1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 1: First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocates dot com. Jack is on the 3 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up, and he's 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a woman named Sloan. So in a 5 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:13,319 Speaker 1: few minutes we're gonna call her and see if she'll 6 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him 7 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:18,240 Speaker 1: another date. But first, Jack, how long has it been 8 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: since you heard from Sloan? 9 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 2: Been a little over a week, I mean, and in 10 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 2: this society, Yeah, that's a good point. A couple of days, 11 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: you know, just longed a couple of days. She's probably 12 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 2: got a whole new relationship going on. 13 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: We'll tell us about the date with Sloan. 14 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 2: I kind of went really pretty good. You know. 15 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 4: We went to one of those like places where you 16 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 4: can like play games, like board games, you know, like 17 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 4: a craft beer and that. 18 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,560 Speaker 3: Kind of stuff. 19 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: It was awesome, all right. 20 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 3: Does she seem to enjoy the board games and craft 21 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 3: beer and stuff? 22 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, dude, like we had a we had a blast. 23 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 2: I thought. 24 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 4: You know, her her vibe was just awesome, man, you 25 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: know she was she was confident and just magnetic. She 26 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 4: had an infectious laugh that made people turn around to 27 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 4: see what was so funny. 28 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 5: I don't know, man, she had a way of even 29 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 5: making like ordering fries sound flirty, like take yourself too seriously, 30 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 5: But you know, we just had fun and just you know, 31 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 5: played board games. 32 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 4: Was nice and interactive and just low pressure. We just 33 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 4: I don't know, man, it just it went really well. 34 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 3: It sounds like it was great. What do you think 35 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 3: could have gone wrong? 36 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 2: Here? 37 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 4: Here's where it got a little crazy. So during our 38 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 4: third round of Djenga, I feel like I got a 39 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 4: little too competitive, right, We had a couple of beers. 40 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 4: I started calling myself a tower whisper, And then when 41 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 4: she pulled the final block and it fell, I jumped 42 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 4: up with both hands, was like, victory is mine. 43 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 2: I feel like the whole cafe turned over to look 44 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 2: at it, like what the hell is going on over that? 45 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 2: It's a bit serious. 46 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:14,239 Speaker 4: And I tried to play off with it as a 47 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 4: joke because I feel like it was a bit of 48 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 4: a joke, but also like I was, I was taking 49 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 4: it a touch too seriously, like, yeah, just I got excited, right, 50 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,399 Speaker 4: who doesn't like to win? Perhaps me a little much 51 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 4: that day, but yeah, so I feel like I might 52 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 4: have come off a little too strong. 53 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: At that point, I got lowkward. 54 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 4: I tried to recover, you know, with a smooth kiss 55 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 4: before we went our separate ways. Uh, she leaned in 56 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 4: and then ran her fingers through my hair, and I 57 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 4: feel little confident again. 58 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 6: Uh. 59 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 2: But you know, I feel like we had mystery. 60 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 4: You know, she laughed at my jokes and so forth, 61 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:08,839 Speaker 4: but then she you know, I text her that night 62 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 4: and just nothing, total silence. 63 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: So she kissed you after you called yourself the tower 64 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: whisper correct. 65 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 4: So I feel like it wasn't that bad. 66 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it 67 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: out for you. We'll play a song come back, and 68 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: then call her and see if she'll tell us why 69 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: she's ghosting you and maybe get to a second date. 70 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I appreciate it. 71 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: Yep, we'll get your first day follow up right after this. 72 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up. 73 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: Jack is on the phone and Jack is getting ghosted 74 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: by a woman named Sloan. So we're about to call 75 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting 76 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: and maybe get him a second date. But before we 77 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: do that, Jack, why don't you give us a real 78 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: quick recap of your date again. 79 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, we went out and we went to a board 80 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 4: game place and it was awesome. We played Jinga and 81 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 4: I feel like I got a little there's a touch 82 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 4: too competitive. 83 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 2: After a couple of birks, I'm the. 84 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 4: Third game of gingah calling myself the the tower whispers. 85 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: Probably a bad move and timing victory is mine. 86 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, to the point that the neighbors probably heard it. 87 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 2: Not just those around us, but like the nearby bar. 88 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 3: Get wrapped up in a game of ga. 89 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 7: You know. 90 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the reason or not, but 91 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: we'll find out for you. All right, Are you ready 92 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: for us? 93 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 3: Scholar? 94 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go. 95 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak of Sloan. Please, Hey, Sloan, 96 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 1: how are you. This is a radio show. It's called 97 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: The Jewbill Show. 98 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 3: Hi, Sloan. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria, and my name 99 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 3: is Jewble. What's up? 100 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 6: Wait? No, I think what's going on here? 101 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 3: What do you thing's going on? Slow? 102 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 6: What y'all calling about? What are you calling about? 103 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 3: Well, it seems like you listened to the show. 104 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so you've heard a first date follow up 105 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: the segment where if you go out on a day 106 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 1: with somebody and you ghost them, that person can email 107 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,039 Speaker 1: us to find out why you're ghosting him. 108 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 6: M Yeah, yeah, no, I'm famillionaire. 109 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's you. 110 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 2: Now. 111 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 1: We're calling you because you recently went out with a 112 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: dude named Jack and you haven't been getting back to him. 113 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: It's been over a week now, and he's very confused. 114 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: He was wondering if you would tell us why you're 115 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 1: ghosting him. 116 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 7: Okay, okay, look, Jack is amazing, Like, actually I. 117 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:43,280 Speaker 6: Didn't ghost him because he did anything wrong. I didn't 118 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 6: because I go I did something so ridiculous and embarrassing 119 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 6: that I just can't even face him. 120 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 3: What did you do? 121 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 6: Okay, So we were at this bar where there's a 122 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 6: bunch of board. 123 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 7: Games and we were really really having time with Jane Gett. 124 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 6: We were playing our third round. 125 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 7: Like he won, and he did this thing where he 126 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 7: just kind of like jumped up through his arms in 127 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 7: the air like. 128 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 6: With it and the tower whiper. 129 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 3: We talked to him about that. He thinks that's the 130 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 3: reason you're ghosting him. 131 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 6: No, I thought it was super cute. 132 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 7: So I tried to like lean in for a kiss, 133 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 7: but like I almost fell, so. 134 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 6: I grabbed his hair and I ended up like greathing 135 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 6: his chin and kissing his chin actually, like my listing 136 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 6: was on his neck, like I had branded him mortified. 137 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,239 Speaker 3: So you went in for a kiss and then messed 138 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 3: it up? Did he notice? 139 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 2: You think? 140 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 6: He definitely didn't notice. And that's why I'm so embarrassed. 141 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 3: I bet it's not as bad as you think. 142 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know, it's like he went right 143 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 6: like he dodged it. 144 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 3: So the kid. 145 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, so like I just did it. I don't know. 146 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 6: I was embarrassed. I feel like I was awkward, and 147 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 6: I feel like I was too much. 148 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 3: So, I mean, obviously seems to like you. 149 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: He's doing a first date follow up and slan he's 150 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. 151 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 6: Of course you know. 152 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that happened. I thought you were just being shy. 153 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 6: I was mortified. You looked confused. I thought you were 154 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 6: just being polite. 155 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 4: I thought you were going for high five and I 156 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 4: just missed it. Like I didn't realize as you're going 157 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 4: in for a Clisso. 158 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:53,239 Speaker 6: I don't know, it was like this his favor black shadow. 159 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 6: I don't know it was just so weird. On my part, I. 160 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 2: Thought I messed up because I thought you were going 161 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 2: for a high five. I thought that, like, I messed 162 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 2: that up. That's why I thought you you weren't calling 163 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 2: me back. 164 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 6: Oh huh No, I was just like my brain short 165 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 6: circuited and I went. 166 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 7: Into like full penguin mode and I couldn't move and 167 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 7: like hawkwardness, and. 168 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 4: Literally, my that's literally my type. Confident women who occasionally malfunctions. 169 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 3: Would you like another day? Would for it? 170 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 4: Oh my god, you ghosted me because over a miskiss. 171 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 2: I'd call that a win. 172 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 6: You're you're too nice. 173 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 7: I really did like you, Jack, I just I just 174 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 7: didn't want you to remember me as a girl. 175 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 6: Who kissed the wrong body part. 176 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 3: Like, wow, I could be way worse. If you say 177 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 3: yes to the day, maybe you can do a redo 178 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 3: and kiss the right body part. 179 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, whoay? I like that. You will's first day follow 180 00:08:58,800 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 2: up