 1: slapping speaking, I do a lot of demos and classes 742 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,759 Speaker 1: also so people know how do you use stuff like 743 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 1: how do you use the bell? How to do some 744 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 1: choking if you want to choke someone during sex, because 745 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: that's like really dangerous. What's the safety way? Like, oh, 746 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,560 Speaker 1: because we had that, yes, absolutely, that's a part of negotiations, 747 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 1: um and consent. So in order to know that somebody 748 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:50,520 Speaker 1: is having it, that it's too much him, don't warn him. 749 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: In orted to know if it's too much or too 750 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 1: little whatever, then they have to establish the safety word. 751 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:03,600 Speaker 1: And you know that's not neighbor produced a Buddha. Hey, 752 00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:08,239 Speaker 1: budd we need you to demonstrate something now, Hello to 753 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: venus A have you done this before? He doesn't know 754 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: what he's doing, but just want to give you a 755 00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:22,840 Speaker 1: life flogging life flogging. Yeah, it's like jogging, but with 756 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 1: fl So come on, we want to demonstrate. What does 757 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:34,799 Speaker 1: he have to do? He puts up up. Come on, 758 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 1: Notice that there's no eye contact anymore. Um. Yeah, I'm 759 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 1: just a normal whom you being that likes flogging people. 760 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 1: So this is a pay for this, by the way, 761 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 1: you can touch the people. Pay for this. Yes, I'm 762 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:51,399 Speaker 1: getting okay, just can you just be open my note 763 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:54,680 Speaker 1: with me, just to touch it, hold it. Okay. So 764 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:57,799 Speaker 1: this is just that's a flogger and I'm just going 765 00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,759 Speaker 1: to be it feels nice and let us go. So 766 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:06,480 Speaker 1: fucking you lightly with it your back? Okay, you're on. 767 00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 1: That's your your army can be your back. Yeah. But 768 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 1: or budded, what's your food? Are you perfect? What's your 769 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 1: safety word? What's your what's safe? If you're if you're tired, 770 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:22,319 Speaker 1: or you don't want to do it anymore. That's that's 771 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:26,160 Speaker 1: two words. You gotta that's a terrible word. That's that's 772 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 1: a good one. No, no, because you could be saying that. 773 00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, that's true too. But if he's saying 774 00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:34,399 Speaker 1: that that's the safe word for his scene, then don't worry. Yeah, 775 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,399 Speaker 1: you can't give him a safe work and let him 776 00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:40,400 Speaker 1: have his own. How about baseball because you want to 777 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:47,080 Speaker 1: say baseball? I think that was a good one. Yeah, okay, alright, 778 00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 1: go ahead, I need space. Alright, Well back down, don't 779 00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,319 Speaker 1: you worry. I'm a table. Can I do it on 780 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:58,319 Speaker 1: your chat? Yeah? Cha chess? Okay, take that hoodie? Can 781 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:02,319 Speaker 1: you stand against the walls of Okay, and I'm on 782 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,759 Speaker 1: the wall. We like it on the on the wall. 783 00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: Get it on the wall. Where is my phone from 784 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:13,360 Speaker 1: the windows and want to hear you scream. He's not 785 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 1: gonna scream. His brand, his brand and also like his 786 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,320 Speaker 1: manhood and everything else whatever it is the element of surprise. 787 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah one, my flag, my flag. Um, I want you. 788 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 1: You need to trust me. I know it's weird, you know, 789 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 1: but I'm really not like I'm not gonna just flash 790 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 1: up and just start Okay, just thank you, so like 791 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:51,839 Speaker 1: hold your head off, not okay, hardy, Yeah, he's got it. 792 00:44:51,880 --> 00:45:10,520 Speaker 1: You got this, Buddha. Whoa shut the funk up? Your 793 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 1: keep your mouth shut the fuck up. Well, I'm you 794 00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 1: keep your head off, right, So how am I supposed to, like, 795 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:43,720 Speaker 1: you know, just talking to him your face the episode? Okay, yeah, 796 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: I love it. Yes, I'm been joining this. Thank you, 797 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 1: you're so sweet. How do your nipples feel? You? He 798 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:54,560 Speaker 1: did this for the girls. Nipples are tingling, he said, tingling. 799 00:45:54,600 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: He likes this just yeah, this is four of No. 800 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:13,640 Speaker 1: You gotta pa all right, you gotta pay already do that? Yeah, well, 801 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,400 Speaker 1: thank you for to be appreciate you for me, Like 802 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 1: you think they give him some ice for the nipples? 803 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:29,480 Speaker 1: Whoa four hundred off take a person to shoot on you? 804 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,520 Speaker 1: So what do you think me take a shut on me? 805 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,960 Speaker 1: He was? He would he like he's doing that. He 806 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 1: liked it, and he was trying to protect himself because 807 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,880 Speaker 1: everyone was in the room, especially other men. If there 808 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:41,480 Speaker 1: was just all women in here, I think that reaction 809 00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,279 Speaker 1: would have been different. You think he would have started moaning. 810 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,719 Speaker 1: I think it a bit pants off, But I think 811 00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,080 Speaker 1: in the middle of sucks, right before he's about to 812 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:49,759 Speaker 1: like stick it in. If you say listen, this is 813 00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:51,560 Speaker 1: what gets me off. I want to flog you and 814 00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 1: thank you. He was down for ye. Now that ship 815 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:57,160 Speaker 1: you was doing was looking like some what you called, 816 00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,640 Speaker 1: I was trying to figure it out. He's saying, they're 817 00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 1: trying to laugh. But then when he like put his 818 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 1: head back and closed his eyes, his breathing slowed down. 819 00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:13,800 Speaker 1: He was like relaxing. Next dep CDT baby. Probably I 820 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 1: don't know about one. He looks like he will knock 821 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,520 Speaker 1: you out. Do you have any winning kinds? Have a 822 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,479 Speaker 1: lot a lot of queer women, a lot of lesbian women. 823 00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,239 Speaker 1: M Hm, what did they know him? And so what's 824 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:30,839 Speaker 1: their tap request? It's usually to play out submissive fantasy, 825 00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,759 Speaker 1: uh scenarios. So like a lot of the women that 826 00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:37,200 Speaker 1: I sessioned with are actually dominant also, and in like 827 00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 1: normal day to day life, they have like really good 828 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:44,360 Speaker 1: jobs or managers or uh, they just like run their family, 829 00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 1: they run their husbands, and they kind of just want 830 00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,160 Speaker 1: another woman because they can't submit to a man for 831 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,239 Speaker 1: some reason. They need another woman to kind of level them, 832 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,200 Speaker 1: ground them a little velp level up. How did that 833 00:47:56,280 --> 00:48:00,880 Speaker 1: sex though? Like you can you can ask sex with 834 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 1: the woman though, right, because it's not the same kind 835 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 1: of thing. No same rules applied. The rules applied the 836 00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 1: bard with women. Actually the rule is ten times more effectively. Yeah, 837 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,480 Speaker 1: why do you think that is I think women. Yes, 838 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 1: women love differently than men. Men are more logical lovers 839 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:21,399 Speaker 1: if something doesn't make sense them or if the love 840 00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,279 Speaker 1: doesn't make sense and they go all cheat, they do 841 00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,240 Speaker 1: things like stupid ship because like everything's here. For women, 842 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: everything's here. If it's like it's like I don't know 843 00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,320 Speaker 1: why I like you, but I do, so let's get married. 844 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,759 Speaker 1: You know, like men are just like, huh, if I 845 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:38,319 Speaker 1: marry her she has no money and debt, I start 846 00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,680 Speaker 1: thinking too much about it um, which I think makes 847 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 1: men really good partners if you want to build a 848 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,360 Speaker 1: business or something, because they're really good at that stuff um. 849 00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 1: And it makes women really good at being able to 850 00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,719 Speaker 1: expand because they're really good with stuff here. So they 851 00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,839 Speaker 1: know like the ethics of a company. They know how 852 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,880 Speaker 1: to um connect to different people. They know how to 853 00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 1: communicate with different people on a level that they understand. 854 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:05,560 Speaker 1: So for different reasons, both are equally valuable. But I 855 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 1: prefer sessions with submissive men. Now when it comes to relationships, right, 856 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:14,520 Speaker 1: are you with a man who submissive or do you 857 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,880 Speaker 1: feel like in a relationship you leave all that out? No, 858 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,200 Speaker 1: I don't just leave at all. I tried to leave 859 00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,880 Speaker 1: it out at one point, and um, I almost went 860 00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:29,600 Speaker 1: to jail. Um in again, No, it doesn't know, it 861 00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:31,759 Speaker 1: doesn't even though jail and black ink seems to go 862 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,600 Speaker 1: hand and hand. Um. Yeah, but no, I'm not talking 863 00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,759 Speaker 1: about them. It was like, you know, I was with 864 00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,240 Speaker 1: someone you know for a very long time, UM, and 865 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 1: they were very like macho and headstrong, and like I'm 866 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,240 Speaker 1: the man and I wear the pants and you're the woman, 867 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,359 Speaker 1: so you should be home doing this, this and this. 868 00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,080 Speaker 1: And I'm not built like that. I was never built 869 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,480 Speaker 1: like that. So I don't come from I don't even 870 00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: come from a family where the women are built like that. 871 00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,359 Speaker 1: Like my aunt UM shout out to my aunt sil 872 00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:04,680 Speaker 1: as high school. That's not my um. She's the strongest 873 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,600 Speaker 1: Dominican woman that I know, the strongest Dominican woman I know. 874 00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:09,800 Speaker 1: She stays at home and she wants the household. And 875 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,040 Speaker 1: he goes and my uncle um Omar goes out of work, 876 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:16,759 Speaker 1: but he listen to everything that she says. Did your 877 00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:20,399 Speaker 1: family know what you do? Like everybody my mother Ron, 878 00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:24,759 Speaker 1: they know what I do. I'm very I'm very open 879 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,600 Speaker 1: and honest because they were going to find out anyway, 880 00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,080 Speaker 1: why I don't want to hurt people that I care 881 00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:32,279 Speaker 1: about by letting them find out by looking at the 882 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,160 Speaker 1: New York Post or something like that. We're looking on 883 00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 1: Vice TV or something and seeing me like doing stuff 884 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,840 Speaker 1: or like just anything black and keep it real baby watching. 885 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I was. I actually had a party 886 00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:45,759 Speaker 1: on black ink and I was in my dom gear 887 00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 1: as well. And you know, so what happened with black ink? 888 00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:54,879 Speaker 1: What can you tell us without really know that? They 889 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:58,400 Speaker 1: owe me money? And you ever seen somebody like going 890 00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 1: around like flawsing like new cars open. You know, he's 891 00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:05,279 Speaker 1: opening shops in different states. You ever seen like people? 892 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,040 Speaker 1: But even if you don't care, if you buy a 893 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:11,799 Speaker 1: stick of gum and you owe me money, where's my money? 894 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: And it's not? It's not. And I want to see 895 00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,319 Speaker 1: black men win, you know what I mean? You know, 896 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,000 Speaker 1: I want to see black boy joy. I'd like to 897 00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,399 Speaker 1: see black men smile. I love to see black men 898 00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:25,760 Speaker 1: like build and own things because you know, society has 899 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,359 Speaker 1: like cards stacked against us. You know that ship is 900 00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 1: so real. But if you're gonna be a black business owner, 901 00:51:33,080 --> 00:51:35,720 Speaker 1: you got to respect your own people. If you won't 902 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,799 Speaker 1: respect as a black man, you can't down a black 903 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,719 Speaker 1: woman or not pay her. That's what he did to me. 904 00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,440 Speaker 1: I don't respect that ship. That's great. How do I 905 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:46,720 Speaker 1: tell you how much is the old like over twenty 906 00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,520 Speaker 1: people that file things against him, let's talk about that ship. 907 00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 1: I gotta do some research. There's a lot of people money. 908 00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 1: But the thing is like the thing is like the 909 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,759 Speaker 1: six I'm gonna be honest because again, I don't just 910 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:04,799 Speaker 1: like bashing people, you know what I mean. I'm gonna 911 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 1: be fair and I'm not gonna just stack cards against him. 912 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:11,560 Speaker 1: I don't think some of the promises that were made 913 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 1: by some of his staff or managers, even his own 914 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:17,600 Speaker 1: assistant or whatever, I don't think he knows about some 915 00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 1: of them. So I think he he yeah, he owes 916 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:24,480 Speaker 1: people money. You know. There's a former employee that explained 917 00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,600 Speaker 1: her situation to me because she wants to file some ship. 918 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 1: I said, I don't know about that because it just 919 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,839 Speaker 1: sounds the story sounds funny. But her story is that 920 00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,560 Speaker 1: she had an agreement with one of the managers, and 921 00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:36,719 Speaker 1: he's on the show, that she had an agreement with 922 00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,879 Speaker 1: what the manager of the shop he said he would 923 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:40,719 Speaker 1: pay her. Caesar knew nothing about it because he was 924 00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:42,759 Speaker 1: traveling and doing all this other stuff, and now she 925 00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,040 Speaker 1: wants to bring suit against the shop. Caesar, she admitted 926 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:47,879 Speaker 1: did not know about that. So I don't think it's 927 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,960 Speaker 1: fair to say that it's just Caesar. I think everybody 928 00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,439 Speaker 1: has to be accountable though. But but if you own 929 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,520 Speaker 1: a company, is good that you have good communications, so 930 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 1: only you know what's going on, right, you know what 931 00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,000 Speaker 1: I mean? And that still falls on season because if 932 00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 1: you have, you know, agreements with different people, you know, 933 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:04,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay you this. I'm gonna pay you this, 934 00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:06,640 Speaker 1: if you build this website, I'm gonna pay you this. 935 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:09,400 Speaker 1: If you fix the ceiling because there's a leak, I'm 936 00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,360 Speaker 1: gonna pay you this. And then you start not paying people, 937 00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna piss a lot of people. All a lot 938 00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:16,719 Speaker 1: of comes out of time. Then it comes out and 939 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,160 Speaker 1: it comes out, and people are not going to just 940 00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,760 Speaker 1: sit by like myself and just be quiet about it anymore. 941 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:26,879 Speaker 1: He just flogging. That costs money too, though, he would 942 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 1: have to pay just like yes, you know, my my mond. 943 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 1: Is there anything anybody has asked you to do Venus 944 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,360 Speaker 1: that you've said no, Like, give me some examples of 945 00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,879 Speaker 1: what you would you not? Wait, I know, you don't 946 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 1: like to shoot on people. I don't like to stick 947 00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:45,880 Speaker 1: a shot on people. What about peeing? Um? Yes, okay, 948 00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 1: so you're peeing on someone? All right? So whatever here? 949 00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:59,360 Speaker 1: What I want? What I want to do? Um? I 950 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm was the overall like just purv and freak. 951 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 1: And when I say, would you face somebody in the 952 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:08,000 Speaker 1: ask what I was this? Oh yeah, definitely. Yeah. It's 953 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:09,600 Speaker 1: fun sometimes when you can you get it all the 954 00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,200 Speaker 1: way to the elbow. Ever, yea, that doesn't. I've had 955 00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:14,839 Speaker 1: like whole like tea parties and parties. You know. It's 956 00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,720 Speaker 1: I've had parties excuse me, just for like other women 957 00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:19,400 Speaker 1: and like you know, a bunch of girls show up 958 00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 1: and then there's a guy there. We just all like 959 00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:24,960 Speaker 1: kind of just like you know, just but it's conspsual 960 00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,240 Speaker 1: what he wanted. He wants like a bunch of women's attention, 961 00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:28,640 Speaker 1: and so we put him in the middle room as 962 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,040 Speaker 1: a centerpiece. He gets all of our drinks. Then you've 963 00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 1: got another submissive kind of like doing given everyone massages 964 00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 1: those kind of things. Has anyone ever had to go 965 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,759 Speaker 1: to the hospital? Why I burping so much? What's going 966 00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:43,480 Speaker 1: on here? Have I ever send anybody to the hospital. No, actually, 967 00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:46,480 Speaker 1: those burps. Actually I just lost money because because you know, 968 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: somebody would have paid for me to burp in their 969 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:54,800 Speaker 1: faces for free. I can't make myself so wait, somebody's 970 00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,800 Speaker 1: tour in their face? Yeah, far in their face and everything. 971 00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 1: You know, how can you make yourself art? What if 972 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:05,160 Speaker 1: he started? What if he started by accident? What if 973 00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: I started by accidents? That would be his pro He'd 974 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:13,440 Speaker 1: probably be like I pay extra s on somebody before 975 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,920 Speaker 1: she started. But you know, there's due to remnants. And 976 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 1: when you fart, oh, don't tell. I can't make myself 977 00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:29,600 Speaker 1: farts either. Sometimes I can't make myself not fart. What 978 00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,960 Speaker 1: about ball bust things? Because I have this guy. It 979 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 1: has to be one guy that just makes mad different 980 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:38,000 Speaker 1: profiles because I don't believe everybody. Yeah, I responded to 981 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 1: him for you, She responded to him. He makes all 982 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 1: these different what he talks about ball bust thing, He 983 00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:48,360 Speaker 1: sends me pictures, he makes different names on Snapchat, I 984 00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: g everything. He's like, wherery? How please? I just want 985 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,319 Speaker 1: you to bust my balls? What the fuck is ball 986 00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:57,600 Speaker 1: bust thing? And why won't he leave me alone? Ball 987 00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:01,120 Speaker 1: busting is basically kicking some and the nuts over and 988 00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 1: over and over and over and over and over and 989 00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,920 Speaker 1: over again until you can't take it anymore. Why does 990 00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,839 Speaker 1: he want that? You want to pay you to do it? 991 00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,239 Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna explain CBT and ball busting and all 992 00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:15,640 Speaker 1: that with the genitals for for a lot of assists men, right, 993 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,960 Speaker 1: So for a lot of men, they are told their 994 00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,080 Speaker 1: power is rooted in their genitals. Because I have a dick, 995 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,319 Speaker 1: and because I have balls, I am more powerful than 996 00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:26,640 Speaker 1: you or you you know what I mean. That's what 997 00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,560 Speaker 1: they say, he's got some balls and you know what 998 00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:33,000 Speaker 1: I mean. Um, you know those those kind of like 999 00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,080 Speaker 1: you know comments, they came from somewhere, you know. So 1000 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,440 Speaker 1: they when they know their power is rooted in their balls, 1001 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,399 Speaker 1: and they want to give their power to let's say 1002 00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:43,960 Speaker 1: you or you or whatever, they want you to abuse that. 1003 00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,839 Speaker 1: They want you to attack their power because they don't 1004 00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:49,839 Speaker 1: want it anymore. It's also a pressure if you are 1005 00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:51,319 Speaker 1: told your whole life you've got to be the head 1006 00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:52,719 Speaker 1: of household, you gotta be the head of this. But 1007 00:56:52,840 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 1: in in your mind and your spirit, you're like, no, 1008 00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:56,920 Speaker 1: I kind of just want like a girl that's like 1009 00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,640 Speaker 1: more like stronger than me or like more powerful to me. 1010 00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 1: It's like I want to give you like all my 1011 00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:04,560 Speaker 1: power and I need to prove to you and make 1012 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,319 Speaker 1: you feel secure that I'm not just here to like 1013 00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:09,360 Speaker 1: take from you. So like, yeah, punch me the balls, 1014 00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 1: like do whatever you want to credit card you ain't got. 1015 00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,400 Speaker 1: That's power right there. You're giving me control all your money. 1016 00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 1: That's different. I don't want to have to kick some 1017 00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:20,600 Speaker 1: my in the balls over and over and over. What 1018 00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:26,880 Speaker 1: if they were paying over, I'll take it. He's fine, 1019 00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,800 Speaker 1: what's your budget? Yo? We said our kind of ship 1020 00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,600 Speaker 1: to him and he just won't go. But aside aside 1021 00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:37,120 Speaker 1: from just like transactional like with money, right, what if 1022 00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 1: this was your boyfriend you were together like four or five, 1023 00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,120 Speaker 1: six years, and he one day says, oh, baby, I'm 1024 00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:45,200 Speaker 1: interested in, like, you know, kicking me in the balls. 1025 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that would local tell me off. 1026 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,880 Speaker 1: See I can't understand doing it for like a job. 1027 00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,320 Speaker 1: But like me looking at him, like, yeah, this is 1028 00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:57,440 Speaker 1: really the guy that I'm wearing. He wants me to 1029 00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,960 Speaker 1: keep kicking him in the balls today break like no, 1030 00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:08,600 Speaker 1: I got nobody said that because jail you know, yeah, 1031 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,040 Speaker 1: but if you do it even once, it hurt's really bad. 1032 00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:13,160 Speaker 1: So I can only imagine if you keep doing it 1033 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,280 Speaker 1: over and over, and like, I don't want to break 1034 00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:17,720 Speaker 1: the dick that I want to suck later. I suck later, 1035 00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:20,480 Speaker 1: Like that's what you're supposed to do, break it and 1036 00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,320 Speaker 1: then nurse it back to him. That's hilarious. I mean, 1037 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,960 Speaker 1: I think, I don't know, I think like stuff like 1038 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,840 Speaker 1: that actually turns me on. Yeah, I like I like 1039 00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,800 Speaker 1: seeing a man being able to be secure enough as 1040 00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:35,440 Speaker 1: a man in his masculinity to give his power over 1041 00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:37,080 Speaker 1: to me. Have you ever tied somebody's balls in a 1042 00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:39,440 Speaker 1: nut or something like that? And not? I haven't had 1043 00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:41,280 Speaker 1: anyone's balls long enough to be able to do it. 1044 00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:45,840 Speaker 1: If I could, what if I could? Was the smallest 1045 00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:48,360 Speaker 1: stick you've ever seen. Oh my gosh, there was one 1046 00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 1: that didn't even like come out of It was like 1047 00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,120 Speaker 1: a belly button. It was like a belly button. It 1048 00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:55,360 Speaker 1: was like a little belly bud. And she was hard 1049 00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:58,560 Speaker 1: and I actually and he when he came and shot 1050 00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,040 Speaker 1: out so far and I'm like, you have nothing there 1051 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:07,120 Speaker 1: on probably got more than him. Yeah. Our friend Kelly, 1052 00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:12,320 Speaker 1: she has a big clip that's like he did any 1053 00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:15,680 Speaker 1: of yourselfs have is like any of the women have 1054 00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 1: like a big clip, like any of the women that you, yeah, 1055 00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:24,320 Speaker 1: that you dominate that you were like, wait a minute, 1056 00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:27,680 Speaker 1: it's a Do you find that most of your clients 1057 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,200 Speaker 1: have small dicks? No, because I kind of think that 1058 00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,480 Speaker 1: maybe like little dick guys like that. A lot of 1059 00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:37,080 Speaker 1: them have big dicks. Wow, b d E, big dick energy, 1060 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:39,919 Speaker 1: a lot of big black dicks, a lot of big 1061 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:46,360 Speaker 1: rich black for blacks rappers, a lot of young money 1062 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:51,760 Speaker 1: black dicks. Okay, well right right there. Nice for what 1063 00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,680 Speaker 1: you'll be surprised. It's probably who you're thinking. I know, 1064 00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:57,080 Speaker 1: he doing something too, got to be Oh, we don't 1065 00:59:57,080 --> 01:00:02,800 Speaker 1: want to know smoke. That's crazy look at too and 1066 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:05,040 Speaker 1: all right? So what else about black ink? Is that 1067 01:00:05,080 --> 01:00:07,480 Speaker 1: all results? Like are you in the passage of resolving that? 1068 01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:10,040 Speaker 1: Are you seeing what's happening? I'm not going to comment 1069 01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:12,760 Speaker 1: too much about like the actions that I'm taking. What 1070 01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:16,480 Speaker 1: I will say is that you go around doing a 1071 01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:21,920 Speaker 1: lot of really nasty things to people not paying them. Um, 1072 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:25,440 Speaker 1: there was another situation that happened when I was there. Um, 1073 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:28,560 Speaker 1: so the t it's a lot of tea behind. Like 1074 01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 1: a lot of this filming ship right reality for the 1075 01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,040 Speaker 1: most part, A lot of it's not not real. I think, 1076 01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,040 Speaker 1: like most people know that, but the public, for some reason, 1077 01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:37,240 Speaker 1: they still believe. You know that a lot of people 1078 01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 1: believe this ship is like real, it's like everything. Whatever 1079 01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:43,080 Speaker 1: I think I remember, correct me if I'm wrong. I 1080 01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:45,000 Speaker 1: could be wrong. There was a situation between you and 1081 01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,680 Speaker 1: someone else over their lyrics about light skin is better. 1082 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,320 Speaker 1: You talked about colorism, and I actually commend you for 1083 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:57,440 Speaker 1: doing that. Okay, So I think there aren't enough people 1084 01:00:57,840 --> 01:01:02,600 Speaker 1: that are in possessions of power that corrects other black 1085 01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:04,360 Speaker 1: people when they are colorist, you know what I mean 1086 01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:07,520 Speaker 1: when this colorism happening. And that's basically what happened to me. 1087 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,760 Speaker 1: I was told I'm too fat and I'm too dark 1088 01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:14,560 Speaker 1: skinned to be on black ink, and the only person 1089 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:17,200 Speaker 1: hold on, the only person that stood up for me 1090 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,000 Speaker 1: was Duchess. She's the only one. She went off on 1091 01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:23,960 Speaker 1: production for three days straight. She's the only one. And 1092 01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:28,080 Speaker 1: everybody heard it or heard about it if they weren't 1093 01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:31,440 Speaker 1: there that day during filming, and they did nothing. Production 1094 01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 1: apologized to me. They tried to make it right because 1095 01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:40,080 Speaker 1: I actually recorded it. Wait, somebody really said that you 1096 01:01:40,080 --> 01:01:41,960 Speaker 1: were too dyed skin and too big, but I was 1097 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:45,000 Speaker 1: too fat and kid. No offense to Kid, I like it, 1098 01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:48,360 Speaker 1: no offense to her again. If she takes us left, 1099 01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:51,560 Speaker 1: then I'll go with you. But Kit was my replacement 1100 01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:55,120 Speaker 1: on the show. Kit was supposed to be the more attractive, 1101 01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:57,560 Speaker 1: lighter skinned version of me to be on the show. 1102 01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:00,400 Speaker 1: So you were supposed to be a regular. I was. 1103 01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 1: I was the regular. I was the person working every 1104 01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:06,080 Speaker 1: day doing what Kid was doing a little bit more 1105 01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,240 Speaker 1: because I was actually a manager, but I was the 1106 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,600 Speaker 1: person doing all of that, and they I was just 1107 01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,120 Speaker 1: basically told like, she has a better body, better phase, 1108 01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: and she's lighter skin, and she's gonna appeal to more people. 1109 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: And they told me, don't take it personal. To be honest, 1110 01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:19,920 Speaker 1: at the time, I kind of did, because how do 1111 01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:24,440 Speaker 1: you tell someone that without them being like And I 1112 01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,040 Speaker 1: was like, you know what it is, what it is 1113 01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,880 Speaker 1: like at the end of the day, I'm not happy 1114 01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,240 Speaker 1: here anyway, so I know, like, eventually I'm not gonna 1115 01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:32,040 Speaker 1: want to be here, so let me just stick this out. 1116 01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:34,040 Speaker 1: I was in my last year of college at that time, 1117 01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:37,000 Speaker 1: so I'm like Okay, um, let me just finish college. 1118 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:38,560 Speaker 1: Let me finish paying off these some of these some 1119 01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:40,960 Speaker 1: of this debt with his money that they say they're 1120 01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:43,320 Speaker 1: gonna give me and get the funk up out of 1121 01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:46,080 Speaker 1: here because they're on some bullshit right now. Um. And 1122 01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,760 Speaker 1: I spoke to see me and the other manager at 1123 01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:51,120 Speaker 1: the time, which it's a lot of tea with him too. 1124 01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:53,640 Speaker 1: But he is not as bad of a person as 1125 01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:56,440 Speaker 1: I thought he was because he's put a lot of 1126 01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:59,520 Speaker 1: his staff against each other. It was, it was. It 1127 01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,800 Speaker 1: was a really crazy work environment, especially with the filming, 1128 01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,600 Speaker 1: and they want certain things for like entertainment purposes. What 1129 01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,760 Speaker 1: do you want to see happened? Um? I want him 1130 01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:12,800 Speaker 1: to apologize to me. I really do. Sometimes, like sometimes 1131 01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:16,640 Speaker 1: just acknowledging the hurt that you call somebody else is enough. 1132 01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:18,800 Speaker 1: Like I said, I don't like dragging people. It's not 1133 01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 1: in my nature. It's not in my nature to just 1134 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,080 Speaker 1: be like, oh, Caesar, Caesar, Caesar, just for like any 1135 01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,440 Speaker 1: kind of come up. But if you constantly hurt somebody 1136 01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:28,600 Speaker 1: and they run around on the streets talking about, oh, 1137 01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,640 Speaker 1: she lied about somewhere that she worked before, and that's 1138 01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:33,000 Speaker 1: why we fired her. She lied about who she was, 1139 01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:34,960 Speaker 1: and that's why we fired her. The only reason I 1140 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:36,800 Speaker 1: got fired from that job is because I asked for 1141 01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 1: the money that they owed me, and then I got 1142 01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:41,560 Speaker 1: fired two days later. That's what happened. If he wants 1143 01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 1: to be real about it. And then it was a 1144 01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:45,280 Speaker 1: big deal, you know, production trying to get me, you 1145 01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:47,440 Speaker 1: know out of there too, because I told him I 1146 01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:50,640 Speaker 1: recorded everything that that was said to me. You can't 1147 01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:54,120 Speaker 1: say you still have that. That's about to be the 1148 01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,160 Speaker 1: whole case. Are you taking as it didn't? After you 1149 01:03:57,200 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 1: make all your money, it's how to make her yourself 1150 01:04:02,120 --> 01:04:04,760 Speaker 1: even more to that, it's even more to that, but 1151 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:08,720 Speaker 1: some of it is it's important, uh info that I 1152 01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:12,520 Speaker 1: can't share yet, but I will wonder when when it's 1153 01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:15,600 Speaker 1: actually in a couple give it like two months is 1154 01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:17,920 Speaker 1: going to be done. Good for you. But you make 1155 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,560 Speaker 1: it way more money now than you would have their O. 1156 01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:23,000 Speaker 1: You're kidding me, Like nobody makes money there. He takes 1157 01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:26,400 Speaker 1: all the money for everybody, even the artist. God damn. 1158 01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:31,960 Speaker 1: All right, so financially you are set straight. I'm good, 1159 01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:37,040 Speaker 1: but I still want the money and work for a 1160 01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:40,600 Speaker 1: bunch of submissives that's doing everything she needed. So what's 1161 01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:42,480 Speaker 1: the ain't how it's not gonna you see yourself doing 1162 01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:45,320 Speaker 1: this like you could do this father. Um, I can 1163 01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:48,440 Speaker 1: see myself having like submissives for a long time. I 1164 01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 1: can see myself like always being served by somebody because 1165 01:04:51,560 --> 01:04:53,520 Speaker 1: I'm used to it now. I think like at a 1166 01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:56,600 Speaker 1: certain point when like it's been this is, I'm I'm 1167 01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:58,680 Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna be twenty eight. You know what I mean. 1168 01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:00,720 Speaker 1: I've been doing this since I was nine teen years old. 1169 01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,120 Speaker 1: I've been having men in and out of my life 1170 01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:06,200 Speaker 1: doing things for me, picking me up, like I said, 1171 01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:08,880 Speaker 1: doing my laundry, cooking for me, you know, sweeping, you know, 1172 01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:11,600 Speaker 1: on their hands and knees, making them scrub toilets with 1173 01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:13,960 Speaker 1: tooth brushes, and ship damn you can they kind of 1174 01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:22,040 Speaker 1: my house? How does your relationship said? Then my relationships? 1175 01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:25,400 Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna be honest. I do think being 1176 01:05:25,640 --> 01:05:28,240 Speaker 1: a dominatrix and being like a dom has changed my 1177 01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:33,080 Speaker 1: relationships and both in a way. It's harder for me 1178 01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:36,360 Speaker 1: to find relationships that I take serious. And that's only 1179 01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,360 Speaker 1: because when I meet men that bring nothing to the 1180 01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:41,760 Speaker 1: table but expect the woman to have everything set. I 1181 01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:44,240 Speaker 1: don't respect them. It's like they want the woman and 1182 01:05:44,280 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 1: oh you got your finances to the other to make 1183 01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:47,080 Speaker 1: sure you got your own money, because I don't want 1184 01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:48,600 Speaker 1: to spend all my money. If we're going to day, 1185 01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:50,120 Speaker 1: if we're going to date, we gotta go Dutch. But 1186 01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:52,000 Speaker 1: then when you look at the men and what he's 1187 01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:54,920 Speaker 1: actually bringing to the table, that means something as opposed 1188 01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:56,840 Speaker 1: to the life that I live where I'm have men 1189 01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:59,200 Speaker 1: just giving me stuff and doing things for me because 1190 01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:01,520 Speaker 1: I'm a woman and I just exist. I kind of 1191 01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:03,800 Speaker 1: look at these men like why are you here? Like 1192 01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,240 Speaker 1: what are you doing? So if you met a guy 1193 01:06:06,280 --> 01:06:08,959 Speaker 1: that completely swept you off your feet and was able 1194 01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:11,360 Speaker 1: to provide all the things that your subs did, that 1195 01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:12,920 Speaker 1: he told you that he wanted you to stop with 1196 01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:16,400 Speaker 1: all of your subs, you stop because he couldn't take 1197 01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:18,040 Speaker 1: care of her. That ain't like she got to do it, 1198 01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:20,240 Speaker 1: and then he would have to be myself too. No shade, 1199 01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:21,800 Speaker 1: If you're gonna tell me to give get rid of 1200 01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:23,560 Speaker 1: the whole life that I had when you met me 1201 01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:26,440 Speaker 1: that way, then you better be able to match all 1202 01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:27,840 Speaker 1: of it. If he can match all every thing, I 1203 01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,360 Speaker 1: will give it up. Why not you know, I'm not 1204 01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:31,880 Speaker 1: going to be like a hundred years old doing this. 1205 01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:35,240 Speaker 1: Have you ever fell in love with one of your sins? Yes, 1206 01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:38,000 Speaker 1: and what happened and we live together and it was 1207 01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:42,040 Speaker 1: very very nice until he realized that he was more 1208 01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:45,840 Speaker 1: of a dumb actually, and um, it wasn't for him. 1209 01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:48,080 Speaker 1: We're still friends to this day. He still comes to 1210 01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:51,000 Speaker 1: my events, he still supports me. Um, he promote some 1211 01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:54,560 Speaker 1: of my events with me. You. Um, so we have 1212 01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,680 Speaker 1: a really good relationship. Did they get jealous of each 1213 01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:02,640 Speaker 1: other like the su Yeah, that's actually good question, excited 1214 01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:06,160 Speaker 1: out glad it does. And like what do they have 1215 01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:10,520 Speaker 1: other domes? It's just one domb. So my every dom 1216 01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:13,360 Speaker 1: has like their own protocol what we call or rules. 1217 01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:16,320 Speaker 1: My protocol is, if you're serving me, you're only serving me. 1218 01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:18,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to share my time with other doms, 1219 01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:21,680 Speaker 1: you know, share you with other doms unless I explicitly 1220 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:24,000 Speaker 1: say I want to give I want to. We have 1221 01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:26,360 Speaker 1: like a little program where we lend out subs to 1222 01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:30,240 Speaker 1: other women. So if you need your house cleaned, I 1223 01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:31,960 Speaker 1: need to people to clean my house. I got something 1224 01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:36,600 Speaker 1: going on, have a photo shoot. Hey listen, sub number 1225 01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:38,880 Speaker 1: one singer too. I can show you right on my phone. 1226 01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:43,120 Speaker 1: I need I need to have better than donkeys and monkeys? 1227 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:49,080 Speaker 1: Can they come fix the at any specialists in there? 1228 01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:56,600 Speaker 1: Sosta I'll call. I'll call slave Jock, slave Jack. Remember 1229 01:07:56,640 --> 01:08:00,240 Speaker 1: the difference between like a slave and a slave to say. 1230 01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,960 Speaker 1: They can't say no because we still have laws, right, 1231 01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:09,080 Speaker 1: but he should. I learned so much today, so I'll 1232 01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,040 Speaker 1: be like, hey Jack, get your ass over here. I 1233 01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:12,960 Speaker 1: got something, I got stuff I want to do. I 1234 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 1: got you know, things need to be swept. Listen, I'm 1235 01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:19,320 Speaker 1: my worn't kind of to do. We'll leave. Yeah, let 1236 01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:20,960 Speaker 1: me go get this fabbie. No, you pick up the 1237 01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:24,320 Speaker 1: fabil though, so your dad tell him the lea, how 1238 01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:26,160 Speaker 1: are you gonna pay you if you don't got no job? 1239 01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:31,560 Speaker 1: Figure it out? Some problem? Problem about I got to go, 1240 01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:34,320 Speaker 1: And that's the Let me say this. I'm not just 1241 01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:36,840 Speaker 1: like telling people to quit their jobs and get fired 1242 01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:40,120 Speaker 1: and stuff. When we have like when I said, the negotiations, 1243 01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:42,800 Speaker 1: we talked about all of that. When are you available? 1244 01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:46,800 Speaker 1: But what hours? And what hours? If you exactly? So 1245 01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:49,040 Speaker 1: if I say you know, when are you available, and 1246 01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:51,519 Speaker 1: you tell me between five pm and ten pm, and 1247 01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:54,800 Speaker 1: I call you as six pm you better be ready. 1248 01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:56,600 Speaker 1: And if you say, oh, I had I have to 1249 01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 1: do something. I have to do something for my you know, 1250 01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:01,519 Speaker 1: I gotta something, want time for myself. You don't have 1251 01:09:01,560 --> 01:09:08,400 Speaker 1: time for yourself. This is what you told me. Yeah, 1252 01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:13,280 Speaker 1: I said you were available. You know me. I'm not 1253 01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:15,280 Speaker 1: even going into a whole argument. I don't argue with 1254 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:17,000 Speaker 1: my slaves at all. I don't argue with none of that. 1255 01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:19,160 Speaker 1: I hear you. Listen, I said what I said. Either 1256 01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:22,880 Speaker 1: you're gonna come or you're gonna get replaced. Damn Okay, mistress, 1257 01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:24,800 Speaker 1: I'm on my way. Thank you. If you're not, I 1258 01:09:24,880 --> 01:09:27,839 Speaker 1: really can't make it. I'm so sorry. Great, find another mistress, 1259 01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:29,920 Speaker 1: hang up on them. Yeah, and then I find another one. 1260 01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,160 Speaker 1: Who else? Need a damn house clean? I know? Motherfucker's 1261 01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:35,400 Speaker 1: better start calling me mistress easy because it had some 1262 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:39,639 Speaker 1: of the slaves. Can't help you move goddess like that 1263 01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:44,640 Speaker 1: talked about one beautiful one. Oh my god, what if 1264 01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:46,439 Speaker 1: we had some of the steps work at the juice 1265 01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:48,559 Speaker 1: by yes, let's have that. We don't gotta pay that, 1266 01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:51,400 Speaker 1: you know, the juice by hat, the juice by bro 1267 01:09:52,280 --> 01:09:56,679 Speaker 1: oh common clean. We had some things that he fixing. 1268 01:09:57,120 --> 01:09:59,599 Speaker 1: Let them. Let them come of them clean. They's gonna 1269 01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:02,320 Speaker 1: be handy. Let them hand out flyers. Also, yes, were 1270 01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:06,479 Speaker 1: a little Colorado can give out samples in the front, 1271 01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:11,160 Speaker 1: can you imagine? Yes? All right, well listen, Venus, We 1272 01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:13,120 Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming through. This is very 1273 01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:16,400 Speaker 1: eye opening and educational. I know Buddha's about to go 1274 01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:23,160 Speaker 1: request some ship the studio. You on Instagram, Oh, on Instagram, 1275 01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:25,840 Speaker 1: I'm spread Entertainment Events. Or you can just type in 1276 01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:34,120 Speaker 1: Venus cuffs and I'll pop up that literally, Venus cuffs. Venus. Alright, Venus, 1277 01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:36,120 Speaker 1: thank you so much. We're gonna follow up with you 1278 01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:38,160 Speaker 1: two and find out what happens with you get your 1279 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:44,799 Speaker 1: money from Black Ink. Yeah they need to start pay. Yeah, alright, 1280 01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:45,599 Speaker 1: let service