WEBVTT - Jack & Sloan - Ghosted Over a Miskiss?

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<v Speaker 1>First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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<v Speaker 1>Attorneys online at advocates dot com. Jack is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone today for a first date follow up, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>getting ghosted by a woman named Sloan. So in a

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<v Speaker 1>few minutes we're gonna call her and see if she'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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<v Speaker 1>another date. But first, Jack, how long has it been

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<v Speaker 1>since you heard from Sloan?

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<v Speaker 2>Been a little over a week, I mean, and in

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<v Speaker 2>this society, Yeah, that's a good point. A couple of days,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, just longed a couple of days. She's probably

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<v Speaker 2>got a whole new relationship going on.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll tell us about the date with Sloan.

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of went really pretty good. You know.

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<v Speaker 4>We went to one of those like places where you

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<v Speaker 4>can like play games, like board games, you know, like

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<v Speaker 4>a craft beer and that.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It was awesome, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Does she seem to enjoy the board games and craft

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<v Speaker 3>beer and stuff?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, man, dude, like we had a we had a blast.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, her her vibe was just awesome, man, you

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<v Speaker 4>know she was she was confident and just magnetic. She

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<v Speaker 4>had an infectious laugh that made people turn around to

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<v Speaker 4>see what was so funny.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know, man, she had a way of even

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<v Speaker 5>making like ordering fries sound flirty, like take yourself too seriously,

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<v Speaker 5>But you know, we just had fun and just you know,

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<v Speaker 5>played board games.

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<v Speaker 4>Was nice and interactive and just low pressure. We just

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, man, it just it went really well.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like it was great. What do you think

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<v Speaker 3>could have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>Here?

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<v Speaker 4>Here's where it got a little crazy. So during our

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<v Speaker 4>third round of Djenga, I feel like I got a

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<v Speaker 4>little too competitive, right, We had a couple of beers.

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<v Speaker 4>I started calling myself a tower whisper, And then when

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<v Speaker 4>she pulled the final block and it fell, I jumped

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<v Speaker 4>up with both hands, was like, victory is mine.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the whole cafe turned over to look

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<v Speaker 2>at it, like what the hell is going on over that?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a bit serious.

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<v Speaker 4>And I tried to play off with it as a

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<v Speaker 4>joke because I feel like it was a bit of

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<v Speaker 4>a joke, but also like I was, I was taking

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<v Speaker 4>it a touch too seriously, like, yeah, just I got excited, right,

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<v Speaker 4>who doesn't like to win? Perhaps me a little much

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<v Speaker 4>that day, but yeah, so I feel like I might

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<v Speaker 4>have come off a little too strong.

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<v Speaker 2>At that point, I got lowkward.

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<v Speaker 4>I tried to recover, you know, with a smooth kiss

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<v Speaker 4>before we went our separate ways. Uh, she leaned in

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<v Speaker 4>and then ran her fingers through my hair, and I

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<v Speaker 4>feel little confident again.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, I feel like we had mystery.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she laughed at my jokes and so forth,

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<v Speaker 4>but then she you know, I text her that night

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<v Speaker 4>and just nothing, total silence.

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<v Speaker 1>So she kissed you after you called yourself the tower

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<v Speaker 1>whisper correct.

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<v Speaker 4>So I feel like it wasn't that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it

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<v Speaker 1>out for you. We'll play a song come back, and

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<v Speaker 1>then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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<v Speaker 1>she's ghosting you and maybe get to a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, we'll get your first day follow up right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up.

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<v Speaker 1>Jack is on the phone and Jack is getting ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>by a woman named Sloan. So we're about to call

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<v Speaker 1>her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe get him a second date. But before we

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<v Speaker 1>do that, Jack, why don't you give us a real

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<v Speaker 1>quick recap of your date again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we went out and we went to a board

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<v Speaker 4>game place and it was awesome. We played Jinga and

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I got a little there's a touch

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<v Speaker 4>too competitive.

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<v Speaker 2>After a couple of birks, I'm the.

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<v Speaker 4>Third game of gingah calling myself the the tower whispers.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably a bad move and timing victory is mine.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, to the point that the neighbors probably heard it.

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<v Speaker 2>Not just those around us, but like the nearby bar.

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<v Speaker 3>Get wrapped up in a game of ga.

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<v Speaker 7>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's the reason or not, but

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<v Speaker 1>we'll find out for you. All right, Are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>for us?

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<v Speaker 3>Scholar?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's go.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak of Sloan. Please, Hey, Sloan,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you. This is a radio show. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>The Jewbill Show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Sloan. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria, and my name

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<v Speaker 3>is Jewble. What's up?

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<v Speaker 6>Wait? No, I think what's going on here?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you thing's going on? Slow?

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<v Speaker 6>What y'all calling about? What are you calling about?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it seems like you listened to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, so you've heard a first date follow up

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<v Speaker 1>the segment where if you go out on a day

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody and you ghost them, that person can email

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<v Speaker 1>us to find out why you're ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 6>M Yeah, yeah, no, I'm famillionaire.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so that's you.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>We're calling you because you recently went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Jack and you haven't been getting back to him.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been over a week now, and he's very confused.

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<v Speaker 1>He was wondering if you would tell us why you're

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<v Speaker 1>ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, okay, look, Jack is amazing, Like, actually I.

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<v Speaker 6>Didn't ghost him because he did anything wrong. I didn't

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<v Speaker 6>because I go I did something so ridiculous and embarrassing

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<v Speaker 6>that I just can't even face him.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you do?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So we were at this bar where there's a

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<v Speaker 6>bunch of board.

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<v Speaker 7>Games and we were really really having time with Jane Gett.

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<v Speaker 6>We were playing our third round.

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<v Speaker 7>Like he won, and he did this thing where he

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<v Speaker 7>just kind of like jumped up through his arms in

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<v Speaker 7>the air like.

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<v Speaker 6>With it and the tower whiper.

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<v Speaker 3>We talked to him about that. He thinks that's the

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<v Speaker 3>reason you're ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I thought it was super cute.

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<v Speaker 7>So I tried to like lean in for a kiss,

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<v Speaker 7>but like I almost fell, so.

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<v Speaker 6>I grabbed his hair and I ended up like greathing

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<v Speaker 6>his chin and kissing his chin actually, like my listing

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<v Speaker 6>was on his neck, like I had branded him mortified.

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<v Speaker 3>So you went in for a kiss and then messed

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<v Speaker 3>it up? Did he notice?

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<v Speaker 2>You think?

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<v Speaker 6>He definitely didn't notice. And that's why I'm so embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>I bet it's not as bad as you think.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I don't know, it's like he went right

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<v Speaker 6>like he dodged it.

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<v Speaker 3>So the kid.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so like I just did it. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I was embarrassed. I feel like I was awkward, and

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like I was too much.

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<v Speaker 3>So, I mean, obviously seems to like you.

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<v Speaker 1>He's doing a first date follow up and slan he's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Of course you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that happened. I thought you were just being shy.

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<v Speaker 6>I was mortified. You looked confused. I thought you were

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<v Speaker 6>just being polite.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you were going for high five and I

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<v Speaker 4>just missed it. Like I didn't realize as you're going

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<v Speaker 4>in for a Clisso.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, it was like this his favor black shadow.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know it was just so weird. On my part, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Thought I messed up because I thought you were going

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<v Speaker 2>for a high five. I thought that, like, I messed

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<v Speaker 2>that up. That's why I thought you you weren't calling

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<v Speaker 2>me back.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh huh No, I was just like my brain short

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<v Speaker 6>circuited and I went.

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<v Speaker 7>Into like full penguin mode and I couldn't move and

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<v Speaker 7>like hawkwardness, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Literally, my that's literally my type. Confident women who occasionally malfunctions.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you like another day? Would for it?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, you ghosted me because over a miskiss.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd call that a win.

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<v Speaker 6>You're you're too nice.

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<v Speaker 7>I really did like you, Jack, I just I just

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<v Speaker 7>didn't want you to remember me as a girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Who kissed the wrong body part.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, wow, I could be way worse. If you say

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<v Speaker 3>yes to the day, maybe you can do a redo

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<v Speaker 3>and kiss the right body part.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, whoay? I like that. You will's first day follow

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<v Speaker 2>up