WEBVTT - Are You Flirting With Me? 0:00:00.880 --> 0:00:04.640 Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned into 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:07.000 the Vitamin D with Dawn Day Podcast and I am 0:00:07.040 --> 0:00:09.640 your host, Dawn Day, here to get you excited about 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:11.600 your life so that you can live life on purpose 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:13.680 and for a purpose. And this is your first time 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:17.040 tuning in and welcome Vitamin D. It's upon of our name. 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:19.240 My name is Dawn, and you get Vitamin D from 0:00:19.280 --> 0:00:21.440 the sun. So I'm here to shed light into your life. 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:25.000 And I do this with inspirational insights and conversations with 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:28.040 celebrities and everyday people like you and me, because if 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:29.960 you want to be better and you want to do better, 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:32.720 then you're going to have to be able to see better. 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:35.720 So join me on this journey of living our best 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:39.680 lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:43.320 assad didn't have occurred to you that right now, at 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:46.480 this very moment, is the youngest that you will ever 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:50.360 be like. You will never get a moment like this again. 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:54.240 And I guess it's something to really think about, because 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:58.680 I'm sure all of us are so guilty of putting 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:04.039 things off, waiting for a better moment um, a better time, 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:07.680 a better space, rather than season what we have right now, 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:12.279 and as time goes by, you look at and this tomorrow, 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:14.000 then this next week, the next, next month, and hey 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:18.040 it's even the next year, and it's like, no, we 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:22.480 need to act right now. I was watching this video. 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:27.959 It was on Instagram and this lady was talking about 0:01:28.040 --> 0:01:30.959 life and she compared it to alphabets and she said, 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:34.360 you know, life is through B through D and I 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:37.120 was like, uh, what she said, B is birth and 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:40.200 then and then you go on to death. But in 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.880 between that's the sea. That's the choice. And it makes 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:48.520 me think we have a choice every day to live 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:52.560 our best life, and not just one, not two, not three, 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:56.360 but eighty six thousand, four hundred choices because there are 0:01:56.400 --> 0:02:01.920 eighty six thousand, four hundred seconds and every day, what 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:05.080 are you doing or how are you making your choices? 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:11.760 And believe it or not, the choice not to make 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:14.000 a choice as a choice of itself, and that's a 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:18.239 choice where you just stuck. And I'm calling for more. 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.240 I want more for you. I want you to get 0:02:21.320 --> 0:02:25.240 in the driver's seat of your life and make a decision. 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:32.040 Whatever you're filling in that moment, just do it and 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:35.519 follow through with it. Stop waiting on the perfect opportunity. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:40.519 Stop waiting on the perfect moment, just sees a moment, 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:45.240 because you will never get a moment like this. I'm 0:02:45.280 --> 0:02:49.200 gonna be honest, I'm guilty for one to be indecisive. 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.160 I'm not sure if I've made the right decision or 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:54.320 if there's a better decision out there. And as i 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:57.600 am in my meditation process, as I'm more grounded, as 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:02.000 as I'm realizing that whatever decision that is made, it 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:04.040 is right for right now. And that's what I want 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:06.000 you to do. I want you to see, is this 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:11.200 moment right now? Because yeah, sometimes it's difficult to make 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:16.040 a decision. Yeah it hurts to change, and yeah it 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:18.720 hurts to stay the same. So what are you gonna 0:03:18.800 --> 0:03:21.720 choose with your dash? You know, because that's the dates 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:23.600 that we see on the tombstone, right the birth and 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:26.440 the death. But then that's dash, that's the choice, that's 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:29.120 the life, that's the story. What's your story gonna say 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:32.359 about right now? And I want to have you chew 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:37.720 on this. Whatever you're going through, remember this, Let every 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:41.520 situation be what it is instead of what you think 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:47.840 it should be. Okay, And when you operate and living 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:52.920 that way, you realize that all you got is right now, now, 0:03:53.760 --> 0:03:58.200 right now, get your right right with me and get 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:05.080 excited about all right, it's that time again, time to 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:08.680 dive into the email bag. Yeah, will you submit your 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:12.440 Vitamin D advice letters? What is that? Well? You as listeners, 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:14.640 you write me in and you say, hey, down, can 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.160 you give me your advice on my relationship? What do 0:04:17.279 --> 0:04:19.240 you think I should do with my career? How do 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.200 you feel about X, Y and Z? Should I do this? 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:23.400 How can I do this? It's something wrong with me, 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:27.200 whatever it is, and you want my advice, I encourage 0:04:27.200 --> 0:04:30.040 you to email me Vitamin D at dawn day Speaks 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.920 dot com. Now, let's just be clear that when you 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:36.800 write with me or you write to me, Wow, I'm 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:40.360 all about inspiring and motivating individuals. But just as the 0:04:40.480 --> 0:04:43.840 name of this podcast, Vitamin D, it's all about shedding light. 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:46.080 And if you want to be better and you want 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:47.800 to do better, you have to be able to see 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:49.680 better and that means the good and the bad. So 0:04:49.800 --> 0:04:52.600 maybe whatever I may say may not rub you the 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:56.040 quote unquote right way, but no that it's just me 0:04:56.400 --> 0:05:02.240 being true and authentic because there's no way or no 0:05:02.400 --> 0:05:05.800 reason to sugarcoat anything right? All right, now that we 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:09.360 got the out the way, let's get to this letter. Okay, subject, 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:12.680 are you flirting with me? Hi? Don? I have been 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:15.160 dealing with some roommate problems and it's gotten worse these 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.680 last couple of months. I live in an apartment with 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.920 two other people. Two of us are women and the 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:22.800 other one is a male. We all went to college together, 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:25.880 and my two other roommates are also a couple. The 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:28.400 issue I have been having is the boyfriend has been 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:32.400 flirting with me. It started off as seemingly sweet compliments. 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:35.560 He'd says something nice about my outfit or my makeup 0:05:35.600 --> 0:05:38.120 in front of his girlfriend, and I'd say how sweet 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:40.840 he is and how she's lucky to have him. But 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:44.040 then when we're alone in the apartment together because his 0:05:44.160 --> 0:05:46.360 girlfriend is the only one that doesn't work from home, 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:51.000 he will not only walk around shirtless, but he will 0:05:51.200 --> 0:05:54.239 accidentally rush up against me when we're in the kitchen 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:56.840 or if we passed by each other in the hallway. 0:05:57.680 --> 0:05:59.920 I can't count how many times he's done this now. 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:02.240 The reason that I know he does this on purpose 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:05.000 is because he never brushes up against me when his 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:08.760 girlfriend is home. And he also always has a shirt 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:12.640 on when we're all home. It's now progressed to where 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:15.479 he makes me food and he brings it to me. Again. 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:19.240 He only does this when his girlfriend isn't home. I'll 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:22.880 be honest. It doesn't make me uncomfortable, and I love 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:25.400 being given food, but this has got to be crossing 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:28.360 the boundary with his commitment to her right. The fact 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:30.719 that he only does this stuff when she's not home 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:33.840 is what makes me question what's going on. And I 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:35.440 haven't brought it up to her because I feel like 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.520 if I tell her what he's been doing that she 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.080 might take it as me trying to start an issue 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:42.760 with their relationship, because I know she can be a 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:45.520 bit of a jealous person. I have been in awkward 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.240 situations with men before, but this is the first time 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:52.120 I've experienced a man do this kind of weird stuff. 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:55.280 I haven't addressed him directly because I don't know how 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.720 I would bring it up with him. Do I say, hey, 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:00.320 stop making me food and walking around without a shirt on? 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:04.520 He hasn't done anything outright inappropriate? Am I to stand 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:08.600 still with this? Should I say anything? Called up? Wait 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:12.640 a minute, Oh, let's start with oh. The big oh 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:16.360 is that if he isn't brushing up against you bringing 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:18.960 food when the girlfriend is there, why would you even 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:23.600 try to entertain the idea that is not there or 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.160 that it is appropriate. That's when I gotta check you. 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:29.200 You know, I'm all about you know, being naive, but 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:31.400 I feel like you're being naive to a default. What 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:35.600 you need to ask yourself? Why do you feel any guilt? Oftentimes? 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:37.680 And I was just sharing with coworker of mind over 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:40.800 at kjl AH. I said, when we hide things, that's 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:44.560 because of shame. And usually we're in shame because we 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:47.080 feel as though there's something that we should not be doing. 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:50.280 The fact that you have a hesitation about telling your 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:53.160 roommate what's happening with her boyfriend lets you know that 0:07:53.360 --> 0:07:58.680 something isn't right. Let's just start there. Oh, now, how 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.120 do you work it? Work it? You simply sit down 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:03.760 and you have a conversation because it's not gonna stop. 0:08:04.040 --> 0:08:06.040 But this is the thing too, I'm going to need 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:11.880 you to be honest, you know. I It's one thing. No, 0:08:12.200 --> 0:08:14.560 it ain't about being in denial, It's about being honest. 0:08:15.400 --> 0:08:17.920 To be honest about it. You like it, That's why 0:08:18.000 --> 0:08:22.600 you don't feel uncomfortable, because when something is unwelcomed, it 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:27.480 makes you feel uncomfortable. And best believe, if it truly 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.160 bothered you, he would stop because you would express yourself. 0:08:30.440 --> 0:08:34.280 And no one wants anyone to feel uncomfortable. So when 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.760 you say, oh, hey, John, she has a tendency to 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:41.000 be a jealous person, well look at you. First of all, 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:45.800 it highlights the behavior of her boyfriend, and then the 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.200 context of how you guys are living together and how 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:51.600 she he asks when you two are alone. I'm thinking 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:55.720 about thinking back to a college friends mam. She shared 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:59.200 with me. She said, you never leave your husband downstairs 0:08:59.200 --> 0:09:02.600 with any of your friends, never alone, never in a space. 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:05.439 Because what we need to realize too is that what 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:07.319 we have all of our morals and we know what 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.000 to do and what not to do, we're still human 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:13.120 and things happen. And what you realize is that you 0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:16.760 can place yourself in situations with the variable or the 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:19.679 percentage rate of something going quote unquote in your favor 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:24.079 and not in your favor can happen. So as a 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:28.920 human and if you're attractive, same sex or had a role, 0:09:28.960 --> 0:09:33.599 depending what you're into, these things can naturally happen. But 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:36.400 the thing is is that you haven't set a boundary. 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:41.040 Can we be honest and say that you actually like it? 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.320 Can we be honest the fact that you like attention? 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:52.240 Can we be super honest? Hey, guys that dating Michael ever? 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.960 Get your dose about indeed with Dawn day and get 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:05.280 excited about your Do you have a crush on your friends, 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:07.920 boyfriend or your room mate? Now you said y'all went 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:10.120 to college together, but you didn't insinuate that you guys 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.839 are friends. But I'm assuming so. Furthermore, going back to 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:15.000 my friends said about never leaving your man at home 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:18.559 with another woman, a woman or other female friends. That 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:21.640 goes a testament to show and no shade how young 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:25.720 you guys are. Why is this man making you fool? 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:30.880 Hold up, that's where we are right now. Let's hold 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:33.760 up right there. The fact that he is doing things 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:36.920 when his girlfriend isn't there. What does that say to you? 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:40.000 Why are you pretending like it's okay? Furthermore, would you 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:42.439 be okay with your partner, your man doing that to you? 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:47.400 You know, what goes around comes right back around, and 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:49.800 what's going around and this is how apartment It's not 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:52.760 cool let's just be honest. But see, that's why I 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:54.920 gotta ask you when you're right in, do you really 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.280 expect me to be honest? But more importantly, are you 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.880 ready to be honest with yourself? Because to be acting like, 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.160 oh my gosh, I don't know if I should say anything. 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:05.800 Is this an issue? Hell? Yes, the issue. You know. 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:08.640 One of my love languages, Yeah, one of them is 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:11.640 you feed me. The other one is affirmed me. Okay, 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:15.200 and baby, he's feeding you and it sounds like he's 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:18.120 feeding you something good, and it's just interesting. You said, 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:20.079 I don't know how it would bring it up with him. 0:11:20.440 --> 0:11:24.360 The conversation isn't with him, it's with her. He knows 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:26.800 what he's doing is inappropriate. You don't need to address that. 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:28.920 How does he know doing well? He's not doing it 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.400 when his girlfriend is around, because if it were okay, 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:35.360 if it were deemed permissible, the behavior when changed? Why? 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:38.800 Because remember what I said, you only high things that 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.080 you're ashamed of, and you're only ashamed of. But if 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:43.880 you feel like you're doing something wrong, so I guess 0:11:43.920 --> 0:11:45.520 I need to ask you. Are you ready to step 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:49.640 into the light? Are you ready to keep it? G huh? 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:55.240 The issue that is going to ensue or is brewing, 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:58.840 is the fact that this is continuously happening and nothing 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:06.120 get stopped, nothing has changed. Why is that? Why is 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:10.720 that Okay? You said that he does it on purpose. 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.120 You're stating whether or not you should inform her says, well, 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:19.280 maybe it's not on purpose if you did not live 0:12:19.320 --> 0:12:22.119 there with him, if you were not in pro close proximity, 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:24.920 perhaps as somebody that you can stay away from, you 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:27.280 can't stay away from him. And the fact that he 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.720 keeps feeding you. It's only a matter of time when 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:31.240 it's gonna take it to the next level. I mean, 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:34.480 come on, you got the touch, you got the feeding, 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:36.800 and the next thing adorning with the compliments. Then it's 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:42.400 the look, and then he walking around with his shirt off. Law, Well, 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:46.640 I ain't trying to take you to church, but let's 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:49.959 call a spade a spade. Stop playing with me. And 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:52.120 if I see him annoyed, I am, because the fact 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:53.840 that you're trying to act like is there anything wrong? 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:56.360 Clearly there's something wrong. The fact that you are hesitant 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:59.360 in telling her, let's her know. And honestly, I don't 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.080 think there's a way to go around this issue. Unless 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.000 what's she's gonna do put some cameras in the apartment. 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:08.280 So I guess we're best to start thinking about other 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:12.880 living arrangements, because I mean, honestly thinking, like, what is 0:13:12.920 --> 0:13:15.840 the excuse going to be? The Only thing that can 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:18.760 change the situation is that he starts to walk around 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:22.720 with his shirt off while his girlfriend's home and making food. 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:24.959 And I'm telling you right now, if that was my boot, 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:27.000 that would not be okay with me. That's not something 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.000 that I'm flying with. So what do we do in 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:32.599 this situation? She says, I'm at a standstill with this? 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:36.360 Should I say anything? The answer is yes, You're only 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:39.520 gonna find yourself deeper and deeper underwater, And ain't nobody 0:13:39.559 --> 0:13:41.920 got time for that. Listen, we're here for a good time, 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:45.880 not a long time. Why carry access baggage? You can't 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:48.679 go nowhere with it? What's gonna what's gonna develop from it? 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:51.480 Let's just say hypothetically, you enjoy it, y'all have a 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:54.079 little moment. So he decides to leave her, What does 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:56.760 that leave you with? They say? How you? Uh? How 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.840 you get him inside? You lose them? Do you still 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:01.679 feel like you can be productive with this? Type of 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:04.760 relationship or situation ship, What do you want to grow 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:06.679 with this? You just have to have a flameworheck, you 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:08.840 can go get somebody around the way or another homie. 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:11.319 It ain't gots to be him. But what I say, 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:12.880 what you guts to do. You're gonna have to get 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.280 out of that apartment. And I don't know where you are, 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:17.319 but I know here in Los Angeles the rent is 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:21.520 too damn high. So you better start planning now, start 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:23.440 figuring out the new year's coming up. So I'm sure 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.160 they may have some some deals coming up with some 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:30.560 leases or whatnot. But this ain't gonna work, baby, Nope, No, 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:34.000 this is not gonna work. So honestly, it is the 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:38.440 best policy only because how are you going to continue 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:40.960 to function in this type of environment? If it annoys you, 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:43.200 I can imagine it's going to stop, but it doesn't 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:47.760 because you haven't expressed that it makes you feel uncomfortable. 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:52.400 So that's what I gotta say on this, Um, honestly 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:55.760 is the best policy, and more so for yourself. You know, 0:14:55.880 --> 0:14:57.400 feel like when we have shame and we're hiding from 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:59.440 things that we're doing things that aren't right, it causes 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:02.320 us to get dirty and acting funky. And I don't 0:15:02.320 --> 0:15:04.240 know about you, but I'm just trying to move the 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:06.160 right way, not trying, I am moving the right way. 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:09.480 I want to move with clarity and discernment and just 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:13.200 being pure so I can attract the right thing like 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:17.760 attracks like don't let it be massy. All right, Um, 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:20.880 that's enough for the Vitamin D advice letter and now 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:22.920 it's time to get on some some housekeeping. Do you 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:25.800 need some advice on your love life for a relationship. 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:27.920 I want to encourage you to send me an email 0:15:28.280 --> 0:15:31.520 Vitamin D at Dawn Dave Speach dot com. I want 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:33.600 to hear from you, and just like I said earlier 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:36.400 in the episode started off, I'm gonna keep it real 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:39.000 with you because if you want to be better and 0:15:39.080 --> 0:15:40.760 you want to do better, you have to be able 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:43.200 to see better. Ain't no sense to me trying to 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:47.480 sugarcoat anything. 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Hey, catch it, catch it while it's hot. 0:17:57.600 --> 0:17:59.000 All right, let me get out of here. I gotta 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:01.920 get ready because I gotta go to then inauguration with 0:18:02.080 --> 0:18:04.480 Karen Bastard. When you hear this, I'm already gonna be there. 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:08.920 I've already attended. Alright, I gotta go, so listen. Like 0:18:09.040 --> 0:18:11.760 I always say, I'm in the business of making dreams 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:14.400 come true, and I damn shouldn't go forget about mine. 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:18.159 So until next time, I always remember you have your 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:22.200 greatest asset, get your rightem Indy right here with me, 0:18:22.800 --> 0:18:25.720 and get excited about your lives.