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Speaker 1: Would I be the asshole for blocking my friend of

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Speaker 2: I think we got up the ante like not only

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Speaker 2: let's not talk to them because we like egg their house,

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Speaker 2: you know, paper.

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Speaker 3: The context of what the zero context, which is why

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Speaker 4: It's so perfect, it's called bob mentality. Get with it.

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Speaker 4: Carry fine.

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Speaker 1: Well, to begin with, let's give a really big shout

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Speaker 1: out to our okay op subreddy and that posted it

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Speaker 1: Easy Stranger twenty four ten, shout out to you.

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Speaker 4: Big shout out, shout out.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think it's kind of.

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Speaker 1: To answer the question real quick. Do you think it

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Speaker 1: would be really rude and bad to just ignore.

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Speaker 4: To ghost your friend? Yeah? Pretty much.

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Speaker 2: It's a friend of two years with no explanation.

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Speaker 4: Would you do it?

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Speaker 3: It depends if the explanation is like is like, all right,

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Speaker 3: let's say that friend, uh just boned my mom and

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Speaker 3: like we just found out. I don't know if I

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Speaker 3: need to say, like, hey, the reason that I'm not

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Speaker 3: Like that context is given? Yeah, yeah, like.

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Speaker 1: If it's really fucked up, if it's really fucked up.

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Speaker 4: John's sweating like the key and peel me. No, you

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Speaker 4: didn't hear what I coughed in my breath? What do

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Speaker 4: you say? Really?

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Speaker 1: Oh, well, we are going to see what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: So I twenty two female, not me, by the way,

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Speaker 2: Are we in red flagged terrorory?

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Speaker 5: This is so maybe we gotta say, okay, all right,

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Speaker 5: all right, just just uh Hagrid was friends with Harry.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and we got but we don't think about that.

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Speaker 1: Grid is a g listen. He worked at the school,

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Speaker 4: That's such a great point. That's such a great point.

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Speaker 4: He delivered? Did he deliver from in the basket? All

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Speaker 4: you know, but motorcycles crowding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So they met through Twitch. We've been friends for

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Speaker 1: So eventually we started playing games together and he would

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Speaker 4: I'm feeling I'm feeling like I know where this is going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Don't when I see you in the chat if you

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Speaker 4: Oh no, but not forty years old.

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Speaker 1: I was sixteen and it wasn't like okay, like the

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Speaker 1: But we still remain friends because friendships can form.

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Speaker 2: I think we need to carry story after this.

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Speaker 4: I think there's.

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Speaker 5: Another story behind.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we'll carry on.

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Speaker 1: We'll hear the carry story later.

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Speaker 1: Of being friends. I don't remember exactly how it came

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Speaker 4: Drumped an exil king log. Today boys are so would you.

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Speaker 3: Dude, I remember. I won't say his full name, but

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Speaker 1: but it mostly consisted of one sided flirting on his part,

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Speaker 3: You seen that one TikTok guy that's like the dude

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Speaker 3: You keep that pull it out? I feel like it's

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Speaker 2: Do you the guy who guys who talk to themselves

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Speaker 4: If you can. Yeah, screen, I can see it. Can

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Speaker 1: Really modern dating and nut.

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Speaker 3: One sided dating. Everyone was incredible, shaking his head.

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Speaker 1: So I didn't want to get into much detail of

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Speaker 1: Taco Tako, taco homie. I never changed the way I

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Speaker 3: Literally just this is high school version Snapchat that this

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Speaker 1: So I brought this up multiple times that his flirty

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, even I just sent my mom and they

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Speaker 1: It's just weird. Can you imagine a forty year old

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Like I'm like, I don't know, shared back off.

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Speaker 3: I mean like if if, if she's uncomfortable like that,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, face, where's your boyfriend? Jeez?

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Speaker 1: It's a constant cycle of this. It has gotten to

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I think that's fine, just blocked. But the thing

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, block him.

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Speaker 1: So friends of two years met on Twitch, added not snapchat,

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Speaker 1: I thought that maybe he would stop being flirty and

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Speaker 4: So optimistic, So got to keep that streak.

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Speaker 4: Can't break my story.

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Speaker 1: But I'm afraid I'll just get gaslighted into feeling bad again,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I find it pretty hard to even want to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it is so unfortunate.

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's just so old.

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Speaker 1: Bro context On Twitch as well, you can ban someone

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Speaker 4: Right if they go like on like incognito.

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Speaker 3: Ya, so he watches your Oh so he's watching the chat. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so he could he could watch it but not interact in.

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Speaker 4: Any way exactly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, God, God good.

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Speaker 2: Google search Samuel Donner that if you type in Samuel Donner,

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Speaker 1: No, how do.

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Speaker 4: You feel about that? You know? Axes?

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Speaker 1: So I should also mention that my boyfriend of four

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Speaker 4: A dude, he's forty year old? Creem like.

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Speaker 2: She and she gave like a really good thorough explanation

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Speaker 2: Ok you're you're okay, fam. We we want you to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, ask that guy, ask that four year old out

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Speaker 5: Talk to her, that dear girl. I know, but okay, opie, fam,

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Speaker 4: Your answers and the comments how would juicy update an update?

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Speaker 1: So thanks to everyone that commented. I've blocked him on

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I already feel one hundred times better. And for those

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Speaker 4: In my country that helps.

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Speaker 1: I could think of one friend he might get to

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Speaker 4: Not my lady, not my lady, hands off up.

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Speaker 1: If I hear from his friend.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad everything worked out. Yeah, like took the

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 1: We love that. But we also got to talk about

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Speaker 1: That's not surprising because I have friends that are also

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Speaker 2: The money, the money, and you know what, Like I

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Speaker 3: It's be getting to the point where it may have

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Speaker 4: One hundred percent.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Sop, you did the right thing. Yeah, and

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Speaker 3: good job, okay, fam for protect yourself.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And so if you have a story, you tould call us,

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Speaker 3: like you can literally call us right now at four

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Speaker 4: And John, what the can they do if they like

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Speaker 2: Oh, you can go to our slash okop show write

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Speaker 4: We love you all.

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Speaker 2: Thanks Carrie again for being on this episode. In the chat, yeah,

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Speaker 2: throw him in, throw him in, throw him in, and

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Speaker 4: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time

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Speaker 4: for Okop rework.

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Speaker 2: I can't bang my sweet sweet boyfriend's danglaying in your

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Speaker 5: Hey, if you can't, if you can't, if you can't

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm sure there are people street performers. Street performers, listen,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know they have that in Thailand, not like

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Speaker 3: he's gonna learn why time. Yeah, that's it. I don't sorry.

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean fighting style. I mean fucking stay there

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Speaker 3: we go, there we go. Now, it's that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: So I am a recent college graduate who made the immoral, disgusting,

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm putting you in the landfill right now.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 2: We moved it together in another state, about a six

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Speaker 4: When we come back to visit.

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Speaker 2: My parents made a sleep in separate rooms slash beds

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Speaker 2: Not today after it did they know? We still did it?

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Speaker 4: My parents are.

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Speaker 2: Surprised and confused that we aren't staying any longer. They

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Speaker 4: How dare you? How thought you loved us? My reply?

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Speaker 2: Well, at his parents house, we get to sleep together

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Speaker 4: Or you're never seeing me yet always the anti is

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Speaker 4: it up? Then we're not doing redd it right? Exactly? Exactly?

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Speaker 3: I guess it was just too easy. It was way

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