Speaker 1: I don't care about being warm. I care more about
Speaker 1: being cute, which is not great. Calm Down with Erin
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Speaker 1: the pregame. Hopefully you guys know how this works, or
Speaker 1: if you're a new listener, welcome ten minutes to find
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Speaker 2: Aaron's writing in a question right now.
Speaker 1: I am, Nicole Wilson asks the favorite part of the
Speaker 1: holiday season?
Speaker 2: Well, how much time do we have? Nicole?
Speaker 1: Technically we have ten minutes that's the pregame, but I
Speaker 1: could use all ten minutes just for this topic alone.
Speaker 1: My favorite part of the holiday season is tradition. Grew
Speaker 1: up in a very Christmas centric household. My father like
Speaker 1: literally had Santa flying with reindeer over the house, always
Speaker 1: had the lights up. My mother had a Christmas tree
Speaker 1: theme each year, different colors. So I think I just
Speaker 1: love the tradition of it. And then also I love
Speaker 1: me some Hallmark holiday movies, Lifetime, Hallmark, you know, Netflick.
Speaker 1: The streamers are trying to like get into the game
Speaker 1: now with some of these movies. Not my favorite, but
Speaker 1: I think they're trying. So that's some of my favorite yours.
Speaker 3: N I just left one of mine. My mom is
Speaker 3: doing the finishing touches on our tree right now and
Speaker 3: they have four Christmases on and everybody's sitting around having
Speaker 3: tea and just laughing and things like that. I just
Speaker 3: my mom, I think we've discussed this in the past,
Speaker 3: makes the most insane bows like she's from Whoville and
Speaker 3: Doctor Seuss and I just sat with her and I
Speaker 3: tried to learn all about wire that bends and ribbon
Speaker 3: that benz so you can. It just doesn't fucking work
Speaker 3: out for me. So I've already like come to that
Speaker 3: point in my life where I'm like, Okay, this isn't
Speaker 3: where I'm going to thrive, and I just want to
Speaker 3: enjoy this now with my mom. But I absolutely love it.
Speaker 3: So I love when she puts all her little touches everywhere.
Speaker 2: So cute, really cute.
Speaker 3: Next one, Anonymous, you're about to move in with your
Speaker 3: in laws. Any advice, Yes, WHOA Patients, I give you
Speaker 3: a lot more credit than me. I just feel like
Speaker 3: space in general is just you have to have it.
Speaker 3: So yeah, patience, I would say.
Speaker 1: And I would say it's not even just about in
Speaker 1: laws moving in with anyone, I mean recently, like moved
Speaker 1: in receive and it's like there's a lot of changes.
Speaker 1: You get stuck in your own routine, you get you know,
Speaker 1: people have certain ways that they like to do things,
Speaker 1: and when that's disrupted, I think can speak to a
Speaker 1: larger issue. I would say this though, having never done
Speaker 1: this before moved in with my in laws or anyone
Speaker 1: else side of a boyfriend, I would say, create boundaries
Speaker 1: right up front, like be very clear about things that
Speaker 1: you need, things that you don't need, so there's not
Speaker 1: any interpretation of like, oh, I didn't know that bothered
Speaker 1: you that I left dishes in the sink, whatever it is.
Speaker 1: I think you just have to be overly transparent and
Speaker 1: honest at the beginning of this project so you can
Speaker 1: try to mitigate some of the issues that will potentially
Speaker 1: come up later on.
Speaker 2: But let us know how it goes. It's hard.
Speaker 3: I have like a nanny that you know has moved in.
Speaker 3: It's hard when you bring someone into your space and
Speaker 3: it's just like wow, okay, those aren't the same anymore.
Speaker 1: So, Yeah, patients, patience is a vert a shoe. Anna
Speaker 1: Marie Bell best way to stay warm on sidelines for
Speaker 1: freezing games, that's you girl.
Speaker 3: Yep. I would just say a lot of thermal underwear.
Speaker 3: I love thermals. I double up, I triple up. For me,
Speaker 3: it's not about looking cute. It's just about having to
Speaker 3: stay out there for five to six hours. Warmers are amazing,
Speaker 3: especially in your feet. They have the soles, they have
Speaker 3: the one that goes on your toes. I think when
Speaker 3: your feeder cold, that's when you're miserable. I learned from
Speaker 3: Aaron Rodgers about having the handwarmers inside your pockets or oh,
Speaker 3: Aaron Rodgers taught me the warmer on the top and
Speaker 3: the warmer on the bottom of your toes and so
Speaker 3: you kind of make like an oreo or a sandwich.
Speaker 2: So that was always really helpful.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 1: And it just layers, layers, layers. I don't have to
Speaker 1: stand out there as long as you do. We are
Speaker 1: out there for pregame, a little halftime, and some post game.
Speaker 2: I am.
Speaker 1: We have, yeah, the handwarmers, I think, but I'm the
Speaker 1: person that I am more. I don't care about looking
Speaker 1: or I don't care about being warm. I care more
Speaker 1: about being cute, which is not great, so I will
Speaker 1: freeze and I actually I don't mind being cold. We
Speaker 1: have this conversation the other day, would you rather be
Speaker 1: really warm or really cold? I'd rather be cold because
Speaker 1: I can find ways to warm up. If I'm really hot.
Speaker 1: I know it feels like it's harder to escape the heat.
Speaker 2: But that's just me, all right.
Speaker 3: Garam nine thirty Turkey, White meat or dark meat? I
Speaker 3: like white I just and there's something wrong with dark.
Speaker 3: I just I'm into white meat.
Speaker 2: It depends on what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: If I'm just gonna eat it without a sandwich, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna pick at it. I like the white meat
Speaker 1: in a sandwich. I'm okay with throw at it all
Speaker 1: together because it has like a nice variety of flavors. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're anonymous. I go to a small gym. I'm friendly.
Speaker 1: A guy asked for my number to chat outside the gym.
Speaker 1: Sometime I'm not interested and I'm also seeing someone else.
Speaker 1: What do I say the next time I see him? Oh,
Speaker 1: that's hard.
Speaker 2: It is hard because you don't want to be mean.
Speaker 1: And then it's like your gym, that's like your safe space,
Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, you're going there to work out.
Speaker 1: I would just be honest to him. I would say, hey,
Speaker 1: thank you so much, but I'm actually seeing someone, which
Speaker 1: you are. Then I mean, he can't fault you for
Speaker 1: being honest. I think it's worse if you like procrastinate
Speaker 1: and don't just address it, and then you're like dodging
Speaker 1: the times to go to the gym, or if you
Speaker 1: see him, Oh god, that's the worst and you're like
Speaker 1: I gotta leave and no, no, like your routines all
Speaker 1: screwed up.
Speaker 3: But also, like you said, you're seeing somebody already, so
Speaker 3: that's the best excuse you could have, so that's perfect.
Speaker 3: I mean, you are, You're not lying, so don't feel
Speaker 3: bad about it.
Speaker 2: Thanks, but I'm taking.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, M's three PRIs thought some birthday gifts to
Speaker 3: treat yourself. Anything with my face to not make it
Speaker 3: look like I've been hit by a dumb truck. That
Speaker 3: would be great. So spa stuff, any sort of like cream, yeah, facials.
Speaker 3: I'm into that.
Speaker 1: I don't have any problem with treating yourself. I think
Speaker 1: that I don't necessarily relegate it to it just to
Speaker 1: a birthday. I think that if you have something big
Speaker 1: happen in your life, I learned a long time ago,
Speaker 1: like if you don't love yourself, no one else will.
Speaker 1: So if something good happens, like treat yourself to it.
Speaker 1: Whether that doesn't even have to be something of monetary value,
Speaker 1: it could be a freaking chocolate cake, whatever it is.
Speaker 1: I think the more you can celebrate yourself, the better.
Speaker 2: On those things. And yeah, do you love it?
Speaker 1: All? Right?
Speaker 2: You guys, that's been the pregame.
Speaker 1: As always, remember to submit your questions, comments and concerns.
Speaker 2: We appreciate it and all of these are great.
Speaker 1: Aaron and I will agree on this because you can
Speaker 1: take these topics to the big show.
Speaker 2: Join us on Thursday. We still need it like a
Speaker 2: theme song for the big show. We'll work on that
Speaker 2: big show.
Speaker 3: We're gonna get a Ryan's reaction to actually the anonymous
Speaker 3: question about moving in with the and lots, so I'd
Speaker 3: like more perspective on that.
Speaker 2: Ryan, You're next on Thursday. See you then.
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